3 women open up about their decision to be celibate

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  • @user-mv2tg8hc8c
    @user-mv2tg8hc8c 4 місяці тому +78

    Hopefully this is not just a trend but a value growing in our culture.

    • @Crownliving
      @Crownliving 4 місяці тому

      They still will need to get in spiritual power so the earth can produce everything they need

    • @LorrenCharles
      @LorrenCharles 3 місяці тому +1

      I think it is… 🙏🏼

    • @Crownliving
      @Crownliving 3 місяці тому

      @@LorrenCharles It's certain things they said that shows its not

    • @user-mv2tg8hc8c
      @user-mv2tg8hc8c 3 місяці тому

      @@Crownliving I agree!

  • @mm7846
    @mm7846 4 місяці тому +36

    I agree with the girl in the middle that people often want to experience a women instead of building a partnership.

  • @heatherjordan8038
    @heatherjordan8038 4 місяці тому +91

    44 years and going.... I didn't plan for this but because I'm waiting for marriage and not married yet.. the years and abstinence continues! Good to see others are coming along, makes me less weird haha.

    • @jenniferhansen3622
      @jenniferhansen3622 4 місяці тому +8

      Good for you!! I waited til marriage as well. So did my husband. We've been married nearly 25 years now!! We were high school sweethearts and waited til 4 years after HS when we married. ❤

    • @mrmoralman1
      @mrmoralman1 4 місяці тому +7

      44 years? Are you waiting for the next Christ

    • @user-en1zc5vd6y
      @user-en1zc5vd6y 4 місяці тому +9

      @@mrmoralman1if she’s unmarried it’s better to wait even for Christ than do something so sacred with people that are up to no good. Kudos to her for honoring herself

    • @mrmoralman1
      @mrmoralman1 4 місяці тому

      @@user-en1zc5vd6y if it's sacred, and you can't get it in good time, you are just a waste of time

    • @mrmoralman1
      @mrmoralman1 4 місяці тому

      @@user-en1zc5vd6y if she's unmarried, then she is not doing anything sacred

  • @YvonneWilliams-gc3pv
    @YvonneWilliams-gc3pv 4 місяці тому +22

    This is wonderful. People need to know it’s okay to be celibate.

    • @LorrenCharles
      @LorrenCharles 3 місяці тому +1

      Yes they do!!! I’m so happy normalizing it helps people not feel alone. -Lorren

  • @camcamlady8068
    @camcamlady8068 4 місяці тому +18

    This is so important. This expert is not an expert at all. She’s an expert of the world. These ladies are on a spiritual journey.

  • @hehasrisen1990
    @hehasrisen1990 4 місяці тому +25

    Wow, I really thought I was the only one 😅 this is encouraging… I can focus more when I’m single & that’s why I’m doing it. To get my goals done

    • @Crownliving
      @Crownliving 4 місяці тому

      You’re gonna have to overcome so the earth can produce everything you can’t do, married or single

    • @LorrenCharles
      @LorrenCharles 3 місяці тому +2

      So glad that this has helped other people. (Lorren from the segment)

    • @BL3SSed-Bliss
      @BL3SSed-Bliss 3 місяці тому

      @@Crownliving
      Overcome what, exactly?

  • @susan-7865
    @susan-7865 4 місяці тому +20

    No STD's! That's how I lived myself

    • @fadikifuta
      @fadikifuta 4 місяці тому +2

      That's a very low bar.

  • @laneblake5694
    @laneblake5694 4 місяці тому +51

    30 yrs. Ongoing!

  • @mm7846
    @mm7846 4 місяці тому +12

    I agree with the girl in the middle that people often want to experience a women instead of building a partnership. Also, the other women in the middle, the validation addiction is real.

  • @mm7846
    @mm7846 4 місяці тому +6

    I agree with Emily so much on the point that dating becomes like a treadmill because you feel compelled by implicit pressure to not stop. To always have a dating story or someone on the horizon. Let’s take a clear look at ourselves and others and focus living authentically!

    • @MsM-y3d
      @MsM-y3d 4 місяці тому

      Exactly no need to burn yourself out😊

  • @erikacroft245
    @erikacroft245 4 місяці тому +4

    This! This is what Christians have been doing for years, to have a loving committed marital relationship to have true intimacy. I hope many others will do this too.

  • @Melanie-go8pl
    @Melanie-go8pl 4 місяці тому +4

    Three beautiful ladies and their wonderful stories. Very inspiring 👏🏾 Thank you for being confidence enough to share your stories 😊

    • @LorrenCharles
      @LorrenCharles 3 місяці тому +1

      ❤❤❤❤🥹🥹🥹🥹

  • @deec3561
    @deec3561 4 місяці тому +10

    I was for 13 years before getting married

  • @holly_wood26
    @holly_wood26 4 місяці тому +52

    Stay celibate until you're in a 100% committed relationship AKA a marriage.

    • @absatwell8163
      @absatwell8163 4 місяці тому +4

      @@holly_wood26 Well, I was married for a long time and don’t think I want to do that again. I also have been celibate for about 5 years. I’m fine with it, but if I meet someone and want to have that intimacy I will. People don’t need to be married for that if they choose.

    • @holly_wood26
      @holly_wood26 4 місяці тому +8

      @@absatwell8163 That's your opinion, and I respect that. I just feel differently.

    • @emersonr7481
      @emersonr7481 4 місяці тому +2

      ​@holly_wood26 but she comes from experience. You probably do not.

    • @koolsmoothfan
      @koolsmoothfan 4 місяці тому +5

      preach fam, respect to you

    • @LorrenCharles
      @LorrenCharles 3 місяці тому +1

      👏🏼 not a bad idea

  • @arnelabih1845
    @arnelabih1845 4 місяці тому +14

    Good girls same here I am 38 years of age and I am going STRONG full 7 years

  • @woo3131
    @woo3131 3 місяці тому +3

    I have been celibate for close to 18 years

  • @JaylenPotts-zs2qw
    @JaylenPotts-zs2qw 4 місяці тому +11

    They're all very special and beautiful. They deserve romance.

    • @LorrenCharles
      @LorrenCharles 3 місяці тому

      And they will find it when it’s the right time -Lorren from the segment

  • @Florida_gyrl
    @Florida_gyrl 3 місяці тому +2

    I have been abstinent my entire life. It’s the absolute best decision someone could ever make!

  • @QuanequaTSmith
    @QuanequaTSmith 11 днів тому

    After over a year .I would have to say making this lifestyle shift has been the best decision I've ever made . It has saved me from making a lot more mistakes in my life.

  • @lisawebb8123
    @lisawebb8123 4 місяці тому +7

    Love this! This generation really knows themselves! It’s so important! Then you can open yourself up for so many wonderful Spiritual experiences. That’s what our Beautiful Savior wants for us! ❤️🙏🏻🥰🌷

    • @LorrenCharles
      @LorrenCharles 3 місяці тому

      *trying* I’m so glad traditionalism is making a comeback. There is still hope for the world!

  • @rainbow9987
    @rainbow9987 4 місяці тому +8

    4 yrs celibate here

  • @katyarnold-ji8sv
    @katyarnold-ji8sv 3 місяці тому +2

    I agree with all these ladies personal decisions to be celibate. We need more adult conversations about celibacy and abstinence in today's American society. With all these STD's and COV-19 virus and other viruses that's are plaguing our world we need be mindful of theses viruses and STD's etc. I never been in a serious relationship with any man. I still have to work on my spiritual life with Jesus Christ continue to work on myself and my physical health. That's all I'm concern about now. Love and relationship will come when you are ready. I love!! my single life.

  • @brittanyb5942
    @brittanyb5942 4 місяці тому +4

    It’s the best way to be 🙂

  • @deja-58
    @deja-58 3 місяці тому +2

    This is great, just because you are in a relationship doesnt mean you have to be initimate. Take time to get close to God everything is so much more clear.

  • @amberstephens6167
    @amberstephens6167 4 місяці тому +6

    Love this.

  • @marystarzyk9596
    @marystarzyk9596 4 місяці тому +4

    This was a great story

  • @kpec3
    @kpec3 2 місяці тому +1

    I haven't been with a woman since 2019.

  • @letmewatch7058
    @letmewatch7058 4 місяці тому +5

    I think this is Great! Do what works for u !

  • @dcal1452
    @dcal1452 4 місяці тому +13

    Now become celibate from social media.

    • @absatwell8163
      @absatwell8163 4 місяці тому

      @@dcal1452 As you post on SM. 🤦🏻‍♀️

    • @dcal1452
      @dcal1452 4 місяці тому

      @@absatwell8163 Yeah, social media where you can't see my face as I have no videos uploaded here. I have no other accounts.

    • @LorrenCharles
      @LorrenCharles 3 місяці тому +1

      You wish!!

  • @emilylynneclare
    @emilylynneclare 3 місяці тому

    H+J producers - any reason Kelly Brogan wasn’t booked as subject matter expert (PLUS a psych MD) on this?… If future continued segment, highly suggest. // Emily is great + known in this area, and Kelly also adds much value here.

  • @JonCardwell-m8p
    @JonCardwell-m8p 4 місяці тому +1

    Great! I feel like i can finally be the bachelor now that i am divorced. Self oriented women are the best. They cut the cord with me after a divorce over a storage unit. The only two people who natter to me are my twin daughters. I am entering the dating pool as my own representation which is very powerful for a 49 year old man like me. Im heterosexual but ive always enjoyed the company of women. Who share interests. Abd are self empowered. Have control in their own lives.

  • @mmmg7052
    @mmmg7052 4 місяці тому +7

    And.. of course let's go online and share our private life - sad society

    • @absatwell8163
      @absatwell8163 4 місяці тому

      @@mmmg7052 I’d much rather hear about this than many other things.

    • @LorrenCharles
      @LorrenCharles 3 місяці тому +1

      It’s helpful for some people to not feel alone. Why should we suffer in silence ?

  • @brandonedmonds4041
    @brandonedmonds4041 3 місяці тому

    "Self" was said to many times,this is worship of self

  • @Smarty2able
    @Smarty2able 4 місяці тому +2

    All I get is that they're self absorobed.All I heard is "self" and "me"

    • @LorrenCharles
      @LorrenCharles 3 місяці тому +1

      Well, I’m sorry you missed the message. God is the center.

    • @Smarty2able
      @Smarty2able 3 місяці тому +1

      @@LorrenCharles their "god" is self not the real God. Yahweh

  • @israelbarbosa3705
    @israelbarbosa3705 4 місяці тому +2

    So amazing that this show opened the space to these guys that are representing everyone that have chosen to celibate and unfortunately are a joke for a lot of people in the world

    • @LorrenCharles
      @LorrenCharles 3 місяці тому

      Yeah but who cares ?? Some people needed to hear it.

  • @kenofken9458
    @kenofken9458 3 місяці тому +4

    I remain celibate for several hours each night!
    That's as far as that goes.🤣

  • @fadikifuta
    @fadikifuta 4 місяці тому +4

    No one ever makes a decision to be celibate. We were all born celibate. It's the factory setting, the default.

    • @GJones247
      @GJones247 4 місяці тому

      Agreed. They are talking about abstinence and confusing it with celibacy, SMH. This is why Social media become dumb with "tik-tok brain". now a bunch of people will follow this "trend" and have no clue what it actually means.

  • @theraptureisnearbelieveinj448
    @theraptureisnearbelieveinj448 4 місяці тому

    Mark 10:11-12 (KJV)
    11 And he saith unto them, Whosoever shall put away his wife, and marry another, committeth adultery against her.
    12 And if a woman shall put away her husband, and be married to another, she committeth adultery. ✝️

  • @MattJ-p8n
    @MattJ-p8n 4 місяці тому

    You mean the god of self.

    • @LorrenCharles
      @LorrenCharles 3 місяці тому +1

      Nope, faceless user. God ✝️🙏🏼🙌🏼

  • @Smarty2able
    @Smarty2able 4 місяці тому

    1 Timothy 4:2-3 Such teachings come through hypocritical liars, whose consciences have been seared as with a hot iron. 3 They forbid people to marry and order them to abstain from certain foods, which God created to be received with thanksgiving by those who believe and who know the truth.

    • @LorrenCharles
      @LorrenCharles 3 місяці тому

      😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I’m dying.

  • @igorschmidlapp6987
    @igorschmidlapp6987 4 місяці тому +9

    I hear that battery and charger sales have skyrocketed... ;-P

  • @MattJ-p8n
    @MattJ-p8n 4 місяці тому

    All of you are woke.

  • @erictheisen3203
    @erictheisen3203 3 місяці тому +1

    Make sense for those three women.

  • @mm7846
    @mm7846 4 місяці тому +1

    🫶

  • @seven92023
    @seven92023 4 місяці тому +2

    All this is major red flags and cliche BS therapy talk.

    • @BrooklynBaby100
      @BrooklynBaby100 4 місяці тому +9

      Imagine thinking purity is a red flag. Get a life dude.

    • @emersonr7481
      @emersonr7481 4 місяці тому

      ​@@BrooklynBaby100you do the same

    • @Smarty2able
      @Smarty2able 4 місяці тому

      they are just talking about themselves

  • @Crownliving
    @Crownliving 4 місяці тому +1

    They still will need to get in spiritual power so the earth can produce everything they need

    • @Smarty2able
      @Smarty2able 4 місяці тому +1

      yeah i found this trend to be odd

    • @Crownliving
      @Crownliving 4 місяці тому

      @@Smarty2able They doing it without Jesus, it comes off self-centeredness

  • @MattJ-p8n
    @MattJ-p8n 4 місяці тому

    Too much self

  • @andrewclark6618
    @andrewclark6618 3 місяці тому +1

    Celibate until the man of their dreams comes along and then they throw out all boundaries lol 😂

  • @annatar6453
    @annatar6453 4 місяці тому +6

    Lol they all been pumped and dumped by Chad 😂😂😂

    • @BrooklynBaby100
      @BrooklynBaby100 4 місяці тому +13

      That says more about Men than you realize.

    • @koolsmoothfan
      @koolsmoothfan 4 місяці тому +1

      bingo

    • @_method_5877
      @_method_5877 3 місяці тому

      ​@@BrooklynBaby100 If an item has a high return rate then there's something wrong with the item

    • @McOofy
      @McOofy 3 місяці тому

      @@BrooklynBaby100 Women lining up to be side chicks to a few men says a lot more about them.

  • @alexvibe9066
    @alexvibe9066 4 місяці тому +10

    Make them take a lie detector test.

  • @borood1188
    @borood1188 4 місяці тому +1

    They must have some stank catch down there!

  • @igorschmidlapp6987
    @igorschmidlapp6987 4 місяці тому +2

    I'm a guy, and I'm celibate because I don't have enough cash to leave on the dresser... ;-P

    • @theraptureisnearbelieveinj448
      @theraptureisnearbelieveinj448 4 місяці тому

      1 Corinthians 6:9-11
      New King James Version
      9 Do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived. Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor homosexuals, nor sodomites, 10 nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners will inherit the kingdom of God. 11 And such were some of you. But you were washed, but you were sanctified, but you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus and by the Spirit of our God. ✝️

  • @asdfjklasdfjkl408
    @asdfjklasdfjkl408 4 місяці тому +2

    🙄

  • @gatorwing6231
    @gatorwing6231 4 місяці тому +1

    When BEAVERS sleep, husbands & boyfriends find BEAVERS that are awake. Fact of life. 🤪😝😜🤑

  • @taishankm
    @taishankm 3 місяці тому

    I can tell that you are going through a real transformation, and it is working out to your benefit.
    Keep it up ladies ❤❤❤ 🫶👏