Hi I am like really feeling low ... I am a 17 yrs old girl So, I am the most boyish girl among my friends group, and my dressing style is always a pant and t-shirts, I don't know how to wear makeup and my hair is really damaged so I always do braids, I don't have a idea what can I do? Or am I thinking to much and all my friends are so beautiful and feminine they make me feel really insecure so can I have a little suggestion from you 🥺
@@rocklee6471 Hi babe... Please don't rush yourself on this journey of figuring out what works best for you!! You are 17 and this is such a normal time for you to be confused about how to style yourself. I suggest watching girls on UA-cam that you feel you can relate to/go in the direction of what makes YOU happy. All your friends might be beautiful and feminine, but they are also all on different journeys!! We all have beauty in different ways, please don't forget that you are also beautiful. The fact that you are here watching my videos shows me that you will absolutely continue to flourish and bloom into an amazing woman, you are exactly where you need to be 💗 the beauty of UA-cam is that you can find creators that teach you how to care for your hair, how to style different types of outfits, how to do minimal make up depending on your skin tone, eye shape, face shape, there's SO much ❤
Over sharing with men is masculine in which way? Would love to hear your perspective. Example: I took a flight and most of the people on the plane ✈️ was coughing 😷 they should have stayed home that’s not safe. That’s over sharing for me .
Ladies, if you’re married, PLEASE share with us. We can’t read minds. My wife and I share everything in our conversations, we talk for hours. She understands me in a way most people couldn’t because of the amount of info I share with her. We never fight, and rarely argue. Debate all the time though. Same goes both ways. If you can’t share all the info with your spouse, there’s something wrong with the communication. Not really up for debate.
My husband and I talk about the good bad and in-between. My husband does a lot of things that I don't have to and picks up where I left off. Which allows me to be ' feminine' I guess. None the less we are a team and are best friends. I don't know how people haven't realized that communication and cooperation works.
The "making decisions based on if it will make me money or not" is something I recently became aware of and stopped. Stopped relying on others to make me feel feminine.
@@rutho.6282It’s about not focusing on monetary earnings, and putting our femminine energy into the most incredible ability our body possesses. Giving birth! Finding a man who has his life together becomes easier when you tap into your unique and beautiful femminine energy!!
It’s a hard line to toe. I said something completely awful to my boyfriend of 4 years without even thinking how it would affect him. It’s about thinking before you speak. No one expects you to answer their questions immediately, just take the extra milliseconds to question the effects of your words. Not easy, and takes practice! ❤
Thank you, finally a perspective on feeling feminine that doesn’t include dressing up, putting make up, moving your hips while walking, asking men to open doors and help you out and other shitty advice that make women look like objects.
The part about trying to prove a point in conversation is something I realized is so masculine and really doesn’t help serve my health or happiness, thanks for sharing! ❤
I learned this yesterday, I never knew that was a masculine trait. I always raise my voice and try to prove my point by debating. I feel like I’m always right lol
As a male I never though of it that way! Interesting. Throughout my life I never felt attraction or fell in love with women who were too assertive that had a strong hardened personality, and I didn’t real see why. Now I know why - it’s because they behaved like men, which as a straight male that’s a repulsive turn off for me. I fell in love with a soft feminine woman and now she is my girlfriend of 2 years. 🙂
I love all these points. I over think. I stopped proving my point years ago. I go into conversations with the idea that I might learn something from this person.
One massive thing is that men’s egos are incredibly fragile, and a lot of what makes him secure is protecting that. Boost your man and he will boost you!!
Yup. All of these. I stopped listening to Gary Vee. It took me a few years to realize that he wasn't talking to me as a woman. I failed at being a machine because it's not feminine. Also, I started to just be ok with stating my opinion and really hearing the opinion of others without rebuttal.
This... Gary vee is an amazing man. BUT yes he or any other talks to Men in general not us women.. I had to stop taking anu man's advice on the Internet to tell me How i should feel as a woman, or do something while on my period or sleep this or that much.
Yes yes yes to the last one! I’ve learned enough from the logical stand point I’m ready to embody my own unique femininity! I no longer look for male perspectives just women who embody a free spirit
Recently I had watched a UA-cam video the video was "why women nowadays like more Feminine men" And on that video there were comments of people saying "never trust a woman on what she want because they say one but their actions are different."... I was like Wtf even the video was made by men on the behalf of a woman means how can you know about certain thing from the perspective of men when the thing is about a woman....
Yup and it's accepted so widely. Literally if we as women now started one and said stuff like ladies never rely on any men cause they say they heard you but they never listen.. And men and women alike would go "omg these queens get it. They say what others are scared of saying" "biologically they are so right" As a matter of fact anyone one up for this 😂😂😂 like how do you as a man come up with the idea that you are soooo enlightend you qualify to talk about how women don't know themselves 😂 Also the audacity Yes professor please teach me the ways
they dont know women in the real lives, they just create things on their heads to prove their "points". not every women/men is equal and they cant see that
I agree on that last part especially. Watching a lot of male directed videos as a teen girl really made me have a lot of hate for myself in a way. A lot of those videos tear down women and it was definitely doing that to me.
@@uwuiseeyouuwu2819 yep. There were so many videos I watched of guys complaining about their ex’s, dates, gfs, hookups, whoever, doing something they don’t like and would basically say something about women as a whole and it would hit me hard as a teen. It was like I was grooming myself to become a pick me. Thankfully I stopped one day because chances are I would have tried to turn myself every which way trying to please one of those men that will never be satisfied with any woman. Men like that will never not have a bad experience with women so it’s no point in trying to argue with them and their views.
@@Erika-pq7ipIf you can’t use your words to communicate, that’s your fault. Stop expecting men to read your mind and maybe you’d have better results 🤷🏻♂️
Make sure you’re around the right women though. The ones that view peace, submission, warmth, men, and femininity as a good thing. Otherwise, you’re not really becoming more feminine. Stay Focused!
@@Erika-pq7ip i'm really doing the effort to learn about my femininity but these kind of comments repel me a lot so I feel your answer. There's no way I would want to be submissive, my brain will have to be washed to arrive that point
@@Erika-pq7ip nothing wrong with a woman wanting to act submissive to her husband. Hell that’s actually how 75% of women in the world already act. It’s just the US/EU that are kinda different
Can you please define what oversharing is? I wanna know how you make the distinction between being a transparent person overall versus having a habit of oversharing. I consider myself a pretty transparent and open person (which I don't consider a negative thing) so that's why I have to ask!
To me, it's the art of learning to keep some things for yourself. Especially when it comes to dating. The man is in the process of earning your trust, so you don't know if he is trustworthy yet It's in your best interest to not share deeply personal things. Some ppl unfortunately will gain personal info to use against you at a later time, and here you thought you were just being an open person. Full openness should be reserved for someone who has earned your trust and committed to you (ie husband, fiance).
Basically telling people everything about you, everything thats going on in your life, and all your thoughts/opinions/hopes. At least to me this is what it means
This is the first time I'm happy with the tips I got. Usually its just punching down on somebody for dates and while you can do what you like and have someone else pay for you if they're into that, not all feminine people are like that lol and its just rude to the dates
LMFAO the urge I had to comment " And I started vaping" thinking she had one in her hand until I looked closer before doing that and it was just lip gloss.
My name is Yoshikage Kira. I'm 33 years old. My house is in the northeast section of Morioh, where all the villas are, and I am not married. I work as an employee for the Kame Yu department stores, and I get home every day by 8 PM at the latest. I don't smoke, but I occasionally drink. I'm in bed by 11 PM, and make sure I get eight hours of sleep, no matter what. After having a glass of warm milk and doing about twenty minutes of stretches before going to bed, I usually have no problems sleeping until morning. Just like a baby, I wake up without any fatigue or stress in the morning. I was told there were no issues at my last check-up. I'm trying to explain that I'm a person who wishes to live a very quiet life. I take care not to trouble myself with any enemies, like winning and losing, that would cause me to lose sleep at night. That is how I deal with society, and I know that is what brings me happiness. Although, if I were to fight I wouldn't lose to anyone.
Oh this makes me happy for you my girl.. I struggle with sleep i mena its 10 am in here and i still can't sleep and even beat myself up for not having a career so my sleep schedule gets better.
I’m glad came across this as I struggled w sexuality bc I never was thought to be pretty nor fem in spite of having 2kids, at times I wear a dress & makeup ppl thought I was in drag. Dating was horrible between year 2008-2013, much better since I left towns that are overly. Christian(now I know lot of pedos were insecure bc I look like a woman not a kid)
By personal experience, Im trying to think about money. It really stresses me out. Right now I am already tense. It's damaging for everyone, but mainly for the feminine energy which is more about being than doing. Also when you stop taking income into account you'll make decision guided by your inner wants and needs, instead of social ones.
so being a girly girl is better and I should spend hundreds of dollars on make up and wear crop tops at ten years old ok i'll stay like normal people today
Things I stopped doing to feel more feminine full video here: ua-cam.com/video/2l0BAbrKrxg/v-deo.html
Hi I am like really feeling low ...
I am a 17 yrs old girl
So, I am the most boyish girl among my friends group, and my dressing style is always a pant and t-shirts, I don't know how to wear makeup and my hair is really damaged so I always do braids, I don't have a idea what can I do? Or am I thinking to much and all my friends are so beautiful and feminine they make me feel really insecure so can I have a little suggestion from you 🥺
@@rocklee6471 Hi babe... Please don't rush yourself on this journey of figuring out what works best for you!! You are 17 and this is such a normal time for you to be confused about how to style yourself. I suggest watching girls on UA-cam that you feel you can relate to/go in the direction of what makes YOU happy. All your friends might be beautiful and feminine, but they are also all on different journeys!! We all have beauty in different ways, please don't forget that you are also beautiful. The fact that you are here watching my videos shows me that you will absolutely continue to flourish and bloom into an amazing woman, you are exactly where you need to be 💗 the beauty of UA-cam is that you can find creators that teach you how to care for your hair, how to style different types of outfits, how to do minimal make up depending on your skin tone, eye shape, face shape, there's SO much ❤
@@eliciagoguen Thank you so much 🥺 I really needed It ❤️✨
I Hope you create more of these contents, Lots of love 💗
@@eliciagoguen
I also needed that...
You gave the best advice 👏
Over sharing with men is masculine in which way? Would love to hear your perspective. Example: I took a flight and most of the people on the plane ✈️ was coughing 😷 they should have stayed home that’s not safe. That’s over sharing for me .
Ladies, if you’re married, PLEASE share with us. We can’t read minds. My wife and I share everything in our conversations, we talk for hours. She understands me in a way most people couldn’t because of the amount of info I share with her. We never fight, and rarely argue. Debate all the time though.
Same goes both ways. If you can’t share all the info with your spouse, there’s something wrong with the communication. Not really up for debate.
Thank you so much for sharing this. Taking notes a young Lady💗
I agree fully, my husband and I are the same however we never have much to debate because we agree on pretty much everything.
My husband and I talk about the good bad and in-between. My husband does a lot of things that I don't have to and picks up where I left off. Which allows me to be ' feminine' I guess. None the less we are a team and are best friends. I don't know how people haven't realized that communication and cooperation works.
I wish I could share w my husband he says I’m annoying
@@blessedsuburbanmamma7062 leave him
The "making decisions based on if it will make me money or not" is something I recently became aware of and stopped. Stopped relying on others to make me feel feminine.
This!!!
Why is that necessarily a bad thing? Is it a semantics thing as in “if” versus “will”?
@@rutho.6282It’s about not focusing on monetary earnings, and putting our femminine energy into the most incredible ability our body possesses. Giving birth! Finding a man who has his life together becomes easier when you tap into your unique and beautiful femminine energy!!
Stopped over sharing with men >>> I learned this the hard way but I never overshare w men now it always leads to more damage than any good.
How do I stop? I want to be known, I hope to be married someday....but I overshare and go home thinking what have I done????!!!!
@@juliesatterfield7004
Pray.
It’s a hard line to toe. I said something completely awful to my boyfriend of 4 years without even thinking how it would affect him. It’s about thinking before you speak. No one expects you to answer their questions immediately, just take the extra milliseconds to question the effects of your words. Not easy, and takes practice! ❤
Thank you, finally a perspective on feeling feminine that doesn’t include dressing up, putting make up, moving your hips while walking, asking men to open doors and help you out and other shitty advice that make women look like objects.
Right. I just literally subbed
The part about trying to prove a point in conversation is something I realized is so masculine and really doesn’t help serve my health or happiness, thanks for sharing! ❤
I learned this yesterday, I never knew that was a masculine trait. I always raise my voice and try to prove my point by debating. I feel like I’m always right lol
As a male I never though of it that way! Interesting. Throughout my life I never felt attraction or fell in love with women who were too assertive that had a strong hardened personality, and I didn’t real see why. Now I know why - it’s because they behaved like men, which as a straight male that’s a repulsive turn off for me. I fell in love with a soft feminine woman and now she is my girlfriend of 2 years. 🙂
@@loveisthemostpowerfulforce1397The silliest conclusion that I've ever heard
@@damnidkreally It’s not silly.
@@loveisthemostpowerfulforce1397 nah, it is, now live with that, ain't looking forward for your further replies
I love all these points. I over think. I stopped proving my point years ago. I go into conversations with the idea that I might learn something from this person.
This
One massive thing is that men’s egos are incredibly fragile, and a lot of what makes him secure is protecting that. Boost your man and he will boost you!!
Also…. Keep the right circle around you. Everybody can’t sit at your table Sis, friend , associate or not.
Yes!!!
Great point and wow my name is literally Joi Love omg 😳 ❤
@@Lovejoi222 your username is unique, too! lol. :]
Over sharing. 🙏🏾 thank you
I recently realised the same thing, how i consume so much content from men & it’s been making me feel so confused!
It was the male podcast for me. I’m so sick of them. As soon as Kevin passed it was like they just appeared and with way too much to say in my opinion
What do you mean by that? Are men not allowed to have an opinion?
@@macxavier168 sigh
@@vivi-ws9yl I'm assuming there's a point to your comment
@@macxavier168sigh
Wtf your sexist lol
Yup. All of these. I stopped listening to Gary Vee. It took me a few years to realize that he wasn't talking to me as a woman. I failed at being a machine because it's not feminine. Also, I started to just be ok with stating my opinion and really hearing the opinion of others without rebuttal.
This... Gary vee is an amazing man. BUT yes he or any other talks to Men in general not us women.. I had to stop taking anu man's advice on the Internet to tell me How i should feel as a woman, or do something while on my period or sleep this or that much.
Yes yes yes to the last one! I’ve learned enough from the logical stand point I’m ready to embody my own unique femininity! I no longer look for male perspectives just women who embody a free spirit
I love this realization
@@eliciagoguen Thanks babe 🥰❣️
Yessssss. Same!
Thank you sweetheart🥰🥰 I love this!!!!!❤❤❤❤
male perspective thing is actually so right and crazy how didnt i notice it before
I love this so much!! It's exactly what I've been either already doing or thinking of doing 😂
Awesome, thanks!❤
That's some good work on Self💜 Great tips
Inner child 🙌🏽
Recently I had watched a UA-cam video the video was "why women nowadays like more Feminine men"
And on that video there were comments of people saying "never trust a woman on what she want because they say one but their actions are different."...
I was like Wtf even the video was made by men on the behalf of a woman means how can you know about certain thing from the perspective of men when the thing is about a woman....
Yup and it's accepted so widely. Literally if we as women now started one and said stuff like ladies never rely on any men cause they say they heard you but they never listen..
And men and women alike would go "omg these queens get it. They say what others are scared of saying" "biologically they are so right"
As a matter of fact anyone one up for this 😂😂😂 like how do you as a man come up with the idea that you are soooo enlightend you qualify to talk about how women don't know themselves 😂
Also the audacity
Yes professor please teach me the ways
they dont know women in the real lives, they just create things on their heads to prove their "points". not every women/men is equal and they cant see that
This was inspiring. Thank you!
I agree on that last part especially. Watching a lot of male directed videos as a teen girl really made me have a lot of hate for myself in a way.
A lot of those videos tear down women and it was definitely doing that to me.
omg same just now I heard something bad about women on reels said by a man and it made me sad );
@@uwuiseeyouuwu2819 yep. There were so many videos I watched of guys complaining about their ex’s, dates, gfs, hookups, whoever, doing something they don’t like and would basically say something about women as a whole and it would hit me hard as a teen.
It was like I was grooming myself to become a pick me. Thankfully I stopped one day because chances are I would have tried to turn myself every which way trying to please one of those men that will never be satisfied with any woman. Men like that will never not have a bad experience with women so it’s no point in trying to argue with them and their views.
Yesss to all of these!!’
Thank you so much!! 💗
Thank you, Elicia. This helps. Yess I've stopped oversharing with men too.
Thank you for this💕
You’re welcome 🥰
@@eliciagoguen Are you a feminist?
@@seann54 opposite lol
GIRL, YOU ARE LOOKING SOOO GOOOD!!!! BLUE IS DEFFO YOUR COLOUR- Especially that colour.
Thanks for the tips❤
Thank you ❤
I’m so damn proud of you my friend!! You are helping so many people ❤
Excellent! You're are going to be a treasure for someone special.
Good advice thank you❤
Stop oversharing with men !!! Thanks... But how ?
Don't tell them much make it a mystery 😂 if they're not willing to discover your magic , bye bye
Something I saw from another video was go into the conversation with a point. Make your point, state your examples and move on.
@@Erika-pq7ipIf you can’t use your words to communicate, that’s your fault. Stop expecting men to read your mind and maybe you’d have better results 🤷🏻♂️
Just found your channel 😊 you are doing great keep it up more women need to listen to your video's
Thank you so much ❤😊
Thank you Sister❤ bless youu
Embrace femininity among women and masculinity among men! 👑
Over sharing thank you 🙏🏼 😊
The music❤
I love this ❤
Well said😊
Love this ❤
Amazing
Inner child honoring is so so key to feel feminine because actually children are feminine and they are YIN beings
I learned half of these the hard way 😢
I do almost all of these lol so true 😂
Righttttt
Bravo! Love that!
You go, girl!
Heavy on making life decisions on money 😢 current reality
Amen 🙏🏽
Yess
YES.
Make sure you’re around the right women though. The ones that view peace, submission, warmth, men, and femininity as a good thing. Otherwise, you’re not really becoming more feminine. Stay Focused!
Submission ? No thanks
@@Erika-pq7ip i'm really doing the effort to learn about my femininity but these kind of comments repel me a lot so I feel your answer. There's no way I would want to be submissive, my brain will have to be washed to arrive that point
@@paz9487 THANKS !!
@@Erika-pq7ip nothing wrong with a woman wanting to act submissive to her husband. Hell that’s actually how 75% of women in the world already act. It’s just the US/EU that are kinda different
@@Erika-pq7ip being submissive is not a bad thing, anyway, its your prerogative
Perfect
Thank you 🙏
Great video. TY
big facts
I totally agree. No male perspectives
Can you please define what oversharing is? I wanna know how you make the distinction between being a transparent person overall versus having a habit of oversharing. I consider myself a pretty transparent and open person (which I don't consider a negative thing) so that's why I have to ask!
I would love a video on this too!
To me, it's the art of learning to keep some things for yourself. Especially when it comes to dating. The man is in the process of earning your trust, so you don't know if he is trustworthy yet It's in your best interest to not share deeply personal things. Some ppl unfortunately will gain personal info to use against you at a later time, and here you thought you were just being an open person. Full openness should be reserved for someone who has earned your trust and committed to you (ie husband, fiance).
Basically telling people everything about you, everything thats going on in your life, and all your thoughts/opinions/hopes. At least to me this is what it means
Wait money? Im going to get a bag.
you paying yourself in the long run then
lol😊
Great tips
It's weird I was thinking yesterday about all this
This is the first time I'm happy with the tips I got. Usually its just punching down on somebody for dates and while you can do what you like and have someone else pay for you if they're into that, not all feminine people are like that lol and its just rude to the dates
That’s great advice.
LMFAO the urge I had to comment " And I started vaping" thinking she had one in her hand until I looked closer before doing that and it was just lip gloss.
My name is Yoshikage Kira. I'm 33 years old. My house is in the northeast section of Morioh, where all the villas are, and I am not married. I work as an employee for the Kame Yu department stores, and I get home every day by 8 PM at the latest. I don't smoke, but I occasionally drink. I'm in bed by 11 PM, and make sure I get eight hours of sleep, no matter what. After having a glass of warm milk and doing about twenty minutes of stretches before going to bed, I usually have no problems sleeping until morning. Just like a baby, I wake up without any fatigue or stress in the morning. I was told there were no issues at my last check-up. I'm trying to explain that I'm a person who wishes to live a very quiet life. I take care not to trouble myself with any enemies, like winning and losing, that would cause me to lose sleep at night. That is how I deal with society, and I know that is what brings me happiness. Although, if I were to fight I wouldn't lose to anyone.
Oh this makes me happy for you my girl.. I struggle with sleep i mena its 10 am in here and i still can't sleep and even beat myself up for not having a career so my sleep schedule gets better.
im so proud and happy, you seem like a calm person ❤
@@umaimasiddiqui7376its ok girl im sure u will soon, i believe in you!
Love it ❤️ also what’s the background music?
Ditto🎉
I’m glad came across this as I struggled w sexuality bc I never was thought to be pretty nor fem in spite of having 2kids, at times I wear a dress & makeup ppl thought I was in drag.
Dating was horrible between year 2008-2013, much better since I left towns that are overly. Christian(now I know lot of pedos were insecure bc I look like a woman not a kid)
❤❤❤❤❤
i love you channel
Those eyes 😍
thank u 🥹🤍
I just over share with my lady friends In church 😅
As you go about your day, imagine how Snow White or Cinderella would move & act, that helped me move & act more feminine
Smart woman 🥰
Why the money part?
By personal experience, Im trying to think about money. It really stresses me out. Right now I am already tense.
It's damaging for everyone, but mainly for the feminine energy which is more about being than doing.
Also when you stop taking income into account you'll make decision guided by your inner wants and needs, instead of social ones.
Good girl
yes
You became an adult that prioritizes your mental health over some preconceived notion. Keep discovering your peace.
Wicked 💥
Good I don’t do those things either
💯 🎉
Well yes I did some of these aswell
Also bring around great women. Idk about the money thing though, I mean it’s not a bad thing
🙏
The stop listening to podcasts from a male perspective part, that part…
over sharing with men is the worst
whats the bg music
That’s interesting
We are all going threw something .
I liked and subscribed, we'll see 👀 🙂 ☺️ 😏 😉 😊
Where am i and what is going on
Idk man
Stop doing everything based on how men do it lol
Facts! Being proactive rather than reactive!
Taking inspiration from it is not really a problem though. Tweaking it to suit females more kinda helps...
Oversharing with men. ❤
🤔🤔🤔🤔 If a woman had a money , what important things Do ? 🤔🤔🤔
Maybe NO REAL GAOLS FOR THE FUTURE LIFE HUMAN ONLY FUN
What do you mean oversherring with men?
There is nothing wrong with making sure you are financially stable. Why is that seen as a bad thing for women to do?
I agree with almost all of these, but with the money one - would you be putting yourself out there on YT, TikTok, etc if it didn’t make you money??
That's sumthing u got to try..already being a woman...hmmm
so being a girly girl is better and I should spend hundreds of dollars on make up and wear crop tops at ten years old ok i'll stay like normal people today