Please give yourselves a break! You had twins, you lost 2 lites of blood during delivery. You had just moved again. You both deserve medals. You work so well as a couple.
Dealing with a newborn singleton, particularly your first, is the most insane change. I can't even imagine that for multiples!! You are doing so impressively well. You've even managed to keep your vlogs going.
I am really glad someone else didn't enjoy the new born Stage I really struggled especially with my disability and baby when they are tiny . Now my daughter is one in a few days I am loving it x
The twins are at such a lovely stage. Savour every moment, it goes so quickly. I have my youngest two of five children still at home and I'm adjusting to the older three having spread their wings and left home. My oldest two live in Oxford as my eldest works for the ambulance service there. They live together which is a great comfort for me that they're together. My third lives in Brighton with her girlfriend. My younger two are at school, one in sixth form and one in Year 7. I'm a single Mum, have brought them up alone and became disabled three years ago. I now have carers come in twice a day to support me and the children. You two are doing such a wonderful job, you're excellent parents. This time when they're little goes by so incredibly quickly. Being parents is the hardest yet the best and most rewarding job in the world. You will look back and have so many happy memories 💖
Guys please take stock and reflect on how well you are doing. 2 happy thriving babies. You're a great team. It was never going to be easy but not all of life is. Thanks for keeping it real.
A real video by real parents. So happy you are both being so open with each other. I think you're both doing alot to stay conne ted! I was 6 yrs old when my twin brothers (#6 & 7 of 7) were born. My Dad did absolutely nothing, but I couldn't stand leaving a crying baby. I started helping with them. My Mom never said thanks, but I never expected her to. I think with 7 kids she had all she could do.
What a great surprise to get a second video this week! I’m so glad you don’t post the negative/mean posts. There’s enough of it in the world now. They’re your babies and it’s your family, and you have the right to do what works best for you. I really believe parenting is a learn-as-go experience, and no two experiences are the same! Your honesty is so important, especially for new and soon-to be mothers. I still can’t tell who the boys look like the most, but they’re adorable and really developing such cute personalities!
If you can't find any flowers look into dried flower bouquets, thats what I did. They're beautiful, they can still be very colourful (if that's what you're into), you can organise them weeks or months in advance and they're dried so you can keep them after the wedding. You could frame them, put them on display or even sell them on (I sold my brides maid bouquets).
Thank you for being honest. Everyone even friends on social media never want to show the real day to day struggles ( big or small), even at work, coworkers don’t want to share any hardship, as in everyone wants to show the happy/ non problematic side. Showing your true day to day lives is incredible and inspiring. I don’t think you are being hard on yourself just real. Thank you for letting me in.
OMG! Jeeze talk about doppelgänger. You and Gregg, even my husband chipped in (does not do socials, UA-cam, nothing at all) and said, ‘got to be bro’s’ 😂. Can’t wait for more housey stuff guys. And just to end, Fab the coconut hob knobs are to die for, good shout! Keep vlogging xx
You two had twins straight out of the gate. This was all brand new to you both. You are doing an incredible job. You can tell how much you love the boy’s as well. Being honest about what you’re going through is the best thing you can do. Stand tall, be proud and carry on. Ignore the ugly. You boys are the cutest. They are at a fun stage and will only get better. Thank you for sharing how life has changed and also for sharing those precious boys with us. Much love from Florida. You two are absolutely adorable and so much fun to watch and listen to. The boys have wonderful role models. Stay happy!
Hi guys u both are doing such a fabulous job the trick is that u can’t do everything like before and the boys come first house work can wait do what u can and don’t get anxious because if u both are anxious the baby’s know sending all my love to u all xxxx
You guys are doing great!! Look how much the boys adore both of you!! Fab, your devotion to Ell and the boys is so obvious and is a legacy to them all!! Always tell them that you love them, even when they’re teens!!
Yup I prefer a Q&A in this format. Those smiles are everything, I know I say it a lot but really...they are everything! Your boys are so fab! Hahaha, see what I did there? Cheers for now and thanks for sharing. 👶🏻👶🏻
I think at the moment they look more like Ell but I expect they will go through phases of looking more like Fab- that’s how it went with my children anyway. I love seeing them smiling now.
You guys are doing great. Love all your videos. The boys are getting so entertaining with their beautiful smiles and coos. I think Ari looks more like Ell and Noah looks like Fab but just alittle. Have a fantastic day.
I am really really grateful that your C-section recovery was so good and that you didn't have any issues me on the other hand I had a scheduled C-section I was 35 that was 40 weeks but when I went in that morning they were having trouble finding his finding his heartbeat he was 10 lb even I had gestational diabetes he had issues as well it took me 10 and a half months to heal I did have a very hard recovery but I'm not young and healthy like you are I am older and overweight but I would do it all over again it was so worth it but I'm just so grateful that your recovery was so good that makes my heart really happy
We lost twins at 36 weeks, twin boys. We're both now in our mid 70's. Hang in there, we still haven't got over the loss, but we've been more than blessed with a fabulous son and daughter.
Yes, spunk is a great American slang word! People with spunk are courageous or determined. They happily charge through difficult things. They are strong! Your are a spunky mama!
Love your videos! Fab, Greg could pass as your brother. I couldn’t tell u apart when u were at lunch and that lunch looked delish. I think everyone learns the samething with first babies. You learn with the first ones and will be different with the next babies. I don’t know how my mother did it. She had 6 children (I’m a twin with a brother at 2 yrs old) under 8 years. Bless her heart! The boys are adorable especially now that their smiling! They will change in looks some what as they get older. I don’t know who they look like more, your had shapes are very similar. The key thing when raising children is sharing your thoughts with open minds and you both have that. Love you guys!
I love that you show a very real view of what it is like to have a baby rather than only sharing all the good. Every baby is a blessing. I had one that never slept more than a hour at a time for 5 years of his life yet my other free slept through the night from birth and were the perfect babies. I wish they had you tube back than so I could see that I wasn't the only one going through it. But to be honest even when you tube did start people only posted the good times so I wouldn't of wanted to watch it lol.
Don’t listen to any negative comments, you are doing a wonderful job parenting. Do things the way you want and don’t worry about what people have to say. Y’all have 2 beautiful boys and wonderful family so you are very blessed. Love 💕 y’all!
Personally I found the newborn stage a lot easier. I found from 6-9 month harder as baby getting more independent but not able to do a lot still, babys can be so demanding sometimes. Doesn’t help my partner works 6am-8pm x
I am 73 and I look forward every week to seeing you videos. You are so inspiring even to me at my age. I like the mix of Q&A and everyday life. Love the paint on the cabinets. St. Louis Mo. USA
Loving your honestly here. I switch off from the Instagram photoshopped videos of 'perfect' evenings and find your content so relateablr. I Found newborn so hard and we went straight into a lockdown. Then another so had little to no help or support from anywhere. Can't imagine having twins. Dancing fruit is still a favourite for my 2 Yr old it always calmed her down. Now she's hit the Terrible 2's and I'm being tested on a whole new level 🙄 Keep doing what you're doing, smashing it.
You don't know how tough having a baby is - and the whole transition to being a parent - until it happens to you. One is hard enough and I can only imagine two has extra challenges! Cute little boys and people need to hear your honesty! And btw - you all have the most gorgeous brown eyes!
My first dance song was by Dan&Shay called 'from the ground up' I hadn't heard it before and my husband (then fiancé) showed me it and I absolutely loved it and we both decided that was the song for us. You both are doing amazing as parents x
Great Vlog, love how you both keep it true to life. You are both fantastic parents. All going well in the future, you will be blessed with another child x
I have twin boys...18 yrs old now...once they hit 5 months it got alot easier. Cherish every second, it goes faster than you can even imagine. Beautiful babies you have there!!
Hello from the Netherlands! I agree with Fab, I like the Q&A vlogging, it's more interactive but still straight to the point and you guys don't stop doing what you need to do in the process as much like with the sit-down style ones. I really enjoyed this! You guys are so down-to-earth and chill, I like the pace of your videos. 👌
Hey guys I love the wat you have done this vlog incorporating the questions in with the vlog. Also sorry Fab but I reckon the boys look more like Ell. I love your channel, thankyou for being so open and honest about your life. Don't be so hard on yourselves you are Fantastic parents. xx
Yess!! I don't enjoy the newborn stage either, I'm so much happier later when the babies don't need constant attention and I can get some rest and then enjoy them ♥️
Oh & the answer to your last questions we LOVE BOTH vlogs and these all your styles and contents we love never think its boring. It's fun and interesting for us xx
You are both doing amazing and it's so nice to see someone showing the realistic side of having young babies. My son is now 14 months old and had cmpa and bad reflux and I remember feeling jealous of the parents who had such settled babies but the reality is most people don't post the hard days. I am now 26 weeks pregnant with our second and I feel more prepared and understand that it's fine to struggle when they are newborns and it has no reflection on you as a parent
Love these videos, love seeing how you get on with each other and are so supportive of each other, wish I’d had that level of support from my partner when my children were young
If you don’t want your tulips to droop, get a pin/needle and poke it right through the stem just under the base of the flower. Don’t know how it works but it does! 👍
Loved this video, you are both so natural and down to earth it’s a pleasure to watch your videos. The smiles from the boys is just heartwarming, I so look forward to seeing them every week, plus I’d like to thank you both for allowing us to seeing them so much in your videos ❤ Thank you 🙏 xxx
I am so glad you are honest about how hard it can be as a parent. The first-time parents that go into it thinking it's all sunshine and rainbows are more likely to end up with PND. I missed my route of work the most but then when I went back I just wanted to be back home lol. My favourite age is 6m to 2 years.
14:12 thank you for answering my question 🥲 I am due in just over 2 weeks and panicking I don’t have enough (especially clothes 😂) so thank you for your advice and I will make sure I don’t buy anything more until he’s here 😂 xxx
You can read every book on the shelf but when reality hits in you just wing it ,everyday is different some good some exhausting,nobody will ever know those boys better than you both and only you can know what’s right for them , I’m 53 and my three girls have left home ,I’m also a twin I have a twin brother never had a cross word , I have two grandsons one is six born on my birthday what a special gift that was , one 10 months and I love nanny duty , take help and enjoy time together and give your mums special time with the boys xxxxx
I had a premie and I did not enjoy the new born stage. I was recovering from C section and my husband was wonderful but it was hard and I was Blessed because my Mom came and let me sleep for hour’s because I was exhausted and still healing.
Love this type of video. You both are doing a great job with your boys! Just remember to be kind to each other and yourselves. Love from Ottawa, Canada.
I would enjoy any type of video from you both, but it is nice to hear some of the questions answered. I personally enjoy all your videos! You both make it look easy what you're doing even though I know it's far from it! I have 2 children, fully grown now but they were as different as night and day. My son was such a happy go lucky little guy, slept through the night at 6 weeks and hardly ever cried. My daughter didn't stop crying for the first 6 months. She suffered from colic too and lived on simethicone. They didn't have special bottles back then. She slept in a battery-operated swing for a very long time, it was the only thing that made her feel better. Once that was over things got much better! Boys are definitely easier than girls, especially in the cleaning department! 🙂 Just keep doing what you're doing because let's face it, you two rock at this! Hugs from CA ❤
After 6 years of ttc and my. Husband being told its very un Likley that he can have kids we had our miracle baby and then 8 months later caught again with our beautiful baby girl it was a shock but after thinking it would never happen we have never been more happy. Your doing An amazing job my baby girl and your. Twins are a few weeks apart so. It's amazing to be able to. Follow your. Journey when my little girl is the same. Age xxx
Love this video. Answering questions & changing location...worked so well. Love seeing the boys interacting & smiling. Totally agree the newborn stage isnt fun its bloody hard work it gets better. Thanka guys for another great video 💕
Momma Hale is so proud of you both!!! Doing the vlogs certainly has a dual purpose of positivity. Not only are you sharing your lives raising twins, it is also giving you time to check in with your partner and discuss responsibly the trials and struggles, emotional struggles, and the triumphs of getting through the first few months together. It is the hardest time but my Lord, you are both doing great parenting these two boys!
Ari is definitely like you! They’re getting to the really cute stage! I always hated when my little boy wasn’t a newborn anymore but the next bit is actually way better 🥺 Then the same when he turned 1 but I think 14 months onwards is just the most fun you’ll ever have!
Preparing for your surgery helps you gat over it faster and easier. Having it without mentally preparing doesn't give you the opportunity to prepare for all that you may go through. Ell, you scar line feels really weird because your nerves have been cut along with your skin, muscles etc. It take a long time before your scar will feel normal. Drs have said over the years that your nerves don't regenerate from being cut but mine have. I haven't had a C Section but I had a total hysterectomy at 30 due to a Endometriosis. I never think about, feel or see my scar. Overtime I feel my scar line is extremely hard to see. Admittedly a scar is far different on the bikini line than a C Section scar. But your scar has produced the most amazing thing in your life. Whereas mine was being able to live pain free. Be proud if your scar, millions of women wear that badge of honour, of having their children. You are both doing a great job raising your adorable twin boys, you are wonderful and selfless parents while at the same time of keeping everything real.
I just love how real u guys are it's so refreshing because u see so many people online making out there lives are perfect and I know myself even having 1 new born was so hard...all 4 of my children have suffered with colic and reflux and seeing them upset all the time was awful so I totally agree with ell I found it very stressful. U guys work so well together and your amazing with the twins👶👶sending u so much love as always 💗 💙💗💙 xx
You guys are doing great, that first year as first time parents is a HUGE learning curve but it’s all worth it and goes so fast, so enjoy every minute ❤ I found going from 0 to 1 the hardest transition as I found it hard to let go of my previous no kids life, however with my second the newborn stage has been a breeze and I have loved it and question whether it was as hard as I remember! (My first struggled with colic too) 😅
I've been watching you guys for a while now and think your Great. I'm a mom of 4, three girls and a boy ranging from 16 to 2 . I never normally comment however, I no you think the newborn stage is hard and my god it is but when you get to toddler stage you will look back on the newborn stage and honestly wonder where it's gone and realise the stages after the newborn stage are just as challenging making the newborn stage seem a breeze. It's just Soooo rewarding realising that you've got through it and seeing your children thrive. Keep it up guys I think your amazing 😍
Please give yourselves a break! You had twins, you lost 2 lites of blood during delivery. You had just moved again. You both deserve medals. You work so well as a couple.
We didn’t even think of that! Thank you 🤍
Dealing with a newborn singleton, particularly your first, is the most insane change. I can't even imagine that for multiples!!
You are doing so impressively well. You've even managed to keep your vlogs going.
I think the boys look more like Fab. They are so handsome. I love the Q &A vlogs!!
I am really glad someone else didn't enjoy the new born Stage I really struggled especially with my disability and baby when they are tiny . Now my daughter is one in a few days I am loving it x
The twins are at such a lovely stage. Savour every moment, it goes so quickly. I have my youngest two of five children still at home and I'm adjusting to the older three having spread their wings and left home. My oldest two live in Oxford as my eldest works for the ambulance service there. They live together which is a great comfort for me that they're together. My third lives in Brighton with her girlfriend. My younger two are at school, one in sixth form and one in Year 7.
I'm a single Mum, have brought them up alone and became disabled three years ago. I now have carers come in twice a day to support me and the children.
You two are doing such a wonderful job, you're excellent parents. This time when they're little goes by so incredibly quickly. Being parents is the hardest yet the best and most rewarding job in the world. You will look back and have so many happy memories 💖
Guys please take stock and reflect on how well you are doing. 2 happy thriving babies. You're a great team. It was never going to be easy but not all of life is. Thanks for keeping it real.
A real video by real parents. So happy you are both being so open with each other. I think you're both doing alot to stay conne ted! I was 6 yrs old when my twin brothers (#6 & 7 of 7) were born. My Dad did absolutely nothing, but I couldn't stand leaving a crying baby. I started helping with them. My Mom never said thanks, but I never expected her to. I think with 7 kids she had all she could do.
What a great surprise to get a second video this week! I’m so glad you don’t post the negative/mean posts. There’s enough of it in the world now. They’re your babies and it’s your family, and you have the right to do what works best for you. I really believe parenting is a learn-as-go experience, and no two experiences are the same! Your honesty is so important, especially for new and soon-to be mothers. I still can’t tell who the boys look like the most, but they’re adorable and really developing such cute personalities!
Iloue vlogs videos and everything you do your boys are so handsome and cheeky and you both are fantastic parents
Thank you so much! 🤍🤍
If you can't find any flowers look into dried flower bouquets, thats what I did. They're beautiful, they can still be very colourful (if that's what you're into), you can organise them weeks or months in advance and they're dried so you can keep them after the wedding. You could frame them, put them on display or even sell them on (I sold my brides maid bouquets).
Aww Ell, look at the way the baby is looking at you, gorgeous, I see Noah like Fab and Ari like Ell xx
Thank you for being honest.
Everyone even friends on social media never want to show the real day to day struggles ( big or small), even at work, coworkers don’t want to share any hardship, as in everyone wants to show the happy/ non problematic side. Showing your true day to day lives is incredible and inspiring. I don’t think you are being hard on yourself just real. Thank you for letting me in.
OMG! Jeeze talk about doppelgänger. You and Gregg, even my husband chipped in (does not do socials, UA-cam, nothing at all) and said, ‘got to be bro’s’ 😂. Can’t wait for more housey stuff guys. And just to end, Fab the coconut hob knobs are to die for, good shout! Keep vlogging xx
omg the boys are looking so big now!! 🥹
You two had twins straight out of the gate. This was all brand new to you both. You are doing an incredible job. You can tell how much you love the boy’s as well. Being honest about what you’re going through is the best thing you can do. Stand tall, be proud and carry on. Ignore the ugly. You boys are the cutest. They are at a fun stage and will only get better. Thank you for sharing how life has changed and also for sharing those precious boys with us. Much love from Florida.
You two are absolutely adorable and so much fun to watch and listen to. The boys have wonderful role models. Stay happy!
Loving the combo vlog with q&a! Boys are so like you Ell! Another fab vlog that’s made my day! 😘
Hi guys u both are doing such a fabulous job the trick is that u can’t do everything like before and the boys come first house work can wait do what u can and don’t get anxious because if u both are anxious the baby’s know sending all my love to u all xxxx
You guys are doing great!! Look how much the boys adore both of you!! Fab, your devotion to Ell and the boys is so obvious and is a legacy to them all!! Always tell them that you love them, even when they’re teens!!
🫶 for sure! We will always tell them
Gosh, your fabulous I really thought your vids would be less but your sticking to em 😉
You are my favourites. Love your twin boys, they have a smile that melts your heart. Love always. South Africa
I understand! My granddaughter had reflux when she was born. It was so difficult. Poor baby! You guys are doing this parenting thing great!
Yup I prefer a Q&A in this format. Those smiles are everything, I know I say it a lot but really...they are everything! Your boys are so fab! Hahaha, see what I did there? Cheers for now and thanks for sharing. 👶🏻👶🏻
I think at the moment they look more like Ell but I expect they will go through phases of looking more like Fab- that’s how it went with my children anyway. I love seeing them smiling now.
You guys are doing great. Love all your videos. The boys are getting so entertaining with their beautiful smiles and coos. I think Ari looks more like Ell and Noah looks like Fab but just alittle. Have a fantastic day.
I am really really grateful that your C-section recovery was so good and that you didn't have any issues me on the other hand I had a scheduled C-section I was 35 that was 40 weeks but when I went in that morning they were having trouble finding his finding his heartbeat he was 10 lb even I had gestational diabetes he had issues as well it took me 10 and a half months to heal I did have a very hard recovery but I'm not young and healthy like you are I am older and overweight but I would do it all over again it was so worth it but I'm just so grateful that your recovery was so good that makes my heart really happy
We lost twins at 36 weeks, twin boys. We're both now in our mid 70's. Hang in there, we still haven't got over the loss, but we've been more than blessed with a fabulous son and daughter.
So sorry to hear this 💔 that must have been so tough.
Yes, spunk is a great American slang word!
People with spunk are courageous or determined. They happily charge through difficult things. They are strong! Your are a spunky mama!
Yous are so honest it’s not that easy but it will get better your baby boys are so cute and yous are doing amazing job
Love your videos! Fab, Greg could pass as your brother. I couldn’t tell u apart when u were at lunch and that lunch looked delish. I think everyone learns the samething with first babies. You learn with the first ones and will be different with the next babies. I don’t know how my mother did it. She had 6 children (I’m a twin with a brother at 2 yrs old) under 8 years. Bless her heart! The boys are adorable especially now that their smiling! They will change in looks some what as they get older. I don’t know who they look like more, your had shapes are very similar. The key thing when raising children is sharing your thoughts with open minds and you both have that. Love you guys!
I love that you show a very real view of what it is like to have a baby rather than only sharing all the good. Every baby is a blessing. I had one that never slept more than a hour at a time for 5 years of his life yet my other free slept through the night from birth and were the perfect babies. I wish they had you tube back than so I could see that I wasn't the only one going through it. But to be honest even when you tube did start people only posted the good times so I wouldn't of wanted to watch it lol.
Don’t listen to any negative comments, you are doing a wonderful job parenting. Do things the way you want and don’t worry about what people have to say. Y’all have 2 beautiful boys and wonderful family so you are very blessed. Love 💕 y’all!
Personally I found the newborn stage a lot easier. I found from 6-9 month harder as baby getting more independent but not able to do a lot still, babys can be so demanding sometimes. Doesn’t help my partner works 6am-8pm x
I thought at first that Greg was Fab's brother as they look a lot alike. It is great that you were able to have dinner out with friends.
Lovely to see you both get out and about and meet up with Friends. Looked like you all had a wonderful day out x
Great video guys,loved a bit of both..Noah and Ari are scrumptious! You are doing amazing x
I am 73 and I look forward every week to seeing you videos. You are so inspiring even to me at my age.
I like the mix of Q&A and everyday life. Love the paint on the cabinets. St. Louis Mo. USA
2 videos in one week, a lovely notification to get off UA-cam!! I think the boys are the spit of Fab
Loving your honestly here. I switch off from the Instagram photoshopped videos of 'perfect' evenings and find your content so relateablr. I Found newborn so hard and we went straight into a lockdown. Then another so had little to no help or support from anywhere. Can't imagine having twins. Dancing fruit is still a favourite for my 2 Yr old it always calmed her down. Now she's hit the Terrible 2's and I'm being tested on a whole new level 🙄
Keep doing what you're doing, smashing it.
Loved the vlog I think the boys are more like fab, your both doing a great job I love how much fab helps with the boys keep doing what your doing xx❤️
You don't know how tough having a baby is - and the whole transition to being a parent - until it happens to you. One is hard enough and I can only imagine two has extra challenges! Cute little boys and people need to hear your honesty! And btw - you all have the most gorgeous brown eyes!
My first dance song was by Dan&Shay called 'from the ground up'
I hadn't heard it before and my husband (then fiancé) showed me it and I absolutely loved it and we both decided that was the song for us.
You both are doing amazing as parents x
Great Vlog, love how you both keep it true to life. You are both fantastic parents. All going well in the future, you will be blessed with another child x
Boys are your double!! Can't see fab yet!
You guys are amazing LOVE watching your life vlogs!! ♡♡
I’ve thought they always looked like Ell as newborns but now starting to look like both of you equally 😊
You are great parents and a great couple I think the boys look like Ell. Love watching your life you are doing amazing xx
I have twin boys...18 yrs old now...once they hit 5 months it got alot easier. Cherish every second, it goes faster than you can even imagine. Beautiful babies you have there!!
Ellen, have you thought of doing silk bouquets or making your own. ? You can order them and make them. Helps cut cost
Hello from the Netherlands! I agree with Fab, I like the Q&A vlogging, it's more interactive but still straight to the point and you guys don't stop doing what you need to do in the process as much like with the sit-down style ones. I really enjoyed this! You guys are so down-to-earth and chill, I like the pace of your videos. 👌
Glad you enjoyed! Thanks for the feedback 🙌🏻
My babies grouching hour was always when I was busy getting supper ready for the other four lol 5:08
Hey guys I love the wat you have done this vlog incorporating the questions in with the vlog. Also sorry Fab but I reckon the boys look more like Ell. I love your channel, thankyou for being so open and honest about your life. Don't be so hard on yourselves you are Fantastic parents. xx
Yess!! I don't enjoy the newborn stage either, I'm so much happier later when the babies don't need constant attention and I can get some rest and then enjoy them ♥️
Oh & the answer to your last questions we LOVE BOTH vlogs and these all your styles and contents we love never think its boring. It's fun and interesting for us xx
Definitely like the q & a and vlog mix because I have ADD and I zone out in like 10-15 minutes when people are just talking lol.
they are getting so big. don't blink they will be 16 before you know it. my twin turns 16 in august.
Those are two of my favorite flowers too.
The boys have gotten so big
Thank you so so much that you two are honest ‼️‼️‼️🙏‼️🙏❤️❤️❤️
You are both doing amazing and it's so nice to see someone showing the realistic side of having young babies. My son is now 14 months old and had cmpa and bad reflux and I remember feeling jealous of the parents who had such settled babies but the reality is most people don't post the hard days. I am now 26 weeks pregnant with our second and I feel more prepared and understand that it's fine to struggle when they are newborns and it has no reflection on you as a parent
Love watching. You two are amazing. Your boys are so handsome. Love from Canada
Love these videos, love seeing how you get on with each other and are so supportive of each other, wish I’d had that level of support from my partner when my children were young
If you don’t want your tulips to droop, get a pin/needle and poke it right through the stem just under the base of the flower. Don’t know how it works but it does!
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I really enjoyed this video! Love your honest interactions & sharing. You’re a beautiful family. ❤👨👩👦👦❤
Can your babies get any cuter! Their smiles are so adorable. Keep up the good work, you are both doing so well xx
Really enjoyed this vlog, thanks for sharing. So lovely to see the boys smiling they sure growing fast 😊 xx
Love this vlog seeing lots of the boys and answering questions, you both are so honest and I like that xx
Another lovely video!!Beautiful family xxxx
Loved the vlog Ell , Fab looking forward to the next vlog 😀 😊 😍 👍 xxx
Love your vlogs, but this one is truly special, so down to earth and normal. You are an amazing couple. Best from Canada❤
Just love how honest you both are. Wish more people were like you!! Great vlog, gorgeous couple, gorgeous boys!! ❤❤❤❤
Loved this video, you are both so natural and down to earth it’s a pleasure to watch your videos.
The smiles from the boys is just heartwarming, I so look forward to seeing them every week, plus I’d like to thank you both for allowing us to seeing them so much in your videos ❤
Thank you 🙏 xxx
I am so glad you are honest about how hard it can be as a parent. The first-time parents that go into it thinking it's all sunshine and rainbows are more likely to end up with PND.
I missed my route of work the most but then when I went back I just wanted to be back home lol.
My favourite age is 6m to 2 years.
You two are doing a great job, love how real you are.
Thank you so much!
The boys look like a good mix between you both! Gorgeous twins ❤
14:12 thank you for answering my question 🥲 I am due in just over 2 weeks and panicking I don’t have enough (especially clothes 😂) so thank you for your advice and I will make sure I don’t buy anything more until he’s here 😂 xxx
You can read every book on the shelf but when reality hits in you just wing it ,everyday is different some good some exhausting,nobody will ever know those boys better than you both and only you can know what’s right for them , I’m 53 and my three girls have left home ,I’m also a twin I have a twin brother never had a cross word , I have two grandsons one is six born on my birthday what a special gift that was , one 10 months and I love nanny duty , take help and enjoy time together and give your mums special time with the boys xxxxx
I had a premie and I did not enjoy the new born stage. I was recovering from C section and my husband was wonderful but it was hard and I was Blessed because my Mom came and let me sleep for hour’s because I was exhausted and still healing.
I really enjoy your videos. So nice to see your family as life goes. Keep being the wonderful parents you are. You baby’s are perfect.
Love this type of video. You both are doing a great job with your boys! Just remember to be kind to each other and yourselves. Love from Ottawa, Canada.
Excellent video. Totally enjoyed it. One of the best and sweetest sounds is a baby laughing. ❤❤
aww thats one of my regrets! not going out to eat while the babies young, because when they are toddlers holy cow good luck sitting down darnnit
I would enjoy any type of video from you both, but it is nice to hear some of the questions answered. I personally enjoy all your videos! You both make it look easy what you're doing even though I know it's far from it! I have 2 children, fully grown now but they were as different as night and day. My son was such a happy go lucky little guy, slept through the night at 6 weeks and hardly ever cried. My daughter didn't stop crying for the first 6 months. She suffered from colic too and lived on simethicone. They didn't have special bottles back then. She slept in a battery-operated swing for a very long time, it was the only thing that made her feel better. Once that was over things got much better! Boys are definitely easier than girls, especially in the cleaning department! 🙂 Just keep doing what you're doing because let's face it, you two rock at this! Hugs from CA ❤
After 6 years of ttc and my. Husband being told its very un Likley that he can have kids we had our miracle baby and then 8 months later caught again with our beautiful baby girl it was a shock but after thinking it would never happen we have never been more happy. Your doing An amazing job my baby girl and your. Twins are a few weeks apart so. It's amazing to be able to. Follow your. Journey when my little girl is the same. Age xxx
Omg how amazing!!! 🫶
Hi Ell 👋 👋 👋 👋 Hi Fab 👋 nice to see you both 😀 😊 and your gorgeous boys xxxx
i just love this family i am obsessed with you guys 🥰🥰🥰
OMG Ell, I still can’t look or touch my c-section scar either!! I thought I was the only one and it’s been 33 years!!!! Lol
I am a twin but unfortunately she passed away from cancer I miss her so much every day x you are such a beautiful loving family love your videos
Very sorry to hear that 😔 💔
So sorry to hear that 💔 sending all our love xxx
Thank you x
Love this video. Answering questions & changing location...worked so well. Love seeing the boys interacting & smiling. Totally agree the newborn stage isnt fun its bloody hard work it gets better. Thanka guys for another great video 💕
Loved this thankyou much appreciated ❤️👍🤗
Re: who do the boys look like. I would say that Ari looks more like Ell and Noah more like Fab (even though they are identical) x
the challenges just change but I wouldn't say get easier. I think 2-3 years old was the hardest for me as a mom.
Awww super cute and adorable 🙌🏼🤍🤍
Love watching you guy’s and the twins. Growing sooo fast🤍🤍
Bless..!!
Momma Hale is so proud of you both!!! Doing the vlogs certainly has a dual purpose of positivity. Not only are you sharing your lives raising twins, it is also giving you time to check in with your partner and discuss responsibly the trials and struggles, emotional struggles, and the triumphs of getting through the first few months together. It is the hardest time but my Lord, you are both doing great parenting these two boys!
Thank you so much Dara!
Ari is definitely like you! They’re getting to the really cute stage! I always hated when my little boy wasn’t a newborn anymore but the next bit is actually way better 🥺 Then the same when he turned 1 but I think 14 months onwards is just the most fun you’ll ever have!
Preparing for your surgery helps you gat over it faster and easier. Having it without mentally preparing doesn't give you the opportunity to prepare for all that you may go through. Ell, you scar line feels really weird because your nerves have been cut along with your skin, muscles etc. It take a long time before your scar will feel normal. Drs have said over the years that your nerves don't regenerate from being cut but mine have. I haven't had a C Section but I had a total hysterectomy at 30 due to a Endometriosis. I never think about, feel or see my scar. Overtime I feel my scar line is extremely hard to see. Admittedly a scar is far different on the bikini line than a C Section scar. But your scar has produced the most amazing thing in your life. Whereas mine was being able to live pain free. Be proud if your scar, millions of women wear that badge of honour, of having their children. You are both doing a great job raising your adorable twin boys, you are wonderful and selfless parents while at the same time of keeping everything real.
love the vlogs and boys are growing so fast very cute you make amazing parents lots love from qld Australia
I just love how real u guys are it's so refreshing because u see so many people online making out there lives are perfect and I know myself even having 1 new born was so hard...all 4 of my children have suffered with colic and reflux and seeing them upset all the time was awful so I totally agree with ell I found it very stressful. U guys work so well together and your amazing with the twins👶👶sending u so much love as always 💗 💙💗💙 xx
Where is the printed circular playmat from? 😊
Really enjoyed this style for a Q+A
I'm always excited when you upload a new video. ❤you two are so sympathetic. Greetings from Germany 🥰
You guys are doing great, that first year as first time parents is a HUGE learning curve but it’s all worth it and goes so fast, so enjoy every minute ❤
I found going from 0 to 1 the hardest transition as I found it hard to let go of my previous no kids life, however with my second the newborn stage has been a breeze and I have loved it and question whether it was as hard as I remember! (My first struggled with colic too) 😅
I've been watching you guys for a while now and think your Great. I'm a mom of 4, three girls and a boy ranging from 16 to 2 . I never normally comment however, I no you think the newborn stage is hard and my god it is but when you get to toddler stage you will look back on the newborn stage and honestly wonder where it's gone and realise the stages after the newborn stage are just as challenging making the newborn stage seem a breeze. It's just Soooo rewarding realising that you've got through it and seeing your children thrive. Keep it up guys I think your amazing 😍
Watching this while feeding my twins and my boy twin wants held all time. You guys are doing amazing 💖
You are amazing!