I'm a FTM 19 weeks pregnant, loving listening to these while organizing baby clothes - these episodes are just the best and SO edifying/insightful. So grateful. Praying for God's wisdom and discernment in stewarding our daughter's and future children's lives, to learn to be a Spirit-led parent, and thankful for his grace to cover all our gaps and inevitable mistakes we will make! ❤️🙏
This is a powerful message. I would’ve loved to have had this in my early years of parenting. I can totally relate to the shame that Lisa talked about feeling at the beginning of this video. Praise God for the power of forgiveness & his great mercy!
I so love this family. Just having my fourth baby boy with older ones who are 6,5 and 4 years. Your podcasts has been so empowering thank you. How did you prevent sibling rivalry? How did you ensure every child felt loved since there were so many of them? Did you spend one on one time with every child every so often?
Wow I wish I could have seen this 13 years ago 😢 I never wanted to parent like my father and looking back now I see that I defaulted to the only way of parenting I knew. Which was the 80s harshness you spoke of. I was constantly getting lectures or whippins, the last time he actually whipped me I was 16. Imagine how that felt. How embarrassing and demoralizing to be that old and being treated like I was a toddler. I don’t even remember what it was about but probably my “rebellious” nature got me into something that went against the rules. The next time I just had words screamed at me an a wrench chucked at my head. I ran away at 18. I never wanted to be like him. I left being under his thumb to living with an abuser that was 10000x worse than my father was. at first he didn’t show it much and if he did- I didn’t recognize the red flags because the behavior was familiar and I didn’t see it until I was trapped. I met a man that had babies. He was recently divorced like me, his wife had cheated on him and left him with the babies. He was kind to me. We both had terrible first marriages. I didn’t want to get married and neither did he, but we lived together and I was ok with it. I got pregnant and a year later we got married. I am now on the verge of losing every single person because of the monster i became, over the past 13 years, I should have gone to counseling and learned how to deal with my wounded heart, I should have just surrendered to God, but I was “fine” 🙄 I wasn’t. I needed people like this family in my life to speak truth to me. Yah bless you all for this, because someone else needs to hear it before it’s too late for them.
Thank you for sharing this. I was touched by it. I am not in the same situation but similar and I have felt like I’ve made mistakes and things are too late. Reading this was a wake up call for me. It is never too late and we can always do better! God can and will redeem what the locust has eaten
Thank you for sharing such sound and honest testimonials. Mumma Lisa keeps it real, and is sooo relatable. I learn so much from this channel. And LOL For the outro. 😂
How can we deal with middle children that continously fight with each other? We have 4 boys at home and the two middle boys always seem to bump heads. The older ones shows hate towards his brother. We didn't grow up in a Christian home and are trying to figure out what the right way with out hurting either of them
I'm a FTM 19 weeks pregnant, loving listening to these while organizing baby clothes - these episodes are just the best and SO edifying/insightful. So grateful. Praying for God's wisdom and discernment in stewarding our daughter's and future children's lives, to learn to be a Spirit-led parent, and thankful for his grace to cover all our gaps and inevitable mistakes we will make! ❤️🙏
This is a powerful message. I would’ve loved to have had this in my early years of parenting. I can totally relate to the shame that Lisa talked about feeling at the beginning of this video. Praise God for the power of forgiveness & his great mercy!
Thank you for having these conversations. We appreciate you all.
My cheeks heart from smiling through all of these episodes. Gosh I love it! I see so much of our home here and it makes me giggle. Go Bevers!
Love from Nigeria! Y'all are really touching lives across borders. I look forward to these conversations. Thank you!
You all are so open and relatable. The stories help me be a better mom to my young adults.
This is a beautiful conversation and teaching. God Bless you all!
I love this family! Lisa is so gracious and it’s clear she’s a wonderful Mom.
I so love this family. Just having my fourth baby boy with older ones who are 6,5 and 4 years. Your podcasts has been so empowering thank you.
How did you prevent sibling rivalry?
How did you ensure every child felt loved since there were so many of them?
Did you spend one on one time with every child every so often?
This was so good!
I would love for you to do an episode on traditions you had or have, especially during holidays.
Wow I wish I could have seen this 13 years ago 😢 I never wanted to parent like my father and looking back now I see that I defaulted to the only way of parenting I knew. Which was the 80s harshness you spoke of. I was constantly getting lectures or whippins, the last time he actually whipped me I was 16. Imagine how that felt. How embarrassing and demoralizing to be that old and being treated like I was a toddler. I don’t even remember what it was about but probably my “rebellious” nature got me into something that went against the rules. The next time I just had words screamed at me an a wrench chucked at my head.
I ran away at 18.
I never wanted to be like him.
I left being under his thumb to living with an abuser that was 10000x worse than my father was. at first he didn’t show it much and if he did- I didn’t recognize the red flags because the behavior was familiar and I didn’t see it until I was trapped.
I met a man that had babies. He was recently divorced like me, his wife had cheated on him and left him with the babies.
He was kind to me. We both had terrible first marriages. I didn’t want to get married and neither did he, but we lived together and I was ok with it. I got pregnant and a year later we got married.
I am now on the verge of losing every single person because of the monster i became, over the past 13 years, I should have gone to counseling and learned how to deal with my wounded heart, I should have just surrendered to God, but I was “fine” 🙄
I wasn’t.
I needed people like this family in my life to speak truth to me.
Yah bless you all for this, because someone else needs to hear it before it’s too late for them.
Thank you for sharing this. I was touched by it. I am not in the same situation but similar and I have felt like I’ve made mistakes and things are too late. Reading this was a wake up call for me. It is never too late and we can always do better! God can and will redeem what the locust has eaten
I so identify with Lisa in this.
Thank you for sharing such sound and honest testimonials. Mumma Lisa keeps it real, and is sooo relatable. I learn so much from this channel. And LOL For the outro. 😂
Watching from Abuja, Nigeria and I LOVE the series. Thank you Bevere family!
😅I can’t believe I am the first. Love from Ghana
These messages are so impactful for me and my family! Thank yall so much!
I really needed this!
So good!!
How can we deal with middle children that continously fight with each other? We have 4 boys at home and the two middle boys always seem to bump heads. The older ones shows hate towards his brother. We didn't grow up in a Christian home and are trying to figure out what the right way with out hurting either of them
Where do we send our questions to?
As a four boys mom, I have a trillion questions 😅😂
I'd love an episode mentioning how it was for the boys when their dad travelled so much
SOOOO HELPFUL!!!!
SO glad to hear! Thanks for sharing. Let us know what topics you would like to see in future episodes :)
What is your response to those of us who have life-long spanking paraphilia's because of what parents like you have done? This is a genuine question.
How do you have toddlers behave during church services?
Where is episode 1 please thank you ❤
Question? How do you explain to your adult children that how you raised them was wrong your sort but they need to do better
Did John bevere apologise to you Alec