What divorced women Go Through In Uswazi - Mombasa,Kenya

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  • @fantqsie4579
    @fantqsie4579 2 роки тому +19

    Wallahi everything you said ni true.. hii video nnacheka na nna huzunika at the same time. Alhamdullilah I have found love after divorce. The double standards are crushing us swahili women.. the worst enemies at this point after a divorce ni wanawake kwa family yako mwenyewe. Keep up the good work dear. May Allah bless you.

  • @bakedbymiha654
    @bakedbymiha654 2 роки тому +13

    I really admire your honesty, Alhamdulilah I’m happily married never been divorced but I appreciate your lesson on divorce . May Allah grant all of us happy marriages .

  • @restitutamutuku894
    @restitutamutuku894 2 роки тому +8

    Very bad to judge someone and thinking she is not worthy. And divorce woman should not be under looked. She knows why she walked out. Support them.

  • @didamuhammad9944
    @didamuhammad9944 Рік тому +4

    Man! Just discovered your videos but my sister.....you talking alot of sense.

  • @hajjihadhrajeee1523
    @hajjihadhrajeee1523 Рік тому +5

    Dah sister mimi ni mwanaume ila maneno unayo ongea ni hundred percent ukweli kabisa tuna wachukulia wanawake walio achwa kama toys na Jamiii nayo inazidi kuwa let down na maneno watching from Sweden 🇸🇪

  • @timamuhamad9391
    @timamuhamad9391 2 роки тому +7

    I know what you mean dear it's so sad how people judge other women.

  • @shushu-3788
    @shushu-3788 2 роки тому +7

    Hiyo stori ya kustiriwa.... that touched me. Kwani who are we? Used good tustiriwe? Girl, that hit a nerve.
    Good info, we need to hear this.

  • @muniraawadh2982
    @muniraawadh2982 2 роки тому +6

    Umegonga ndipo mwanangu..keep on good work..love you princess 👸 😘 💖

  • @mrsawadh5716
    @mrsawadh5716 2 роки тому +6

    Kweli maneno yako .. Nawaombea wote wanaopitia wakati mgumu ..mungu awafanyie wepesi na mupate waume wenye kheri na nyinyi🤲🏻

  • @marshaly8473
    @marshaly8473 2 роки тому +3

    Kweli kabisa i like your videos are motivation big hugs 🤗 from Madrid Spain 🇪🇦

  • @aliabdallah2888
    @aliabdallah2888 2 роки тому +3

    A.Aleikum honey dis is umufarida may Allah akulinde akuhifadhi mpaka kiyama very true am here darling i know

  • @gogwa
    @gogwa Рік тому +1

    Oh you're for real? No filters! Respect

  • @bammboomm7763
    @bammboomm7763 2 роки тому +4

    MashaAllah nice talk dear it will help alot of people who are going through divorce and tough times in their marriages.

  • @kenstudios
    @kenstudios Рік тому

    It takes a lot of courage to talk about this topic and I applaud you for talking about it. You're helping a lot of people who fear talking about this. Thank you for your openness

  • @justinamusyoka4986
    @justinamusyoka4986 2 роки тому +4

    I pray every parent to empower their girls,young women get it hard in the male dominated world ,who even want to take advantage of them.

  • @zserlim4715
    @zserlim4715 2 роки тому +1

    Yani Nuru Nuru Nuru @afrolanka👏👏 walai dis video is educative sanaaaaa kwa alot of divorce woman..... jazakAllah khyr 😘 thou am not divorce but wat dis divorce woman go thru in our Swahili community is traumatizing na many get into depression bila kujijua...... we nid more of these educative lyf experience vlogs

  • @ilhamm1606
    @ilhamm1606 Рік тому

    Well said. You have highlighted a lot of our fears especially as a woman,now i understand why i always felt the need to work harder. Good advise

  • @jamal21ma
    @jamal21ma 2 роки тому +3

    AAWW Mashallah, Tabarakallah you nailed it Sis...❤❤❤👍

  • @MohamedAli-ly7jo
    @MohamedAli-ly7jo 2 роки тому

    I'm in North America but love everything about you am msa BOY

  • @hamisisalmah8764
    @hamisisalmah8764 Рік тому

    Ihv subscribed ilove how you talk ma Sha Allah weeh ilike the way utalk and how fluent uko kwa both languages 😮ni ukweli huo wa unmarried women kukuwa abit choosy iam 35 mimi neva married na bado stigma ni io io katka huo uswazi

  • @zahramohamed5095
    @zahramohamed5095 Рік тому +1

    Wow you have been through a lot which makes you stronger. May Allah make it easy for you. Good for you women need to be independent.

  • @aminafauz1643
    @aminafauz1643 Місяць тому

    My dear
    Umesema kweli kabisaa
    Am a victim too just like you

  • @فاطمةفايز-غ1غ
    @فاطمةفايز-غ1غ 2 роки тому +1

    When one door is shut..onother blessing door is open for U..24/7 ..(blessed door)

  • @فاطمةفايز-غ1غ
    @فاطمةفايز-غ1غ 2 роки тому

    Surely it's is a blessing when U believe in Ur self..and beige in allaah..I'm now working and have my own flow of money..thnx Allaah..

  • @hajbibee1886
    @hajbibee1886 2 роки тому +2

    JazakAllah Khair dear sister. It is so sad and draining. Thank you so much for the encouraging words of wisdom 💕

  • @husnaahmed4404
    @husnaahmed4404 2 роки тому +3

    Walahi you are hilarious 😀😀

  • @fahimaramadhan9348
    @fahimaramadhan9348 2 роки тому +2

    Very very true. These are are the real assumptions about divorced women by coastal people. It really hurts

  • @mohammadalibhose968
    @mohammadalibhose968 2 роки тому

    Masha'Allah.... I am proud of you .. ONE of our own, I like your expresion & language. You look like inteligent , Underdtanding full of "FIQHI" & Wisdom.....
    Hio kwako KUSAFIRI bila shaka unao exposure.... Elimu yako muhimu IWAFAE na wengine......
    Masha'Allah keep it up TOTOO ( mjukuu wangu).

  • @ummyazizkimaro6378
    @ummyazizkimaro6378 2 роки тому +1

    I must say you are so strong and thank you for opening our minds

  • @edithoketch2235
    @edithoketch2235 3 місяці тому +1

    Sadly we talk of divorce when we watch on tv that couple commiting murder suicide.
    But not when one walks out before it gets to that.

  • @swabrinahussein4491
    @swabrinahussein4491 2 роки тому +4

    Maa shaa Allah ❤ so emotional
    I really like your content habbty 🥰

  • @abakadionks
    @abakadionks 2 роки тому +1

    Mashaallah your so beautiful. Thanks for this video. I really needed to hear this and thanks again for tonight live. It was amazing talking about what women go through during and after pregnancy

  • @suek4616
    @suek4616 Рік тому

    This talk helped me alot!!!! you have no idea. Thank you so much!

  • @fatmarashidkassim7849
    @fatmarashidkassim7849 2 роки тому +3

    Mashallah nice topic u nailed it...

  • @officially_youngmammy
    @officially_youngmammy 8 місяців тому

    Wallai i feel you keep your standard

  • @wahidamohamed6641
    @wahidamohamed6641 2 роки тому +3

    U nailed it gal!!!

  • @ShabanaLokhandwala-xv7ui
    @ShabanaLokhandwala-xv7ui 6 місяців тому

    Very good mee too divorced

  • @Shamsjivanji
    @Shamsjivanji 2 роки тому +3

    Mashallah u nailed it.nice content.

  • @drfyoungesq1190
    @drfyoungesq1190 Рік тому

    Asalaamu Alaikum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakaktuhu. Beautifully Brilliant presentation spoke from a Woman that has and understands Deen. Bless you and you have blessings for this truly Islamic message that embodies the reality of our Deen, our way of life! Bless you. Your message will touch and soothe the hearts of many and awaken all to the reality of a Woman and the wisdom and strength of a Woman. Paradise truly lays at the foot of a Woman. Peace.

  • @husnas.7772
    @husnas.7772 2 роки тому +1

    The long awaited video aaahh channy thanks for this video!! Niko na kahwa yangu na keki I'm ready!!

  • @aishasuleiman6146
    @aishasuleiman6146 Рік тому

    Kweli maneno yako 👌🏻

  • @mariamtumwebaze389
    @mariamtumwebaze389 7 місяців тому

    Ohhhhh sorry darling nakuelewa vizuli ❤❤❤❤

  • @shlmhd7386
    @shlmhd7386 Рік тому

    Thank u for sharong with us ur history

  • @cellobeauty6567
    @cellobeauty6567 Рік тому

    ..u r a strong human

  • @sarahmbayire8332
    @sarahmbayire8332 2 роки тому

    Asalam alaikum sister, many thanks for opening up, alhamudillah am happy you got another chance. I would really like to see you in camera in Kampala.

  • @mesaidiali5649
    @mesaidiali5649 2 роки тому

    MashAllah MashAllah dadaa you have nailed it Allah akibariki utupe nice contents..♥️♥️🥰🥰🥰

  • @mohamedsidi5097
    @mohamedsidi5097 Рік тому +3

    first marriage arranged...second marriage lack of proper decision making and life experience....

  • @Atemij
    @Atemij Рік тому

    wish you had subtitles for the Swahili parts.

  • @mrsawadh5716
    @mrsawadh5716 2 роки тому +1

    Mwanamke jitho mashAllah

  • @aishaabdalla4254
    @aishaabdalla4254 2 роки тому

    Subhanallah kila kitu unacho sema ni kweli kabisa. Blah blah blah lakini ikiwa una pesa hata ukaachwa mara 20 watu kimya na kila mtu ataka uolewe na mwanae. Thank you for this toppic

  • @muznarashid8181
    @muznarashid8181 2 роки тому +1

    Wallah uko bright mno huniy

  • @swalhaomar9723
    @swalhaomar9723 2 роки тому +3

    MashAllah
    You nailed it habibty...
    Thank you so much...

  • @SaidaBukheit
    @SaidaBukheit Рік тому

    Channy lee hapo pa ushuzi waaah 21:54

  • @thiyahmohammed7836
    @thiyahmohammed7836 2 роки тому +3

    It's sad hii culture yetu ya uswahilini it's vry toxic kwa kila kona iwe hujaolewa ukiachwa pande zote

    • @justinamusyoka4986
      @justinamusyoka4986 2 роки тому

      The purpose of this conversations is to create that understanding and change the narrative.Marriage is not a life and death thing.

  • @hubuumohamed3524
    @hubuumohamed3524 Рік тому

    You are very honest

  • @jacquelinekavita7289
    @jacquelinekavita7289 2 роки тому +4

    So much sense. Thanks dear sister for such informative video mashaAllah may Allah bless you.

  • @danyahjudahisrael4608
    @danyahjudahisrael4608 Рік тому

    People always say take your time find yourself. Why should you have to do all this stuff if you know who you are and you know what you want you don't have to change yourself musical change the person that you're being with let them do to change it.

  • @mohamedshee4297
    @mohamedshee4297 Рік тому

    Nice

  • @a.856
    @a.856 2 роки тому +1

    Thanks alot dear👏

  • @fatmabashamakh554
    @fatmabashamakh554 2 роки тому +1

    Love you cuzo you so strong n m so proud of yooou like i really look up to you chanu

  • @salhajumaan7580
    @salhajumaan7580 2 роки тому +27

    Not every divorce is a disaster sometimes a divorce is a blessing

  • @shushu-3788
    @shushu-3788 2 роки тому +3

    Cant wait for part 2. Cheers to you and your found happiness. May you continue to flourish

  • @maimunaomar7774
    @maimunaomar7774 2 роки тому +4

    MashaAllah,,nice content for uswazi girls like us...nimelearn alot

  • @rukiyamohammed2092
    @rukiyamohammed2092 2 роки тому

    This video... Is everything,

  • @fatmahamesa2449
    @fatmahamesa2449 2 роки тому +2

    dadang miezi Sita mimeng mimi miwili na ni mtoto WA mjombang

  • @fatmalali1874
    @fatmalali1874 4 місяці тому

    nikwe sana

  • @umarbinalhassan9727
    @umarbinalhassan9727 2 роки тому

    Mashaallah! May Allah gives you long life insha'Allah! ... Natamani Sana kukuona live ukiwa Mombasa .. natamani Sana. Good content.

  • @shamsabakthir8011
    @shamsabakthir8011 2 роки тому

    Ukweli kabisa👍

  • @recipeesbyzee3454
    @recipeesbyzee3454 2 роки тому +1

    🤣🤣🤣🤣 hapo Kwa kazi sasaa

  • @MohamedAli-ly7jo
    @MohamedAli-ly7jo 2 роки тому

    some of us we wish to find a woman like you

  • @nyashgerald3585
    @nyashgerald3585 2 роки тому

    We ❤️ u too ma'am nice topic and quet interesting 🙏

  • @saeedaabeid9139
    @saeedaabeid9139 2 роки тому

    Nice topic MashaAllah...it really touched ❤me

  • @aboudal-nabahany5338
    @aboudal-nabahany5338 2 роки тому

    MashaAllah nice story 👌

  • @pharoah-ahmose6075
    @pharoah-ahmose6075 2 роки тому +1

    New subscriber 😏

  • @ruu6592
    @ruu6592 2 роки тому +1

    Wengine we are widow but is just the same

  • @fatmaabbas902
    @fatmaabbas902 2 роки тому

    Emotional story. 😞

  • @amirmohamed2729
    @amirmohamed2729 Рік тому

    Hio shida yako

  • @rozina2161
    @rozina2161 2 роки тому +2

    Am new subscriber nipeni likes

  • @a.856
    @a.856 2 роки тому +1

    U r ✅️

  • @smoothc2422
    @smoothc2422 2 роки тому

    Hello sister I enjoy your show you are beautiful and very smart with that be said. I have request if you can help me. I just moved to Mombasa a year ago. I'm a young men looking to meet my soulmate. I live alone and I am tried being alone. I'm looking for beautiful girl to build a family with. Can you help me found my match please....thank you

  • @cutecute5269
    @cutecute5269 2 роки тому

    Sah lisanik Habibty

  • @فاطمةفايز-غ1غ
    @فاطمةفايز-غ1غ 2 роки тому +1

    I can assure u..by the name of God..85% of women who are independent are divorced women..they know how to hurdle for their life..divorce is not a crime..ists a Golden prime
    To move on with next level of life..Blv in Ur self

  • @mosmart4718
    @mosmart4718 2 роки тому

    That’s why Allah says and stresses on the people of the book. It’s always difficult to deal with people who don’t believe in a creator. Most of the conflicts come from the differences in faith plus cultural differences.

  • @ashaiswana3534
    @ashaiswana3534 2 роки тому

    Ohh thanks for encouraging words,I almost commit suicide,me and my son because of those hatred words

  • @mailtony5958
    @mailtony5958 2 роки тому

    hizo lens buana !! 😝

  • @emmanuelayata9301
    @emmanuelayata9301 2 роки тому +3

    But your eyes today are very scary

  • @haniamohammed6890
    @haniamohammed6890 2 роки тому

    True

  • @sambaclub1
    @sambaclub1 2 роки тому

    AA. R u still divorced

  • @fatmahamesa2449
    @fatmahamesa2449 2 роки тому

    same year same problem 🤣🤣🤣bt alhamdulillah

  • @ashamohamedbandal4137
    @ashamohamedbandal4137 2 роки тому

    Why not telling the parents to teach there daughters to be obedient to their husbands. Cause wanawake skuizi kiguu na njia

  • @khalidmbarak3242
    @khalidmbarak3242 2 роки тому

    halo

  • @Simply-mariah2
    @Simply-mariah2 2 роки тому

    Hio macho weuh

  • @mohamedtaib5614
    @mohamedtaib5614 2 роки тому

    How u date and ending wanting to marry a Buddhist. Ur lucky .wako wengi hawana bahati. Good luck.

  • @maslahcade6118
    @maslahcade6118 2 роки тому

    ilove you beady waye

  • @ekasasimba7106
    @ekasasimba7106 2 роки тому +1

    Halo Nuru MISHI MEMSAP HAPA..if it ain't serious let it go.relationship is two not one...one is only ALLAH

    • @afrolanka
      @afrolanka  2 роки тому +1

      Hey Mishi. Thank u. I miss u girl. Gv me ur Instagram username

    • @ekasasimba7106
      @ekasasimba7106 2 роки тому

      @@afrolanka you really inspire me girl.will just Whatsapp...am so antisocial...Thank God you passed your storms..

  • @bint3asal597
    @bint3asal597 2 роки тому

    Dts does count agd amarriage

  • @danyahjudahisrael4608
    @danyahjudahisrael4608 Рік тому

    I I accept that she's a divorced woman. Because I am a divorced man.

  • @bint3asal597
    @bint3asal597 2 роки тому

    Wat if the husband does fulfill all ur needs physically at all and financially

    • @bint3asal597
      @bint3asal597 2 роки тому

      @@afrolanka I haven't get a divorce

  • @فاطمةفايز-غ1غ
    @فاطمةفايز-غ1غ 2 роки тому +1

    What I can tell divorce women..get out of ur shelter..look for a work..never give up.."what a man can do..a woman can do" be a woman of ur own power..

  • @SheedLordBear
    @SheedLordBear Рік тому

    You are married but wearing your hair out. And you seem to have alot of sass with you. Like these ladies from the west.