*"Everything in life is easier when you don't concern yourself with what other people are doing."* The chances of you seeing this comment is pretty low, but if you did, *I hope you have an amazing day.* 🖤
@theemperorspenguin you're logic is pretty pathetic. Obviously that example is not what he was saying..as in if you just focus on yourself and don't see how people are judjing you then you'll find things easier. I'm sorry, but you're example and understanding was very silly
*“You can't go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending”* Please stop obsessing with what happened in the past and *focus on building a great future for yourself.* I hope you have a great day. 🖤
As a quiet guy, who also struggles with this sort of thing. Couldn't of dropped this at a better time. Confidence is involved in everything, friends, family, life, medicine it's mad
It’s the sunglasses for me 😎😎 loved your interpretation of confidence - I filmed video with this title last week! I agree confidence comes from being good at things, whether it be sport, speaking, academia etc. If you practice your craft, youll build confidence
I’ve struggled with confidence for a while and I realised the biggest issue for me Was the ‘spotlight effect’. After being aware of this I’ve come far in terms in my own self image and self confident. As always, banging video Anas.
Yes! My insecurities were what's stopping me from being confident so I worked on those. Like my language barrier back when I moved here to Canada. By talking more in the language and immersing myself, as my pronunciation got better so did my confidence in speaking it! Definitely applicable in any aspect as you perfectly explained
confidence is trial and error, you gotta get a mindset that tells you that the opinions of others don't matter (of course not every opinion should be denied) and then try to live it out, externalize it. And you will become better at this over time. It's similar to weightlifting if you think about it.
Which is why activities such as weightlifting and other things build your confidence cos they teach you skills that become apparent in your personality. Honestly for A man all you need is lowkey a gym and ur confidence can skyrocket. Anything in the mind and soul that can be built up will increase general.confidence
Most other channels would just list down things like they're saying a speech but the way you explain it deeply in simpler words is what make this channel and Anas unique and awesome
mashallah the quality and level of incite on ur vids is mad akhi. A lot of youtubers its all abt aesthetics with 0 meaning. But u on the other hand provide a lot of substance and aesthetics too. profound and well scripted what u said. quality vid lad
I would reward you with a warm hug 🥺🥰 for making us better our lives because of your informative videos. Haven't met a quiet, yet humble person like you in this platform.
I have been following Anas for a while now since I became a UA-camr myself and this is a deep insight on confidence..I need to put in the 10,000 hours if I really want to get to that level..Thanks for sharing your knowledge and wisdom bro 🙏
Thankyou. I really need to hear this. To be honest I was on the verge of losing myself recently..I was in what you mentioned a lie of 'i have no ability' resulting from unfair comparison. As you mentioned Mozart had a musical background so for him to adapt to music was perhaps a more natural transition. You see I also shifted countries as you mentioned and although I am normally a confident and social person..those aspects of mine began to shut down when people were no longer interacting in the same language as me (not literally) I disregarded my own abilities and began to chase what they had (fit in survival instinct kicked in) until a lot of unfair comparison and injustic to myself led me to believe I did not have any worthwhile abilities. It took me time to recognise that the field was never plane...my learning gap was a lot larger there was no way I could fill it in the same speed and same way as everyone else. So I decided to be human! and I am glad I did because I can breath again without feeling like I am falling behind. I have decided to flex my muscles at the back of the pack until I work my way up to the top. Everyone starts from zero right? The ability to learn means we can bridge the gaps and self-confidence is a part of the journey.
Hey Anas, thanks for another motivating video-as Ali Abdaal quotes from someone, "What is obvious to you, can be amazing to others." These kind of vids really help some people!
Heya Anas .. that was the perfect timing for dropping this video .. I was losing confidence .. but this truly boosted me. I am going to prioritise my academics and my health as for now. Thanks man 💯
This video deserves so much more hype, love, & all that. its amazing. you articulate yourself so well Anas! using some of your quotes for my next episode about confidence vs ego & why we care so much about what people think about us.. :)
Back at your very best with this video...didn’t enjoy the last coupe of videos that you had put out; but this one is just too good bro. Thanks for sharing this with us.
*Once you decide your lifes purpose, you will only have to pack one thing: "Your Heart."* The chances of you seeing this comment is pretty low, but if you did, *I hope you have an amazing day.* 🖤
Being confident takes a lot. People don't realise it. You have to learn to not absorb everyone's opinion of you. And realise people react based on how they feel. Getting out of your confort zone you have to be okay with rejection. And even when you think you may have mastered it another thing will hit. Either you let it sway you or you keep going.
Thank you man I was struggling with confidence especially in regards to A levels, I am finding the content alright/interesting but for some reason I keep holding myself back that I can't do it in my heart it feels like there is internal resistance and a hole in my heart..
Sorry for the irrelevant comment Dr Ali... Studying by default is really one of the hardest thing for me. It would be real nice if you do Video explaining on this topic. Thank you very much in advance if you do : )
Sir Anas, anyone who has that hair is going to already have a leg up in the race to being confident. 😊 You do make some good points here, which is why one-to-one comparisons of our experiences aren't necessarily fair. We have to grow and develop the things we want with the hand circumstances and resources we have access to.
I have a problem with prioritise part. There are so many activities I like doing and I can't focus on just one of them. Because of that I know so many things but I'm not an expert in anything and that makes me feel worthless.
Have you read Outliers by Malcolm Gladwell? The thing you said about Mozart's circumstances and 10,000 hours is mentioned in that book with examples of other successful people (The Beatles, BIll Gates, Steve Jobs, etc.)
The Beatles released 13 studio albums and other projects in 7 years. Seven freaking years! Mind blowing. I think that rule only works when you do it in a short period of time like The Beatles timeline.
The trick is to never be emotional about things out of your control. Once you adopt the "it is what it is" mindset, you'll be free
This is the mantra
It izzz what it izz
yes, yes, yessss i've been thinking about this a lot lately
But again, human are emotional being. To me, acknowledge the emotion, and move on fast... (Yeah sometimes easier said than done)
What is it is what it is
“Rule 1: The actions of confidence come first; the feelings of confidence come later.” - Russ Harris, The Confidence Gap
So true
Beautiful words
*"Everything in life is easier when you don't concern yourself with what other people are doing."*
The chances of you seeing this comment is pretty low, but if you did, *I hope you have an amazing day.* 🖤
Just saw your comments at lana's channel..
So if I see a thief stealing a grandma's purse , I shouldn't concern myself and be like " it's none of my business anyway " ? Nonsensical quote .
@theemperorspenguin you're logic is pretty pathetic. Obviously that example is not what he was saying..as in if you just focus on yourself and don't see how people are judjing you then you'll find things easier. I'm sorry, but you're example and understanding was very silly
its you again
*“You can't go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending”*
Please stop obsessing with what happened in the past and *focus on building a great future for yourself.* I hope you have a great day. 🖤
Facts 💯
This hit me hard on the face thanks bud❤
bro, u just made my life easier
Ma sha Allah ❤️❤️
What we need is a collab with you, ThatMedic, KharmaMedic, and Ali Abdaal
Yessss why hasn't this happened already.....
Yed
Yessir
@@aliabdaal yed
@@aliabdaal aahh can't wait! My calendar is ready to be updated.
Confident to me is someone who doesn't act on peoples opinion but on how they feel
👌
As a quiet guy, who also struggles with this sort of thing. Couldn't of dropped this at a better time.
Confidence is involved in everything, friends, family, life, medicine it's mad
Glad you liked this broski
@@AnasNuurAli I sure did man.
Hope all's going well for you
It’s the sunglasses for me 😎😎 loved your interpretation of confidence - I filmed video with this title last week! I agree confidence comes from being good at things, whether it be sport, speaking, academia etc. If you practice your craft, youll build confidence
I appreciate that. Topic is definitely more nuanced I decided to focus on just a small bit o it
I’ve struggled with confidence for a while and I realised the biggest issue for me Was the ‘spotlight effect’. After being aware of this I’ve come far in terms in my own self image and self confident. As always, banging video Anas.
*If you are reading this, never ever give up. We will succeed. I'm cheering for you!*
Have a great day! 🖤
That's what I've learned from my 20 year old self:
Do not judge yourself by the words and opinions of others.
Yes! My insecurities were what's stopping me from being confident so I worked on those. Like my language barrier back when I moved here to Canada. By talking more in the language and immersing myself, as my pronunciation got better so did my confidence in speaking it! Definitely applicable in any aspect as you perfectly explained
Confidence is being content with what you have.
💯
@@AnasNuurAli Yes
confidence is trial and error, you gotta get a mindset that tells you that the opinions of others don't matter (of course not every opinion should be denied) and then try to live it out, externalize it. And you will become better at this over time. It's similar to weightlifting if you think about it.
Which is why activities such as weightlifting and other things build your confidence cos they teach you skills that become apparent in your personality. Honestly for A man all you need is lowkey a gym and ur confidence can skyrocket. Anything in the mind and soul that can be built up will increase general.confidence
Most other channels would just list down things like they're saying a speech but the way you explain it deeply in simpler words is what make this channel and Anas unique and awesome
I became more confident when i stepped out of my comfort zone regularly
*Let me know if you can relate* 😅😅
mashallah the quality and level of incite on ur vids is mad akhi. A lot of youtubers its all abt aesthetics with 0 meaning. But u on the other hand provide a lot of substance and aesthetics too. profound and well scripted what u said.
quality vid lad
A beautiful mixture of comforting and inspiring (the music selections were on point).
Core moral lesson: Practice makes perfect, so please just continue doing what you love consistently.
I never needed this video more than now
Same
I actually really needed this video... been feeling kinda inadequate lately, and having problems with imposter syndrome. Thanks, Anas :)
I just love the way you talk .....can listen to you for hours all together ❤️......the flow in your speech is sooo good.
Thank you !
I would reward you with a warm hug 🥺🥰 for making us better our lives because of your informative videos. Haven't met a quiet, yet humble person like you in this platform.
Muslims from the UK are like that 😊
This video was better than all videos that I've watched in YT. Very helpful.
love ur content keep grinding bro
Support me bro 😅😅😅
Your energy is great man. Always glad to click this video and get inspired. Keep up the good work Anas!
This video is so worthful to watch
Who else sees this video as being posted at the perfect time for them?
You've been making many lives evolve since you started this yt channel 😍💫
🙏🙏🙏
Got so much value and I even feel more confident watching this video!
Another top quality video from you. So nice to watch
I’m is Wisconsin,USA, and I appreciate your channel. Blessings always🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿😎😎
🙏🙏
From 'Sir can please go to the toilet' to 'yo ima head out, be back real quick'
I have been following Anas for a while now since I became a UA-camr myself and this is a deep insight on confidence..I need to put in the 10,000 hours if I really want to get to that level..Thanks for sharing your knowledge and wisdom bro 🙏
Thankyou. I really need to hear this. To be honest I was on the verge of losing myself recently..I was in what you mentioned a lie of 'i have no ability' resulting from unfair comparison. As you mentioned Mozart had a musical background so for him to adapt to music was perhaps a more natural transition. You see I also shifted countries as you mentioned and although I am normally a confident and social person..those aspects of mine began to shut down when people were no longer interacting in the same language as me (not literally) I disregarded my own abilities and began to chase what they had (fit in survival instinct kicked in) until a lot of unfair comparison and injustic to myself led me to believe I did not have any worthwhile abilities. It took me time to recognise that the field was never plane...my learning gap was a lot larger there was no way I could fill it in the same speed and same way as everyone else. So I decided to be human! and I am glad I did because I can breath again without feeling like I am falling behind. I have decided to flex my muscles at the back of the pack until I work my way up to the top. Everyone starts from zero right? The ability to learn means we can bridge the gaps and self-confidence is a part of the journey.
We appreciate what your doing, honestly
For me confidence is not being influenced by external factors and doing something because you WANT to do it rather than what people want you to do.
"how to become confident" - just start a successful youtube channel while also becoming a doctor
hahahaha
You are one of my favorite UA-camrs. I learn so much from you
Hey Anas, thanks for another motivating video-as Ali Abdaal quotes from someone,
"What is obvious to you, can be amazing to others."
These kind of vids really help some people!
I just want to thank you for the kind of videos you made. thanks!
Extremely informative and well put Ideas that speaks to many.
Amazing video as always Anas and congrats on 250k!
Heya Anas .. that was the perfect timing for dropping this video .. I was losing confidence .. but this truly boosted me.
I am going to prioritise my academics and my health as for now.
Thanks man 💯
My man had a whole glow up😎
This video deserves so much more hype, love, & all that. its amazing. you articulate yourself so well Anas! using some of your quotes for my next episode about confidence vs ego & why we care so much about what people think about us.. :)
Great video! All my thoughts were deciphered by this video 👍🏽
The timing tho🌸👍🏽
Smashed it Anas, congrats on 250k too!
*“If you fulfill your obligations everyday you don't need to worry about the future.”*
― Jordan Peterson
Back at your very best with this video...didn’t enjoy the last coupe of videos that you had put out; but this one is just too good bro. Thanks for sharing this with us.
The confidence in the title you already know it's a banger
Really like your videos! Just created my own channel, and am filming my first video as we speak. You have inspired me. Keep it up 💪🏼
Every Comment is Hearted! 💖😍
great youtuber wallahi
You are my favourite inspirational person brother ....love from INDIA ✈️PHILIPPINES MEDICO
*Once you decide your lifes purpose, you will only have to pack one thing: "Your Heart."*
The chances of you seeing this comment is pretty low, but if you did, *I hope you have an amazing day.* 🖤
Why haven't you got more likes for this video!!!
So informative
Now i will become confident after watching this and be able to climb trees
Love you my boy and keep doing as makes you happier
🙏🙏
Hey you have helped me so much and now I am a new and improved person
Same here
Ah I’m really glad to hear that!
OMGGG , you are amaziiing ♥️♥️♥️
Thanks a lot for saying thattt
Being confident takes a lot. People don't realise it. You have to learn to not absorb everyone's opinion of you. And realise people react based on how they feel. Getting out of your confort zone you have to be okay with rejection. And even when you think you may have mastered it another thing will hit. Either you let it sway you or you keep going.
Thanks very must for the video
Imma be watching this again as find this video really helpful for me.
Absolutely amazing content seriously keep up the good work man 🙏
Thank you man I was struggling with confidence especially in regards to A levels, I am finding the content alright/interesting but for some reason I keep holding myself back that I can't do it in my heart it feels like there is internal resistance and a hole in my heart..
I just moved to the UK from Sweden at the age of 15 and I am Eritrean as well
Consistency 🔥
Cmonnn
Sorry for the irrelevant comment Dr Ali... Studying by default is really one of the hardest thing for me. It would be real nice if you do Video explaining on this topic. Thank you very much in advance if you do : )
250k subs, Congrats my guy!
Fet video brorsan big ups 🙌🙌
Thank you, this really helped me.
Thanks for this, struggling with confidence right now. Nice wardrobe btw
Sir Anas, anyone who has that hair is going to already have a leg up in the race to being confident. 😊 You do make some good points here, which is why one-to-one comparisons of our experiences aren't necessarily fair. We have to grow and develop the things we want with the hand circumstances and resources we have access to.
Bro!!! You are an inspirational
I moved from Asia to Europe, this was a huge change for me... it was not the first time that i moved to another place tho!
Awesome video Anas. I've been thinking of making a very similar video and this popped up! Keep it up man
Good job
You are such an inspiration
I literally found it in good time thank you ~
Ur the goat anas keep going strong 💪. Btw loved the vid
فديو محفز جدا ماشاء الله شكرا لك .
Love your vids! I miss day in life can you please make more!! :)))
Thank you for sharing your story 🙂
1. We are all human.
2. Prioritize your purpose.
Love it! Also you’re so eloquent:)
I have a problem with prioritise part. There are so many activities I like doing and I can't focus on just one of them. Because of that I know so many things but I'm not an expert in anything and that makes me feel worthless.
عظمه يسطا
Interesting video mate
Have you read Outliers by Malcolm Gladwell? The thing you said about Mozart's circumstances and 10,000 hours is mentioned in that book with examples of other successful people (The Beatles, BIll Gates, Steve Jobs, etc.)
The Beatles released 13 studio albums and other projects in 7 years. Seven freaking years! Mind blowing. I think that rule only works when you do it in a short period of time like The Beatles timeline.
MaaShaaAllaah MaaShaaAllaah Laa Quwwata illaah billaah ☝🏼☝🏼☝🏼☝🏼☝🏼
Absolutely loved this... I liked it before even watching it😂
same!
Love this, resonated with this ⚡️
Thanks my bro!
اناس صديقي ، وفقك الله
You should write a book.. you are so interesting to listen too..
SO INSPIRATIONAL :)
🙏🙏
nice video anas
I love your content 😁
High quality content👌
Tysm for all of this 😢🙏