little me: having toxic parents, getting mentally abused, and thinking that's normal me now: thinking how much my parents fucked me up mentally and realizing how bad my childhood was I am so sorry for all of you guys. I hope everything will get better too. And i believe that parents are taking away their kids rights bc when they abuse us like this we cant say anything bc they think were giving attitude. But just know that i am here if you guys need to vent. Please stay safe and god bless
part of having daddy issues that isn't sexualized/romanticized: being jealous of someone who has a good, healthy, and close relationship with their dad
my mom tells me the same thing it’s hard to think my mom has to deal with him she doesn’t want to mess up our life by getting a divorce so she just does what he says
"She would rain all day couldn't wait her son to shine" My mates don't give up on your dreams achieve it every cost, girt your teeth and move forward.. Only after becoming successful in your respective life you can achieve the better life and better future and chin up cause we been through a lot but still survive till now...
This is one of those songs that feel like the singer is talking specifically to you, calling out every inch of your trauma to the point where you can't help but love the song.
*"Go ahead and cry little girl"* *"And if you were my little girl I'd do whatever I could do I'd run away and hide with you"* those words make me feel so safe.
Sometimes, I just like to turn the lights off until its completely dark, pop in my sound blocking earphones, then just listen to the song with my eyes closed. It hits different.
I heard this song first when it was Christmas and I still lived at home. The situation with my dad was worse than it ever had been. I cried the whole day and listened to this is the dark watching the fairy lights.
same he was supposed to start paying child support when they split but went off having a bunch of kids he can’t take care of either and his wife now had them all living in a van while he’s currently in prison they live with my aunt now but he can’t pay child support for me and can’t take care of his 4 kids
one of the worst feelings is to realize years later that your childhood was stolen from you. that you were forced to grow up faster than anyone because your parents were expecting you to
treating you like a child when it was convenient then being told to “grow up” when it wasn’t. I know the feeling. Sending all the love and condolences.
I remember when I was crying because I couldn’t take it anymore and my father said those exact words. I’m really emotional and he loves to use that against me 😃
@@deobimoomoo that sounds horrible and like humiliation i hope u are ok. im so sorry that happened to u if u need help pls reach out im always here if u need
If I’m being honest, I can relate to this song a lot. My mom got cheated on by my father and stuck with him for the sake of my younger sister and I. I was only 6 when my younger sister was born and at that time I already had to mature for the sake of my sister and so I could help my mom out. I’m honestly glad someone makes a song and thinks of people going through this. Whoever relates to this song, just know that we got through this and this just makes us stronger! 🫶🏻
My daughter showed me this song all I could do was cry. I'm a single mom and I do my best to make sure she knows she is loved and important. God bless all you single moms and single dads. I know there some dad's out there being a mom too. Keep your heads up. 🙏
Keep doing your best! All you can do for your kids is try your best. I'm sure you already do that, but I mean it more as an affirmation of sorts. You don't have to be perfect, you just have to try. I hope you have a wonderful rest of your week (and life)
leaving a comment here so whenever someone like it i will came back hear this song again and remembering myself that how strong i am when i can survive this type of situations single handedly at the age of 5 then rest of the problems is nothing for me .. to all the persons who is struggling this type of situations i just want to tell you that you are the strongrst person ever exists so always remember good times will come eventually bad time is just a short period of time .
Daddy issues reminder: Having a present father doesn't mean you have a good father You can get daddy issues from a stepdad You can get daddy issues from a non present father You shouldn't romanticise daddy issues
i have daddy issues with my present dad i never tell anyone he be littles my mom and have massive anger issues and its so hard because when my dad get so aggressive and i tell him he cant hit me he says we do it out of love i don’t understand i makes me so mad and sometimes i think if its better if my parents were better off getting a divorce
@@sabrinadiddib7317 hey i dont know you but i was in a very similar situation, and it ended in a bad way but at least its over now. your number one priority right now is yourself and the way i got help was by going to the doctors for my poor mental health - they will find a way to help you, even if you’re scared of getting someone in trouble, your safety ALWAYS comes first. stay safe, and take care of yourself :)
This hurts. Having a dad being at home and living with you but with zero presence, zero communication and no emotional support whatsoever. I despise him and it's sad.
my dad and mom were fighting once when I was 5 and my brother was 12 it was 9 at night I didn't have my dinner I was starving so I went into their room and asked my mom to feed me then my dad said "there we have this piece of shit, she was never planned, it would have been better if we aborted her" I still remember the EXACT SAME words. I didn't know what it meant then but when I turned 10 i found out what it actually meant I'm 14 now.
@@itssudhiksha7939 I can't believe this, there are people out there who want to have children so bad but they can't. BUT THIS PIECE OF SHIT who is your father ( l am sorry but he deserve it) didn't appreciate it or take responsibility for his actions I am sorry you went through this everyone deserve to be loved and appreciated if your father didn't It's not your fault and never think it is you still young life is a head of you keep going and love yourself and don't take BS from anyone girl you will shine one day and your father will regret it but it will be too late..
@@itssudhiksha7939 i am so sorry that you've been through this. It hurts so deep cuz you know he is your dad he is the supposed to help you and tell you sweet words, i know how it feels my father calls me a hoe/slut(unfortunately my dad is a narcissist) It makes you strong in a kinda toxic way, like when someone tells you: you are this or you are that it doesn't hurt that deep cuz you've already heard it from the most beloved ones.
I cried my eyeballs out when it was talking about the mom. My mom is a single mom and she’s my world I love her more than I can express and I appreciate her 10x more because of this song she made sure I had a better childhood than she did.I love you mom ❤
@@charlie-ip6lp (i love your profile 😏) but yeah, i agree. I wanna adopt but i wanna get a kid who like- know that they were adopted. The scariest thing is telling them they are adopted.
@@sophia-tn4co yeah i have mild tokophobia (fear of pregnancy) but i sorta do want kids but i'd probably adopt older ones, like around 7 or more, because the older kids get the less chance they have of adoption and that just really pisses me off
it genuinely makes me feel mad when people can be affectionate to their parents without feeling uncomfortable, i can't hug my parents without wanting to rip my own skin off from being so uncomfortable and because of that I feel selfish that seeing others who having loving families makes me feel so jealous because I never got that
My parents got divorced when i was a baby bc my dad was abusive to my mom and me. I don't know my dad but i met him once when i was 11. I didn't feel anything at that time bc i wasn't old enough to understand. And now i feel like i missed him.. i stalked his fb acc and i found my half siblings acc too. They seem way older than me. My dad is like 60 yo this year. I told my mom that i want to talk to him. She didn't allow me at first and then she said "im not stopping you. It's up to you. You're old enough now".
I told my half-sister (she has different dad) about it. And then she told me that maybe my mom don't want me to hurt. Bc as a father, he should have seen me first. I'm so confused.. Do you think i should see him or message him at least? Sorry for any grammar mistakes.
@@alyx5749 hii I hope you're doing okay! I'm so sorry to hear about what happened. I don't think I'm in the right position to tell you what to do but I have an abusive dad too, so I understand how difficult it can be to reach out or talk to him, especially when he's not really around that much. Like your mom suggested, it's really upto you but I think if you feel that reaching out to him might bring peace to your mind or may help you feel better, then you can reach out to him over text/call/ in person, whatever suits you. Although, if you think you aren't ready for that yet for whatever reason, then you can wait till you are ready because it probably will be a bit difficult. Remember that what happens after you reach out might not go as you want it to, so I suggest not keeping your hopes too high. I hope this helps! here's a virtual hug (⊃｡•́‿•̀｡)⊃
“ and she didn’t even take any drugs , she would rain all day , she couldn’t wait for her sun to shine & you made it shine , there when she cried .. you saved her life “ THAT HIT HARD .
this song puts me in tears bc my parents were inconsistent when i was a child. sometimes they were the kindest and others i would have to walk on eggshells and be the perfect little girl to appease them. i can't be mad at them bc i cling to the moments of pure happiness i have with them
THIS. my dad was either the best dad in the world or he'd yell at me for not being a perfect angel. and I totally feel invalid half the time cus it could be worse (and thanks for that mindset, mom)🥲
Why do i always feel like im alone in my trauma and no one would ever understand, and then im reminded that we are never alone in any pain. Im still stuck. I hope my parents let me live soon, but i really cant wait til i die. Be free
This song makes me so incredibly thankful for my dad. I go out of my way to tell him I appreciate him when I think about songs like this and how they represent real stories of real people.
i don't have daddy issues but this song never fails to make me cry. It's sick how people sexualize daddy issues. edit: to anyone replying me saying that people with daddy issues have daddy kinks,I'm clearly talking about those who DON'T have daddy issues and misunderstanding the phrase by confusing it with daddy kink.
ive never related to a song more. "daddy stuck around but he wasnt present, cheated on your mom but she never left him" its exactly what i went through and the "crazy what you would do for your friend" rlly hit me hard man
i am 13 rn but i just dont know if my dad is doing bad things to me. he is kind to me but also idk....he yells at my mom and my mom always wanted to divorce him but she cant....i just dont know if he is good or not
@@Maria-wr9di Aw I am so sorry Maria. I know how confusing it must be especially when you are very young. Nobody deserves to go through that. I have been there too. My dad would be very kind to me but emotionally abusive towards my mom. It sucks. I understand. Just try your best to not let it get to you. Pease take care of your mental health. You are more prone to depression, when you are living in a toxic environment. I really hope things get better as you grow up. Take care : )
@@Maria-wr9di I'm sorry i had not seen the comment but i hope your family and you yourself are doing okay. It gets hard these days and especially when one parent wants a divorce, but hey I'm not an expert and my honest opinion is that if they want too then they should. It doesnt matter on which one is bad and which ones good, thats a different subject but if they divorce the child wont have to grow up ill in any way, this is just my perspective of how i see it, i hope you eat and drink well tonight/today and make sure to know if no one told you this im proud of you and its fine to not be okay sometimes
Not always true though Sometimes mothers could just leave their child And even after all the years of abuse and therapy when I confronted her the only thing she said was it wasn't much big of deal and it really because that was the day I decided to forgive her and I regret it I regret it so much I regret coming alive to this world
"Do you miss him?" "Honestly I am not sure if I miss him or the version of him I made up in my mind" *big virtual hug besties* I am so proud of YOU. You've been so brave throughout, just keep fighting angels.
this hurts badly knowing that we made a version of our father in our mind and imagining what if he's around and cared for us, will we be a better version of ourselves? will we be more confident and happier? its toxic to have that but i guess that's what we can do, imagine.
i’m so happy to see a man treat my mom right and have a good relationship with his kid (my step dad) but it hurts because i wanted what he has with his child.
Thank you i hope you are happy too but if you would like to hear my story id be happy im still in my childhood but i cant do anything so read at your own risk • • • So right now im 11 my dad filled for divorce and regularly fight as he cheated on her when i was 5 and now i have a 2nd half sibling my mom tells me everything that is happening id rather act like i know nothing as somtimes its better to act then show because im scared id look weird and abnormal but stay strong if you are experiencing a bad time in your life.
I never realized how much these lyrics relate to my life, like it hurts to want to have a relationship with a parent that fucked up your whole life cause trauma and like you can’t because you look at them and can’t even call them your dad because of the shit they put you through and all those memories just there that will always be there and just never leaves
*the worst feeling is knowing your parents only stay together for you and your siblings sakes* edit: *thanks for the likes, I love u all, yeah I'm okay thanks for being concerned, I hope u guys are too x*
Yup.I know that they moved on already but they act like they’re still together. My moms had a new boyfriend for like 5 months now. She doesn’t know that I know abt it. And it’s also cause my dad cheated on her like 2/3 times. And a few more times but that was before I was born. And I remember getting out of karate practice and saw my mom nodding her head.cause my dad wasn’t responding or answering her calls. So she drove over to his apartment and he opened the door with fear all over her face. I walked in and she this random women sitting on his couch. (Keep in mind I was 9 and I knew what was happening)she looked at me and mom. And my dad stood there and said that she was his girlfriend and my mom turned around and left. I just looked at them with sadness and disappointment on my face. He tried to grab my arm and I just pulled it away and left.and I know that he’s done this before.
I added this song to my playlist and didn't really pay attention to the lyrics until now. I never related to a song this hard. This song got waaayy too personal for no reason & now I'm actually crying.
I actually feel happy when I see a happy married couple with their kids, because their kids don’t gotta deal with parent’s divorce and other stuff, like I kinda get jealous but glad for them at the same time
It’s scary how accurate the middle part of the song is. Perfectly explains what my mom and my siblings went through. I miss my dad a lot but it hurts how he made my mom go through depression and anxiety. I just wish I still had my goofy caring dad around
And he asks me why I don't trust anyone. Because my family broke me before my friends did, my family broke me before the first guy I opened up to did, my family broke me before I even realized how many issues I had
For my mom who raised her 3 children without our dad when he walked out the door with another woman... when everyone gave their backs to my mom and followed my dad because of his $$$. We lived off welfare and now we’re all educated with college careers and my dad beggs to see us after everything he put us through.... Mom I love you forever 💕
“He’s still your dad! You should love him!” If he is my dad then why does he mentally abuse me , why did he make me think that was what love meant? (edit: so i see we are all going thru the same shit, dont worry
“cheated on your mom but she never left him” when you realize your mom stayed with your father just to try to give you a normal childhood but yk they just kept fighting wich made everything even worse
This hits way too close to home. The line "daddy stuck around but he wasn't present", hurts because my dad is here physically just not emotionally. And my mom is just awful, she yells so much, she'll call me a disappointment, and just isn't the greatest but I still love her. And scrolling through the comments makes me feel less alone. It feels weird being 16 and relating to this song but it also feels nice like people understand me for once. Which I know is such "I'm a teenager nobody understands me" kinda thing to say but I genuinely mean it when I say I feel like this song and the comments understand me, and it's really comforting. Sorry, I overshared I just needed to vent, I guess.
I can relate to the things that you say, i am in the same situation. You know, having nobody emotionally by your side as a parent makes you feel like you are worthless. Because of how traumatized i am, i got epilepsy , anxiety and depression. I feel so lost. I can not trust anybody and take them in my life cause i feel like they can hurt me as well. If suicide wasn't a sin, i would be dead already.
thank u so much for sharing your story with us that is really brave. your mom shouldnt be saying those things to u its toxic and hurtful to your mental health its emotionally abusive and wrong. your feelings are valid and you are very strong and brave there are many resources if u would like me to name some i hope u are ok we support u
My relationship with my dad is so complicated. Some moments we talk and get along and then he ends up ruining it. I'm so scared of him yet I love him. I don't know myself tbh.
no same ): it hurts when i look at baby photos and how close we were, and how close he is with other peoples' kids that he treats them like and better than their own :/ i'm so sorry you have to through that. i hope it gets better
@@hayaszn yeah he's so close with my cousins and other kids and it hurts. Thank you for the condolences and i sincerely hope it gets better for you too
I have the same problem…he’s so supportive of me one minute and then degrading me in the next moment for the smallest mistake. Ever since I had my daughter, I stopped being his daughter and instead was just my child’s mom…he even said that my happiness is nothing in comparison to hers…
we r so happy for how far u have gone u r so strong for doing this alone everything will get better it takes time ❤️we all love u and reamber everyone goes through hard times and we r so happy u r here
@@bk7728 we r so happy for how far u have gone u r so strong for doing this alone everything will get better it takes time ❤️we all love u and reamber everyone goes through hard times and we r so happy u r here
People thinking having daddy issues, mommy issues, siblings issues, depression, anxiety and abusive past is cool..more like something to flex...no its not. Those who never faced it, y'all will never know what hell hole people have to go through. It's NOT something to be proud of. Having those issues is worse than death. Stop making them sound like needs. Edit: I'm happy that many of you agree with whatever I said :') Also, I'm really proud of each and every person who fought through entire thing and stands a ground. You're amazing. Always know, somebody cares for you even if it's at the other side of the world. And for people who weren't able to make it, you're angels. You did well. I hope universe blesses y'all with every happiness you deserve. And yes, you deserve the happiness, value, care, love and respect. Don't let someone tell otherwise. Have a great day :)
absolutely, as a person with a lot of mental issues and parental issues it's so frustrating to see people faking having issues like that to get clout or as an aesthetic which gives people who actually have them a harder time...
@@melissalove8185 I won't say sorry for whatever you went through and going through. Cause I know you're a warrior and one day you'll shine. More power to you :) Edit: also to all people who are going through hard times.
@@angel_khatiye0009 ikr. Every second person I see has depression..it makes me question about my own life now. Like do I even have issues? Or is it normal? Because of them, people who actually need help, get set aside. It really makes me sad and somewhat angry.
"almost divorced parents" is a whole another genre of pain and trauma EDIT: thank you to everyone who shared/ will share in the replies to this comment. truly made me believe that I'm not alone. hoping it will do the same for you
@@kimberlysalas5337bud, if a person probably halfway across the world from me relates to something I say, then maybe I'm not alone, but then neither are you. don't bother thinking otherwise. :)
"Respect your elder" the elders need to learn that respect goes both ways.
Ye
my friend you speak the language of facts
Well said, Well said.
fr
Facts
little me: having toxic parents, getting mentally abused, and thinking that's normal
me now: thinking how much my parents fucked me up mentally and realizing how bad my childhood was
I am so sorry for all of you guys. I hope everything will get better too. And i believe that parents are taking away their kids rights bc when they abuse us like this we cant say anything bc they think were giving attitude. But just know that i am here if you guys need to vent. Please stay safe and god bless
same. everytime I think about my childhood i realized how bad it was.
Same
The sad thing is the Trauma, that you have to/must/need to deal with it even at your adulthood....
@@Nancy-yg1kf frr
same here but mainly my mom. aha mommy issues B)
"I could see it on your face it was rough, left a bad taste on your tongue" hits different
RIGHTTTT
YEAH thats true
OMFG FRRRR
IKR ITS TOO SPECIFIC
I always cry to this song at night, like rn, those lyrics hit too close home...
"Cheated on your mom but she never left him"
It tore me apart cuz of how true it is in my case:(
It's OK pal apart from that I hope that you have a wonderful day ahead:)
same here❤️ it’ll be okay though!!
I'm so sorry 😔
same dawg
@@annam4490 I'm sorry
part of having daddy issues that isn't sexualized/romanticized:
being jealous of someone who has a good, healthy, and close relationship with their dad
T. H. I. S.
This
exactly omg
Thia is the one :(
I remember being so jealous at one time I wanted to cry...
"Daddy stuck around but he wasn't present" hits hard.
omg omg yes.
This
EL OH EL yeah it hurt
Fr
Fr but everyone still tells me to be happy I even have a dad
‘When you told me the whole story I felt like throwing up’
You would if you knew
may we all heal from the things we don’t talk about.
Here to listen
that hit hard
Mom already told me her story😔 I would actually die for my mother.
@@natally126 don't let it weigh on your soul. It's in the past now, your mama is doing better
X2
This song means so much to me. My dad broke my heart and disappointed me before any boy could.
I hope you heal from it ❤️
Yep, same here, and just as the song says, financially present but not emotionally, also alcoholic, cheated on my mom etc... It hurts.
samesame then he has the audacity to ask “why is your taste in man so poor?” Because I learned from you dude, you suck
Same
Same, i hope both of us heal from the trauma
this version sounds like he wrote it about my childhood :/
for real
same :’)
FR.
same 😐✨
Same
"She made sure you and your brother had more than she ever had growing up" this hits different 😭
it really did..
I cry every time I hear it
Basically my mom and my dad at me and my brother
yeah.
Fr...
"When you grow up don't you dare to marry a man like him" those are the words that my mom always tells me and my sister. Hits hard now that i grew up.
My mother tells me EVERYTIME....at this point I want to marry a woman Not a man..
my mom tells me the same thing it’s hard to think my mom has to deal with him she doesn’t want to mess up our life by getting a divorce so she just does what he says
@@alli86 same here it's just real hard dealing with an Person like him.
i hear those words ALL the time.
"She would rain all day couldn't wait her son to shine"
My mates don't give up on your dreams achieve it every cost, girt your teeth and move forward..
Only after becoming successful in your respective life you can achieve the better life and better future and chin up cause we been through a lot but still survive till now...
This is one of those songs that feel like the singer is talking specifically to you, calling out every inch of your trauma to the point where you can't help but love the song.
lyrics : 👨👩👧👦💔👩👧👦😭🙏🏻
instrument&vocals :☠️💋🧠🖤⛓💣
Oml agreed 👀💕✨
The beat makes me want to dance sexually and the lyrics make me cry
@@silly_bonesx JSGSHSHLPHFWNS I LOVE THIS COMMENT
@@silly_bonesx BAHSHSJKSKS
@@silly_bonesx ME TOO
“ daddy stuck around but he wasn’t present” that just… hit me with the truth…
I felt that
True, made me cry
bro sameee
My dad wasn't around until I was 10
Felt.
*"Go ahead and cry little girl"*
*"And if you were my little girl I'd do whatever I could do I'd run away and hide with you"* those words make me feel so safe.
same
same :))
Same
Same
F same!
Sometimes, I just like to turn the lights off until its completely dark, pop in my sound blocking earphones, then just listen to the song with my eyes closed. It hits different.
I do that with this song, and other songs, that hit a sad vibe. I do that when i need to cry, or when i'm having a panic or anxiety attack
doing it rn.
I heard this song first when it was Christmas and I still lived at home. The situation with my dad was worse than it ever had been. I cried the whole day and listened to this is the dark watching the fairy lights.
“left money in her hands”, he left nothing for us.
I had child support money from my dad and he was struggling to get it so we just stopped it cause he was broke
same he was supposed to start paying child support when they split but went off having a bunch of kids he can’t take care of either and his wife now had them all living in a van while he’s currently in prison they live with my aunt now but he can’t pay child support for me and can’t take care of his 4 kids
same lol
@@natalee6793 im so sorry. i hope things got better
@@Keylianar it’s not really the same but i hope he’s doing well!
It's so comfortable when artist make songs like they're talking to us and know what are we going through
I got so confused I thought I commented this not remembering a did lolll, W PFP
^^^
Yea I relate 1000% to this song
Mhm.
mhm
Most fathers broke their daughters heart before any guy could.
True facts right here..
true
Finally something that is not "the father is the daughter's first love blah blah blah"
Its sad but it's true
Facts and they still don’t realise 😕
“go ahead cry little girl” hits me so hard because my dad was never present
“daddy stuck around but he wasnt present” sounds familiar:(
I’m so sorry I hope your ok girl x
Meaning of this song
same tho my dad was always in the basement or he wouldn’t even pay attention. he sit on his computer or phone during dinner
unfortunately same...
Describe your life in one sentence....^
this song hits a lot more different when you have a father who's present financially but not emotionally/mentally.
Can you give me a review of this song?
My life 😩
“here have twenty bucks, have a nice life”
exactly
shii mans is barely even present 😮💨
"but he's still your dad !" yes thats the entire fucking problem
"But he's your dad! He loves you with all his heart!!! Stop being ungrateful people have it worse" like bro what?
most who have that and things similar is usually those who have both their parents and doesnt what its like
@@indo9176 i am SOOOO grateful that i grew up with an abusive father 💃💃💃
@@shellymcd9243 nah they finally divorced like 2 years ago
Omg exactly & they don't get it
“daddy stuck around but he wasn’t present” makes me tear up every time
Ppl rlly be like: “you act so mature for your age” nah I just went through adult shit as a kid
Same ppl act like it’s a good thing
mhm
Forreall
I hope you’re doing okay though :) all of you
my grandma just told me that last week , she doesnt know what her son is doing to me and my little brother
this version hurts more than the original version :(.
the remix part makes me cry every time :/.
Fr though
hurts as bitch🥀
@@deadmihana same
@the blue loser omg yesss
one of the worst feelings is to realize years later that your childhood was stolen from you.
that you were forced to grow up faster than anyone because your parents were expecting you to
treating you like a child when it was convenient then being told to “grow up” when it wasn’t. I know the feeling. Sending all the love and condolences.
True
yeah, sadly. :(.
pov: the oldest child ;)
Feel ya im having the same rn im forced to grow up faster now thimking back i wonder where did it all go wrong
This hits when you have a father who's not present emotionally but physically, but you would rather have him there mentally then physically.
"go ahead and cry little girl" sounds familiar:(
I remember when I was crying because I couldn’t take it anymore and my father said those exact words. I’m really emotional and he loves to use that against me 😃
@@deobimoomooI'm so sorry. :(
im sorry
@@deobimoomoo I’m sorry bout it 😭😭😭
@@deobimoomoo that sounds horrible and like humiliation i hope u are ok. im so sorry that happened to u if u need help pls reach out im always here if u need
listening to this on fathers day hit diff
💜💜💜💜
Oh god..
Listening to this on my dads bday hit more diff
true lol
@@sophiaalves5830 this
yes officer, this comment section right here. they all need a hug asap
yes *hugs*
Awshbunni me too
Yeah 🖐😭
i really need one
@@shamsal-moosawi480 Not all of us...
If I’m being honest, I can relate to this song a lot. My mom got cheated on by my father and stuck with him for the sake of my younger sister and I. I was only 6 when my younger sister was born and at that time I already had to mature for the sake of my sister and so I could help my mom out. I’m honestly glad someone makes a song and thinks of people going through this. Whoever relates to this song, just know that we got through this and this just makes us stronger! 🫶🏻
God bless you ❤🩹
My daughter showed me this song all I could do was cry. I'm a single mom and I do my best to make sure she knows she is loved and important. God bless all you single moms and single dads. I know there some dad's out there being a mom too. Keep your heads up. 🙏
Keep your head up momma you're doing great❤️
Your Gonna Make it!! ❤ You have multiple people supporting you ❤❤❤❤❤
❤️❤️❤️
Keep doing your best! All you can do for your kids is try your best. I'm sure you already do that, but I mean it more as an affirmation of sorts. You don't have to be perfect, you just have to try. I hope you have a wonderful rest of your week (and life)
amen:)
maturing is realizing how much your mother sacrificed by staying with your father so you can have a happy childhood
@@valeriefratus2098 lol this.
spot on. holy crap.
but they made it worse :(
happy? ok lol
@@alexandraaa5193 sorry i was talking about my childhood
You know it's bad when you don't only have daddy issues, you also have mommy issues. Bro this song made me cry
Same I wish to have a normal family....😭😭😿
@@epiphany5 Same, til this day I can't fully enjoy being around any of them 😭😭😭
Same
Kapeesh
Same and still they want to think i had a perfect childhood and a good relationship with both of them :)
leaving a comment here so whenever someone like it i will came back hear this song again and remembering myself that how strong i am when i can survive this type of situations single handedly at the age of 5 then rest of the problems is nothing for me .. to all the persons who is struggling this type of situations i just want to tell you that you are the strongrst person ever exists so always remember good times will come eventually bad time is just a short period of time .
Daddy issues reminder:
Having a present father doesn't mean you have a good father
You can get daddy issues from a stepdad
You can get daddy issues from a non present father
You shouldn't romanticise daddy issues
fr or when they say that daddy issues is liking old men😐
i have daddy issues with my present dad i never tell anyone he be littles my mom and have massive anger issues and its so hard because when my dad get so aggressive and i tell him he cant hit me he says we do it out of love i don’t understand i makes me so mad and sometimes i think if its better if my parents were better off getting a divorce
@@sabrinadiddib7317 hey i dont know you but i was in a very similar situation, and it ended in a bad way but at least its over now. your number one priority right now is yourself and the way i got help was by going to the doctors for my poor mental health - they will find a way to help you, even if you’re scared of getting someone in trouble, your safety ALWAYS comes first. stay safe, and take care of yourself :)
@@user-od2nq4gg6t aw thank you so much it really means alot it makes me happy that ppl like you to help me so thank you have a great day :)
@@sabrinadiddib7317 i mean it - look after yourself, you deserve it! you have a great day too :)
"daddy stuck around but he wasn't present." this.
the fact this comment on 111 likes when I likes this is just another sign of how true this is
yup
he was always telling me it was all my fault yet he was never there
is that confusing
This hurts. Having a dad being at home and living with you but with zero presence, zero communication and no emotional support whatsoever. I despise him and it's sad.
growing up with daddy issues: being jealous/uncomfortable when you see a girl being affectionate with her dad and having a good relationship.
Especially when looking at my besf having her good time with her dad
fuck I just had a realization moment I did not want to have
@@nadziraramli4469 THISSSSS THIS COMMENT
I hate seeing people with there dads
and getting uncomfortable when he's good to u bc of the way he's treated u and ur mom in the past
Crying to this song on full volume at 2:55 AM 😻
me rn @ 2:59am
Might as well round it up to 3am tbh
this is so us OMG!
So trueee
@@medstudentwhossuffering4:17 am🙈
It hits different when you imagine singing this to your younger self
Fr…
YEAH LMAO
I read this and began to cry
Sending love to you
stop this made me cry so much
"She made sure you and your brother had way more than she ever had growing up" Literally describes my mom :/
same :(
Me too
Fr
Mine too :/
It always made me cry
its sad dads care more abt their self then there living child.
fr :(
not always but most of the time some days can be good
my dad and mom were fighting once when I was 5 and my brother was 12 it was 9 at night I didn't have my dinner I was starving so I went into their room and asked my mom to feed me then my dad said "there we have this piece of shit, she was never planned, it would have been better if we aborted her" I still remember the EXACT SAME words. I didn't know what it meant then but when I turned 10 i found out what it actually meant I'm 14 now.
@@itssudhiksha7939 I can't believe this, there are people out there who want to have children so bad but they can't. BUT THIS PIECE OF SHIT who is your father ( l am sorry but he deserve it) didn't appreciate it or take responsibility for his actions I am sorry you went through this everyone deserve to be loved and appreciated if your father didn't It's not your fault and never think it is you still young life is a head of you keep going and love yourself and don't take BS from anyone girl you will shine one day and your father will regret it but it will be too late..
@@itssudhiksha7939 i am so sorry that you've been through this. It hurts so deep cuz you know he is your dad he is the supposed to help you and tell you sweet words, i know how it feels my father calls me a hoe/slut(unfortunately my dad is a narcissist)
It makes you strong in a kinda toxic way, like when someone tells you: you are this or you are that it doesn't hurt that deep cuz you've already heard it from the most beloved ones.
I cried my eyeballs out when it was talking about the mom. My mom is a single mom and she’s my world I love her more than I can express and I appreciate her 10x more because of this song she made sure I had a better childhood than she did.I love you mom ❤
EVERYONE WHO HAD A BAD CHILDHOOD, I'M HUGGING YOU RIGHT NOW.
i love you 🥺
THANK U IT WAS NEEDED
thank you :)
*hugs*
I love you
am i the only one who every time they hear this song, they think about how much better they are gonna try to raise their kids.
I actually don't wanna have kids because I'm so afraid of turning into my parents
@@teaugh same bro
i'm horrified of pregnancy but i really wanna adopt and be a good parent to the child !!
@@charlie-ip6lp (i love your profile 😏) but yeah, i agree. I wanna adopt but i wanna get a kid who like- know that they were adopted. The scariest thing is telling them they are adopted.
@@sophia-tn4co yeah i have mild tokophobia (fear of pregnancy) but i sorta do want kids but i'd probably adopt older ones, like around 7 or more, because the older kids get the less chance they have of adoption and that just really pisses me off
Reminder: Having a Father isn’t same as having a “Dad”
Omg yes
Yep.
This.
Every man can be a father, but not every man can be a dad.
this
'Daddy stuck around but wasn't present ' who else relates to this? 😕
Me😅
same except my mum
Me
Ik I'm late but Me
it genuinely makes me feel mad when people can be affectionate to their parents without feeling uncomfortable, i can't hug my parents without wanting to rip my own skin off from being so uncomfortable and because of that I feel selfish that seeing others who having loving families makes me feel so jealous because I never got that
it’s not selfish, you deserve a loving family. i hope you find people you can be comfortable and affectionate with
Same
Oh my god same!! And I always feel so ashamed for being uncomfortable about being affectionate to my parents
Same
Same idk why it's so....uncomfortable??? And it's recent like I just want to be alone
here's to everyone whose parents should have divorced but never did. you deserve so much love and happiness, trust me.
Thank you. ❤️
My parents got divorced when i was a baby bc my dad was abusive to my mom and me. I don't know my dad but i met him once when i was 11. I didn't feel anything at that time bc i wasn't old enough to understand. And now i feel like i missed him.. i stalked his fb acc and i found my half siblings acc too. They seem way older than me. My dad is like 60 yo this year. I told my mom that i want to talk to him. She didn't allow me at first and then she said "im not stopping you. It's up to you. You're old enough now".
I told my half-sister (she has different dad) about it. And then she told me that maybe my mom don't want me to hurt. Bc as a father, he should have seen me first. I'm so confused..
Do you think i should see him or message him at least? Sorry for any grammar mistakes.
@@alyx5749 hii I hope you're doing okay! I'm so sorry to hear about what happened.
I don't think I'm in the right position to tell you what to do but I have an abusive dad too, so I understand how difficult it can be to reach out or talk to him, especially when he's not really around that much. Like your mom suggested, it's really upto you but I think if you feel that reaching out to him might bring peace to your mind or may help you feel better, then you can reach out to him over text/call/ in person, whatever suits you. Although, if you think you aren't ready for that yet for whatever reason, then you can wait till you are ready because it probably will be a bit difficult. Remember that what happens after you reach out might not go as you want it to, so I suggest not keeping your hopes too high.
I hope this helps! here's a virtual hug (⊃｡•́‿•̀｡)⊃
@@sia6971 i appreciate you taking the time to talk to me. I'll think about it. Thank you so much :3 i love youu
“ and she didn’t even take any drugs , she would rain all day , she couldn’t wait for her sun to shine & you made it shine , there when she cried .. you saved her life “ THAT HIT HARD .
YESSS
its even sadder because mine did, and are taking drugs 😞
@@kip1815 all i gotta say is keep your head up and everything is gonna get better soon .
tik tok bullchit
”son” not sun
Reading this comment section made me realize I'm not the only one. Sending lots of love. You'll heal someday
🤍
this song puts me in tears bc my parents were inconsistent when i was a child. sometimes they were the kindest and others i would have to walk on eggshells and be the perfect little girl to appease them. i can't be mad at them bc i cling to the moments of pure happiness i have with them
Me too
do u need a hug?:(
THIS. my dad was either the best dad in the world or he'd yell at me for not being a perfect angel. and I totally feel invalid half the time cus it could be worse (and thanks for that mindset, mom)🥲
Why do i always feel like im alone in my trauma and no one would ever understand, and then im reminded that we are never alone in any pain. Im still stuck. I hope my parents let me live soon, but i really cant wait til i die. Be free
this^^^
This song really needs to be on Spotify.
It is!!!
@@amayasworld6770 what is it on spotify
@@lillianconger1890 This song the OP said it should be on spotify
@@amayasworld6770 are you serious!?!? What’s the name
@@amayasworld6770 no way!! what’s the name?
this song comforts me and stabs me right through my heart all at once. i love it
Same
exactly described how i feel abt it
That's why I like it
me too bruh
fr
This song makes me so incredibly thankful for my dad. I go out of my way to tell him I appreciate him when I think about songs like this and how they represent real stories of real people.
i don't have daddy issues but this song never fails to make me cry. It's sick how people sexualize daddy issues.
edit: to anyone replying me saying that people with daddy issues have daddy kinks,I'm clearly talking about those who DON'T have daddy issues and misunderstanding the phrase by confusing it with daddy kink.
I agree
They wouldn't make it day with it.
Sick as in disgusting or sick as in cool?
@@whut6144 disgusting
@@whut6144 disgusting of course
I hate this, bc I can relate to it.
@@dersimdersim9983 Thank you so much
@@swaggyyashq3053 I LOVE U
Me too I feel you bby
@@nio6626 thank you💕
yup :/
so we all had messed up childhoods?
yup
yup
Yeah...
@Idk ur so lucky 😭
Yup
ive never related to a song more. "daddy stuck around but he wasnt present, cheated on your mom but she never left him" its exactly what i went through and the "crazy what you would do for your friend" rlly hit me hard man
“daddy stuck around but he wasn’t present, cheated on ur mom but she never left him” basically my life story.
Damn same
bitch- same-
bitch, same //²
same
Same
“Cheated on your mom but she never left him” is the definition of my childhood.
Same but my mom is doing that in my dad..
My mom left my dad after 10 years of infidelity.
My traumas come from that experience.
I told her repeatedly to leave him
yeah But The worse thing is You can't do anything about it since you were still "A kid"
me too... your not alone
“daddy stuck around but he wasn’t present” “he broke her heart, left money in her hand” felt on so many levels.🧍🏽♀️
Same
WOW OUCH
Same
fr
same
Pov: you grew up normalizing bad things as a child and now you realise that everything wasnt really okay.
i am 13 rn but i just dont know if my dad is doing bad things to me. he is kind to me but also idk....he yells at my mom and my mom always wanted to divorce him but she cant....i just dont know if he is good or not
@@Maria-wr9di Aw I am so sorry Maria. I know how confusing it must be especially when you are very young. Nobody deserves to go through that. I have been there too. My dad would be very kind to me but emotionally abusive towards my mom. It sucks. I understand. Just try your best to not let it get to you. Pease take care of your mental health. You are more prone to depression, when you are living in a toxic environment. I really hope things get better as you grow up. Take care : )
@@koteswarris8949 thank you so much
@@Maria-wr9di I'm sorry i had not seen the comment but i hope your family and you yourself are doing okay. It gets hard these days and especially when one parent wants a divorce, but hey I'm not an expert and my honest opinion is that if they want too then they should. It doesnt matter on which one is bad and which ones good, thats a different subject but if they divorce the child wont have to grow up ill in any way, this is just my perspective of how i see it, i hope you eat and drink well tonight/today and make sure to know if no one told you this im proud of you and its fine to not be okay sometimes
@@Psyche14047 aw ty so much ilyyy
As a mother let me tell you. How true those words can be. Because for your child. You’ll do whatever you need to.
Thank u for being strong💜💜
We love you.
Not always true though
Sometimes mothers could just leave their child
And even after all the years of abuse and therapy when I confronted her the only thing she said was it wasn't much big of deal and it really because that was the day I decided to forgive her and I regret it I regret it so much
I regret coming alive to this world
We love you so much
"Do you miss him?"
"Honestly I am not sure if I miss him or the version of him I made up in my mind"
*big virtual hug besties*
I am so proud of YOU. You've been so brave throughout, just keep fighting angels.
🥺
Same
this hurts badly knowing that we made a version of our father in our mind and imagining what if he's around and cared for us, will we be a better version of ourselves? will we be more confident and happier? its toxic to have that but i guess that's what we can do, imagine.
Thank u
dang thats deep
this song + airpods = pure relaxation
i wish i had a father figure lol. i envy everyone with a loving and comforting father...
i literally wanna go off on them but i can’t
i’m so happy to see a man treat my mom right and have a good relationship with his kid (my step dad) but it hurts because i wanted what he has with his child.
@@sophia-tf3cy why
Same lmao
@@sophia-tf3cy ikr right I feel bad but at the same time I can’t say anything Bc I’ll get hated on and I’ll look like the bad guy.
I see people sharing their stories, I am not ready to share mine but you guys are so strong and please be happy
You are a strong girl too. So be happy too. Don't worry about anything. and specialy you are army girl.
@@Kenny_Pathirana your words mean a lot to me thank you for this and yes becoming an army was THE BEST decision in my life
Take your time share when you want to
Ily, hope you’re okay
Thank you i hope you are happy too but if you would like to hear my story id be happy im still in my childhood but i cant do anything so read at your own risk
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So right now im 11 my dad filled for divorce and regularly fight as he cheated on her when i was 5 and now i have a 2nd half sibling my mom tells me everything that is happening id rather act like i know nothing as somtimes its better to act then show because im scared id look weird and abnormal but stay strong if you are experiencing a bad time in your life.
*"He's still your dad you should respect him!"*
I'll do when he starts treating me like his daughter.
OMGGGG FR
yes
I always had to respect him because I was scared of him. It was sad
Fellow stay, please stay safe. Stay hydrated. Take care of yourself love
THIS
I never realized how much these lyrics relate to my life, like it hurts to want to have a relationship with a parent that fucked up your whole life cause trauma and like you can’t because you look at them and can’t even call them your dad because of the shit they put you through and all those memories just there that will always be there and just never leaves
Fr I'm going through the same exact thing
i have a love hate relationship with this song
Me too.
Same
Same
same
Same that what I told ahahhs
*the worst feeling is knowing your parents only stay together for you and your siblings sakes*
edit:
*thanks for the likes, I love u all, yeah I'm okay thanks for being concerned, I hope u guys are too x*
Yup.I know that they moved on already but they act like they’re still together. My moms had a new boyfriend for like 5 months now. She doesn’t know that I know abt it. And it’s also cause my dad cheated on her like 2/3 times. And a few more times but that was before I was born. And I remember getting out of karate practice and saw my mom nodding her head.cause my dad wasn’t responding or answering her calls. So she drove over to his apartment and he opened the door with fear all over her face. I walked in and she this random women sitting on his couch. (Keep in mind I was 9 and I knew what was happening)she looked at me and mom. And my dad stood there and said that she was his girlfriend and my mom turned around and left. I just looked at them with sadness and disappointment on my face. He tried to grab my arm and I just pulled it away and left.and I know that he’s done this before.
Danm I'm jealous
i feel this
Yeah mine are doing that, and because they dont have enough money
Exactlyyy, it hurts so much. I really bought it a few years back, but my whole family life was such a lie
i'm scared he even got more especific
i'm in love with your profile picture
@@barbarasebok9339 not you saying that to me when your profile picture is literally you and malfoy, i loved it 😭😭
@@dudalira77
Fr
Not me listening to this song to think of ✨Draco✨
I added this song to my playlist and didn't really pay attention to the lyrics until now. I never related to a song this hard. This song got waaayy too personal for no reason & now I'm actually crying.
The most fuck up things is when you realise that you got mature way more faster then the other. And people still think daddy issues is a kink
ong tho like damn
Exactly
I argue with my dad on why residential schools and racism is bad
@ryujin's green wig SISIISISISIISIS SAME
Ikr,imagine thinking something that affects you is a kink
I get so jealous when I see kids with two biological happy married parents like I wish that was me :/
I get jealous when I even see anyone with a happy life anyone who can smile and it's not forced.
same
I actually feel happy when I see a happy married couple with their kids, because their kids don’t gotta deal with parent’s divorce and other stuff, like I kinda get jealous but glad for them at the same time
i sometimes believe their “happy family” isn’t really happy just bc mine never was
Yeah, but at least we have the ability to help other people in similar situations, they’re kinda like a comfort for us
maturing is realizing that people who have father figures can still have daddy issues
and yes
Thank you.
Im not trying to be mean but, there are people that don't know that?
@@sal4678 yes
@@sal4678 it’s not being mean. not at all. just people think just cause they don’t have a dad they’re the only people that have daddy issues
It’s scary how accurate the middle part of the song is. Perfectly explains what my mom and my siblings went through. I miss my dad a lot but it hurts how he made my mom go through depression and anxiety. I just wish I still had my goofy caring dad around
is there a mommy issues version of this? asking for a friend😀
HAHAHA I WAS THINKING THIS PLZ
YES
the way i was thinking about that
SAME
OMG YESS
Here’s to the people who’s father broke their heart before anybody else could.🥲
😀🤚present
hi :)
And he asks me why I don't trust anyone. Because my family broke me before my friends did, my family broke me before the first guy I opened up to did, my family broke me before I even realized how many issues I had
The only man that has and the only one. I will let it happen. I’ve learned my lesson. So sad how one person can ruin you
thats why i‘m lesbian
For my mom who raised her 3 children without our dad when he walked out the door with another woman... when everyone gave their backs to my mom and followed my dad because of his $$$. We lived off welfare and now we’re all educated with college careers and my dad beggs to see us after everything he put us through.... Mom I love you forever 💕
Omg this!!!!
o
💖💖
!!!!
This made me tear up cause I know how this feels except my mom took everything out on me and my sister
that fact that this song is so entirely relatable to me just hurts.
“He’s still your dad! You should love him!”
If he is my dad then why does he mentally abuse me , why did he make me think that was what love meant?
(edit: so i see we are all going thru the same shit, dont worry
Why my dad never calls...
"he's trying to be present!"
Last time I checked my dad left ME 😐😐
And why did he chose the flavor of the years over his own DAUGHTER!?
*You still want me to love him since he is my dad?*
Felix?
“cheated on your mom but she never left him”
when you realize your mom stayed with your father just to try to give you a normal childhood but yk they just kept fighting wich made everything even worse
this hurts so much
I relate to this but with my mom doing it on my dad…
I wish she would take care of herself more back then :/
my life rn:
@@yuriplisetskybestboi7294 my life past 4 years:
This hits way too close to home. The line "daddy stuck around but he wasn't present", hurts because my dad is here physically just not emotionally. And my mom is just awful, she yells so much, she'll call me a disappointment, and just isn't the greatest but I still love her. And scrolling through the comments makes me feel less alone. It feels weird being 16 and relating to this song but it also feels nice like people understand me for once. Which I know is such "I'm a teenager nobody understands me" kinda thing to say but I genuinely mean it when I say I feel like this song and the comments understand me, and it's really comforting.
Sorry, I overshared I just needed to vent, I guess.
you didn’t overshare and i’m glad you stated the same words i was thinking so i don’t have to.
thank you,
proud of you
It’s good to vent out all the pain sometimes 😊😊😊😊
I can relate to the things that you say, i am in the same situation. You know, having nobody emotionally by your side as a parent makes you feel like you are worthless. Because of how traumatized i am, i got epilepsy , anxiety and depression. I feel so lost. I can not trust anybody and take them in my life cause i feel like they can hurt me as well. If suicide wasn't a sin, i would be dead already.
I'm 14 and I feel you. My dad is here, but he's always high- so here, but not here.
thank u so much for sharing your story with us that is really brave. your mom shouldnt be saying those things to u its toxic and hurtful to your mental health its emotionally abusive and wrong. your feelings are valid and you are very strong and brave there are many resources if u would like me to name some i hope u are ok we support u
I swear daddy issues is not a aesthetic. Its trauma.
My relationship with my dad is so complicated. Some moments we talk and get along and then he ends up ruining it. I'm so scared of him yet I love him. I don't know myself tbh.
no same ): it hurts when i look at baby photos and how close we were, and how close he is with other peoples' kids that he treats them like and better than their own :/ i'm so sorry you have to through that. i hope it gets better
@@hayaszn yeah he's so close with my cousins and other kids and it hurts. Thank you for the condolences and i sincerely hope it gets better for you too
@@xxshadowhunter1068 thank you so much
I have the same problem…he’s so supportive of me one minute and then degrading me in the next moment for the smallest mistake. Ever since I had my daughter, I stopped being his daughter and instead was just my child’s mom…he even said that my happiness is nothing in comparison to hers…
@@hinatabutterfly12 I'm so sorry, that's horrible. I wish the best for you and your child and I hope it gets better for you, love
This hits diff when you actually have daddy issues
fr tho
Yes 🥺
yeah it does.
Rip dad. Feels different now that you’re gone
@@AlejandraTorres-kx6no i am sorry
it hurts when you have a dad but you don’t even know how to communicate with him bc he doesn’t react like a normal person
this.
My “dad” who’s a man-child
Omg this really hits different in so many levels you spoke the truth 😔😔😔😔😔😔
we r so happy for how far u have gone u r so strong for doing this alone everything will get better it takes time ❤️we all love u and reamber everyone goes through hard times and we r so happy u r here
@@bk7728 we r so happy for how far u have gone u r so strong for doing this alone everything will get better it takes time ❤️we all love u and reamber everyone goes through hard times and we r so happy u r here
The "daddy stuck around but he wasn't present" hits hard
Ngl y’all should listen to all their songs, they make me feel safe🥺
It’s sad that people are only listening to daddy issues and sw
@@sapphicswan YES OMG THAT TRIGGERS ME SM LIKE ALL THERE SONGS R THE MF BEST
@@lauren-vl2ko HI WE’RE FRIENDS NOW
@@sapphicswan 100% DOWN🤝🤝🤝🤝
@@lauren-vl2ko SO UH DO YOU PLAY FORTNITE??
“I know how much it matters to you”
Immediate tears.
🙃
😂
@@jaykayy5706 what's funny? Bruh
any of you need someone to talk to
the fact that people think this song is an aesthetic is sad its basically a trauma.
For real.
Does anyone know who made the remix??
True...
For real
@@ramonaflowers7111 it's the nbhd og verse
It's crazy how a song describe it perfectly
People thinking having daddy issues, mommy issues, siblings issues, depression, anxiety and abusive past is cool..more like something to flex...no its not. Those who never faced it, y'all will never know what hell hole people have to go through. It's NOT something to be proud of. Having those issues is worse than death. Stop making them sound like needs.
Edit: I'm happy that many of you agree with whatever I said :')
Also, I'm really proud of each and every person who fought through entire thing and stands a ground. You're amazing.
Always know, somebody cares for you even if it's at the other side of the world.
And for people who weren't able to make it, you're angels. You did well.
I hope universe blesses y'all with every happiness you deserve. And yes, you deserve the happiness, value, care, love and respect. Don't let someone tell otherwise.
Have a great day :)
You're telling my whole life
absolutely, as a person with a lot of mental issues and parental issues it's so frustrating to see people faking having issues like that to get clout or as an aesthetic which gives people who actually have them a harder time...
@@melissalove8185 I won't say sorry for whatever you went through and going through. Cause I know you're a warrior and one day you'll shine. More power to you :)
Edit: also to all people who are going through hard times.
@@angel_khatiye0009 ikr.
Every second person I see has depression..it makes me question about my own life now. Like do I even have issues? Or is it normal?
Because of them, people who actually need help, get set aside. It really makes me sad and somewhat angry.
@@cypher4843 thank you so much ❤️
"almost divorced parents" is a whole another genre of pain and trauma
EDIT: thank you to everyone who shared/ will share in the replies to this comment. truly made me believe that I'm not alone.
hoping it will do the same for you
you're so damn right
I felt this in my soul.
@@RandomEdits451 🤝
@@kimberlysalas5337bud, if a person probably halfway across the world from me relates to something I say, then maybe I'm not alone, but then neither are you. don't bother thinking otherwise. :)
@@cumgaroo9426 I’ll be keeping this in mind :)
*Off topic, but those hands to be looking like a damn meal-*
PLS I WAS LOOKING FOR A COMMENT LIKE THIS
@@kikiaguilar3879 ME TO AHAHHAHAAA
Omg right?
HAHJAWTYJJ im sayin like damnnn😩
Cannibalism
This song feels like a warm hug.
“But he’s you’re father!” Yeah and that’s the problem. I’m scared of him bro.
I'm scared to even call or text him....
@@slowedmusic9533 me too man
me too
@@slowedmusic9533 I don't even have his number. I deleted it as soon as I got it.
Same 😔