@@debbiegavancastle3880That’s more often due to either your device or your connection. Pausing the video for a minute, and sometimes scrolling it back on the progress bar for a couple minutes, usually gets it synched up again. FWIW, It was synched perfectly when I watched, and I checked it on both my phone and my laptop. Hope you get it sorted out.
Thank you for being so real and honest! I love that you are not the typical social media couple who post about everything always being perfect. Honestly, this was so refreshing!
Women forget nothing. I was married 40 years until he passed. I can still remember arguments we had when we were first married and all the way through. Flirting is cheating. Travis you’re digging a deep hole!😊
Thanks for being honest and not giving answers that make you seem perfect. Everyone has imperfect thoughts and responses and it’s encouraging to see people be real, knowing that there will naysayers out there. You two are great and I enjoy your channel. ❤
Always keep in mind that there are no perfect people and no perfect marriages. People make mistakes and marriages are partnerships that can grow stronger as you learn to trust each other and “forgive “ each other. Forgiveness is the key to happiness … love is the bond that makes forgiveness possible.
Dear Travis & Katie. Thank you for keeping it 💯 with all the answers. The people complaining are the same ones who complain that influencers are fake and that they never show the real stuff 🙄. They are miserable 24/7 365 days a year. Haters are haters because they hate their life. They want you to hate yours, too. Don't mind them. Keep your heads up 👊.
This was SUCH a fun idea!! Thank you guys for some of the fun questions as well as some of the more personal ones that were more vulnerable. You both are so genuine, funny and fun to watch and role models!
Love this! Will be married 43 in Nov. Hubby was once asked his secret to his happy marriage. He told them Direct Deposit. I say be each others friend. Tell each other everything. Cannot ever remember any huge fights. Its about trust and honesty. But mostly for both of us is our laughter we have, with, and for each other like we did when we dated. Con't. to be you, both of you!
The question about Katie not being close to all of her family was asked not because everyone believes all the Bates siblings are close, but because there are ongoing rumors on reddit about a big fight between certain Bates sisters and SILs and that everyone took sides. Some people pay close attention to every move made, every post made or deleted, to look for evidence to fuel their speculation about all of you.
I loved this so much!! It reminded me of us!! I’m so much like Katie when it comes to having to talk things out and my husband is like Trav, if it happened 5 seconds ago, he already forgot it! Lol Also the tough time when you first get married! That’s so true! Thanks for sharing! So relatable!
Thanks for sharing your lives! I am sure it is a a lot to share with the outside world! Your family is darling, especially Hailey James! She is one of the happiest babies I have ever seen!❤
Katie, Ive been married 20 years this August, and i agree its a culture shock being away from your family but im so glad you are ''sticking it out'' through the hard....
This was fun to watch! Lots of honesty! We know you put your best foot forward but honestly, I wouldn't mind if a shot of a messy nursery or even a messy kitchen appeared. You are human, after all. 😉
You two crack me up. My mom was 19 and dad was 21. They had 6 kids before 6. The firstborn son, born on dad's birthday, named after dad accidentally died at age 2. They had a good marriage. We were happy.
I had to pause it to comment. I’m laying in bed a 2:25AM about to wake my sleeping husband because I’m laughing so hard. You two are literally us if there’s an argument. We don’t ever have big arguments, but if I even think something is off with him, I get so upset and worried. We end up actually arguing because I ask him what’s wrong fifty eleven times when he swears there’s nothing wrong. 😂😂 I can’t sleep if he’s the least but upset. It breaks my heart, and he just wants to sleep like a baby and wake up like nothing ever happened! I can’t wait to show this to him in a few hours! The good news is that we’ve been married almost 21 years, and we are still so happy! I just know not to ask him what’s wrong fifty eleven times, and he had to learn the definition of apology. 😅😅
I loved the show. The entire family was so precious. It made me sad when it was gone. Y’all are so cute & I really enjoy your little family. Your baby girl is adorable 🥰!
You guys are courageous and that helps other young couple be transparent. Marriage takes work so keep so keep waking up and choosing each other . Share some of y’all’s Sunday at church with us … and how y’all balance your time with the Lord , marriage and the baby. God bless!😍🙏🏽🤗
THANK YOU FOR BEING REAL!! Raw and beautiful! Thank you for your truth on things aren’t always sunshine and rainbows for y’all. That’s why we look forward to heaven where things will be perfect in the presence of God! Big hugs to y’all! ~Rebecca
Travis and Katie I love watching your UA-cam channel so happy for you and your sweet family!! Thoroughly enjoyed watching your UA-cam videos can’t wait to see more videos here on your excellent channel
Y’all are cute. …. The best thing my husband taught me in the first months of marriage was how to say, I’m sorry, and quickly. I thought you couldn’t be sorry quick and move on, but I was wrong. ~ 18 yrs wedded. ❤
Loved the video! I do remember when Katie was homesick after being married and away from family and Travis going to school and working it’s hard not that I have done that, but as I have watched you have grown so much from that different chapters and being away from family and making new friends.
when i was in college, and i worked part time, it was hard to have a social life and also keep up with family events because i usually had to work on weekends.
Enjoyed the video!!! Ready for next video!!! I love and enjoy watching yall!!!! Beautiful family!!! Hailey is absolutely gorgeous!!!! I love yalls videos so much!!!! I love yall so much!!!🥰
Love watching you guys! Always brightens my day. You all are way more honest than most would be. Are you guys going to BSB cash and carry this weekend!?!
POV.. I like to talk things out and my wife likes to talk and let it go.. we set a time limit so I can feel satisfied with our conversations like 5 or 10 minutes depending on the situation and mostly I do the talking.. haha.. but I feel heard ❤️
I also Married Young I was 19 and NEVER Had any Children and I believe it was My fault…..My Husband was the Only Boyfriend I Ever Had…….He was Older than Me and treated me like I was his Child not his Wife….He controlled EVERYTHING the only Thing was freeing was My Job…..Work became My Life and I grew to HATE Him and Finally got divorced after 28 years…. I feel if We had Children I would’ve never gotten Divorced…..Marriage is HARD and I feel 1 Loves MORE than the other 1 And it’s something You have to work at Together and take care of each other Constantly and children are what makes that Bond even more deeper…..I think the 2 of U are doing what Married People should Do….. Watching from Virginia 🌹
Am I the only one who had the video and sound way off? I could listen to it, but the video wasn't at the same spot, and the video cut off before the questions were finished. But, it was interesting even if it messed up.
I had this same issue too, when they first put out the video. I tried again today and it seems like the sound and video have been fixed to match up with each other.
@@millertammy1 I had this same issue too, when they first put out the video. I tried again today and it seems like the sound and video have been fixed to match up with each other.
@@crystalsiers3645 I had this same issue too, when they first put out the video. I tried again today and it seems like the sound and video have been fixed to match up with each other.
Tennessee girl here too!!! I go to Knoxville to UT cancer center. I’ll actually be there the 7th for my big PET scan!!! I live in Jonesborough which is Tri-Cities - Johnson City. I heard in one of your videos Knoxville. I just love you two to death!!! Girl, I give you much props moving far from family. Being a family oriented person, I can’t stand to be far from mine. Travis you look identical to my nephew like you are Gabes doppelgänger. I need to figure out how to share picture. It’s insane how much you two look alike. My son had to take second glance. If you all come to Knox again to see your family…I would love to meet you guys! Your so down to earth and most of all you put God above all I can tell.
I totally agree social media like you tubing people will find fault with something you say, you dress, the way you raise your children, etc. I watch you guys and I love it you are so real. I watch another family they are real and 5hey have quads. They do a great job handling it with raising the four kids but people find fault. Sad the way life is.
I would encourage you (within reason and your privacy) to be real on social media. So many people think famous or well known people don't have problems and its contributes to depression and unrealistic expectations of life and relationships.
You guys make me feel young even though I could be ur granny😂🎉❤ Your arguments must get real animated coz u are both fast tawkers. Remember to slow down when u get into one n take a deep breathe!
Don’t let others try to influence you just live your life the way you want to stay the way you are walk with putting Jesus first and you will be living the best life you can
You guys are awesome 😎! The thing with Katie not able to move on in a argument is a girl and guy thing. Guys can put things in little compartmentalize things and women can't do that. Little things bother us because we are emotional 😔. Thanks for sharing, loved it.
The password thing, the only reason I’d disagree, is I am in charge of buying all the gifts. I keep lists on my phone around Christmas and birthdays. So I need to know that no one can get on my phone and spoil their surprise. Other than that. I don’t really care. I have nothing to hide 😊
I am TOTALLY loving this new realness and honesty! I think it helps people differentiate between your family (bates) and other largely known family's like yours. The more you guys get comfortable with youtube the better you guys get and the more i love you guys!!💗
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The video and sound are not in sync
@@debbiegavancastle3880That’s more often due to either your device or your connection. Pausing the video for a minute, and sometimes scrolling it back on the progress bar for a couple minutes, usually gets it synched up again. FWIW, It was synched perfectly when I watched, and I checked it on both my phone and my laptop. Hope you get it sorted out.
While I don't think that flirting is cheating, I do think that doing so is disrespectful to your spouse and your marriage.
Thank you for being so real and honest! I love that you are not the typical social media couple who post about everything always being perfect. Honestly, this was so refreshing!
Women forget nothing. I was married 40 years until he passed. I can still remember arguments we had when we were first married and all the way through. Flirting is cheating. Travis you’re digging a deep hole!😊
Thanks for being honest and not giving answers that make you seem perfect. Everyone has imperfect thoughts and responses and it’s encouraging to see people be real, knowing that there will naysayers out there. You two are great and I enjoy your channel. ❤
We married at 18/21. Kids at 20/23. Married 50 years this year❤
Congrats on 50 years!
Always keep in mind that there are no perfect people and no perfect marriages. People make mistakes and marriages are partnerships that can grow stronger as you learn to trust each other and “forgive “ each other. Forgiveness is the key to happiness … love is the bond that makes forgiveness possible.
Katie, your wedding is the testament to your style. 🖤pure class
One of my favourite vlogs, I was giggling all the way through
Travs ‘let me explain …..‘ 😂
I think you both are very sincere and it shines through
I think Travis may need to be careful that he doesn’t talk for his wife, thinking he knows her better then she knows herself.
Dear Travis & Katie. Thank you for keeping it 💯 with all the answers. The people complaining are the same ones who complain that influencers are fake and that they never show the real stuff 🙄. They are miserable 24/7 365 days a year. Haters are haters because they hate their life. They want you to hate yours, too. Don't mind them. Keep your heads up 👊.
This was SUCH a fun idea!!
Thank you guys for some of the fun questions as well as some of the more personal ones that were more vulnerable. You both are so genuine, funny and fun to watch and role models!
strongly agree on knowing passwords. Couples should never hide stuff. Recipe for disaster.
I love how honest and transparent you both are! You both do an awesome job of explaining your responses 💕💙
I appreciate your honesty. That's one of several reasons I love all the Bates family.
Thanks for watching! We love you guys and hope you have a great Fourth of July! 🇺🇸
You too!!!
I hope you have a great Fourth of July love you guys soooo much💖💖💖💖💖💖
I'm walking in a big church parade for the Fourth of July! I'm so excited!
TOO** young not TO...sorry...English major lol
Where can I see the bates shows? I've not ever seen them and would love to...
Travis just recently listened to your song and you have an awesome voice. ❤❤
Love this! Will be married 43 in Nov. Hubby was once asked his secret to his happy marriage. He told them Direct Deposit. I say be each others friend. Tell each other everything. Cannot ever remember any huge fights. Its about trust and honesty. But mostly for both of us is our laughter we have, with, and for each other like we did when we dated. Con't. to be you, both of you!
The question about Katie not being close to all of her family was asked not because everyone believes all the Bates siblings are close, but because there are ongoing rumors on reddit about a big fight between certain Bates sisters and SILs and that everyone took sides. Some people pay close attention to every move made, every post made or deleted, to look for evidence to fuel their speculation about all of you.
I love you 2, so real and honest. May God continue to keep you close to each other and to Him.
Thanks for being real with all of us! You guys are amazing. God bless and happy 4th of July!❤
You guys are so adorable. Love both your families. Ty for sharing your lives with us.
I loved this so much!! It reminded me of us!! I’m so much like Katie when it comes to having to talk things out and my husband is like Trav, if it happened 5 seconds ago, he already forgot it! Lol
Also the tough time when you first get married! That’s so true!
Thanks for sharing! So relatable!
Thanks for sharing your lives! I am sure it is a a lot to share with the outside world! Your family is darling, especially Hailey James! She is one of the happiest babies I have ever seen!❤
Y’all are so cute together. You can tell you’re head over heels in love with each other.
Katie, Ive been married 20 years this August, and i agree its a culture shock being away from your family but im so glad you are ''sticking it out'' through the hard....
This was fun to watch! Lots of honesty! We know you put your best foot forward but honestly, I wouldn't mind if a shot of a messy nursery or even a messy kitchen appeared. You are human, after all. 😉
You two crack me up. My mom was 19 and dad was 21. They had 6 kids before 6. The firstborn son, born on dad's birthday, named after dad accidentally died at age 2. They had a good marriage. We were happy.
I really enjoyed the video.And it was lovely seeing you both been so truthful answering have a lovely weekend.🙏🙏🙏
I had to pause it to comment. I’m laying in bed a 2:25AM about to wake my sleeping husband because I’m laughing so hard. You two are literally us if there’s an argument. We don’t ever have big arguments, but if I even think something is off with him, I get so upset and worried. We end up actually arguing because I ask him what’s wrong fifty eleven times when he swears there’s nothing wrong. 😂😂 I can’t sleep if he’s the least but upset. It breaks my heart, and he just wants to sleep like a baby and wake up like nothing ever happened! I can’t wait to show this to him in a few hours! The good news is that we’ve been married almost 21 years, and we are still so happy! I just know not to ask him what’s wrong fifty eleven times, and he had to learn the definition of apology. 😅😅
I loved the show. The entire family was so precious. It made me sad when it was gone. Y’all are so cute & I really enjoy your little family. Your baby girl is adorable 🥰!
Y'all are the sweetest. I have enjoyed watching y'all navigate marriage, a new state (for Katie) and baby Hailey. Y'all are doing a great job too!
Preach it Katie I totally agree with you 😂
You guys are courageous and that helps other young couple be transparent.
Marriage takes work so keep so keep waking up and choosing each other .
Share some of y’all’s Sunday at church with us … and how y’all balance your time with the Lord , marriage and the baby.
God bless!😍🙏🏽🤗
It is good to hear each other's perspectives.
Thanks for sharing and being real and honest! Love Y’all! Love and Prayers Always
THANK YOU FOR BEING REAL!! Raw and beautiful!
Thank you for your truth on things aren’t always sunshine and rainbows for y’all.
That’s why we look forward to heaven where things will be perfect in the presence of God!
Big hugs to y’all!
~Rebecca
Katie killed that Blue Nile ad
I had to laugh when I saw y’all sitting on the floor and Remi is on the couch. Lol. Love your voice Travis. Thanks for sharing. Blessings
Katie girl...the best piece of advice I received when I got married was Don't Sweat the Small Stuff. ❤
Thanks for being real and true. Beautiful couple
Katie and Travis- loved meeting you! You are exactly the same in person as what we see on UA-cam! So genuine!
This is the most authentic Q&A I have seen from any of the UA-cam channels I watch. This will help other couples! ❤️
Travis and Katie I love watching your UA-cam channel so happy for you and your sweet family!! Thoroughly enjoyed watching your UA-cam videos can’t wait to see more videos here on your excellent channel
My husband and I have the same password for all our stuff…..when you hit 50+ the mind tends to let you down.
I relate to getting married young and the sad parts! But it got so much better! I also moved to a new town so that’s always hard to adjust to
Yes, there should be no secrecy. Agreed! Great job kids~ Happy 4th! 🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸
I loved the juicy questions 😻😸
Love this!
Hope you have a wonderful 4th of July.
Blind trust is the greatest way to love each other.
Y’all are cute. …. The best thing my husband taught me in the first months of marriage was how to say, I’m sorry, and quickly. I thought you couldn’t be sorry quick and move on, but I was wrong. ~ 18 yrs wedded. ❤
Loved the video! I do remember when Katie was homesick after being married and away from family and Travis going to school and working it’s hard not that I have done that, but as I have watched you have grown so much from that different chapters and being away from family and making new friends.
when i was in college, and i worked part time, it was hard to have a social life and also keep up with family events because i usually had to work on weekends.
There ARE UA-cam channels that show messy rooms, etc.
Enjoyed the video!!! Ready for next video!!! I love and enjoy watching yall!!!! Beautiful family!!! Hailey is absolutely gorgeous!!!! I love yalls videos so much!!!! I love yall so much!!!🥰
Can't wait to see the new vlog and hope you guys have a great Thursday night with baby Hailey and hope you guys have a great Fourth of July Weekend.
The push present is the baby lol
Love watching you guys! Always brightens my day. You all are way more honest than most would be. Are you guys going to BSB cash and carry this weekend!?!
You’re so nice! Thank you :) and yes we will!
Ahhhh- yay! We are traveling from Ohio and now we are even more excited! Didn’t expect to see you guys!🙌🏻
@@kellilongfellow587iam from ohio also
Please make more shorts I love them they are awesome 😂
Thanks for sharing this, I really enjoyed watching this!! Hope ya'll have a wonderful 4th 9f July!! ❤
I got married at 18 still married 16 years later
I thank you both for being so honest and real I for one enjoy watching your videos as I think you are both beautiful people 🇦🇺❤️
POV.. I like to talk things out and my wife likes to talk and let it go.. we set a time limit so I can feel satisfied with our conversations like 5 or 10 minutes depending on the situation and mostly I do the talking.. haha.. but I feel heard ❤️
You both are the cutest !!! Love this video ❤❤
Ya'll are just a light! I love watching y'all! I was so close to meeting y'all! Hope I can someday :)
I also Married Young I was 19 and NEVER Had any Children and I believe it was My fault…..My Husband was the Only Boyfriend
I Ever Had…….He was Older than Me and treated me like I was his Child not his Wife….He controlled EVERYTHING the only
Thing was freeing was My Job…..Work became My Life and I grew to HATE Him and Finally got divorced after 28 years….
I feel if We had Children I would’ve never gotten Divorced…..Marriage is HARD and I feel 1 Loves MORE than the other 1
And it’s something You have to work at Together and take care of each other Constantly and children are what makes that
Bond even more deeper…..I think the 2 of U are doing what Married People should Do…..
Watching from Virginia 🌹
You two are so cute together and I love your honesty
I think you guys kept it really real! We LOVe real videos ! Don’t change or apologize. More realness !
I love y'all so much!!!! Travis, I love your new song it is so beautiful!
Thank you!
@@TravisandKatie1 I love how close y'all are to God and how sweet you are as people!
You kids are doing great!! I have always felt like Katie is very intelligent. Thanks guys
Hey y'all I love your family so much and I can't wait for new videos!
Aww thank you!
@@TravisandKatie1 Seriously I never miss a video and if I do I go back and watch it immediately!
Just to let you know, the whole video your voices were off, it would show Travis with Katie talking, vise versa.
Am I the only one who had the video and sound way off? I could listen to it, but the video wasn't at the same spot, and the video cut off before the questions were finished.
But, it was interesting even if it messed up.
I had the same issue but enjoyed it just the same.
Yea I left and came back thinking it was on my end lol
I had this same issue too, when they first put out the video. I tried again today and it seems like the sound and video have been fixed to match up with each other.
@@millertammy1 I had this same issue too, when they first put out the video. I tried again today and it seems like the sound and video have been fixed to match up with each other.
@@crystalsiers3645 I had this same issue too, when they first put out the video. I tried again today and it seems like the sound and video have been fixed to match up with each other.
Loved this video you both are so real with each other its hilarious. Have a great 4th love your new song too Travis❤❤
Travis And Katie Love you tube channel Love my favorite one fan Big Happy 4 Fourth July 🎆💖💖💖💖💖💖💖⭐️⭐️⭐️🎶God bless you family
Do as you please. Who cares what people think. You 2 are the best. Love y'all.🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏♥️♥️♥️♥️
Tennessee girl here too!!! I go to Knoxville to UT cancer center. I’ll actually be there the 7th for my big PET scan!!! I live in Jonesborough which is Tri-Cities - Johnson City. I heard in one of your videos Knoxville. I just love you two to death!!! Girl, I give you much props moving far from family. Being a family oriented person, I can’t stand to be far from mine. Travis you look identical to my nephew like you are Gabes doppelgänger. I need to figure out how to share picture. It’s insane how much you two look alike. My son had to take second glance. If you all come to Knox again to see your family…I would love to meet you guys! Your so down to earth and most of all you put God above all I can tell.
I enjoyed this video because you two were talking to each other and not focusing on the camera.
I totally agree social media like you tubing people will find fault with something you say, you dress, the way you raise your children, etc. I watch you guys and I love it you are so real. I watch another family they are real and 5hey have quads. They do a great job handling it with raising the four kids but people find fault. Sad the way life is.
Have them young while you’ve got the energy. I’m glad I did❤️💖💜💙
Thanks for your honesty!
My engagement ring and wedding band are from Blue Nile that was almost 20 years ago😊
I disagree. I know you can be married & have respect for privacy.
This looks so fun to do wonder if I can get my hubby to do something similar
Thanks for the idea and another great video
I would encourage you (within reason and your privacy) to be real on social media. So many people think famous or well known people don't have problems and its contributes to depression and unrealistic expectations of life and relationships.
You guys make me feel young even though I could be ur granny😂🎉❤ Your arguments must get real animated coz u are both fast tawkers. Remember to slow down when u get into one n take a deep breathe!
Don’t let others try to influence you just live your life the way you want to stay the way you are walk with putting Jesus first and you will be living the best life you can
You both are so cute together ❤️💕 don’t change. Keep Jesus in the center of your marriage 🙏🙏
You guys are awesome 😎! The thing with Katie not able to move on in a argument is a girl and guy thing. Guys can put things in little compartmentalize things and women can't do that. Little things bother us because we are emotional 😔. Thanks for sharing, loved it.
You two or make that three now are some of my favorite to watch. I watch every video.
Love both of your styles and especially Katies sweatshirt she has on in this video… where did you get it.
The password thing, the only reason I’d disagree, is I am in charge of buying all the gifts. I keep lists on my phone around Christmas and birthdays. So I need to know that no one can get on my phone and spoil their surprise. Other than that. I don’t really care. I have nothing to hide 😊
i think if your partner is not willing to share passwood, i think something sketchy is going on, especially if they get upset if you ask
Happy 4th Weekend! Can't believe y'all are wearing a hoodie and a sweater ! It is 100 + degrees here in Arkansas!
I am TOTALLY loving this new realness and honesty! I think it helps people differentiate between your family (bates) and other largely known family's like yours. The more you guys get comfortable with youtube the better you guys get and the more i love you guys!!💗
Love the Q&A!
This was great. You both r so very honest with your answers. You have not changed being on UA-cam one but.
You can tell you guys are real well at lest I can ❤ you both are doing amazing ❤❤
A very funny video guys, I love that you open up with us and we can get to know you more and more ❤
Just curious, if Katie was so lonely why couldn’t she get a job? With her qualifications she could have even worked for herself ?
Hi from Arizona! I think y’all are adorable!
Hey there!:)