Why Are People Jealous of your WIGS, Weaves, Relaxers and Highlights? Hair Theory
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OMG! I made it ❤😂
@@ThePrettySupportGroup yay 😀 love your videos !
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What is one of my favorite readers doing here??❤😭
Love your tarot videos❤
@@reginakc Haha 😘 I knew my pretty subbies were exoticals this whole time! 🥂
Yes definitely experienced this when I wear a sew in with leave out🤷🏽♀️ the secret is using hair that’s close to your texture. It looks more natural and effortless.
yes some women get mad that you're simply more skilled at styling yourself.
Yup I do the same
@@ExoticalsUnited That’s exactly what it is that’s how you know they are basic Betty’s 😅
Yess!!!
I don’t get why women don’t understand that it’s better to wear realistic extensions
They can humble us but at least the wigs and clip ins actual BLEND in with our hair type😭they stay shaming women like beyonce for wearing extensions when you could NEVER clock it!!!
Exactly and those same women who shame her would trade physical beauty and desirability with her if they could 💀 I think it really comes down to the fact that a lot of exoticals look “desirable” in all kinds of hairstyles. The women who struggle with their own desirability feel like they HAVE to wear certain hairstyles to have social status and the exoticals don’t have that kind of pressure .
Even if it doesn’t blend with the hair type it blends in with the PHENOTYPE. When I wear a straight wig Latino men speak Spanish to me and Black men call me MAMI😂
@@Free-z5l exactly! these wigs they buy don't look right on their phenotype it doesn't look natural at all
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Ouuu they not going to like this one 😂😂
I’m in my blonde era and I LOVE it! At 56, size 2, at 5’2 - 105, people believe I’m late 20’s. 🤭 I’m naturally a reddish- bwn. I’m a French Louisianan Creole. 🌹
Ooh I bet you favor Thandie Newton❤
You better werk! Having your way!! 💕💅🏽😭
The exoticals here in Cali, specifically the LS girlies with 4c hair, theyre killing the sew-in game!! They love a good sew-in and it always looks sooo good!!
"LS cali girl sew-in" Trope is very much real! Theyre so bougie, I LOVE IT!
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Love me a Cali exotical! ❤They eat 4C hair. My LA hg is the one that put me on to silk presses.
Girl this is the story of my life😂 people really believe that my clip ins are my real hair. I get hate from UABW for trying to look more ambiguous when they can wear a lace front all day 🤷🏽♀️ and I also agree that there are a lot of women hiding behind the enhancements when it’s just supposed to exaggerate what you already have ❤
Right, clearly they can’t relate to people actually thinking the hair is real because it looks so natural, that’s why they’re mad at women in the exotical space . They also seem to be mad at Exoticals who have fluid beauty standards and like to switch up their look in terms of hair and makeup.
Right same. I’ve had to explain to ppl that I’m wearing a wig, it’s not my natural hair lol I just wear straight hair a lot bc it obviously looks more natural on me.
I’m so glad you made this video. People hate on my weaves/wigs. My former friend used to love to point out when pretty girls wear weave. She hated that it leveled the playing field.
Yep, yep. This video was for me 😂 I have experienced every single point you made in this video. My hair is HEAVILY policed by guess what community? I am soo glad you made this video, the shaming and policing always felt off and now I understand why! I’m also going back to expressing myself with my extensions. One uabw at my church has tried to create a “hair expo” event to shame those who want to wear weave after I walked in with my ponytail extensions and got several compliments!!! Her eyes are ALWAYS on my hair and how it looks.
Right! They don’t want exoticals to have versatile beauty. They see it as cheating. It’s almost like they’re implying it’s “not fair” to already have a pedestal and then take it up a notch further with beauty enhancements .
@@AGemFromJax I 100% believe that they would create a hair expo just to shame one, beautiful girls hair choices. I believe it because scarily, haters definitely have the time!
@@ExoticalsUnited The crazy part is that they are not excising their own freedom of choice, to wear what you want to wear, do to exercise, get pretty, etc. Like if they did that, they wouldn’t be as hateful. They wanna be fat, lazy and dissatisfied but not want to do anything about it and get triggered when others invest time into beauty. I doesn’t make sense to me.
I saw a pretty uadbw with beautiful locs and I complimented her and said I wanna try locs someday and she said "no you have pretty good hair don't ruin it"
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Strong time. A colleague made such beautiful locs. I was like I want to I try it. I begged and begged and begged her to give me her loctician contact. She refused for me not to "spoil my hair". I haven't listened to the video just saw this comment and it reminded me of an experience in relation to the comment.
You do have nice hair though. I wish my hair was like your hair. I hate my hair with a passion!
Does it truly ruin hair? I have no idea about that process.
@@rensii-e8bif done correctly it will not. It will and should benefit your hair. I have 3c/4a hair and had them for 7-8 months then combed them out. My hair flourished while in them and THRIVED when I took them out❤ and my hairs been through it all. Relaxers, braids, wigs, shaved, etc. as long as it’s done with care for your head!❤
Speak on it my sister!👏👏👏 I'm going to wear my relaxed hair and wigs until the second coming. I work out several days a week and wearing my relaxed hair in a high ponytail is a
matter of convenience. It looks good and is easy. I don't have to worry about how it looks while I'm working out. I don't have to do anything to it and when I get home because it still looks good. I wear my wigs for versatility, convenience, and fun. I'm 64 years old, girl, I wish somebody would say something to me about it!😂😅😆🤣
You're 64?!? In human Earth years?? Omggg you look so elegant and lovely! Please continue to do whatever you've been doing bc it is working miracles!! 😍
Any advice for aging as gracefully and gorgeously as you?💕
@@beewilson023Aww, you're too kind. Thank you so much! One way to age gracefully and gorgeously is to be kind and encouraging to others, like you.❤ I just did a 10 part series on my channel on how to stay youthful. All of what I do is there. I also have quite a few videos on skincare that you would enjoy.❤ I appreciate you.
@ You're welcome and you have a new subscriber💖
I’m a monoracial bw & I’ve been told so many times I look half white or Latina with my hair straight or wavy. A bw even told me “you don’t even look like a black person” 💀 when I wore a honey blonde straight wig last year. Even AI thinks I’m mixed with white apparently lmao so now straight hair is pretty much my signature look no matter the color. It suits me very well
You look blasian AF.. you look identical to my sister. ❤
I always get mistaken as a gorgeous afro latino. This compliment makes my day
☆💙@totallynotleahh🩵☆Have you ever tried modeling?,because you look like a fashion model with ambiguous facial features.
I think they try to humble us because the wigs look more like our hair and it always looks so good. That’s what I’ve noticed. What we wear always looks so normal and realistic. It comes from a place of them not wanting to embrace their skin tone , facial features and hair type etc.
A lot of times when you look ambiguous, you can pull off so many different hairstyles. I’ve noticed because I’ve worn wigs and the wig still look nice even if they were some odd color like green or something.
but a lot of times what I’ve noticed is like those of us who wear extensions that look just like our hair type they’re so jealous of that because it’s like I’m willing to embrace my natural hair type and not hide it with a wig because that’s why I like the half up half down wigs because it’s like I can leave my real hair out and blend it so it looks like my real hair and a lot of people that don’t wanna embrace their facial features, their skin complexion and their hair type they get mad at that. I normally look for hair clips or hair extensions that are the same hair type as my own and that’s what makes it look so good because it looks natural, like it grew out my own head. To me, that’s the entire point of enhancing your beauty and I’m also a fan of wearing a wig that doesn’t look like your hair some women make them look good ,but some women are so insecure and they haven’t grasped that yet in my opinion. So they’d rather seethe with jealousy instead of embracing their own skin tone , facial features and hair type.
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I love wearing wigs it gives me an opportunity to creatively express myself while I try different styles. I love wearing high quality synthetic wigs that have a china bang it makes me look like a blasian baddie. I revieve the best treatment when my hair looks like my scottish side in terms of soft wavy dark hair it gives me a playful soft happy perception and energy.
Thank you for this video, i have been seeing to many videos about people trying to talk down on woman that wear wigs, relaxed hair claiming that those woman dont love themselves.
Love this ❤
A lot of those women are fake hotep women or black supremacists . I’ve also noticed that UABW put pressure on MLS women with TYPE 4 hair to ONLY wear the type 4. It’s like they pressure exoticals to be their natural hair representation. It’s as if they’re trying to make the MLS women carry the weight of black beauty standards on their shoulders. It’s almost like they make it the responsibility of LSBW to be the face of Afrocentric beauty. For example, imagine how much outrage there would be if Chloe and Halle ever shaved their locs off and started wearing lace fronts . They would be dragged for filth
@@ExoticalsUnited 🤣that's so true
Please keep up the good work you putting out here❤your content does make a positive impact to others out there including myself
I’m so glad you’ve made this !!!! I’ve got curly hair 3C I’ve recently done a big chop I’ve cut off 10 inches 😢😢😢 anyway- I’ve had some weird comments from both men and women even statements such as “I’d understand if you did a big chop and was a full time wig wearer” like girl what???? My curls are beautiful idm being natural it’s only self haters that do 🙄🙄🙄🙄
Same i cut all my curly hair too and i love it so much better this way shorter and smaller!!
Same!
doubting your beauty is a real thing!! it happens to me all the time
I have been accused of dying my hair brown when it is naturally like that
Yup! I’ve been accused of dying my hair jet black to make it look shiny. I didn’t even know that was a thing. One time a girl actually did dye her hair in an attempt to get it to look “shiny” like mine … it didn’t work…
@@ExoticalsUnited read the last sentence and went “ooop!” 😂
Because our hair looks like the extensions lol
The same people that complain about Beyoncé being blonde never complain that Mary j blidge is also blonde
I’m wearing a blonde Yaki wig and it’s so many women having a fit about it
I think edge control looks off as well. I always have to stop hair stylists from applying it and they’re always shocked😂
Yeah I don’t wear edge control either
I feel the same way. It looks very strange to me, and I have the flat swirly edges naturally 😂
I have curly hair but it's easy to straighten and look naturally straight. I don't have natural edges. I would have never even thought to do that I think they look ridiculous. I don't tell people I think that, and I definitely don't style my wigs with them so it kind of I think comes across to them like I'm judging them. But my wigs look natural because I don't add extra baby hair or nonsense.
I’ve always said this they still be jealous that you look good with the weave or chemical enhancement people think it can’t be true like oh who’s jealous of a weave but no they know you look good and or it gives you a different look depending on what color and or type you wear
Jealous of fake hair? You think they can’t buy it? Yall delusional. So corny with this “tHeY aRe JeAlOuS”
Doesn’t mean the gonna look good in it.
Omg “my hater archetype” it sounds soo funny but true I have a type I stay away from too 😂
My hater archetype is uambw and uambm with bad emotional regulation skills and a bad relationship with their inner child. These people are very mean and rude to me. Whenever I'm going through a depressive episode these women love pointing out my hair flaws to embrass me in front of everyone. Yesterday when I was in a restaurant a uambw had the audacity to look at me and say I hate red bone women. This is the same woman who punched a metal elevator because it was moving to slow.
the problem is they dont want to take care of their hair in any state. they think the relaxer is a permanent fix when its also something that requires care! even more so because its processed hair. then they want to fear monger u out of getting one because they did a relaxer all wrong lmao
We're getting all the videos today. Thanks EU!! Will get to recording asap. 💖🌸
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My coworker came into work with her “natural hair” in a short ponytail after getting her weave taken out - leaned backward over my desk and shook her small ponytail asking me to touch it.. we kept talking about hair & she said - wait, those aren’t extensions???😳I was like haha um no…… and she went completely silent
Happy Friday beautiful ladies!
Thank god it's Friday.
Happy Friday! Love your pfp, so beautiful 🥰
I noticed everytime I relax my hair as a retouch, I get so many compliments on the fullness and length. 😇
When I was younger, I had friends who would lick my hair after every relaxer because they said my hair “smells like argan oil”. 😂
I’m learning how to put on clip in extensions. The one I’m wearing is called kinky straight human hair, 18 inches. Shout out to pretty in between ❤. Im letting my hair chill until summer come around because of excessive brushing my ends been breaking off. Oops 😅
Hair really should be a creative avenue just like makeup & clothes. Honestly it shouldn’t be such a big deal when someone else change their hair. I now got a huge collection containing big Afro wigs, braiding hair & now clip ins all in my closet. Thank to you ladies 🏆
Wow, amazing video!!! I have literally NOT realized this until you broke it down 😮❤
Yes this was confirmed when I saw how obsessed black women were with prettyNbetweens hairstyles . it’s a pattern at this point . I’m so glad we have this space and we are able to recognize these patterns in real time !
@@ExoticalsUnited Exactly!!!!! We get to swap notes and get more and more proof that they were just gaslighting us with the whole "you think you betta than us!" Nawww shawty, YOU think we betta 🗣
Let’s clock it 👏🏾👏🏾
Yes, would love to see more natural hairstyles on UABW. It looks best on us❤
I wear my natural hair in cornrows and I wear a headband and bows. I can honestly wear my hair however and I love that for me.
I haven't heard anyone speak about this but I have experienced this. I have a small following, around 4k on FB. Breaking into 100+ likes is not hard for me.
When i colored my hair blonde, I noticed my black following started to not engage so much. It's so weird to say this out loud, but I could tell they were angry with me for having blonde hair. My hair is still blonde but I'm growing it back out now, so i'm wearing braids and wigs and the wig im wearing right now is black, which is not my natural hair color either, its medium brown naturally. But wouldn't you know, now that I'm wearing dark hair my engagement is going up again. People can be so ridiculous.
Yeah I’m not surprised at all! Hair theory is interesting. we talk about this a lot on the patreon and there are lots of girls in the discord documenting their experiences with both black and non black people depending on their hair styles
The combs in wigs kept giving me alopecia .. yes, I left them on too long but because I was insecure with my own natural hair. Once, I stopped wearing wigs that insecurity went away and I didn’t feel the need to wear wigs anymore. I know how to grow my own natural hair now.
I just submitted a few story times from a dark skinned exotical pov its titled 'DARK SKINNED EXOTICAL HORROR STORY TIMES" its pretty long too!
When my clip ins get bad/old, idc I still look good and have other things to worry about 😂
My husbands hater cousin always throws shade. It’s because of the fluidity.!I have hair middle of my back . For reference, I am light skin black like Rihanna/monica etc . My hair can curl up and be straight. I one day decided to wear a bob wig for that sexy look without cutting my own hair. The cousin said; why you wearing a wig?! You already have pretty hair. Now you doing a lot” and I told her- you the same reason you wear box braids and wigs? To switch it up! Lol😂 and she stood quiet- but kept staring
Very nice video. A lot of intricate details with lots of things to think of in a whole new way. Thanks ☺️
2:28 that picture is an extreme case but literally all lace fronts you can see the screen door in person it doesn’t look like “their hair” they just lie to themselves
I prefer to wear my natural hair or extensions close to it but I do like the color. Having ginger hair looks cute on me in my opinion because I have freckles. I think it compliments me. I’m thinking of trying blonde soon.
5:15 you spoke facts I remember growing up girls at school would ask me if I had a perm in my hair and I was like what is a perm they just could not fathom the fact that I had naturally curly hair I remember when I posted about how I switched over from wigs to my natural hair in a Reddit group and everyone was getting angry at me. One lady was like “this post makes me angry because you have acceptable natural hair and I’m stuck with 4C hair” likeeeee???
In one of your videos you said, you didn’t care if your hair was down to your butt you’d still continue to wear wigs/extensions and I 100% resonate with that. I wear a wig almost everyday, not because I dislike my natural hair but because it’s so thick and curly I don’t have the patience to maintain it every single day.
yes exactly. and i feel the same way about my skin and face. no matter how smooth or perfect my skin looks, i will always continue to wear makeup. forever. no matter how long my lashes get or how perfect my lips look naturally, i will still wear lipstick or lashes whenever i want. its because beauty enhancements enhance my creativity and make it more fun and convenient for me to meet my fluid beauty standards. beauty enhancements like makeup etc give me more and more versatility. its the versatility that makes it fun for me! plus i have fun experimenting with my own beauty ❤️
@ absolutely!
When I straighten my hair I get told I look like a white girl 😂
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I was told I look half white or Latina 😭
I look my most beautiful with soft curly hair like Indya Moore
Yes I’ve been accused of dyeing my hair jet black
Hey exotically united I just wanted to thank you for who you are and your channel I don't think I'm exotical but I'm a lightskin black girl from south africa ive been mistaken for being coloured(the race tyla is) but im just black lighskin cause there are tribes in africa that are naturally light and I've always felt ashamed for being lightskin cause of how people project the whole colourism thing on me and not feeling "black enough" and with people saying I benefit from it when personally I've never been seen as beautiful growing up so I would feel really bad about my skin tone but since watching your channel I've been feeling better about myself and loving the way God made me ans not care about people who complain and speak about problems and offer no solution thank you love yah pretty gurl❤❤❤❤much love from south africa 🇿🇦
I just got my hair braided with light brown and blonde hair and I’ve been getting soooo many compliments. My UADSW co worker said “your hair looks so good it kinda makes me mad and idk why”. And she said something similar when I got engaged 😅
I’ve decided recently that I want to embrace my natural hair texture more after years of wearing loose wave bundles, started my hair growth journey recently and just got some 4a bundles for my birthday hair that’s match my natural hair texture and I feel like I look so much more beautiful with this which is my real texture or at least very similar, I wore the same bundles in like October and I looked so good .
My hair grew so long wearing sew ins. I would keep mine for like 3-4 months. I can’t stand braids because that Kanekalon hair breaks mine off. I stopped getting braids when I was 18 and started only wearing sews ins. Then I switched to wigs. Now clips in.
I’ve never done sew ins before. So they can last that long? I was thinking about getting braids but my hair breaks when I wear them and I want to grow out my hair longer. My hair is around 22 inches and I want it to grow like 4-5 more inches.
@ Yes they can! If you maintain it properly. Wash your hair underneath and keep the extensions clean and well conditioned. I think 3 months is the longest that’s recommended by professionals, though.
A lot of braiding hair has pesticides and made with glass
I don’t think you’re supposed to wear them for a super long time but if you have fine type 3 hair you should be able to get away with it . All you’d have to do is care for your hair under the sew in. I did 2 sew ins during college (6 months each) and my hair grew 13 inches . I remember after I took the sew in out I got so many dirty looks from people who were shocked at how much my hair grew😂
Glass?!
As a little monoracial fairskin ginger girl people loved to talk about my thick hair calling it nappy or say it felt like carpet as a way to make me feel bad. And I think as a way to remind me I was still black even though I had a mane of red hair.
As I got older my texture has gotten thinner and curls became more defined learning the right methods for myself. I started to be accused of trying to look mixed and LYING about that not being the case. And when I did the big chop my UA sister (same parents) loveedddd saying she had more hair than me. I hate that I saw her giving me the evil eye when it’d grown back to my neck within a year. She’d “jokingly” ask if I was wearing a wig when wearing it in a fro because I’d worn one around her once and “joked” about what would happen if she snatched it off.
And the hate came from bm and bw. Usually those I’m related to😢😢😢Everyone else like my Asian bfs friends and family ONLY ever compliment my hair and ask for tips. It sucks when your people are your biggest haters!
I kid you not….I’ve always had long hair and I didn’t ever think about it because it was part of me since I could remember. I never forgot 3 instances in high school. 1) A Blasian who had thick wavy hair befriended me and asked how I got my hair the it was. I was always to myself so that question bewildered me so I just said, “conditioner”. She looked at me like I was lying but I didn’t understand. 2) All the long haired exoticals indoctrinated me into their group. I had low self esteem and never saw myself as an exotic person despite the attention I had. They were all nice to me and I couldn’t fathom why they were talking to me. 3) I had my hair pressed and my mom took care of my hair as a beautician. I was sitting and waiting after school to be picked up. I knew these mono racial girls and never had a problem with them. They walked up and asked if my hair was real. I looked confused and said yeah. Without asking, they felt my scalp and I felt violated. I didn’t know what was happening. All they said was “Oh” and walked away. That scarred me. Just because I had waist length hair and people assumed I was mixed, made girls feel like they had to prove it for themselves. It get wild in these streets 😂.
I swear idk where some of these women get the courage to wear crop tops with a big stomach... I'm too scared and insecure for that!
This exactly what I experience… I’m slim thick with light caramel skin and a pretty face… I noticed women always trying to humble me because I wear wigs sometimes. I have naturally long hair, but like wearing wigs because they're low maintenance and look good on me. The reality is these women are jealous, because I look good all together… if I was unattractive wearing a wig they wouldn’t even bother to try and put me on blast…,but because I’m overall pretty they look for something to humble me with.
15:08 this is 100% true. The reason why it always appears plopped on and not blended in is because they’re trying to force something to work that isn’t working. It’s the same with the texture as well because you can have straightened wigs of all textures but it’s an overcompensation of what they wish they had. It always has to be the shiniest, straightest and super long to match with the eyelashes. And they’re constantly touching and trying to keep it in place instead of trying something new that works with themselves individually. All in all most hair options can be sustained well (I mean there’s a whole industry for this) but UBW refuse to learn what works for them and instead want what works for other women. It’s one of the many instances of not connecting the dots. Doesn’t take care of their hair ever, is upset it’s not healthy. Installs hair not natural to their phenotype like a cap, upset that it doesn’t look natural. Tells everyone their hair is bad, is upset their hair isn’t celebrated. Makes millions of videos showing wig installs, is upset people know it’s a wig. Just delusional and sad. Also the whole ‘that’s not true 4c’ thing is an extension of this because they’re don’t want the 4c girlies who actually take care of their texture to leave them behind and/or feel even more inferior seeing another woman achieve what they’ve told others was impossible.
Lol!
I was told that I was pretty and beautiful in rollers!
Lol
I am using prose products for my hair.They do an assessment according to your hair type and other factor to make a custom hair product.
Yeah, im gonna heat straighten my hair and wear weaves and wigs until I die. I have seen plenty of women maintain nice hair with relaxers. I would maybe if I didn't have the health history that I have. I have definitely seen some seriously terrible relaxed hair. I think a lot of them don't put in the maintenance to keep them up.
Same, I don’t like the way kinky hair looks on me. It looks abnormal on me
Me too. It's just a lot easier.
I bet you looked to pretty in your wigs!!
Yes it’s almost as if she viewed herself as the queen or alpha female of wigs and weaves and I was some sort of threat once I started switching it up too much especially with the different colors. I did honey blonde once, then platinum blonde, then black and silver 😂
Ekane inspired me to shave my head ❤.
I'm a high yellow light skin black girl and I was told that I don't have good hair. A few months ago, one of my Black friends said I had that nigga hair and needed to take back the Rev Air blow dryer and how it did nothing for my hair. I was surrounded by a group of people who wanted to see me use the famous Rev Air blow dryer and to see if it works. I used the blow dryer on high heat and after pulling it out, my hair just stuck up and they laughed at me and said I had nigga hair and to go get my money back. I used that blow dryer 2 months ago and haven't used it since. I have short 4b and 4c hair and hate it so much. It cause me so much grief, stress and sadness but I never made fun of other people for having different / loose hair type. Probably because I am a Christian. Whats funny is when I first went natural in 2013, I wanted type 4c hair and was hoping that was my hair type becuse I like the look of long stretched 4c hair and the different hair styles I can do with it. Now I'm stuck with it that won't grow no matter what I do to get it to grow.
The blonde thing is sooo real. Obviously from my pic I like to have blonde highlights in the summer. This is when I receive the most hate. My mom is a natural platinum blonde that she now maintains in her fifties. (I've shown her photo in the discord) so it's like yeah... obviously I can pull off blonde better than you and have it look natural-I came out of a natural blonde woman.
☆💙💚When i first dyed my hair.My dye hair color was blue and everyone stared at me especially when i went into the beauty supply store.One time i dyed my hair green and an UABW said to me you look like a human tree and we just laughed😆.I looked into the mirror at my green dyed hair and said yeah i do look like a real life human tree 💚🩵☆.
I went to the bank to open a new bank acc. I was having a bad day and was not going to take their BS. I walked in there and demanded to have my new account ready in 2 days including my bank card (I'm from Africa everything is a little slower here). The entire teller section just stared at me and proceeded to compliment my makeup and hair (which was a wig and they knew) including the men. This was so funny to me when I walked out because I was so rude and they were all like "fill here... oh and your makeup is so beautiful... here's a pen" haha "you will receive a message to come collect your bank card in 2 days... your hair... that wig looks so pretty" I was so confused 😄
4:10 soooo true omg
I remember literally arguing with this kid in middle school because he kept trying to convince me my hair was black….its just very dark brown 💀 I’ve been asked where I’m from so many times and I’m mono racial and multi national. I’m half Jamaican
Slightly off-topic, but exoticals really do get a lot of unwarranted hate. I stumbled upon a Lipstick Alley thread about UA-camr Shann Bailee, and there were these women saying the most horrible things about her and her husband.
I have lived in nyc and let me tell this ,Dominicans care their hair since they're kids ,you see them with afros so long but so healthy and if they relax is not fry hair , but in the internet I see them getting hate just because they wear their hair very feminine even in pixie cuts and some africanAmericans criticizing their hair salon but going there to get the same that they getting ,psss
If they so bad why they going to their salons?they should stay in their own comunity beauty parlors be happy with their own skills .
I like the way I look with blonde hair, or light brown hair with blonde highlights. However, people really do become unhinged when it's this color. I get an unusual amount of hate from black women and an unusual amount of positive attention from white men. for the rest of people, they are less extreme in their reactions to me. I can't put my finger on it. I don't think it looks natural on me, because then I would kind of see where they were coming from.
Omg if this isn't the story of my life. Why ask me if I'm wearing clip ins/wigs etc but not the next person?
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This is random but I'm hungry and I lowkey want to go to Chick Fil A. Instead, I came to your page so you could remind me not to become a beluga whale.
The combs in wigs kept giving me alopecia .. yes, I left them on too long but because I was insecure with my own natural hair. Once, I stopped wearing wigs that insecurity went away and I didn’t feel the need to wear wigs anymore. I know how to grow my own natural hair now.