I'm 32, unemployed, and not where I thought I would be.
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- Опубліковано 11 гру 2024
- Finding Direction at 32: Navigating Career Uncertainty and Pursuing a Passion for Helping Others
At 32, the pressure to have life figured out can feel overwhelming. Society often imposes an unspoken timeline where we should have a stable career, financial security, and a clear sense of direction by this age. But life doesn't always follow a straight path, and for many of us, uncertainty is part of the journey. This is especially true for those who want to make a meaningful impact, like myself. Despite the turbulence of being laid off, enduring a toxic workplace, and facing a daunting job market, the desire to help others remains a guiding light. Recently, I've been contemplating diving into UA-cam as a platform to fulfill this passion.
Leaving a toxic work environment was one of the toughest decisions I've had to make, but it was necessary for my mental health. The stress and disrespect was taking a toll on my well-being, leaving me feeling drained and unmotivated. Quitting felt like a step into the unknown, but it was also an act of self-preservation. No job is worth sacrificing your mental health for, and it’s important to recognize when it’s time to walk away.The job market right now is one of the worst I’ve seen. Positions are scarce, competition is fierce, and the uncertainty is palpable. Each application feels like a shot in the dark, and the lack of responses can be disheartening. But even in this bleak landscape, there’s a glimmer of hope. Sometimes, the most uncertain times can lead to the most profound discoveries about ourselves and our true passions.UA-cam has always been in the back of my mind. The idea of creating content that can reach and help people worldwide is incredibly appealing. It’s a platform that allows for creativity, connection, and genuine impact. Whether it's sharing personal stories, offering advice, or creating educational content, UA-cam offers a way to fulfill my desire to help others.
At 32, it's okay to not have everything figured out. It's okay to pivot, to explore new passions, and to take risks. Leaving a toxic job, facing layoffs, and navigating a tough job market are all significant challenges, but they can also lead to unexpected opportunities. For those of us who want to make a difference, platforms like UA-cam offer a unique chance to connect, help, and inspire others. It’s a journey worth embracing, one step at a time.If you’re feeling lost or uncertain, remember that it’s part of the process. Trust in your passions, take care of your mental health, and be open to new possibilities. You never know where the journey might lead you. #selfimprovement #reallife
Sincerely,
Nancy-
Whether you keep making content or not… thank you for even making this one video and being vulnerable to share your story. I am also 32 and unemployed. I pursued a career in music seriously and diligently for half of my life while also getting an education in STEM as a “fall-back.” Now I’m at the point where neither have turned into a career despite my best efforts. I’m lucky to have a family who supports me and with whom I can live with. I help them out as best I can and am job hunting every day/finishing a master’s, but can’t help feel like a total lemon 🍋 like where did I go wrong because I can honestly say my life is not like this for lack of trying.
To add to it, I injured my knee last year and also my foot this year so I gained a bunch of weight. Exercise has always been an escape and I can’t even do that without being careful. I’m just trekking thru, too.
Anyhow, just thought I’d share for anyone else feeling humiliated, lost, and barely hanging on… maybe it’ll help lessen the embarrassment.
Rooting for you!!
I know it's cliche but I often remind myself that we are all on our own journey, going at our own pace. It sounds like times are tough, but just know tough times build strong people. You will be better off in the end. You just gotta keep moving.
I've always thought you had a nack for this. I definitely think you should continue posting. Do it for yourself and for the enjoyment of doing it. You are a genuine person, and the world needs more people like you.
Thank you so much for the kind words. They mean so much at a time like this. You’re absolutely right! We are all on our own journey, going at our own pace. Thanks again for the support❤️
❤❤❤❤ I needed this video. Ur family is absolutely right I don’t think I should give this up
Thank you so much for the support! 🤗
Nancy!! I missed your videos! Thank you for being is raw and real.
Thank you for the prayers! ❤️ I am doing good though, just ready for the next thing that is meant for me 😊
Love seeing your videos Nancy! I'm so sorry you had to experience such stress in your workplace. I know exactly how this feels. Rooting for you!
Thank you so much! It means a lot!
Your humility is amazing. So sorry you’ve had to deal with unemployment, but agree 100% that it's okay to not have everything figured out. Please know that being employed/unemployed does not define you. Wishing you the best of luck in your next steps 💙
Thank you so much for the sweet comment. It’s much appreciated in times like these😊 yes! I’m Learning that being employed or unemployed doesn’t define me or my worth! Thanks again, hope you are doing well too.
Nance, I totally feel you. We're around the same age and though I am not unemployed, I am not living out my dream. It's hard to "trust the process" when the process takes time and you're trying to navigate it. It's a healthy form of divine discontentment. The other day I had someone encourage me to ask God, "What was I made for?" like the Billie Eilish song. Now, I'm just trying to learn how to pursue my dream, but use wisdom and not do anything rash or out of fear while supporting myself. You should definitely invest in this channel if that brings you fulfillment. Maybe your calling or gift is counseling and encouragement. This video edified me!
Yes, I agree with you. I think as we get older, we pause and reflect on what’s really important. We can’t forget to find joy in the “little things”. If we’re so busy worried about tomorrow, we really miss what’s in front of us. One step at a time! Thank you for the comment! Never give up on your photography/ videography. You have sooo much talent! Best wishes.
Hi there, I too am employed from past 1.5 years and it is definitely so tough out there i can't even tell. I also went through major mental health crisis. Just wanted to say you're not alone/// I'm also sailing in the same boat
Thank you so much for your comment, it means a lot! Going through a time like this is very hard. We have to try and stay positive and not lose hope. This is only temporary and it shall pass. Take care of yourself, best wishes. ❤️
I'm almost 32, i graduated in animation in 2017, have not had a job since. I rely on my moms pension and my younger brothers own meager income and try my best to make their lives as peaceful as possible without employment. Now my father who was earning money just yesterday passed away and it hit me like a ton of bricks. I'm terrified of the future, my mom needs more than just her pension and my brothers income, but now eventhough we live with her she is so alone. Alot of her friends have passed away and now her husband, we are still grieving and im uncertain of my own future. Ithought all i needed was a little more time to enhance my portfolio, maybe get involved with an internship course that i was planning on a applying to, but right now, im completely at a loss. my dad is dead, im not living up to my dreams and my mother is struggling and im scared of whats going to happen the moment she leaves also. I love her to bits and while my father and i never had as strong a bond im still devestated after his death.
I also have no social life, no friends, i had one romantic relationship but it was more like a penpal relationship and as far as i can see im going nowhere in life.
Same just my dad is well and good but has retired ....what should I do ...sometimes I even feel to suicide but I say no it's not good and stay strong😢
I’m so sorry for your loss. I feel for you. There’s so much going on and you don’t know where to begin. You’re also going through the loss of your father. I’m sorry. Having an animation degree can open so many doors for you. Also, don’t be afraid to get just any job for now if you can’t land one in animation. This can help you get back into a routine and can also help your mom. Don’t be ashamed in that, just continue to apply. We are all just trying to figure out life. It’s not easy, but there’s also so much beauty in it. Perspective is everything. That’s what I’m learning. Please take care of yourself. Don’t give up. Best wishes.
@@NancySanchezYT thankyou.
Iam completely lost nancy ....iam 31 ...dont no what to do ....sometimes i think of suicide but stay strong and just pass by it and i dont know what to do ....all negative things happen ....hope all gonna be good ....but it hurts
Im so sorry you are also going through a rough time in your life. Please remember everything is temporary, and have hope and faith your self. Everything will pass. I know it’s hard, and you may think no one understands. Please try to stay strong and pull yourself out of this place. I know you have it in you, we all do. You can also seek therapy/psychiatrist if that’s something you think you need. There is no shame in that. best wishes.
@@NancySanchezYT thanks 🥺
Great content love the video :)
Maybe consider story telling and post once every 2 weeks - a month so you have time to prepare!
Just something to consider.
Thank you for the feedback, it’s appreciated!
I'm 32 as well I am an aspirant, preparing for competitive exams to make my place in govt sector. Appeared 4 times couldnt make it. But still I have hope that one day I will definitely crack an exam.
😊😊😊 just keep stress low and be positive. ❤❤❤❤
I’m 29, unemployed and feeling so lost and alone 🥺
I understand how you feel. I’m sorry you are also experiencing this. What I have been learning is that our value isn’t defined by our job or title. It’s important to find things that make you happy and bring you joy. It’s never too late to try differ things. This is the only way to know what we like. Regardless of what anyone thinks you “ should be doing”. The only opinion that matters is your own. Best wishes.