America's First Cremation Was WILD

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  • @mortua_conjuga
    @mortua_conjuga 4 роки тому +2629

    "slathered in herbs and spices" dude was seasoned before being cooked.

  • @Kittie28
    @Kittie28 4 роки тому +2877

    Cait....this was such a missed opportunity to call America' First Cremation a HOT MESS

  • @KarlaRei
    @KarlaRei 4 роки тому +1062

    _"They just wouldn't stop dying."_
    So selfish.

    • @tttm99
      @tttm99 4 роки тому +20

      Humans are selfish indeed.
      Speaking of... Have you seen Dave?
      I'm worried he's trying to jeopardize the mission...

    • @thematrix496
      @thematrix496 4 роки тому

      @@tttm99 🤣

    • @fledermaus8694
      @fledermaus8694 3 роки тому +3

      The AUDACITY

    • @waswestkan
      @waswestkan 3 роки тому

      Reminds me of a yarn, where, a theif, thought cremains, was cocaine.and sold it to a biker ganf.. Suffice to say when the theft, should up in the local new, thing didn't end well for the teif.. One would think the bikers, would have, noticed, they where getting pleasure, than again. it's just a yarn.. Where land is getting scarce, cremation , should be come. the norm; or start planting bodies, in a vertical position. Not seen. in the newspaper; the native off to the side, shaking their heads, at, the white people, making the simple. difficult.

  • @Nick_Lewis
    @Nick_Lewis 3 роки тому +2219

    “I’m churning butter... that should be obvious” I was like “why is Caitlin rowing a boat.” 😂

    • @Rowancat11
      @Rowancat11 3 роки тому +99

      I was going with Charon and the river Styx, myself. ^^

    • @AlvarodeAlmeidaSantos
      @AlvarodeAlmeidaSantos 3 роки тому +19

      Same here Nick. I was certain she was rowing.

    • @TheMonstercreator1
      @TheMonstercreator1 3 роки тому +33

      Thought she was churning the body after not knowing what to do with it tbh

    • @bestbi3587
      @bestbi3587 3 роки тому +33

      I thought she was stirring a cauldron

    • @wyndhamcoffman8961
      @wyndhamcoffman8961 3 роки тому +30

      I thought she was sweeping the floor in an old timy manner.

  • @mall0wfluff
    @mall0wfluff 4 роки тому +369

    Okay so I was telling my dad how a UA-camr made me consider being a mortician and he said “you mean that lady with the bangs?” I was shook 😳 like how did my dad end up here too

    • @quietone748
      @quietone748 4 роки тому +63

      Dad has good taste!

    • @marnieenglish9400
      @marnieenglish9400 4 роки тому +5

      What are bangs?

    • @ThunderStruck15
      @ThunderStruck15 4 роки тому +25

      Marnie English the short hair above her eyes. I think Europeans call it fringe?

    • @AHam-lq9fq
      @AHam-lq9fq 3 роки тому +11

      I mean...they are iconic bangs if you ask me.

  • @kevinagreer
    @kevinagreer 4 роки тому +4101

    Caitlin really is that cool aunt that everyone wants.

    • @jennasalgado665
      @jennasalgado665 4 роки тому +128

      Lol I'd just be happy if she was my friend

    • @papermario3982
      @papermario3982 4 роки тому +27

      @@jennasalgado665 Saaaame!

    • @alitlweird
      @alitlweird 4 роки тому +70

      ... and we all now have. ❤️
      Caitlin Doughty is a National Treasure.

    • @lilyflare2
      @lilyflare2 4 роки тому +28

      Funny you say that, 'cause she reminds me of my real aunt.

    • @SaintAlessa
      @SaintAlessa 4 роки тому +17

      She’s awesome ✌🏽

  • @molasismusic224
    @molasismusic224 4 роки тому +2973

    "Cleanliness is next to Godliness, is next to classism, is next to racism.." OOH CAITLIN WITH THE PIPING HOT TEA! This is why we love you.

    • @AxxLAfriku
      @AxxLAfriku 4 роки тому +10

      I broke my feet today because I kicked my computer because someone commented that my videos are bad! I hate unjustified criticism. Please wish me a speedy recovery, dear mola

    • @raibug3180
      @raibug3180 4 роки тому +54

      piping cold embalming fluid

    • @PeterParker-hn8iz
      @PeterParker-hn8iz 4 роки тому +182

      @Andreas Glad “There’s no such thing as racism! I should know - I’m racist.” Thanks Andreas.

    • @alliahrivera9184
      @alliahrivera9184 4 роки тому +106

      @Andreas Glad yes ofcourse. Races who were enslaved for hundreds even thousands of years deserved it because they are "different". And yes of course they deserved to be treated differently because they did absolutely nothing wrong and was just born into that race. PERFECT!

    • @ExcludedShadow
      @ExcludedShadow 4 роки тому +79

      @Andreas Glad so every person with the same skin color is exactly the same and does the same things as one another. I see. So, one person “dumps” their family, everyone does! Your logic is as stupid as it gets. Please go back to 3rd grade where you left off.

  • @therichlife8657
    @therichlife8657 3 роки тому +769

    She’s such a good story teller.
    I could listen to her stories for hours.

    • @Jason.cbr1000rr
      @Jason.cbr1000rr 3 роки тому +4

      Lol yes she is and adds great humor and entertainment to it too! How old are you btw chick? Im curious cos i csnt figure your age and i like to figure ppls and and normally guess it right.. ok im guessing 27? Thanks chick.

    • @yourstepdad7285
      @yourstepdad7285 3 роки тому +34

      @@Jason.cbr1000rr this is such a creepy
      Comment

    • @parkchimmin7913
      @parkchimmin7913 3 роки тому +9

      @@Jason.cbr1000rr That’s suspicions-

    • @user-ut4tk4ph5z
      @user-ut4tk4ph5z 3 роки тому +5

      @@Jason.cbr1000rr
      Average discord mod

    • @naomistarr2099
      @naomistarr2099 3 роки тому

      @@yourstepdad7285 i⁸7⁷88 a bit ⁸⁸ it would

  • @allisonfitzmaurice6948
    @allisonfitzmaurice6948 4 роки тому +803

    Sometimes when I’m driving I see electronic marquees for funeral homes stating “$1200 for cremation” and I think
    *”Oh no, no, no, Caitlin taught me better than that”*

    • @jasonshirrillmusic
      @jasonshirrillmusic 4 роки тому +70

      hopefully my body will go to the body farm in Virginia so student's can learn about my decomposition? But I'll be dead so who knows? I won't.

    • @Witchy-Wonderland
      @Witchy-Wonderland 4 роки тому +14

      I haven't watched her long enough to know.. Teach me better 😊

    • @allisonfitzmaurice6948
      @allisonfitzmaurice6948 4 роки тому +54

      @@Witchy-Wonderland I’ll try to find a good video of hers, but direct cremation (no frills) shouldn’t be more than $900.

    • @allisonfitzmaurice6948
      @allisonfitzmaurice6948 4 роки тому +49

      @@Witchy-Wonderland ua-cam.com/video/MzrTl3kYHBE/v-deo.html here she gives a figure of $800-1200 but when I did a search of cremation costs in my city, $1200 was far too much considering some places charge $800

    • @CheshireCad
      @CheshireCad 4 роки тому +130

      Y'all are severely overpaying. If you watch the video, Caitlin clearly sets the baseline price at $7.04.

  • @abracadaverous
    @abracadaverous 4 роки тому +861

    I've lost a number of organs over the years, and medical waste is incinerated.
    Therefore, I've already been partially cremated. OMG

    • @IJustWantToUseMyName
      @IJustWantToUseMyName 4 роки тому +199

      It’s like you’re on a payment plan of five easy cremations with one gigantic balloon payment at the end.

    • @withazcooper1464
      @withazcooper1464 4 роки тому +122

      Partially Cremated would be a great band name

    • @censusgary
      @censusgary 4 роки тому +55

      Hmm, I guess that explains where my appendix is now.
      I actually asked if I could have it back after the operation (so I could keep it in a jar), but the hospital said no.

    • @lilitharam44
      @lilitharam44 4 роки тому +47

      Same here, guess my gallbladder has been cremated. I would have kept it in a jar, if I'd had the option. It was mine, after all.

    • @carmendelcastillo7724
      @carmendelcastillo7724 4 роки тому +5

      @@IJustWantToUseMyName that is hilarious!

  • @AHam-lq9fq
    @AHam-lq9fq 4 роки тому +2647

    I love how you always mercilessly photoshop your face onto anything. I love it

    • @ADMusic1999
      @ADMusic1999 4 роки тому +46

      I just want to say....
      Don't throw away your shot!

    • @JulesJukes
      @JulesJukes 4 роки тому +34

      @@ADMusic1999 or cheat on your wife

    • @JSJSpeaks
      @JSJSpeaks 4 роки тому +64

      Yes! Agreed wholeheartedly! I think that she should print out a picture book with all of the graphics that have graced our screens over the years, it would be the best coffee table book of all time. Not sure how to bring up death planning with your loved ones? Put it out when they come over! Or a "Guide to The Good Death" as told through the medium of graphics and the lens of gentle humor, that can be used as a conversation guide and workbook! Next publication, please!!!

    • @arthurvanessen5390
      @arthurvanessen5390 4 роки тому +15

      Or rather her iconic hair style

    • @elliediringer3821
      @elliediringer3821 4 роки тому +1

      Yesss

  • @seleuf
    @seleuf 3 роки тому +263

    "I'm churning butter, btw. That should be obvious."
    Lady, I thought you were rowing down the river styx. xD

  • @Lunareon
    @Lunareon 4 роки тому +736

    Names: legendary
    Corpse: iconic
    Furnace: lit

    • @jackreeder215
      @jackreeder215 4 роки тому +28

      Hotel: Trivago

    • @jasonflay8818
      @jasonflay8818 4 роки тому +12

      I want a shirt with Rev. Octavius B. Frothingham in sunglasses with that printed around the photo.

    • @fourever2ne1
      @fourever2ne1 4 роки тому

      It took me a minute to get it lol

    • @fourever2ne1
      @fourever2ne1 4 роки тому +3

      @@jasonflay8818 dude that’s a really good shirt idea lol

  • @madame_milky
    @madame_milky 3 роки тому +1762

    PLEASE make merch with “EASY, BREEZY, BEAUTIFUL, CREMATED GIRL” because ID BUY ONE IN EVERY COLOR SISSS

  • @loisreese2692
    @loisreese2692 3 роки тому +600

    My very best high school friend (Hindu) died a few years ago, and her husband hit the button on the crematorium. I took her Mom out of the room to make it easier on her. She was not embalmed but treated with many spices, and she looked beautiful. Just wanted to share.

  • @novice5895
    @novice5895 3 роки тому +40

    It’s not surprising that I’ve never heard of Henrietta Duterte, but her story is intriguing, especially for the time. Thank you Caitlin, for exposing this phenomenal business woman to the Deathling masses. As a black woman, I enjoy learning about outstanding ppl that haven’t been spotlighted before. I will be making a donation. You’re the best!💗

  • @maylahobson7508
    @maylahobson7508 4 роки тому +334

    I actually live in the town where LeMoyne crematory is located!! Dr. LeMoyne's house still stands and is open for visiting. They just refurbished the crematory as well and opened it last weekend for a tour and spooky stories!

    • @AskAMortician
      @AskAMortician  4 роки тому +179

      I can't tell you how much we wished we could have traveled and filmed this on site!

    • @adamestes5227
      @adamestes5227 4 роки тому +39

      @@AskAMortician perhaps you could go a follow-up video in the future.

    • @godlesslippillow
      @godlesslippillow 4 роки тому +42

      @@adamestes5227 Future respectful Post Pandemic Death Tour????

    • @adamestes5227
      @adamestes5227 4 роки тому +19

      @@godlesslippillow That sounds like a great idea. I’d totally watch that.

    • @mirjanbouma
      @mirjanbouma 4 роки тому +9

      I'm in favour of a revisit with on location after the plague has ended!

  • @invaderpopz
    @invaderpopz 4 роки тому +3058

    the people who disliked are all 150 year old anti-cremation reporters

    • @invaderpopz
      @invaderpopz 4 роки тому +36

      omg I cant believe you hearted my comment thank you! I'm a HUGE fan of you and the channel and what you do!

    • @lornaduwn
      @lornaduwn 4 роки тому +9

      Or maybe they just think that poor, Hispanic, Asian, American Indian or even white people should be eligible for her scholarship.

    • @jodysales2362
      @jodysales2362 4 роки тому

      Ha

    • @NZKiwi87
      @NZKiwi87 4 роки тому +8

      @@lornaduwn huh?

    • @cherrybrown8486
      @cherrybrown8486 4 роки тому +32

      @@lornaduwn Hey those sorts of scholarships do exist. Also this comment wasn’t about that? Just like the scholarship, sometimes things aren’t about certain things and that’s ok. Sometimes a comment isn’t about a scholarship. Sometimes a scholarship isn’t about certain people.

  • @oriole8789
    @oriole8789 4 роки тому +1473

    I am truly sorry for this, but I heard the first sentence as: "This video is sponsored by The Great Corpses Plus". My brain obviously has expectations for this channel.

  • @PandaGialla93
    @PandaGialla93 3 роки тому +258

    "Cut the guy some slack, he doesn't believe in water" BEST LINE EVER

  • @fiona8230
    @fiona8230 4 роки тому +865

    Listen, Caitlin, we need to know how they turned bodies into stone! You can't just say they did that and pulverize the bodies into a fine powder without explaining how they did it! I am so intrigued right now!

    • @StoriesbyIrish
      @StoriesbyIrish 3 роки тому +20

      I know I've seen a video with her discussing this. I can't find it though lol It might not have been on her channel though.

    • @kris4247
      @kris4247 3 роки тому +48

      The earliest attraction in the united kingdom was a cave that once you left an item in the water for a while it became encased in " Stone " I think limestone covered the items over time ... Maybe the same kinda theory

    • @amberkat8147
      @amberkat8147 3 роки тому +28

      they might not have actually had a working theory on how to do that.

    • @StoriesbyIrish
      @StoriesbyIrish 3 роки тому +34

      Found that video here
      ua-cam.com/video/-P4WWXWWUg8/v-deo.html

    • @sheepwithfern4325
      @sheepwithfern4325 2 роки тому +3

      I think it’s just a dry-age… just instead of cow’s carcass, it’s a corpse. Delightful

  • @hurricanefrid
    @hurricanefrid 4 роки тому +964

    Caitlin: "Coke-fired, coke like the by-product of coal that burns hotter, not cocaine."
    Me, a 27 year old with the naivety of a child: "Yeah, let's pretend I thought of cocaine and not Coca Cola.."

    • @novakiara6150
      @novakiara6150 4 роки тому +13

      Exactly this but I'm 16

    • @cedartheyeah.justyeah.3967
      @cedartheyeah.justyeah.3967 4 роки тому +49

      There are officially 3 things called coke. Coca Cola, cocaine, and the byproduct of coal that burns hotter.
      Edit: I am so tired I just misread 'hotter' as 'butter'

    • @aimeek2858
      @aimeek2858 4 роки тому +1

      😂

    • @markiangooley
      @markiangooley 4 роки тому +9

      Things go better with coke...

    • @urban_gse_
      @urban_gse_ 3 роки тому +1

      Lol me too bro

  • @ILoveBeingLoud
    @ILoveBeingLoud 4 роки тому +324

    If that crematoriums slogan isn’t “trailblazing for 150 years” I quit

    • @DibIrken
      @DibIrken 3 роки тому +22

      "Making flaming hot bods for 150 years. Trust us. It's lit!"

  • @raeorion
    @raeorion 3 роки тому +367

    I would really love it you could interview some indigenous people about their death and burial traditions! I feel like with all of the talk of "Indiana Burial Grounds" there are a lot of miscommunications and the indigenous people of the Americas have some really beautiful death traditions 💕

    • @kevinfox500
      @kevinfox500 2 роки тому +8

      I second that!

    • @emirparkreiner7801
      @emirparkreiner7801 2 роки тому +9

      Yeah that would be genuinely interesting

    • @visassess8607
      @visassess8607 2 роки тому +7

      Yes those classic Indiana burial grounds lmao

    • @LittleLouieLagazza
      @LittleLouieLagazza 2 роки тому +14

      The Mississippi Choctaw professional "bonepickers" who prepped bodies for basket-interment in charnel houses and mounds would be a fascinating talk

    • @raeorion
      @raeorion 2 роки тому +6

      @@LittleLouieLagazza SEE, omg I want to know it all now! 😱🖤

  • @sarablaira22
    @sarablaira22 4 роки тому +357

    what Caitlin said: "caused by miasma"
    what I heard: "caused by my asthma"

  • @Pruett51212
    @Pruett51212 4 роки тому +413

    "Easy, breezy, beautiful Cremated Girl" I died laughing

  • @saana5996
    @saana5996 4 роки тому +167

    Ok could someone write Caitlyn's Wikipedia page with the description "principally famous as a future corpse"?

    • @tttm99
      @tttm99 4 роки тому +11

      I think you've found yourself a job 😉😂

    • @elenaderoet4926
      @elenaderoet4926 3 роки тому +18

      I went ahead and did it. if I get in trouble.... well, it's still accurate- and I stand by my edit.

    • @Grumplebumple
      @Grumplebumple 3 роки тому +3

      @@elenaderoet4926 not all heroes wear capes

  • @nsierra2297
    @nsierra2297 3 роки тому +125

    I like the fact you mention Colonel Henry Alcock’s interest in cremation as a means to prevent vampires. This makes more sense after watching your video on New England vampires. I love how your lessons connect!

  • @jimc587
    @jimc587 4 роки тому +33

    I'm in my 60s, fighting my second type of cancer, and had a stroke. If I had such a nice and funny Mortician in my small village as you are, I wouldn't fight the inevitable so hard! Love your channel not just for the pleasant demeanor and lovely smile and humor, but you are very informative and entertaining. I'll keep watching, as long as I can anyway!

    • @starscreamofvos
      @starscreamofvos 4 роки тому

      Animal products cause cancer. There's still a chance you can win by switching to a plant-based diet. I suggest watching and learning from leading experts such as Dr Greger and Dr Barnard, and reject the lies from the most cruel, destructive industry in the world.
      www.nutritionfacts.org
      www.pcrm.org
      Please, look into it!

  • @loranddeka
    @loranddeka 4 роки тому +1362

    Caitlin is like "Nobody is getting into the spirit of the season this year like they used to. Well I'll just have to make them dammit." Happy Halloween everyone

  • @TheBeautyAndTheBrave
    @TheBeautyAndTheBrave 4 роки тому +107

    When I stumbled across your channel three years ago (because I’m interested in mortuary science) I knew I came across something special. Even down to the way you include your sponsorships are creative and unique. I’ve always been interested in the subject as I mentioned but I get a bit discouraged from time to time because I feel like there’s no job market for me, or how will I successfully accomplish such a goal. After watching your video to the end as I always do, I was so shocked to hear about your donations and scholarships towards African American women who are interested in the study! Not only that, but with Baltimore County Community College! I screamed! And quickly burst into tears! I live in Baltimore County and I’m still very much interested in mortuary science. This has given me hope and faith that I can achieve my dream. This is so amazing! Even if I don’t go through with it I know someone will and that too makes me so happy! Thank you soooooooooo much!!!! This has truly made my day!

    • @tessat338
      @tessat338 4 роки тому +8

      You GO FOR IT, Maryland Sister!!! Let us know when you're ready to put out your shingle!

  • @mady6929
    @mady6929 3 роки тому +293

    Oh my goodness, when you said they lost the body in a baggage cart
    I imagined a train conductor and other workers just walking around the train checking under chairs and between carts
    Until eventually someone lifts a bag in a pile of luggage, and reveals de palms face and he was buried under the luggage
    And they’re like, WE FOUND HIM! 😂

  • @jbeard801
    @jbeard801 4 роки тому +69

    Caitlin is soooo awesome. She and this channel got me through a really tough time of my life. I found her in early 2018 and then was diagnosed with brain cancer in October and my father died of metastatic lung cancer 2 weeks before Christmas. Caitlin's frank and candid talk about death helped me immensely to deal with the funeral industry in the wake of my father's death and I was able to make sure that his wishes that he not be mutilated or embalmed before cremation werefollowed. We shaved him in his death bed and sat with him all day talking to him and sharing stories. The only thing the funeral home did was to dress and wrap him for his viewing the next day. Never would had pulled that off without knowing what to say and ask per Caitlin. She also helped me be okay with the idea of my own mortality in the face of my cancer diagnosis. Long story short, she has saved my life! I love Caitlin now and forever!

    • @MWSfan18
      @MWSfan18 3 роки тому +5

      How are you now?

  • @katconley9702
    @katconley9702 4 роки тому +471

    Missed opportunity to title this “America’s First Cremation was a Hot Mess” 😂😂

    • @cedartheyeah.justyeah.3967
      @cedartheyeah.justyeah.3967 4 роки тому +18

      Even better,
      "America's first cremation was a WILD, HOT MESS"

    • @anelisamorgan8590
      @anelisamorgan8590 4 роки тому

      *YES!! AGREED!*

    • @ariannaharley11
      @ariannaharley11 4 роки тому +4

      Nice copied comment the original is right above yours lol

    • @katconley9702
      @katconley9702 4 роки тому

      @@ariannaharley11 lol honey if I had seen that comment first I wouldn’t have posted it chill out ahaha 🤭😂😂

  • @agathagasperoni639
    @agathagasperoni639 4 роки тому +101

    My grandma died this week and her funeral was today. She’s being cremated so naturally you come out with this video today.

    • @healinggrounds19
      @healinggrounds19 4 роки тому +19

      May your grandma go peacefully into the universe. My condolences.

    • @marnieenglish9400
      @marnieenglish9400 4 роки тому +3

      Sorry for your loss 💖

    • @YamakieHashiro
      @YamakieHashiro 4 роки тому +3

      I'm sorry for your loss

    • @lyn3483
      @lyn3483 4 роки тому +1

      I hope you have a bunch of good memories of her 💗

    • @raygunsforronnie847
      @raygunsforronnie847 4 роки тому +1

      My condolences on her passing; may her memory be a constant blessing to you.

  • @PetThePeeves
    @PetThePeeves 3 роки тому +20

    As a fellow deep voices gal (though mine is not as magnificent as yours…because I teach middle school I actively pitch it higher because it seems to be off putting to them) I very much admire your elocution and confidence.
    Mine gets progressively lower the more tired (obviously) I get, but also the more angry. That’s another reason I pitch higher as a teacher. When it drops, they know they picked the wrong one today. I actually have to practice when it’s time for school to start back! It’s bothered my mother my entire life but I love it.

    • @alienvomitsex
      @alienvomitsex Рік тому +2

      Teachers have my utmost respect. That shit is tough. I love my deep voice and the fact that men are put off by it, tbh. It's always pretty funny when people throw their insecurity in your face without realizing it

  • @JohnW941994
    @JohnW941994 4 роки тому +65

    Just want to say I loved this video. We recently cremated my father, when he passed away in September. He was the first member of my family to be cremated. It was simple and cost effective. Coming from a background of traditional "Christian" burials, We were leery about cremation at first, but it just seemed to fit our needs at the time and I know Dad would have loved the little memorial service we had. He & I used to watch Ask A Mortician videos together and they gave us a better understanding of the options we had. Thank you so much, Caitlin! If not for the work you've put into your channel, mine is one family that would've been far less prepared to deal with that loss. He got to experience the good death! ❤😢❤

    • @daniellecaven2198
      @daniellecaven2198 4 роки тому +4

      Sorry for your loss

    • @elaineteeter2904
      @elaineteeter2904 4 роки тому +7

      I don't wish to be indelicate, but where did you choose to place your dear father's remains? I'm a senior and want to be cremated, but I don't have an idea where my cremated remains should be placed. I want the easiest and most cost-effective means to dispose of my mortal remains. I want the most cost-effective method for my children. which will cost the least and expose them to the least difficulty in terms of cost and emotional anguish.

    • @JohnW941994
      @JohnW941994 4 роки тому +8

      @@elaineteeter2904 We actually still have his ashes. Mom is keeping them for now until she decides what she wants to do with them. I think she wants to be cremated too and have their ashes buried together...but right now his ashes are in a nice little urn in our living room. We took some ashes to put into jewelry urns for me, my brother, and sister.

    • @elaineteeter2904
      @elaineteeter2904 4 роки тому +8

      @@JohnW941994 thank you so much for sharing this with me. Such a lovely way to honor your father. It's clear that your family is a loving one. Your words have been a comfort to me and so helpful in my thinking. I'm so sorry for the loss of your dear father.

    • @elaineteeter2904
      @elaineteeter2904 4 роки тому +6

      @@ayyasudhamma7452 I knew my dad wanted to be cremated; he wrote me a notebook with all kinds of instructions. I never wanted to read it, but when he was gone, it helped so much to read his words to me. I'm going to do the same thing for my son and daughter. When my dad died, I was in such a fog I couldn't think properly. Having that notebook made me feel like he was still with me, telling me what to do. You're right, it helps to plan ahead.

  • @mod8179
    @mod8179 3 роки тому +620

    “Human body should not come in contact with water”
    But.. but.. what did he drink?

  • @krisbailey7160
    @krisbailey7160 4 роки тому +148

    The 1800’s were “lit”..Flying mystery meat, crazy cremation drama, guys named The Reverend...I think we’ve only scratched the surface here.

    • @nyotauhura7412
      @nyotauhura7412 4 роки тому +8

      Kind of makes 2020 look less nuts....until you consider that the crazy of the Victorian era was spread out over a whole century.

    • @cedartheyeah.justyeah.3967
      @cedartheyeah.justyeah.3967 4 роки тому +3

      @@nyotauhura7412 And Europe.

    • @krisbailey7160
      @krisbailey7160 4 роки тому +3

      @Rosie Lovett Autumn It’s from the video Caitlin did two weeks ago where she talks about the Kentucky Meat Shower..

    • @asherikamichaela8425
      @asherikamichaela8425 4 роки тому +4

      @@krisbailey7160 And the fact that some of my fellow Kentuckians actually went all "Dude, let me try that!" and ate the stuff... 🤢🤦‍♀️

    • @cedartheyeah.justyeah.3967
      @cedartheyeah.justyeah.3967 4 роки тому +1

      @@asherikamichaela8425 Let me guess... the 'mystery meat' was actually dead bodies?

  • @equalivent_auxiliumchina3286
    @equalivent_auxiliumchina3286 3 роки тому +97

    Is it just me or does anyone else REALLY enjoy Caitlin’s lessons too… She explains everything so understandable for even ppl like me to understand and I can’t stop laughing, she puts in so much ‘sick’ humor (the one I personally love)!
    Keep up the good work, Caitlin. I❤️U

  • @kristyhughes3146
    @kristyhughes3146 4 роки тому +320

    Question: how do you turn bodies into stone?
    Also, I think you need to have a T-shirt that says: Cremation: for a vampire free future.

    • @mandala314
      @mandala314 4 роки тому +4

      Absolutely!

    • @lu7702
      @lu7702 4 роки тому +6

      That would make for an amazing shirt.

    • @IJustWantToUseMyName
      @IJustWantToUseMyName 4 роки тому +25

      The corpse has to look directly into the eyes of Medusa to be turned into stone. It’s relatively quick once you get the corpse to focus their eyes, but the waiting list would be too long for this to have been practical.

    • @MsBTmom
      @MsBTmom 4 роки тому +6

      I would defiantly buy that shirt!

    • @SYH653
      @SYH653 4 роки тому +8

      ​@@MsBTmom Who's forcing you to NOT buy this shirt? Deathlings want to know!

  • @rickkinki4624
    @rickkinki4624 4 роки тому +387

    My younger brother died from a motorcycle accident in October. His ashes were divided among a number of small urns, which were passed around to everybody who was close to him.
    I'm planning on spreading his ashes in Boot Hill, in nearby Tombstone, Arizona. Our older brother intends to spread the ashes over our parents' graves in Cayucos, California, while his wife and kids are going to spread him along the Oregon coast.
    Well, that's my brother all over! Love you Tim, and I'll miss you forever.

    • @mikki3961
      @mikki3961 4 роки тому +25

      Sincere condolences on the loss of your brother.

    • @lyn3483
      @lyn3483 4 роки тому +10

      Sounds like a great idea 🙌🙌🙌

    • @bumblebee560
      @bumblebee560 4 роки тому +10

      I'm so sorry for your loss. 💙

    • @AprilBytheBay
      @AprilBytheBay 4 роки тому +13

      Boot Hill is a great place! Letting him catch some cold ones with the outlaws, sheriffs, and pretty cool prostitutes doesn’t sound too bad. A man who died traveling, traveling all around. ❤️

    • @rickkinki4624
      @rickkinki4624 4 роки тому +9

      @@AprilBytheBay When I'm gone, my survivors will be instructed to spread my ashes at Boot Hill!
      But not for a very long time, at least another 30 years!
      Thanks for all the great responses!

  • @aimeewalls8208
    @aimeewalls8208 4 роки тому +152

    "This funeral had EVERYTHING!"
    AND Stefan?!?! Hell yes, gimme more, more, MORE!

  • @vidblogger12
    @vidblogger12 3 роки тому +107

    I don’t know why, but out of everything, “Sizzler crematory and grill” at 7:06 made me laugh the hardest.

  • @Daniellelp921
    @Daniellelp921 4 роки тому +531

    Caitlin is the BEST story teller!! “People would just not stop dying!” LMAO

    • @bobbiejofuller6626
      @bobbiejofuller6626 4 роки тому +1

      I love how she looks into the camera and not like others who look like they are reading something.

    • @BluePi1313
      @BluePi1313 4 роки тому +1

      I didnt think I cared too much for the history and science of dead people, but she's really good at keeping me engaged to the point where I wanna learn more.

    • @bobbiellison4315
      @bobbiellison4315 3 роки тому +1

      @@BluePi1313 yes I also don't entirely agree on the "science" but this left me with more questions. Anyway she is entertaining ! lol

  • @sethg6157
    @sethg6157 4 роки тому +379

    "cut the guy some slack he didn't believe in water" lol

  • @DawnieD27
    @DawnieD27 4 роки тому +354

    “In urban places like New York City, people just wouldn’t stop dying.” 💀💀💀

    • @gnarthdarkanen7464
      @gnarthdarkanen7464 4 роки тому +11

      Yeah, they're just SOOOoooo inconsiderate in New York City! ;o)

    • @abracadaverous
      @abracadaverous 4 роки тому +3

      Plus ça change, plus c'est la même chose

    • @fatebreakerproductions
      @fatebreakerproductions 4 роки тому +3

      don't you just hate it when that happens

    • @nightburststudios2142
      @nightburststudios2142 4 роки тому +4

      Damn people, be a little bit more considerate!! This is outrageous

    • @tttm99
      @tttm99 4 роки тому

      Puh! People, right?! 🤖

  • @mannyalvarado2664
    @mannyalvarado2664 3 роки тому +20

    Caitlin is something else...i love when she says.."the middle ages were magic"

  • @mndldvs1
    @mndldvs1 4 роки тому +117

    I just adore Caitlin's impressions, especially the valley girl. Only Caitlin could make mortality hilarious without being crude x

  • @chrisarmstrong411
    @chrisarmstrong411 4 роки тому +55

    Have to say,just recently lost my beautiful wife o 35 years, you've been so helpful with dealing with my loss,,thank you! Cannot say enough,,,

    • @cruisepaige
      @cruisepaige 3 роки тому +3

      I’m so sorry Chris, but I’m glad you are helped by Caitlin. I think she’s wonderful.

  • @CassandraBankson
    @CassandraBankson 4 роки тому +353

    #29 on trending!!

    • @caelestisnox7045
      @caelestisnox7045 4 роки тому +5

      A nice update 11 hours later, right now this is #28 on trending

    • @diegoaguilera4363
      @diegoaguilera4363 4 роки тому +2

      OMG HI CASSANDRA, OMG WHY AM I FREAKING OUT, TWO QUEENS MEETING SKSJSJXHYSYHWHSYSYUXJDKSKSK

    • @DdFirebolt
      @DdFirebolt 4 роки тому

      Good to see you here @Cassandra Bankson!!

    • @juliusnepos6013
      @juliusnepos6013 4 роки тому

      Woah

  • @mookerimungeri
    @mookerimungeri Рік тому +20

    I was really happy to stumble on this video! I actually saw the cremains and visited the crematory at the LeMoyne House where The Washington County Historical Society is located. I was there to pick up old newspapers for the Pennsylvania Newspaper Project and we got the tour. It was super interesting. LeMoyne is interesting in his own right as well.

  • @tifKh
    @tifKh 4 роки тому +394

    “I’m like the Theranos lady”
    I’m dead. Not really. I mean, I laughed a lot.

    • @RealBradMiller
      @RealBradMiller 4 роки тому +23

      *dispatches hearse to your location*

    • @eidolor
      @eidolor 4 роки тому +9

      Might I interest you in a spot of consolation cremation?
      Weird tho, always thought she had a very comfortable pitch

    • @RealBradMiller
      @RealBradMiller 4 роки тому +10

      @@eidolor I love Caitlin's voice. She's an all around great person. 10/10 would let her cremate me...again.

    • @dernudel1615
      @dernudel1615 4 роки тому +8

      I hadn't even heard about Theranos until yesterday when I was listening to the Sawbones podcast. They didn't mention her being a complete fucking nutter. I had to find that information, elsewhere.

    • @alex0589
      @alex0589 4 роки тому +4

      RIP
      (Really Impressive Pulse)

  • @Greywolfgrafix
    @Greywolfgrafix 4 роки тому +153

    As Mark Twain supposedly said once..."I didn't attend the funeral, but I wrote a nice letter saying I approved of it".... lol

  • @PsRohrbaugh
    @PsRohrbaugh 4 роки тому +64

    16:50 this is essentially the reason my mom wanted cremation: "You know me - I've always been a fastidious person. Slowly rotting away in a dark coffin doesn't seem like me."

  • @jakegrist8487
    @jakegrist8487 4 місяці тому +2

    For the first time ever, I watched a sponser endorsement and actually thought it was a great addition to the video. I didn't even skip it. Nicely done.

  • @amythe470
    @amythe470 4 роки тому +222

    As a Black woman who is also very intrigued with the afterlife in the process of death.
    I one hundred percent Love this whole funding event
    And will definitely be donating
    And on my behalf I appreciate all of you for supporting black females
    ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @AprilBytheBay
      @AprilBytheBay 4 роки тому +22

      If you haven’t seen her other videos, she has one where she visits a black cemetery and to paraphrase “it’s sad that there had to be segregation but now the black cemetery tradition must be protected for all of the value it has for the community and ongoing tradition.”
      Basically the celebration of life vs the stanch and starchiness of a more “white” cemetery.
      You want your hair/ makeup done right so you have someone taking care of you who knows your skin/ hair type. You want your family to feel comfortable so you go to a black funeral home to then be transported to the grave sight of all your other relatives and have an accurate family history.
      Sorry if that sounded weird (I’m autistic so I phrase stuff weird) but yes she does a lot for the community and I’m ecstatic that she does.

    • @amythe470
      @amythe470 4 роки тому +14

      @@AprilBytheBay
      Hey I’m on the spectrum as well
      Thank you for the information
      I appreciate you ❤️❤️❤️

    • @raygunsforronnie847
      @raygunsforronnie847 4 роки тому +15

      @@AprilBytheBay One of Caitlin's outstanding traits is her respect for lives, and death traditions of people who don't look exactly like herself. She understands the innate humanity of taking care of the departed and the different roles families play in different cultures. That's pretty cool.

    • @dejaaaaa615
      @dejaaaaa615 4 роки тому +5

      I LOVE this and the comments , also as a black woman myself ☺.

    • @robertsmithfan877
      @robertsmithfan877 4 роки тому +2

  • @junjunjamore7735
    @junjunjamore7735 4 роки тому +116

    *Caitlin:* "Buckhorst.. had a real _joie de vivre..._ "
    *Caption:* "Buckhorst.. had a real (speaks foreign language)"

  • @diquedahlia1935
    @diquedahlia1935 4 роки тому +63

    During the sponsorship I thought she said “the great corpses plus” and I didn’t question a thing for a good minute

  • @jzthompson9598
    @jzthompson9598 3 роки тому +54

    "My haters make me famous." omg, girl. You kill.

  • @Spencer481
    @Spencer481 3 роки тому +169

    I think the weirdest part of the whole story of the Barron's cremation was the fact they kept opening up his coffin, like guys, STAHPPPPP

    • @father_mae_i
      @father_mae_i 3 роки тому +26

      But we gotta make sure he still in there 😂😩

  • @nimmieamee1988
    @nimmieamee1988 4 роки тому +341

    “Cremation would preserve their beauty”
    “Had the body privately slathered in herbs and spices”
    “Symbolized the SEVEN planets”
    This story is a lot, even before we get to the souvenir ashes.

    • @koganusan
      @koganusan 4 роки тому +13

      well, pluto wasnt discovered until 1931. not sure about neptune, or maybe they didnt count earth

    • @jolaechen_r6
      @jolaechen_r6 4 роки тому

      +

    • @graciethebelle
      @graciethebelle 4 роки тому +3

      The Victorians were wild man

    • @Mirin_the_Witch
      @Mirin_the_Witch 4 роки тому +5

      Some astrologers still believe that the classical 7 planets are the only relevant ones to influence us here :D

    • @healinggrounds19
      @healinggrounds19 4 роки тому +7

      All I could think of was KFC's secret blend of 11 herbs and spices.

  • @oougahersharr
    @oougahersharr 4 роки тому +73

    Caitlin, could you look into Amy Archer-Gilligan. She ran the first nursing home in USA, and due to contemporary funeral practices, was able to kill her patients. So, was a serial killer, too.

    • @victoriashevlin8587
      @victoriashevlin8587 4 роки тому +4

      Never heard of her, but I'm totally on board for mama Death to cover her. She sounds fascinating.

    • @joywebster2678
      @joywebster2678 4 роки тому +7

      She was ahead of her time, now governors use corona patients to clear out the nursing homes!

    • @tocatafugue
      @tocatafugue 3 роки тому +1

      Yep, a video on this would be pretty macabre. She ran the first for-profit nursing home, not the first nursing home, apparently

    • @oougahersharr
      @oougahersharr 3 роки тому +2

      @@tocatafugue AH, definitely a difference. Thanks for letting me know. :-)

    • @pompe221
      @pompe221 3 роки тому +2

      Upvoting because I want Caitlin to do a video, not because I approve of Ms. Amy's activities.

  • @kassandrasolon1633
    @kassandrasolon1633 2 роки тому +8

    You are a storyteller like no other, I LOVE your videos because they are as educational as they are entertaining and they're entertaining enough that I replay my favorites all the time. I get goosebumps every time I hear you talk about this scholarship, knowing that it was already a success and will be a lasting impact from the community YOU brought together. Thank you for all the work you do, and for putting so much of your personality into each of your videos!

  • @imzadi83fanvids7
    @imzadi83fanvids7 4 роки тому +221

    "Turn the bodies to stone then grind them to a powder" Okay...we need to talk about that one a little more please.

    • @hellelujahh
      @hellelujahh 4 роки тому +15

      Yeah - I wonder if they actually had a method to do it (or at least a reasonable idea of how to do it), or if it was just a "what if we could, like, turn corpses into stone" kind of thing.

    • @stevedenis8292
      @stevedenis8292 4 роки тому +21

      Perhaps it involves a Medusa and a few sledge hammers.

    • @angelcdeath
      @angelcdeath 4 роки тому +4

      We should dust off this topic now that we're less stiff minded... more stiff minded? Mindful of stiff oriented stuff, less petrified. Or are we...

    • @lissaquon607
      @lissaquon607 4 роки тому +2

      Yea..I have several questions about this...

    • @kellyalves756
      @kellyalves756 4 роки тому

      @@lissaquon607 Same here, nothing but questions.

  • @moocowpong1
    @moocowpong1 4 роки тому +206

    "He was terrified of burial, as allegedly he had known someone who had been buried alive"
    That's a valid fear but HOW THE F*** IS CREMATION BETTER?!

    • @davidhanson4909
      @davidhanson4909 4 роки тому +48

      It's over faster? And I guess there's at least a slim chance someone will hear you screaming, whereas there's almost none if you're down in a hole with half a ton of dirt holding you down.

    • @ptonpc
      @ptonpc 4 роки тому +7

      You taste better?

    • @NotSoCrazyNinja
      @NotSoCrazyNinja 4 роки тому +7

      Probably a faster assurance of death? My grandmother had the same fear of being buried alive. Her solution? "Make sure they embalm me and embalm me good before they put me in the hole"!.

    • @DrKlausTrophobie
      @DrKlausTrophobie 4 роки тому +1

      @@NotSoCrazyNinja Something like a very last checkup?!

    • @NotSoCrazyNinja
      @NotSoCrazyNinja 4 роки тому +3

      @@DrKlausTrophobie There is a non-zero chance of being buried alive. It has happened, it continues to happen, and will continue to happen. It's rare though, so the chances of being buried alive are very low. Embalming makes sure you're dead, but then again, so would cremation.

  • @adrianacharbonnet1199
    @adrianacharbonnet1199 4 роки тому +110

    "Woopsy poopsy" is probably the funniest thing I've ever heard on a Saturday morning

  • @gentlemanjared
    @gentlemanjared 3 роки тому +17

    That's it, next D&D character is Rev. Octavius B Frothingham.

  • @DenaInWyo
    @DenaInWyo 4 роки тому +156

    Wait wait wait, I need to know more about this dude who thought God didn't intend people to come in contact with water. I have questions.

    • @christiamark9184
      @christiamark9184 4 роки тому +9

      I know!

    • @taylor3950
      @taylor3950 4 роки тому +25

      Yeah like I assume bathing is out but what about crossing rivers? What about rain? What about drinking water to live?!

    • @DenaInWyo
      @DenaInWyo 4 роки тому +9

      @@taylor3950 Right? I had all those same questions! And bathing being totally out? I don't see that being a situation a human could live long term. I mean, even the cavemen probably took a swim now and then. I'm not even talking about stink..just ..crust? And did water include ALL liquids? Maybe a bath in beer?

    • @samuraijackoff5354
      @samuraijackoff5354 4 роки тому +3

      Some people don’t need an answer I guess.

    • @taylor3950
      @taylor3950 4 роки тому +7

      @@DenaInWyo the people demand the truth!

  • @mariebelladonna437
    @mariebelladonna437 3 роки тому +203

    When she said, "This story, has it ALL." I was like, omg, is she doing Stefan? And then she actually showed Stefan later, and I was like, YASS!!

  • @lygiabird6988
    @lygiabird6988 4 роки тому +180

    The Reverend Octavius B. Frothingham sounds like something Shawn would make up as an alias for Gus in Psych

    • @manfrommeeteetse3880
      @manfrommeeteetse3880 4 роки тому +9

      It's the initial B. that makes the name

    • @Philemaphobia
      @Philemaphobia 3 роки тому

      De Palm made up his whole family XD

    • @awesomesauce1238
      @awesomesauce1238 3 роки тому

      @@manfrommeeteetse3880 I don’t know why he didn’t just keep whatever the B was, it’s already a mouthful🙄

  • @danteaiudi9839
    @danteaiudi9839 2 роки тому +14

    Caitlin has a great disposition on death and dying. She's extremely informative and knowledgeable about this subject. Caitlin should get an Oscar for her videos and performances. She's hardly dead-pan or stiff in her approach in explaining such a tough subject. It's really terrific! 😂🥃🚬👍

  • @fletcherreder6091
    @fletcherreder6091 4 роки тому +77

    I mean it *was* the 1800's, so there probably was cocaine involved at some point.

  • @ADMusic1999
    @ADMusic1999 4 роки тому +71

    Cremation was around much longer than that. They just added the "wait until the person is dead" part.

    • @denisemcdougal6445
      @denisemcdougal6445 4 роки тому +1

      Yup

    • @theblackbaron4119
      @theblackbaron4119 4 роки тому +11

      Nah, that's apearantly is "arson" and the elderly couple across my street didn't appreciate my helpful and we'll meaning initiative to help them to get a cheap cremation. I've been told that it is a "felony". 🙄

    • @katbowen4800
      @katbowen4800 4 роки тому +3

      @@theblackbaron4119 omfg

    • @merakiminx
      @merakiminx 4 роки тому

      And I- oop

    • @gnarthdarkanen7464
      @gnarthdarkanen7464 4 роки тому +2

      Pioneers like Sam Colt help with that "patience" part quite a lot. ;o)

  • @frnz1943
    @frnz1943 4 роки тому +106

    The moment I heard that the corpse was slathered in herbs and spices, he took on the figure of Colonel Sanders in my imagination.

    • @stevedenis8292
      @stevedenis8292 4 роки тому +5

      I wonder if that would hide the crematorium and people would think it was just the local BBQ houses.

    • @BennyLlama39
      @BennyLlama39 4 роки тому

      LOL! Col. Sanders. 😂

    • @frnz1943
      @frnz1943 4 роки тому +6

      I do wonder if the good Colonel was also slathered with the 11 herbs and spices when he died...

    • @cloudbeams
      @cloudbeams 4 роки тому +3

      I heard that - had to pause the video and said out loud "Herbs and spices? This ain't Kentucky fried chicken, people!"

  • @ashalon8729
    @ashalon8729 3 роки тому +45

    I thought she said she was sponsored by The Great Corpses Plus at first 😆

  • @lyllydd
    @lyllydd 4 роки тому +54

    To be fair, the rural burial thing has been around since at least ancient Rome. The medical examination of corpses was not permitted inside city limits back then, for fear of vengeful spirits. Postmortem examination for the purposes of public health and physician training was conducted OUTSIDE of the city, as was burial.

    • @danielponder690
      @danielponder690 4 роки тому +11

      and in Judaism burning the body is considered a desecration of the body, this custom carried over into Christianity and Islam, which I think explains the general aversion to cremation for such a long time

    • @Serenade2461
      @Serenade2461 4 роки тому +1

      I thought they buried bodies outside cities purely to protect the groundwater

    • @lorriemiller6750
      @lorriemiller6750 4 роки тому +7

      They also did not usually do autopsies because they considered the body as sacred and to do anything was considered desecration and the body was to be treated with reverence. In Islam and Judaism the dead are considered unclean and anyone handling them had to undergo purification rituals and the bodies had to be buried as soon as possible after death and not just because of the climate depending on where they were it was dictated by the legalisms of and requirements of their law laid down in scripture. People also for medical study also had to resort to grave robbing to learn about the human body, anatomy etc since it was not permitted to study or learn anything about the human body especially dead ones because everything was considered desecration and the body was supposed to be considered holy and sacred and to profane it was illegal and punishable.

    • @lyllydd
      @lyllydd 4 роки тому

      @@lorriemiller6750 I was also thinking about how Roman physicians often became charons at the arena so that they could have access to bodies for study. They still had to cart the bodies out of city limits in order to work on them.

    • @lyllydd
      @lyllydd 4 роки тому

      @@danielponder690 Yep. A friend of mine had an issue with that when her dad died. She was trying to get a burial at a Jewish cemetery for him, but older brother claimed the body and had it cremated against the wishes of the entire family and his synagogue.

  • @hauntedmasc
    @hauntedmasc 4 роки тому +131

    "I'm churning butter; that should be obvious." - Caitlin Doughty
    And they say nothing good happened in 2020...

    • @yvellebradley2502
      @yvellebradley2502 4 роки тому +1

      Creamery, crematorium, whatever...

    • @hanstun1
      @hanstun1 4 роки тому +1

      @@yvellebradley2502 Creamatorium?

    • @marcye5469
      @marcye5469 4 роки тому

      I thought she was sweeping the floor for some reason 😂

    • @yvellebradley2502
      @yvellebradley2502 4 роки тому

      @@hanstun1 Drive-thru with the kids. See grandpa off, get ice cream afterwards...

    • @hanstun1
      @hanstun1 4 роки тому +1

      @@marcye5469 I think we can all agree that this is Caitlin's first time churning butter. :)

  • @cwtdos1994
    @cwtdos1994 4 роки тому +128

    Unrelated: I often find myself randomly singing "BENTHAMS HEAD!" Thank you, Caitlin.

    • @Salwerth2822
      @Salwerth2822 4 роки тому +3

      This. 😂

    • @Kateiswriting
      @Kateiswriting 3 роки тому +3

      My university friends used to talk about Jeremy Bentham, his head and the varnished corpses he wanted to keep in his garden all the time and every time I hear the jingle it's like running into an old friend.

    • @mariebelladonna437
      @mariebelladonna437 3 роки тому +5

      This! Or, "The Middle Ages were ma-giiiiic!"

    • @grandmabea6471
      @grandmabea6471 3 роки тому +2

      Also “Kentucky Meat Shower” now

  • @deanchampion6777
    @deanchampion6777 3 роки тому +7

    I SO LOVE YOU... prioritization? Your brain. Your sense of humor. Your broad knowledge. Your absolute smoking hottness. OH, and your effortless presentation/teaching.
    And your absolute unfiltered... everything.

  • @ErinHawethorne
    @ErinHawethorne 4 роки тому +30

    She is one of the few people who make 2020 just a little bit better.

  • @nellherself
    @nellherself 4 роки тому +121

    I bought ‘will my cat eat my eyeballs’ the other day and i’m almost finished it already! i actually couldn’t put it down, my parents are arguing about who gets to borrow it off me first 😂

    • @harveyabel1354
      @harveyabel1354 4 роки тому +4

      Why don't they each get their own copies?! ;)

    • @amyshort5625
      @amyshort5625 4 роки тому +5

      I have my name on the list for it at my local library! Can't wait!

    • @katbowen4800
      @katbowen4800 4 роки тому +4

      @@amyshort5625 its so good my copy was signed

    • @melodyhicks5810
      @melodyhicks5810 4 роки тому +8

      Omg I just realized this is on audible and since I never bother to cancel my sub I have have credits😂😂 happy birthday to me🙌🥰
      EDIT AND SHE IS READING IT YASSSSS!!!

    • @daisychain5894
      @daisychain5894 4 роки тому +4

      @@melodyhicks5810 🥳🤩 happy birthday 🤩🥳 hope you're enjoying the day in the best way possible, I turn 40 and my son turns 20 on the same day next week 🤯

  • @Kieran_the_Smol
    @Kieran_the_Smol 4 роки тому +50

    Going down the "Victorians being terrified of getting buried alive" rabbit hole, I'd love to see you do a video on the many weird ways they tried to avoid waking up in a graveyard. Stuff like coffin bells and that sort of thing, or the bloke who made a coffin lid that would stab him when it was closed on him, just to be absolutely sure he was dead.

    • @xfallenxlostx3254
      @xfallenxlostx3254 4 роки тому +4

      Yes. This, please!!!

    • @moist_onions
      @moist_onions 4 роки тому +1

      She already did a few years back!

    • @danaott2849
      @danaott2849 4 роки тому +1

      I believe she did a video on that a while back..🤔

    • @Kieran_the_Smol
      @Kieran_the_Smol 4 роки тому

      @@moist_onions Ah, I must have missed it. Fair enough. I'll have to go check it out.

  • @normaramirez9377
    @normaramirez9377 3 роки тому +6

    I wake up and I put her videos. She is real. No sugar coat. We live, we die, we rot, all part of life. She gives good ideas and I finally through her videos I finally found what I wanted when I pass one day. I always had a panic attack just thinking about cremations and burials. I don't want any of that. I'D rather be compost.

  • @JiRune138
    @JiRune138 4 роки тому +58

    I know this isn't really your area of expertise but would you be able to talk about other types of cremation like First Nations' and Hindu's? (I am Hindu so I get why we cremate our dead, but I think it is fascinating that other cultures also do it for a variety of other reasons)

    • @isadrug3254
      @isadrug3254 4 роки тому +10

      Hello Varun, both my husband and I come from and live in Poland, where cremation is not very widespread, and by some even unacceptable. However, we do profess Krishna and cremation is the obvious choice for us. Regards🕉

    • @hazardsigns
      @hazardsigns 4 роки тому +5

      I'd be interested in this too!

    • @JiRune138
      @JiRune138 4 роки тому +7

      ​@DL1982 Peters honestly cremation and aquamation seem like the coolest ways to dispose of bodies anyway. In Hinduism, we cremate the bodies as the fire will purify the souls, and we dump the ashes in the ganga river (aka ganges) as it is the holy river (also from my understanding Lord Ganga was cursed to have dead bodies floating in her... that was a wild ride of a story)

    • @JiRune138
      @JiRune138 4 роки тому +2

      ​@DL1982 Peters Okay so bearing in mind that there are many variations in this story as well as I don't really remember it all (and lowkey don't want to look it up because it will send me down a rabbit hole), this is why we cremate the dead (also excuse my poor story telling. also I say Lord a lot, normally I wouldn't, but for consistency I will). So it all begins with Lord Parvati (One of the Mother Goddess Trinity, goddess of many things including fertility and strength, if you ever heard of Maha Kali/Kali, this is another form of her) wanted a child, so she and her husband Lord Shiva (part of the male trinity, god of many things including destruction and dance, considered the "end" of the cycle) prepared to create one. This involved combining their energies to create a child. While this occurred, other gods/demigods were worried that demons would try and steal this energy for their own usage. In order to protect it, Lord Agni (god of fire) took the energy and went away to keep this safe. This angered Lord Parvati, who didn't know that they were trying to protect the soon to be child, cursed him to burn down everything that surrounds him. Worried about this, he decides to pass off the energy to Lord Ganga, (Goddess of the Ganga river/Holy river/Ganges). Since she is so pure, she was able to hold onto the energy without it harming her. Again, Lord Parvati not knowing the full story, gets upset. Now some quick backstory, Lord Ganga was initially in heaven, and when she went to earth, Lord Shiva 'caught' her on his head and trapped part of her in his hair in order to protect the earth. So Lord Parvati not being rational, believe that Lord Ganga is both trying to steal her child and also her husband in some weird sense, and curses her to be littered with dead bodies. This makes Lord Ganga lose her purity, and she isn't able to hold onto the energy, so instead she drops it into the earth, so that Mother Earth Lord Prithvi (Goddess of the earth, some sects consider her an avatar of Lord Lakshmi, another one of the Mother Goddess Trinity, goddess of many things like fortune) could 'give birth' to the child. While the energy drops it shatters into 6 pieces, and results in the formation of 6 babies. There, 6 nymphs (not the proper word but I can't remember what they are and I don't speak hindi/sanskrit) each take a baby as their own. By this point, Lord Parvati had calmed down, and went to get her children, however the nymphs say no as they picked them up. She says that she has a right to them, but they also claim that they have the right to them. Then Lord Ganga and Lord Prithvi come and claim that since lord Ganga carried him and Lord Prithvi 'Birthed' him, they should get the child. Lord Shiva arrives and suggests that they split the 6 babies into 9 babies, but the nymphs mention how they couldn't bear to part with even a part of their child, to which lord Shiva reminds them that it is his and Lord Parvati's child. They understand, and the 6 babies fuse into 1 (Lord Ganga and Lord Pithvi didn't actually want the child, they were just trying to prove a point to the nymphs). Then Lord Shiva lets the Nymphs take care of the child until he grows older which makes Lord Parvati upset (I don't remember why he did this) but she accepts it. Lord Shiva acknowledges that Lord Agni and Lord Ganga took the child away to protect him, but while he can't remove the curse, he grants them boons instead. He grants Lord Agni the boon that although he will burn everything, everything that he burns will be come pure. So when we burn dead bodies, they are purified. He grants Lord Ganga a boon that by bathing in a specific lake once a year as a black cow, she would always remain pure despite being filled with the dead. That is why we put the ashes in the Ganga river, as it will be filled with dead bodies but always stay pure.
      Well this is the story to my knowledge, I could be completely wrong, but this is what I remember learning.

    • @JiRune138
      @JiRune138 4 роки тому

      @DL1982 Peters No worries, I'm glad it was interesting.

  • @DavidKJohnson1988
    @DavidKJohnson1988 4 роки тому +14

    That was the best ad for Great Courses Plus I've ever seen.

  • @RealBradMiller
    @RealBradMiller 4 роки тому +89

    "Is that my voice? Is that MY voice?!
    Oh well."
    -Yzma

  • @kenlaursen6435
    @kenlaursen6435 2 місяці тому +1

    I love your voice changes, one of the best teachers I had growing up used to teach in the same manner and style you have explaining things, I just went to my 45 class reunion this year, and I still remember things that teacher taught me. Don't change your approach, I love your presentations!

  • @kikoonthemove
    @kikoonthemove 4 роки тому +120

    Honestly I wouldn’t have been too shocked if cocaine was involved in the cremation

    • @kikoonthemove
      @kikoonthemove 4 роки тому +1

      @Make Me Believe I meant mixed into the ashes :/

  • @SewardWriter
    @SewardWriter 4 роки тому +199

    "... Slathered the body in herbs and spices...."
    Anyone else think of Colonel Sanders at that point?

    • @ronaldledbetter7172
      @ronaldledbetter7172 4 роки тому +14

      Just remember, when a body is cremated, there is a certain point where it is cooked perfectly!

    • @sweetprimrose
      @sweetprimrose 4 роки тому +2

      Sounds fucking delicious tbh

    • @tttm99
      @tttm99 4 роки тому +2

      No, no... It's just the way it's cooked!
      .... Err, I mean cremated...

    • @anelisamorgan8590
      @anelisamorgan8590 4 роки тому +2

      Then she brings out the chicken in the end of the video😂🐔

    • @takkycat
      @takkycat 4 роки тому +2

      Mmmmm! I love KFC (Kentucky Fried Corpse)!!!

  • @ninjayukaria7251
    @ninjayukaria7251 4 роки тому +82

    I associate you with death and death mythologies so much that I thought you were rowing a boat like Charon, instead of churning butter! 🤣

  • @beatnikmary
    @beatnikmary 3 роки тому +3

    I am obsessed with your outfit in this video. That blouse, that neckline, that necklace, that colour...*chefs kiss* ...perfection!

  • @raincloud-5516
    @raincloud-5516 4 роки тому +31

    "People just wouldn't stop dying" thats a big mood Boss Lady

  • @scarfacefan19
    @scarfacefan19 4 роки тому +43

    Your videos have inspired me to finally at 33, to seek my dream career. I have wanted to be a mortician as long as i could remember and your awesome videos have reignited that passion. Also this is such a morbid video and i love it!

    • @natashak8281
      @natashak8281 4 роки тому +4

      Hey! I'm the same age and going after my dream just now too! ❤️

    • @scarfacefan19
      @scarfacefan19 4 роки тому +4

      @@natashak8281 awesome! I wish you the best of luck!

    • @natashak8281
      @natashak8281 4 роки тому +1

      @@scarfacefan19 You too!!

    • @scarfacefan19
      @scarfacefan19 4 роки тому

      @@natashak8281 thank you!

  • @zerassa8391
    @zerassa8391 4 роки тому +88

    Just a fun fact: it's actually really common for powerful women to speak in a deeper register because it helps men take them seriously. Sometimes it's intentional, sometimes not. Hillary Clinton worked with vocal coaches to change her voice to a higher register when her husband was first running for office and then back to a lower register when she entered politics.

  • @VidralliaArchives
    @VidralliaArchives 3 роки тому +15

    Those names be like the Gravity Falls TV gag:
    *"Stay tuned for the Friday night movie, 'The Duchess Approves' starring Stirly Stembleburgiss as 'The Duchess' and Crampton St. Rumpterfrabble as a rascal, coxswain 'Saunterblugget Hampterfuppinshire'."*

    • @yunamchill9169
      @yunamchill9169 3 роки тому +2

      Lol, just watched that episode yesterday!

  • @kentclarenceungab7743
    @kentclarenceungab7743 4 роки тому +71

    I see Caitlin Doughty, I click like.

  • @caitlin5402
    @caitlin5402 4 роки тому +15

    Thank you for covering this!! The LeMoyne Crematory is about half a mile from where I live. I was born and raised in Washington, PA, and I've visited the LeMoyne House (the doctor's family home) which is now a museum. Our little city is full of history, so I'm thrilled to see you tell this story!

  • @thedoneeye
    @thedoneeye 4 роки тому +92

    "I'm churning butter..."
    I thought you were piloting a river boat.

    • @XSemperIdem5
      @XSemperIdem5 4 роки тому +1

      I thought that too.

    • @abbipage1
      @abbipage1 4 роки тому

      Same 🤣

    • @personzorz
      @personzorz 4 роки тому

      Why not both

    • @rebeccaj.2606
      @rebeccaj.2606 4 роки тому +5

      I thought she might have been stirring her witch's cauldron. You know, Halloween and all...

    • @rogerlague1520
      @rogerlague1520 4 роки тому +1

      Wow everybody here has such a clean mind

  • @apancher
    @apancher 3 роки тому +10

    These videos are so damn good! I stumbled across my first one maybe a week ago, and have been hooked. Incredible quality, perfect presentation, and just the right amount of humor.