By the way, I am team big wedding for sure😂(but with proper financial planning of course). My idea is that out of the tripartite system, pick one out (I’m biased towards the traditional wedding by the way🧍♀️) and then celebrate to your taste. The remaining two can then be kept really simple, and calm.
I personally feel that the reason why more importance is attached to weddings and why they are often more expensive is because, unlike personal celebrations like birthdays or anniversaries, it affects more people. Tbh, let’s face it, It’s not just about you and your partner, it’s more of a merging of families. So basically a wedding impacts a much larger group of people compared to the other kind of celebrations. So I mean, it’s only fair that it is sort of deemed to have a bigger significance.
1:15 I have never understood this tripartite system tbh. Either way you go; traditional, church or court wedding, the marriage is legal. But Nigerians like 3-step factor authentication🫠
Weddings are expensive for both the couple and wedding party. I doubt it’ll ever change, Nigerians are very flamboyant and wedding themed service providers overcharge.
Weddings are expensive because it IS the most important day because it is LITERALLY the start of a NEW GENERATION. A NEW FAMILY, your OWN family😂👌… so it is believed that all that carries a lot of weight and importance therefore it must be celebrated the most
I think i'll say wedding are expensive cause of the whole 'it takes a whole village to train up a child'. 'Village' wey you no know say them exist, you go feed them when its time for wedding
Finally someone has said this perfectly !
Because why exactly have quite an amount of Nigerians been low-key pressured into idolizing big weddings
there’s a whole lot of pressure especially online!!
By the way, I am team big wedding for sure😂(but with proper financial planning of course). My idea is that out of the tripartite system, pick one out (I’m biased towards the traditional wedding by the way🧍♀️) and then celebrate to your taste. The remaining two can then be kept really simple, and calm.
this makes a lot of sense👏🏽
Welcome back Adaora❤
thank youu🥺
Nigerian weddings are a spectacle...they go above and beyond....wonder how much money they splurge on these events.
A lotttt of money
7:29 I'm definitely team small wedding. Loved the video, so glad to have you back too! 😂❤
Pretty much😹
I personally feel that the reason why more importance is attached to weddings and why they are often more expensive is because, unlike personal celebrations like birthdays or anniversaries, it affects more people. Tbh, let’s face it, It’s not just about you and your partner, it’s more of a merging of families. So basically a wedding impacts a much larger group of people compared to the other kind of celebrations. So I mean, it’s only fair that it is sort of deemed to have a bigger significance.
Righttt! I get you!
1:15 I have never understood this tripartite system tbh. Either way you go; traditional, church or court wedding, the marriage is legal. But Nigerians like 3-step factor authentication🫠
@@jesutofunmiwilliams8028 heavy on the 3-step factor authentication 😭
Ouuu, it's like a wedding vodcast/vlog. I was semi-right! 😅
Right?!😹
Single woman don drop marriage quote 😏😂
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Weddings are expensive for both the couple and wedding party. I doubt it’ll ever change, Nigerians are very flamboyant and wedding themed service providers overcharge.
True sha😭
Team small wedding🥳
In fact team court wedding🤣
i am with you! lmao🤣🤣
For real, outrageous amount for weddings... Well, i guess it's a matter of choice.
I know right
you’re looking gorgeous
Thank you 😊
Weddings are expensive because it IS the most important day because it is LITERALLY the start of a NEW GENERATION. A NEW FAMILY, your OWN family😂👌… so it is believed that all that carries a lot of weight and importance therefore it must be celebrated the most
@@aminaapampa4126 this is an interesting perspective! I get it😅👏🏽
Over-spending on wedding ceremonies, and then running into debt, is just ridiculous. 😂
exactlyy😭 idk why people don’t get it
New hair who deez?🌝😂
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I think i'll say wedding are expensive cause of the whole 'it takes a whole village to train up a child'. 'Village' wey you no know say them exist, you go feed them when its time for wedding
hmm fair. never really looked at it from this viewpoint 🤔✅
Yh, the child birth thingy is better Fr
Righttt