"She Should Move On": Darcey's & Tom's Long Distance Struggles | 90 Day Fiancé: Before The 90 Days
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- Опубліковано 16 жов 2024
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American Darcey has a British boyfriend who lives in England. Their long distance relationship has been filled with on/off moments. Will they manage to solve their issues and meet up?
Tom looks nothing like his pictures 🤦
BECAUSE HE IS THINNER NOW...BUT WAS CHUBBY WHEN DARCEY 1ST MET HIM IN LONDON YET THIN IN PICS...🙄 SUCH A FAKE!👎
Natalie Danish Middletown Connecticut
He put on wieght
I was like ... ?🤔?
True! I cracked up laughing when I saw the real him.
Tom running back into the airport is so fake, he just did it to be on camera, it was not about darcey..
Facts
It’s kinda how Jesse was like “oh your just gonna let your man leave like that” Like what your were rude asf to her
nah uh
:T
Look at their profiles, their upper lips look like shelves from Ikea
He did it for that one last kiss lol
Tom is such a catfish 🙃
True. But Darcy HIGHKEY looks like one
@@ericfelixcisneros but she isnt
Word
I Nooooo
Hahha he is english 😂🤣 they are all like this
"It's just a birthday" really got me like no sis HE SHOULD BE CALLING YOU EVERYDAY
yeah, and if i guy calls you everyday, he would be labelled, "Creepy" and "desperate" hahahaha
@@holypkdead4 why would you find your own bf "creepy"?!
Yaa exactly i was thinking the same
@@holypkdead4 a random dude? Yes
A boyfriend? No
Or maybe some people aren’t that dependent on each other. If it feels like an obligation then the relationship is trash
I love how the name of their business is a tribute to their late brother that's very sweet
What 1.8k likes but no comments....let me help you
They are both attractive ladies all this cosmetic surgery actually makes them look horrible
I 'can't imagine waking up to see this fake ladies and me being married to something like that!!! Sorry Darcy you would have better luck being natural . Trust me I've been married 53 years and never even had fake nails
I really wish you the best
I’d prefer Stacey over Darcey
@@mmh7338 Yesssssssssssss we do.
A woman can do whatever she likes with her body, but it's true that sometimes surgery really doesn't fit them at all
Ethereal Especially since both Darcey and Stacey are using plastic surgery to not only lure a man, but also get rid of their own insecurities. Unfortunately, only therapy can fix that.
I actually pity her. She seems nice and how this guy treated her, like, are you just playing around with her like she's your school girlfriend? The both of them are already old enough to have grandkids. They should be mature and serious in their relationship.
P/S: I see that a lot of comments are because I said she's old enough to get grandkids. Although in some culture view her age as not too old to marry, others view differently. I wish Darcey at least finds someone better.
I don't nessaseraly think we are seeing the full picture here. They is a massive time difference and they both work, it's probably really difficult to find time to actually talk and this does lead to distancing not just physically but mentally too 🤷🏻♀️ maybe he wants her but it's just too difficult with the long distance but he is trying to figure things out I.E. Just being friends etc etc
45 is too young to be a grandparent lol
45 is too young to be a grandparent lol
@@shanaynayokeil6553 no one of my friend's mom is 45 and my friend has baby 4 year old so 45 is most likely grandparents age my mom Also 46 when my sister gave birth
@@shanaynayokeil6553 my mom is 45 and she has 3 grand kids
Everyone blaming on her on being insecure but not talking about how insecure Tom is. 😒 Tom also needs therapy.
Thank you. Total narc
@Amilah CrackcornandIdontcare lol we'll see, my dad just started therapy 🤣
@Amilah CrackcornandIdontcare it took a bit of a while. The only thing is he manipulates his therapist easily. He only tells his side of the story in a victim narrative. And I'm glad your ex is out of your life
Everyone is making a valid point about her
Tom needs plastic surgery
She needs therapy. Shes so insecure.
THIS!
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Right!! I feel bad for her, but it makes for great tv lol
I can feel this
Therapy doesnt fix that tho
“It’s just a birthday.” Girl I feel you on so many levels right now.
Even i felt the pain in that..
Sometimes we downplay people's mistakes to make ourselves feel better
We need to remember we've only got ourselves in the world and we need to love ourselves and know our worth before loving somebody else
That was so bad. She should have said "he's just some guy" instead of putting herself down.
That was so heart breaking she seems to be so desperate for someone anyone to love her. I hope she finds her happy ending.
My first ex never remembered my birthday unless I mentioned it. And we were together for three to four years.
When she said “he said he was going to call” my heart broke into pieces. Poor sweet lady. She might be a little weird sometimes and desperate but she just wants to be loved.
They need to dissolve the lip fillers and restart. The shape doesn’t fit their face
Orrrrrrrrr maybe, they can decide themselves what they want to to with their own face. Worry about yourself.
I don't think their lip shape would go back to normal anymore at that age.
Looks like two sausages 😂
I think it's irreparable now☹️
Brittany J exactyl!!! It looks so bad, it almost looks like its painful.
Tom is a serious narcissist
The dude is an mamas boy trying to convince us he’s a GQ man. It’s not working Tom, you should have stayed with Darcy, cause your both insecure...!
You got it!!!
Saw this exact thing in a friend's boyfriend. Kept yanking her around then ghosting her. Sick.
And Darcy is an emotional rollercoaster 😂
yep same
Their lips...I’m sorry, I can’t.
😫😫😫😫
🤣🤣🤣🤣
And the fake tan too lol
Fish lips
👁👃👁
👄
Their faces are just .... a mess
The lips 🤦🏻♀️
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@@brendagarcia5945 the lips is too much
How can someone not see, how bad they look
I still prefer Darcey 💁🏻♀️
Hard to see Darcy when she was talking about her birthday 😔 “it’s okay...it’s just a day...”
Ugh.
Calling your long-distance lover on their birthday is the LEAST you can do. For real
That is sad because a birthday is not just any day it celebrating the day that you were born and another year that you're older. The fact that he promised to call her but he never did and didn't even make up for it is just so sad! 💔
Tom definitely don’t look like his pics🙄 . Chubby lil Brit
I thought I was the only one who not iced that
Chubby little Brit 😂😂😂
As a chubby little brit I would be offended but nah you right🤣
u just insecur
I love this lol😭
Looks nothing like James Bond lol
I know, he's nothing of the sort
Its like she thinks stereotypes are legit lol
More like postman pat
He looks more like James old 😭😂😂😂😂
...and he want just celebrity..this narcisistic man
When darcy was in the coffee shop with her sister drinking her drink, her face looked soooooooo painful...i don't understand do ppl not look in the mirror anymore???.🤔🤔🤔
Some people suffer from body dysmorphic disorder. I'm not saying that's what Darcey has, I'm just pointing out that this particular disorder can lead to, among many things; an over-use of surgery to correct a _perceived_ flaw(s) and often comes with significant emotional insecurities. Essentially, what we see, is not what people with body dysmorphic disorder see in themselves.
Sometimes she looks so beautiful but sometimes her face looks like a mess. It’s weird but I love her personality
@@girlfromrioo She looks like a fake, hot mess.
The hair also lol
@okaygirl141 sounds like you paid for it😂
"I'll be in New York. Do you want to see me?"
Gurl, no. "I want to see you", that's how he would have asked if he wasn't playing
So true.
Im sure behind that botoxed face. There's a beautiful & pretty face
@Sequoiah Dreams how is that shallow, she ain't beautiful with all that Botox, she looks FAKE!!! Maybe your offended cause u have too much Botox too.
You mean, there was....
I find her face pretty older than her age maybe plastic surgery doesn't fit well on everybody faces. She probably is better without all this stuff really!
Imagine putting other women down 🤢 it doesn’t make you any better hunny
botox is different from fillers btw
It's sad to see someone suffering in a relationship and people are going crazy over her lips. Like...WHAT?????
Ikr? Blows my mind
I know right it’s ridiculous
Well those messed up duck lips take 80% of the screen...
@@joelsantiago8348 says you,maybe lose that weight,you're looking like amberlynn pal
@@missvoorhees7964 Shut up duck face
Why is Tom sleeping on this woman. She’s 45 and ready to be serious, she’s beautiful, she’s glamorous, and she’s a business woman. He’s a fool.
I really think Darcy is a catch. Smart, successful and gorgeous.
@@Snitchich she is emotional, unstable, insecure and desperate. No great catch is single at 45
@@deusexmachina9776 a great catch can be single at 45. Some people aren't relationship people. However she is emotionally immature and that comes out when she is drinking.
@@mlledj22 if someone is not a relationship person how are they a great catch?
@@deusexmachina9776 a great catch includes not to be desperate to jump into the next relationship when the previous ends because one can't handle solitude. So, yeah, great catch can be single at 45. 😊
I really like Darcey's personality, not her lips or dry hair, that's not important, but she deserves a better man, a real one, not the half-man as like Tom
😂 i love the lowkey shade❤️
Their poor faces.
Girl just let them live
i mean she looks prettier than you, seems most of the people criticizing them arent even as attractive as they are
@@impendingeuphoria8802 darcy is not prettier, if you think so, have a look at het without make up. I like darcy, but her face is botched.
I see why ✌
impending euphoria you don’t even know what other people look like. You’re just salty that they are right and you’re wrong
If it's love, the man will fly to see you. Not you fly 1/2 the world to see him. If a man is not chasing you, he's not interested.
Exactly
the chasing should be reciprocated
As much as Darcy needs serious professional help, my heart breaks for her when she said “it’s just a birthday”. At the very end, she has a kind heart and just wants to be loved & appreciated. I hope one day she can find her self worth & then the right man for her will come.
how do you know someone right for her will come? not even just for her but for anyone?
She seems sooooo sweet and friendly though! She reminds me of a few friends I have (from 24 to 38) that are desperately looking for love for the wrong reasons ! :( It makes me sad more than anything else when I see my fellow women/men out there downgrading themselves because of asshats like Tom !
That moment she thought he will propose to her 😄 🤣 and gave her the 🔑 to his house. Tom is horrible 😢
I know! It was such an empty gesture, considering she lives on the other side of the world. Tom's the WORST.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I usually would judge a girl like darcy but I really like her. She really deserves a king.
Why do you say you usually would judge her? :(
No offense, but you judging people based upon stereotypes tells a lot more about you than them 😅
As you just proved yourself, they are not accurate.
I think she has to go to therapy first. Then when she starts to heal and she's aware of how lovely she is, she will have a healthy relationship. Sometimes people just are attracted to patterns. So she must break that thing first.
Darcy should actually date a Brazilian man, not Europeans if affection is what she really wants to. Brazilian men are hot, full of feelings too much that they show it in public and they are super jealous hahaha I see how she appreciates it
Brazilian men yuck not my type. I'd like to see her date a Russian, Ukrainian, Macedonian, or even a Portuguese guy.
Looked up Brazilian men on google lol dang i think she’d appreciate one
I have to agree with Lisa. Whereas I can respect if people have different tastes, I'd like to see more Europeans on the show for diversity but I also feel Europeans can be romantic as well and pretty affectionate.
No man wants a whiny cry baby whose an emotional wreck
What about an elegant French man? 🤔
Darcy has tons of insecurities but she’s a sweetheart. Tom doesn’t deserve her. And he looks nothing like his pictures, red flag no 1. Darcy needs someone who will make her feel loved and taken care of. Tom ain’t it
tcl aus you are a bit late to the party ...everyone in the world has already seen this on the normal tlc channel
Meanwhile in Pakistan. Playstation 1 is barely coming out and VHS is in its infancy! 😁
Very Late
The real channel and every fan one..... Weeks, nay months, ago!
channing1989 - Not everyone in the world has the TLC channel. We used to but it was removed ...
I was 💔.
I am happy to get what I can, when I can, and where I can. Thanks UA-cam.
@@aetl100 to be fair everything on there is absolute garbage, better to spend your time learning a new skill or a hobby 🙂
How does he look so different in the video calls than in real life??
i think filters?
filters
Angles??
I was wondering that too. He even sounds different
After Jesse invited her to New York to break up with her Darcey is now more cautious about going on suspicious trips. I feel bad for her. Why can't people break up with her in her state?
And she’s going to meet her new Bulgarian bf in New York too. I hope that goes well
Because they are narcissistic jerks
She needs to learn to love her self, before someone else can love her.
It's Darcey and Stacey's hair for me🥴 they need to stop the bleaching, extensions and heat on that damaged dying hair
and their fillers😩they need to let them dissolve
@@cindya0212 we all know they never gonna dissolve them fillers😂😂😂😂😂 let's save the hair first
some of you women are so focused on hair,
When Darcy cried about Tom not calling i felt that on so many levels i feel for her
Darcy, if Tom is constantly hot and cold, your response should be “how about you contact me when you’re know what you want, do you I’ll do me” that is going to give you the answer you’re so desperately looking for. also don’t be so emotionally invested and available with a man who is hot and cold or with any man. don’t tell him all of your feelings, keep it to yourself because that can be emotionally draining for both people. If you have doubts talk to someone else like a therapist.
"It's just a birthday" is so painful to hear.
Hold up this is so old
I was like is she in love with him again ??
That's exactly what I was thinking! Why they playing reruns?!!
LOL, YES..APPARENTLY NEW CHANNEL.
Yeah now she’s touching herself in the bath tub for some uninterested guy 🥴
It’s kinda like a promo for “Darcey and Stacey” and “90 Day Fiancé.” By posting past episodes, the shows generates interest in future episodes. AND I think 🤔 they’re trying to get people to buy into that Discovery+, which is an extra charge.
How many more years are Darcey and Stacey going to be 45 years old?
They have to be older lol
True story
😂😂😂😂😂
😄😄😄😄
Until they are married
Poor women. She needs to love herself first.
Tom is so dramatic. Someone please tell him he’s not in a romance movie
Darcy gets so defensive but she needs therapy! She doesn't know what love is. Desperate needy women don't attract men with self respect.
Hahaha, he lacks self confidence as well 🤣
@@luckycamachopapaleo324 MY POINT and she will continue to repeatedly choose the same type.
@@sandralogan4036 , your comment was directed at Darcy, I think that dude lacks a personality, he pretty delusional. Both need therapy but at least Darcy is real.
@@luckycamachopapaleo324 Darcy is the one we have followed for several seasons. It's her choices that put with the men who don't love her which is why I focus on her.
Stop making fun of her she seems to be a kind person
He's 39 but looks my 55 year old grandpa😂
James bond lol more like harry potter
LOL! thank you for the laugh. 😂
LOL 😆
Don't disrespect Harry Potter like that!
😂
🤣🤣 i cant deal my nights made
More like Voldemort
"It's just a birthday" IT'S *YOUR* BIRTHDAY, GIRL ☹🥺💔
Those lips! A bit much.
I agree
someone talking
I actually like Darcy, I think she is so sweet and I love how girly she is :) She is just dreaming to much in finding the love of her life but she is missing her days looking for it. I wish I can go out with her and drink some coffee :)
That skype was almost feeling like daddy and daughter in most of that conversation, even to come see her seemed like abusiness transaction or dad being in town lol
Maybe a neglectful dad but dads shouldnt be like that tho they often are :(
I hope she finds someone that loves her the way she deserves! She seems like such a sweet and caring woman, this is really sad 😞
"it's just a birthday" I felt my heart ache when she said that
I bet Darcy is a lovely girl to be a girlfriend but she’s so insecure about herself when she doesn’t need to be , stop being needy and move on ❤️
She’s amazing how she keeps on lying to herself
same lol
a key.. A KEY! I'M DYING..
She deserves better! I wish her all the best and i pray for her that she will find her true love❤
They look so sticky.
wat look sticky O_O
Darcey definitely has borderline personality disorder. I struggled with it for a long time and recognize it in her. I hope she meets the right therapist. Recovery is possible. ❤
Which techniques did you learn?
You know I actually feel sorry for her ay... when she said , he said he was gonna call🥺 that made me so sad 😭
Tom to producers before: “she should move on”
Tom to producers now: “can I have some more paid cameos pls?”
She is 45? I literally thght she was 55...man how much work has she had done its really unfortunate that she doesnt love herself.
Ugh shes such an angel. She deserves so much better. ❤️ baby girl just wants a genuine love!
The key to his house 🤣🤣🤣 I seriously laughed loud
Darcey has really low self esteem, and it's sad because she's beautiful. Also if Tom wants to meet her be should be the one flying over to her instead of making her travel to him.
Tom, I hate to break it to you, but you’re no James Bond.
She probably makes bank out of those dresses
So many insecurities for such a beautiful woman...💔💔
i feel bad for her. she’s so insecure and it hurts
Tom = Photoshop
phitosephop = tomb
Anymore fillers they are going to POP
lik u goldfish eye
This guy doesn’t look like the guy in the pictures🤷🏼♀️🤷🏼♀️ am I the only one seeing this 😤
Him running back in to the airport was such a fake Hugh Grant moment.
This is so sad that she went with Jesse 2.0 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣...Tom wanted that TLC camera time.
39? Seriously? He looks like my dad...lol 😂🤣
There’s zero way he’s “39” 😂😂😂🤣maybe 15 years ago ....
They look utterly ridiculous
My heat breaks. She's beautiful, successful, gentil and smart, maybe too emotional in my opinion, but you know. She's someone who deserves love.
She needs to work on herself first... Tom isnt the right fit for her
U got a happy birthday text. I couldnt even get that.
Darcey has such a cute personality ❤️
Tom ran back into that airport like the new freaking James Bond
Yes, love is all about taking the risk but you're way beyond all the risks out there, Darcy! 😰 Slow down a lil bit & enjoy life as it is 💕
Tom a grown man who doesn’t know what he wants and the grown woman who’s insecure.. what a classic 😂
😂
Idk why she gives him the time of day 🙄
They gotta let these lips go
She need self love
"he said he was gonna call" that sentence ... so heartbreaking
These two need THERAPY
I love how she picks herself back up ❤️
Oh sweetheart. You deserve so much better 💓
Baby girl, you have to learn to move on WITHOUT closure.
I feel that Darcey has a lot of love for her family. Just completely unlucky with the guys she picks. I wish that she can love herself enough to walk away from terrible relationships that play with her.
When Darcey said “I’m not rushing it”… Girl you’re 100% rushing it 😭
Played for a fool, sorry that has passed now.
'Here's the KEY to my house!' What an expensive gift! (For the cost of duplicating a key then changing a lock right after she boards a plane home.)
Ok I teared up a lil bit at “it’s just a birthday” 😔
Darcy kind of becomes the guys she's with for the moment beeing. Weird!
oh I love how she gets motivated to do her makeup just to FaceTime 🥺🥺 and I dont even get motivated to do make up for parties 🎉
It’s oddly satisfying how they equally botched themselves still very twin like 🤣🤣 although I love Darcy she sometimes does too much.
I feel Darcs on so many levels bc im EXACTLY like her in love: giving all I have and be emotional, caring and loving to the fullest. I still not find my man but i think my time will come. Beside Rose, Darcs is my favorite cast from 90days. I love how she knows her worth and I adore her bc of that.
Poor girl I can tell she’s really hurt. Seem like she keeps rushing things, when Tom wants to take things slow and get to know her. I think there difference of personality are driving them apart.