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  • Опубліковано 21 гру 2024

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  • @NazaninKavari
    @NazaninKavari  3 місяці тому +24

    Hi guys! Welcome back to another vlog 🤍 Get 15% off any product at theouai.com/NAZANIN ♡
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    • @nataliemichelleee
      @nataliemichelleee 3 місяці тому

      I made an order with your code 2 weeks ago I loved the detox shampoo! I also grabbed the shampoo & conditioner for thick hair I love it. My hair sheds so much with other brands I’ve used. Also I had to snatch the the Saint Barts body spray I LOVE IT!

    • @hermindspeaks876
      @hermindspeaks876 3 місяці тому

      This vlog was really good naz , it was chill, the right amount of interaction…. Loved seeing the family !!! I hope mama , baba and yaz are doing okay …. You’re doing great love !!!! ❤love you

    • @melaniestrong940
      @melaniestrong940 3 місяці тому

      Hey Naz! I just want to say I love you girl and I believe you are killing it as a mom, and business woman! You are putting a lot of pressure on yourself and honestly If I was you I would only focus on like 3-4 platforms versus being on all of the platforms. I am an avid listener to your podcast and watch almost every single one of your videos for about a decade now and I’m always in awe of you! Keep your head up and remember to put boundaries in your life! It’s ok not to be doing everything! We see you doing what you love versus doing something that you feel forced to do!

    • @stephanieross2126
      @stephanieross2126 2 місяці тому

      for the record, I think this video was great ❤ you are doing absolutely fantastic❤

  • @nataliepuckett7683
    @nataliepuckett7683 3 місяці тому +162

    Naz, you’re so hard on yourself. It’s actually unreal how you balance going to nyc, the us open, fashion week, create a UA-cam video, make time for tik toks also, get back, take care of household stuff, kids, etc!! I follow many UA-camrs and you are the most consistent. You should be proud of yourself for getting that much done, and you are still telling yourself it’s not enough. You’re being too hard on yourself. Take a moment to pat yourself on the back and appreciate yourself for how much you’ve done, and then also the things you want to adjust you can make a plan moving forward to adjust. Also, this UA-cam video was very entertaining so i don’t know why you think it’s not good ❤

  • @klove_134
    @klove_134 3 місяці тому +89

    Sometimes i wish tiktok didnt become a thing. It definitely took a toll on youtube. Views have gone down, people dont even click on the app like before. It definitely hurt UA-cam creators. Naz you are one of the few who even consistently upload on here

    • @K.rystal8
      @K.rystal8 3 місяці тому +5

      Same. It’s one of the reasons I refuse to download that app.

  • @hannahgreenough2088
    @hannahgreenough2088 3 місяці тому +84

    Selfishly, I love your content is separate from TikTok. Watching your UA-cam videos feels like my safe place, (not something targeted towards the masses on TikTok). And let’s be real- you have a loyal af following and for exactly that, what you’ve BEEN DOING! Do not overthink it, we love you Naz🩷jaaaah😻🤗

  • @sophlizabeth
    @sophlizabeth 3 місяці тому +28

    I “F with you on a whole other level”… because I watch EVERY MINUTE of your vlogs. We appreciate your hard work always 🩷🩷🩷

  • @HayleeChapman-sm9qv
    @HayleeChapman-sm9qv 3 місяці тому +62

    Girl honestly not posting on all socials might lose you some money but when people post too much it’s like a over saturated feeling to the content like having some mystery & letting people miss you is what makes them so interested when you do post cause it’s not like you’re overdoing it. Some people lose their audience from just too much imitation of other people that they completely lose their original audience. More opportunities doesn’t always mean more success, so you shouldn’t see it as a complete loss! Keep your head up love you 🥰

  • @adaaleide
    @adaaleide 3 місяці тому +102

    awe naz, i don’t have tiktok so i can’t speak to it, but as someone who pretty much only consumes family content, i don’t know another mommy influencer who girl bosses as hard as you! it actually blows me away everytime. and maybe this is all just a perspective thing. other girls might be making five tik toks a day, but you have a loyal following on every platform, a beautiful family, your own home, a new pod!, just so much wealth that the other girls only dream of. i promise you aren’t under performing-if anything you’re working yourself to the ground😫 only you know your numbers and how you wanna balance your time but just know imma come back every upload! long form content is where it’s at for me!! my comfort watch every week ily please take care of yourself💓

  • @annetteroybal6838
    @annetteroybal6838 3 місяці тому +17

    It’s called being grateful for what you have and appreciating the moments that you once prayed and wished for instead of always wanting more that’s the devil , god bless 🙏

  • @MaddiNicole
    @MaddiNicole 3 місяці тому +25

    I LOVED this vlog. Girl go on a trip with Mel without working. No snap/tiktok/YT/filming/content creation. Leave your phones in the room. Just TRULY unplug ☺️ love you sis, you are killing this mom thing and work life. Just remember put yourself first when you need to!

  • @willianaashley
    @willianaashley 3 місяці тому +40

    Naz it’s surprising to see you not feel like you’re doing enough when so many of us look up to you. It shows how much we struggle with appreciating where we are. You’re doing so good girl 💗✨ But these moments are part of being human

  • @TheTinyTherapist
    @TheTinyTherapist 3 місяці тому +157

    Hey Naz ❤ as a therapist, this seems to be deeply rooted. Beliefs about yourself such as (possibly) I’m not good enough. No amount of work or accomplishments will get rid of these beliefs. I highly recommend doing some therapy to explore the roots of these beliefs. Why you feel you have to work hard to be good enough, or justify your existence in a way. Wishing you the best. We’re all on our healing journeys ❤❤❤❤

    • @csillacsengeri
      @csillacsengeri 3 місяці тому +6

      Well said!

    • @AuthenticallyKris
      @AuthenticallyKris 3 місяці тому +3

      Agreed!

    • @c-re-yb2ki
      @c-re-yb2ki 3 місяці тому +3

      Hey@TheTinyTherapist can you not tell her narcissism is deeply rooted also?-this will be a lifetime of therapy

    • @lamandaf1050
      @lamandaf1050 3 місяці тому +14

      It stems from having immigrant parents and the fear of failing it happens to a lot of us who have parents that worked so hard. We have this fear that we must work harder and achieve more

    • @erenocal44
      @erenocal44 3 місяці тому

      Go to therapy, Naz!!! You need it.

  • @Vanessa-fh5kp
    @Vanessa-fh5kp 3 місяці тому +84

    This vlog was actually so good. As long time subscribers, we understand that not all weeks look the same so we don’t expect the vlogs to look the same. We love and appreciate you showing up on UA-cam! Give yourself some credit mama, you are crushing it!💖

  • @DaniPaige7
    @DaniPaige7 3 місяці тому +31

    I have been struggling all day w anxiety and kept going “a naz vlog would help” and here u are. Ur my comfort UA-camr 🤍 please also look after yourself, sending love

  • @sophiemackey5171
    @sophiemackey5171 3 місяці тому +24

    Naz don’t be so hard on yourself. You did great in this video. I’m surprised you showed us so much. Especially how busy you were in New York. Love your content on all platforms. Give your self a pat on the back and keep going Mama.

  • @MK-pt1mz
    @MK-pt1mz 3 місяці тому +83

    Omg I love this family! KK in the kitchen “you kissed at Whole Foods so you don’t love me” 🥹😭😭 Love him!!!!

  • @sharonsherida
    @sharonsherida 3 місяці тому +312

    If I was rich in money, I would give you a big bag of it so you did not have to worry about losing money over TikTok. Do not compare yourself to the other influencers who make 5 TikToks about an event. You have to remember that you do put a lot of effort in Instagram and UA-cam, you have a husband and three kids (so a whole ass house to run). As you said you are exhausted. You need to be a happy momma for your kids babes. I hope you can find some more balance and peace in the things you are struggeling with. Just so you know, I'm so proud of you sis

    • @itsmejaz
      @itsmejaz 3 місяці тому +6

      👏🏽 💯 yes indeed

    • @Concierge-el7ix
      @Concierge-el7ix 3 місяці тому +56

      Her husband needs to get his money up so he can not make her worry. That isn’t ur job

    • @loveYahusha97
      @loveYahusha97 3 місяці тому +53

      While that’s sweet, there are other people who are way more in need that can benefit from a bag of money if you did have it to donate. There are single mothers out there, homeless people and people that are struggling to make ends meet, e.g college students who are drowning in student loans. She’s financially well off and lives in a huge, beautiful home in California and you’ll give her a bag of money when there are people who don’t even make the type of money or have the resources that she has ?!?! .. That’s like donating to a billionaire. Completely stupid and a waste of money when it could go to people that actually need it 😊

    • @sharonsherida
      @sharonsherida 3 місяці тому +9

      @@loveYahusha97 I just knew someone would place a comment this. Just because I said that I would give her a bag, doesn’t mean that I won’t donate, give money to students and single moms, shelters ect ect. Fun fact, I’m not rich in money and still donate every month, donate clothes to families who need it and I applied to be a volunteer at the shelter..But thank you for the reminder I guess

    • @beccaleigh524
      @beccaleigh524 3 місяці тому +13

      @@Concierge-el7ixI don’t think it has anything to do with her husband not pulling his weight. That’s a big assumption. They definitely aren’t struggling by any means. Some people just never think they have enough.

  • @severineleblanc2564
    @severineleblanc2564 3 місяці тому +69

    Oh Naz :( the end made me sad! I feel you and have been in a similar situation. I really think you’re burning out, this is what the tiredness is. You can love your job, your family, etc. and still be burned out. You have A LOT of pressure on your shoulders: taking care of all your family financially, having a big career, wanting the best for your kids and not wanting to miss anything with them. But I really feel like that’s too much pressure for one person😢 anyways, be gentle with yourself, you’re doing A LOT. ❤

  • @frannywannybobanny
    @frannywannybobanny 3 місяці тому +33

    kk randomly saying he doesn't wanna do homework is so real😭 love u naz🤍

  • @Janealeee
    @Janealeee 3 місяці тому +27

    It's okay Naz you reached the age of 25 and it's called the Quarter Life Crisis , around this age all the way up until 30 you start to shed your skin , past traumas resurface , and the need for purpose becomes very prominent. Start by connecting with your inner child . What did that little girl like to do ? What dreams did she have ? Is she fulfilling them ? What made her happy ? Hope this helps 🤍

  • @not_rez
    @not_rez 3 місяці тому +23

    sounds like imposter syndrome and over comparisons w you peers. as sad as the end was its nice to see you being real and relatable - we all go through deflating moments, id rather see you talk about your emotions and have real candid moments with us than another "my day as a mummy" vlog bc youre more than just a mother, youre you before anything else and its fine for you to be feeling the way you do! granted youre not going to want to pick a camera everytime youre crying but it could be some sort of healing/venting space for you w your followers

    • @judybabii123
      @judybabii123 18 днів тому

      Yess ! I said the same thing !

  • @Diaaaaaa232
    @Diaaaaaa232 3 місяці тому +29

    Naz don’t be so hard on yourself. I enjoyed this video a lot you’re doing amazing sweetie. Please give yourself grace. Your a mom, a wife, a sister, a daughter, a friend and a business woman. You’re doing the best you can!

  • @starheartskull15
    @starheartskull15 3 місяці тому +51

    Kk: “cause you don’t love me anymore”
    Mel: “that’s a Pisces for you” as a Pisces I agree 😂

  • @mandeep181
    @mandeep181 3 місяці тому +7

    naz! listen lady, i love you, your family, and your content. i have since 2015. you have ALWAYS been killing it. i promise you i’ll be here regardless of long or short form content. shocked you’re saying this isn’t a good vlog because if it wasn’t, how did it turn my bad day around? moochie saying “vegetable” alone made my entire night. i laughed SO hard so many times during this video. your real ones will always be here to watch your content. long or short. youtube. podcast. tiktok. ig. everything. the girlies posting 5 tiktoks per event aren’t doing NEARLY as much as you. the imposter syndrome is real. also, doesn’t matter to some of us what time you post these videos. i’m watching after work regardless. or the next day. or right when it drops because i happen to be on a sick day. i can go on and on.. read these comments. indulge in the support. remind yourself who TF YOU ARE. mwah ❤️

  • @pavikang1
    @pavikang1 3 місяці тому +18

    It hurts me to see you so stressed Naz, but for what it's worth I think you're doing so amazing! You are doing MORE than enough I promise 🤍 I know content is important for you, but so is your mental health. Life ebbs and flows... so take it one day at a time!

  • @Noscreennn
    @Noscreennn 3 місяці тому +3

    This vlog is exactly what your UA-cam community is used to. It feels very authentic, just keep doing what feels natural

  • @Carmen3611J
    @Carmen3611J 3 місяці тому +17

    Naz you will find your target audience on TikTok!! You are the ultimate IT girl. You’re saying this wasn’t a great of a vlog but I was checking to see where ya was at!! I was glad Daisy released before you bc I missed you!! You’re amazing. I love you and will be here till the wheels fall off!! Give yourself some grace queen, it’s only up from here always. The clouds are just where you stand on!! 🩷🩷🩷🩷

  • @Pugbot-mt3kx
    @Pugbot-mt3kx 3 місяці тому +42

    Naz is under a lot of pressure to maintain the lifestyle she was able to secure for her entire family and yes Mel and her family clearly support her but it’s ultimately up to Naz to maintain being a influencer because she herself is the “product” that is being monetized. Her life and who she is individually is being monetize. I could be totally wrong but I think Naz needs someone who can support her into living a softer life and help balance out the financial stress bc she is the breadwinner. She has no choice but to work and be a mom and there are no days off bc she doesn’t have the extra support.

    • @hannaattouz8281
      @hannaattouz8281 3 місяці тому +2

      I kind of agree with this.. I think as she ages and invests/diversifies her income streams it will definitely get easier and less stressful for her. At least I hope ❤

  • @kaaalohei
    @kaaalohei 3 місяці тому +18

    Mel got me weak af this vlog. His little commentary is hilarious.

  • @hannaattouz8281
    @hannaattouz8281 3 місяці тому +2

    Naz this vlog was opposite from boring or not “good”. I actually had quite a bad day today because my boyfriend left to work in another town for a few days and I was really sluggish and unmotivated. I had some chores to do before going to bed and I put your vlog on to cheer me up and motivate me to do my chores. And you lifted up my mood instantly like you always do. Now I’m going to bed happy and proud of myself, because your vlog gave me company and comfort ❤ So don’t ever think we don’t appreciate your content, I’m sure it helps a lot of us with our mental health and getting thru our crazy hectic weeks 🫶🏼

  • @lailaa536
    @lailaa536 3 місяці тому +11

    the end broke my heart 😔. you are doing so much and more!!! you’re the best. keep on doing what you’re doing we love you !!!

  • @dejaih
    @dejaih 3 місяці тому +5

    You know what’s crazy - while watching this vlog I was like omg this is why I love Naz and remember you going to prom especially hearing Kavon talk about how he loves you. Mama, you’ve come SO FAR. I’m so happy for you and so proud of you. You’re doing so good. You’ve got SO much going on and you’re actually balancing it really well. Love you Naz 🫶🏾

  • @J88-q9q
    @J88-q9q 3 місяці тому +2

    Comparison with others is the worst thing you can do for yourself! you are SO blessed and never truly know what others are feeling as well. Your peers posting more frequently might feel the same as you or worse! You have 3 kids, a husband, a house, a job you’re passionate about; you have so much to be grateful for. Relish in this time of your life. Be present in the moment! You are doing great, life changes too frequently to be in a constant state of “i can do more”. You never know what could happen. Love your videos, this vlog was great ❤

    • @J88-q9q
      @J88-q9q 3 місяці тому

      And all the freaks hating on Mel are exactly thatt….. freaks. They complain you’re never with the kids and he has no help, then they complain he doesn’t make any money and you’re supplying his life like blah blah. You guys can never win 🙄 Clearly y’all’s dynamic and relationship works for you both which is all that matters in the end.

  • @FlaviaCabredo
    @FlaviaCabredo 3 місяці тому +7

    Nas you’re and admiration and a great example to follow. Your burnout right now is indeed because you have a lot of goals. That’s ambition and it is admirable. but try to acknowledge your success. You’re focusing too much in what is missing that you don’t realize how much you’ve accomplished. Try to do everything you wish one step at the time. This is not a race. With your consistency and discipline you will come too far. You have already come far and you don’t see it, but we all do!! And we will be here to witness everything.

  • @yudceespinosa25
    @yudceespinosa25 3 місяці тому +1

    NAZ, you have 3 kids, a husband, a house to run and a platform to support!!! You have a lot in you plate, I know you want to do more but ENJOY THIS SEASON! With the “little” you think you are doing that’s how your are accomplishing your dreams and bringing food to the table for your family! You are blessed, don’t compare yourself to anybody!!!! I bet the ones that publish 5 videos on tiktok doesn’t even have a kid or a dog 😩 this type of overthinking will put you in a burn out so bad. Just do what you can with what you have and every season will bring a different level of compromise so enjoy this one ❤️‍🩹

  • @annabananis7349
    @annabananis7349 3 місяці тому +2

    Naz I’m so grateful for your transparency.. it’s a breath of fresh air to hear you be vulnerable and i sympathize with you. Life is so tough especially when you’re a mommy. You got this and you’re doing so amazing I wish I can be in your shoes ! So know you’re doing so amazing

  • @realitybudgets3568
    @realitybudgets3568 3 місяці тому +1

    Honestly the last part was very real. We can never feel 100% at anything as a mom, because we wear so many hats. You’re doing amazing! Appreciate you being transparent.

  • @ClarisaMelendrez
    @ClarisaMelendrez 3 місяці тому +2

    Naz we love you so much! You are of a few UA-camrs that I still watch. Your content is a safe space for all of us. You’re doing amazing , don’t doubt yourself. Taking care of your mental health is the most important. Keep doing you!

  • @merig1224
    @merig1224 3 місяці тому +2

    I’m really surprised you feel this vlog wasn’t up to your standards. It was honestly one of my favorites! The pace was great, shots 👌, the mix of one-on-one, family, friends, etc. it was solid.

  • @teonnajade6886
    @teonnajade6886 3 місяці тому +2

    You are still a person and you deserve to enjoy experiences without a camera all the time. Living through experiences from a screen and not taking it in is also a disadvantage. You earn the balance

  • @cellsin
    @cellsin 3 місяці тому +5

    You’re really my comfort UA-camr. I usually have you on while cooking and cleaning. ❤

  • @doriswalker1694
    @doriswalker1694 3 місяці тому +5

    You are a phenomenal wife,mom,and daughter! Take time for yourself,the quote if your cup is filled to the brim. You can't help or serve others. The Vlog was wonderful to watch ❤❤❤🙏🏾

  • @fatimagomez4311
    @fatimagomez4311 3 місяці тому +1

    I got emotional just watching this because WE see how hard you work Naz. Please take time to heal and reflect on all the things you have done this year! Your “typical” job gives people at least two weeks of PTO. Give yourself some time to NOT work and to do things YOU want to do. We love you Naz and this vlog was so fun to watch. You are your biggest critic but remember your supporters love and want the best of your health! ❤️ You’re doing more than great!

  • @selmaberrada1571
    @selmaberrada1571 3 місяці тому +2

    Hey Naz, we feel you ❤ To be honest, I genuinely thought this vlog was great ! I really enjoyed it. Please remember that what we love about you is your energy ! So weather it’s in your short form content, UA-cam vlogs, podcast or insta stories, we enjoy everything you post without expecting the same amount of videos or deep talks all the time. We are very grateful for you ❤

    • @selmaberrada1571
      @selmaberrada1571 3 місяці тому

      Oh and btw I don’t even have tiktok and don’t care for it 😅 I prefer UA-cam and Instagram and I know other people do as well❤

  • @greeneyes7
    @greeneyes7 3 місяці тому +27

    Lovingly, I think it may be time to start to consider having Mel begin transitioning to his own career and begin whatever training or education is needed. I think you guys need another source of stable income to fall back on so that there’s not so much pressure on primarily just Naz to sustain this lifestyle. It’s also a lot of emotional and psychological stress for her to be in this position to where she has no fallback if anything goes wrong or slows down in her career.
    Mel is an amazing dad and an incredible partner and I know he helps you a lot, Naz. So this is no criticism on him as I know having you be the main breadwinner made the most sense at the time and life stage where you guys were at when you both made that decision. Everything in seasons! But seasons change.
    You guys are getting older and things are changing. Keeping this current arrangement is only going to get harder and more exhausting for Naz as she gets older. Naz will need more rest and the flexibility to slow down as she ages over the coming years.
    So now it may be time to start to consider and brainstorm ways in which you guys could both balance out the income side of your dynamic more between the two of you.

    • @Greeneyedgeny7
      @Greeneyedgeny7 2 місяці тому +1

      100% agree!! And not judging or criticizing Mel as hes a great dad as you said above

  • @ericalujan4524
    @ericalujan4524 3 місяці тому +7

    Naz, you're an amazing woman who plays so many roles. I appreciate all the time, hard work, and energy you put out there. I look forward to your videos so please don't feel like u didn't give us a good video because any video is a great video in my eyes. WE LOVE YOU!!! 🤎

  • @monicamartinez1248
    @monicamartinez1248 2 місяці тому

    I really appreciate Naz’s vulnerability in the end. I think therapy would be a great place for these thoughts and feelings! I love seeing this side of Naz, I connect with her vulnerability

  • @choco_loveca7972
    @choco_loveca7972 3 місяці тому +7

    We love you Naz! Sending you a virtual hug and reminder that you are doing beyond amazing. Take a break if needed..sometimes being off social media for a few days won’t hurt anyone, I understand it’s your way of income but we want you to be ok and will be patiently waiting ❤

  • @daisyxgarcia
    @daisyxgarcia 3 місяці тому +1

    Girl. BFFR. With all due respect, you are doing AMAZING. GIVE YOURSELF GRACE. I know it might be hard to, but you are a mother of three children at only around 25 years old with a house and husband and a THRIVING career. You’re doing so amazing Naz. You inspire so many women every single day and you probably have no idea. Please please take a break where you can. Take a social media break if needed. Even if it’s just for a few days because your mental health is most important and I promise it will be okay and we will understand :) LOVE YOU 🥰 You’re doing so good.

  • @Lorrien
    @Lorrien 3 місяці тому +1

    Everything you said at the end I felt to my core! Keeping up with what’s in demand is so hard. I started my adult life as a manicurist than went back to college (bc everyone kept saying I needed to get a degree) worked in corporate America (hated it), became a SAHM, started UA-cam, TikTok, neglected IG. Love UA-cam but focusing on TikTok bc that’s where it’s at. I say all this to say you’re not alone in how you’re feeling. Burnout is real & you don’t want to get to a point where you start to dread what you love. Sending positive vibes ✨

  • @BiswajitHazari-l8u
    @BiswajitHazari-l8u 3 місяці тому +3

    Okay, this is kinda random, but I had to share this haha. My boyfriend didn’t have any birthday or anything coming up, but I saw somewhere that most guys don’t get flowers till their funeral, and I thought that’s just wrong! So I got him a lego-style flower bouquet. We ended up building it together on a date night, and it was honestly such a good time. I feel like I’m doing an ad, lol, but it really made him so happy!!

  • @anner1460
    @anner1460 Місяць тому

    Naz you can’t do it all. There’s always gonna be more you can do. As a human it’s impossible. You’re the only UA-camr who I will watch 40 min of and not get bored. Do not be so hard on yourself, you work so hard ❤

  • @Hernandez00001-t
    @Hernandez00001-t 3 місяці тому +3

    KK is in such a cute age. He is sooo adorable and I think its so funny when he gets jealous about them kissing lol anyways we love your vlogs, keep them coming ❤

  • @camrynmason1939
    @camrynmason1939 3 місяці тому

    I think you doing an amazing job balancing online life, social media, being a mommy, a wife, and the many other things you do in your daily life. You have to remember to give yourself grace. You have to remember to enjoy the things you worked so hard to achieve. Sending lots of love and peace.XOXO

  • @nina_kara
    @nina_kara 3 місяці тому +1

    NAZZZZ i totally get it, being hard of yourself and being type A, but please just know we LOVE everything you post! You have people who have been following you for 10 years. Don’t ever think you are underperforming when it comes to your job and posting, because you’re muchhhhh better than u think.❤

  • @tawnyrieanna
    @tawnyrieanna 3 місяці тому +1

    Usually when I feel like that, it’s because I’m burnt out. Where you don’t feel like yourself and can’t put two things together that use to be so easy. The way I found myself out of it was to rest and try and get back to doing things I enjoy. Whatever you need to do, we’re all here patient and understanding ❤❤

  • @shj221-m2y
    @shj221-m2y Місяць тому

    Naz we are so proud of you- if you need to take a break, take it. Take care of you, you cant pour out of an empty cup never forget that. we love you you are so heard and seen. Try not to compare yourself to others, we all have our own journeys so if you only post a little "compared" to others, that IS MORE THAN OKAY. we love u

  • @Sg-ip9rv
    @Sg-ip9rv 3 місяці тому +1

    if it means anything, you’re the ONLY youtuber i watch. i look forward to your videos. when i see your other content, i love it. but there’s nothing like your vlogs. and i loved this vlog!
    you’re doing amazing ❤

  • @JessicaDanielleT
    @JessicaDanielleT 3 місяці тому +11

    Awhhh love your travel vlogs Naz ! You literally always stay in the coolest places and you always put us on to things that you find never really thought of renting a room until your room is available. Lol As always you’re so gorgeous ❤

  • @lilydily1723
    @lilydily1723 3 місяці тому +3

    Give yourself grace!!! Focus on your kids your husband and what truly makes YOU feel good

  • @tiannamae6347
    @tiannamae6347 3 місяці тому +2

    Mel, You are doing an amazing job! We are our biggest critics this vlog was great believe it or not as long as you continue to produce authentic content we are on your side, entertained, and rooting for you mama’s. Beautiful family! Take care of yourself always and be kind to you 💗

  • @lilimiriam3782
    @lilimiriam3782 3 місяці тому +2

    But I’m so impressed with you being a mom and at the same time posting on UA-cam! ❤❤ already that is a flex, Naz!!

  • @madebyannamarie
    @madebyannamarie 3 місяці тому +1

    the end was so real and I’m working, going to school, and trying to start a youtube + stay consistent on socials and it really feels like I’m not doing enough and people don’t truly understand how much time and effort goes into making videos and content

  • @alexaharris3247
    @alexaharris3247 3 місяці тому +5

    Listen to the audible “Ruthless Elimination of Hurry” I just started it and work life balance is very disproportionate in the U.S. Until we address our situation no amount of sleep will change the chronic fatigue. Always look forward to your UA-cam videos but take your rest Naz 💜

  • @pizzaraia1040
    @pizzaraia1040 3 місяці тому +3

    Nazanin Supremacy ✨You are way too hard on yourself, especially as you are one of THE most consistent UA-cam creators on my timeline...Tiktok is lowkey a scam towards professional creators, there's shouldn't be a need for creators to be on EVERY app just to make a living 😤YOU'RE DOING AMAZING SWEETIE!!!💖

  • @lesleyruiz8777
    @lesleyruiz8777 3 місяці тому +1

    Aw Naz I really loved this video, and as a mom I can say that being 100% to everything and everyone is difficult!! And as someone who also loves their career (i’m a college counselor) it’s hard to feel like you aren’t getting all the opportunities. But comparison is the thief of joy sis! You ARE killing it, the target commercial, the amazing community you have built, your healthy beautiful kids and family, becoming US perm res!! Don’t let comparison take away of the great that already exists💓 much love!

  • @amandanudel7521
    @amandanudel7521 2 місяці тому

    Naz, your hard work doesn’t go unnoticed. We love you and will always f with you ❤️

  • @brig4157
    @brig4157 2 місяці тому +1

    👋 From Houston,
    Naz you looked amazing!! I’m so glad you and Mel went together to NYC. When you guys are throwing shots at each other it’s the funniest thing! Y’all remind me of me and my husband.

  • @monaveedaneal5159
    @monaveedaneal5159 3 місяці тому

    Give yourself grace!!!! You are doing AMAZING! You are a mother of 3! You are not lacking!!! It is natural to feel like you’re not doing enough. That’s how you stay on top. That’s your personality. You are a HARD WORKER. That’s what separates you from the rest. Take some time! You have worked hard enough!!!

  • @foziaar5878
    @foziaar5878 20 днів тому

    Naz I pray God heals whatever is hurting your heart and soul, and gives you the strength, courage, and blessings that you deserve to continue. I’m sorry you’ve been struggling, and social media keeps pushing these unrealistic expectations to constantly strive for perfection. In the pursuit to achieve perfection and success, you somehow lose yourself and forget what is actually important in this life, and it’s your mental health and spending time with your beautiful family. You’re loved and appreciated more than you’ll ever know ❤❤❤

  • @cherrellfrancis9173
    @cherrellfrancis9173 3 місяці тому +1

    NAZ! This was a really good blog please don’t be so hard on yourself. You’re doing the darn thing!! I do feel you on the feeling like there’s not enough time in the day to do everything you need, but it’s something that helps me is accepting that I did my best and I am enough… love the consistency & better days ahead❤❤

  • @effythenewone
    @effythenewone 3 місяці тому +3

    Naz this was a GREAT vlog! I personally really enjoyed it! And coming from a psychologist myself, if you feel like you want to bring sg into therapy and talk about it, that is a good indicator that you should.
    Also I feel like feeling exhausted but still feeling like you are underperforming could be perfectionism. You are good enough, you don't have to be perfect. We love you! Take care Xxxx

  • @fanni5142
    @fanni5142 3 місяці тому +1

    Dear Naz!🥰 I’ve been watching your videos since you were in high school. I don’t even have a tiktok account. I really do prefer youtube videos over anything. I just wanna say that I still love your content and still excited when you post a new one. ❤️🥰 Your doing great! You are enough! Don’t be so hard on yourself. Take a day off when you feel you need one❤️

  • @neshanee733
    @neshanee733 2 місяці тому

    I LOVE that you dont focus on tiktok, bc I personally am not a fan of it. UA-cam has always been my go to platform for content. You're doing amazing sweetie. 💋

  • @casandrahelmig8043
    @casandrahelmig8043 Місяць тому

    Naz you deserve a break, your kids and husband deserve to have the BEST verison of you! so for a week just not post or even just take a few days and post if YOU WANT, when you want no pressure. God will make way for you, he already has. Im so proud of u for being a mama, wife and doing all the things. Your so amazing! your family deserve for you to have a break so you can be your best self! love you

  • @DestineeDePaulis
    @DestineeDePaulis 3 місяці тому

    This video was probably one of my favorite videos from you girl. I’ve been watching you since we were in since high school and being a mom now I relate so much to your content. So when you have break downs sometimes I even breakdown with you because IM NOT ALONE. But while trying to juggle work and being a single mom and also make time for me I swear there never feels like enough time in the day. So thank you so much for opening up because I genuinely appreciate it so so much and I know it’s probably not easy to do so
    Love you mama ❤

  • @JuliaSilva-hm8cd
    @JuliaSilva-hm8cd 2 місяці тому

    Give yourself more grace girl. You are doing amazing and if you need to step back a little so be it.
    Deep breath. Shoulders back and Straighten that crown hunny!
    You got this.
    We will be here no matter what 💜

  • @shelbieayala
    @shelbieayala Місяць тому

    The other day I was thinking how it must be really hard for your name to be your brand. You're a person, "Nazanin Kavari" is a person, not just a brand. We love you and we're here regardless. Praying for you Naz!

  • @Ehaehaeha
    @Ehaehaeha 3 місяці тому +1

    BABY GIRL DO NOT UNDERESTIMATE YOURSELF ! YOU ARE ONE OF THE MOST BEAUTIFUL GIRLS EVER ! 🩷🩷🩷

  • @amandaharpe9341
    @amandaharpe9341 3 місяці тому +2

    This vlog was great! Don't be so hard on yourself. You are a mother of three and basically running an empire!! You are doing amazing!! 🩷

  • @alexissalmeron8347
    @alexissalmeron8347 3 місяці тому

    You know you’re leveling up in life when you start to feel like you can do more. It’s okay to feel uncomfortable, tired, wanting to do more! That just means your opportunities and where you are going is leveling up. Don’t stop girl you got this!!! And don’t worry too much on what you’re missing, you have so much on what you’ve gained. Set a list, whenever you have a thought put it in your notes. You will get it done!

  • @shakiraali8147
    @shakiraali8147 3 місяці тому +3

    Naz you could post a 2 hour video and we would still watch it, anything you post we’d be here watching it! We know not every video will be the same content, that’s okay! You’re one of the only UA-camrs who are so consistent in posting videos, we love it 💕 don’t stress over posting on tiktok etc, do what you can and enjoy it. ❤

  • @MuseSunflower
    @MuseSunflower 3 місяці тому

    There was a comment that said the feeling of never doing or being enough could be an indicator there’s something deeper going on. If what’s driving our motivation for success is fear or anxiety we will never be satisfied.. and it hurts to see you always on the go and not feeling fulfilled with what you’ve created
    I agree that therapy or even some sort of life coaching is helpful in this. Finding the right person can be tricky but when you do, it’ll bring you relief so that you can actually enjoy your life without the overwhelming pressure of stress and anxiety
    ❤❤

  • @tayshaboone4093
    @tayshaboone4093 3 місяці тому +6

    “Because I love teas” kk so cute

  • @lolitavillalta2358
    @lolitavillalta2358 3 місяці тому +2

    Aww Nazi you're so hard on your self and that's both a blessing and a curse. I have been watching you since your prom GRWM collab with Windsor, and as a long time viewer your hard work and dedication speaks for itself in all your videos. We can’t always go full throttle we all have our days and that’s okay. I didn’t even notice you didn’t speak much in this vlog girl I was just so excited to watch my favorite UA-camrs vlog ❣️

  • @sarahalnidawi1148
    @sarahalnidawi1148 2 місяці тому

    You are so hard on yourself:( naz you are an amazing women, truly one of the strongest i have ever seen, i have been watching u since u had kavon, and from then to now i always ask myself can i ever be an amazing mom, a good wife, and a business woman as good as naz ? Your vlogs are literally so entertaining and just watching you brings me peace, and now your podcast?? I play your podcast in my car and i listen to you guys on my way to work or wherever. Be proud of yourself your genuinely a superwomen🤍🤍🤍

  • @oliviatiritilli5800
    @oliviatiritilli5800 3 місяці тому

    Sis, we love and support you no matter which content form you choose. It’s hard to balance work and life. Especially when you do what you love and are passionate about for a living. The lines blur between the two. I live for your vlogs! And I love watching your insta stories and your snap stories, and your TikTok’s. We are our own worst critics. Especially as women, we always feel like we should be doing more or think this could be better. You are not alone. Take care of you! You are a wife, a mom, a full time content creator and business woman. Give yourself some credit! You are doing the damn thing. You should be so proud of yourself! I’ve been watching your videos since 2017, your videos & vlogs are my comfort videos. I was drawn to your videos because of your personality, your love for your family, your cooking videos etc. personally I think UA-cam showcases your personality and your zest for life in a beautiful authentic way. But remember all the amazing things you have accomplished so far, and you’re only 25!

  • @jadeamberrrr
    @jadeamberrrr 3 місяці тому

    hey Naz🤍
    I have been watching you for so long and as a mom who also does content for a living. it's not an easy job, you literally have to spread yourself so thin between being a mom, a partner, a family member, a content creator, an editor, and so much more. I find myself feeling the exact same way that you do, your last segment of the video made me feel like I wasn't alone. I blew up on tiktok so for me I feel guilty when I can't be consistent with youtube but I love doing youtube.
    I just want to commend you for how hard you work and I want to remind you that we aren't just creators.. we are also mothers which is a huge reason why those other creators are able to film so much more and have so much more energy. I realized I was comparing myself to content creators with no kids and had to remember we aren't the same. I love my job also but it feels like I'm in a rat race with my own life on the daily, like everyday feels like autopilot of how much can I get done.
    being on social media full time looks so easy until it's just you doing everything day in and day out and that's including everything else we have to do especially when you don't have help, it's all on you. you're such an amazing mother & content creator and I just want you to know you are doing everything right. don't stress yourself out about not being able to post like everyone else because you are so much more consistent than what you think.
    keep on going naz, I love you 🤍

  • @vivianhernandez96
    @vivianhernandez96 3 місяці тому +1

    When you said for people to sit down and watch your videos they have to seriously F with you and DUH GIRL! The internal battle within yourself is justified but just know we see you on here so differently! I’m def more of a tik tok girl won’t even lie but I can genuinely put my phone down and watch your UA-cam videos. Zoom out and realize how amazing you’re doing. Love you 🫶🏽

  • @limitlessem1018
    @limitlessem1018 3 місяці тому

    Aww Naz! It's so important for you to check in with yourself more than pushing out content! I really recommend therapy, it's transfomed me and my friends! Finding home within yourself and learning to separate what you do from your identity is crucial to finding internal happiness because chasing dreams, being on constant go mode, you can never really marvel in your best moments because you're focused on what's next which is so unhealthy. grounding yourself is my advice because you can't be everywhere and everything. We appreciate the vlogs we get and never feel the pressure to post when you are not one with yourself. Your mental health comes first and even with you starting your career online, YOU are not what you do, it's just a part of you.

  • @karissaochoa
    @karissaochoa 3 місяці тому +1

    Naz I love you so much you’re literally such an inspiration to sooo many of us!! You’re such a girl boss, so confident, an amazing freaking mom. I always look forward to your videos and I loved this vlog. It felt wholesome, like if I was there hanging out with you. Wish I could give you a big hug because you are such an amazing person 🥺💘

  • @jackyp67
    @jackyp67 3 місяці тому

    The ending to your vlog was so real. This is exactly why I come to your youtube its less edited and more real. I do think therapy will help it always does honestly, but maybe dividing what goes where ie: keep youtube more personal with small vlogs, tik tok for fun/funny/trendy videos and IG well accordingly. Also maybe recording ahead or having a better schedule with what and when you record. I still feel you’re so hard in yourself, but i hipe it all works out at the end- remember to give yourself grace!

  • @sabrinastrong
    @sabrinastrong 3 місяці тому +12

    Every time Naz expresses being tired or vents on here, you guys turn it into a dog pile on Mel, it’s ridiculous. Dealing with imposter syndrome and balancing feeling accomplished in your career is hard for everyone. Even if Naz was a stay at home Mom or Mel was the breadwinner, she would still deal with these feelings most likely. It’s a deeper issue and as women many of us battle this. Instead of just shitting on her husband, y’all should share positivity, keep her in your prayers and just be supportive.

    • @sabrinastrong
      @sabrinastrong 3 місяці тому +1

      @@BobKhan-k8v Femininity comes in many forms. Naz is a go getter, she’s expressed often (even recently on her podcast) how she loves being a boss woman and how many more goals business wise she hopes to accomplish. I am sure being a mother and wife brings her so much joy but would a boss Sag women be content being kept at home “in her femininity” being provided for by her husband but not chasing her career ambitions? She’d probably still suffer from feeling her potential wasn’t being fulfilled. Navigating these feelings is simply apart of life! When will you guys understand that? Being a kept woman does not make all your problems go away.

  • @heatherexline7517
    @heatherexline7517 3 місяці тому +1

    19:53
    ❤ I love that naz is getting GLAM & Mel is being a amazing hubs 😍 by being ready and waiting for her to get fancy ❤❤🎉❤

  • @brig4157
    @brig4157 2 місяці тому

    KayKay is on top of it baby! He’s such a great big brother it melts my heart.

  • @georjafotiou1496
    @georjafotiou1496 3 місяці тому

    Just by kk calling you his wife & you getting it on camera made this the best vlog ever! Other people don’t have 3 beautiful kids don’t be hard on yourself naz ❤

  • @lucychen2830
    @lucychen2830 3 місяці тому

    Naz this was SUCH a good vlog, don’t be so hard on yourself. KK is such a character and I loooved the sweet moments with him, I’m from NY and even I got recs from you where to eat here, and you put me onto a whole recipe! Don’t compare yourself to other people, you being your authentic self and showing up as you are is exactly what we love 🩷 I’m super hard on myself too so I know where you’re coming from so this is for me too. You’re doing great!

  • @Nevforev
    @Nevforev 3 місяці тому

    Awww, naz!! Give yourself GRACE!! You’re doing GREAT! Don’t compareeee yourself. Your best skills are here on UA-cam. Yes do them all, but remember what you’re best AT!!!! KEEP GOING GIRL. I’m a college student and I look up to you SO MUCH!! GO GO GO🎉

  • @tashaj477
    @tashaj477 3 місяці тому +6

    Naz, there is a reason why you’ve created longevity in this social media world. You have done an Incredible job of balancing in my eyes.
    I’m sorry you are feeling that way. I know what it’s like to feel like you’re lacking but working so hard at the same time.
    Last year you said you wanted to do more and you are girl! You are crushing these goals and your community is so proud of you ❤

  • @hastip.5852
    @hastip.5852 3 місяці тому +4

    That’s the thing with social media “job” - it’s a bottomless pit. You can always DO more, MAKE more. But we all just have 24hrs in a day. You’ll have to prioritize what matters most.
    Remember when you said your parents’ restaurant was your childhood trauma?
    Well your social media might just be that “restaurant” to your children.

  • @nicoleshah294
    @nicoleshah294 3 місяці тому

    Girl recognize you’re doing it ALL & I see you on these platforms in Awe ! Give yourself more credit/ grace 🌹hard to switch off the negative thoughts but try to look / find the accomplishments to be more grateful