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  • When a patient asks Dr Halstead to let him die. The situations becomes a case of ethics when Dr.Halstead finds that his patient is a pedophile.
    Season 3 Episode 12 "Born This Way"
    Dr. Manning and Dr. Choi travel to a homeless camp to deliver the baby of one of the teenage residents who refuses to deliver at a hospital. Meanwhile, Dr. Halstead and April are dealt an uncomfortable situation when they discover that their patient is a pedophile. Dr. Rhodes and Dr. Bekkar’s personal and professional relationships clash while treating a patient with a chronic disease.
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  • @akowish
    @akowish 5 років тому +7274

    Him: I've made it 56 years-
    Me: happy? satisfied? depressed?
    Him: -without molesting a child.
    Me: a h .

    • @arieldiakonikolh8258
      @arieldiakonikolh8258 5 років тому +88

      IKR SAME

    • @arieldiakonikolh8258
      @arieldiakonikolh8258 5 років тому +51

      LIKE-

    • @arieldiakonikolh8258
      @arieldiakonikolh8258 5 років тому +46

      wOt

    • @wschippr1
      @wschippr1 5 років тому +216

      wake up
      He didn’t do anything to any child. That’s the point of the story, he made it 56 years without hurting a child.

    • @myheartwillstopinjoy8142
      @myheartwillstopinjoy8142 5 років тому +162

      @@wakeup608 did you even watch the video? He said he spent 56 years battling his desires and never touched a child ever.

  • @eimearkeaveney1192
    @eimearkeaveney1192 5 років тому +3751

    “I have an itch every second of every day. To scratch it would feel so good, but I don’t. Ever. Not scratching that itch is the worst hell that I can imagine. Cancer is going to get me out of that hell. It isn’t another challenge - cancer is my reward.”
    *Chills.*

    • @goodtimeswithgrian5542
      @goodtimeswithgrian5542 4 роки тому +58

      Deep just deep that’s all I am going to say

    • @cjeam9199
      @cjeam9199 4 роки тому +93

      I wonder how much the writers read about paedophilia to write lines like that.

    • @laciegoodwin9757
      @laciegoodwin9757 4 роки тому +8

      Omg look at our names

    • @TobyBanci
      @TobyBanci 4 роки тому +2

      niamhee 1500th like

    • @eunicefrancynnatividad1677
      @eunicefrancynnatividad1677 4 роки тому +1

      so he was doing the thing on children??... im innocent just asking...

  • @stxddart9996
    @stxddart9996 5 років тому +4144

    *Him: I’ve made it 56 years-*
    _Me: that’s amaz-_
    *Him: Without molesting a child*
    _Me:_ 👁👄👁

  • @pethychielagura4512
    @pethychielagura4512 5 років тому +1663

    Her: why are fighting so hard for this guy?
    Will: because its not my job to judge him.

    • @truebornseeker9767
      @truebornseeker9767 5 років тому +124

      It’s not judgement, it’s respecting patient wishes... he’s competent, rational and above the age of 18, therefore he can legally refuse treatment, and I respect this (sure, fictional) patient for what he did... he resisted impossible urges his entire life, and was done fighting... if anything that’s the most competent and rational thing ever

    • @fxbyte6085
      @fxbyte6085 4 роки тому +6

      @@truebornseeker9767 I fully agree with that

    • @oqh1xl1sm56
      @oqh1xl1sm56 4 роки тому +7

      👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏for Mr Halstead 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

    • @HilaryCocciola
      @HilaryCocciola 4 роки тому +9

      Truebornseeker treatments and life saving procedures are two different things. Doctors are obliged to perform PCR. Once the person is stable, if he needs a surgery or a long term treatment, he can refuse it.
      You don’t let a person who tried to commit suicide, die by doing nothing even if dying is what that person wants

    • @Jay-ux3rl
      @Jay-ux3rl 3 роки тому +3

      yes we did see the clip! x

  • @Hassan34563
    @Hassan34563 5 років тому +4683

    he’s a good man he resisted the urges of acting on his thoughts being a pedophile key word here didn’t act on his thoughts for a whole 56 years

    • @skatercreavey8209
      @skatercreavey8209 5 років тому +48

      Nah that's not how shit works

    • @kierstanfaulks
      @kierstanfaulks 5 років тому +412

      @@skatercreavey8209 ofcourse it is. He's born with that sexual attraction which he knew would have been wrong to act upon so he didn't. He's a really good person for that.

    • @ollycruickshank85
      @ollycruickshank85 5 років тому +23

      Kiersto0906 it isn’t how shit works it’s fuckin wrong they deserve to fuckin die because you would want to kill one if they were doin it to family it’s fuckin disgustin

    • @ollycruickshank85
      @ollycruickshank85 5 років тому +10

      Jasmin97 disgusting how you think it is alright to be a fuckin paedo ye kill the fuckin lot of em it would make a better place? Why do you think when they go inside most die cuz everyone hates em.

    • @ollycruickshank85
      @ollycruickshank85 5 років тому +9

      Jasmin97 and also you were thinking of killing another by wanting to kill me hypocrite

  • @autywilson-tomai268
    @autywilson-tomai268 5 років тому +3590

    i understand that doctors are just following through but honestly if the patient wants to end it all, they are fully aware of their decision and thought through this, I’d say respect their choices.

    • @anam4484
      @anam4484 5 років тому +40

      Euthanasia is illegal

    • @autywilson-tomai268
      @autywilson-tomai268 5 років тому +112

      Ana M I’ve acknowledged that but that’s in most states in America. I believe that it shouldn’t be illegal as long as the patient is stable and fully capable enough to understand the process of that stage then it should still follow through the process.
      We also have to remember that most of these patients are in pain and can no longer bare it anymore. It’s sad but if that’s what they want, they should be respected for their own choices in life.

    • @naznimation
      @naznimation 5 років тому +104

      Ana M Something being illegal doesn’t make it ethically wrong. For some people life is pain. Physically or mentally or emotionally. And while we should be able to cure that, that’s not always the case. We say people who commit suicide are ‘selfish’ because they don’t think of who they harm in the process. But Isn’t it even more selfish to keep someone alive for your own benefit when they’re clearly in pain?

    • @scarlettd.1715
      @scarlettd.1715 5 років тому +21

      The thing is some patients are emotionally/mentally unstable to make those choices (depression, suicidal thoughts) and there been cases where people have hurt themselves or tried to die and survived and ended up regretting it. So it's a very complicated situation...

    • @lol-ro2kl
      @lol-ro2kl 5 років тому

      suicide watch

  • @michellel9595
    @michellel9595 3 роки тому +643

    Coming from someone who was molested as a child, I think he was an honourable character. He resisted even though the temptation was THAT strong. He struggled and suffered with what I believe was his own mental illness. His wish to die was his punishment to himself. And it was granted. You don't always get the decent ones who know right and wrong and don't inflict pain for their own gain.

    • @kinagrill
      @kinagrill Рік тому +38

      That's right, the difference is exactly that he hasn't DONE anything to any child. He knows what he desires is WRONG and has fought that desire from day one.

  • @clairephillips3188
    @clairephillips3188 5 років тому +1552

    Gosh dang that took a turn real quick

    • @xavierb2589
      @xavierb2589 5 років тому +11

      Yep that went wrong real quick

    • @spimentel562
      @spimentel562 5 років тому +2

      Cant wait that long. Another segment is to be aired.

    • @gailharthill6552
      @gailharthill6552 5 років тому

      Yep that was unexpected

  • @cloeyay
    @cloeyay 5 років тому +870

    I respect doctors so much they make so many difficult decisions everyday

    • @AA-hs4rk
      @AA-hs4rk 5 років тому +5

      Julie Duong You haven’t worked in the hospital before have you?🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @AA-hs4rk
      @AA-hs4rk 5 років тому +15

      Julie Duong then you shouldn’t have generalized, this is an emergency room and they are ER doctors, doctors are on their toes doing physical work just as much as the nurses in emergency rooms, along with that, they have to make the medical decisions. I’m tired of people feeling the need to discredit what doctors do just because they are attempting to uplift nurses. just appreciate the nurses and leave the doctors alone. That’s my point.

    • @Andrew-kh7rz
      @Andrew-kh7rz 4 роки тому

      @@jeuwelly3075 what about researchers that find cures for everything is there to be found?

  • @selenan4140
    @selenan4140 5 років тому +133

    "Cancer is my reward" that's some sad shit man.

  • @gracesmith4604
    @gracesmith4604 4 роки тому +577

    This man had what’s diagnosed as Paraphilia. Most of my clients with this sexual disorder resist their urges and are actually afraid of putting themselves in positions in which they may be exposed to the subjects of their arousal. Poor man, it is excruciating to live with such a disorder but very brave to resist its temptations.

    • @cbon3442
      @cbon3442 3 роки тому +10

      Did you ever work with anyone suffering from OCD and sexual intrusive thoughts?

    • @sianlawson-blake3109
      @sianlawson-blake3109 2 роки тому +4

      Hello. Could you work with someone with Erotophobia?

  • @casey5347
    @casey5347 5 років тому +814

    In a way I kinda feel bad for him. Like and their are others like him in the world that know how disgusting and wrong it is but resist it all their lives. Imagine how hard that is.

    • @myheartwillstopinjoy8142
      @myheartwillstopinjoy8142 5 років тому +96

      He was born this way and still he didn't take that as a pass to do what he wants, instead, he suffered for 56 years, batteling his urges... such a brave man.

    • @chrissie627
      @chrissie627 5 років тому +11

      @I mug i think they usually use things along the lines of hormones since the sexual urges are the problem

    • @phloxy_fox96528
      @phloxy_fox96528 4 роки тому +13

      @I mug Technically, there are brain surgeries, yes. However, due to our current medical advancement (or in this context, lack of), it's not possible to /just/ cancel out the hormonal center to lose any kind of attraction. You would also damage a lot of other hormonal balances in your body that you need to... e.g. produce endormorphines or even melatonin which could result in him becoming a severely depressed person unable to feel happiness naturally for the rest of his life or rob him of restful sleep for the rest of his life.
      But it's good thinking and hopefully - especially for the sake of people being born with this mental condition - it will be a possibility in the future. To have these urges and knowing that they are wrong... I feel sorry for them.

    • @sarajane1719
      @sarajane1719 4 роки тому +7

      People fight their demons every day nothing special dont try and normalize it

    • @nafiamaliat5043
      @nafiamaliat5043 4 роки тому +4

      I scream I believe it’s more to do with hormones, there’s this thing called a Chemical Castration. Chicago Med has a video on it, you could check it out.

  • @jovanavojnovska8624
    @jovanavojnovska8624 5 років тому +534

    Ok I DID NOT see that coming

    • @gailharthill6552
      @gailharthill6552 5 років тому +1

      JoJo 7 same

    • @minluna6007
      @minluna6007 4 роки тому +1

      @Izzah Moazzam Dar that

    • @farisa.kareem3857
      @farisa.kareem3857 4 роки тому +3

      You didn't see him "coming" coz he controlled his itch for years

    • @jameswolf3302
      @jameswolf3302 4 роки тому +2

      @@farisa.kareem3857 i mean, it is a good dark humor joke, but i don't think this is the right moment fo this, lmao

    • @jovanavojnovska8624
      @jovanavojnovska8624 3 роки тому +1

      @@farisa.kareem3857 good one lol

  • @SezArrow
    @SezArrow 4 роки тому +119

    I nursed my elderly mother through rampant cancer, she just wanted to go, but the ridiculous laws that deny people the right to choose to die meant she had to suffer.

    • @am5783
      @am5783 2 роки тому +10

      This. I did psych nursing at uni and id met many patients with horrific illnesses, including dementia. This lady when she had capacity had expressed wishes for her death when the dementia is so far gone but because of the laws she couldnt pass beforehand or afterwards. She couldnt use the loo, had a bedpan. She couldnt speak. She couldnt enjoy anything. She was nearing the end of life when i met her and it was so sad to see that (in the nurses who'd known her for years words) she had lost her dignity and everything that made her her and was just existing because she had to. Very sad indeed. My deepest condolences to you, kind stranger.

  • @glow15
    @glow15 5 років тому +415

    I know he's technically a movie character but rest in peace man. I can't imagine how it must've been for him all those year. To not act on his impulses, it takes a lot of discipline and bravery.

  • @umdabasnet3159
    @umdabasnet3159 5 років тому +618

    If all people/pedophiles/sexually frustrated people were like this, imagine how the world would be.

    • @himanshutiwari5390
      @himanshutiwari5390 4 роки тому +11

      If all people were like this, then imagine how the world would be

    • @dudeno5811
      @dudeno5811 4 роки тому +16

      @dianna k bruh do your research, back then it was normal. Besides, close minded much? Not to mention Islamophobic.

    • @takobells2925
      @takobells2925 4 роки тому +13

      @dianna k yo man. I don't care if ur against Islam or whatever crap, but that's just plain rude -_-

    • @takobells2925
      @takobells2925 4 роки тому +5

      @dianna k 🤦🏻‍♀️ do you have no common sense omg I MEANT SAYING ISLAM IS A FRKING DISEASE DO I NEED TO HIGHLIGHT IT FOR YOU. look I'm not supporting or against Islam but saying that it is a disease is just rude okay.

    • @s0ftbby346
      @s0ftbby346 4 роки тому +3

      Maleehah Muhammad why cause they’re right?

  • @meganross7664
    @meganross7664 5 років тому +1572

    Anyone else binge watching Chicago med?

  • @eligil4629
    @eligil4629 3 роки тому +260

    I respect this man. To defy an urge that is physically hardwired into your brain must take extreme amounts of willpower. In the end he was a good man.

  • @Rayle75
    @Rayle75 2 роки тому +46

    As someone who has been attacked... I have nothing but sympathy for those cursed by cruel fate with this disease, and I want nothing more than for them to get all the help and care in the world they need. Now that all goes out the window the moment they hurt someone, but until that time, they deserve help and should be treated like any other patient suffering a neurological disease.

    • @Lemontarts01
      @Lemontarts01 Рік тому +1

      Exactly.
      I cast no judgment on these poor people, but those who are raised FEELING there is something wrong with them and KNOWING what their attracted to is wrong and still do it.
      I have no sympathy. Instead of getting your rocks off go get embarassed ONE time and MAYBE get help.
      Vs being humiliated and vilified for people to see and then promptly get ***** in prison to death often times
      Edit: Also i am so very sorry you had to experience what you did. I mean this in absolute no "i take pity" on you way. I truly just wish it hadn't happened to you and it is beyond evil that it did.
      I hope life has treated you kind and that your future looks ever so bright.

    • @ayolovephat
      @ayolovephat Рік тому

      Except it's not a neurological disease, but a spiritual and psychological one.

    • @Rayle75
      @Rayle75 Рік тому +3

      @ayolovephat I am afraid that is simply incorrect. If spirituality helps, then that is great, but there are physical symptoms that go along with this disorder, chemical changes in the brain that create this affliction. This isn't an illness than most can simply wish away.

    • @Yoiyejsjwjanbsej
      @Yoiyejsjwjanbsej 10 місяців тому

      @@ayolovephat psychological diseases are still diseases. Its still an illness, depression is an illness, anxiety is an illness and pedophilia is an illness, and theyre all psychological. Still deserving of treatment

  • @luluncube2620
    @luluncube2620 5 років тому +351

    I’m ready to die
    Me: jesusssssss Christ ima live

  • @taradolka5338
    @taradolka5338 4 роки тому +73

    "I think the best thing i can do is put a pillow over his head." Lmao thats such a good line!

    • @taradolka5338
      @taradolka5338 4 роки тому

      yes

    • @jameswolf3302
      @jameswolf3302 4 роки тому +2

      it's deep and simple at the same time

    • @jackforde4883
      @jackforde4883 3 роки тому +1

      Regardless of this mans determination to not act on his urges, I couldn’t agree with Dr Abrams more

    • @tammymcinerney7153
      @tammymcinerney7153 Рік тому

      @@jackforde4883 Was Dr Abrams talking abt the pedophile or Dr Reese’s father, Robert Haywood?

  • @ravenclawgal3104
    @ravenclawgal3104 4 роки тому +49

    Is nobody gonna talk about how April just stands there and gives the exact same look to Halstead every single time 😂😂

    • @anndeneka9305
      @anndeneka9305 3 роки тому +4

      Because that’s what you can do when you’re a pretty actress, you so don’t have to try hard all you do is look. I love Maggie, she has more character and you can almost read her emotions.

    • @anndeneka9305
      @anndeneka9305 3 роки тому +4

      The scary thing watching this video is wondering how many ‘April ‘ nurses work in hospitals all over the world. I pray I never have an ‘April’ nurse me in my life. But did come close once being asking about my religion. I love Dr. Halstead “ we’re not here to judge “.

    • @afm398
      @afm398 Рік тому +1

      @@anndeneka9305 we are here to respect the patients decision if the patient doesnt want treatement our job is to respect that and as the nurse her job is to advocate for what the patient wants not what the doctor wants so he can fall asleep at night

  • @murderousashes9690
    @murderousashes9690 5 років тому +160

    Man, this made my eyes water. That was really sad. He had so much more life to live. But at least he died holding someone who cares hand as he passed away.

  • @rosewashere23
    @rosewashere23 5 років тому +372

    My face when he said why he wants to die:
    *👁👄👁*
    Well that went well

    • @catlover4486
      @catlover4486 5 років тому +3

      Rose Berry I want to also

    • @darthyoda8170
      @darthyoda8170 3 роки тому +1

      @@catlover4486 wow wow wow,ik it is a year but ask for help

  • @KissMyFatAxe
    @KissMyFatAxe Рік тому +334

    Reminds me of what I heard someone say some years ago. "All child molesters are pedophiles, but not all pedophiles are child molesters". Some are just very troubled souls with sick thoughts, and they despise the whole thing just as much as everyone else does.

    • @RobCod2012
      @RobCod2012 Рік тому +9

      May or may not be me. I’m a good person, but I fkn hate myself

    • @klauds6375
      @klauds6375 Рік тому +11

      @@RobCod2012 Im sorry to hear that man. I hope the societal stigma disappears and real research is done to help people with it. I believe with proper therapy and possibly medications the disorder could be reduced, I just wish more people could see it that way.
      I would like to add that it could be OCD or intrusive thoughts, idk if your comments is meant to sound as if you are uncertain on whether you have it or just trying to subtly elude to it. Either way, I hope the best for you.

    • @zacharytaylor190
      @zacharytaylor190 Рік тому +5

      There are some child molesters that aren't pedophiles. They are rare, but some do it out of spite, or just because that is "how they do it"

    • @kydiasan21
      @kydiasan21 Рік тому +2

      That is honestly the most terrifying part of this comment.

    • @Lilymaus3434
      @Lilymaus3434 Рік тому +4

      Not every child molester is a pedophile.

  • @spudd5832
    @spudd5832 4 роки тому +70

    This man is very respectable, he hasn’t done those things for 56 years and he realises it’s wrong, I feel bad for him because he can’t help it.

    • @DiamondAviator4
      @DiamondAviator4 Рік тому +1

      Why couldn’t they let him go?

    • @gore0802
      @gore0802 Рік тому +4

      @@DiamondAviator4 Because in ethics there is no right or wrong. There are opinions and it only matters how well you justify yours. The doctor (Halstead) obviously felt conflicted about letting that man die. He says that it's not his job to judge people, his job is to treat people regardless of their gender, race, sexual orientation etc. Watching someone die when you know for a fact that you could treat them is one of the hardest things to go through as a health care worker.

  • @gloriali2578
    @gloriali2578 2 роки тому +37

    The courage and bravery of this man should be applauded. H really chose cancer over his urges. That alone should be enough to show how good of a man he really is.

  • @beccablueeyes99
    @beccablueeyes99 5 років тому +261

    While I admire Will's compassion, the fact that he dismisses every opinion that he doesn't share is annoying and selfish. I do like how he was there for him and held his hand at the end though.
    I also understand that hearing the term pedophile makes you think of a monster, but I didn't feel like that with this man. It's the ones that act on it that should suffer. The strength this guy had to hold himself back because he knew it was wrong is admirable. Not saying he his a hero or anything, just that he did the right thing and should get a pat on the back.

    • @StealthMode3924
      @StealthMode3924 2 роки тому +4

      That’s true. I’ve worked as an RN for the last few years, and I’ve worked alongside patients with psychiatric disorders as well, what people don’t understand is that pedophilia is an affliction, whereas child molestation is a crime.

    • @gore0802
      @gore0802 Рік тому +1

      Well there is no "right: or "wrong" in ethics. Only opinions and it matters how we justify them. Halstead seemed conflicted about letting that man die. As a health care worker myself, i feel for him in that situation. It's hard letting people go, watching them die. Especially when you know for a fact that there are treatments available.

  • @dal7667
    @dal7667 4 роки тому +48

    He’s a good person. He can’t control his thoughts, but he resisted his urges and didn’t act on his bad thoughts.

  • @josephjoe5762
    @josephjoe5762 Рік тому +7

    "What is better: to be born good or to overcome your evil nature through great effort?"

  • @ab17364
    @ab17364 4 роки тому +18

    56 years of one thing on your mind that you can't make go away and never acting on it...that takes so much strength and effort...i can't imagine how mentally exhausted he is

  • @moiradeguia3151
    @moiradeguia3151 2 роки тому +10

    "it is not my job to judge him" that made my heart melt :((

  • @isaac592
    @isaac592 5 років тому +131

    Yes I love Doctor Manning and Doctor Charles! Dreamteam is

  • @lizzyforsdyke3833
    @lizzyforsdyke3833 4 роки тому +24

    I respect both Dr. Halsted and the patient in this.... it's hard to make these decisions and they both did.

  • @pumpkingunw5234
    @pumpkingunw5234 2 роки тому +7

    "What is better - to be born good, or overcome your evil nature with great effort?" - Paarthurnax

  • @notti2309
    @notti2309 4 роки тому +11

    He fights THE thoughts, and knows theyre not good. Respect.

  • @LVBIBZVL
    @LVBIBZVL 5 років тому +31

    Imagine being an astronaut and once you go for a spacewalk, your nose starts to itch... The ting is that you can't remove the helmet to scratch and you know you will be out there for 56 years. Now this is Spooky As Heck.

    • @bakugo9806
      @bakugo9806 3 роки тому

      What you bout rolling down in the deep

  • @newaa3483
    @newaa3483 4 роки тому +43

    Him: *I've made it 56 years-*
    Me: What a fighter! (Thought he was talking about a medical issue)
    Him: *Without molesting a child*
    Me: O H.

  • @lolamaria560
    @lolamaria560 5 років тому +74

    April looks like she is anime, she is so pretty

  • @Jiwoonq
    @Jiwoonq 5 років тому +715

    If he wants to die and he is aware of his decision than just let him go....
    Edit: I wasn't trying to cause any problems sorry if I offended you but thanks for the likes :3

    • @rosanirodrigues557
      @rosanirodrigues557 5 років тому +20

      Fairy Floss :P
      It’s not that Simple.

    • @SjofnBM1989
      @SjofnBM1989 5 років тому +10

      @@rosanirodrigues557 I mean no it's not. Unless they can prove he's mentally incompetent if he's refusing treatment they can't force him

    • @BatmanAOMC
      @BatmanAOMC 5 років тому +14

      Suicidal people are also aware of their decision but it's a decision based on pain, anger, hopelessness. Is it really a decision when it's conditioned by emotions and not reason?

    • @yagurl1487
      @yagurl1487 5 років тому +5

      Suiside is never the right choise, that simple

    • @gracecalis5421
      @gracecalis5421 5 років тому +7

      @@BatmanAOMC Emotions are just as much of a factor in one's decision making as logic; we're humans. The fairest thing to do would be to judge it solely on a case by case basis. If an old man no longer wants cancer treatment and he's perfectly lucid, then let him be.

  • @lilah6106
    @lilah6106 5 років тому +33

    I’m sorry but it’s his choice to refuse treatment. I understand he can’t ask to die but he can refuse treatment

  • @gloriamcinerney7383
    @gloriamcinerney7383 4 роки тому +17

    Many people struggle with these sorts of thoughts, they think the best way to stop those urges, and keep everyone around them safe, is to end it all. Many struggle in silence about this because there's so much stigma around it, yet, it's just thoughts and urges, they don't act on. And we need to expand to more studies in this field because it could stop so many others from acting on those urges.

  • @lem09able
    @lem09able 4 роки тому +38

    I truly do believe that a person is entitled to an honorable and dignified exit in life. Provided that he is of sound mind and a psych has taken a look on him. The decision should ultimately be his.

  • @mbasador35
    @mbasador35 2 роки тому +6

    I have so much respect for someone who knows they have a problem and gets help before they do something horrible. I hope it becomes more common for these people to be able to access help before they hurt a child

  • @StealthMode3924
    @StealthMode3924 2 роки тому +6

    I strongly disagree with keeping someone alive against their will when they are declared legally competent to make that choice.

  • @katieleahy7968
    @katieleahy7968 5 років тому +33

    I was expecting a 'my wife/husband is gone and i want to see them' or 'i dont have any kids to live for' and then just....m

  • @kavyat.5614
    @kavyat.5614 3 роки тому +15

    he didnt act on his thoughts, 56 YEARS.
    he in a way, sacrificed himself instead of being selfish cause he knew it was wrong even if it was a pain for him to control himself.
    he chose not to be a bad person, he kept it in himself.
    he shouldnt be thought of the way other pedos should be.
    also i know halsted shouldve respected his choice in the first place but i also know he hates loss when his job is to save so i wouldnt critisize him for it.

  • @magiczebreroblox1273
    @magiczebreroblox1273 5 років тому +451

    APiAl:just let him die
    WiLl:no he is our patient and I’m not letting him die
    Dr ReEse listening to doctor Charles so he’s trying to die??

  • @langellabalili5349
    @langellabalili5349 3 роки тому +5

    Does he not know that patients have the right to refuse treatment ? Has he ever heard of palliative care? Wtf is wrong with this hospital? No palliative team?

  • @farinshore8900
    @farinshore8900 2 роки тому +25

    Kudos to the patient for living and dying with integrity. Shame on some of the doctors for not knowing what it is they are dealing with. Dr Charles got it right

  • @roseclark1685
    @roseclark1685 3 роки тому +3

    Sometimes feelings aren't a choice, but your actions always are. I respect anyone who chooses to do what is right.

  • @shanicephillips9170
    @shanicephillips9170 5 років тому +85

    What part of no does he not understand. If the man wants to die let him

    • @celinee.9562
      @celinee.9562 5 років тому +1

      The video clip is very good, me think. It shows the ambivalence and the complicated switch not easy to do for a doctor, it's not '' switch on, switch off " !!!
      I agree with you. But it's still disturbing to many humans. Sometimes, acceptance of illness and death is such a victory for the person that is sick. It's a gut feeling. And it is a proof of existential intelligence. Just as following a treatment can be !

    • @amberruth4164
      @amberruth4164 4 роки тому +2

      So if someone want's to commit suicide your just gonna let them?

    • @pippapapillon9327
      @pippapapillon9327 4 роки тому +5

      I am from a country where Euthanasia has been legal for years. I honestly don't even know any better. Just like with abortion and gay marriage, we have always been at the forefront of these issues.
      I think I speak for most people in my country when I say that Euthanasia is a version of freedom of choice. You have to understand, we are a medically advanced country where everything is insured (still sorry about that America) and we are aging too much. We have too many old people to provide for our economy. So from a purely economical view point, Euthanasia is also a way to help our numbers.
      Than we have the ethical issue. Euthanasia is NOT like suicide. Suicide implies that life can definitely get better. That you feel hopeless, but are not in a necessarily hopeless situation. Euthanasia is only for the hopeless cases. For people who will never get better and who want to die on their own terms. It is seen as strength, bravery.
      I understand many countries and people find this difficult but quite like abortion and gay marriage to us it seems like a human right, more than an issue to be discussed.

    • @hiimdanii
      @hiimdanii 4 роки тому

      Yes, but in america it is their legal obligation to help them live, if thry let him die when they see him as mentally incompetant in his judgement or depressed its a crime. The fact he let him die was a crime, but an ethical one. Hope this helps :)

    • @jameswolf3302
      @jameswolf3302 4 роки тому +1

      it's not that easy when your job is to save people

  • @TheAdministrator-
    @TheAdministrator- 4 роки тому +6

    8:56 When he said the time of death and looked at April like that really hit hard, the poor man was asking for death and it finally arrived..

  • @TKSTAR_
    @TKSTAR_ 5 років тому +22

    6:23 me when my alarm goes off in the morning

  • @wuraolaolagunju
    @wuraolaolagunju 4 роки тому +22

    Him: "I've made it 56 years...
    Me: Awww, that's understa-
    Him: "Without molesting a child
    Me: "Spoke too damn soon"😑

    • @jameswolf3302
      @jameswolf3302 4 роки тому +4

      but it's a good thing he resisted the urges

    • @guardianofthegalaxy2051
      @guardianofthegalaxy2051 2 роки тому

      A lot of people made it 56 years or more AND molested a child unfortunately🤢

  • @happysigns
    @happysigns 5 місяців тому +1

    I love how Will comfortingly held his hand. That action alone spoke volumes. It was like him saying, “I’m right here. It’s okay. I’m gonna stand by you, and help you through this, even though there’s nothing I can do.”

  • @evilpunko-d2f
    @evilpunko-d2f 4 роки тому +40

    I respect this man for wanting to die because of what he has resisted doing for 56 years. It's a horrible thing and I'm glad that he hates it and thinks it's wrong. Say what you will, but he's brave and strong.

  • @chickennuggettheories3524
    @chickennuggettheories3524 5 років тому +93

    They didn’t take any notice that he had blood on his hospital gown and mouth

    • @CharybdisStyx
      @CharybdisStyx 5 років тому +14

      "Fine, as soon as he's cleaned up"
      I think they did

  • @victoriazed6679
    @victoriazed6679 2 роки тому +3

    Thats the way it should be . IF a person wants to end his/her/their life- It should be respected.

  • @Vengeful-MC
    @Vengeful-MC 4 роки тому +14

    When the doctor dropped his tool while the old man is looking made me so sad, and when i hear the heart rate just dropped to 0%
    Every human being deserves a 2nd chance, 🙁🙁

  • @Mindsetmotivation6453
    @Mindsetmotivation6453 2 роки тому +3

    April should not be a nurse. She does not care at all about the patient. Only herself and here belief’s

  • @sylvie_brett7609
    @sylvie_brett7609 3 роки тому +2

    i love how he speaks its soo clear its just soo satisfying

  • @BeccaBee20
    @BeccaBee20 Рік тому +3

    People like this can't ask for help without being instantly demonised. That needs to change. It could protect so many people.

  • @cardiganbackyardigan6685
    @cardiganbackyardigan6685 4 роки тому +3

    I mean fair play to the guy admitting he has a problem but also hasn't acted on it.

  • @dudeno5811
    @dudeno5811 4 роки тому +4

    "it won't be long."
    My fucking heart-

  • @islaxoxo9135
    @islaxoxo9135 5 років тому +18

    The beeping noise sounds like my microwave

  • @cloudstone123
    @cloudstone123 4 роки тому +10

    The logic of this always escapes me. Being obsessed with keeping a person alive against their will no matter the circumstance. I can understand some circumstances but someone who knows they are going to die, or someone who knows they present a danger to themselves and others, and all we can think about is forcing them to remain alive against their will.

  • @chlobear1030
    @chlobear1030 4 роки тому +13

    I respect him for admitting it and knowing it’s wrong

  • @Areyouserious1
    @Areyouserious1 3 роки тому +22

    "I've made it 56 years without molesting a child"
    Plot Twist: He's 80 right now.

  • @vanessav65
    @vanessav65 2 роки тому +3

    That's wrong, no one can tell you that you can't die. If he wants to die, it doesn't matter if he is a pedophile or not. Each person has the right to decide if they want to end their life.

  • @jackbullandothers3322
    @jackbullandothers3322 3 роки тому +7

    This is something that in my country (netherlands) is allowed, but not easy. The patient must be complete aware, 100% certain, and sign... something. And a bunch of other legal stuff, only then is a doctor allowed to inject a lethal injection.

  • @DiamondAviator4
    @DiamondAviator4 Рік тому +2

    1:07 well, at least he knows what he is, and wants to stop himself from committing hell.

  • @amanischelbert3180
    @amanischelbert3180 5 років тому +56

    Yo mans needs to fly to Switzerland so he can “EXIT” The legal Swiss way 😂

    • @annaanne5031
      @annaanne5031 5 років тому

      Explain 🤔🤔

    • @5hobs
      @5hobs 5 років тому +2

      anna anne they’re talking about euthanasia (assisted death, basically legal suicide)

    • @cian5260
      @cian5260 5 років тому +3

      @@5hobs Literally something that should be legal worldwide tbh 🙄

    • @TheGobin
      @TheGobin 5 років тому +2

      Cian MacNamara exactly if someone doesn’t want to live they should legally should be allowed be euthanised

  • @jenellescustomcakes3132
    @jenellescustomcakes3132 4 роки тому +2

    I’m crying right now he was so nice and it was sad when he died

  • @rec.g673
    @rec.g673 2 роки тому +5

    I think this goes to show that people aren't good based on their thoughts, but their actions. This poor man was stricken with horrible thoughts that he was clearly disgusted by, and even though all of his mind was urging him to act on them he never did. I'm not saying he's necessarily a good man, but one worthy of respect.

  • @farahiccol3424
    @farahiccol3424 2 роки тому +2

    I love will so much, h'es the one I like the most when he's treating patients, he's my comfort character

  • @stingray2335
    @stingray2335 4 роки тому +3

    I know its a show but, I am crying so much rn. This is so sad! Imagine how he has to live like that

  • @taylorvlogs6310
    @taylorvlogs6310 4 роки тому +5

    The acting bis so real, i thought they were real doctors ngl

  • @justyouraveragebrit9090
    @justyouraveragebrit9090 5 років тому +64

    Been out for 5 min and people commented 11 minutes ago UA-cam are you high again

  • @sonarikasen3328
    @sonarikasen3328 2 роки тому +6

    When Will said 'It wont't be long" ah man. I felt bad and sympathetic

  • @nursabrina8397
    @nursabrina8397 4 роки тому +3

    4:42 dr Abrams have no filterr 🤣🤣 he's my favorite

  • @Myloooooooo_
    @Myloooooooo_ Рік тому +1

    Thank you. I didn’t want to see that man suffer anymore you for filled his wishes but sometimes you have to make theses decisions.

  • @karmen.9182
    @karmen.9182 5 років тому +66

    CHICAGO MED AND FIRE NEED TO GO ON NETFLIX😤

  • @grantboi116
    @grantboi116 Рік тому +2

    As a survivor of abuse. If this were a real story I would praise him for fighting this demon for so long. When he was talking about the itch that he can't scratch just about killed. My abuser gave into his.

  • @mannanali5481
    @mannanali5481 5 років тому +10

    The itch example is a 10/10

  • @cvsmixsunflxwer8604
    @cvsmixsunflxwer8604 3 роки тому +3

    I love that neurosurgeon(?) he's so nonchalant it's hilarious

  • @erynlorne901
    @erynlorne901 5 років тому +12

    “i’ve made it 56 years without molesting a child”
    i said: 😶🤭

  • @nikolekerpe95
    @nikolekerpe95 5 років тому +176

    Hes is the the hottest ginger i have ever seen in my entire life and i dont like ginger dudes😂

    • @sophielouise6632
      @sophielouise6632 5 років тому +4

      Nikole Kerpe what about Prince Harry girly he is a hot prince 😍 shame he’s married though 😭 I’d settle for halstead instead

    • @nobody-qc7xc
      @nobody-qc7xc 5 років тому +14

      I thought u were talking about the pedophile lol

    • @sophielouise6632
      @sophielouise6632 5 років тому +1

      Cream 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @theliopleurodon
      @theliopleurodon 5 років тому +2

      @@nobody-qc7xc Same I was like wtffff

    • @rurubaharun3012
      @rurubaharun3012 4 роки тому +3

      he looks like a bloke I dated, except he's not ginger.
      Connor if you read this
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      .
      .
      .
      .
      ehh.. whatever🤷🏻‍♀️

  • @CCleowhatt
    @CCleowhatt 2 роки тому +7

    I know most Pedophile's are horrible people, but not all of them are, some of thrm don't want those horrible thoughts.
    This episode made me cry the most, i really appreciat that Will doesn't judge, and just really wants to save anyone he can even though they may br 'horrible' people, this man has all my respect, this was such a sad episode to me, the ending was the saddest.

  • @duh938
    @duh938 2 роки тому +2

    One of the biggest uno reverses ever

  • @khyceehetharagones339
    @khyceehetharagones339 4 роки тому +6

    My anxiety level kicks in when these doctors don’t usually wear masks.

  • @weronikakomuda944
    @weronikakomuda944 Рік тому +1

    Why people like her are even obligated to be a nurse. She doesn’t even consider him as a normal patient. Thats just unprofessional and pathetic.

    • @shac0le
      @shac0le Рік тому

      Yeah i always think the same when i see clips of her..she isnt suited for a job like that

  • @yaraalmutawakel9767
    @yaraalmutawakel9767 5 років тому +24

    I have been watching these videos for the last 3 hours and I think im ready to to be the real life (the good doctor)

  • @onevaim5373
    @onevaim5373 3 роки тому +2

    That was soo sad too watch. He could only die to heal ….

  • @nidhilad2768
    @nidhilad2768 5 років тому +9

    I was not expecting that. shook.

  • @cybernautadventurer
    @cybernautadventurer Рік тому +2

    Pedophile or not, the fact that he spent his whole life resisting it, and was willing to choose death to escape it, to me that is a heroic character. Just imagine how amazing his life would be if he DIDN'T suffer from those thoughts.

  • @ChristineTheHippie
    @ChristineTheHippie 4 роки тому +3

    It's not easy to make a pedofile sympathetic but this was a tear jerker. He didn't want to do anything to any child

  • @HufflePuff-vx7ls
    @HufflePuff-vx7ls Рік тому +1

    I feel bad for him. He can’t control his thoughts and he clearly hates them, as well as resisting them his whole life. I think dying for him was a blessing, gave him relief from his thoughts

  • @hayleymccartney7550
    @hayleymccartney7550 4 роки тому +14

    i respect this man so much. He didn’t choose to be a pedo, but he’s fighting the urges. he’s been fighting them for over 50 years, imagine how hard that would be. nobody said his thoughts were right, but he didn’t choose to be this way.

  • @VeziMonalisa
    @VeziMonalisa 4 роки тому +2

    I respect this guy... he is a good man