Can you relate? Do you engage with your ex partner's children? Tell us your experience in the comments below! In Pumla's words, we encourage you Bump Lovers to do better, seek out your child's other parent and engage in conversation that will help you co-parent better. Watch the video we're talking about here ua-cam.com/video/kmWjVt9hVLU/v-deo.html Whose side are you on? Tell us in the comment section! #BabyMama #BabyDaddy #BabyDrama
Wooow, Thank you Ladies.....U are always real......Pumla, Thank you for sharing a bit of how u have handled co-parenting. Many people are stuck in bad relationships bse they can't wrap their heads around co-parenting......is it OK for u ladies to host Pumla to share more about co-parenting......the emotions, the maturity, the legalities etc.......Thank u all ounceagain. Blessings
I'm not a baby mama but I can imagine how complicated naviting co-parenting can be. Sounds like you are coaching a number of women to do better in this area, Pumla. It hits different when one is hearing from someone who has walked the talk. Well done you! Thank you ladies for another great upload.
I loved the answer of Pumula on a question asked by Manuela.Children can have the idea but you don't throw it to their faces by keeping the distance.Kudos to all the ladies,I love the this channel
Tips that have helped me. 1_Set clear boundaries and stick to them. 2_ Decide what's more important (child) and focus on that. 3_ Remember that you can't fight or win all battles so choose wisely. 4_This too will pass...the kids eventually grow.
Men and women should really start taking responsibilities for their actions. Bringing willingly bringing children to these types of situations is not fair. If you have already one child with one man or women and the relationship doesn't work out it is your responsibility as an individual to ensure that the next time you have a child, it's in a secure, stable and sensible relationship. And if, that relationship also doesn't work... perhaps it is time to give up having any more children with new partners. This multiple baby mama/daddy situation is not healthy for society in general.
CORRECT. This nonsense of scattering your seed and eggs here, there & everywhere in the name of looking for love should stop. Casualties (children) are always left behind. We need to do better. Thanks Elizabeth. P
Perfectly said, you can't go on littering babies anyhow all in the name of love. After falling apart with the first person, can't you really check yourself and findout what you didn't do right that might have caused a break-up...??? Can't you even discuss the baby issue with the person you're dating before the baby comes in....?? Also take time before falling in love.
Difficult conversation...I learned a lot. Maturity is the operative word in most uncomfortable situations. It can be difficult. Thank you for these conversations.
Pumla. Thank you for sharing. It is very hard to be the mature one. Sometimes you feel sooo tired and the urge to roll in the mud is very presemy. Maturity is taken as simplicity so in most cases, one is taken for granted.
Thank you ladies for this topic, co-parenting is really hard and children are sadly caught in the middle which creates trauma filled lives for them.Pumla,thank you. When you know better,please do better.
I just wish that lady could actually listen to this insightful conversation openheartedly. pretty sure it would influence her to have healthy conversations with both herself and baby daddies. Well done ladies👏👏👏
Pumla, if you were based here in London, you would be my Member of Parliament (MP). Because you have the brains and principles that we need for this generation !!! Thanks to you Rachel for your gentle spirit and excellence. Thanks to the entire panel of Bump Love ❤. Each one of you adds value to this cause, it is all colourful, well done. Pumla, my MP, you can represent us globally. My Blue Print for this show Pumla 💙
Such a huge compliment Flavia. I tell people that the one place I really felt I belonged when I went was Manchester. If only I could carry my family and friends with me, I could come. Hehe! Thanks again. P
@@pumlanabachwa8668, I mean you guys are all great but I find you to be so real, observant, and intelligent. Not just for fun but we need people like you in this confused generation, People who are firm and real like you Pumla. Glory be to God for all that anyway. God bless you the Bump Love ladies. I always wait to hear from you in particular and Rachel because she has a gentle and kind spirit. Kemi is very understanding, especially in her approach and gratitude towards the "Maid", I listened in awe.....God bless you, Mother of the Nations Kemi, there is something special about you! Manuela Mulondo with her sense of humor and the other Lady, I'm yet to get her name right, they too make the place lively with their great wisdom. But, Pumla is my area MP.
Pumla's advice should be included in the school curriculum"☺️. Too late for me 😉😉but what i can say is that if you are to date/get married to someone who already has children, try to find out if they do take care of them and how, if he doesn't not, murife run🤣
You've killed me with murife run. But yes...you can't date or marry a man who doesn't cater to his other kids and think things will go different for you when things don't work out. Murife...RUN!!! It's never too late Justine. Just pick yowaself up and abeg...never repeat it! P
Pumla that's really tough love but very educative. It's my prayer that every young lady makes a decision on how they want their love life to be. it's very tough but once you move from one man to another...it will keep going on and find yourself with kids. Chau ladies
BE BETTER. Period. Pumla another book to add on the ones you will write for us is co-parenting.😅😅 Just like many other things, we have to be intentional. Ehhh but Manuella and Brian have had conversations about everything, I even got emotional on your behalf so I pray you stay together for a lifetime❤. Thank you ladies
The baby mama / daddy dynamics are different for every relationship just as it is for marriage and many other things.. The 2 adults have to agree on how best to raise their kids.. it’s just that most women - coz we are emotional , make it somewhat difficult for the guys.
I grew up in a broken home..where me and my brother stayed with our dad but since things had ended badly, our dad didn't allow our mum to see us, he even badmouthed her to us. I remember one time my mum bringing me a birthday cake and my dad throwing it in the trash. Point is both parents need to do better. These things made me hate my dad so much. Anyway Pumla i know there are no perfect human beings, but i look to you.
Darling Namee. I'm so sorry that you had to experience this as a child. It must have been awful. You should have been protected. I hope you know that none of it was your fault. It wasn't your home that was broken. It's your parents that were. It can't be easy but for the sake of your children or those you will have, I do hope you have somehow found a way to heal and do better for them. Mubutuufu we must all do better. P
This episode has been 🔥 Hahaha. I have realised today that Brian makes Manuela feel safe. Coz the confidence as a mom to even consider leaving your kids with someone and you go, you really trust that person to do right by the kids.
These ladies are so sweet! Pumula makes u wish she were yours. Rosette's smile so enticing. Rachael a very reserved, beautiful & patient child of God. Manuela ye alabika tasiba zikweeya. Great work ladies.
I think when two adults are having their drama. Please remember there are are kids involved. these child(dren) comprehend what ever is happening. please protect the children. Also in circumstances where your co-parenting and other children are involved i only think it human to treat children as children. Avoid situations where you have to divided the children. They take note Thank you all for sharing Love from S.korea
Pumla you're very intelligent I think if baby Mamas/dads were only doing what yo doing then co-oparenting wouldn't be that hard. Baby Mamas/dads DO BETTER In Pumla's voice
I'm over qualified for this, lol. I'm a baby mama. And a wife to a man who is a baby daddy to someone. Ours is a perfect blended family. But to get to a level of co-parenting that's sober you need to set the boundaries early on. It takes setting aside whatever emotions came from the breakups you had and focusing on the children. Takes time.
Fact is, let's be better in this error.Atleast Bump love is trying it's best to help us through.Infact bump love is a wonderful woman can't wait having a family❤.Waiting for Money talk😂😂 most importantly I can't to hear from Pumlaz word😘🥰😍. Be blessed, bump love you make me happy. Live in Saudi Arabia ❤
It sucks because it feels like I have a parasite tied to me. I feel like most if not all baby mamas would love a baby daddy like me, I'm a fully active parent. I pay for health insurance and all extra expenses, I pay child support and was the one who offered too. But my ex, she keeps taking me to court and I don't know why. I told her" I've agreed to all your terms, so what exactly are you fighting for?" She replied with " this conversation will not continue until I hear from my lawyer". I've asked her to communicate with me and she agrees but then ghosts me or stops replying to texts. I've asked so many times to just settle this so I can move on. But it's like she's stalling. Like she doesn't want to agree to anything because I think she knows that the moment she does. Then she loses leverage over me. Further more this woman left me for two men in 8 years. I wouldn't of taken her back but I thought she truly regretted her decision. I was wrong. But if she didn't want me. Why won't she let me go
Pumla hugs hugs hugs,I hear you I hear you sooo loud. Everything takes time I personally decided to cater for my child if the dad awakens well and good if he don't we still move on. But I don't see myself fighting a mature man over responsibility
😂😂 22:14-20iesh the way Racheal is looking is as thou she can’t wait to go home and have the hard conversation with hubby. Comes from a good place but your looks made the episode for me 🤣😂 My love for Pumla yeyogela everyday banage. ❤ Thanks ladies
You wanna ask God for a wonan ask for a patient one the rest will be perfect @pumla your patience is God given seven years no nothing like relationship
Pumla comes across as a very rational woman no wonder she is an economist. Things have to add up lol it’s a rare quality for a woman to have since we are generally emotional
You just went and figured me all out 😅. But mazima - Things do have to add up. Somehow. Funny that we were speaking about exactly this with my Bump Love girls just last week. P
Whew!!! This was honestly a "raw" topic, thanks ladies! Well done Pumla, you speak for many of us! Huh....guys, it's not easy and it takes maturity! All I can say is "been there done that," and it's never easy but co-parenting is doable, however, I also think it gets better as the children get older!
😂 ....issue is between the individuals primarily involved please. mbu, gender, some people are co-parenting harmoniously, they even throw house parties eh hmmm
Pumlah ur just amazing I don't know why I understand you so well oba becoz am single mother too but I love u so much ..u always speak to me .thank u love . Thank u for making this topic well understood for me . Thank u Ladies .🥰
Pumla i think we would be besties cause we are so alike in aloooooooot of things. Just love your soul🥰🥳🥳. I hate the things of always blaming women and pampering men's stupidity🤬
Can you relate?
Do you engage with your ex partner's children? Tell us your experience in the comments below! In Pumla's words, we encourage you Bump Lovers to do better, seek out your child's other parent and engage in conversation that will help you co-parent better.
Watch the video we're talking about here ua-cam.com/video/kmWjVt9hVLU/v-deo.html
Whose side are you on? Tell us in the comment section!
#BabyMama #BabyDaddy #BabyDrama
🥂To doing better
Who is watching this in 2024. Pumula you rock lady. I needed this very much.
Pumla's intelligence is on another level
Pumla always brings mature points to the discussion!!! I love her mindset on parenthood!! Sending Love from the USA
Love right back at you honey. All the way to the US. ❤️ P
@@pumlanabachwa8668 I like you Pumla😊😊😊😊
Wow
don't they all?
That chic is troubled indeed🤣🤣🤣🤣
Wooow, Thank you Ladies.....U are always real......Pumla, Thank you for sharing a bit of how u have handled co-parenting. Many people are stuck in bad relationships bse they can't wrap their heads around co-parenting......is it OK for u ladies to host Pumla to share more about co-parenting......the emotions, the maturity, the legalities etc.......Thank u all ounceagain. Blessings
Thanks Kyakyo. I'll definitely find more opportunities to share through different coming episodes on the show. P
I'm not a baby mama but I can imagine how complicated naviting co-parenting can be. Sounds like you are coaching a number of women to do better in this area, Pumla. It hits different when one is hearing from someone who has walked the talk. Well done you!
Thank you ladies for another great upload.
Thanks JD. It doesn't have to be so complicated and yet somehow it is. Luckily, growth is achievable. We just all need to do better. P
Pumla has given a VERY MATURE perspective. Thank you 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
I loved the answer of Pumula on a question asked by Manuela.Children can have the idea but you don't throw it to their faces by keeping the distance.Kudos to all the ladies,I love the this channel
A respectable distance should be kept at all times. P
Truly u can see that Pumlas emotions were running extremely high....single motherhood ain't for the faint hearted 🙌
I would love to have more of this.....thanks ladies. Pumla's maturity is out of this world.
You such amazing ladies, greetings from Belgium Brussels
The experience and maturity that Pumla brings to this conversation is wooowww... My take home today is BE BETTER 💕💕 Thnx ladies!
Kati even if you go and sleep, it's okay. Well learnt 😅. P
Tips that have helped me.
1_Set clear boundaries and stick to them.
2_ Decide what's more important (child) and focus on that.
3_ Remember that you can't fight or win all battles so choose wisely.
4_This too will pass...the kids eventually grow.
Let me also use this summary. Hehe! P
I’m so proud of Pumpla, we have to be mature for our babies….
Key word here is maturity. Pumla has served gems.
Men and women should really start taking responsibilities for their actions. Bringing willingly bringing children to these types of situations is not fair. If you have already one child with one man or women and the relationship doesn't work out it is your responsibility as an individual to ensure that the next time you have a child, it's in a secure, stable and sensible relationship. And if, that relationship also doesn't work... perhaps it is time to give up having any more children with new partners. This multiple baby mama/daddy situation is not healthy for society in general.
CORRECT. This nonsense of scattering your seed and eggs here, there & everywhere in the name of looking for love should stop. Casualties (children) are always left behind. We need to do better. Thanks Elizabeth. P
Perfectly said, you can't go on littering babies anyhow all in the name of love. After falling apart with the first person, can't you really check yourself and findout what you didn't do right that might have caused a break-up...??? Can't you even discuss the baby issue with the person you're dating before the baby comes in....?? Also take time before falling in love.
Thank you
We need more talks of co-parenting.Thank you ladies
Difficult conversation...I learned a lot. Maturity is the operative word in most uncomfortable situations. It can be difficult. Thank you for these conversations.
Thank you Pumla,you have really explained the situation in a mature and professional manner.
I agree with Pumla 100%
With you ladies, its always data well spent. I like that you are real and always advising for better. Bambi me i appreciate 😌 🙏
Pumla. Thank you for sharing. It is very hard to be the mature one. Sometimes you feel sooo tired and the urge to roll in the mud is very presemy. Maturity is taken as simplicity so in most cases, one is taken for granted.
Thank you ladies for this topic, co-parenting is really hard and children are sadly caught in the middle which creates trauma filled lives for them.Pumla,thank you. When you know better,please do better.
Amazing episode ladies 🤗.....If I ever end up being a baby mama I am coming to Uganda to look for Pumla...she's dropped some serious gems
Hahaha! Where would you be dropping in from Kariuki? P
I love Pumla’s maturity
Pumla and Rosette first went at it and I was in awe 😄 🤣. But I like the entire discussion
Ngonge fire 🔥. P
It is Pumla's view for me,, very intelligent, much love from Kenya
I just wish that lady could actually listen to this insightful conversation openheartedly. pretty sure it would influence her to have healthy conversations with both herself and baby daddies. Well done ladies👏👏👏
Pumla's mindset is everything for me. Wow!!!
Pumla brought it just right,it takes alot of patience and maturity to control baby maama drama..
Thanks ladies
Baby mama's ,baby daddy's scenarios will always be there, maturity is key, one needs alot of wisdom when in such a situation. It is not easy at all.
Pumla, if you were based here in London, you would be my Member of Parliament (MP). Because you have the brains and principles that we need for this generation !!! Thanks to you Rachel for your gentle spirit and excellence. Thanks to the entire panel of Bump Love ❤. Each one of you adds value to this cause, it is all colourful, well done. Pumla, my MP, you can represent us globally. My Blue Print for this show Pumla 💙
Such a huge compliment Flavia. I tell people that the one place I really felt I belonged when I went was Manchester. If only I could carry my family and friends with me, I could come. Hehe! Thanks again. P
@@pumlanabachwa8668, I mean you guys are all great but I find you to be so real, observant, and intelligent. Not just for fun but we need people like you in this confused generation, People who are firm and real like you Pumla. Glory be to God for all that anyway. God bless you the Bump Love ladies. I always wait to hear from you in particular and Rachel because she has a gentle and kind spirit. Kemi is very understanding, especially in her approach and gratitude towards the "Maid", I listened in awe.....God bless you, Mother of the Nations Kemi, there is something special about you! Manuela Mulondo with her sense of humor and the other Lady, I'm yet to get her name right, they too make the place lively with their great wisdom. But, Pumla is my area MP.
Pumla is such a resource on this show.I love you ma'am
I love the level of maturity in you Pumla.
The level of maturity with Pumla, i just admire my God
Pumla you have encouraged me,, by saying, don't coparent alone,do everything possible to make sure the child's father is involved in the parenting
Don't ever choose to parent alone if you have the option to coparent. P
Pumla is so intelligent, I love her
Pumla's advice should be included in the school curriculum"☺️. Too late for me 😉😉but what i can say is that if you are to date/get married to someone who already has children, try to find out if they do take care of them and how, if he doesn't not, murife run🤣
😂😂😂😂Murife dont run
Thank you so much ladies for the conversation. It was very insightful. Pumla🙌 those words of wisdom.
You've killed me with murife run. But yes...you can't date or marry a man who doesn't cater to his other kids and think things will go different for you when things don't work out. Murife...RUN!!!
It's never too late Justine. Just pick yowaself up and abeg...never repeat it! P
You are such a bright lady Pumla ,I like your messages and to you All pretty ladies
Pumla, you were just the right person to talk about this 👏 👏 👏
I agree with Racheal, if you have never been in the situation, it’s very easy for you to judge.
Or have a misguided opinion...
Pumla that's really tough love but very educative. It's my prayer that every young lady makes a decision on how they want their love life to be. it's very tough but once you move from one man to another...it will keep going on and find yourself with kids. Chau ladies
Pumla's maturity!! Top notch👌
BE BETTER. Period. Pumla another book to add on the ones you will write for us is co-parenting.😅😅 Just like many other things, we have to be intentional.
Ehhh but Manuella and Brian have had conversations about everything, I even got emotional on your behalf so I pray you stay together for a lifetime❤.
Thank you ladies
Wabula they will banja me pakalast. Hehe! Okay...let me also be better in that department. P
The baby mama / daddy dynamics are different for every relationship just as it is for marriage and many other things.. The 2 adults have to agree on how best to raise their kids.. it’s just that most women - coz we are emotional , make it somewhat difficult for the guys.
I hear you Rosette
The things we shall miss about bumplove❤. I always dial back to these episodes at every stage of my life ☺️. Thank you once again ❤
Pumla for me .Thank you for sharing woman. I have the same thought as you of waiting.
Oooh My God Pumla is so intelligent👌👌👌I'm kindly requesting for more videos abot Co-parenting pleeaseeeee
Rachel’s listening en reasoning is up there
God bless you Pumla. Your openess and maturity are beyond normal level.
I can listen to Pumla the world day.. Maama teza we need a sole show. Thank you ladies for the show
Hahaaha! We are better together. Love right back! P
Wow Pumla👏👏.. God bless you for all the sacrifices you made 🙏
Motherhood is sacrifice honey. It's part of this God given responsibility. 🤷🏾♀️ P
Pumla i applaud you for sharing your story and also how mature you have handled co parenting. May God keep guiding you on the journey
Thank you Balayo. I pray for the grace to do better. P
Oh God Pumla. God bless your soul.
I grew up in a broken home..where me and my brother stayed with our dad but since things had ended badly, our dad didn't allow our mum to see us, he even badmouthed her to us. I remember one time my mum bringing me a birthday cake and my dad throwing it in the trash.
Point is both parents need to do better. These things made me hate my dad so much.
Anyway Pumla i know there are no perfect human beings, but i look to you.
Darling Namee. I'm so sorry that you had to experience this as a child. It must have been awful. You should have been protected. I hope you know that none of it was your fault. It wasn't your home that was broken. It's your parents that were. It can't be easy but for the sake of your children or those you will have, I do hope you have somehow found a way to heal and do better for them. Mubutuufu we must all do better. P
@@pumlanabachwa8668 thank you so much
ohhh my..sorry about this experience..parents should know better
Great insights from Pumla👍👍👏👏
Pumla’s reasoning is so mature. Sending you love and Hugs from Uk❤️
Thanks pretty cool Lady #Pumla
Waaw. I have picked something.....Thanks Ladies.....😄😃
This episode has been 🔥 Hahaha. I have realised today that Brian makes Manuela feel safe. Coz the confidence as a mom to even consider leaving your kids with someone and you go, you really trust that person to do right by the kids.
Pumla,pumla.......thanks for always sharing from uour experience
I love this pumula lady. Her arguments are always upthere.
Among the first kenyans to be addicted to this channel
We love your addiction. Karibu! P
Welcome.
Some of us are also addicted to Lyn Ngugi
Me too
Same here
This was fire🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
The way am sooo touched with this...
I would love to meet pumula in person if possible...she really inspires me
I love love love Pumla. How she handles BD and his wife is just so mature. She is really wise ❤️
Pumla you are right, what ever their situation is if you can’t afford to feed all, take your kid with you.
Tell me why I'm discovering this channel today. Great insights, ladies.
These ladies are so sweet! Pumula makes u wish she were yours. Rosette's smile so enticing. Rachael a very reserved, beautiful & patient child of God. Manuela ye alabika tasiba zikweeya. Great work ladies.
Pumla I needed to hear this dear, am somehow changed. love you gal.
Pumla, I am so with you. This narrative of absolving men of their responsibility needs to stop banange!
Pumla..my God..your level of maturity....how do we become friends?😂😂
Haha! Just by you commenting is a good start. 😊. P
Thank you Pulma. I have kept on loving you more and more, you such a nice and bright girl for sure. Big ups
I think when two adults are having their drama. Please remember there are are kids involved. these child(dren) comprehend what ever is happening. please protect the children.
Also in circumstances where your co-parenting and other children are involved i only think it human to treat children as children. Avoid situations where you have to divided the children. They take note
Thank you all for sharing
Love from S.korea
Always. Protect. The. Children. 👍🏾. P
Pumla you're very intelligent I think if baby Mamas/dads were only doing what yo doing then co-oparenting wouldn't be that hard.
Baby Mamas/dads DO BETTER In Pumla's voice
Rosette its your wardrobe for me.I always want to see what you have for us, each time.
She's our fashionista! FabStylist! P
Wooow… Palma thanks for your honesty but most importantly the Maturity and Emotional Intelligence that you uphold….! You are dearly appreciated 👏👏👏
Thank you Nabukeera. P
I'm over qualified for this, lol.
I'm a baby mama. And a wife to a man who is a baby daddy to someone. Ours is a perfect blended family. But to get to a level of co-parenting that's sober you need to set the boundaries early on. It takes setting aside whatever emotions came from the breakups you had and focusing on the children. Takes time.
It does take time. Would be lovely to hear your story. P
Fact is, let's be better in this error.Atleast Bump love is trying it's best to help us through.Infact bump love is a wonderful woman can't wait having a family❤.Waiting for Money talk😂😂 most importantly I can't to hear from Pumlaz word😘🥰😍. Be blessed, bump love you make me happy. Live in Saudi Arabia ❤
Thank you bump love and Pumla especially for the insightful points you have shared. I really hope people in such situations do better.
Thanks Pumla, Maturity is key.
It sucks because it feels like I have a parasite tied to me. I feel like most if not all baby mamas would love a baby daddy like me, I'm a fully active parent. I pay for health insurance and all extra expenses, I pay child support and was the one who offered too. But my ex, she keeps taking me to court and I don't know why. I told her" I've agreed to all your terms, so what exactly are you fighting for?" She replied with " this conversation will not continue until I hear from my lawyer".
I've asked her to communicate with me and she agrees but then ghosts me or stops replying to texts. I've asked so many times to just settle this so I can move on. But it's like she's stalling. Like she doesn't want to agree to anything because I think she knows that the moment she does. Then she loses leverage over me.
Further more this woman left me for two men in 8 years. I wouldn't of taken her back but I thought she truly regretted her decision. I was wrong. But if she didn't want me. Why won't she let me go
Pumla hugs hugs hugs,I hear you I hear you sooo loud. Everything takes time I personally decided to cater for my child if the dad awakens well and good if he don't we still move on. But I don't see myself fighting a mature man over responsibility
That fight is one of the most exhausting ones. P
Here me too ✋ I don't fight for him to look after our soon when time comes he will rethink himself
Pumla thanks for sharing.
Amazing insights- power 2 u ladies! This forum really does sound like "The View"!
This episode opened my eyes on co-parenting. thank you Pumula
Pumla you are just me,thanks for maturity advise
Oh Pumla, thank you for sharing. Weve not met but I like you. Brenda was my friend from primary so I always knew about you somehow. God bless you.
Brenda my sister? Haha! Nice to e-meet you. P
@@pumlanabachwa8668 yes :) nice to e-meet you.
One thing I have learnt in our African culture , we have normalized the abnormalities. In this case I totally agree with you Pumla. Do better!
😂😂 22:14-20iesh the way Racheal is looking is as thou she can’t wait to go home and have the hard conversation with hubby. Comes from a good place but your looks made the episode for me 🤣😂
My love for Pumla yeyogela everyday banage. ❤
Thanks ladies
😅😅
Hahahahaaaaaaaaaa! Our sweet Rachel. She's going to laugh so much at this comment. P
LOL🤣🤣🤣
You wanna ask God for a wonan ask for a patient one the rest will be perfect @pumla your patience is God given seven years no nothing like relationship
Thanks Pumla.great knowledge
Pumla comes across as a very rational woman no wonder she is an economist. Things have to add up lol it’s a rare quality for a woman to have since we are generally emotional
You just went and figured me all out 😅. But mazima - Things do have to add up. Somehow.
Funny that we were speaking about exactly this with my Bump Love girls just last week. P
This is true...
Very true.It shows in all the episodes and really makes her stand out.She inspires me alot
Whew!!! This was honestly a "raw" topic, thanks ladies! Well done Pumla, you speak for many of us! Huh....guys, it's not easy and it takes maturity! All I can say is "been there done that," and it's never easy but co-parenting is doable, however, I also think it gets better as the children get older!
It gets easier as the kids grow older because time passes. It's s doable. People are just stubborn. P
I like Angie’s sense of humour, and I missed her today banange
Wawo my lover mums am grtful for this massage pumla love yo strength i promise to do better ♥️♥️♥️♥️love you ladies
Wow! Pumla!! I like the authority with which you speak about these things. It is not easy but it is possible.
It is not easy but it is possible.👍🏾. P
😂 ....issue is between the individuals primarily involved please. mbu, gender, some people are co-parenting harmoniously, they even throw house parties eh hmmm
When I grow up I wanna be like Pumla, missed Angie on this one . I luv u ladies very intelligent and beautiful ❤❤❤❤
We missed Angie too but she's definitely around for the others. P
Pumlah ur just amazing I don't know why I understand you so well oba becoz am single mother too but I love u so much ..u always speak to me .thank u love .
Thank u for making this topic well understood for me .
Thank u Ladies .🥰
I'm so glad that I'm able to speak to you directly. P
Pumla i think we would be besties cause we are so alike in aloooooooot of things. Just love your soul🥰🥳🥳. I hate the things of always blaming women and pampering men's stupidity🤬
We really do need to do better! P