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The fact that this appears in my home feed says a lot about my current situation. Age of 26, feeling stucked, with a bachelors which I'm not using, no love relationship, working in a job not related to my studies and still living with my parents. Thanks for the content.
it's tough out here man. don't ever feel worthless or useless. this is generational struggle. we're all struggling. and we will ALL MAKE IT THROUGH. WAGMI
Life isn't fair in my opinion - too much depends on luck. Of course if you work really hard you can achieve something, but there are some things for some people in this world that just aren't possible. I don't really know how to explain this, but I hope it's somehow understandable. Really nice vid Ruri!
Actually everything is possible in my opinion (if you deserve that thing) like you r studying don't look down on yourself that you can't crack this exam (i used to do this) now i understand that you have to have a strong mindset to achieve your goal nothing is easy in this world ...good luck
There are for more things that are possible than impossible for you and it's pathetic to think of only how you can't be a millionaire at 14. There are so many genuine things that can make you happy (succesfull)
I lost my 13-year-old daughter to suicide last June. I often ponder how much of a factor social media played in her death. Thank you for taking the time to make this.
@@sevenlonelylies why? How do you manage to let your !!!13!!!! Years old daughter get so depressed that she commits suicide and dont help her to the point she won't kill herself. A repeat, 13 years. You are just dumb and ignorant.
"Constantly comparing oneself to others is a great way to live a miserable life." Don't self sabotage yourself, don't let failures hold you down instead learn and improve from them. The only time you truly fail is when you stop trying.
@@lemonsundew08g Self sabotage and destructive behaviour are a defence mechanism to deflect reality. It's how our body tries to protect us from something. The challenging part is until we allow ourselves to sit with it, we won't be able to release it and live full and vibrant lives.
Comment by an elderly relative: "I am almost 80 years old Japanese-Korean man and started over many times in life. Life is long, and you can start over many times. Many doors close. But each stage completed opens new doors. I appreciate you making these videos and give hope to young people. We are often scared of doing anything during our best years, which is quite sad."
@@stylie473joker5 Hi! I respect your opinion, but I also would partially disagree with you. Do realize that the commenter is an 80-year old. So given the context, that speaks loud enough. Do our grandparents that are still with us live a short life? If you think you're gonna die tomorrow, or someone have died early, then, yeah, sure. But that kind of mindset is also what pressures us, because we feel like we're in a hurry to experience everything coz we think we might die later or tomorrow or anytime. Yeah, I get that, especially in these trying times of the pandemic. I've lost family and friends early too. But it's also how stress, depression and regrets usually start creeping in. But if we still expect that we will live long enough, coz, again, no one knows... naturally, we will make mistakes along the way, so just start over. Rinse, learn and then start over, as long as we could. Many doors close, but new ones open after, until life says "No more." A little bit of something like Schrodinger's Cat theory. Two possibilities that we CANNOT actually answer. We don't know if we'll die early on or live long enough. That's why I respect and partially agree with you. But the possibility and expectancy of living longer is much bigger than dying young, seeing that we still see grandparents everywhere. I mean, we will still die, anyway. So just live. As simple as that. Live your life. You can do anything you want, yes, but just be in the present, stop worrying about tomorrow. Tomorrow never comes, coz when tomorrow comes, it's already the present and you're still alive. (Okay, I'm playing with words now. haha... but still...) If we die, we won't even feel any regret of not making the most out of it or experiencing lots of things anyway, coz... well... we're dead already. We won't feel (or think) a thing. And life of others move on. PS: I'm not an 80-yr old person, but I'm a survivor from a medical illness, back in March 2016, that the doctors were surprised after diagnosing me and even said if i was even one day late from being sent to the ER, I would've died the next day. But because of the doctor's help, tons of prayers and support from family and friends, and my strong will to live, I survived. I once fully believe that life is short as well, and that also caused me depression and stress, trying to do everything I could and sometimes couldn't, but when I thought I was dying, feeling all the pain in my body, I cried so much in my hospital bed and I felt so much regret that I didn't make the most out of it, that eventually led to mooore depression and stress that affected me and delayed my body from healing and so I stayed stuck in the hospital for almost 4 months. But after that experience, I changed my mindset. More like tweaked it a bit. I live each day doing the things that I can do on that day, yes, still making the most out of it, but also investing bit by bit for my future, bcoz I still wanna live... longer. One day at a time. And here I am, typing this and sharing my side about this topic. Apologies if I sound intruding or invalidating your opinion. It's okay if you disagree with mine, I respect that, coz like me, we all have our own opinions and perspective in life and we all experience life differently. And like I said early on, I also partially agree with you. Anyway, have a great day and a great life ahead! ^_^
@@Ash081284 what you said is right but there is also that idea that even if you live long you still feel that life is short and that those 80 years passed so fast
@@stylie473joker5 yeah, I get what you mean. You're right with that as well. Hmm... I guess we can say that the "life is long" is the physical aspect while the "life is short" is like how we see it or feel it, the speed, in a sense. Figuratively, if that is the right word? Like, I may have lived longer, I have been given more years, but while typing my comment earlier, I also realized that it's already 5 years that have passed since I was hospitalized. Even in this pandemic, it's quite shocking that 2 years have already passed. Time is fast. Yeah, I agree with you on that. Well, let's say it's a combination then, depending on how we perceive life at the moment, if it's within/being in the very moment, present (thus making it physically long) and if it's like outside the "box of life", looking as a whole, looking at from age 1 till our current age, then that's realizing how fast time has passed, if you can picture what I mean So yeah, I agree with you on that perspective :) Man, sometimes life can really make us think, huh? haha
im at the lowest point of my life rn as well... i just hate myself i don't even know what to do in life lol. everyone around me is doing something in their life im 20yrs old and I'm failing in college and playing games
Same wasted 2 years in giving excuses, watching mobile , and enjoying with temporary friends , rather than studying at my most crucial years , i am still doing the same , i know my mistakes i just don't have self control . I know i am capable i am just too lazy to change
Naex, what about all the ppl on this planet that can give the same iceberg example with with next to no results. That iceberg means s*** . Not a very good way to explain things. Bc so many have put in the same effort but to no avail.
The fact that this appears in my home feed says a lot about my current situation. Age of 26, feeling stucked, with a bachelors which I'm not using, no love relationship, working in a job not related to my studies and still living with my parents. Thanks for the content.
social standards, trauma, loneliness, not knowing what drives you, expenses getting even more expensive by the second, college being a fucking trap unless you were born wealthy/ lucky to get a free scholarship. the entire concept of school is fucking flawed to the core until you make it to college where the trap is located. simply wanted to eat healthy cost a fortune. having to deal with other people bullshit decisions which then affect you especially if they are relatives. i mean the list goes on buddy, i doubt anything can be done besides enjoying what helps us cope. some ppl just learn to live with their depression and sadness and it affects them much less then it once did, not everyone can get to that point unfortunately
@@Wopder13 the concept off school is not actually flawed they dont try to make you an succesfull man, instead their job is to make an working class person and abuse them till they either die or if youre lucky make it to retirement and THATS the problem that we actually cannot fix bc we NEED an working class in order for humanity to proceed no matter what... so yeah school knows EXACTLY what they are doing they are just pretending that they are good guys.
It's understandable considering how the baby boomers fucked up the world making the life they once achieved nearly impossible for the generations that came afterward. God also agrees too or else he wouldn't have bestowed us with the coronavirus.
"The sad truth is not everyone will accomplish something great. Some of us may just have to find meaning in the little moments that make up life." - Howard Wolowitz
At the end of the day though, what defines what is “great” or good? Society? Cultural norms? I’m not saying that there aren’t worthwhile goals, but saying that truth is sad is odd. What’s he even saying to be sad about? I think everyone in the first world can make progress and be a “better” person than they were yesterday, to hell with what society will label as “greatness”
@@Janon743 Even if you define you own goals, there will never be any guarantee you will achieve them. That's what is "sad" about life, bad things are and will ever be half of it.
Middle school girl: "So you just flew around in the rocket? It's kinda like my uncle, he's a flight attendant." Howard Wolowitz: "[chuckles] No... I'm an American hero, your uncle brings people NUTS!"
@@travismoore7849 I know. Give yourself permission to forget and ignore things that are beyond your control. There's no point in wasting your mental energy on those things. It is what it is. Focus only on things that are in your control.
Unfortunately our childhood has a lot to do with what we feel entitled too have or achieve. I did not settle for my toxic families idea of what I could be, and yet, I still have obstacles created by an absence of love , guidance, or support. You are a good inspiration. Thanks!
@@AgentZ-1844 "imagine that you are living peacefully in a house, with your family, food, as any other person in the world. and some day someone knocked on your door and tell that this is his house and told you that you must go out immediately with no reason or justifying, and as any person else who has not any place to go you refused. so that person break into your home and start destroying it and hitting you and he killed your family members. but when you start to defend people come to see whats going on, so this person start to shout and say that you stole his home and you are trying to kill him. they caught you and shut your mouth and they say that they will kill you because they think that you are a "terrorist", you scream but nobody is hearing you, becuse nobody know the truth"..............this is not imagination this is the reality of palestinians, israel is stealing and destroying their houses, their family and their lives and hide the truth and the reality. ......... so please search about the truth because its not a joke its people's life
i'm 30, i'm broke, got no gf, from mid ecnmy family,and still being a burden to ma and pa . but im sure that everything will get better for me on the right time, as long as i try to be better even better version of me,and keep being kind to other. thank you for sharing this video, its a bit lift me up.
im married have a kid and have to live with my parents again because we cant afford to pay for electricity and heating on our own... im working on making more money and leaving my 9 to 5, its gonna work, for me.. for u... we just need to try, learn and not give up ..giving up is losing if u try and actually fail and try again thats learning eventually u make it doesnt matter what that is.. trading or something else on the internet, a better job, a school, a language... everything
Society and the media really push the notion that adults should be successful while they are in their youth ie. their 20s but this is a reality I had to learn. I am pushing through to get my bachelors and I have anxiety on what is the step forward from there. So in short, I feel you. Hope you are doing ok if you see this 🙂
Unfortunately our childhood has a lot to do with what we feel entitled too have or achieve. I did not settle for my toxic families idea of what I could be, and yet, I still have obstacles created by an absence of love , guidance, or support. You are a good inspiration. Thanks!
I certainly understand what you are saying, but try this instead: rid yourself of all the people in your life that exude toxic, negative energy and start associating with people who radiate positive energy. Success is a mindset. Once you start believing in yourself, set some daily goals to measure your successes that day. It could be something simple as this: I am going to walk 3 laps around my neighborhood early morning before work. Trust me, you'll not only realize it's easy to do it, but you will start feeling better physically. Even better, PEOPLE WILL NOTICE!!!
"If you don’t fight for what you want, then don’t cry for what you lost." -Lord Krishna , Bhagvad Gita These lines do have very different meanings, it depends on perspective. And also we should never think that we are failure, as it depends on our mind " What we think is what we become" another famous quote from "Bhagvad Gita"( book) By the way nice vid
Empty words. So if I fought hard for what I wanted, I would be deserved to cry for what I lost? Do you really think I tried so hard just to have the right to cry, lol.
Thank you for being honest. Makes me feel so much better with my UA-cam journey. I was literally just crying an hour ago because Im so frustrated and feel like a failure. I needed this today.
This Is My First Time Hearing About Unfair Advantage, And I Really Thank You For Your Explanation.. I'll Definitely Spend This Entire Day To Breakdown All My Possible Unfair Advantage And Use It As My New Weapon.. Thank You Once Again Dear Ruri.. And Congratulation On Your 300K Subs 😇
This video popped up in my recommendations at the right time. I am at a depressing point, devaluing everything i've done and seeing no results. But you reminded me that the value we have has always been in us, we have to find our authencity, or unfair advantages, which is a clue to realizing many things. Thank you for making me question some things. I don't believe in signs, but im gonna consider it one.
Thank you so much Ruri! I'm 21 and I noticed that I got really jealous and chaotic, and it scares me. whenever I see any success from my friends or acquaintances which is bigger than mine I feel really down. Even today when my friend told me she's working as a system analyst and makes good money it was enough to ruin the rest of the day for me (and maybe not only this one). Because we're the same age and from the same university, so i constantly COMPARE my peers with me and destruct myself. I understand that I have some unfair advantages, that my life is better than it is in my head, that many would probably like to own some aspects of my life, but I'm suffering from something I don't have nevertheless. and I believe that what contributes to such mindset significantly is the fact that I DON'T KNOW what to do with my life. There is no particular dream I would like to fulfill or it is way too abstract so that I wouldn't be able to tell what it is really. This makes me feel miserable, I get angry at myself and at my relatives because of my own problems, and right now I feel lost and depressed. Any small misfortune upsets me, and I don't see the solution yet but I will try to do something like studying more in magistracy, maybe watching some courses for enhancing general knowledge, reading, establishing relationships, working with psychologist (hopefully). I've tried some of these activities already but I believe there must be more consistency and more efforts. I wish I would start to realise fully that the worst thing is to sit and do nothing which is one of my favorite occupations (cause what would I do? I'm questioning myself and don't seem to find the answer yet). But I will be trying. I appreciate it very much if anyone has read about my current experience with my life. If you're going through somewhat similar thing, please know that you're not alone. We might be lost right now but we'll get there. The main thing is to keep going and trying further without fear even if we don't succeed. Failing is MUCH better than not even trying. If needed, get professional help (I'll try too!) and take care of yourself. You'll cope. Sending love and support to everyone.
im 21 and im just considering majoring cs... i spent 3 years doing basically nothing and i feel like i still have a chance and kinda sad and depressed abt it but u its better late than never ig :( so if go in i'll graduate at 25 do u think thats alright :,)
I have the same problem. I am also 21. The other day my friend said he made tons of money from his job and now he is planning to move in to his new apartment. I don't know why but that made me hate myself and feel like a failure I was keep asking myself ''what am i doing wrong?''. I'm in college (architecture major) .It was already too tough to find internship because I don't know anyone. When i found out some of my classmates already found a job i just wanted to kill myself. Feels like no matter how hard i try it's all futile. ''I get angry at myself and at my relatives because of my own problems, and right now I feel lost and depressed.'' I can relate to this sentence. When my parents call me I just yell at them because I'm just looking for someone to blame. (I hate myself for this)
I'm 29 now and dropped out of high school from a panic attack I had on the first day of school in my first class. I had to move out to my best friends house at 17 because I didn't know if my parents would let me leave school so I just packed my car and left. The only advice I can honestly give is that it will get better and as you get older you start to notice the wisdom you gain over time. Some random thing can happen that can change your life, whether its meeting someone and hearing about a job they do, or hearing an idea that sounds really exciting to you, or a business idea for making a side income. TRY ALL OF THE THINGS you're interested in. You will learn from each one and then at some point all of your best talent will be put together on top of your hard work and you will have something of value whether its financial or not. However financial value is very thin, even the richest people have some sad lives, because its unironically not about having a ton of money that makes a good life, however making about 70-80k a year is an important pillar of having enough to not worry in the US.
I have never felt like a winner in life. I’m now 43 and was slowly dying inside. Thank you. I needed to hear this. Life is truly unfair . That is the beginning of the struggle as a human being.
This is probably the most honest video I have ever seen and even though my time for dreams and such have past I would LOVE you to do a video on unfair advantages because I know that anyone who takes it to heart it WILL help them. Thank you for doing this video and I wish you all the best in 2022. 😊 Happy New Year. 🎆🎇
I don't need to go on social media to feel like a failure. Tbh I just feel happy that there's people in the world who are able to do something with their lives - it tells me that there's some sense of justice *somewhere*. Myself, all I need to do to feel like a failure is to wake up in the morning.
i feel you, not being pessimistic but the reality is, few are winners and the rest are losers. all this positive crap doesnt apply to all, you we can do is we take what we can get.
I think it's more a mindset thing. I'll be graduating from university in 4 months time, yet, I still feel like a failure since all my friends from uni are getting jobs, while I'm sitting on my ass doing nothing. Granted, I am trying to learn to drive before I get a job, and I have my test next week, but even still I'm not convinced I'll have the motivation to apply anywhere. If anything, I'm scared. I live with just my mum since my brother moved out and lives with his girlfriend. My mum works part time in a minimum wage job and has just been made redundant, which will take effect at the end of this month. Most her life since she had kids she didn't even have a job. Always worrying about money. I don't want to be like that. But at the same time, I can't help but think I will. I don't have any connections, no work experience, no money to fall back on if things go south. I'm not particularly attractive, I'm terrible with people. About the only thing I've got going for me is that I'm friendly, but that's not special. At the end of the day, most of us are just extraordinarily ordinary. But, I think what really matters is that you're special to at least someone. That you at least give some meaning to someone else's life as someone else gives meaning to yours. That can be anyone, a friend, a co-worker, a partner, a family member, anyone. For me, that's where what little motivation I have comes from. It's what managed to push me through 3 years of university when I told myself I couldn't do it. Thought I wasn't smart enough for it, and if it weren't for the people who believed in me, I probably would've quit. I can only hope that as I go through the rest of my life that I have people to do that still. But at the moment, it's extremely daunting. It's sort of all up to me now to decide where I go. And I'm struggling to decide.
@@iankinzel but i think you should try to make the most of life while you can. life is so brief and there's so much to be inspired by when you pay close attention to things and enjoy the mystery and wonder of the world. and you're always still an important part of the universe no matter how small you think you are
I related a lot with this. I was born poor, no one in my family had ever gone to college. But my parents always valued education over everything else. So, since I had their full support, I chose to study until I was able to get a scholarship in the most renowned University in my country. It took me 4 years, after high school, to get it. I was very young, and I almost didn't go out during those years, I didn't have a girlfriend, I studied all the time I was awake, and I solved the hardest questions the exam for scholarship required. After those 4 years I succeeded, and now I don't just graduate, but I have a master's degree in that University too. I'm married, I have friends to hang out, travel, and I can help my parents that helped me. So, my unfair advantages were: 1) When I was 15~16 I already could read English fluently, so I had access to studying material that most ppl didn't 2) I had the emotional intelligence to set a course and not give up on it 3) I had my family support. They sacrificed their happiness and comfort so they could afford my education. Until college it was far from the best I could have, but their struggle made me really understand me how important education was. Well, I know you won't read all this, but it was good to write it down. Thank you for the wonderful video, it was very valuable to me. You're incredible! As a non-native English speaker, I can tell you one unfair advantage you have: your English is very clear and not accelerated as most native speakers, in particular American ones. I started watching because it was very pleasurable to listen, then I loved the content. Nice to meet you Ruri!
54 likes, and I wrote a lot... it was more a write-to-myself text, but ppl really took their time to read it. I'm glad to know this 😍 thank you guys, you've made my day 😉
Life is just unfair in so many ways. It starts by the fact the you can’t choose which you’re going to be born as, who will be your parents and your family.. but the best advice I’ve been going by lately is “face it till you make it” because 10 out 10 times.. you just have to. No matter what life throws at you, you just face it and regret or celebrate later. I hope everyone who sees this have a lovely day. Stay safe and stay strong because no matter how it may seems like it.. you’re not alone 🫡✨
Thank you so much for this video. I developed depression since I was 10 years old because my father was a narcissist, something I only understood now at the age of 24, I always blamed myself a lot for not getting anywhere near where I would like, because I had a good education, but I never had a family base. My grandparents who were the people who defended me and did everything for me were murdered, I had to move from town at 13 and go to live with an aunt, but after 2 years, I started living alone, at 15, to be able to study in a good school, because my parents had moved to a very small town. I ended up meeting someone i had an abusive relationship of 7 years, which ended with betrayals and other very bad matters, all this joined me and made me think every night of suicide, i wondered why to continue living since i didn't feel anything else, since no one really cared about me. And I was having these thoughts at the time, and I watched this video and another one about you're going to drop out of medical school, and somehow, it gave me a light inside me. I thought I was a dumb person, ungrateful and not dear in this world, but on second thought, every story of what happened to me, something unfair in life, made me develop a very good skill, I'm very good at talking to people, listening to them, understanding them, maybe this is my unfair ability that I've developed, that's what I like to do, and somehow, I'm going to run after it. I was very frustrated in the area of architecture and now I want to be a psychologist, thank you again, your videos are definitely a light for many people. :)
WOW Just reading this made me feel so grateful for my life. I am so sorry for what happened to you and I really hope that you will succeed and and be happy in your life!! good luck and take care!! :)
"I developed depression since I was 10 years old because my father was a narcissist, something I only understood now at the age of 24" 20 years, i started to realize this a year ago, my today goal is to be able to live alone, thanks for sharing your experience, it gave me some hope.
@@tiago7063 I'm sure you'll be able to achieve that so don't lose hope! I live in a very bad family environment and the thought of one day being able to live a peaceful life in my own home with my pets and my sister is what keeps me going sometimes.
I hope youre doing better now Renata, youre really strong, you kept going even if things were really difficult, I also sometimes think about being a psychologist for the same reasons you mentioned, sometimes going through really difficult situations makes us have more compassion and empathy for other people because we don't want them to feel how we felt.
Im 29 and Ive been studing diferent carreers without complete them, now im in the last year of architecture, but feels like im not good in anything... watching beautiful videos like this trying to comprehend how to succed... so thank you... this is the best video Ive ever seen... you're doing it so good! Blessings!
"but feels like im not good in anything... watching beautiful videos like this trying to comprehend how to succed" That depends on your definition of success. Success doesn't always mean a thick wallet. You have one life, do you want to spend it chasing dollars? We're only here for a little while.
@@CybertroninfiniteOfficial when I was working in a warehouse It was ok when I had good hours, but after a while they started putting me from like 7 -2am stocking which was ass. Driving busses is ok, I get weekends off (which I never got at the warehouse) but atm the hours are decent driving short buses. If I get my B license to drive the bigger busses then I get paid I think 23 or 24 /hr and more routes to drive.
Some personalities have a way harder time with not giving up than others. Their brains are wired to compare themselves to others, they see themselves as wortheless by default, as pathetic as it seems to other personality types. I wish people would recognize this more.
@@Hema115 ah yea i get you😉To that I like to say "truth lie, lie truth, when you get enough people to repeat the truth, the truth becomes a lie". The internet has developed the other half of humanity's powers and now nobody can say anything without being outsmarted. can't be fake but can't be real either🤔
@Xiu Ying Cai well they want to be successful because they want to feel good about themselves and failing will make them feel bad about themselves, so it kind of makes sense.
“Don’t aim at success-the more you aim at it and make it a target, the more you are going to miss it. For success, like happiness, cannot be pursued; it must ensue…as the unintended side effect of one’s personal dedication to a course greater than oneself.” ~ Viktor E. Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning
I grew up poor, ran the streets, and work to pay bills. My son is a teacher and recently started his career. I can’t consider myself a failure though. I feel like if my child didn’t succeed, I would be a failure. I basically taught him to be better than me and taught him a lot from my experiences.
thank you for this, i have been feeling really down about starting college so late in comparison to my peers. I'm in my second term and I'm 22, I have a brain tumor and it wasn't safe for me to start during peak COVID because my immune system is so weak. I'm from a very poor family and I've worked so hard for this opportunity to go to college. I'm not sure what i want to be but I know i want to be someone who is kind no matter what i go through.
I'm so sorry you have a medical concern. I hope your tumor doesn't grow or maybe is operable? There's a woman on here that's pretty popular who also had a brain tumor. Her specific tumor couldn't be operated on, and because of that, there was no other treatment options. She went on some kind of diet that helped shrink her tumor. I don't know if she's ever posted a video on what kind of diet she was on that helped her miraculously shrink her tumor, but if she doesn't have such a video yet, you could always reach out to her in the comments. I forget her name. She's most likely in her later 20's to early 30's now. A white girl with dark brown hair. Everyone is running their own race. Take care of you and go at a pace that works best for you. I'm in my late 30's and been to a vocational school 3 times, for 3 different career paths. I've considered college, because that's the last thing I've been able to do. You're still very young to start your life off in any way you want to go. 🙂 Don't let societal expectations make you feel otherwise. I hope this helps. ✨️
You're so freaking strong and brave!!!! I really wish I had a bit of that. Life is a game and you have been one of the best players out there. You'll clear all your obstacles. 🤍
Girl u changed my mindset I m 19 yrs old , I failed in medical entrance exam in my country I really felt like failure, I see people of my age already getting into 2nd yr of university ,here me haven't even enter into university, yes life seems unfair but when u started to get over those situations u 'll feel better. Be Confident, do good whatever u do, rely on ur dreams 💜
This video has no conscience. Are you sure it was not God? The same happend to me today. I did not even searched, it just popped up in my recommend box. Nothing is a coincidence.
I amost cried after seeing how many years of effort it took you to get to the place you are now, it makes me really happy seeing that you are doing great after everything you went trough, I really hope you are doing fine
OMG, howcome this came into my feed, the exact same thoughts came to my mind just a few hours ago, thanks Sis for this video, will work wonders for my confidence currrently going through this Mid life crisis, More Power to You!!!!!😍
I have watched your channel almost the half year. During this time you have gave me a bunch of advices connected not only with studying but with the bulding own personality and identifying yourself as woker, student, and human in socity. I appreciate it. New podcast is an incredible project as well. Thank you. I wish you happy 2022!
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I'm such a really good singer 🥰🙉 ua-cam.com/video/Lz5x6vFqFN0/v-deo.html
In the first couple minutes, you said everything I’ve been feeling for years. It’s been a never ending struggle, but everyday I try to find a little bit more of myself and hold onto it. I will check out this book and hopefully it will help me on my journey to making peace with myself, and building a hopeful future.
Find who you are as an unique individual and clasp onto it. That is you and that is who will succeed in your life. Not the celebrities and self made millionaires we see on social media.
Wow....! I needed to watch this video at this point of my life! Thank you so much Ruri Ohama. Please take Love and respect from the bottom of my heart ❤
It takes courage to be this honest, my respect for that. You talked about unfair advantages, which is true in a sense. But I see this more as self awareness. Loving something doesn't mean your good at it. I like playing basketball, could I play in the NBA? Probably not because of my height. This is just an example. That's the reason why we should try different things in life, in order to find what we're good at. Some are lucky enough to know it from a young age. Others try to figure it out later on. So self awareness is key guys!
Thanks for this Hope U definitely find what u r good at . I hope everyone Who feels like a failure come up if u r coming up i support because it's the most difficult thing one can do . What would be more difficult than finding the land when ur deep in the sea? I KNOW, GOD GOT US , I LUV U PLEASE GET UP BABE AND EVERYONE U R BORN TO RULE THE WORLD WITH U . I BELIEVE U CAN I KNOW U CAN I KNOW U WILL . PLEASE TRY U R MADE FOR SOMETHING HIGHER OR MAYBE THE HIGHEST . HOPE IT HELPS
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I'm such a really good singer 🥰🙉 ua-cam.com/video/Lz5x6vFqFN0/v-deo.html
Life really isn’t fair… and I’ll tell you how I’ve struggled in life. I work super hard to climb out of retail and the toxicity of these people I have to work with, is beyond repair. I never went to college because I don’t want to be in debt but I’m glad that there’s certificate courses you can take right now without going to college. I’m working towards my IT support certification through googles program and I’m learning so much! I refuse to think that the only way to survive is to just accept that I’m a failure and that retail is as good as it’s gonna get for me but I’ll tell you that it is not! (I’m not belittling anyone who likes retail if it’s for you more power to you) Working at retail is the worst thing I’ve ever done in my entire life! and because of it I rarely find work. I have a learning disability and multiple health issues and mental struggles that I will not share on here but despite it all, I will not allow anyone or anything push me down anymore. Just know who ever you are and if you’re still working at retail and you notice that you’re not being treated the best or getting payed enough know that if it isn’t for you, you don’t have to stick to retail there’s plenty of other jobs you can get you’ll just have to find the right resources to help you get where you want to be in life. I tried American job center in my town and I’m so thankful that I contacted them and they were able to help me figure out a plan for my future. My passion has always been music! I like making beats and would love to write lyrics but because of my learning disability it’s super hard to do all of that kind of work on my own. I hope that someday I’ll find a kind soul that I can work with because I’m talented and I wanna share my story and help make the world a little better with my art I have a lot to say and I’d love someday to share it through music.
Thank you for sharing your personal experience for your UA-cam journey. Been struggling lately and realized that I have just not put enough effort into it after listening to your story. Appreciate it!
You succeeded, because you failed to give up. Hearing your thought process, of how you analyzed each video, makes it perfectly clear your dedication, and level of seriousness to your craft.
I can really relate to this In high-school and grade school I put in a lot of effort to prepare for my tests but never got the desired mark My parents ridiculed me and said I wasn't serious when I did the best I could Thanks for the motivation
"Don't work only hard, work hard and smart" - Ruri Ohama. I love that, and honestly it might be the missing key for many of us, that and the fear of asking for help. Asking for help from family, friends or looking into the various helps you can get from independent organisations or even government. If you don't believe that there is a way forward in life, you won't be able to see the various paths and opportunities that present themselves to you.
Ruri, your success goes beyond your UA-cam´s achievements, you´ve got the power to touch people´s hearts. Thanks a lot for those such meaningful words 🥰
I am in my mid thirties and well qualified but I have been out of work for a few months. My greatest disadvantage is the lack of relevant working experience. Recently, I was scrolling through social media and was filled with envy when I saw my peers doing well in life. I cannot explain how broken I was feeling, until this video came up in my feed. Coincidence, algorithm or fate? I truly wonder. Anyway, thanks for posting this video Ruri.
Me too.. i also turned 30 this year. But I am literally a failure. No achievement or nothing all these years. I dont even have a job now. I was very good at studies. But life will always find a way to pull me down.No friends, no money, no shoulder to cry on, no confidence, absolutely nothing. I dont want great things or a lot of money, but just something to survive peacefully. But i am the flagbearer or badluck. No matter how hard i try, something or the other comes and ruins everything that I have worked so far. Sometimes I wonder what is the point. Nothings works out. It is so unfair that some people put the littlest effort, yet they have everything, even more than what they want.
Social media is full of many who portray themselves as they wish to be seen, leaving out all that is unpleasant. Don't believe everything they present.
I’m 23 years old and I’ve never had an official job. The only job I had was sort of a seasonal job where I didn’t get real experience. At this point in life, I don’t really feel like a failure, but I know for a fact that I feel behind. I don’t necessarily get jealous of my former classmates that I met in high school, but it certainly gets me thinking how time has gone by and also how I could’ve used my time more wisely. I’ve been going to the gym lately and it has certainly helped me to improve as a person. I’m currently trying to figure out what I want to accomplish in life but the fact is that I’m not entirely sure what I want to do with my life.
Watching this really came to my mental rescue today when I was feeling down. I’m trying to pay my house off now and I’m falling behind but have a end goal of 2026 and bought it in 2020. I have to sometimes sell things that I don’t want to get rid of. It’s been a lot of sacrificing and lots of overtime. I’m not sure what I can do to work smarter but I’ve just been working harder. It’s been so stressful. I’m almost half way there. But this video really made me feel better about myself. Because I’m too hard on myself most of the time.
I don't know in what part of the world you are, but to be nearly halfway paying off a house in 3 years and with a goal of paying it off in 3 more, that's success right there. You're doing amazingly well. 👌
@@Redsnowman04 great work man, your sacrifices will be worth it. When you own your house and are free from the loan, you can buy the things to make it a home.
You're doing better than most people are, everytime you feel low, think about the things that you got going for you and what you are doing right, it'll help you through this.
As a 21 year old, I never once subscribed to an individual UA-cam Channel, but after watching one of her videos, it carried a sense of charisma and distinctiveness, that I am quite intrigued and compelled to watch more of her videos. It's a combination of her voice, charm, and language that is in a different arena from most other "professional" UA-cam channels, and I think it connects to a broad range of people in an uplifting way. Well I was thinking of starting. cooking UA-cam channel after unexpectantly dropping out of college halfway in a 4 year degree of engineering. This gives me the ambition and motivation to not be ashamed of past failures and keep pushing forward. I know you will hit 1 million subscribers Ruri, I'm rooting for you!
I'm 17 and have absolutely no accomplishments due to me either not trying or not trying hard enough and I've been doing this since I was 14, not finishing things I've started, got jealous of others, procrastinating, wasting time and so much more that I wish I had never done, and just tonight I actually sat and thought about all those things, and just tonight I realised I'm a very unsuccessful person, and if I keep continuing this way I will be destined to fail. If I don't start trying today I fear I never will and I am truly scared for my future I'm truly scared to have no qualifications or achievements or any major moments and aspects in life, but only I can change that fear only I can get rid of that fear and only I can make sure I don't end up like what I fear to be. Thanks to this video and a short amount of research I've done about unsuccessful traits (how to get rid of them) and reads about changing mindset, I think I might actually be okay. I truly hope I will be okay and I truly hope I get the success I've always dreamed off. I truly hope everyone else does too, we all deserve it, and I am so sorry to anyone also going through a hard time due to the realization of what we're doing to ourselves. I am going to change, I will be successful, and I will never stop trying, because the moment I stop trying is the moment I become a failure. Thank you for this video, I wish you the very best in life
Very nice. The idea of unfair advantages reminded me that I used to think taking unfair advantages is not respectable. I felt miserable when I think I’m taking advantages over people who don’t have. That is long time ago and I was young. I’d forgotten all those feelings, but deep down in my heart I still believe that try being fair person may not bring me money or status but makes me feel right.
This video made me tear up. When 2020 happened I lost my carreer as a massage therapist and audio engineer and I became a streamer, and I have had incredible success in a short amount of time. But then my health tanked and my growth pattern faltered and I started to doubt my ability to continue. After watching this video i feel heard and seen and motivated. Thank you so much for this!
the part where you reveal that you've spent so many years making videos and channels before this one, really hit the best about the amount of work people don't see one has to put in before you reach a certain level of success
I was feeling so down...I was literally crying...but notification popped up I watched your video and i again have hope to do what I want to do and live my life... But I really wanna say this I love you ruri ... ❤️
Im 21 and I feel this way. I havent accomplished anything and Im still decades away from my goals. Seeing people my age already successful makes me feel like I already failed.
Nice, you have goals. I've never had any. Well, any genuine ones. I've pretended to have some, out of external pressure, but once I stopped caring about that, gone were the goals. If you wonder how that's possible, I've simply always felt out of place, and at any age you can think of, 5, 8, 12, 17, 22, I've been behind most of the other kids, not doing what you'd expect a person of that age to do. I'm a failure, in a deeper developmental sense, although I don't feel as much like a failure in the way many people do, because I've been so "removed", in a sense, from other people. Alienated from humanity, I suppose, as dramatic as that sounds. Make no mistake though, it is (obviously) a deeper kind of failure, despite my apathy towards it. That apathy & detachment itself is one of the reasons I am one, and it has developed over 2 decades, bit by bit, and now what started small, is a part of my character.
Thank you so much for this video! I found it really insightful and quite inspiring. As a 47-year-old who’s about to start a UA-cam channel, beginning to see my unfair advantages I’m excited to begin thank you!
I'm 19. A student and a part time artist. I have my instagram art account for about 4 years and I post there regularly. It hasn't been growing that much but I know someone who opened her art account for like 1 and half years and already got 2 times for followers than me. It's because she has the unfair advantage of knowing people of highest class who promotes her, and I don't. I am also a student and I haven't been doing that well on my studies either. I was a very bright student until 2 years ago but now I am failing my classes. I feel like a failure every day and I haven't been getting motivations lately. Thank you for this video, now I can analyze everything and find out my unfair advantage. I know I am extremely talented but I haven't been using my talents properly. Thank you for making me get up and start doing hard works again.
I remember I told some people I met in college my career goals and where I was currently, only to have them degrade my career as "lazy" and "we do all the work, y'all just sit around and write stuff." I knew at that movement that that person was trying to bring me down through their own insecurities. My career path was a psychiatrist.
Thanks for making this video. I have over 7200 videos and over 40,000 photos I have made of my working in building a 100 acre flowering garden. I made them just for myself to show my progress over time. Thinking when I opened the flowering gardens to the public that the customers could see the videos on kiosks in the different areas of the gardens. I never once thought to put them on UA-cam. But after watching this video you made I am now thinking to do put them on UA-cam. Mainly, because my tractor broke and I need to get mine fixed or get a new one. Most likely a new one. I don’t have the money to afford getting mine fixed and my skill set is not good enough to do major diesel engine repair. So, knowing that it is possible to make $21,000 from google, I wonder how long it would take to do that and if it is possible to do it before June of 2024. That is the time when all the grass will reach a point when it will be too tall to mow. So, your video inspired me. Thanks! By the way, I lived in Toyonaka, Osaka for several years and was inspired by the gardens there, so I returned to USA and began building my Japanese flowering garden. I have over 100 Yoshino cherry trees, 198 azaleas, 11 mature wisteria vines of all colors, and over 300,000 daffodils. Thousands of other flowering plants, trees and bushes as well. So, when I get inspired you can see I go deep into my plans and make them happen!
Still watching this video, but paused to comment when asked my opinion: I feel fairness is relative, just like with anything else. Not everyone finds value in the traditional sense of wealth, fame, or otherwise success, even and especially those fortunate enough to be born into it/given it-- they often grow up in an environment that is hard to impress, compounded by the illusion that they already have everything which matters, they struggle to find purpose, and can't feel useful to their family as a result-- not being able to please those family-members is especially damning, because since success is prized as a constant achievement, and money -thought of as a key to happiness- these people often grow up unloved, alone, isolated from family and potential friends who could understand alike, starved for any real connection, because everyone looks on with awe from the outside. Truth is, humans, are just human. These people who achieve big things have many or all the same problems that the person reading this comment does. We all want love, we all want to matter, and we all want to do something that fulfills us, but there is no objective answer to solve these problems for every person. Happiness is subjective, and thus fairness is relative. I grew up practically homeless, then just as I was reaching my teens, my family suddenly started making a lot more money. Our finances grew, but our way of life did not; we lived like we were poor, accustomed to moving, constantly, never making friends, never building connections, never laying down roots, and spending every dime the moment it came in. The friends I did try and make saw me as privileged, and it dug a wedge between us, and helped me stop trusting people. My parents are trauma victims that were terrified of not having money, and they past their traumas on to me; I long since saw money as the devil that took my life away, and now I live chained in fetters of gold, conditioned to rely on money to keep me "safe"-- I'm a lonely bird that stares out of the bars on a gilded-cage, desperate for motivation, and envys the freedom others have to be themselves, consequences be damned.
@@_.359 I mean, you're free to disagree, of course, but.. I mean I don't understand how someone can disagree with a personal recounting of your own life experiences XD
@@_.359 So.. you disagree with my subjective feelings? Lol.. that was the whole point of my original comment-- to point out that there is no right answer for everyone :p But! Given that these are my *feelings*, they aren't wrong just 'cause you disagree, you would just feel differently if you were in my situation, ergo fairness is relative :p
Thank you for making this video! I used to feel this way, but when I realized the successful young people came from rich parents, close connections to big companies, being able to attend a private expensive University that it's known for many rich and successful people go, while I am from a working class family struggling paycheck to paycheck with little to no savings trying to get by in life, it makes me realize life really is unfair. Starting from the bottom isn't easy. I have also started channels but got burnt out due to classes, but I will go back to my channels when I have more time and got some time to rest. I try to celebrate any victories I have, for example I will be graduating from college this summer debt free thanks to scholarships and government support, I realize it's a huge privilege and huge luck not having debt, so I am staying hopeful while working hard to make sure that I will start my first career job and start getting into investment and savings. I know and heard for some, college degrees isn't worth it but for me personally, it's a huge achievement for me, working hard to get a degree from a working class status. I'm not giving up that easily. When I am done with classes, graduate and start working, I do want to start investing some of my time and money into building my career path. While I know it won't be easy and will take a long time, I know if I stay persistent, success will happen. I only consider failure if I just give up now. Thank you for recommending the book, I will check it out. 👍
While you can work towards things but you don't have 💯 control. Some people who are born in poor family don't have the means to get into further education which in some cases are needed such as becoming a doctor. Getting scholarship might not be possible either and for some people if only they had the money they would have made it but some just don't have that. That's only one of the many potential factors outside of the person's control
Sometimes when u sit and think and compare yourself to others, life can be so depressing that you just want to quickly look for an exit door. Sometimes its better to zone out from social media because it set unrealistic expectation for certain people. We are all just all the same creatures placed on this planet earth for a certain period of time so make the best of the time we got here. Just enjoy life and happy. Simple life is real.
RURI! Watching this video 8 months after upload date -- I'm a "successful" lawyer and it made an impact on my morning. Not everything is about out careers when it comes to success, and your message here is applicable in so many ways. Thank you for holding onto the inspirational light for all these years.
Something important to remember when you ARE successful is to remember the rest of the iceberg. Often times you can forget what you went through and only focus on the now. “My video didn’t as well this week…” but it got 10k more views than you used to get back when you first started…. You have to remember what it took to get you there.
This popped up at a great time. Almost 35 and trying to pivot into something I actually love doing but seeing others who are miles ahead being both an inspiration but also making me feel like I'm never going to make it. Helped tame the more irrational and emotional side of my thinking(which usually dominates) and put things into perspective, even things that the logical side of me knew but is just being drowned out by the much louder emotional side. Going to look into getting the book too and hope I can get through it, big time struggle with focusing on reading.
i skip over parts with these types of encouraging videos and sometimes would just close the tab & continue my inertial day but i watched this without closing the tab. i just gone through an emotional reaction to something today, so i was angry, sad and frustrated. i think i needed this today i learned few things i felt like i was hugged. thanks
For me it’s not just being compared to all these successful celebrities, but also to my peers and to people in everyday life. I haven’t been going to school for almost two years because of mental illnesses and undiagnosed mental disorders that hinder me so much everyday in every single little thing I try to do. When I do get back to school, I’ll be two to four years behind my friends and people my age, I just feel like such a massive failure that I let down everyone who ever believed in me or said I had potential. Then there are even more problems on top of that… I wish I didn’t have to struggle to do everything other people can do so easily :’( Sorry for the vent, I do try to look ahead of me and have hope to continue living and trying my best. I’m also hoping to get professional help soon. I hope everyone out there knows that you can be proud and content with who you are and where you are in life despite all the downfalls, and that even the smallest little good thing can really be worth living for and continuing your journey through life. The path ahead is not always linear, and failure is a sign that you are close to accomplishing something great :]
I really needed this! Thank you for making this video. I've recently lost my UA-cam channel I've worked so hard for over 3 years with over 30K+ subscribers. there's nothing else that I can do other than never giving up and just keep going! This really helps. Thank you!
I'm 45 , I started my business 4 years ago and it's been the battle of my life. I'm struggling so much and every wall I manage to break down theres another one built behind it. I've had trauma in my life too , I'm still going to battle on with it, your video really helped me to see that I must keep going,
Battle and struggle trought life and die… make problems for yourself, dont sleep at nights because of stress or do nothing chill, smoke weed, meditate and try to find energetic connection with the universe or live anu other way but one day you will die and everything you do is just pure useless nonsense
Thank you for inspiring me Ruri! I had tears watching this I'm going through the same things which you've been through but at least i have someone here who motivated me, Thanks for sharing all of this 🧡 I'm not giving up now no matter what!
I literally begged to differ. I gave up everything I had ever been taught to give value to in life and lived upon the streets of countries I didn't speak the language of. I empirically experienced living with nothing of material wealth. I survived and after almost two decades no longer give commerce built society the value I once did. It was not dropping out. It was a revaluation of existence. a reality of sentient life is that we can't turn people into cash.
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Wow, thank you for the recommendation!!
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God bless you Ruri. Thank you for all your entertaining and valuable content.
Happy new year everybody let's kill it this year 2022! 🥳🥂🎉🎊
Great girl
Ruri how did you learn such fluent english? Have you been educated in USA? because of your accent
The fact that this appears in my home feed says a lot about my current situation. Age of 26, feeling stucked, with a bachelors which I'm not using, no love relationship, working in a job not related to my studies and still living with my parents. Thanks for the content.
AT 27, same🥲 i thought you described my life.
30 yo buddy, almost same situation. Hold on.
Hold on, my friend. Things will turn around. It took me a moment to find my groove (early 30s). Things will get better for you. Just keep grinding.
I feel you heavily
it's tough out here man. don't ever feel worthless or useless. this is generational struggle. we're all struggling. and we will ALL MAKE IT THROUGH. WAGMI
"If you fail at something, it doesn't mean you're a failure. The moment you stop trying is when you become a failure"
or maybe the moment you stop trying you become wiser, because not everything is winnable and it is smarter to spend your time on something else
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Bingo. Nailed it.
Dreams are not those we take during sleep but those which makes us unable to sleep.
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Life isn't fair in my opinion - too much depends on luck. Of course if you work really hard you can achieve something, but there are some things for some people in this world that just aren't possible. I don't really know how to explain this, but I hope it's somehow understandable. Really nice vid Ruri!
seems like you’re excusing yourself
Actually everything is possible in my opinion (if you deserve that thing) like you r studying don't look down on yourself that you can't crack this exam (i used to do this) now i understand that you have to have a strong mindset to achieve your goal nothing is easy in this world ...good luck
I believe a lot of it comes down to smart work instead of hard work
There are for more things that are possible than impossible for you and it's pathetic to think of only how you can't be a millionaire at 14. There are so many genuine things that can make you happy (succesfull)
YOU create YOUR luck :) if you don't move, change won't come.
I lost my 13-year-old daughter to suicide last June. I often ponder how much of a factor social media played in her death. Thank you for taking the time to make this.
Am so sorry ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Jesus, may she rest in peace from heaven, Im so sorry.
@@q_pato_o thats rude man
@@q_pato_oyou failed as a human with saying that. you have no idea what they went through. so shut up.
@@sevenlonelylies why? How do you manage to let your !!!13!!!! Years old daughter get so depressed that she commits suicide and dont help her to the point she won't kill herself. A repeat, 13 years.
You are just dumb and ignorant.
"Constantly comparing oneself to others is a great way to live a miserable life." Don't self sabotage yourself, don't let failures hold you down instead learn and improve from them. The only time you truly fail is when you stop trying.
''Social'' media is cancer. That's it. Plain and simple.
It’s not self destruction its self defence from reality
@@lemonsundew08g Self sabotage and destructive behaviour are a defence mechanism to deflect reality.
It's how our body tries to protect us from something. The challenging part is until we allow ourselves to sit with it, we won't be able to release it and live full and vibrant lives.
Yes
@@JamieR So, the body tries to protect us by destroying itself? That's a nice little quirk there.
"Success means going from failure to failure without losing your enthusiasm" - Winston Churchill
thanks for that
sounds like something he would say
Well...that's painful 💔 but ig it makes sense
Thank you I need that today
Success seems to be viewed differently to people
Comment by an elderly relative:
"I am almost 80 years old Japanese-Korean man and started over many times in life. Life is long, and you can start over many times. Many doors close. But each stage completed opens new doors.
I appreciate you making these videos and give hope to young people. We are often scared of doing anything during our best years, which is quite sad."
what is the most important thing life has taught you?
I have to disagree life is short so make the most out of it
@@stylie473joker5 Hi! I respect your opinion, but I also would partially disagree with you. Do realize that the commenter is an 80-year old. So given the context, that speaks loud enough.
Do our grandparents that are still with us live a short life? If you think you're gonna die tomorrow, or someone have died early, then, yeah, sure.
But that kind of mindset is also what pressures us, because we feel like we're in a hurry to experience everything coz we think we might die later or tomorrow or anytime. Yeah, I get that, especially in these trying times of the pandemic. I've lost family and friends early too. But it's also how stress, depression and regrets usually start creeping in.
But if we still expect that we will live long enough, coz, again, no one knows... naturally, we will make mistakes along the way, so just start over. Rinse, learn and then start over, as long as we could. Many doors close, but new ones open after, until life says "No more."
A little bit of something like Schrodinger's Cat theory. Two possibilities that we CANNOT actually answer. We don't know if we'll die early on or live long enough. That's why I respect and partially agree with you. But the possibility and expectancy of living longer is much bigger than dying young, seeing that we still see grandparents everywhere.
I mean, we will still die, anyway. So just live. As simple as that. Live your life. You can do anything you want, yes, but just be in the present, stop worrying about tomorrow. Tomorrow never comes, coz when tomorrow comes, it's already the present and you're still alive. (Okay, I'm playing with words now. haha... but still...)
If we die, we won't even feel any regret of not making the most out of it or experiencing lots of things anyway, coz... well... we're dead already. We won't feel (or think) a thing. And life of others move on.
PS: I'm not an 80-yr old person, but I'm a survivor from a medical illness, back in March 2016, that the doctors were surprised after diagnosing me and even said if i was even one day late from being sent to the ER, I would've died the next day. But because of the doctor's help, tons of prayers and support from family and friends, and my strong will to live, I survived.
I once fully believe that life is short as well, and that also caused me depression and stress, trying to do everything I could and sometimes couldn't, but when I thought I was dying, feeling all the pain in my body, I cried so much in my hospital bed and I felt so much regret that I didn't make the most out of it, that eventually led to mooore depression and stress that affected me and delayed my body from healing and so I stayed stuck in the hospital for almost 4 months. But after that experience, I changed my mindset. More like tweaked it a bit. I live each day doing the things that I can do on that day, yes, still making the most out of it, but also investing bit by bit for my future, bcoz I still wanna live... longer.
One day at a time.
And here I am, typing this and sharing my side about this topic.
Apologies if I sound intruding or invalidating your opinion. It's okay if you disagree with mine, I respect that, coz like me, we all have our own opinions and perspective in life and we all experience life differently. And like I said early on, I also partially agree with you.
Anyway, have a great day and a great life ahead! ^_^
@@Ash081284 what you said is right but there is also that idea that even if you live long you still feel that life is short and that those 80 years passed so fast
@@stylie473joker5 yeah, I get what you mean. You're right with that as well. Hmm... I guess we can say that the "life is long" is the physical aspect while the "life is short" is like how we see it or feel it, the speed, in a sense. Figuratively, if that is the right word?
Like, I may have lived longer, I have been given more years, but while typing my comment earlier, I also realized that it's already 5 years that have passed since I was hospitalized. Even in this pandemic, it's quite shocking that 2 years have already passed. Time is fast. Yeah, I agree with you on that.
Well, let's say it's a combination then, depending on how we perceive life at the moment, if it's within/being in the very moment, present (thus making it physically long) and if it's like outside the "box of life", looking as a whole, looking at from age 1 till our current age, then that's realizing how fast time has passed, if you can picture what I mean
So yeah, I agree with you on that perspective :)
Man, sometimes life can really make us think, huh? haha
I am at the lowest point of my life RN and watching this video made me feel that there is still hope
Same. Good luck, friend.
same. bless you all, guys. let's get through this step by step...
You'll be fine. It's just a phase you're going through.
im at the lowest point of my life rn as well... i just hate myself
i don't even know what to do in life lol.
everyone around me is doing something in their life
im 20yrs old and I'm failing in college and playing games
Same wasted 2 years in giving excuses, watching mobile , and enjoying with temporary friends , rather than studying at my most crucial years , i am still doing the same , i know my mistakes i just don't have self control .
I know i am capable i am just too lazy to change
Never seen a youtuber talking about the "lower half of the iceberg" of his carreer, mad respect
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Naex, what about all the ppl on this planet that can give the same iceberg example with with next to no results. That iceberg means s*** . Not a very good way to explain things. Bc so many have put in the same effort but to no avail.
"If you compete against others you become bitter, if you compete against yourself you become better"
-Conor Mcgregor
Then y is he bitter after loosing.
@@mikaeilshah7896 because he's not the same anymore. He's not hungry like before.
@@hereandthere4751 hmm.. May b
@@mikaeilshah7896 certainly
And then Khabib steps in.
The fact that this appears in my home feed says a lot about my current situation. Age of 26, feeling stucked, with a bachelors which I'm not using, no love relationship, working in a job not related to my studies and still living with my parents. Thanks for the content.
The fact that nobody talks about the book Womens Magic Truths on borlest speaks volumes about how people are stuck in a trance
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The fact that over 2 million people watched this video tells me we have to do something about this sadness and depression
social standards, trauma, loneliness, not knowing what drives you, expenses getting even more expensive by the second, college being a fucking trap unless you were born wealthy/ lucky to get a free scholarship. the entire concept of school is fucking flawed to the core until you make it to college where the trap is located. simply wanted to eat healthy cost a fortune. having to deal with other people bullshit decisions which then affect you especially if they are relatives. i mean the list goes on buddy, i doubt anything can be done besides enjoying what helps us cope. some ppl just learn to live with their depression and sadness and it affects them much less then it once did, not everyone can get to that point unfortunately
@@Wopder13 the concept off school is not actually flawed they dont try to make you an succesfull man, instead their job is to make an working class person and abuse them till they either die or if youre lucky make it to retirement and THATS the problem that we actually cannot fix bc we NEED an working class in order for humanity to proceed no matter what... so yeah school knows EXACTLY what they are doing they are just pretending that they are good guys.
2 million aint that much in the grand scheme of things
@@beans1998 True, it depends on the scale you're seeing it from. For a personal level? 2 mil is a lot for this type of video.
4 real 😂
*Feeling like you are a failure is so common amongst young people like us. If you feel like no one is cheering for you, I am my friend!*
Reading this is warming You know? Tnx👌
It's understandable considering how the baby boomers fucked up the world making the life they once achieved nearly impossible for the generations that came afterward. God also agrees too or else he wouldn't have bestowed us with the coronavirus.
Thank you..
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"The sad truth is not everyone will accomplish something great. Some of us may just have to find meaning in the little moments that make up life." - Howard Wolowitz
At the end of the day though, what defines what is “great” or good? Society? Cultural norms? I’m not saying that there aren’t worthwhile goals, but saying that truth is sad is odd. What’s he even saying to be sad about? I think everyone in the first world can make progress and be a “better” person than they were yesterday, to hell with what society will label as “greatness”
"Not me though, I went to SPACE!" - Also Howard Wolowitz haha
@@Janon743 Even if you define you own goals, there will never be any guarantee you will achieve them. That's what is "sad" about life, bad things are and will ever be half of it.
says the successful person
Middle school girl: "So you just flew around in the rocket? It's kinda like my uncle, he's a flight attendant."
Howard Wolowitz: "[chuckles] No... I'm an American hero, your uncle brings people NUTS!"
I felt like a failure my entire life. But this is way before social media.
Well, change it. Change your thoughts. Change your actions. Change your habits.
@@alterego157 Sometimes there are just things beyond our control.
@@travismoore7849 I know. Give yourself permission to forget and ignore things that are beyond your control. There's no point in wasting your mental energy on those things. It is what it is. Focus only on things that are in your control.
@@alterego157 Well it does not matter, what ever happens is going to happen.
To everyone who reads my comment. I hope you are doing ok.
Don't compare your success to others. You deserve not to be over thinking.
Thanks for saying that :)
thanks man hope the
same goes for you too
thank you for the comment ^^
Thankyou ❤
How about kids today that more successful than we are!
Unfortunately our childhood has a lot to do with what we feel entitled too have or achieve. I did not settle for my toxic families idea of what I could be, and yet, I still have obstacles created by an absence of love , guidance, or support. You are a good inspiration. Thanks!
how do you have 6 million subscribers
@@AgentZ-1844Exactly
@@AgentZ-1844 Spent his 9-5 earnings on an account
@D-jj5dyYes. Much love to you.
@@AgentZ-1844 "imagine that you are living peacefully in a house, with your family, food, as any other person in the world. and some day someone knocked on your door and tell that this is his house and told you that you must go out immediately with no reason or justifying, and as any person else who has not any place to go you refused. so that person break into your home and start destroying it and hitting you and he killed your family members. but when you start to defend people come to see whats going on, so this person start to shout and say that you stole his home and you are trying to kill him. they caught you and shut your mouth and they say that they will kill you because they think that you are a "terrorist", you scream but nobody is hearing you, becuse nobody know the truth"..............this is not imagination this is the reality of palestinians, israel is stealing and destroying their houses, their family and their lives and hide the truth and the reality. ......... so please search about the truth because its not a joke its people's life
As a kid, my parents always compared me to other kids. I still have their voice in my head with everything I do.
oof, you're definitely not alone in that 😥
That's something doesn't let us to do something without hesitation.
Same 🥺
They still do it with me and I'm 31... "you're not engaged yet". Fucking boomers
every parent does that i feel like, kinda hurts
Not many people are as compassionate and empathetic as you, thanks for sharing such constructive insights with us
i'm 30, i'm broke, got no gf, from mid ecnmy family,and still being a burden to ma and pa . but im sure that everything will get better for me on the right time, as long as i try to be better even better version of me,and keep being kind to other. thank you for sharing this video, its a bit lift me up.
hey man, best of luck hope u get everything u've been dreaming of.....take care
How are things going to get better? What is your next step?
im married have a kid and have to live with my parents again because we cant afford to pay for electricity and heating on our own... im working on making more money and leaving my 9 to 5, its gonna work, for me.. for u... we just need to try, learn and not give up ..giving up is losing if u try and actually fail and try again thats learning eventually u make it doesnt matter what that is.. trading or something else on the internet, a better job, a school, a language... everything
Society and the media really push the notion that adults should be successful while they are in their youth ie. their 20s but this is a reality I had to learn. I am pushing through to get my bachelors and I have anxiety on what is the step forward from there. So in short, I feel you. Hope you are doing ok if you see this 🙂
well you're a failure, stop leeching of your parents/society and get your grown ass up and look for a job.
Unfortunately our childhood has a lot to do with what we feel entitled too have or achieve. I did not settle for my toxic families idea of what I could be, and yet, I still have obstacles created by an absence of love , guidance, or support. You are a good inspiration. Thanks!
I certainly understand what you are saying, but try this instead: rid yourself of all the people in your life that exude toxic, negative energy and start associating with people who radiate positive energy. Success is a mindset. Once you start believing in yourself, set some daily goals to measure your successes that day. It could be something simple as this: I am going to walk 3 laps around my neighborhood early morning before work. Trust me, you'll not only realize it's easy to do it, but you will start feeling better physically. Even better, PEOPLE WILL NOTICE!!!
"If you don’t fight for what you want, then don’t cry for what you lost."
-Lord Krishna , Bhagvad Gita
These lines do have very different meanings, it depends on perspective. And also we should never think that we are failure, as it depends on our mind " What we think is what we become" another famous quote from "Bhagvad Gita"( book)
By the way nice vid
Exactly man
So nice this is the reason I like our culture!
Empty words.
So if I fought hard for what I wanted, I would be deserved to cry for what I lost?
Do you really think I tried so hard just to have the right to cry, lol.
@@N1L4RV he quoted "If you don’t fight " not "fight hard"
spanish queen said: cry like a woman for that which you lost as a man
(to the last musling king or whatever in the caliphate of Granada)
Thank you for being honest. Makes me feel so much better with my UA-cam journey. I was literally just crying an hour ago because Im so frustrated and feel like a failure. I needed this today.
Hey you aren’t a failure, just checked out your channel and it looks so interesting !! I’ll check it out ❤
This Is My First Time Hearing About Unfair Advantage, And I Really Thank You For Your Explanation.. I'll Definitely Spend This Entire Day To Breakdown All My Possible Unfair Advantage And Use It As My New Weapon.. Thank You Once Again Dear Ruri.. And Congratulation On Your 300K Subs 😇
thank you🖤
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This video popped up in my recommendations at the right time. I am at a depressing point, devaluing everything i've done and seeing no results. But you reminded me that the value we have has always been in us, we have to find our authencity, or unfair advantages, which is a clue to realizing many things. Thank you for making me question some things. I don't believe in signs, but im gonna consider it one.
@@worldExplorer__ hi, yeah, I guess we can, if it's me ur asking 😁
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@@worldExplorer__ I think UA-cam deleted my previous comment with my nicknames on other platforms 😅 maybe you could try to share yours somehow?
Same here
@@blending_in CRINGE L LIFE NOBODY CARES BOUT U
Thank you so much Ruri!
I'm 21 and I noticed that I got really jealous and chaotic, and it scares me. whenever I see any success from my friends or acquaintances which is bigger than mine I feel really down. Even today when my friend told me she's working as a system analyst and makes good money it was enough to ruin the rest of the day for me (and maybe not only this one). Because we're the same age and from the same university, so i constantly COMPARE my peers with me and destruct myself.
I understand that I have some unfair advantages, that my life is better than it is in my head, that many would probably like to own some aspects of my life, but I'm suffering from something I don't have nevertheless. and I believe that what contributes to such mindset significantly is the fact that I DON'T KNOW what to do with my life. There is no particular dream I would like to fulfill or it is way too abstract so that I wouldn't be able to tell what it is really. This makes me feel miserable, I get angry at myself and at my relatives because of my own problems, and right now I feel lost and depressed. Any small misfortune upsets me, and I don't see the solution yet but I will try to do something like studying more in magistracy, maybe watching some courses for enhancing general knowledge, reading, establishing relationships, working with psychologist (hopefully). I've tried some of these activities already but I believe there must be more consistency and more efforts. I wish I would start to realise fully that the worst thing is to sit and do nothing which is one of my favorite occupations (cause what would I do? I'm questioning myself and don't seem to find the answer yet). But I will be trying.
I appreciate it very much if anyone has read about my current experience with my life. If you're going through somewhat similar thing, please know that you're not alone. We might be lost right now but we'll get there. The main thing is to keep going and trying further without fear even if we don't succeed. Failing is MUCH better than not even trying. If needed, get professional help (I'll try too!) and take care of yourself. You'll cope. Sending love and support to everyone.
im 21 and im just considering majoring cs... i spent 3 years doing basically nothing and i feel like i still have a chance and kinda sad and depressed abt it but u its better late than never ig :( so if go in i'll graduate at 25 do u think thats alright :,)
@@RS-zl4vs its never too late bro. theres 50 year olds in courses chase ur dreams
I have the same problem. I am also 21. The other day my friend said he made tons of money from his job and now he is planning to move in to his new apartment. I don't know why but that made me hate myself and feel like a failure I was keep asking myself ''what am i doing wrong?''. I'm in college (architecture major) .It was already too tough to find internship because I don't know anyone. When i found out some of my classmates already found a job i just wanted to kill myself. Feels like no matter how hard i try it's all futile.
''I get angry at myself and at my relatives because of my own problems, and right now I feel lost and depressed.'' I can relate to this sentence. When my parents call me I just yell at them because I'm just looking for someone to blame. (I hate myself for this)
@@RS-zl4vs bruh we have the same life FR
I'm 29 now and dropped out of high school from a panic attack I had on the first day of school in my first class. I had to move out to my best friends house at 17 because I didn't know if my parents would let me leave school so I just packed my car and left.
The only advice I can honestly give is that it will get better and as you get older you start to notice the wisdom you gain over time. Some random thing can happen that can change your life, whether its meeting someone and hearing about a job they do, or hearing an idea that sounds really exciting to you, or a business idea for making a side income. TRY ALL OF THE THINGS you're interested in. You will learn from each one and then at some point all of your best talent will be put together on top of your hard work and you will have something of value whether its financial or not. However financial value is very thin, even the richest people have some sad lives, because its unironically not about having a ton of money that makes a good life, however making about 70-80k a year is an important pillar of having enough to not worry in the US.
I have never felt like a winner in life. I’m now 43 and was slowly dying inside. Thank you. I needed to hear this. Life is truly unfair . That is the beginning of the struggle as a human being.
Im 41 and i have nothing except being jacked natural
Thats it yaay
@@PhsychoSomatic 😅 thank you for laugh !
I just want you to know I really appreciated this comment. Was surprised it wasn’t liked more ❤
@@daniellu1321 I pray 🙏 for you and I …and all those who are struggling in silence .
This is probably the most honest video I have ever seen and even though my time for dreams and such have past I would LOVE you to do a video on unfair advantages because I know that anyone who takes it to heart it WILL help them. Thank you for doing this video and I wish you all the best in 2022. 😊 Happy New Year. 🎆🎇
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Life is unfair, but people like you make it more enjoyable. Thank you for your content!
I don't need to go on social media to feel like a failure. Tbh I just feel happy that there's people in the world who are able to do something with their lives - it tells me that there's some sense of justice *somewhere*. Myself, all I need to do to feel like a failure is to wake up in the morning.
@Chrome Book I'd sooner die
@Julia Karlsson exactly, i'm an ant on a rock. i don't matter.
i feel you, not being pessimistic but the reality is, few are winners and the rest are losers. all this positive crap doesnt apply to all, you we can do is we take what we can get.
I think it's more a mindset thing. I'll be graduating from university in 4 months time, yet, I still feel like a failure since all my friends from uni are getting jobs, while I'm sitting on my ass doing nothing. Granted, I am trying to learn to drive before I get a job, and I have my test next week, but even still I'm not convinced I'll have the motivation to apply anywhere. If anything, I'm scared. I live with just my mum since my brother moved out and lives with his girlfriend. My mum works part time in a minimum wage job and has just been made redundant, which will take effect at the end of this month. Most her life since she had kids she didn't even have a job. Always worrying about money. I don't want to be like that. But at the same time, I can't help but think I will. I don't have any connections, no work experience, no money to fall back on if things go south. I'm not particularly attractive, I'm terrible with people. About the only thing I've got going for me is that I'm friendly, but that's not special.
At the end of the day, most of us are just extraordinarily ordinary. But, I think what really matters is that you're special to at least someone. That you at least give some meaning to someone else's life as someone else gives meaning to yours. That can be anyone, a friend, a co-worker, a partner, a family member, anyone. For me, that's where what little motivation I have comes from. It's what managed to push me through 3 years of university when I told myself I couldn't do it. Thought I wasn't smart enough for it, and if it weren't for the people who believed in me, I probably would've quit. I can only hope that as I go through the rest of my life that I have people to do that still. But at the moment, it's extremely daunting. It's sort of all up to me now to decide where I go. And I'm struggling to decide.
@@iankinzel but i think you should try to make the most of life while you can. life is so brief and there's so much to be inspired by when you pay close attention to things and enjoy the mystery and wonder of the world. and you're always still an important part of the universe no matter how small you think you are
That's a good story of success. Never give up, mindset wins.
I related a lot with this. I was born poor, no one in my family had ever gone to college. But my parents always valued education over everything else. So, since I had their full support, I chose to study until I was able to get a scholarship in the most renowned University in my country. It took me 4 years, after high school, to get it. I was very young, and I almost didn't go out during those years, I didn't have a girlfriend, I studied all the time I was awake, and I solved the hardest questions the exam for scholarship required. After those 4 years I succeeded, and now I don't just graduate, but I have a master's degree in that University too.
I'm married, I have friends to hang out, travel, and I can help my parents that helped me.
So, my unfair advantages were:
1) When I was 15~16 I already could read English fluently, so I had access to studying material that most ppl didn't
2) I had the emotional intelligence to set a course and not give up on it
3) I had my family support. They sacrificed their happiness and comfort so they could afford my education. Until college it was far from the best I could have, but their struggle made me really understand me how important education was.
Well, I know you won't read all this, but it was good to write it down. Thank you for the wonderful video, it was very valuable to me.
You're incredible! As a non-native English speaker, I can tell you one unfair advantage you have: your English is very clear and not accelerated as most native speakers, in particular American ones.
I started watching because it was very pleasurable to listen, then I loved the content.
Nice to meet you Ruri!
❤
Bro i read it completely
54 likes, and I wrote a lot... it was more a write-to-myself text, but ppl really took their time to read it.
I'm glad to know this 😍 thank you guys, you've made my day 😉
no you made our day
sure
Life is just unfair in so many ways. It starts by the fact the you can’t choose which you’re going to be born as, who will be your parents and your family.. but the best advice I’ve been going by lately is “face it till you make it” because 10 out 10 times.. you just have to. No matter what life throws at you, you just face it and regret or celebrate later. I hope everyone who sees this have a lovely day. Stay safe and stay strong because no matter how it may seems like it.. you’re not alone 🫡✨
You want to choose who your parents are? What do you mean which youre going to be born as? Are you talking about gender?
@@tebhernandez He's not wrong,we can't chose those but we can appreciate and be better with our own strength and mentality
I'm born with disease life is so unfair for me life is like he throws me everything bad 😭
@@tebhernandez Just curious, who would you choose as your parents? And what is wrong with your gender?
Thank you so much for this video. I developed depression since I was 10 years old because my father was a narcissist, something I only understood now at the age of 24, I always blamed myself a lot for not getting anywhere near where I would like, because I had a good education, but I never had a family base. My grandparents who were the people who defended me and did everything for me were murdered, I had to move from town at 13 and go to live with an aunt, but after 2 years, I started living alone, at 15, to be able to study in a good school, because my parents had moved to a very small town. I ended up meeting someone i had an abusive relationship of 7 years, which ended with betrayals and other very bad matters, all this joined me and made me think every night of suicide, i wondered why to continue living since i didn't feel anything else, since no one really cared about me. And I was having these thoughts at the time, and I watched this video and another one about you're going to drop out of medical school, and somehow, it gave me a light inside me. I thought I was a dumb person, ungrateful and not dear in this world, but on second thought, every story of what happened to me, something unfair in life, made me develop a very good skill, I'm very good at talking to people, listening to them, understanding them, maybe this is my unfair ability that I've developed, that's what I like to do, and somehow, I'm going to run after it. I was very frustrated in the area of architecture and now I want to be a psychologist, thank you again, your videos are definitely a light for many people. :)
WOW
Just reading this made me feel so grateful for my life. I am so sorry for what happened to you and I really hope that you will succeed and and be happy in your life!!
good luck and take care!! :)
I'm so sorry for what happened to you. I hope I could inspire you somehow. ❤️
"I developed depression since I was 10 years old because my father was a narcissist, something I only understood now at the age of 24" 20 years, i started to realize this a year ago, my today goal is to be able to live alone, thanks for sharing your experience, it gave me some hope.
@@tiago7063 I'm sure you'll be able to achieve that so don't lose hope! I live in a very bad family environment and the thought of one day being able to live a peaceful life in my own home with my pets and my sister is what keeps me going sometimes.
I hope youre doing better now Renata, youre really strong, you kept going even if things were really difficult, I also sometimes think about being a psychologist for the same reasons you mentioned, sometimes going through really difficult situations makes us have more compassion and empathy for other people because we don't want them to feel how we felt.
This is definitely helping me to push and do the things I love. Thank you
Im 29 and Ive been studing diferent carreers without complete them, now im in the last year of architecture, but feels like im not good in anything... watching beautiful videos like this trying to comprehend how to succed... so thank you... this is the best video Ive ever seen... you're doing it so good! Blessings!
I'm 26 and I'm stuck in the same phase. Hope we will make it out of it and find the things we are passionate about good luck!
"but feels like im not good in anything... watching beautiful videos like this trying to comprehend how to succed"
That depends on your definition of success. Success doesn't always mean a thick wallet. You have one life, do you want to spend it chasing dollars?
We're only here for a little while.
@@thunderpopzzz I'm in the same position as well
me too :/ I´m 21 years old and I´m feeling lost
Same, I'm 18 though but I've been doing all I could since I was what 13?? Whatever I do ends up nowhere
I cried when I realized I knew college wasnt for me after being in school for 5 years, eventually you get over it and you find something new.
what are you doing instead?
@@CybertroninfiniteOfficial worked for the next 2 years in a warehouse, now I got my CDL and I drive buses.
@@potatokaiyote does it treat you well financially and mentally?
@@CybertroninfiniteOfficial when I was working in a warehouse It was ok when I had good hours, but after a while they started putting me from like 7 -2am stocking which was ass. Driving busses is ok, I get weekends off (which I never got at the warehouse) but atm the hours are decent driving short buses. If I get my B license to drive the bigger busses then I get paid I think 23 or 24 /hr and more routes to drive.
@@potatokaiyote neato, would you say you get paid well enough?
Some personalities have a way harder time with not giving up than others. Their brains are wired to compare themselves to others, they see themselves as wortheless by default, as pathetic as it seems to other personality types. I wish people would recognize this more.
neuroplasticity
oh yeah welcome to the i identify myself as jealous and worthless generation
@@Hema115 ah yea i get you😉To that I like to say "truth lie, lie truth, when you get enough people to repeat the truth, the truth becomes a lie".
The internet has developed the other half of humanity's powers and now nobody can say anything without being outsmarted. can't be fake but can't be real either🤔
@Xiu Ying Cai well they want to be successful because they want to feel good about themselves and failing will make them feel bad about themselves, so it kind of makes sense.
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I genuinely respect this girl ❤ thanks for the inspiring videos!
“Don’t aim at success-the more you aim at it and make it a target, the more you are going to miss it. For success, like happiness, cannot be pursued; it must ensue…as the unintended side effect of one’s personal dedication to a course greater than oneself.”
~ Viktor E. Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning
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TRUE
Reminds me of good ol' Griffith
So true
What a Quote.
I grew up poor, ran the streets, and work to pay bills. My son is a teacher and recently started his career. I can’t consider myself a failure though. I feel like if my child didn’t succeed, I would be a failure. I basically taught him to be better than me and taught him a lot from my experiences.
From my perception, you are successful. ❤️
your a winner
A winner right here.. 💖
@@prajjwaltiwari8644 thank you.
@@resh7521 I appreciate your words.
thank you for this, i have been feeling really down about starting college so late in comparison to my peers. I'm in my second term and I'm 22, I have a brain tumor and it wasn't safe for me to start during peak COVID because my immune system is so weak. I'm from a very poor family and I've worked so hard for this opportunity to go to college. I'm not sure what i want to be but I know i want to be someone who is kind no matter what i go through.
I'm so sorry you have a medical concern. I hope your tumor doesn't grow or maybe is operable? There's a woman on here that's pretty popular who also had a brain tumor.
Her specific tumor couldn't be operated on, and because of that, there was no other treatment options. She went on some kind of diet that helped shrink her tumor.
I don't know if she's ever posted a video on what kind of diet she was on that helped her miraculously shrink her tumor, but if she doesn't have such a video yet, you could always reach out to her in the comments.
I forget her name. She's most likely in her later 20's to early 30's now. A white girl with dark brown hair.
Everyone is running their own race. Take care of you and go at a pace that works best for you.
I'm in my late 30's and been to a vocational school 3 times, for 3 different career paths. I've considered college, because that's the last thing I've been able to do.
You're still very young to start your life off in any way you want to go. 🙂 Don't let societal expectations make you feel otherwise. I hope this helps. ✨️
all the best!!!!
You're so freaking strong and brave!!!! I really wish I had a bit of that. Life is a game and you have been one of the best players out there. You'll clear all your obstacles. 🤍
This video is amazing I’ve felt like a failure for so many reasons in my life thank you so much for this advice❤
Girl u changed my mindset I m 19 yrs old , I failed in medical entrance exam in my country I really felt like failure, I see people of my age already getting into 2nd yr of university ,here me haven't even enter into university, yes life seems unfair but when u started to get over those situations u 'll feel better. Be Confident, do good whatever u do, rely on ur dreams 💜
Is it neet cuz I'm also preparing for it .let's have hope
Bro same here. Are you from India?
@@mohammedayan4058
Yeah
@@mili8605 same here. I’m gonna go for engineering in the upcoming weeks
@@mohammedayan4058 I m also going to study engineering let's have hope 🙌
I was having a mental breakdown as usually but this video found me and I couldn´t be more grateful
This video has no conscience.
Are you sure it was not God? The same happend to me today.
I did not even searched, it just popped up in my recommend box. Nothing is a coincidence.
@@JoostEurovisionFans idk maybe it is
I amost cried after seeing how many years of effort it took you to get to the place you are now, it makes me really happy seeing that you are doing great after everything you went trough, I really hope you are doing fine
OMG, howcome this came into my feed, the exact same thoughts came to my mind just a few hours ago, thanks Sis for this video, will work wonders for my confidence currrently going through this Mid life crisis, More Power to You!!!!!😍
I have watched your channel almost the half year. During this time you have gave me a bunch of advices connected not only with studying but with the bulding own personality and identifying yourself as woker, student, and human in socity. I appreciate it. New podcast is an incredible project as well. Thank you. I wish you happy 2022!
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In the first couple minutes, you said everything I’ve been feeling for years. It’s been a never ending struggle, but everyday I try to find a little bit more of myself and hold onto it. I will check out this book and hopefully it will help me on my journey to making peace with myself, and building a hopeful future.
Find who you are as an unique individual and clasp onto it. That is you and that is who will succeed in your life. Not the celebrities and self made millionaires we see on social media.
We all need a friend like her, who can explain the hard realities of this world in such a wholesome and genuine way.
Isn't that what a friend is tho?
Wow....!
I needed to watch this video at this point of my life!
Thank you so much Ruri Ohama. Please take Love and respect from the bottom of my heart ❤
It takes courage to be this honest, my respect for that.
You talked about unfair advantages, which is true in a sense. But I see this more as self awareness.
Loving something doesn't mean your good at it. I like playing basketball, could I play in the NBA? Probably not because of my height.
This is just an example. That's the reason why we should try different things in life, in order to find what we're good at.
Some are lucky enough to know it from a young age. Others try to figure it out later on.
So self awareness is key guys!
Thanks for this
Hope U definitely find what u r good at .
I hope everyone Who feels like a failure come up if u r coming up i support because it's the most difficult thing one can do . What would be more difficult than finding the land when ur deep in the sea? I KNOW, GOD GOT US , I LUV U PLEASE GET UP BABE AND EVERYONE U R BORN TO RULE THE WORLD WITH U .
I BELIEVE U CAN I KNOW U CAN I KNOW U WILL . PLEASE TRY U R MADE FOR SOMETHING HIGHER OR MAYBE THE HIGHEST .
HOPE IT HELPS
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This is so true and inspiring!. This is a reminder that we should not fall for everything you see on social media. 💗
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Life really isn’t fair… and I’ll tell you how I’ve struggled in life. I work super hard to climb out of retail and the toxicity of these people I have to work with, is beyond repair. I never went to college because I don’t want to be in debt but I’m glad that there’s certificate courses you can take right now without going to college.
I’m working towards my IT support certification through googles program and I’m learning so much! I refuse to think that the only way to survive is to just accept that I’m a failure and that retail is as good as it’s gonna get for me but I’ll tell you that it is not! (I’m not belittling anyone who likes retail if it’s for you more power to you)
Working at retail is the worst thing I’ve ever done in my entire life! and because of it I rarely find work. I have a learning disability and multiple health issues and mental struggles that I will not share on here but despite it all, I will not allow anyone or anything push me down anymore.
Just know who ever you are and if you’re still working at retail and you notice that you’re not being treated the best or getting payed enough know that if it isn’t for you, you don’t have to stick to retail there’s plenty of other jobs you can get you’ll just have to find the right resources to help you get where you want to be in life. I tried American job center in my town and I’m so thankful that I contacted them and they were able to help me figure out a plan for my future.
My passion has always been music! I like making beats and would love to write lyrics but because of my learning disability it’s super hard to do all of that kind of work on my own. I hope that someday I’ll find a kind soul that I can work with because I’m talented and I wanna share my story and help make the world a little better with my art I have a lot to say and I’d love someday to share it through music.
Thank you for sharing your personal experience for your UA-cam journey. Been struggling lately and realized that I have just not put enough effort into it after listening to your story. Appreciate it!
"Life isn't fair but still it's good"
- A wise old man
Worthy
Today is one of those days when I have cried a lot feeling lost. Stumbled upon this video and felt good. Thanks
I promised myself I will succeed.
sucks kus i feel like dying everyday i feel lost depress feel disgusted to myself no luck in life
You succeeded, because you failed to give up.
Hearing your thought process, of how you analyzed each video, makes it perfectly clear your dedication, and level of seriousness to your craft.
0:16 BANANA!
BANANAAAA 😂
2 books I would like to recommend:
- Clarity by Jamie Smart
- The Little Book of Ikigai by Ken Mogi
Read QURAN TOO
@@mrsaif4135 the Bible is the better choice, sir
@@BrandonTorres7529 all holy books has different stories but with same morals
@@BrandonTorres7529 Best of all, most inspiring, motivational and marvelous is *drumroll*
ABC for kids
Read the Bible especially those that King Solomon have written
I can really relate to this
In high-school and grade school
I put in a lot of effort to prepare for my tests but never got the desired mark
My parents ridiculed me and said I wasn't serious when I did the best I could
Thanks for the motivation
U indian?
Me too... but we need to try again and give our self another chance
@@anujtiwari9234 🤣
dont mind them, keep pushing hard , for your sake. you got this! . hope your efforts pay off for you : )
Same...
"Don't work only hard, work hard and smart" - Ruri Ohama.
I love that, and honestly it might be the missing key for many of us, that and the fear of asking for help. Asking for help from family, friends or looking into the various helps you can get from independent organisations or even government.
If you don't believe that there is a way forward in life, you won't be able to see the various paths and opportunities that present themselves to you.
I am really delighted to hear from you, I know exactly what you r saying 😭. Thank you 🙏🏽
Ruri, your success goes beyond your UA-cam´s achievements, you´ve got the power to touch people´s hearts. Thanks a lot for those such meaningful words 🥰
I am in my mid thirties and well qualified but I have been out of work for a few months. My greatest disadvantage is the lack of relevant working experience. Recently, I was scrolling through social media and was filled with envy when I saw my peers doing well in life. I cannot explain how broken I was feeling, until this video came up in my feed. Coincidence, algorithm or fate? I truly wonder. Anyway, thanks for posting this video Ruri.
same boat
Me too.. i also turned 30 this year. But I am literally a failure. No achievement or nothing all these years. I dont even have a job now. I was very good at studies. But life will always find a way to pull me down.No friends, no money, no shoulder to cry on, no confidence, absolutely nothing. I dont want great things or a lot of money, but just something to survive peacefully. But i am the flagbearer or badluck. No matter how hard i try, something or the other comes and ruins everything that I have worked so far. Sometimes I wonder what is the point. Nothings works out. It is so unfair that some people put the littlest effort, yet they have everything, even more than what they want.
Social media is full of many who portray themselves as they wish to be seen, leaving out all that is unpleasant. Don't believe everything they present.
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I’m 23 years old and I’ve never had an official job. The only job I had was sort of a seasonal job where I didn’t get real experience. At this point in life, I don’t really feel like a failure, but I know for a fact that I feel behind. I don’t necessarily get jealous of my former classmates that I met in high school, but it certainly gets me thinking how time has gone by and also how I could’ve used my time more wisely. I’ve been going to the gym lately and it has certainly helped me to improve as a person. I’m currently trying to figure out what I want to accomplish in life but the fact is that I’m not entirely sure what I want to do with my life.
Watching this really came to my mental rescue today when I was feeling down. I’m trying to pay my house off now and I’m falling behind but have a end goal of 2026 and bought it in 2020. I have to sometimes sell things that I don’t want to get rid of. It’s been a lot of sacrificing and lots of overtime. I’m not sure what I can do to work smarter but I’ve just been working harder. It’s been so stressful. I’m almost half way there. But this video really made me feel better about myself. Because I’m too hard on myself most of the time.
I don't know in what part of the world you are, but to be nearly halfway paying off a house in 3 years and with a goal of paying it off in 3 more, that's success right there. You're doing amazingly well. 👌
@@Mark..01 I live in north America. And thank you Mark. I really appreciate this 🙏🏻
@@Redsnowman04 great work man, your sacrifices will be worth it. When you own your house and are free from the loan, you can buy the things to make it a home.
look at it this way, at least you have a house…..some of us will never be able to afford that in this economy.
You're doing better than most people are, everytime you feel low, think about the things that you got going for you and what you are doing right, it'll help you through this.
I would feel successful having a person like you by my side.
As a 21 year old, I never once subscribed to an individual UA-cam Channel, but after watching one of her videos, it carried a sense of charisma and distinctiveness, that I am quite intrigued and compelled to watch more of her videos. It's a combination of her voice, charm, and language that is in a different arena from most other "professional" UA-cam channels, and I think it connects to a broad range of people in an uplifting way. Well I was thinking of starting. cooking UA-cam channel after unexpectantly dropping out of college halfway in a 4 year degree of engineering. This gives me the ambition and motivation to not be ashamed of past failures and keep pushing forward. I know you will hit 1 million subscribers Ruri, I'm rooting for you!
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I'm 17 and have absolutely no accomplishments due to me either not trying or not trying hard enough and I've been doing this since I was 14, not finishing things I've started, got jealous of others, procrastinating, wasting time and so much more that I wish I had never done, and just tonight I actually sat and thought about all those things, and just tonight I realised I'm a very unsuccessful person, and if I keep continuing this way I will be destined to fail. If I don't start trying today I fear I never will and I am truly scared for my future I'm truly scared to have no qualifications or achievements or any major moments and aspects in life, but only I can change that fear only I can get rid of that fear and only I can make sure I don't end up like what I fear to be. Thanks to this video and a short amount of research I've done about unsuccessful traits (how to get rid of them) and reads about changing mindset, I think I might actually be okay. I truly hope I will be okay and I truly hope I get the success I've always dreamed off. I truly hope everyone else does too, we all deserve it, and I am so sorry to anyone also going through a hard time due to the realization of what we're doing to ourselves. I am going to change, I will be successful, and I will never stop trying, because the moment I stop trying is the moment I become a failure. Thank you for this video, I wish you the very best in life
Bro you ain’t alone I’m also 17 struggling with financial problems
I hope you accomplish all your goals. I feel the same but I am 21.
@@asan4106 literally me too and i am also 21 :(
17 as well and yeah I am in the same situation
16 and I’m also in the same situation
Very nice. The idea of unfair advantages reminded me that I used to think taking unfair advantages is not respectable. I felt miserable when I think I’m taking advantages over people who don’t have. That is long time ago and I was young. I’d forgotten all those feelings, but deep down in my heart I still believe that try being fair person may not bring me money or status but makes me feel right.
This video made me tear up. When 2020 happened I lost my carreer as a massage therapist and audio engineer and I became a streamer, and I have had incredible success in a short amount of time. But then my health tanked and my growth pattern faltered and I started to doubt my ability to continue. After watching this video i feel heard and seen and motivated. Thank you so much for this!
the part where you reveal that you've spent so many years making videos and channels before this one, really hit the best about the amount of work people don't see one has to put in before you reach a certain level of success
I was feeling so down...I was literally crying...but notification popped up I watched your video and i again have hope to do what I want to do and live my life...
But I really wanna say this I love you ruri ... ❤️
Im 21 and I feel this way. I havent accomplished anything and Im still decades away from my goals. Seeing people my age already successful makes me feel like I already failed.
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SAME!!! You’ll be okay, I promise. I’m a literal beauty school dropout due to a medical condition. We’ll be okay.
Nice, you have goals. I've never had any. Well, any genuine ones. I've pretended to have some, out of external pressure, but once I stopped caring about that, gone were the goals. If you wonder how that's possible, I've simply always felt out of place, and at any age you can think of, 5, 8, 12, 17, 22, I've been behind most of the other kids, not doing what you'd expect a person of that age to do. I'm a failure, in a deeper developmental sense, although I don't feel as much like a failure in the way many people do, because I've been so "removed", in a sense, from other people. Alienated from humanity, I suppose, as dramatic as that sounds. Make no mistake though, it is (obviously) a deeper kind of failure, despite my apathy towards it. That apathy & detachment itself is one of the reasons I am one, and it has developed over 2 decades, bit by bit, and now what started small, is a part of my character.
Skill issue
Thank you so much for this video! I found it really insightful and quite inspiring. As a 47-year-old who’s about to start a UA-cam channel, beginning to see my unfair advantages I’m excited to begin thank you!
I'm 19. A student and a part time artist. I have my instagram art account for about 4 years and I post there regularly. It hasn't been growing that much but I know someone who opened her art account for like 1 and half years and already got 2 times for followers than me. It's because she has the unfair advantage of knowing people of highest class who promotes her, and I don't.
I am also a student and I haven't been doing that well on my studies either. I was a very bright student until 2 years ago but now I am failing my classes. I feel like a failure every day and I haven't been getting motivations lately. Thank you for this video, now I can analyze everything and find out my unfair advantage. I know I am extremely talented but I haven't been using my talents properly. Thank you for making me get up and start doing hard works again.
may i ask what your @ art account is? id love to follow it as another 19 year old artist
@@arus.2171 Its @_aayu.dh__
Thank you so much!!!
What's your @?
@@aayudh.7749 done lol sorry i never saw your notification! i’m @arububba
or u sucks??
Comparing yourself to others is the thief of joy ! Appreciate of what you have cause life is short ❤❤❤
I remember I told some people I met in college my career goals and where I was currently, only to have them degrade my career as "lazy" and "we do all the work, y'all just sit around and write stuff." I knew at that movement that that person was trying to bring me down through their own insecurities. My career path was a psychiatrist.
Damn...
Edit: Massive respects to you psychiatrists btw!!
Thanks for making this video. I have over 7200 videos and over 40,000 photos I have made of my working in building a 100 acre flowering garden. I made them just for myself to show my progress over time. Thinking when I opened the flowering gardens to the public that the customers could see the videos on kiosks in the different areas of the gardens. I never once thought to put them on UA-cam. But after watching this video you made I am now thinking to do put them on UA-cam. Mainly, because my tractor broke and I need to get mine fixed or get a new one. Most likely a new one. I don’t have the money to afford getting mine fixed and my skill set is not good enough to do major diesel engine repair. So, knowing that it is possible to make $21,000 from google, I wonder how long it would take to do that and if it is possible to do it before June of 2024. That is the time when all the grass will reach a point when it will be too tall to mow. So, your video inspired me. Thanks!
By the way, I lived in Toyonaka, Osaka for several years and was inspired by the gardens there, so I returned to USA and began building my Japanese flowering garden. I have over 100 Yoshino cherry trees, 198 azaleas, 11 mature wisteria vines of all colors, and over 300,000 daffodils. Thousands of other flowering plants, trees and bushes as well. So, when I get inspired you can see I go deep into my plans and make them happen!
Still watching this video, but paused to comment when asked my opinion: I feel fairness is relative, just like with anything else. Not everyone finds value in the traditional sense of wealth, fame, or otherwise success, even and especially those fortunate enough to be born into it/given it-- they often grow up in an environment that is hard to impress, compounded by the illusion that they already have everything which matters, they struggle to find purpose, and can't feel useful to their family as a result-- not being able to please those family-members is especially damning, because since success is prized as a constant achievement, and money -thought of as a key to happiness- these people often grow up unloved, alone, isolated from family and potential friends who could understand alike, starved for any real connection, because everyone looks on with awe from the outside. Truth is, humans, are just human. These people who achieve big things have many or all the same problems that the person reading this comment does. We all want love, we all want to matter, and we all want to do something that fulfills us, but there is no objective answer to solve these problems for every person. Happiness is subjective, and thus fairness is relative.
I grew up practically homeless, then just as I was reaching my teens, my family suddenly started making a lot more money. Our finances grew, but our way of life did not; we lived like we were poor, accustomed to moving, constantly, never making friends, never building connections, never laying down roots, and spending every dime the moment it came in. The friends I did try and make saw me as privileged, and it dug a wedge between us, and helped me stop trusting people. My parents are trauma victims that were terrified of not having money, and they past their traumas on to me; I long since saw money as the devil that took my life away, and now I live chained in fetters of gold, conditioned to rely on money to keep me "safe"-- I'm a lonely bird that stares out of the bars on a gilded-cage, desperate for motivation, and envys the freedom others have to be themselves, consequences be damned.
wow. thank you for sharing that.
I would agree with your first paragraph, but disagree completely with your second paragraph
@@_.359 I mean, you're free to disagree, of course, but.. I mean I don't understand how someone can disagree with a personal recounting of your own life experiences XD
@@miwky406 the poetic part
@@_.359 So.. you disagree with my subjective feelings? Lol.. that was the whole point of my original comment-- to point out that there is no right answer for everyone :p But! Given that these are my *feelings*, they aren't wrong just 'cause you disagree, you would just feel differently if you were in my situation, ergo fairness is relative :p
Thank you for making this video! I used to feel this way, but when I realized the successful young people came from rich parents, close connections to big companies, being able to attend a private expensive University that it's known for many rich and successful people go, while I am from a working class family struggling paycheck to paycheck with little to no savings trying to get by in life, it makes me realize life really is unfair. Starting from the bottom isn't easy. I have also started channels but got burnt out due to classes, but I will go back to my channels when I have more time and got some time to rest. I try to celebrate any victories I have, for example I will be graduating from college this summer debt free thanks to scholarships and government support, I realize it's a huge privilege and huge luck not having debt, so I am staying hopeful while working hard to make sure that I will start my first career job and start getting into investment and savings. I know and heard for some, college degrees isn't worth it but for me personally, it's a huge achievement for me, working hard to get a degree from a working class status. I'm not giving up that easily. When I am done with classes, graduate and start working, I do want to start investing some of my time and money into building my career path. While I know it won't be easy and will take a long time, I know if I stay persistent, success will happen. I only consider failure if I just give up now. Thank you for recommending the book, I will check it out. 👍
A great watch on how humanity is defined ua-cam.com/video/S5f5zKsN1DE/v-deo.html..
*Life is not fair. But creating the life you want to live is 100% in your control. Love this Ruri! :)*
Unfortunately, I disagree. It is not 100% in our control.
Life is 100% not in your control…
While you can work towards things but you don't have 💯 control. Some people who are born in poor family don't have the means to get into further education which in some cases are needed such as becoming a doctor. Getting scholarship might not be possible either and for some people if only they had the money they would have made it but some just don't have that.
That's only one of the many potential factors outside of the person's control
Hayır ne alaka
Ahmet, capitalism disagrees
Sometimes when u sit and think and compare yourself to others, life can be so depressing that you just want to quickly look for an exit door. Sometimes its better to zone out from social media because it set unrealistic expectation for certain people. We are all just all the same creatures placed on this planet earth for a certain period of time so make the best of the time we got here. Just enjoy life and happy. Simple life is real.
RURI! Watching this video 8 months after upload date -- I'm a "successful" lawyer and it made an impact on my morning. Not everything is about out careers when it comes to success, and your message here is applicable in so many ways. Thank you for holding onto the inspirational light for all these years.
no one give a shi about ur shit life
Easy for you to say lol. What would you be without your cushy lawyer career making 6 figures easy? Unless you're a shit-tier public defender
this was unimaginably wholesome , I felt like I am connecting with her like she is a close friend or something
Something important to remember when you ARE successful is to remember the rest of the iceberg. Often times you can forget what you went through and only focus on the now. “My video didn’t as well this week…” but it got 10k more views than you used to get back when you first started…. You have to remember what it took to get you there.
For a young person you have blown me away with your wisdom. I found your content very inspiring and helpful. Best wishes.
You weren't exaggerating when you said that this video is extremely important. Thank you for essentially changing my life and ways of thinking.
I literally downloaded it to watch it later, and believe me I have ordered the book and I am super inspired. Thank you, keep up the good work.
This popped up at a great time. Almost 35 and trying to pivot into something I actually love doing but seeing others who are miles ahead being both an inspiration but also making me feel like I'm never going to make it. Helped tame the more irrational and emotional side of my thinking(which usually dominates) and put things into perspective, even things that the logical side of me knew but is just being drowned out by the much louder emotional side. Going to look into getting the book too and hope I can get through it, big time struggle with focusing on reading.
i listen to this everytime , golden video!!
this almost made me cry you made this video so well!! ill be watching it again!
i skip over parts with these types of encouraging videos and sometimes would just close the tab & continue my inertial day
but
i watched this without closing the tab.
i just gone through an emotional reaction to something today, so i was angry, sad and frustrated.
i think i needed this today
i learned few things
i felt like i was hugged.
thanks
Same. I never skip watching my own videos.
For me it’s not just being compared to all these successful celebrities, but also to my peers and to people in everyday life. I haven’t been going to school for almost two years because of mental illnesses and undiagnosed mental disorders that hinder me so much everyday in every single little thing I try to do. When I do get back to school, I’ll be two to four years behind my friends and people my age, I just feel like such a massive failure that I let down everyone who ever believed in me or said I had potential. Then there are even more problems on top of that… I wish I didn’t have to struggle to do everything other people can do so easily :’(
Sorry for the vent, I do try to look ahead of me and have hope to continue living and trying my best. I’m also hoping to get professional help soon.
I hope everyone out there knows that you can be proud and content with who you are and where you are in life despite all the downfalls, and that even the smallest little good thing can really be worth living for and continuing your journey through life. The path ahead is not always linear, and failure is a sign that you are close to accomplishing something great :]
I know what you mean. Im 22 and people my age already have their bachelor degree while Ill be 24 by the time I get mine :/
i can relate cause i am living the same situation you are in but as advice for you (and for me too ) dont give up and beleive in god
brother. people love you, care for you and wish to see you prosper. you are something great and continue to be something great. godspeed homie :D
@@BobbieDraper I'll trade you. I'll take being 2 years behind instead of being 31 and having nothing.
Mental illness is one of the reasons I dropped out of college. I want to go back but I'm not even sure what to study or if I should.😥
I really needed this! Thank you for making this video. I've recently lost my UA-cam channel I've worked so hard for over 3 years with over 30K+ subscribers. there's nothing else that I can do other than never giving up and just keep going! This really helps. Thank you!
I'm 45 , I started my business 4 years ago and it's been the battle of my life. I'm struggling so much and every wall I manage to break down theres another one built behind it. I've had trauma in my life too , I'm still going to battle on with it, your video really helped me to see that I must keep going,
What is a 45 year old grown ass man doin in this shit video anyways and nobody asked or cares about your failure of a business.
Battle and struggle trought life and die… make problems for yourself, dont sleep at nights because of stress or do nothing chill, smoke weed, meditate and try to find energetic connection with the universe or live anu other way but one day you will die and everything you do is just pure useless nonsense
Awesome, don't give up! You got this 🤙
Thank you for inspiring me Ruri! I had tears watching this I'm going through the same things which you've been through but at least i have someone here who motivated me, Thanks for sharing all of this 🧡 I'm not giving up now no matter what!
A great watch on how humanity is defined ua-cam.com/video/S5f5zKsN1DE/v-deo.html..
I literally begged to differ. I gave up everything I had ever been taught to give value to in life and lived upon the streets of countries I didn't speak the language of. I empirically experienced living with nothing of material wealth. I survived and after almost two decades no longer give commerce built society the value I once did. It was not dropping out. It was a revaluation of existence.
a reality of sentient life is that we can't turn people into cash.