i come back to this song all the time but i physically can't listen to it often. it just hits me with this really, really intense feeling of nostalgia (to the point where my chest hurts) and sadness. not to be cringey but it makes me feel like i'm at a bonfire with friends i won't see for a really, really long time, and the night is almost over....
"..One day i won't need your love. One day I won't define myself by the one I'm thinkin' of...." I adore this song and this band for the amount of cathartic emotion they have made me feel and celebrate.
I love how this song just unfolds so naturally and becomes this huge emotionally heavy church like choir-esq ending followed by that guitar outro. It’s truly a brilliantly constructed song.
This song takes me back to my Dad dying. He had a rare type of dementia, the most prominent part was aphasia. Throughour his illness he new who I was and was always so happy to see me. I miss him everyday. (Sobbing uncontrollably now)
I first saw Pinegrove live on a whim in a cramped, windowless, sweltering venue on a hot summer night in Fresno about 5 years and a lifetime ago. Hearing this song made all the near heat stroke and suffocation worthwhile. I keep returning to it now and again after all these years. When I first started watching this video, it only had a few thousand views at most. I'm glad to see their audience has grown since then.
this song is so beautiful, thank you Spotify. I can relate to it so deeply and it makes me want to hug everyone else in the comments who feel connected to the song
so satisfied i said a lot of things tonight so long aphasia & the ways it kept me hiding it's not so much exactly all the words i used it's more that i was somehow down to let them loose so complicated i cant wait to get explaining your listening distended out since i've been crying so long aphasia & the ways it kept me hidden so long to silent nerves & hesitant oblivion you came & sent me out unfurling in the street & i felt unprecedented confidence in speaking stick around im thinking things'll be alright newly delivered wont you live with me tonight something tonight was such a letdown on my pride it takes a part of me i don't got to take some things in stride i'd pace around the place so quiet in myself id wake the next & see my silence went unfelt just when i thought i had this pattern sorted out apparently my ventricles are full of doubt now nah things go wrong sometimes don't let it freak you out but if i don't have you by me then i'll go underground! nah but what you've got was in your reaches all along plus one day you'll be reaching for me & i'll be gone to help remind myself I wrote this little song one day i won't need your love one day i won't define myself by the one i'm thinkin of & if one day i won't need it one day you won't need it
Dear and the Headlights, All things sung by: Coner Oberst, The Shins, Elliot Smith, Okkervil River, The Firetheft-or Sunny Day Realestate, Fleet Foxes, Arcade Fire come to mind.
To me this ambivalence is inherent in the chord progression itself. Don't mean to downplay the other aspects of this song, though - altogether it's awesome!
I love how different subdivisions of the tempo come through. The way the instruments blend and push my foot tapping in eighth notes and then the bass finger roll in the last measure pushing it into the sixteenths for just a second, and then back to quarter notes. Gives it a psuedo speedup. Really good stuff.
Also this is my dam suicide song. I remember my family falling apart as I watched from afar, my little playlist of bands like pine grove, Ajj, American football, Modest Mouse, and all that crap while going to parties to get away. My friend getting drunk and sad at the end of the night. I remember the night after a party I finally was able to sneak a bullet from my buddies hunting supplies as everyone knew and was keeping my guns away from me in our small town as I was suicidal. I remember loading the pistol and walked to the old abandon bridge that lead to the abandoned fish house. As I sat up on the bridge and got my pistol ready I wanted to hear the music me and my favorite sibling who was my oldest sister use to play this album when we would get out and away from the house and into the woods. But then this song popped up and i couldn’t help but start to cry uncontrollably. It was like someone talked to me for hours to drop the gun and just with one song I broke down like a baby gripping the beams like it was my mother. I dropped that pistol down into the water and never even felt the need to look. It was like it was thrown for me…
stick around for a while buddy. . .things change. . .theres good and bad. . .things balance out. . .then they change. . .then balance again. . .just ride the wave
this song describes my thoughts when i’m around friends… so many words i’ve said have went unheard and kinda felt like a was fading away from the people around me…
My partner introduced this song to me when we were first getting to know each other and I had it on loop because it made me feel butterflies about him.. it's been 5 years together now hehe ♥️
pinegrove if you ever catch this comment as someone with aphasia i return to this song every now and then to feel a little less alone. it makes me feel a little more understood, or capable of being understood, perhaps. it's not often i feel that way.
This brings me back to waking up in my buddy's basement after we all parties the night before. We would have our coffees and clean to pinegrove every sunday morning. First song was always Sunday then Aphasia and then pretty much every song they had out at the time would play after that. Simpler times
idk man not to get too personal but this hit so close to home on so much shit and I heard it once, before a major life event, and i remember relating to it but not wanting to hear a lot of what it was saying. now im on the other side of it, and listening to the song like made me cry lol??? i was Real fuckin bummed but then at the end just this feeling of "everything and everyone is going to be okay" settled over me and idk..... #intense. basically if anyone is reading this and scared of shit happening like, your worst fears, when you go through them, are actually Not as bad but also somehow Worse than you imagine, but you'll be 100% okay.
Don't even like this band as a whole (hate me if you want that's fine) but I absolutely love this song with a fiery passion. One of my best of all time honestly.
go ahead last lines, fuck me up. thank u my love vinny for showing me this. this comment will got lost in the other comments but just wanna let youtube know i fuckin love u and look forward to our partnership and travels.
Found this song while driving drunk from the love of my life’s house after she slept w another guy in front of me in 2019 this song came on halfway through Tampa and changed my mind before I did anything too dumb, goes to show whatever it is someday you won’t be there.
Very cool vib and heartfelt. Well done! I really like that juicy toned guitar solo at the end but it was not nearly long enough! As they say in show biz "... always leave then wanting more.." and I do.
La Tortuga Picante not a popular rock song but John Mayer’s “Victoria” has almost the exact same riff and it was driving me crazy for a while trying to think of what this song was reminding me of.
Is it just me, or could anyone else tell that the guitar used is a Fender Stratocaster? I could instantly tell because: I personally own one (a Squier strat, but the sound is somewhat obvious) and the Strat has a *VERY* unique sound, just like other classic Fender guitars. Regardless, tthis is an amazing song, and the solo is superb.
Alright gotta drop my comment before this comment section turns into a TikTok sespool of people “relating” so hard to this song and how it’s so home hitting and that you definitely listened to the song. TikTok has ruined music culture and how it’s actually spreaded and appropriate. Now it’s just views, “I was here first”, and people who where totally “og fans”
i come back to this song all the time but i physically can't listen to it often. it just hits me with this really, really intense feeling of nostalgia (to the point where my chest hurts) and sadness. not to be cringey but it makes me feel like i'm at a bonfire with friends i won't see for a really, really long time, and the night is almost over....
Omg🥺😢
isnt it similar to "how can i love you" by cat stevens?
🤢
Size of the Moon off of the same album is the one that does that for me
Heard that 💪
the last verse kills me.
Dude same here, I am dying every time lol..
ha gay
@@PS2Damon ok ugly ass eating food in car lmfao
"..One day i won't need your love. One day I won't define myself by the one I'm thinkin' of...." I adore this song and this band for the amount of cathartic emotion they have made me feel and celebrate.
I love how this song just unfolds so naturally and becomes this huge emotionally heavy church like choir-esq ending followed by that guitar outro. It’s truly a brilliantly constructed song.
This song takes me back to my Dad dying. He had a rare type of dementia, the most prominent part was aphasia. Throughour his illness he new who I was and was always so happy to see me. I miss him everyday. (Sobbing uncontrollably now)
I hope it gets easier someday
i hope you're doing well.
I first saw Pinegrove live on a whim in a cramped, windowless, sweltering venue on a hot summer night in Fresno about 5 years and a lifetime ago. Hearing this song made all the near heat stroke and suffocation worthwhile. I keep returning to it now and again after all these years.
When I first started watching this video, it only had a few thousand views at most. I'm glad to see their audience has grown since then.
this song is so beautiful, thank you Spotify. I can relate to it so deeply and it makes me want to hug everyone else in the comments who feel connected to the song
i like spotify more but i heard this on pandora so i want to thank them
so satisfied i said a lot of things tonight
so long aphasia & the ways it kept me hiding
it's not so much exactly all the words i used
it's more that i was somehow down to let them loose
so complicated i cant wait to get explaining
your listening distended out since i've been crying
so long aphasia & the ways it kept me hidden
so long to silent nerves & hesitant oblivion
you came & sent me out unfurling in the street
& i felt unprecedented confidence in speaking
stick around im thinking things'll be alright
newly delivered wont you live with me tonight
something tonight was such a letdown on my pride
it takes a part of me i don't got to take some things in stride
i'd pace around the place so quiet in myself
id wake the next & see my silence went unfelt
just when i thought i had this pattern sorted out
apparently my ventricles are full of doubt
now
nah things go wrong sometimes don't let it freak you out
but if i don't have you by me then i'll go underground!
nah but what you've got was in your reaches all along
plus one day you'll be reaching for me & i'll be gone
to help remind myself I wrote this little song
one day i won't need your love
one day i won't define myself by the one i'm thinkin of
& if one day i won't need it
one day you won't need it
I'm a sucker for clever lyrics
Dear and the Headlights, All things sung by: Coner Oberst, The Shins, Elliot Smith, Okkervil River, The Firetheft-or Sunny Day Realestate, Fleet Foxes, Arcade Fire come to mind.
Damn I didn't think anyone still remembered about Dear and the Headlights. Wish they would have stayed together.
Singer of DATH have a new band called The Gentle Hits, album out in Nov. couple released songs out now.
Taylor Holloway sum won’t bother looking up lyrics in desc cus it’s highly unlikely to be there 😔
I'm not crying, you're crying
legendofjustin fair
i feel so bummed out and hopeful at the same time
literally how I feel
+nina eide OMG YES. totally the vibe of this song. Like i wanna cry but after I cry I can totally forget about a shit breakup lol
+nina eide I love real, unpretentious descriptions of music.
Same
To me this ambivalence is inherent in the chord progression itself. Don't mean to downplay the other aspects of this song, though - altogether it's awesome!
I love how different subdivisions of the tempo come through. The way the instruments blend and push my foot tapping in eighth notes and then the bass finger roll in the last measure pushing it into the sixteenths for just a second, and then back to quarter notes. Gives it a psuedo speedup. Really good stuff.
Also this is my dam suicide song. I remember my family falling apart as I watched from afar, my little playlist of bands like pine grove, Ajj, American football, Modest Mouse, and all that crap while going to parties to get away. My friend getting drunk and sad at the end of the night. I remember the night after a party I finally was able to sneak a bullet from my buddies hunting supplies as everyone knew and was keeping my guns away from me in our small town as I was suicidal. I remember loading the pistol and walked to the old abandon bridge that lead to the abandoned fish house. As I sat up on the bridge and got my pistol ready I wanted to hear the music me and my favorite sibling who was my oldest sister use to play this album when we would get out and away from the house and into the woods. But then this song popped up and i couldn’t help but start to cry uncontrollably. It was like someone talked to me for hours to drop the gun and just with one song I broke down like a baby gripping the beams like it was my mother. I dropped that pistol down into the water and never even felt the need to look. It was like it was thrown for me…
this is such a beautiful story. you are so loved, my friend.
Thank you for being here with us
I'm so glad you're still here
stick around for a while buddy. . .things change. . .theres good and bad. . .things balance out. . .then they change. . .then balance again. . .just ride the wave
this song describes my thoughts when i’m around friends… so many words i’ve said have went unheard and kinda felt like a was fading away from the people around me…
maybe they aren't your real friends
ive been listening to this song for like 5 months and i still love it idk why
yES YOONGIII
isnt it similar to "how can i love you" by cat stevens?
My partner introduced this song to me when we were first getting to know each other and I had it on loop because it made me feel butterflies about him.. it's been 5 years together now hehe ♥️
This is beautiful
Jessica Peddie you too
This song rocks! Listen to it everyday since I discovered them!
THANKS SPOTIFY
O Hank
Same here
me too
Same!
THIS IS UA-cam
everything is changing
Everyday song now after the Kevin Devine concert in Phoenix az! Best opening band I've ever seen! ❤️️ thank you pinegrove
i cant tell what kind of sadness this song articulates, but i think the point of this is just that. "Aphasia".
okay but I love this so much
you have awesome taste in music
Okay but you're beautiful
Amazingly unique, mellow, tune. Still wishin they wouldve completely let loose on the last guitar solo though
They do during live versions. You should check out the Audiotree Live session of this tune
“There’s that one part of every song that could never be too long.”
pinegrove if you ever catch this comment as someone with aphasia i return to this song every now and then to feel a little less alone. it makes me feel a little more understood, or capable of being understood, perhaps. it's not often i feel that way.
good luck buddy. everyone here whether they say it or not is rooting you on and we all care.
Much love, man
I just fell in love 💜
A strange feeling of nostalgia. I love it!
Heartbreakingly beautiful
Ikr
This brings me back to waking up in my buddy's basement after we all parties the night before. We would have our coffees and clean to pinegrove every sunday morning. First song was always Sunday then Aphasia and then pretty much every song they had out at the time would play after that. Simpler times
i wouldn't normally listen to indie-ish music but something about this band makes me love it. Or maybe it's the vodka...
What's wrong with indie-ish music? You're limiting yourself.
+C Fegdirb (Awesome) nothing in particular, it's just not usually my thing
Sam. Hahaha love it
Indi/emo/country ish. Why does this work?!
Psi Regulator Neo-folk genre
2:45 beautiful music
idk man not to get too personal but this hit so close to home on so much shit and I heard it once, before a major life event, and i remember relating to it but not wanting to hear a lot of what it was saying. now im on the other side of it, and listening to the song like made me cry lol??? i was Real fuckin bummed but then at the end just this feeling of "everything and everyone is going to be okay" settled over me and idk..... #intense. basically if anyone is reading this and scared of shit happening like, your worst fears, when you go through them, are actually Not as bad but also somehow Worse than you imagine, but you'll be 100% okay.
I needed to see that. Thank you so much.
thank you so much
I feel the same way!! Absolutely love the song
Thank you, midwest emo mix! ❤
oh what a gem
Makes me somber in the summer in my room blinds close the wind of my fan blowing cool air
Beautiful song. Lovely Lyricism. Excellent instrumentation. I love it. Keep writing 🤘😵🙃😍🖤 You guys are awesome!
Thank you for the kickass recommendation, Jana!
i love you all so much
We love you too !!
I love you too.. time fixes everything
I love you!
Gay
the vibes. love this
Damn the ending of this song will have you feelin some type of way
Wow just heard this the other for the first time. Amazing time to hear some more.
Love them! Can't wait to see them Live at 7pm(:
So glad to have a song that gives my heart hope. One day I won’t need his love, and I won’t define myself by the one I’m thinking of, him...
My friend posted a cover of this song on FB and now I'm addicted. Awesome tune.
Year later and I’m still digging this. Almost like a medication
This is the only song I've been listening to all day
vibe so hard omg
1:19, the drop 👌
So beautiful
Sorry for what you're going through Bruce. :( I hope everything goes well for you
like okay but like i love this like so much. crying hella.
Don't even like this band as a whole (hate me if you want that's fine) but I absolutely love this song with a fiery passion. One of my best of all time honestly.
don't be shy share your playlist
love this
I listen to this song everyday. My favorite song to sing
i will never forgive myself for discovering this band just now
I just discovered it today 😭
Best song in the world.
go ahead last lines, fuck me up.
thank u my love vinny for showing me this.
this comment will got lost in the other comments but just wanna let youtube know i fuckin love u and look forward to our partnership and travels.
Serena Teague nah it’s not lost in the other comments. The last lines are so powerful
This is so good. How??
I want the address of everybody who disliked this video
Alex 1600 Pennsylvania Ave. Washington DC, 21207
It strums the soul strings and balls ya like a melon, don't ya know.
and i want the address of everybody who liked it, because they have a great music taste :D
😅
@@mystupidworld2478 Good!
so good
This band sounds like a marriage of Manchester Orchestra and The Weakerthans.
I thought MO as well
Dude, yes. Pale black eye
Huge MO fan, never thought to equate them though. That being said, they both have a very eclectic sound so it makes sense
i love this song sm
this gives me excitement 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍
I love this song.
Found this song while driving drunk from the love of my life’s house after she slept w another guy in front of me in 2019 this song came on halfway through Tampa and changed my mind before I did anything too dumb, goes to show whatever it is someday you won’t be there.
2:25 damn
😌uhh it's such a good song
Very cool vib and heartfelt. Well done! I really like that juicy toned guitar solo at the end but it was not nearly long enough! As they say in show biz "... always leave then wanting more.." and I do.
So long Aphasia and the ways it kept me Highden
named my new uke after this beautiful beautiful song:))
Yo the stuff written in grey is moving
go check out the Paste Studios live version. It's just Evan and a guitar. And it kills!
That's my fav.
The lyrics to this song are so.. good. More than good but I can't find the right word.
Double good?
Hot dang how was I missing out on this? :O
sounds like a new Counting Crows. I'm very cool with this.
A favorite forever
Good music
SOMEONE PLEASE TELL ME WHAT OTHER POPULAR ROCK SONG HAS THIS THIS SAME DESCENDING PICKING AS THIS SONG PLEASE
La Tortuga Picante not a popular rock song but John Mayer’s “Victoria” has almost the exact same riff and it was driving me crazy for a while trying to think of what this song was reminding me of.
K. Cigarettes After Sex.
Karma Police
Ikr this song's vibe is just so...
one day you’ll be reachin for me & I’ll be gone
wow
one day i wont be there like whattttt
Is it just me, or could anyone else tell that the guitar used is a Fender Stratocaster? I could instantly tell because: I personally own one (a Squier strat, but the sound is somewhat obvious) and the Strat has a *VERY* unique sound, just like other classic Fender guitars. Regardless, tthis is an amazing song, and the solo is superb.
I think they're playing tele's too
Bunch of fender though
Can someone tab this out and send it to me?
Recommended by Yvette Young. 😊
I seen her and scarypoolparty in Toronto it was life changing lol her first ever crowd surfing & moshpit happened haahah
anybody know where to get the instrumental or if there is an instrumental?? I want to do this for next years talent show for my school :/
guitar center
just learn to play it on guitar it's only like 4 chords
all I can say is 😍😍
Official songs being upload in 360p should be a crime
the video quality has no relation to audio bitrate
E D E N
art reincarnates.
I’m here because of Kristen Stewart and I love it
I’ve never done heroin before but if I ever get inclined to, I’m going to go back to this song to remind myself about love and life to stop myself.
isnt this similar to "how can i love you" by cat stevens?
Alright gotta drop my comment before this comment section turns into a TikTok sespool of people “relating” so hard to this song and how it’s so home hitting and that you definitely listened to the song. TikTok has ruined music culture and how it’s actually spreaded and appropriate. Now it’s just views, “I was here first”, and people who where totally “og fans”
BEAUTIFUL ❤️🖤💚🤎 FAMILY DAPHNE COTTON ALWAYS 💜,
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what good does being physically alive bring when you're a deadweight
It's like John Mayer and Manchester orchestra had a baby.
👍🏼
How is this so fucking good?
(Side note: a pretty cute guy showed my gay ass this song and now it's all I skate to lmao. Perfect skating music)
HeftyJohnDeere
I'm in a speech pathology program and this semester we're studying aphasia. Coincidence that I found this song? I think not.
Came here from Sam Fender
Bruce Willis brought me here