Dear sir,great video ! I have two daughters.i travelled with them all over the world and gave them best dresses and their favourite food everyday .I treated them like my princess ❤️.Now my elder daughter is working in Intel and she has so many stories to share with her colleagues about the fun-filled life I gave them and second one is pursuing chemical engineering.Thanks you sir for such thought provoking videos
Completely agree with your views on this.. for me, my mother didnt even allow me to change any arrangement in house even by an inch as per my wish...I was denied simple things and for every thing I was told.. do whatever you want in your in-laws' house after marriage... n obviously no MIL will allow their DIL to take control of a house... 😢
I had c section for my child and my husband was doing dishes( in USA) and my mother in law kept telling him that he became a girl. There is no help in USA . She comes to visit us only some time and leaves her stupid mentality behind. Fast forward, 15 years, if I get sick my husband is clueless. I tell my son , if you don’t know how to do basics, no one will marry you.
I am very grateful to my parents for taking us on tours, feeding us good food and also helping out for upsc exams. After marriage i struggled a lot for basic necessities and was taunted for basic things. So i can understand what he is saying.
Don't keep your daughter's wishes/dreams/desire to wait till marriage. Don't teach your daughter to not serve her husband or don't teach your son to not server his wife. Let the couple figure out their terms of relationship.
Sir plz ladko k upbringing k lie b kuch video banaiye.. hmare parents ne hmko career oriented bhi banaya..lekin sath hi ghr ka sara kam b sikhaya. Magar on the other hand.. ladko k to maje hogye he.. unko pehle thoda paise kamane ka pressure hua karta tha kuki vo akele financial needs pure kia krte the..or aurate ghr sambhal ti thi.. magar ab aurate ghar b dekh leti he or job bhi..somewhere its guys who r lacking basic skills fir eg apne khud k chije sambhalna. Bura is bat ka lag ta he society ne job vali bahuye na sirf accept ki..magar ab khula khula ladke vale bolte he job vali chaiye ladki magar ladka unka do sal k bcho jese sb chijo k lie aurat pe depend hota he. Women are handling 2 things now..n Men se ek sambhal jae vahi bahut he.. Mard job krte the to unke ready kapde unke jute moje unka breakfast lunch dinnr sb kuch aurat kra krti thi.. aurat k kismat dekhiye aap.. mardo k barabar kamati he or fir b apna dhyan khud rkhti he apna saman khud sambhalti he.. or ladko k maa baap kabhi use ye nahi sikhate k unki bahu agr unk bete ko financial support kr rhi he to ladka b thoda ghr me haat bata dia kre.. tb unhe ye yaad ajata he k ghar sambhalna to aurat ka kaam.he.. us hisab se to financial needs puri karna mard ka kaam he..Aurate job kr hi ku rahi he fir?
Koi nahi bolta ki job waali hi chahiye. Jobless bhi sahi hoti hai agar 18 to 22 ho toh. 10 saal Tak faaltu jobs karke awaragardi karne ka shauk ladkiyon ko hi hai ajkl jyada
ye sirf 1% white collar wali ladkiyon ko face karna pad raha hey. baki ladiyan instead of doing blue collar or majdoori prefer bieng a housewife . aur ladkiyan hamesha apne se ameer ladke se shadi akrti hein to ghar ka kaam kyun ka kare ?
mat karo job. aur kar rahi ho to shaadi mat karo . job karna ladkiyan ki choice hey ladkon ko mandatory , to ekaadh job karke ameer ladke se shadi akrke usse fi 50 50 kaam karwayoge?
My mother in law is like, humne apni puri jindegi pati parmeswar or saas ki seva karke bitayi to tumhe v wohi karni hogi. Unhe ye ahsaas hi nehi ki hum dono same generation k nehi hai
@@Millions0fDreams yes mai job karti hu, apne husband se jyada kamati hu. Humdonoke future k liye savings karti hu, hum donoke baki expenses ka adha mai kharch karti hu. Fir v unki mentality same hi hai. jab mujhe apne sasural gye hue 2 mahine hi hua tha or neyi job me jyada income nehi ho raha tha tab mere sasurjika ye kahna tha ki mai timepass karne job me jati hu. Mai sirf job hi nehi karti thi, sath me gharke kaamo me sasuma ko help v karti thi kyu ki unko maid rakhna fizool kharcha lagta hai . Kam kamai unke liye kamai na karneki barabar thi to jyada kamaneke liye mai out of state kaam karne lagi hu, to ab unke liye mai ghar samhaal ne wali achi bahu nehi rehi.
@@annipaul91hats off to what you have seen and how you are managing things at your end. Mine just want to do shopping stuff with her money and not take part in house expenses or savings, two maids daily, no in law living together, can't stand if my mother comes foe few days. Her money is her money and my money is our money.
Such a beautiful video....i have grown up watching my sister sacrificing everything to support my family. Love her n now I will give all my time, love, care n happiness to my daughter.
Ye bhot accha btaya. I was also a product of ‘shaadi k bad krna ye sab apne ghar jaa k’ Thankfully, naukri lagi dur ghar se and bahar nikalne ka mauka mila… 4-5 sal saare armaan pure kie and now happily married.
No, 1990's married ladies are working. And even my mother was working. Though profession choice given to them was only teaching by her parents.. but still ladies tried to maintain balance between married life and job. They actually handled double burden.
The double burden is insane. Women are still treated the same way as their mom regardless of their financial achievements. Today, the life of a homemaker and her children is better than the life of a working woman and her kids.
@@aishwaryas9229its true, but that needs to change. Being homemaker is not a solution. Be a working mother and keep fighting for your rights at home, and do limited household work. One day things will change for you. If that doesn't happen atleast your daughter/son will know and learn what's right and wrong and will not repeat those things.
Sir most of the sensible audience fully agrees with you . But I feel women have always been at a disadvantage . GOD has not done justice to women . Today the girl has lots of challenges because building a career takes time and it directly is in conflict with the biological clock . So it is obvious one or the other will suffer either family planning or career . Because it is the woman who only can bear children . So a woman can’t have it all . The biggest advantage men have - they don’t have to bear the consequences of a uterus . So all in all women always are at a disadvantage . A woman’s biggest strength of child bearing is also her biggest weakness
You have no sense . That is biggest advantage for them to live happy . Men never be satisfy by their work but a women is satisfy by born baby . She find a true love called child . That child give infinite happiness to them . A men never satisfy, no one give pay attention to men , no one get sympathy by men , no men do a true love like a mom can do with child .... Carrier is not everything , carrier is something . But happines is everything . It's no disadvantage or no weaknesses . Men and women are for complement each other , not for competition with each other ....
@@NEETJIII hate when men justify what woman feels. Kaun si ladki aapke pass aakar boli ki mujhe labour pain mei maza aarha. Just stfu 🙄 and mind your business. Don't justify what how we feel u don't have same hormone as I have . Rahi baat men ke emotional support ki toh unko hi chul h " mard ko Dard nhi hota" " mard rote nhi h " so onn ladkiyo ko koi farak nhi padta tum roo haso gaaao ya marjao kisi ko farak nhi padta. You men made this standard for yourself then who will suffer. Rahi baat ladkiya toh roo skti h bhai kaunsi duniya Mei jii rhe ho mujhe toh yaad hi nhi last time Kab royi thi Mai apne mummy papa ke samne and hiding tears is common when we grow. Many girls don't cry including me. Aur dosto ke samne toh kabhi bhi nhi royi. Men are emotionally neglected is the biggest false statement. Men are emotionally neglected because of the stupid standards of their community is the true statement.
modern women jst want to be coddled without doing any work . kitna death hota hey child birth me?@@ankitamishra0405 men build the civilization you are living in , you cant have you cake and eat it too . koi jabran to shaadi nahi kar raha an, job karo aur akele raho ya affair karo . kisne roka hey. chalo India ka chodo, west me to ye taboo nahi hey na . wahan ki ladies khus hey ??
सर सब parents तो ऐसे नहीं है जो बेटियों को रोक टोक करें. लेकिन बेटियों ki safety कैसे करें. कुछ parents तो zamane को देख कर डरते हैं बेटियों की शादी से. 😢 😢😢😢😢 Please बताइए कि life partner का nature कैसे judge करेँ selection के वक़्त. आजकल के parents who are born after 70s 80s ये नहीं सोचते कि बच्चे arranged marriage करें या love, but ye zaroor सोचते हैं कि कैसे एक अच्छे nature का life partner mile. Kai parents बेटियों को घुमाना firaana चाहते हैं पर safety reasons se डरते हैं. Parents नहीं बेटे बेटी में फर्क़ करते , ब्लकि वो तो बहुत प्यार करते हैं बेटियों से पर फिर भी बेटा इसलिए चाहते हैं क्यूंकि उन्हें बेटियों के लिए हमेशा चिंता लगी रहती है. और शादी के बाद अपने जिगर के टुकड़े को किसी और घर में भेजते हुए bahaut डरते हैं. हर parent सिर्फ money नहीं देखता शादी में but specially आजकल जब बेटियां bhi independent होती हैं कमा सकती है तो माँ बाप की zyada चिंता लड़के और उसकी family के व्यवहार को लेकर होती. इसपर zaroor एक वीडियो बनाएं कि अच्छा लड़का in terms of व्यवहार nature behaviour कैसे select karein. कैसे intution itni बढायें कि धोका ना मिले, गलत behaviour ना मिले, ek शांतिपूर्ण वातावरण मिले बेटी को .
I was thinking about this just a few days ago... parents should fulfil the wishes if possible or just let their daughters have some fun... they shouldn't say "do this after marriage, with your husband"
Can peopl like you encourage women that they should choose. They should be financially independent and live in manner what they like. B4 marrying they can spend reasonable time to understand if the person goes with compatibility or not.
But who does n says these things in today' s times . We the 70' borns must have heard these things( but my parenrs also never said this to me ) . But today we fulfill all the desires of our kids n give them best of evwrything as per our capability ,irrespective of gender. Financial independence is very very imp esp for daughters .
9:30...phir simran ka chakkar bhi to chal gya tha... 🤷♀️ Khair, 37 yrs after my parents finally agreed to the fact they wanted a son and therefore took 4 chances... Bad luck... 35 saal pehle tak tha -"tumhe beton ki tarah pala, azaadi di (gaadi dilayi, padhaya etc) Now they realize-"betiyan kbhi bete ho nhi sakti, Bade-budhhe theek kehte the ki ladkiyon ko jyada padhana nhi chahiye Aur naukari to bilkul nhi karani chahiye Main, 12-15 saal se question kar rahi hoon apne mann mein -"bete ki tarah palna kya hota hai? Agar aap frk nhi karte bete -beti mein to beti ko bete ki tarah palna kyun? Kya gaadi betiyon ko nhi mil sakti? Kya betiyan interest ka education and career pursue nhi kar sakti? Aur phir age beti bete equall hain to 4 kyun? Jb apke colleagues n friends ke 2 hi hain.. Jo apki tarah rural background se bhi aate hain! " 35 saal baad aisa kya jo gya ki parents bete beti ka frk accept kar paaye openly cz, beti ne unki expectations ek limit tk poori kar lene k baad khud k liye kuchh aisa chah liya jo unke preference se match nhi karta ya wo simply beti ki personal life ki choice k saath comfortable nhi hai. N the only reason - log kya kahenge! 🤷♀️
Dyan doo ladki ke jese uska bii , or sab kaam sikhao ghar ka bii or bahar ka bii slowly slowly . Or society ke about batao thoda. Bahar ke atmosphere se duur rakho or mobile se bii duur .
My mother was working and I havent suffered in anyway. In fact i have seen children of housewife mothers getting spoilt and wrongly pampered. Its a bullshit argument, or i would say another excuse for women not working.
Agar thodi bahot Gulami Wife ki hi karli toh, Wife lookdown nahi karegi kya? Jaise ki "are pichle sunday toh isne ye saara kaam karaaya tha toh aaj bhi time hoga iske paas, bolti hu isse" And once we drop the weapon down it will always be a Danger to our Throat? Please some1 talk about this with me.
Mujhae maeree maa/mother nae kabhee bhee mahangae Shauq PAALNAE KEE SHIKSHAA NAHEEN DEE! In fact my parents never encouraged me to use perks and privileges that my parents got because of their jobs and rank! I never supported corruption after marriage hence I am my son kicked out the corrupt person(ex husband and father in that order)
I got married in 1978,I worked for 20 years,I am well educated, but I would get up early cook,pack tiffin for my kid ,my husband and me.coming back again would make dinner.There was no swigg6 or zomato at that time.nowadays girls think they are educated and they should do only office work.All my office female friends did their home and office work diligently.if we could do why mot present generation?
Although we didn't do this with our daughter. But I agree this happens most of the times mainly with daughter and with son too saying "ki tum apna kamao phir ghoomna firna maze karna" Very relevant topic🎉🎉
सन eighty ninety तक बोलते रहे थे दो दो महीने की छुट्टी पड़ती थी पैरेंट्स को बोलते थे कहीं तो घुमा फिरा लाओ बोलते थे शादी के बाद घूमना। सन तैयीस आ गया है आज तक नहीं हो पाया चूल्हे चोके में ठूँसे पड़े हैं ग़ुलामी अलग कर रहें हैं(u r true)
Excellent as always. Sir, I have one son + one Daughter. Now she is 24 in a corporate at a high position. Son is elder and just married. I have tried to fulfill all their desires like a foreign trip, india max places tour(for both), solo Goa trip with cousins, all with in reach jayaj gagdets etc . Kal kisney dekha hai . We are totally satisfied that we have done our duties at right time. 👌
The good memories actually create a balance account on which basis human being can cope up his/her lowest times. Brene Brown, the American author and psychologist who reaserched vulnerability as couragious thing proved it in her research. We Indian actually never try to create account of happy memories and thats why we succumb easily on unhappiness and bitterness.
Really true many girls were not allowed to wear or travel saying that this you can do in your husband s house. Here girls are taught that way but in reality nothing such happens. Than bitterness comes. And many more things are taught. Good👍👍
I am really thankful to my parents who made us travel and have fun and do whatever we wanted to and learn whatever we desired to.... no expectations from the future husband regarding my wishes
R e guruji aapne to meri jivan ka dukh hi bol diya.... Mere parents pichle 6-7yrs se yehi bol rahe h ki ghumne jayenge puri fmly milke ghumne jayenge.....abhitak m kanhi nhi gyi ghumne except my college trip and town where I work..... Ab bolte h ki saadi Karlo use baad Pati k sath Jaana.......or wo bhi unke pasand k larke se m saadi karlu.....unhone na Jaana na pucha ki meri icccha kya h.....bas. unhone khud se decide kr liya ki saadi kr deni h meri within 1yr..... Jaabki m khud kamati hu... Independent hu..... Parents bolte h ki....tumhe sirf career ki ajjadi mili h.....baki sab hum decide karenge
Good info. Thanks Girl before marriage: i want this stuff or want to travel. Girl' mom: you dont know how much messy our budget is with all expenses, papa is under stress!😢 Girl after marriage: i want this thing for me or house but hubby keep delaying. Girl's mom: aise thodi hota hai, shaadi ki hai toh zimmedari nibhani padegi. Sab expense kisi bhi nature ke karne padenge. 😅😅
Solution centric video on Controlled parenting or toxic parenting... Child's point of view how to get rid of mental stress in this type of situation thankyou for your videos sir
My parents never said this to me but I have heard some people saying this to their daughters. Too many restrictions lead to too many expectations in future.
The topic was well covered. I would like to add that it is important for parents to tell their daughters that do not be dependent on your partner for money or happiness. Be independent and have confidence in one’s own abilities to raise up in life.
Mera to ek din jhgda hua tha pati se neeche me saas kudi thi to usdin maune gusse me subah ki chai ni bnaai.. Pati ne banaai to unki ma itna emotional hui boli mere bete ko pehli baar chai banana pad raha hai.. Mere raaj me akbhi aisa ni hua.. Maine tirant kaha k dekho ab seekh gye wo.. Kabhi aisa ho to bana k pi lenge.. 😂😂
Ladko ki parvarish me kya kya galti karte hai parents...ye bhi to dekho uncle... Bs gyan batne ldkiyo ke hi mudde par hi kyu aate hai...!!! Purush stree ko jo dega stree uska 10 guna wapas karti hai... Ye apne hi ek video me kaha tha..!! To ye purush ko smjhao phle ki stree ko kya dena hai
While you are absolutely right on expectations and experiences of women married in late 80s and nineties or even earlier who have never had any horizon beyond imdt family life and their consequent frustrations- pl also do a video of why even a large proportion of girls who have had best of edn and degrees since 2010, have also not been able to pursue serious careers or even been able to take up appreciable jobs and continue with them for some length of time and prefer to opt for being 'homemakers' only?.Some one needs to do serious research on what has become of all the cl 10/12 topper girls between 2010 to 2015 of whose achievements we read in newspaper headlines May/ Jun every year? Overlap an excellent perspective!!
@@ecocart8836 Guruji has repeatedly said in his numerous videos that being 'homemaker only' can be considered challenging if we are doing the complete span of the job without aid of maids, servants, drivers etc! Are we? And moreover working women are also home makers and therefore an outside job while being a homemaker also definitely ought to be more challenging then being a homemaker only!! What say??
Your clarity of mind is epic. People need to think that way. Life is too simple but I don't know why such straight thoughts don't strike people's minds.
I remember asking my mom that's let's go to kashmir together for a trip this was after my dad passed away and I was in my early 30s, my mothers reply was get married and go with your husband to kashmir, mind you my mother is a educated lady. This statement was so passing off, after that I started backpacking and solo travels because all I wanted to make memories with my mother, while her solution was get married as if it is some golden apple😅 Indian parents can really be regressive at times despite being educated. I am sure she wouldn't say the same if I was her son or a boy!
Jab hmare parents bolte he ki shadi k bad Jana jaha Jana ho to Aisa lagta hei ki pehle to papa ki suno or shadi k bad husband ki. As if meri khud ki choice hi nhi hein.
I completely agree with you..Mom always push me to study and become independent as she don't want me to housewife. .I am now very happy as I know it is very difficult to manage house and become housewife...it is really difficult job... Also she never allowed me to go outside before marriage much.. but got lucky that my husband loves traveling...
sir ko samajh aa gaya hai... ki ACHARYA PRASHANT se compete karne ke liye women ke upar badhiya badhiya bolna padega.... women ki ego massage karni padegi... aur comments dekho... sab ladkia khush ho gyi...........................subscriber count dekhna ab... koi to note karo.. sahi pakde sir.. haha pichli video mein rajat sharma ne gali di woman ko... lmao.. aur is video mein daughter upbringing.. subscriber badhane ke liye kuch bhi karega par ek baat bata dun.. feeling nahi aa rahi jo asal mein ati hai......forced lag raha hai saf saf... mariage pe focus rehta hai to original lagte ho.. par alag se girls pe focus karte ho to forced lagta hai... apna original subscriber bhi ganva doge.. khair uske liye to apke pas content hi nahi bacha.. to nayi audience ke liye banana hi padega.. hmmm ok got it.. lmao.
Yeh aap ne sahi kaha... Jab vo apne ladakiyonko pehela jyada kuch nahi dete ya unke arman poora nahi karte, baad me unko apni bahu agar aaram se rahe ya apni manpasand cheez khareede, toh unko sehen nahi hota.. tab har cheez beti ko bhi milni chahiye aise sochne lagte hai. Aur compare karne lagte hai.
I am glad my mother didn't raise me like this...she is working yet runs the household like a superwoman. It should never be a either/or situation. Do you. And let the couple decide the internal arrangements.
In my case it was just opposite , my mother in law was a working woman and I met my wife in my office but the day our relationship became serious she told after marriage I will not work , she wanted to be a housewife
@@as-uv2ik i am comfortable as by god grace I have enough ancestral property to secure mine and my kids future and I am not totally dependent on my salary
Mai kv se padhi hu , mujhe papa ne sare Arman pure karne diye life me , meri behen ke bhi har Arman pure kiye papa ne , shadi ke baad ke liye kuch rakha hi ni , so meri expectations kuch high hai hi ni so life easy ho gai hai
Behen mere father k pas bahot income thi but mujhe poori life 1 rupya spend karne k liye nahi diya, now I am married earning good and spending money on my hobby playing cricket, touring, biking, gym, protein supplement.
Meri mother in law,to ek bar bata do ki mummi ye aise nahi aise hota h aajkal.... Vo agree ho jati hai.. Theek h kr lo, jese hota h tumhare jamane me... Parents jese hi h sasural wale..
Parents betiyon par koi paisa khrcha nhi chahte ha, sakuch shadi ke baad krne k kiye postpone krte ha, in unrealistic expectations ke sath pati ke sath jaate hain aur issue create hote h.
Daughters are now given free hand and marriages are not in their list at all and forget cultural knowledge parents don't care and happy to see their daughter embracibg western culture and live in relationship
Ye bilkul sahi bola parents ne bol dia kya humari tarah chulha choka karogi to aajkal ki ladkia Ghar hi nahi bethna chahti unhe kitchen ya Ghar ki taraf koi responsibility hi nahi reh gayi.. jab ki ladkio ki padhai ka matlab hota hai next generation yani apne bacho ko shikshit karna naki sirf job se paise kamana.. Karo job lekin Ghar ke regular cheezo ko bojh mat samzho na hi chota Ghar ka kaam bhi chota nahi hai logically ye Survival skills hi to hai.. aana to sab chahiye aur waqt aane par Karo bhi baki job Karo na karo tumhari marzi and same goes to men's also unhe bhi Ghar ke kaam sikhao.. aise itne hi cases hai ki Bahu Ghar ka koi kaam hi nahi karna chahti kyunki maa ne bola tha humari tarah chulha choka 😒 thik hai kitchen mei shayad interest na ho lekin Ghar ke aur kamo mei interest to ho lekin nahi kisi b kaam mei interest na hona matlab?
@@kusumrastogi5672 I am also a Bahu not saas but what is correct is correct Ghar chalana is everybody's input na ki sirf saas na ki sirf Bahu na ki sirf beta sabke apne roles hai agar kuch roles change huee hai aajkal ki generation mei to use aaram se bethkar aaram se divide Karo problem 1 hi hai communication gap baki personal nature to matter karta hi hai Jo kaamchor hai wo rahega
@@kusumrastogi5672 does your beta has interest in kitchen work if both are earning then both should cook Your time has gone pls don't expect everything from bahu don't be a toxic sas
@@sapnakalra5150 my son equally does housework, as for myself I have been in govt job but took responsibility of house also....with help of maids though, I just expect her not to just take care of her job but share household responsibility too, 😉
Gulami nahi Co- operation hona chahiye ,but dekha gulami jaise hi jata hai,kisi ko bhi kisi ko granted nahi lena chahiye, wife husband ke liye kucchh karti hai to bus ye hamesha ke liye uski hi duty ho jati hai, jab vo na kar paye to irresponsible as if she has done a big blunder ,why all the things(so called duties )so tagged?Today we are expecting women to do great in the outer world but has she been given a freedom from household duties just like a boy was /is given.
सच कहा आपने, बिना पैर पर खड़े हुए इस जहां में जिंदा रहना मुमकिन नहीं। एक बार जब उन्हें जो इच्छा हो करने देना चाहिए। मेरी भी एक बेटी है, एक 20का बेटा है। कभी भी सायकल, बाइक, और 18वर्ष तक गाड़ी भी चलाना आ गया था।अब जब कि उनके पास लाइसेंस, आई कार्ड सब कुछ ठीक हो गया तो , उसने इमरजेंसी होने पर हमें आराम देता है। मेरे पति एक अच्छे गार्जियन साबित हुए हैं। मैं बीच-बीच में टोकती भी थी। किन्तु स्कूल के तरफ़ से जब भी इन बच्चों का ट्रिप प्लान होता, हमारे दोनों बच्चे अवश्य जाते। और घर का खाना उन्हें बहुत ही पसंद आता। अभी भी दोनों भाई बहन अच्छे खाने के शौकीन हैं।🙏🤗
Main kya likhoo main bhi yahi sochti hoon jee lo simrans hum khud five sis meri bhi beti hamare mummy papa ke vichaar bhi aapki hi Tarah stay blessed sir
Arrange marriage mai boy nai dokha diya boy has ERaction disfunction ,& BTech degree mai bhi complete nahi hai ,he has 4 backs.kya hamai divorce ka decision karna chahiyai.
Hi Sir. Can you make a video dedicated to married daughter parents who feel finances are males responsibility (because traditional thought) and also other homely duties like kitchen, maids, home care, etc are not female responsibilities (because modern thought). Can you please address this doglapanti in your way. Or if you feel this is correct then please explain that as well. Just in need of clarity life mei shi kya hai.. Thanks.
Make giving birth to children, breastfeeding them and raising a kid male responsibility first... If a woman wants money it is for these hardworks and sacrifices...
Sir u r amazing i watch all ur videos sir i kindly request u to make videos on 40 plus women who r at the threshold of old age how to keep themselves busy in making acarrer or in short regarding empty nest syndrome .🎉
Very true..... Housewife's contributes not only to their family but also to the society n their country. But all housewife should be financially independent.
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Dear sir,great video ! I have two daughters.i travelled with them all over the world and gave them best dresses and their favourite food everyday .I treated them like my princess ❤️.Now my elder daughter is working in Intel and she has so many stories to share with her colleagues about the fun-filled life I gave them and second one is pursuing chemical engineering.Thanks you sir for such thought provoking videos
Beautiful! Congratulations on being such a good and loving father! Lucky daughters!
Great sir👏
Completely agree with your views on this.. for me, my mother didnt even allow me to change any arrangement in house even by an inch as per my wish...I was denied simple things and for every thing I was told.. do whatever you want in your in-laws' house after marriage... n obviously no MIL will allow their DIL to take control of a house... 😢
Buy your own house.... From your hard earned money money.... that's the only thing I did n feel good
arrangement in house? what do you mean by this?
@@utkarsh_108many parents don’t allow daughters to even move a chair to a different corner of the room
I had c section for my child and my husband was doing dishes( in USA) and my mother in law kept telling him that he became a girl. There is no help in USA . She comes to visit us only some time and leaves her stupid mentality behind. Fast forward, 15 years, if I get sick my husband is clueless. I tell my son , if you don’t know how to do basics, no one will marry you.
I am very grateful to my parents for taking us on tours, feeding us good food and also helping out for upsc exams. After marriage i struggled a lot for basic necessities and was taunted for basic things. So i can understand what he is saying.
Completed agree with you .Yes, these scenarios do exist in the middle class families.
Don't keep your daughter's wishes/dreams/desire to wait till marriage.
Don't teach your daughter to not serve her husband or don't teach your son to not server his wife. Let the couple figure out their terms of relationship.
Sir plz ladko k upbringing k lie b kuch video banaiye.. hmare parents ne hmko career oriented bhi banaya..lekin sath hi ghr ka sara kam b sikhaya. Magar on the other hand.. ladko k to maje hogye he.. unko pehle thoda paise kamane ka pressure hua karta tha kuki vo akele financial needs pure kia krte the..or aurate ghr sambhal ti thi.. magar ab aurate ghar b dekh leti he or job bhi..somewhere its guys who r lacking basic skills fir eg apne khud k chije sambhalna. Bura is bat ka lag ta he society ne job vali bahuye na sirf accept ki..magar ab khula khula ladke vale bolte he job vali chaiye ladki magar ladka unka do sal k bcho jese sb chijo k lie aurat pe depend hota he. Women are handling 2 things now..n Men se ek sambhal jae vahi bahut he..
Mard job krte the to unke ready kapde unke jute moje unka breakfast lunch dinnr sb kuch aurat kra krti thi.. aurat k kismat dekhiye aap.. mardo k barabar kamati he or fir b apna dhyan khud rkhti he apna saman khud sambhalti he.. or ladko k maa baap kabhi use ye nahi sikhate k unki bahu agr unk bete ko financial support kr rhi he to ladka b thoda ghr me haat bata dia kre.. tb unhe ye yaad ajata he k ghar sambhalna to aurat ka kaam.he.. us hisab se to financial needs puri karna mard ka kaam he..Aurate job kr hi ku rahi he fir?
Koi nahi bolta ki job waali hi chahiye. Jobless bhi sahi hoti hai agar 18 to 22 ho toh. 10 saal Tak faaltu jobs karke awaragardi karne ka shauk ladkiyon ko hi hai ajkl jyada
Haan. Ladke Jaise crores mein kamaa rahe.
@@putin3491 ch**t ka khel hai Babu bhaiya
ye sirf 1% white collar wali ladkiyon ko face karna pad raha hey. baki ladiyan instead of doing blue collar or majdoori prefer bieng a housewife . aur ladkiyan hamesha apne se ameer ladke se shadi akrti hein to ghar ka kaam kyun ka kare ?
mat karo job. aur kar rahi ho to shaadi mat karo . job karna ladkiyan ki choice hey ladkon ko mandatory , to ekaadh job karke ameer ladke se shadi akrke usse fi 50 50 kaam karwayoge?
My mother in law is like, humne apni puri jindegi pati parmeswar or saas ki seva karke bitayi to tumhe v wohi karni hogi. Unhe ye ahsaas hi nehi ki hum dono same generation k nehi hai
Unki mentality wahi hai jaisi college me senior student junior ki ragging karte hai
To didi aur karti kya ho tm ghar me? Kahi job krti ho to thik hai
@@Millions0fDreams yes mai job karti hu, apne husband se jyada kamati hu. Humdonoke future k liye savings karti hu, hum donoke baki expenses ka adha mai kharch karti hu. Fir v unki mentality same hi hai. jab mujhe apne sasural gye hue 2 mahine hi hua tha or neyi job me jyada income nehi ho raha tha tab mere sasurjika ye kahna tha ki mai timepass karne job me jati hu. Mai sirf job hi nehi karti thi, sath me gharke kaamo me sasuma ko help v karti thi kyu ki unko maid rakhna fizool kharcha lagta hai . Kam kamai unke liye kamai na karneki barabar thi to jyada kamaneke liye mai out of state kaam karne lagi hu, to ab unke liye mai ghar samhaal ne wali achi bahu nehi rehi.
@@annipaul91hats off to what you have seen and how you are managing things at your end.
Mine just want to do shopping stuff with her money and not take part in house expenses or savings, two maids daily, no in law living together, can't stand if my mother comes foe few days. Her money is her money and my money is our money.
But bahu ko mentality aisi hai ki apna khud ka ghar lekar alag rahe, par shadi ke time pe aisa nahi batati apni wish....
Mazze....pathi ko na lene athi he,na karane 😂😂😂😂😂
Your sense of humor🔥
All in all, very wholesome and informative!🙏
So damn true , and when my parents say ki shadi k baad karne aisa kaam to mujhe lagta hai jaise pati na ho gya bhagwan ho gya 😢
Sahi kaha..husband ke upar bhoj dal dete hai..fir clash hota hai...then ultimate led to divorce...
Whi to..
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Such a beautiful video....i have grown up watching my sister sacrificing everything to support my family. Love her n now I will give all my time, love, care n happiness to my daughter.
You are doing great job. I am sure. You will change our society.
Beautiful. Thought provoking.Must watch for parents'
जय हो बहुत बढ़िया मार्गदर्शन,आपकी कीर्ति जयवंत रहे
Ye bhot accha btaya. I was also a product of ‘shaadi k bad krna ye sab apne ghar jaa k’
Thankfully, naukri lagi dur ghar se and bahar nikalne ka mauka mila… 4-5 sal saare armaan pure kie and now happily married.
No, 1990's married ladies are working. And even my mother was working. Though profession choice given to them was only teaching by her parents.. but still ladies tried to maintain balance between married life and job. They actually handled double burden.
The double burden is insane. Women are still treated the same way as their mom regardless of their financial achievements. Today, the life of a homemaker and her children is better than the life of a working woman and her kids.
Very true..
@@aishwaryas9229its true, but that needs to change. Being homemaker is not a solution. Be a working mother and keep fighting for your rights at home, and do limited household work. One day things will change for you. If that doesn't happen atleast your daughter/son will know and learn what's right and wrong and will not repeat those things.
@@aishwaryas9229again individualistic experience. I have seen examples of children of working women being more better than the non working one's.
Literacy rate achi hogi
Sir kya bat GURUJI In true sense
Very well exact guidance
Sir u r always absolutely Right
Sir most of the sensible audience fully agrees with you . But I feel women have always been at a disadvantage . GOD has not done justice to women .
Today the girl has lots of challenges because building a career takes time and it directly is in conflict with the biological clock .
So it is obvious one or the other will suffer either family planning or career .
Because it is the woman who only can bear children .
So a woman can’t have it all .
The biggest advantage men have - they don’t have to bear the consequences of a uterus .
So all in all women always are at a disadvantage .
A woman’s biggest strength of child bearing is also her biggest weakness
You have no sense . That is biggest advantage for them to live happy . Men never be satisfy by their work but a women is satisfy by born baby . She find a true love called child . That child give infinite happiness to them . A men never satisfy, no one give pay attention to men , no one get sympathy by men , no men do a true love like a mom can do with child ....
Carrier is not everything , carrier is something . But happines is everything .
It's no disadvantage or no weaknesses .
Men and women are for complement each other , not for competition with each other ....
@@NEETJII or whi bachche jab maa ko puchte tak nhi.. Bhul jaate h career shaadi k baad.. Jinke liye mother etni devoted rhi h... Tab kya kre wo...
@@NEETJIII hate when men justify what woman feels. Kaun si ladki aapke pass aakar boli ki mujhe labour pain mei maza aarha. Just stfu 🙄 and mind your business. Don't justify what how we feel u don't have same hormone as I have .
Rahi baat men ke emotional support ki toh unko hi chul h
" mard ko Dard nhi hota"
" mard rote nhi h " so onn ladkiyo ko koi farak nhi padta tum roo haso gaaao ya marjao kisi ko farak nhi padta. You men made this standard for yourself then who will suffer.
Rahi baat ladkiya toh roo skti h bhai kaunsi duniya Mei jii rhe ho mujhe toh yaad hi nhi last time Kab royi thi Mai apne mummy papa ke samne and hiding tears is common when we grow. Many girls don't cry including me. Aur dosto ke samne toh kabhi bhi nhi royi.
Men are emotionally neglected is the biggest false statement.
Men are emotionally neglected because of the stupid standards of their community is the true statement.
modern women jst want to be coddled without doing any work . kitna death hota hey child birth me?@@ankitamishra0405 men build the civilization you are living in , you cant have you cake and eat it too . koi jabran to shaadi nahi kar raha an, job karo aur akele raho ya affair karo . kisne roka hey. chalo India ka chodo, west me to ye taboo nahi hey na . wahan ki ladies khus hey ??
Thank you🙏
You r doing wonderful work sir
Absolutely right 👍
सर सब parents तो ऐसे नहीं है जो बेटियों को रोक टोक करें. लेकिन बेटियों ki safety कैसे करें. कुछ parents तो zamane को देख कर डरते हैं बेटियों की शादी से. 😢
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Please बताइए कि life partner का nature कैसे judge करेँ selection के वक़्त. आजकल के parents who are born after 70s 80s ये नहीं सोचते कि बच्चे arranged marriage करें या love, but ye zaroor सोचते हैं कि कैसे एक अच्छे nature का life partner mile.
Kai parents बेटियों को घुमाना firaana चाहते हैं पर safety reasons se डरते हैं.
Parents नहीं बेटे बेटी में फर्क़ करते , ब्लकि वो तो बहुत प्यार करते हैं बेटियों से पर फिर भी बेटा इसलिए चाहते हैं क्यूंकि उन्हें बेटियों के लिए हमेशा चिंता लगी रहती है. और शादी के बाद अपने जिगर के टुकड़े को किसी और घर में भेजते हुए bahaut डरते हैं.
हर parent सिर्फ money नहीं देखता शादी में but specially आजकल जब बेटियां bhi independent होती हैं कमा सकती है तो माँ बाप की zyada चिंता लड़के और उसकी family के व्यवहार को लेकर होती.
इसपर zaroor एक वीडियो बनाएं कि अच्छा लड़का in terms of व्यवहार nature behaviour कैसे select karein. कैसे intution itni बढायें कि धोका ना मिले, गलत behaviour ना मिले, ek शांतिपूर्ण वातावरण मिले बेटी को .
I was thinking about this just a few days ago... parents should fulfil the wishes if possible or just let their daughters have some fun... they shouldn't say "do this after marriage, with your husband"
Very good point sir
Can peopl like you encourage women that they should choose. They should be financially independent and live in manner what they like. B4 marrying they can spend reasonable time to understand if the person goes with compatibility or not.
Perfect video !
awesome bro amrishpuri wala punch
Too good
Brilliant vedio
Thanks Sir 🙏
Soo true.. 👌👌👌❤❤🙏🙏
1st vala pat ladko ko liye bhi applicable h
But who does n says these things in today' s times . We the 70' borns must have heard these things( but my parenrs also never said this to me ) . But today we fulfill all the desires of our kids n give them best of evwrything as per our capability ,irrespective of gender. Financial independence is very very imp esp for daughters .
Next video same topic pe,Ladko ke liye banao
Very nice 😊
Good video❤❤❤
So ture..
I worked in walmart to support my husband who wad writing chief engineer exams and he was busy doing extra curricular activities. Lol.
as what.
This has happened to me IRL
Like both things
Very true
9:30...phir simran ka chakkar bhi to chal gya tha... 🤷♀️
Khair, 37 yrs after my parents finally agreed to the fact they wanted a son and therefore took 4 chances... Bad luck...
35 saal pehle tak tha -"tumhe beton ki tarah pala, azaadi di (gaadi dilayi, padhaya etc)
Now they realize-"betiyan kbhi bete ho nhi sakti,
Bade-budhhe theek kehte the ki ladkiyon ko jyada padhana nhi chahiye
Aur naukari to bilkul nhi karani chahiye
Main, 12-15 saal se question kar rahi hoon apne mann mein -"bete ki tarah palna kya hota hai? Agar aap frk nhi karte bete -beti mein to beti ko bete ki tarah palna kyun? Kya gaadi betiyon ko nhi mil sakti? Kya betiyan interest ka education and career pursue nhi kar sakti? Aur phir age beti bete equall hain to 4 kyun? Jb apke colleagues n friends ke 2 hi hain.. Jo apki tarah rural background se bhi aate hain! "
35 saal baad aisa kya jo gya ki parents bete beti ka frk accept kar paaye openly cz, beti ne unki expectations ek limit tk poori kar lene k baad khud k liye kuchh aisa chah liya jo unke preference se match nhi karta ya wo simply beti ki personal life ki choice k saath comfortable nhi hai. N the only reason - log kya kahenge! 🤷♀️
V v true sir…👌👏..bt marriage k naam se hi dr lgta hai ab…
Brilliant vedio
Ladke ka bhi bata do sir , i have a son of 3 yr old boy
5 yrs tak Enjoy Karne do.... Uske baad 18 yrs tak teach him lesson strictly......!!
Dyan doo ladki ke jese uska bii , or sab kaam sikhao ghar ka bii or bahar ka bii slowly slowly . Or society ke about batao thoda.
Bahar ke atmosphere se duur rakho or mobile se bii duur .
@@NEETJII bahar na jaaye Or technology bhi use na kre... Send them to jungle 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
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Career oriented mother ....only sufferer are children.
My mother was working and I havent suffered in anyway. In fact i have seen children of housewife mothers getting spoilt and wrongly pampered. Its a bullshit argument, or i would say another excuse for women not working.
@@nirupamasharma4389exactly
Agar thodi bahot Gulami Wife ki hi karli toh, Wife lookdown nahi karegi kya? Jaise ki "are pichle sunday toh isne ye saara kaam karaaya tha toh aaj bhi time hoga iske paas, bolti hu isse" And once we drop the weapon down it will always be a Danger to our Throat?
Please some1 talk about this with me.
Mujhae maeree maa/mother nae kabhee bhee mahangae Shauq PAALNAE KEE SHIKSHAA NAHEEN DEE! In fact my parents never encouraged me to use perks and privileges that my parents got because of their jobs and rank! I never supported corruption after marriage hence I am my son kicked out the corrupt person(ex husband and father in that order)
I AND MY SON KICKED OUT THE CORRUPT AND CORRUPTED MALE CREATURE(EX HUSBAND ANS EX BIOLOGICAL FATHER IN THAT ORDER)
Not agree to your comments .
I got married in 1978,I worked for 20 years,I am well educated, but I would get up early cook,pack tiffin for my kid ,my husband and me.coming back again would make dinner.There was no swigg6 or zomato at that time.nowadays girls think they are educated and they should do only office work.All my office female friends did their home and office work diligently.if we could do why mot present generation?
@@sheeladeshpande6136 madam I tell you that I am 32 years old still un married i do all household works
🙏 Sir word to word totally disagree this information given by you.
This is first , many of them your content
Although we didn't do this with our daughter. But I agree this happens most of the times mainly with daughter and with son too saying "ki tum apna kamao phir ghoomna firna maze karna" Very relevant topic🎉🎉
Every parent is thinking about the best for the child. What ever the way they are following is a different topic.
सन eighty ninety तक बोलते रहे थे दो दो महीने की छुट्टी पड़ती थी पैरेंट्स को बोलते थे कहीं तो घुमा फिरा लाओ बोलते थे शादी के बाद घूमना। सन तैयीस आ गया है आज तक नहीं हो पाया चूल्हे चोके में ठूँसे पड़े हैं ग़ुलामी अलग कर रहें हैं(u r true)
Excellent as always. Sir, I have one son + one Daughter. Now she is 24 in a corporate at a high position. Son is elder and just married. I have tried to fulfill all their desires like a foreign trip, india max places tour(for both), solo Goa trip with cousins, all with in reach jayaj gagdets etc . Kal kisney dekha hai . We are totally satisfied that we have done our duties at right time. 👌
The good memories actually create a balance account on which basis human being can cope up his/her lowest times. Brene Brown, the American author and psychologist who reaserched vulnerability as couragious thing proved it in her research. We Indian actually never try to create account of happy memories and thats why we succumb easily on unhappiness and bitterness.
Really true many girls were not allowed to wear or travel saying that this you can do in your husband s house. Here girls are taught that way but in reality nothing such happens. Than bitterness comes. And many more things are taught. Good👍👍
I am really thankful to my parents who made us travel and have fun and do whatever we wanted to and learn whatever we desired to.... no expectations from the future husband regarding my wishes
R e guruji aapne to meri jivan ka dukh hi bol diya....
Mere parents pichle 6-7yrs se yehi bol rahe h ki ghumne jayenge puri fmly milke ghumne jayenge.....abhitak m kanhi nhi gyi ghumne except my college trip and town where I work.....
Ab bolte h ki saadi Karlo use baad Pati k sath Jaana.......or wo bhi unke pasand k larke se m saadi karlu.....unhone na Jaana na pucha ki meri icccha kya h.....bas. unhone khud se decide kr liya ki saadi kr deni h meri within 1yr.....
Jaabki m khud kamati hu...
Independent hu.....
Parents bolte h ki....tumhe sirf career ki ajjadi mili h.....baki sab hum decide karenge
Good info. Thanks
Girl before marriage: i want this stuff or want to travel.
Girl' mom: you dont know how much messy our budget is with all expenses, papa is under stress!😢
Girl after marriage: i want this thing for me or house but hubby keep delaying.
Girl's mom: aise thodi hota hai, shaadi ki hai toh zimmedari nibhani padegi. Sab expense kisi bhi nature ke karne padenge. 😅😅
Solution centric video on
Controlled parenting or toxic parenting...
Child's point of view how to get rid of mental stress in this type of situation thankyou for your videos sir
My parents never said this to me but I have heard some people saying this to their daughters. Too many restrictions lead to too many expectations in future.
The topic was well covered. I would like to add that it is important for parents to tell their daughters that do not be dependent on your partner for money or happiness. Be independent and have confidence in one’s own abilities to raise up in life.
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Mera to ek din jhgda hua tha pati se neeche me saas kudi thi to usdin maune gusse me subah ki chai ni bnaai.. Pati ne banaai to unki ma itna emotional hui boli mere bete ko pehli baar chai banana pad raha hai.. Mere raaj me akbhi aisa ni hua.. Maine tirant kaha k dekho ab seekh gye wo.. Kabhi aisa ho to bana k pi lenge.. 😂😂
Ladko ki parvarish me kya kya galti karte hai parents...ye bhi to dekho uncle... Bs gyan batne ldkiyo ke hi mudde par hi kyu aate hai...!!! Purush stree ko jo dega stree uska 10 guna wapas karti hai... Ye apne hi ek video me kaha tha..!! To ye purush ko smjhao phle ki stree ko kya dena hai
While you are absolutely right on expectations and experiences of women married in late 80s and nineties or even earlier who have never had any horizon beyond imdt family life and their consequent frustrations- pl also do a video of why even a large proportion of girls who have had best of edn and degrees since 2010, have also not been able to pursue serious careers or even been able to take up appreciable jobs and continue with them for some length of time and prefer to opt for being 'homemakers' only?.Some one needs to do serious research on what has become of all the cl 10/12 topper girls between 2010 to 2015 of whose achievements we read in newspaper headlines May/ Jun every year?
Overlap an excellent perspective!!
very simple..family of that age days..never want to make.
super women to......just simple independent women.
Yeah you are right
Why would you say 'homemakers' only..? You think that's a very easy job..?
Less job more bias in job… until land unless sufficient jobs are created bias will be there
@@ecocart8836
Guruji has repeatedly said in his numerous videos that being 'homemaker only' can be considered challenging if we are doing the complete span of the job without aid of maids, servants, drivers etc! Are we?
And moreover working women are also home makers and therefore an outside job while being a homemaker also definitely ought to be more challenging then being a homemaker only!!
What say??
Capris tak pehne mein parents rokk-tokk lagaate hain..pressure aisa ki kya in-laws permit krenge..so dont wear that..dont do that
Your clarity of mind is epic. People need to think that way. Life is too simple but I don't know why such straight thoughts don't strike people's minds.
I remember asking my mom that's let's go to kashmir together for a trip this was after my dad passed away and I was in my early 30s, my mothers reply was get married and go with your husband to kashmir, mind you my mother is a educated lady. This statement was so passing off, after that I started backpacking and solo travels because all I wanted to make memories with my mother, while her solution was get married as if it is some golden apple😅 Indian parents can really be regressive at times despite being educated. I am sure she wouldn't say the same if I was her son or a boy!
I have a daughter, now she is at 3 and I'll remember these things.
Jab hmare parents bolte he ki shadi k bad Jana jaha Jana ho to Aisa lagta hei ki pehle to papa ki suno or shadi k bad husband ki. As if meri khud ki choice hi nhi hein.
Husband khud bachche bne rhte h.. Don't expect such high standard.. They are just human not PARMESHWAR.
Very true sir
We must satisfied our daughters if they are happy they'll keep others happy
I completely agree with you..Mom always push me to study and become independent as she don't want me to housewife. .I am now very happy as I know it is very difficult to manage house and become housewife...it is really difficult job... Also she never allowed me to go outside before marriage much.. but got lucky that my husband loves traveling...
sir ko samajh aa gaya hai... ki ACHARYA PRASHANT se compete karne ke liye women ke upar badhiya badhiya bolna padega.... women ki ego massage karni padegi...
aur comments dekho... sab ladkia khush ho gyi...........................subscriber count dekhna ab... koi to note karo..
sahi pakde sir.. haha
pichli video mein rajat sharma ne gali di woman ko... lmao.. aur is video mein daughter upbringing.. subscriber badhane ke liye kuch bhi karega
par ek baat bata dun.. feeling nahi aa rahi jo asal mein ati hai......forced lag raha hai saf saf... mariage pe focus rehta hai to original lagte ho.. par alag se girls pe focus karte ho to forced lagta hai... apna original subscriber bhi ganva doge.. khair uske liye to apke pas content hi nahi bacha.. to nayi audience ke liye banana hi padega.. hmmm ok got it.. lmao.
Yeh aap ne sahi kaha... Jab vo apne ladakiyonko pehela jyada kuch nahi dete ya unke arman poora nahi karte, baad me unko apni bahu agar aaram se rahe ya apni manpasand cheez khareede, toh unko sehen nahi hota.. tab har cheez beti ko bhi milni chahiye aise sochne lagte hai. Aur compare karne lagte hai.
Sir sach bata rahi hu. Rona aa gaya. 🥲🥹
Yeh dono cheeze mere saath hoti h.
Aur aapne kitna exactly bataya h.
I wish meri mummy papa yeh smj paye. 😅
mere se shadi karogi?
I am glad my mother didn't raise me like this...she is working yet runs the household like a superwoman. It should never be a either/or situation. Do you. And let the couple decide the internal arrangements.
Are u bengali? Or from odisha?
In my case it was just opposite , my mother in law was a working woman and I met my wife in my office but the day our relationship became serious she told after marriage I will not work , she wanted to be a housewife
@@parth1511 so what's ur opinion u are comfortable with it or not
@@as-uv2ik i am comfortable as by god grace I have enough ancestral property to secure mine and my kids future and I am not totally dependent on my salary
Mai kv se padhi hu , mujhe papa ne sare Arman pure karne diye life me , meri behen ke bhi har Arman pure kiye papa ne , shadi ke baad ke liye kuch rakha hi ni , so meri expectations kuch high hai hi ni so life easy ho gai hai
Are u bengali?
@@anirbanghosh1670 r u finding a match for yourself 😂😂
@Tanisha Arora are you married
Lucky you.
Behen mere father k pas bahot income thi but mujhe poori life 1 rupya spend karne k liye nahi diya, now I am married earning good and spending money on my hobby playing cricket, touring, biking, gym, protein supplement.
Meri mother in law,to ek bar bata do ki mummi ye aise nahi aise hota h aajkal.... Vo agree ho jati hai.. Theek h kr lo, jese hota h tumhare jamane me... Parents jese hi h sasural wale..
Parents betiyon par koi paisa khrcha nhi chahte ha, sakuch shadi ke baad krne k kiye postpone krte ha, in unrealistic expectations ke sath pati ke sath jaate hain aur issue create hote h.
Daughters are now given free hand and marriages are not in their list at all and forget cultural knowledge parents don't care and happy to see their daughter embracibg western culture and live in relationship
Ye bilkul sahi bola parents ne bol dia kya humari tarah chulha choka karogi to aajkal ki ladkia Ghar hi nahi bethna chahti unhe kitchen ya Ghar ki taraf koi responsibility hi nahi reh gayi.. jab ki ladkio ki padhai ka matlab hota hai next generation yani apne bacho ko shikshit karna naki sirf job se paise kamana.. Karo job lekin Ghar ke regular cheezo ko bojh mat samzho na hi chota Ghar ka kaam bhi chota nahi hai logically ye Survival skills hi to hai.. aana to sab chahiye aur waqt aane par Karo bhi baki job Karo na karo tumhari marzi and same goes to men's also unhe bhi Ghar ke kaam sikhao.. aise itne hi cases hai ki Bahu Ghar ka koi kaam hi nahi karna chahti kyunki maa ne bola tha humari tarah chulha choka 😒 thik hai kitchen mei shayad interest na ho lekin Ghar ke aur kamo mei interest to ho lekin nahi kisi b kaam mei interest na hona matlab?
Boys bhi krste h kaam it's not necessary ki girls hi kre
Same happens in my house bahu has no interest in kitchen work, all maids will do, she only knows earning and taking help of her husband
@@kusumrastogi5672 I am also a Bahu not saas but what is correct is correct Ghar chalana is everybody's input na ki sirf saas na ki sirf Bahu na ki sirf beta sabke apne roles hai agar kuch roles change huee hai aajkal ki generation mei to use aaram se bethkar aaram se divide Karo problem 1 hi hai communication gap baki personal nature to matter karta hi hai Jo kaamchor hai wo rahega
@@kusumrastogi5672 does your beta has interest in kitchen work if both are earning then both should cook
Your time has gone pls don't expect everything from bahu don't be a toxic sas
@@sapnakalra5150 my son equally does housework, as for myself I have been in govt job but took responsibility of house also....with help of maids though, I just expect her not to just take care of her job but share household responsibility too, 😉
I think girls today should expect men to help in the house .. because men expect women to work
Gulami nahi Co- operation hona chahiye ,but dekha gulami jaise hi jata hai,kisi ko bhi kisi ko granted nahi lena chahiye, wife husband ke liye kucchh karti hai to bus ye hamesha ke liye uski hi duty ho jati hai, jab vo na kar paye to irresponsible as if she has done a big blunder ,why all the things(so called duties )so tagged?Today we are expecting women to do great in the outer world but has she been given a freedom from household duties just like a boy was /is given.
Sir can a wife hit husband as per your view
Ladko ki parwarish ke bare me btaye
Very interesting..and good advice 👍
Me who cant even go outside home(door)... 😐
सच कहा आपने, बिना पैर पर खड़े हुए इस जहां में
जिंदा रहना मुमकिन नहीं। एक बार जब उन्हें जो इच्छा हो करने देना चाहिए। मेरी भी एक बेटी है, एक 20का
बेटा है। कभी भी सायकल, बाइक, और 18वर्ष तक गाड़ी भी चलाना आ गया था।अब जब कि उनके पास लाइसेंस, आई कार्ड सब कुछ ठीक हो गया तो , उसने इमरजेंसी होने पर हमें आराम देता है। मेरे पति एक अच्छे गार्जियन साबित हुए हैं। मैं बीच-बीच में टोकती भी थी।
किन्तु स्कूल के तरफ़ से जब भी इन बच्चों का ट्रिप प्लान होता, हमारे दोनों बच्चे अवश्य जाते। और घर का खाना उन्हें बहुत ही पसंद आता। अभी भी दोनों भाई बहन
अच्छे खाने के शौकीन हैं।🙏🤗
Main kya likhoo main bhi yahi sochti hoon jee lo simrans hum khud five sis meri bhi beti hamare mummy papa ke vichaar bhi aapki hi Tarah stay blessed sir
Bilkul sahi kaha aapne.
Sometimes parents can't allow to achieve her dreams forcing to get marriage please don't this with ur daughter please allow to achieve his dreams
Arrange marriage mai boy nai dokha diya boy has ERaction disfunction ,& BTech degree mai bhi complete nahi hai ,he has 4 backs.kya hamai divorce ka decision karna chahiyai.
Es perbhi 1 vidio banayai
Yes. True sir. Daughters deserve much more in life 🤩🤩👌👌👌
Hi Sir. Can you make a video dedicated to married daughter parents who feel finances are males responsibility (because traditional thought) and also other homely duties like kitchen, maids, home care, etc are not female responsibilities (because modern thought). Can you please address this doglapanti in your way. Or if you feel this is correct then please explain that as well. Just in need of clarity life mei shi kya hai.. Thanks.
Make giving birth to children, breastfeeding them and raising a kid male responsibility first... If a woman wants money it is for these hardworks and sacrifices...
@@MB-ux4bb😂😂😂 then take sperm from dog
y u marry when responsibilities nt shared
I am happy that mere parents ne ye sare cheeze papa ne hi fulfill Kiya hai ,
Spitting facts
Good video. More examples can be used. But the idea was conveyed well.
Sir u r amazing i watch all ur videos sir i kindly request u to make videos on 40 plus women who r at the threshold of old age how to keep themselves busy in making acarrer or in short regarding empty nest syndrome .🎉
Start doing something u like most.
Very true..... Housewife's contributes not only to their family but also to the society n their country. But all housewife should be financially independent.