low-dose testosterone Q&A with my partner!
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- Опубліковано 29 січ 2020
- questions discussed/answered:
1. Have you had any negative interactions during this transition? If so, as the kids say, how did you deal with the haters?
2. How does low-dose T impact things in the bedroom?
3. What changes did you like/find attractive from low-dose T?
4. How do you deal with family and/or friends when explaining the trans/non-binary transition?
5. What advice would each of you give to another couple who is undergoing a similar transition?
6. How long have you been together? Any tips on communication? How has this process improved your relationship and communication?
7. As Meg took low-dose T, what emotional changes did you notice for both of you in the process? Details about the progression of emotions would be great!
8. Have your personal values changed and/or strengthened in this process? What do you value in your relationship together?
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I'm so happy you two have each other! It's amazing that you're always bragging about each other and it's very obvious how much you love each other and how solid your relationship is.
I love that stitch thing 👍🏼
bingeing all ur videos about low dose t bc i really wanna start living for me and this is a huge step. family feels like an obstacle but this reminds me it's all a process and journey and to be patient with myself and others including my family
your vids are so so helpful! helped me a lot because i’m planning on going on low dose T soon
You guys give off such good vibes! It's amazing to see people who genuinely love and respect each other so much :) Thank you for the videos that you make, they've been so incredibly helpful!!
I love you you two are equal amounts of corny and so sweet it works 😆
You two just became my favorite UA-cam peeps. This was awesome. Thank you for being real and also sharing so many vulnerable and personal details. This isn’t just helping with transition stuff, this is helping my partner and I wrap our heads around it in a much healthier way than we would have had we not seen this video. Your situation is really comparable. I’m Native American and grew up in the culture. My wife has super religious parents who are extremely kind to me and caring. They treat me like family but than there’s weird and sad things like their religion wouldn’t allow them to come to our marriage. So there are tricky dynamics. I’m non-binary and I love to drum, sing and dance, but what regalia am I suppose to wear and do I sit at the big drum or use the hand drum? We have these gender roles in my culture, although I’m Wabanaki, so our tribes do believe in respecting two-spirited people (in fact that concept is a Wabanaki concept), but we also have like a forced Christian influence, which has caused some toxic gender role influences in some individuals. That part is super sad and really hard to navigate. Also my wife identifies as lesbian and we are struggling with well if I’m in the middle of the gender spectrum, am I still a lesbian? Is she? It hit me that there is literally no way to accurately describe my sexual orientation regarding my spouse, which means I will struggle to feel valid because I don’t even have a language to describe my spouse with. Also I don’t want to be called husband or wife. That leaves spouse, which is fine but feels more in personal for some reason. I don’t even ave a word to describe my sexuality now. My orientation is rigid. I am only attracted to women but I’m not a guy really, so I’m not straight. I’m not exactly a girl so I’m not a lesbian. I’m not bisexual or pan sexual. I have no word for myself, which makes me feel invalid. Also frustrated because why does this have to be so hard? It feels like it should be this hard. My questioning that issue has left my wife questioning hers and it’s not a very good feeling right now and you all have no idea how helpful this was for us. Thank you so much. Sorry that I wrote a book. 😂I’m just super grateful. This could not have had better timing. We have something else in common too, she is in it for the long run. I am so SO lucky and blessed. 🥰She’s just such an amazing person.
I'm so glad you have such an amazing wife and relationship and that you two are still going strong! As for your sexual orientation, have you ever heard of gynesexual? (also known as womasexual) Gynesexual means you're attracted to women and/or femininity. But of course, there is no rush to figure this all out, figure it all out as time goes by. And I completely understand why the term spouse kind of feels off and uncomfortable (inpersonal as you described it), have you tried doing some research to see what other gender-neutral terms people have used for their spouse? I've found that that has helped me out on my gender identity journey. I hope all works out for you!
“I’m very attractive” rofl
Love your videos they’ve helped me a lot :) ❤️
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Big question are you planning on stopping the T at some point, if you stop it what would happend to the Chang es that you have experienced (Im thinking on doing it)
Hello I Started Following Your Journey & I Am Extremely Happy For You & Have Questions . Anyway I Can Reach Out To You Threw Facebook ?!