EX Cop Exposes THIS About MOST Abuse CLAIMS!
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- Опубліковано 21 вер 2024
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False accusations should carry the same sentence as the actual crime supposedly committed.
EXACTLY. That is a fair repercussion because in the end they’re trying to use the law to bully and punish someone unjustly and (for the ones who even thought that far ahead) they think that the possible prison sentence from the false accusation is justifiable.
Well, they think punishing a guy for a crime he didn’t do is fair, then it should be fair that THEY get punished for that exact same crime, which they also didn’t do. (supposedly, since usually they did the crime. Crying “he hit me!” when HE’S the one with bruises.)
@@WorldsTallestLeprechaunyeah how do we inform this into law? Those b*tches need to be punished for lying like this. This will also help the real victims by us taken them serious because they know the punishment for lying is the real crime. Right now women can lie with almost zero consequences Witch is sick!!
It should actually carry double the sentence of the actual crime.
Double.
A false accusation of this nature against me carries the death penalty.
I refuse to “believe all women .”
People don't even believe their own children. So why would anyone "BELIEVE ALLWOMEN"? LOL You should automatically know that this is a trap.
It's stupid to believe anyone based on lack of evidence regardless of their identity. It's a difficult situation but at the end of the day you need to come forward and need to be prepared to evidence it regardless of how difficult it may be or you can't expect people to simply believe you as the world is packed full of liars and grifters unfortunately.
Then you are the problem.
*any
I'm in the bar business...I never did.
Not to mention the domestic abuse against men by women that goes unreported as well.
40% of domestic violence is against men but virtually none are ever reported nor prosecuted.
That's more because of pride. It's "feminine" to be a man, who gets beat by a woman, and needs the police to save them.
Thats because men refuse to push charges
@@evos469 They should and there shouldn't be a reason not to because they would definitely do it to men.
@@evos469no. Men don't file charges because the police and courts are not just predisposed but TRAINED to view the male as the aggressor.
It's called predominant aggressor theory, AKA the Duluth Model. In one case the guy was being abused, he called the cops, they showed up and actually had to tell him that if she hits you again, Leave and don't call them.
The reason given was that if she so much as breaks a nail while beating him, they have to arrest HIM as the aggressor.
Stepdad got accused of molesting his daughter by the mother of the child.
She later admitted to lying and recieved no consequences whatsoever.
Ridiculous
@@jaymenza5196to be fair it's on him to sue for deformation after it, but it should be linked in the first place.
She didnt admit it so to speak, they made them take a lie detector test and found out he was telling the truth and that she was lying, she then admitted to it. Bare in mind.. this was 20+ years later kmt smh
And because there's no consequence,
and the women KNOW there is no consequence,
I refuse to believe any accusation any woman says about any man.
Makes one want to create a 'Dirty Deeds done Dirt Cheap' group
Retired CA cop here. Most DV calls were this: female is slapping the S out of male. The male pushes her away. She calls the cops and he goes to jail.
And you contributed. You need to be jailed next to those women.
The problem for the officers is the women deny any involvement and the men admit it.The DA refuses to file most of these. The officers are also under a department policy/state law that requires an arrest when a party admits to using some type of force.@@ClockworkGearhead
@@ClockworkGearheadoooo tough guy DV calls are also the most dangerous you go in and do better.
@@andrewbennett2044😂😂😂 If the cops know this to be the truth then they arrest the guy(s)....THEY are the problem. Not the women. They are there to see the facts, make judgements, and ensure the outcome is the best... Fantasy, I know. But, knowing the truth and going against it and defending is worse than the lying women in the cases.
@@ClockworkGearhead XD
In my state, if you're arrested and the charges are later dropped, the arrest stays on your record. You have to spend time and money to get it removed. If anyone does a background check they will see the arrest and what it was for. I know a guy that has this happen. He lost his job because of the false SA and all job searches he did resulted in nothing because of the background checks they did. He had to go to court and have a judge sign off to get it removed. False SA ruins men's lives even if they aren't charged.
Same in Norway
These 304s don't care
What state do you live in?
The issue with that is, the prosecutor on the case can enter to have the case expunged from off of your criminal arrest history. They purposely leave it on your history to use against you if you're back in front of them again. But also, your defense attorney can enter an order to have this expunged when the case have been dropped.
Wow thats wild as hell smh
Prison time. They are hardly ever held accountable.
That's the problem!
Let's make it even more simple than that. Whatever the maximum sentence is for the accused would be for that crime, is the same sentence will be put on any and all false accusers.
They should be punished as harshly as the guy, if the accusations were true.
You should hear the excuse a DA gave for why they didn't hold w0m3n accountable for this type of foolishness. In the case where the football player was accused, convicted & went to PRISON for 5 year. The accuser was rewarded millions, then she admitted she lied, so he could go free. When asked, are you going to ask for her settlement money back or hold her accountable/press charges. The DA said, "we don't want to do that because it will encourage other potential victims to NOT come Forward.
They should be charged harsher than the person they make false claims towards would’ve been. They should be charged exactly how that person would’ve, sexual offender registry and all, and then tack on extra time for making it up.
A false accusations caused the death of my best friend as well. He commited suicide weeks before his wedding as well.
@@benweinreich7778 Christians will abandon you because they are identical to the general population. That means they are just as likely to be irrational and unprincipled cowards.
@@benweinreich7778I'm so sorry that happened to you.
Lost my best friend to the same. My heart goes out to you. He was proven innocent in court but the damage was done.
@@ghulcaster my heart goes out to u as well
Had a battle buddy, (Army talk) that went through combat with me but was injured to the point he could barely walk after it was all said and done. Wife decided to cheat and he came home and caught them, his wife out weighted him by about 60lbs and 3 inches ... he was lucky to be 147lbs soaking wet after his injuries.. long story short when he came home and confronted them she and her lover beat him with a bat within an inch of his life... already injured they did so much damage he couldn't walk after months of rehab, and yes no feeling from the waste down. She lied and said he attacked her and her lover who was in his house, then divorced him on the grounds of abuse... she got everything, and he for a time was living in a shelter, couldn't see his kids because she did everything in her power to keep him from having visitation... and the courts allowed it. it wasn't until she finally turned the kids against him that he went to his parents house, got his fathers 45 and did what a broken soul does.. he dealt with her lies, cheating, character assassination, loss of his legs and genitals, he was broke but hopeful.. until she took the last thing that gave his life meaning... the strongest man I know died broken by the lies of his so called (wife)
as a former police officer, I had the same experience with sexual assault cases- the vast majority were false
@@mb9768 The data? I am relaying my experience as an LEO, which matches what Officer Tatum is saying.
@@mb9768 what data, the reported cases? Can you use your brain if you have one?
@@mb9768the data does in fact match it. It's the majority. Has been for decades.
@@mb9768 I'm not one for siding with cops, but I'll believe them and their personal experiences long before I go with data that's often doctored to a high degree to suit agendas.
@@mb9768lol😂.
You don’t understand how records are and often aren’t kept 😂
And for arguments sake, if his entire experience was added to the nationwide dataset, do you really think it would change the statistics 😂
No
It’s not that every woman WILL, it’s that every woman CAN - with no consequences.
An ex had me in jail 3 times over false claims of me hitting her. Never a charge filed. All she has to do is cry and call and your ass is going getting locked up. Funny thing is, she was always the one punching me.
You should have either left after the first time, or recorded it the other times dude... Can't feel sorry for you for letting it happen to you more than once
@@RobotRebelCinema You're 100% right man.
@@floatpool8307 I appreciate that and good on you too for your words and your work. Happy to report I'm seeing a wonderful woman and treat her like a princess every day.
I'm sure you have all kinds of stories working in county as a nurse. I can only imagine haha
After the first time she gotten you locked up and you went back to her it's all your fault for whatever happens to you.
@@spankbuda3769 100 my man. When you stop dressing for the date and start dressing for jail it's a red flag lol I fell for it because afterward you start thinking we learned from it and can move on. But that is thinking the other person has learned and is on the same level as you. That's really why it happens again. Know when to hold em know when to fold em.
This happened to me. 16 years of marriage. I'm a disabled Vet. She wanted to be a cosmetologist. Put her into school with my vet benefits. She started hanging out with these younger "independent women," and suddenly she's telling me she wants a divorce and making all kinds of false claims about me being "abusive." Playing victim, no evidence to show, but everyone just believes her cause she's a woman.
exact same thing happened to me. except it was chemical engineering and she started hanging out with far left liberals. Suddenly in her final semester, we are 2 different people, she doesnt love me anymore. 2 weeks after she walked out shes living with her boyfriend. then less than a month later, every call i get is asking for something or breaks down into her telling me some new way I was abusive that doesn't make any sense.
Same here. Women have no real personality of their own. Every girl I've ever dated, turned entirely into a completely different person every time they found a different job or made a new friend. It's fucking crazy.
I am sorry that has happened to you and prayers that God lifts you up like he had done for Joseph in Yeshua's name amen.
As a woman that actually suffered from S.A. the false accusers really anger me and disgust me for so many reasons......to me lying about S.A. is just as evil as ppl who have committed S.A. and being lied on about S.A. is just as traumatizing as being a real victim of S.A.
@@KCville6324Same prayers for you and I'm sorry that that has happened to you.
Thank you for your service, DarkHorse.
My Pop was in the 82nd. 🇺🇸
These women need to be held legally accountable for reporting false crimes, or they'll continue this bs and ruin mens' lives. Falesly reporting something as serious as this should result in a felony charge.
One of his accusers caught felony fraud charges
@@UpsidedownC it's not enough
@Lorddurango i never said that, atleast she'll face some accountability hopefully
Yes. I think that if a woman falsely accuses you, she should be charged with the same crime that she accuses the person of.
Right? There are laws on the books for falsifying police reports and your emotional state has nothing to do with it. All a cop has to do is give a shit and do their job correctly.
Bottom line: Women are not forced to take responsibility for their actions.
And once they have to claims would crash to the ground.
And of course, the woman who did false allegations against the mlb Player will get 0 consequences as usual.
And a 300k pay day
@@UpsidedownC wow
Go go check the updating news for the MLB player. The woman has been charged with felony fraud and is facing 16 years in prison
@dreamcity6780 that was the second one. After he cleared his name from the first one which was a white girl, the second one a black chic asked him for 3.6 million dollars and when he didnt, she said he assaulted her. After he cleared that one, she got charged with fraud and is facing 16 years but she will do zero time.
@dreamcity6780 lol yeah right she will get 6 months if that.
a wiser man once told me that: women lie TO hurt you, but men will tell you the truth even though it MIGHT hurt you....
I have never met an honest man in 60 years
@@Jamie-h8f6othats a lie
@@Jamie-h8f6oSounds like you're choosing the wrong men and are not paying any mind to a honest man. 60 years and not once? Do you live under a rock? I have dozens of good honest men & women in my family alone, got more I know as friends.
@user-oh1lo8py9i weird that your other comments are only bashing women (to blend in with what you think we want) on a burner account... try harder next time lady. Or at least be honest to yourself if you want to cast that stone 😂
@@Jamie-h8f6o Honest men are invisible to you.
And people are out here trying to say these podcasts are useless. Smh, you won't get this level of honesty about female behaviour anywhere else
The people who say these podcasts are "useless" are the ones with a vested interest in keeping men ignorant of this stuff.
my bf knows a homeless guy who was murdered bc a girl skipped school and was w a guy and didnt want to get caught and blamed the homeless guy....they put him in county and the inmates threw him over the tier and then she admitted she lied and nothing happened to her for his death which is BS
When i was 18 i had a false claim against me. Took it all the way to trial. Her story was such BS that i didnt need to testify at all and got not guilty on all counts. Women that make false claims need to do the time the man would have if convicted assuming it is proven that its false.
Honestly they should get that and plus a additional 5 years on top of that
the time in jail is one thing but what about wrecking his live and future how do you compensate for that, once done near on impossible to mitigate the damage.
I saw a false SA situation play out in public school. A middle school kid wanted to get back at one of her teachers for failing her. She accused him of SA and the police got involved. During the investigation she confessed. Also, another teacher came forward to say he had heard her planning it out but didn't know who and what she was talking about at the time. It was all kept very quiet and the teacher was ok. But, the kid was never punished. The reason being - if the kid was punished the reason for the punishment would have to come out and the teacher would have been tarnished by just the false accusation.
I wouldn’t be surprised if she went on to do it again seeing as she got away with it. It probably just emboldened her to do it again, but not talk about it with anyone else beforehand.
@ravenzyblack sorry for admiring... it's just rare to see a modern woman display such a level of empathy
Yep. Girls learn very young that they can use these tactics and get away with it. They go on to grow up and do it again.
@@rekrn12345 to be fair.. they're taught they can. Why would they or anyone be better than they have to be
20 years in the military showed me that this is rampant and a huge issue.
Yep. And the way they're rewriting the UCMJ and making administrative separation mandatory is gonna make it a hell of a lot worse. Especially since now they can also file for VA disability benefits as a "survivor." At an administrative separation proceeding, if they don't want to testify, you have no right to cross examine. You're arguing against a piece of paper saying you did it. This is going to also be true now for sexual harassment claims. Mandatory separation if there's a 51% chance others believe you did it.
The military is gonna have to use a draft, because men are going to avoid joining like the damn plague.
Not even in the most draconian of patriarchies were the words "believe all men" ever uttered in seriousness.
There is something uniquely insidious about feminism.
There is something uniquely evil about it:
*Its roots*
(Its roots lie in Marxist ideology)
3rd & 4th wave feminism is a grotesque lie. These podcasts illustrate women tying themselves in pretzels to justify the irrational. They are incompatible with good men.
because most men are virtuous and moral by nature... and good men can always check the bad apples... something which women aren't equipped to do
Years ago a friend was going through a divorce. His soon to be ex-confronted him in an apartment parking lot. Lot. She started slapping him over and over until he was bleeding. He didn’t raise a finger. Cops get there and he gets arrested. He asks the cop why when he was the one assaulted. Cop said doesn’t matter the guy is the one going to jail. This was 24 years ago, so hopefully it has changed but doesn’t sound like it.
its exactly the same still, if not worse... Same situation happened to me, i had scratches all over my face and nothing on her, yet the cops arrested me and the whole court system without any evidence, found that I was guilty.
I was accused of harassment because I tried to ask a college out, almost lost my six figure job. Never again, never again
dating a whole collage might be a little over the top so...
@@davidliefrink9818 colleague lol
A college? As in the building? Or do you mean colleague?
@@davidliefrink9818collage or college?
Stop putting women on pedestals! Either pay her for her time, or she’s benefiting you somehow.
These women are not even worth asking out let alone, a number.
Why can’t you guys learn, these women now a days are more trouble than anything??
You’ve been warned!
My uncle spent 2 years in prison due to a false allegation from his step daughter. He was strict and disciplinarian type from when he had first married her mother (she was 13yr) she vowed to get him back. The other sister actually turned her in after she realized she kept switching her story and things didn't make sense. My uncle was let out after this was brought to light and taken to court. Nothing happened to her at all because she was 17 when she made the claim and even though she was 19 before he was put in prison, she was protected by the young offenders act. He had to fight to get his named removed from the sex offender registry even after being found innocent.
He lost his business, his marriage and a number of friends, nothing happened to her at all and she basically laughed it off after the the fact. Honestly I think she should have been tried as an adult and at the very least be charged for perjury.
Never be a step-father....... no matter how hot the single mom - use your logocal brain guys.
These false accusations is the reason why so many real victims get ignored because of this.
Look at the accusations with the Tate brothers for example. The 2 women who accused them of sex slavery were out having fun on another yacht a day later or so. Their text messages were found and the girls were having fun with the problem they caused.
This happens to loads of men where they've been accused of something and lose their life's work.
The real victims are the men of today. Not the “maybe” women of tomorrow.
Real victims are the men
To be fair though the tate brothers are no angels. Both are self proclaimed pimps and serial scam artists
Tate is maybe a bad example as he fully admitted to abusing women on video in different ways. With that low morals barre who knows if he really did SA someone. You cant rule it out.
You really did choose the worst possible person to make this point
If this is the truth why are women not held accountable and thrown in jail for all of these false aligations? This is crazy, why does a man deserve to goto jail because a woman is embarrassed or regrets her bad choice?
Because they make up the majority of the population, aka voting base.
Women have a strong ingroup bias while men have mild outgroup bias. So when both men and women vote who do you think the laws will favour?
Because there is not a direct law or felony against it the most they could get is filing a false report which isn’t really that high of an offense compared to what the guy is accused of. If it was made a high level felony then these would stop
Yes, not to mention, the man has to file a different case of false accusations. Like the previous person said, you have to pay for it be out thousands of dollars and the results are minimal.
Because a man in prison can be used for cheap labor, and have his voting privileges revoked.
If false accuser women would get the same prison time that her allegations carry, these false claims would drop drastically!
It happened to me because she felt guilty after some girls called her a 304. I had two witnesses that countered her claim before she confessed but I was nearly expelled from college over a study session that turned physical…
A simple rule I have; "If a woman is crying, chances are she is lying".
Some? Most women who file for sole custody falsely accuse men of either $exual or physical abvse against them or their child to get the father out of the house yet still pay for it and their lifestyle.
You know the stereotype that cops never took domestic violence seriously or believed the woman back in the old days? There was a reason for that.
The woman who cheated on her boyfriend and claimed she was sexually abused when the boyfriend came home. As a bouncer, this is why we dont let guys and girls in the bathroom at the club i work at. A guy was looking for his girlfriend and went up stairs and down stairs looking for her. He was waiting at the bathroom line and saw his girlfriend come out with another guy. The girl sees her boyfriend and starts crying, saying that she was taken advantage of. The guy is about to beat this guy up, and we had to separate them. We looked at the camera and saw the girl was the one who dragged the guy to the bathroom. The current consent laws also can give women who cheat on their boyfriend an out. They can go well i was drunk, i was taken advantaged of. By law when a woman has a mind altering substance, she can not give consent. Its up to a stranger, usually a man to determine consent. Some Women use this to avoid accountability if they are caught cheating. Mind you if that same woman was drinking and decided to drive she would get arrested with a DUI. My body my choice until i drink. Meanwhile if both the man and woman drinks the man is still held accountable.
Exactly. These laws are discriminatory against men and repugnant.
My Ex wife falsely accused me of “pinning her down on the couch”, in 2012, while I was in the military. The military required us to do marriage counseling. No charges were pressed. My record is as clean as a whistle.
Fast forward to today: I now have a doctorate degree in physical therapy. I applied for my license to practice in my state 5 months ago. They’re giving me sh*t from the false allegation. For reference, it took my classmates 4-6 weeks to receive their license. Absurd.
You can get a copy of all military criminal investigations through a Freedom of Information Act (FOIA) request. You can get a copy of your criminal record via request through the FBI as they run the National Criminal Information Center (NCIC). If as you say it played out, find who is the person in charge of the license and forward them copies of the Report of Investigation and the NCIC Rap sheet. It should clear up anything if thats what holding the license up.
@@seanmtactical6069 Thanks. I’ve actually done the FOIA request already. The state received it over 90 days ago. They rarely respond to my emails.
They did tell me they’d look at it in March. Then sometime after they responded to me and said something along the lines of, “Sorry, we were unable to get to your application during our meeting.”
Dude, it’s tough. Jobless, waiting for a license. Literally the last thing keeping me from moving up in this world.
There isn’t any true recourse to regain one’s reputation after a false allegation.
Nope..just unaliving... That's the harsh truth watch the unaliving rate go up it's right now MGTOW and when we have had enough of MGTOW and women try ruin that little last peace it brings we will take the unaliving ourselves option and be finally at peace I been through it and still am going through court systems fighting since 2021 don't have much more left in the tank but when it runs out...well...🎉🎉🎉
Drunk sex should be treated the same way as drunk driving - You put yourself behind the wheel (or in bed), you are responsible for your own actions.
Nope. 304s need to protect their 'virtue'.
Seriously tho, the law is blatantly misandrist and hypocritical. It's repugnant.
Notice, none of the women paused and stopped to think about the fact he said his sergeant worked in that department for 20 years and had NO legit cases?
He even said himself he only had TWO cases that were legit.
These women are evil.
Almost all accusations are false, yet they refuse to prosecute false reporting. He is totally right!
I had this happen to a neighbor. He was cheating on her and she found out by going through his phone without permission while he was blackout drunk one night. She ended up going to the police the next day and filing a police report that said he beat and sexually assaulted her while drunk. It messed his life up pretty bad.
"Believe all women."
What happen after. I want to know
No consequences for women
Whilst I don't condone what she did.... He shouldn't have allowed himself to be put in that position by getting black out drunk. Got to protect yourself!
How malicious of her.....God, women are evil
Happened to my buddy during his divorce. He got walked through his house by cops in front of his kids. Was allowed to get one bag of clothing and forced to leave. In a few weeks she had a new man living in his house that he still had to pay for. The one good thing that came at the very end of the divorce was she was forced to pay him $30k for false claims of abuse and other false claims. But he still has to pay her $3k a month for 4 years so I don't know how much of a win that really is.
It’s a win, all right.
do the math it is not even close to a win.
Rarely prison time for these false allegations and no punishment for paternity fraud
This is partly the fault of the courts because when it comes to claims of abuse or assault, the woman is automatically believed and the man is guilty until he can prove his innocence. Meanwhile the man's life is ruined and no consequences for the woman when it is proven she lied.
I've been falsely accused by a woman and had to fight for my life. It was worse than being in combat. Thank God, I was able to prevail, but it still put me through hell.
There's the old joke about the difference between men and women lying: Man lying, "Working late honey", when he's going to watch the game with his friends. Woman lying, "It's your baby".
Yet in every comment section or podcast. When they ask how many women by show have hands have been 'SA'd'.....either EVERY SINGLE WOMAN raises their hands or almost all do.
Im sorry but its nonsense. All these women claim they been SA'd yet they all also sit and call these lying women awful. When they themselves are also lying. Its just not staristicaly possible for all of these women to have had this happen to them. It doesnt make sense. They are exagerating or out right lying. And its disgusting.
They want to be victims. It gives them attention and it gives them some form of validation. They get to look "So brave" and "so strong" for continuing on while have had this happen to them.
Its teally pathetic. Which is one of the reasons i beiieve most women lie. And lie about egregious things too. And dont even think twice about it.
Indoctrination is what you observed when [nearly] every single woman claimed it happened to her. Remember, the Feminist agenda has been redefining what that charge means so broadly that almost anything a man does makes him guilty.
Hey they are telling their truth. Being stared at counts as SA nowadays
@@paulshaw3907 ah yes....I forgot about that. Being cat called as well....also SA. These poor, brave, strong women are so brave and strong.
@@mr.fettesq.7705 It's almost as if, giving a group of people full voting and personal rights, and then never holding them accountable or asking for a meaningful contribution to society, for about a 100 years, was probably a bad idea.
@@Kemachrisyou may be onto something. Why have so many different cultures made sure their women didn't get involved in politics/ war etc. It's likely because this kind of thing has happened before where women get a little power/freedom and completely go wild. Because keep in mind. Many of these cultures haven't had contact or know of each other but 90%+ of them all made sure their women didn't have too much power. I think some women are inherently bad
• Also... with women they LOVE to blurr the lines on what Abuse is.... I literally seen a woman today claim that if a man drives his car too fast for her liking, if she's uncomfortable with how he drives behind the wheel, that's Domestic Abuse & he's abusing her
Women's definitions of Abuse CONSTANTLY CONSTANTLY CONSTANTLY change
Yep. I've also noticed they use the term "creepy" or "took advantage of me." They use nonspecific words that have no immediately discernable meaning. They want to make the implication of abuse without saying it directly.
This is why you shouldn't believe women (or men). Believe the freaking evidence. Ask for it. If you have the gumption to levy such a serious accusation, you don't get to hide behind vagaries and ambiguous statements. You get the facts of what happened and lock down their story so they don't get to change it.
This crap boils my blood.
if he is doing that as a way to intimidate or control her in any way, it is abusive behaviour. the intent is key
@@nickgrandy6924 how does anyone know what his intent is?
@@machupikachu1085 Through investigation you can uncover what his motivations might be. You can never truly know, but when you see patterns of coercive behaviours then it may reveal an underlying intention to control.
My grandma when really upset especially if you won't let her do something that she shouldn't be. She'll put her arm towards you then if you try to block her She'll touch your arm with her arm then say that you hit her first, blah blah blah
A friend of mine got caught with a girl going down on him in school. We were all about 17 at the time. My boy had to do 3 years & register as a sex offender for the rest of his life because the girl was embarrassed & didn’t want to be known as a whore.
My school newspaper looked into this (small religious college, small town) and they said that the nurses at the local hospital are convinced that the vast majority of claims they hear are legit while the police concluded that almost none of the claims they handle are legit.
The nurses only hear one side of it. They don't have to talk to other people and witnesses. Now here's the real controversial one absolutely no one talks about because it is truly taboo. False claims of child abuse from hospitals. They see an injury or history of injuries and think one thing so report it. Police look into it and it turns out that kid is just physically daring and active. We used to see broken arms and think a kid fell out of a tree. Rib injuries were bike accidents. Now a kid racking up injuries are abuse. Got a friend with a kid who's a skater, she's actually really good but has put up an impressive tally of injuries for her age. She's on the high side of Gen X numbers, I'm kinda in awe of her keeping with it. I've seen that girl with her arm in a sling and still on a board. I've watched her practice a trick over and over, one bad mess up when trying to get it, land rib first into the wheels, walk it off, and try again. They had to go through picture evidence showing what was going on, which is a saving grace of this, everyone takes photos now days.
Yeah because the nurses don't see the other half of the investigation. They don't recognize the patterns etc because they are not investigators.
@@halycon404 Oh yeah. Something similar happened to my dad. When I was 2 I was brought into the doctors for a lot of bruising.
And someone reported my dad for physical abuse. Turned out I had a blood disorder. And I bruised at the slightest touch.
My immune system was attacking my red blood cells. Itp. I was in the hospital for a couple of weeks and had to have a full blood transfusion.
Because of the blood disorder the charges were dismissed. But because My dad being charged for abuse I think it made him hesitant to bring me to the hospital in the future.
There's also the factor of women being afraid to report to the police because of how an abuser might respond. Nurses may seem to be a safer place for them to share what happened to them. Also majority of police offiers are men and abused women tend to have a distrust for men in authority. There are other angles to this
I recall it was sometime in the 90s that they stopped making the statistics for false allegations available to the public because the ratio of false to legitimate was so heavily skewed nobody was taking allegations seriously enough to take them to court.
Real victims are usually too afraid or psychologically harmed to report. (Speaking from experience.) This is why I don’t believe the woman accusing DJT who talked in an interview about how grape was “sexy.” No woman who has experienced grape would call it that. Horrifying
Amen. I felt the same way with the Amber Heard trial. She was describing what the carpet smelled like, the color, how dirty it was, etc… Anyone who has been the victims of DV doesn’t remember any of that. When I was being thrown in the floor by my neck all I could think of was how much it hurt and how scared I was. The minute she started talking I screamed LIAR at the screen.
Notice how quiet those women are, they Know they can get away with stuff like that & some probably have.
Told my buddies not to sleep with a chick that had herpes. She lost it...had me arrested for vehicular assault, chasing her, and terrorizing her. I spent 36 days in remand waiting for court....I lost my job, home, truck, belongings, clothes, dog, and 36 days of my life. Fortunately, the date she picked for my "attack" was the same day my truck was in the shop overnight getting fixed, and could prove it in court. The case was thrown out, and NOTHING happened to her. My entire life destroyed....she walked out laughing.
Someone called the cops after my elderly neighbor went out in the rain to give an umbrella to a little kid walking home from elementary school in the rain. The cops showed up at his house.
That's just plain ignorant. That elderly person was just helping out
And men are still Persecuted and lives ruined publicly over false claims. Law needs to be passed to keep it quiet until it’s proven false
Or true. False accusations need to hold mandatory 5+ years prison time and restitution to the victim and registration as a person who does this to protect partners
I was arrested in 05 for DV, I was covered in blood and she didn't have a mark on her. She just beat me to the phone. Thankfully charges were thrown out but not before the Army reserve had started outprocessing me and i would've lost all my VA benefits, lost my civilian job, money spent on attorneys and I had to move towns because she was a well known bartender.
My friends Air Force career was ruined 4 years from retirement because of a false accusation. Their were witnesses and it was the woman's bf that made the report. It's so hard to build a life and so easy to destroy one.
As a direct result of the "Believe All Women" campaign, I believe NO women!
Back in high school this happened to a girl where she said she was SA by the gas utility man. It was completely false but so many innocent men were accused. It was later revealed she was lying but several men were accused before that happened. Don’t believe them.
Before we started having body cams and especially backseat cams women used to actually hurt themselves and try to claim either us or their spouse/partner did it.
I was accused of SA by some chick at the gym, told the receptionist to find any video of me even talking to anyone. The woman who made that claim still gets to go to the same gym, and i get side eyed whenever i walk in there
I've literally heard women say that women have no reason to lie about an SA. And that's absurd. People in general will lie about everything, especially if they're going to be called to the mat to account for themselves.
I spent the last 9 months waiting on the outcome of a false MeToo accusation from a Soldier in my unit. I got cleared, but she'll not face any negative effects. I, on the other hand, have to transfer to a new brigade and hope this shit doesn't affect me too negatively, because I'll still have to explain it to new commanders if it follows me.
If you make the claim in the military, you get a paycheck from the VA for life. They get to change bases. Pretty much the moon on a string. And prior false accusations aren't something a newly accused person gets to bring up in a courts-martial anymore.
The military is woke and screwed. I am so glad I left.
Happened to a guy real close here. She cheated on her boyfriend at a party, she tells boyfriend he raped her, boyfriend goes to guys apartment and kills him with a shotgun. Police catch boyfriend, she admits she lied to not get caught cheating, Boyfriend goes to jail for 20 years and she walks away.
She should have been given the longer sentence for instigating the entire thing.
Yep. Happens a lot. One guy in England was burned alive on his front lawn for false accusations. Another in the UK was falsely accused and deleted himself. A year after his death, on the anniversary, his mother deleted herself. The daughter almost did too, but didn't want her dad to suffer more deletion.
What's worse than women making false allegations is the people that punish the men before he is found guilty! What happened to innocent until proven guilty? That man should never have lost his contract!
Id rather ask a man for his hurtful truth. Than to ask a woman for her graceful lie.
I was a correctional officer, And I tell these women lay all the time. At front of the jail we had the commissioners office were the public can file charges, protection orders and pay bonds. It use to be if you to charges someone for assault you to show injuries and doctors notes. Later on the stop asking for proof. I seen women walk in like their about hit the club and get their man locked up.
If a guy calls the police on a woman that she assaulted him, many cops laugh the whole time they are taking the report. So much goes unreported
Men need to understand that the only tactic most people have against us is shaming. Once you tune it out, you are free. Don't give them a pass. If she hits you, get it on film and charge her. Who cares if the cops laugh? Look them in the eye and ask how they would feel being locked up for a false allegation? Theyll clam up real quick.
Oh it's even worse than that. The Duluth model requires that the male be assumed to be the aggressor regardless of who makes the call. He is to be removed from the premises "for everyone's safety".
We have a friend who , as a detective sergeant took command of the SA unit in a notoriously underpriviledged and high crime area in this country and was astounded that in her first 6 months in that unit 100% of the complaints they received were false . A very large proportion were drunken / out of it hookups that were found out by husband/boyfriend and instantly became assault accusations or " Good girls " from strict religious backgrounds who were caught out by lack of sex-education .
In India for example 75% of the claims of sa are false the women are just being loose and dont want to deal with the consequences from their family.
Maybe "honor killings" have something to do with it.
it's 90%+, not 75%...
It’s more than unfortunate. It’s a crime and should be prosecuted.
Yeah, the allowance of false accusations like this is destroying a ton of lives, and society as a whole.
I had a friend in the military that he slept with a woman that he met at a bar. Next thing he got SA charges filed on him. I had to take him to get in to get interviewed and lie detector test done. It was all because her husband found out about it.
My ex wife made false allegations of RAP against me while we were in divorce mediation in an attempt to extort more money out of me. I still find it hard to believe that I was married to someone who could do something like that
False accusations are disgusting
When me and my ex were splitting up, she accused me of all kinds of false crap just to get me kicked out of my own house. She just didn’t want to split the house sale profit 50/50. It worked too. Beeatch
Mine too dude - she got 60% and I didn’t see my kids for 10 months - they are pure evil
@@tuxtux1424 Evil is being raised by one who let's you sit in public and starve for 2 hours while telling you they're "on their way" but you can't complain because you know what the night will look like if you do. So you stay quiet so your brother can have mcdonald's and peace after a hard day of playing
Me too.
UA-cam doesn't want my comment supporting you to stay up because it supports a man
Okay, I like this new guy on the show. Seems good faith and gives facts.
Why do you think he's telling the truth? 99% of all accusations are lies? I think he's exaggerating personally.
@@RainesJade nah man i live in AZ and did security work/law enforcement at apartment complex's. And never had a case of DV that was actually the man at fault. Called up co-workers to see if they were having the same experience 100% say that females falsely accusing men for DV or domestic disputes are extremely common. Its because of AZ law only the man gets arrested. Which bars men from calling the cops and incintivises women to call and make all kind of shit up. Had to stack up on the door for that shit several times. not once in 2 years was the dude at fault. Officer tatum was a tuscon cop and i worked in phoenix,glendale,scottsdale area. thats up 3-4 calls a night. The only time a female got arrested by the cop on a DV was when she start fighting the cops. Then she laid in the back seat of one of their SuV intercepters and tried kicking the side windows out while cuffed.
@@RainesJadeYou're not cynical enough about women.
@@RainesJade he said that in his experience, calm down redditor
His name is Brandon Tatum. He has a good political channel. Definitely worth a listen
My ex told me she was r-worded. She got black-out drunk and woke up next to a guy. She left without talking to him and didn't even know if anything happened, but reported it to the school as a r-word.
Im one of those women who went through a 5 year relationship afraid to report becuase I thought I wouldnt be believed..after i had enough evidence for the last beating i went through i went to the police. It took me having bruises all over my body to get him but all i got was order of protection. He still gets to walk free becuase he disnt have a history of this. I went through therapy and everything, and to this day, sometimes im upset with myself for waiting so long..if i had just reported the first time i would have hopefully been believed. But i kept looking at other women who lie and have amazing men while i stayed quiet with a terrible one. My hatred for these women boils my blood. I hate liars..
Why did you stay with someone who abused you regularly?
@iykeharrison9161 Because I was convinced that if I fought back then it wasn't abuse it was a couples tussle. I am where I am now to know that it wasn't the case. The old school notion of keeping your business to yourself was a huge factor into why I didn't say anything. Plus the me too movement was around but I didn't have much evidence to prove he physically hurt me. The last time I was beaten he finally left voice messages that confessed to him doing it and even saying that "you deserved more". It all depends on your state or things won't really go forward. Everyone else's case is different. I have already dealt with the fact that I stayed for so long which I replace the fear of regret to being thankful that I'm still alive and able to see another day.
@iykeharrison9161 also, thank you for not speaking to me in a belittling tone.
@aichan95 I didn't ask why you didn't fight back. I asked why you stayed with someone who constantly abused you. Why didn't you leave?
@iykeharrison9161 it was in my answer. I also thought things would get back to the way it was when we were first together. He was kind, took care of me, I didn't have to work he gave me money just because even though I'm not the type to take it for doing nothing. He had a good job and home too. Then he lost his job, car, home and I felt it wrong to abandon him after that. He made it seem like things would get better and I was supporting him and being patient. One day he got angry and attacked me. He later told me he was just frustrated about all that's going on and said it would never happen again. Thus, the cycle began.
If on a jury, I'd never vote to convict any man without actual evidence (video and/or audio evidence that clearly proves guilt by admission or recording of the act on surveillance cameras). Anyone can say anything about anybody, that doesn't make it true.
There needs to be a false accuser registry and the ones guilty of it deserve the maximum possible sentence that the wrongly accused could have got, plus reimburse them for any financial losses, including paying an entire career's worth of income if it prevents them from working in their current field again.
The main problem is that in society, women are mostly treated as children with no consequences for their actions and are allowed to ruin many people's lives.
Im with you!!!!
“False accuser registry”….. perfect. They have to “register” every time they move. Guys would tell their friends, I saw you talking with that woman over at 1632. Watch out, she’s on the list “
It's not some women it's most women.
False allegations have real consequences for the accused every time
Things are going to get bad if this keeps up.
Guys will start taking lives of those who accuse them of things like that.
Better to do life than to have your life ruined
Um what?
It’s like the old parental saying, “keep crying for no reason and I’ll give you a reason”
@Julia Don't play dumb. If a man is accused of something he didn't do, and he doesn't have control over his emotions to handle it the right way, what do you think his reaction will be? "Well, my life is over anyways, so....". Guess what comes next? That woman who accused him mysteriously disappears. Men who feel they have nothing left to lose often want to take the people who wronged them down with them. And as usual, real victims of SA will suffer more.
When I was 16 (22 years go now) one of my female friends tried to pin a preexisting condition on me after she fell and hit her head during some play fighting that she initiated. Her family tried to sue me for 750,000. Her best friend switched sides halfway through the trial and became one of my wintesses. The jury found me ZERO percent negligent, awarded her no money and suddenly she was dropping out of the private CHRISTIAN college she was supposed to go to the next semester and sold the El Camino she bought just a few months prior. I still have not forgiven her for putting me through that, not sure I ever will, and not sure I'll ever really trust females because of it. Rachel, if you ever read this, I'm still waiting for that apology!
I got arrested for dv in Cali for telling a person to not to drive the car high. Was exonerate but still punished for it
The crazy part is even after everything was revealed, Trevor was still thought of as a pervert because of the style of intercourse
Because women are, in actual reality, a massive liability for men it's impossible to see men the same way after they've been taken by a woman in ways they could have prevented.
Look at " these things" listen !! They know they have done that or know at least someone whos has done that !!!!
spot on
Former cop - I had the same experience in terms of the vast majority are either totally fabricated or so exaggerated and twisted when reported that you can call it fake. It’s rampant.
The metoo movement made me not believe any women.
Same. And I even have a close family member who really was SA'd (evidence, witnesses, the whole 9, she really was victimized). But I just assume it's a lie now until I see evidence from them.
That's horrible. I feel bad for the woman living in nightmare situations with someone abusing them and gaslighting them constantly only to bring it to the light for a person like you to assume they're lying about it. You need to wake up and think about that fact that there are TRULY countless women who actually are being abused, and you're sitting here judging them and assuming it is false immediately. We need to hear women out and take them at face value, do a proper investigation and figure out what's going on. Not just assume she's lying. It's ridiculous.
This is the main reason I will be single forever. There are definitely other ones but this is a big one.
I hear you my brother.
A friend of mine was falsely accused of sa because the girl had a boyfriend and didn’t wanna come off as a hoe. But obviously was one. Shame on her
I spent 10 weeks in jail in 2022 without bail because of this. I'm still getting rejected from jobs even though I've cleaned multiple background checks.
Women that do that should b jailed for life
All women should be jailed for life
Back in 1993 I was wrongfully accused while I was a senior in High School. That girl completely destroyed my reputation. She attacked me because I found out she had been cheating on me for years. She ripped my hair out, scratched my face open, was punching me- she wouldn't stop (she did things like this very often leading up to this final instance) So, I smacked her across the face. Next thing I know she ran out of my house saying that I beat her and threw her down a flight of stairs.
She was a rich girl so naturally she had a cell phone. She called all of her friends and told them I beat her and threw her down a flight of stairs. My reputation was completely destroyed. No one believed me that what happened was self-defense. She didn't even have a single mark on her and people believed that I beat her and threw her down the stairs.
I am so grateful that there was no internet back then. My life would still be destroyed over it if there had been. Sadly, to this day I avoid people from my High School. It's better to be safe than sorry.
Sometimes family members are in on it too just to make the allegation seem more creditable.
EXACTLY!!!!! Thats what happened to me. Complete betrayal
As a former veteran cop, I just had a conversation about this very thing, plus false DV claims, with a retired United States Air Force Office of Special Investigations (OSI) agent today.
OSI perpetuates a lot of this. Fortunately (or maybe unfortunately-- we will see), independent investigators are taking over.
They say what they want is equality but what they got is the right to never lose credibility and claim flase vitcimhood. The American woman is the most privileged being on earth and its time to enact false accusation laws and put women who do this in prison for the exact aame amount of time that the accused would get.
I've seen a dozen times where girls falsely accused guys. I've never seen 1 where I was 100% sure it was true. Maybe 1% of the the victims can't be a proven liar
"Young *College* Girls"
You heard it here: our 'best and brightest' feel entitled to lie their way out of trouble, even when it throws good men under the bus.
There are therapists who encourage women to make false accusations.
Tatum avoided the other reason...malice. Back in 2018 five teen girls made false allegation against a boy simply because they didn't like him.
Makes me sick to think how many guys are behind bars who didn't do it.
When they get out, a lot of those women better watch out.
Never believe women, even when they are crying.
ESPECIALLY when they are crying