RIGHT!!! If someone is telling you about a premeditated crime, they’re giving you an opportunity to stop them. It’s a moment for someone to be prevented from being a victim.
I would’ve stayed in contact with my superiors having them listen and advise. Him looking for a child alone should have something that would fit. Dig into the law books. He’s stating that himself. You knew w Dad has rights to protect his family. He made his intention known. Enforce that. Protect and serve.
Totally, so many people excuse pedophilia when it comes to mental illness, i have personal experience, i grew up being groomed by a autistic woman, but everyone took her side because she was autistic.
Guarantee he’s also a child molester too. Like he’s acted on it. Because he’s literally telling the police that he’s after a 12 year old and that’s fine if she gives him ANY attention whatsoever. He has absolutely zero shame or fear about being a pedophile.
As a person who was groomed online (started when I was 12) till I was 16, and the guy (10 years older) after a joke actually came to my house and wanted to get a job in my city and move 'near me' from the other side of the country, this video was a very difficult watch. It actually gave me flashbacks and I found myself being swollowed by the anxiety seeing it through the little girls eyes. People like this should never, ever be a part of the society
Same. I was 12 an he posed as a kid my age. Years down the road he said "I have something to tell you. I'm actually 36 divorced with 2 sons. (They were as old as me)" Me: " no you're lying (denial) you just don't wanna talk to me anymore. Don't have to lie just say so" Him: "I'm not lying an I'm sorry I lied" Me: (still in denial) "yeah okay what ever. If that's true then prove it " He then proceeded to send me a Webcam request I accepted an sure enough he was a middle aged balding grown ass man. I was sick to my stomach with how long I had talk to that man an how much information I had trusted him with. Still till this day I have never told my parents that happened. An now I have 2 daughters an it's terrify. Buy unlike the MySpace that I grew up in there's more ways to verify someone. I also make sure my daughters understand the dangers an I always leave the door open to come to me about anything because i know what it's like to not have that support.
The very instant he admits to stalking/searching for a 12 year old, he needed to be arrested for the kid's safety. The moment he said he was looking for a 6 year old he needed to be tazed and locked away.
I mean does he deserve the taxes ABSOLUTELY NO FUCKING DOUBT. But lawfully unless he resists arrest they shouldn't. That weakens the case against him. Also the reason they didn't immediately apprehend him when he said that is because they want as much information as he's willing to speak out is dumbass mouth before they arrest him to incriminate him. And he is just the belazio fountains of spitting shit out.
As a parent to a single digit child, this terrifies the f*** out of me. This solidifies with me that no kind of social media or influencing accounts until they are 18 and understand everything that comes with the territories
May I add, while restricting social medias is not a bad idea this alone will not always keep a child safe and in fact too much restriction can cause them to rebel and put themselves in dangerous situations. If you allow your child social media access tell them of the importance of private accounts, to not talk with strangers, to not post photos of themselves, and overall internet and stranger safety.
You. You get it. It's much better to have reasonable guidelines/rules and teach them about internet safety, rather than shielding them completely from it. I think that applies with a lot of other stuff too, for example, informative and age appropriate s*x-ed > s*x ed solely focused on abstinence. tl;dr it's better to be taught how to responsibly make choices about stuff rather than total restriction from it, because once they can explore it, it's better for them to be informed rather than flying blind.
@@nicklo8263I agree! I would even add to potentially get their logins or make an account yourself and follow theirs so you can keep track of what they post, who follows them, the kinds of comments/attention they recieve, etc. I remember playing an mmorpg that had a whole host of pedophiles in it and coming across a young child that was like 6 or something playing it. A lot of people were saying stuff like block them so we don’t in trouble but I decided to take that kid into my guild and under my wing to try and keep them safe and away from potential predators. One day the kid told me about a known pedophile asking about if they were single and their sexuality, etc. and I told them to block them ASAP because no normal adult talks to children that way. I even went onto to try to explain/lecture them about no adult other than parents should ever be asking you if you’re single, sexuality, or anything of that nature till you’re over 18 at LEAST. I knew that if I just kicked them out and blocked them they’d be vulnerable to the creeps so I decided that rather than throw them to the wolves I’d do my best to teach them what to look out for and try to keep them safe. Some people looked at me funny for it but I had no idea if the parents even knew or were doing anything about it and I wasn’t about to risk this very young child getting hurt. The child was even posting pictures of a toddler relative and I had to tell them to delete it immediately because there are some very bad people here that will save that photo and use it nefariously. People please inform your kids so that they are safe. I basically had to become this kid’s ingame mentor because they didn’t know any better and it truly made me worried and scared for them.
@@kailoligirl08 thats great. I’d hate to see something happen to your child or they be too naive because they were sheltered too much. Being stupid will get you into situations. People prey on naive people
I was thinking something similar like and sorry sarge my gun just so happen to fall out of its holster and the recoil from the impact on the ground caused it go off (you know fake it till ya make it lol)
@@thesweetteasystem1108 when someone doesnt know how guns work lmfao. theres only one brand of gun notorious for going off when dropped and cops dont carry it. GLOCK is known and used for its safety and reliability, it has 3 safety features and one is Specifically to prevent it from shooting when dropped. cops drop guns often, wouldnt be good having them going off randomly would it?
It sounds like he first saw her when she was sick and he has idolized her in his head as that 6 year old and so he was still searching for a 6 year old
The cop was actually really smart to not take him in earlier. This body cam, and everything the cop got him to say on it, very likely came up in court and I'd be shocked if this video wasn't instrumental in him getting put away for years instead of months.
Exactly he was digging his own grave with every word he said. at that point let him keep digging. I understand it's hard to listen to and you have to commend the cop for not losing his cool.
Stalkers hang on for a REALLY long time. Her entire childhood she’s been followed and harassed by this freak. And it will continue. Her parents need to restraining order the second he’s released. And they need to move.
This cop has the patience of a Saint. He's clearly trying to figure out every charge he can possibly use to keep this guy in jail for as long as possible.
@4:43 oh wow. When you said she was 12 and that he had been stalking her for 5 years I assumed that meant since she was 12, so I was expecting this girl to be 17 now.. He's been stalking her since she was 6!?!? Unbelievable that it took so long for law enforcement to intervene, absolutely unbelievable.
Boze two videos ago: "now you see, I don't like excessive force when detaining someone committing a crime" Boze two seconds after listening to this guy: "now folks, I would have tazed him. Put him in handcuffs and given him some shock therapy right there" I absolutely love this woman lmao
When children or animals are involved, I’m of the opinion that there isn’t enough force in the world to apply to the “people” that hurt them. I’m glad Boze agrees.
The way my jaw dropped and I wanted to cry when he said that a 12 year old is very old and he was looking for a 6 year old....I hope to God this creature has never touched a child.
I got stalked by an 18-year old when I was 10. This hit close to home. That guy sent me love letters and would stand outside my school and would wait for me. He tried to ask me one time if he could walk me home, which obviously, I declined. And since that didn't work, he tried to follow me home multiple times. Honestly, I didn't even know what p*dophilia was at that time. It never ever occured to my 10-year old brain just how disturbing that experience was. All I know is he was creeping me out. I didn't like how he looked at me and how he'd talk about me in those love letters he sent. I didn't understand WHY at the time, but those love letters grossed me out when I read it. My 10-year old self would describe it as a "yucky feeling". I wasn't even on the internet. I didn't have a social media account. My family never allowed me near internet cafes when I was a kid because they said "the internet will make you dumb". This guy just saw me one day and made me his target. Predators will find a way to do predator things with or without the internet.
that must have been so scary. This is why I was mean as a child. I knew if I wasn't nice, no one would bother me🫣 Hope you are able to heal that trauma.
@notville_ post anything to justify your spamming...but you won't because it's spam. You have no low you won't sink to. Spew your garbage elsewhere. It's the least you could do
Perpetrators make such twisted worlds in their minds to excuse a cut-and-dry, bad faith and abusive urge. Really upsetting to see this guy rant about it to a parent like it's nothing
that’s only until she’s 16, and as a 16 year old in court rn for a stalker case, it’s really not long enough and i’m appalled at how the system treats sexual abuse victims even if they’re underaged (they care if you’re 15 or 16 or under 12 when you were touched.. why should it matter)
"12 is old, I was looking for a 6 year old" is also wild on the level of... he didn't think she would age at all in 5 years. He knew he'd been looking for a 6 year old for 5 YEARS but was shocked that she was now 12. Delulu land is strong
He said he's been searching for that child for 5 years, but seemed surprised that she had aged. His delusion is so strong that he didn't even take into account the passage of time. He's incredibly ill, disturbing, and disgusting. Lock him away forever.
Personally, I think the reason he kept saying "if she says no then I'll leave forever" is because he's so confident that she'll say yes that he's going to extremes
Unpopular opinion: this is a prime example why children should not be allowed to put themselves online. There’s inherent danger with parasocial relationships and minors don’t have the forethought to understand the ramifications. Everything online is permanent, AI is being used to create “corn” from photos and videos of children online, and crazy stalkers can think they’re entitled to you. Keep kids safe, keep them offline.
I don’t think it’s unpopular. When I have children I’m not gonna forbid them from the internet but you better bet your ass they’ll be heavily monitored and educated on proper safety precautions.
You're not wrong but listening to the officers Convo later in the video it seems the mother essentially confirmed the daughter was in that location. Via mentally ill guy calls several numbers eventually gets mom's and got the address. With how mentally ill guy was acting here I'd imagine he wasn't sly with the phone call , he probably just opened with "is daughtername*/username home? " mom prob then freaked out or confirmed without asking and getting details of who was calling and for what purpose first is my guess. Really sucks obviously neither parent wanted to escalate the issues but most people aren't cautiously thinking about how to take preventative measures to protect their homes and lives inside. Probably were entirely off guard when the mentally ill guy randomly called the household as well.
@@zackwilcox3183 There should be no “but” in that statement. If you spend any amount of time doing cyber security you will realize how easy it is to find people’s private information. You can reverse Google search a screenshot from videos and find out where someone lives. It’s too easy, too risky, even if the mother didn’t confirm a location this man would of still found the daughter.
That is too much victim blaming, in my opinion. The internet is too useful and entertaining to punish children over the actions of criminals. There has to be a better way. Criminals are the ones who should lose freedoms ... not victims.
Don’t think that’s all that unpopular… I mean a lot of social media sites, even MMOs, have a minimum age requirement with parental permission specifically to attempt to prevent that. All I know, my kids won’t be online until they’re in their teens and I’ll be allowed to be friends with them on their socials to make sure they’re safe.
This is why whenever I see little kids on UA-cam shorts I get worried for them.. I was groomed online and thinking about that happening to another person is just so awful
This is the number one reason why when I do, I leave a message for their parents and shame them for putting their children in such vulnerable positions
Literally!! Every time I see a family channel showing off their kids it makes me sick knowing creeps like this are tuning in. Somebody tried to groom me on Facebook and thankfully I knew what to do and blocked/reported him.
Something that I find additionally creepy- this guy has been stalking for 5 years. If the girl is 12, that means he started stalking her when she was 7. When he said he was looking for a 6-year-old, I wonder if he imagined her from her videos and immortalized her there in his head
I thought the same thing, but I’m a little skeptical. I don’t know any parents that would let their kid start a UA-cam channel at 6 or 7. I wonder if he’s just convinced himself it’s been 5 years when it hasn’t
well @@OcarinaLink24 lets not forget family channels that will start a channel for newborn babies exist, so it is completely possible this is the case. but i understand the position is hard to believe, its what makes this guys so creepy and scary!😱😱😱
That's beyond creepy, that's effing crazy! I even thought i misheard that at first. Until of course... He confirmed it again by saying 12 years is old, i wanted 6. He's crazy dangerous predator. Thankfully he's stupid enough to openly admitting and saying it out loud, that makes it easy to convict him.
The fact he went all the way from oregon to ohio to stalk what he thought was a 6 year old, instant jail! Its already terrifying if he was stalking anyone but the crossing several states to stalk a child for 5 years adds even more disgusting details to this disgusting man!
His manic behavior reminded me of adults I had to deal with all throughout my childhood. A lot of them had an untreated mental illness coupled with heavy Meth use. I had to learn a lot of survival behaviors because of them and lost my childhood to that trauma.
I’m so sorry you had to grow up like that. My heart breaks for you, and the child you were who was so let down by the people who were supposed to keep you safe. No child should have to be exposed to this when they’re developing their sense of self and their understanding of the world. I wish you nothing but good things ❤
It sounds strange, but at 37, I'm repairing my lost childhood. I'm doing things that I used to love doing as a kid, but things happened and I lost a lot. Sometimes it's collecting Lisa Frank, sometimes it's visualizing adult me talking child me for a walk, like I wished my parents would do- It's worth a shot. You're worth the shot. I promise.
This guy is an evil monster. Don’t bring mental tall illness into this. Care about the young girl affected by this evil man. There’s no reason for u to make this about u
The issue really isn’t kids being on the internet rather having unrestricted access I partially blame the parents and youtube, the parents for not monitoring their daughter but also youtube for now age verifying that she meets the minimum required age which I believe is 13 which is far to young they need to bump it up to at least 15-16 and I personally think that parents should have logins to all social media their child May use since it’s not unheard of for someone that young to use Facebook to keep in touch with long distance cousins and other relatives but ultimately it’s the parent’s responsibility to ensure their child’s safety and in cases like this they almost failed to do that technically did this wouldn’t have happened if they didn’t monitor the daughters accounts for anything creepy or sus asf if I was cps or that state’s equivalent I’d be paying a visit to the parents js and be like uh yeah why weren’t you monitoring your daughters activity sooner? Why didn’t you just tell the cops that you wanted to press charges and to get him away from your house? I’d also let the parents know that there’s other predators on UA-cam like edp445, onision, Daniel larson like parents can’t be to careful since pedos are trying to link up with the lgbtqia community claiming their perverse behavior is now a sexuality which is fucked up but like I said parents can’t be to careful nowadays and they need to pay close attention to who their kids are talking to and find out as much info as they can on said person their real age, it’s better to be safe than sorry.
This is like banning a teen from having a phone. The internet will always be accessible by everyone, the issue as i see is a lack of monitoring or comdemnation of predation. A parent will work a child will go to school/baby sat/ be alone at home. A parent can monitor and ristrict their child best case senario, but a private company like discord or twitter, even robox? They need to prevent and enforce rules against adults like this from acessing children. The lack of moderatiom from multi billion dollar corporations is horrifying. Id be all enforced ID for websites. Flagging troubling content to be documented. It goes down a slight 1984 slope, but to keep children safe there needs to be a societal shift. I play roblox wit my niece im 24 and she got mw to do the face cam voice thing, i had to put in my ID. I only play with her and my nephew when theyre on. Its a good precaution to protect kids and im happy they implemented it.
@@CajunReaper95 i agree understanding your childs interest and not negleting them. I will say as a kid i was good at hiding what i was doing on the internet. I got into alotta not so sfw websites and chats.... Teens are good at hiding stuff in their life. Building a repitoire with your kid is smart. Im lucky i was a gay asexual child, i mightve gotten into some bad stuff. If i partied, smoked, or had people over.. Id tell my mom. I felt that trust with her.. But somethings i kept to myself. Being a teen is still a child,but i felt grown up enough to do those things, now i feel a lil shame and regret for doing certain things i did when i was younger.. As a kid playing online or chatting online alotta people will abuse you/ bully you for just being a kid .. Or a certain gender. My parents would have never been able to stop me from playing or chatting.. Despite the turmoil that brought. In my adulthood i learned to deal with toxic behaviors of strangers. Water off a ducks back.. Some people its alot worse :(
@@CajunReaper95 I 100% agree on every point you made. But unfortunately no matter the platform or site there will always be adults looking for children. There is actually sexually content on youtube kids just kids characters animations. So if a parent were to look at the screen it wouldnt look bad. Roblox Id say has the MOST predators. Now Im only 19 but I still try to look at situations from every possible side or possible situation. Ive also was apart of the first generation to grow up with technology and as an older person I can also see whats its like to be a parent (very very partially there is a lot of new kiddos in the family) and its really hard work. A lot of parents who give their kids tablets, phones, computers, or just general screens and access to the internet wouldnt bother to check stuff like that. Cause its the reason they gave their kids the screens in the first place so they didnt have to play with themselves. (I dont agree with this btw im just saying its what ive seen) So yes I 1000% agree with you that it IS the parents responsibility but it is also just too dangerous. Like ive had a 14 year old like beg me to date them at the age of 18 on discord. Any place where there is a chat room is a dangerous place for kids. Like a child could talk to their parents about their new friend who is there age. But that other person could be anyone. The internet Ive seen and gone through myself causes so so so many negative things to kids.
"I just want her to say no." That's typical stalker language actually. I've heard that on more than a few videos of stalkers. It's language that allows them to avoid the reality that this person doesn't actually want to be around them.
Yup. “I just want her to say no, can she say yes or no?” “She said no.” “NUH UH SHE MUST’VE BEEN THREATENED TO SAY NO SHE DIDN’T REALLY MEAN IT” This is why giving stalkers extra attention by using even the 1 millisecond it takes to answer “no” is a waste of time. Say it only once, in writing (text or email), and now there’s a record of proof for the court that you rejected him and told him to never speak with or come near you again… but only once. Then just mute the number, never answer the door, etc. Don’t block them, you can use the messages they keep sending in the inevitable stalking case. But mute the notifications and never look at it.
i heard this after going no contact on an ex after excessive verbal abuse. i still have nightmares he will follow through on his promise to see me even if i call the cops to get his no in person and this was almost a year ago now. i can't imagine how a kid or the parents would handle this and hope they keep her safe from predators like this psycho
Stalkers are the scariest thing. They completely break you down. Even if you’re lucky enough to be able to get rid of them, you never feel safe again. My heart breaks for that little girl. I really hope she is doing well.
This is terrifying! My friend's granddaughter (15) met a guy online who said he was 15 too and lived close by. They planned a secret meeting, and she snuck out the window to her best friends house. Several neighbors reported a strange car circling and parking on their road. The cops caught him before Katie even knew. He was 27, drove over 6 hours, drugs and alcohol, freakin duct tape, a gun and a knife, oh yeah, a registered sex offender!!! I've heard about nightmares like this happening, but I never thought they would happen to someone I knew. Guess that's what everyone says. The police picked Katie up, brought her home and spent 2 hours there talking with the whole family. I'm glad she just got a huge scare and not what that creep had in mind. Love your channel!
I met someone like that. It broke my heart to find out the dude wasn't 13, but was in fact 31. But I learned that people can and will lie on the Internet for, whatever reason? Attention seeking? And trust, but verify.
It was good that the officer kept him talking because the more he talked the more he incriminated himself and showed how much of a threat he was. That is how he got that long sentence
I'm very concerned that the father exited the home in front of this man and confirmed that it was his daughter that he was looking for. I would immediately start looking for somewhere else to live.
One of the reasons this is so disturbing especially to a kid and their parents, is he isn’t being aggressive in the “if I don’t see her I’ll kill you all” he’s being rather passive aggressive and calm as he explains he’s looking for a 6 (now 12) year old and that’s “his woman” he really thinks he’s doing the right thing by stalking a child because he believes she is his THATS WHATS SCARY
It’s scary either way. It’s scary that there are adults or anyone above the age range of little kids, trying to have romantic and or sexually relations with little kids.
When the cop was asking what he would've done if the 12 year old said yes, feels like hes trying to get something on the camera to get him put away for longer. It really just feels like the cop is trying to keep the guy talking so he can dig his own grave and put him away for a long time
@@infinitewonders299I don't know any drugs that make you stalk a 6 year old for 5 years. He might also be on drugs, but this is a whole different kind of crazy.
@hopelessromantic3786 Oh, I'm not saying drugs made him stalk a 12 year old for five years, that's not what I meant by behavior. I just meant the fact that this guy was fearlessly shouting his BS to a cop, stumbling over his words & line of thinking, jumbled thoughts, etc. I thought that was obvious, but looking back I can see it needed clarification lol, my bad
@@princessp888 You shouldn't assume that. That mental disorder gets enough negative stigma and shouldn't be assumed that's what causes someone to act out. This dude is just a pedophile that uses God as an excuse.
4.5 years. she'll be 16/17 when he gets out, and though still a minor, she'll be old enough to understand how dangerous this man really is and will also be able to better learn how to protect herself from this. I really hope this family moves and he can't find them before he gets out because you know he won't forget where they live.
If that dude went to prison and said anything like that in prison he'd be dead so perhaps justice would be served if he was sent to prison. What a creepy dude.
“12 is old. I was looking for a 6 year old” that is disgusting and he said that he was stalking her for 5 years?!?! she would’ve been 6 or 7……..🤢🤮 this man needs to be locked up forever.
this was the most unhinged man I've seen in a long time. 4 and a half years is a good enough period of time for the family to sell that house, move to another state, change their phone numbers, change their lastnames legally, and the child can grow up and not look like they did when they were 12. get away from this man forever.
As a victim of an online predator, I genuinely hope the other inmates make sure he doesn't make it 4 more years. They will always seek out new victims, they cannot be redeemed. My heart goes out to the family dealing with this insanity.
Another reason why I will never be okay with kids having social media. Imagine if she didn't have parents to protect her and he was able to lure HER to come to HIM? Children are innocent and don't know any better, but creatures like this guy just see them as things for pleasures because they're beyond sick and selfish. He's lucky her Dad wasn't carrying.
My heart sank at 13:43 after he said how scared her parents must be to the other officer. This entire video is WILD and this guy is absolutely disgusting.
There should be a law that if someone says out their mouth that i want a 6 year old or whatever age or come to a babys house to date the child. They should be locked up right away and off the shyt.
Another reason children should NOT be online as content creators. Please dont think im victim blaming cause she was just having fun and its not her fault this creep targeted her, but no one should be impacted like this ESPECIALLY children. Thank god her parents took it down but still.
I fully blame the creep and the parents for not keeping their child off of social media. Or if they did, this creep was damned resourceful by going through friends of friends, if I heard correctly.
Like ya said; mentally ill, substance abuse, all of the above, whatever, ya get this deranged THREAT locked up. He was lurking in the neighborhood, around the house! As random & disorganized as he seems , he was able to track down the address so he's obviously capable of doing harm. God knows what, but he's a threat to a minor & was spittin out some really disturbing bs.
What’s crazy to me is that he’s been stalking her since she was 6 or 7 and no one had been able to do anything for years up until this point! I really hope the family can heal and move forward now that this man is behind bars.
“i’m here for my woman, and if she doesn’t want me then i’ll leave right now!” bro SHE SAID NO… also, you just said you meant to be coming for a 6 year old. was that trying to claim she catfished him? 😭
@@neffyg35 maybe he's delusional? Cuz like now that I think about it, I dunno if a 6 yr old would be allowed to just have a social media account... But idk
@@sleepygeekyandreadytodream...y yeah it's not too clear the father said she was twelve but when 5 years was very first mentioned I though oh she is 17 now. When the father said 12 I was confused. I agree I don't think a 6 year old would be starting their own youtube channel unless her parents are just dumb.
This one was so hard to watch. It scares me that there are actual people on the planet like this. Seeing stuff like this confirms my agoraphobia and makes me really never want to leave the house or interact with anyone. It just feels like there is so much evil in the world to navigate I’m so overwhelmed :(
My first thought was not drugs or alcohol. It seems he has a mental issue... obviously because he's stalking a child. But maybe also schizophrenia. The obsession with religion kinda made me lean towards that as I've seen this before in person. Edit: so glad he was sentenced to jail. I really hope he doesn't get out anytime soon so that girl can live in peace.
This is literally fucking horrifying. As a mother of 2 little kids like young (1.5 and 4 y/o) this makes me physically sick to my stomach. That poor little girl. Truly hope she is doing okay and the parents i would be so paranoid with her leavung the house if i was them
That's how I see it. Yes, definitely mentally ill. Also. YES he needs to be removed from society until further notice. At least until that girl is old enough to carry a gun.
No, he should never be allowed out at anytime out, I don't care if she's protected by the military, creeps like this shouldn't be allow freedom to creep again!
This man has been stalking this baby since she was 6 years old 😢. This man is very sick and they are asking him where is he going to sleep tonight smh🤦🏾♀️
I can't imagine being 12 and having a stalker I've had for 5 YEARS. Especially THAT guy. He's scary as hell! I hope this guy leaves her alone after this she must be so traumatized..
Okay, when Boze asks if he’s sober, I would say yes, but a junky kind of sober. He’s high but more coherent than he’s used to. Let’s hope he doesn’t survive prison, and if he does, the inmates and COs will give him the worst time ever.
5:53 the fact he is insane makes him a thousand times more dangerous. That’s the point of bringing up his insanity, not to excuse his actions/words which are atrocious. Also if she is 12 now that means she was freaking 7 when he started his campaign of terror. If his 5 year thing is true.
4 1/2 years for just showing up is FANTASTIC. A lot of the time, they’re out in a few months and their only after-punishment is the list. This is genuinely a long time. They see the threat that he is. Maybe they’re hoping they can medicate him properly in that time, so when he’s out, he’ll at least be “more sane.”
Even if he was on drugs, I think he was genuinely delusional. He has completely re-worked phrases in the bible to fit his own world-view and promote his bad behavior. He was also in complete denial of doing anything wrong and coming up with reasons to believe that she would never say no to him. Everything he said sets off red flags that this person is a danger to himself and other people.
Im worried this guy has other children he’s been after… stalking a 12 year old for 5 years, then mentioning looking for another 6 year old… there has to be more he’s after/groomed already
4 years gives the family time to move, change names/ numbers, really get away from this dude. With how many stalker stories you hear where cops don’t do anything until after the victim is hurt/ killed I’m surprised he got any time. Really happy he got time, but still surprised
From stalkers it’s always BS like “I just want a yes or no answer and I’ll leave them alone” and if you cave in and give them an answer it’s always “well they said it under duress, they didn’t mean it” it’s literally moving the goalposts but for STALKING it’s insane
I feel so bad for that little girl, I had a similar incident but it was a school teacher stalking me 😭 Edit: I was in 5th grade and he was an elementary music teacher that gave after school guitar lessons that I attended. He found my IG when I was in 7th grade and continued to stalk me on Facebook until I was 16 😭
A man with this level of crazy stalked me, poisoned me with strychnine and put me in a coma for weeks. I had a 2% chance of recovering from the strychnine. I was in multi organ failure while in the coma and had a brain injury from it that I thankfully recovered from. THIS MAN SCARES ME in this video. It gives me flash backs.
@@CL0555 I personally think kids can be on the internet when done correctly. When I was seven I made a video with my mom, that my father recorded. We made cupcakes, wearing modest clothes, and it was me sharing a recipe I created on lemon bar cupcakes! It got 2,000 or so views and lots of kids my age saying they tried it with their parents. It made me want to be a chef and cook all the time (no I’m not a chef now lol) So I personally think when done CAREFULLY and with parental supervision kids can have a great time!
Honestly is cam footage really got me. Back when I was in high school I had a stalker that acted extremely similar to this! He lived across the street and almost broke into the house a few times. He would try to tell me that I was some type of healing goddess, and that our souls were intertwined. It never made any sense. He was basically waiting outside until I came out for whatever reason. My father noticed very quickly and obviously had a issue. So I absolutely feel for this family!! Ps. The stalker wasn’t able to get into my house, my father is a MMA fighter and my mother is a feral woman! Evidently when I was staying the night at a friends house some big altercation between my parents and the stalker happened, which scared him enough to move away soon after. I still don’t know what happened
This is genuinely terrifying. I can’t imagine being a little girl or a parent going through this! I’m happy the cops actually did something, because a lot of the time, they’ll do nothing because they haven’t “committed a real crime yet”. I think it’s been taken more seriously recently though, and I’m grateful.
Giving this dude only 4 1/2 years is insane. I was hoping he’d be placed in a mental health facility or kept longer, or just throw the cell key in the garbage disposal with all his creepy ramblings 💀. I only pray that this family has further protection from this man, especially when he’s released.
That officer was brilliant. He was trying to let this guy talk and keep incriminating himself whilst waiting for backup. He wanted to arrest him when he mentioned the 6 year old comment but he knew the more he talked the more info he could get. Well done Officer. Boze I love your commentary just on point always. Sending loads of love Leisa Western Australia xxxx
boze your videos always make my day... ive been watching you for years and i put all my friends onto your videos. you are like our national treasure, thank you so much.
The worst thing is that the more you interact with people like this the more they will tell themselves you like them. I knew if that girl said she wanted him to go he would just think she was forced to say that. "In her eyes I saw she was begging me to save her." When he breaks into her room in the middle of the night to 'rescue' her, "She wants to come with me, but her dad has put cameras everywhere, We both know her dad is working with the police and will try to hunt us down and bring her home. She's struggling against me because she's scared that her dad will find her, bring her home and punish her if she looked as though she came with me willingly." They say never engage with a stalker at all, for this reason.
The fact that you can't lock up a pedo that ADMITS he wanted a 6yo instead of a 12yo because he "didn't do anything" is fucking out of this world.
RIGHT!!!
If someone is telling you about a premeditated crime, they’re giving you an opportunity to stop them.
It’s a moment for someone to be prevented from being a victim.
100% agree.
I would’ve stayed in contact with my superiors having them listen and advise. Him looking for a child alone should have something that would fit. Dig into the law books. He’s stating that himself. You knew w Dad has rights to protect his family. He made his intention known. Enforce that. Protect and serve.
She is under duress because you’re outside of her house. The entire family is under duress. I pray for them. In Jesus’ name. Amen.
its Deplorable Behaviour for sure
Mental illness doesn't ever excuse being a pedo. Lock. Him. Up. And throw away the key.
I'd say that pedophilia is a mental Illness itself. Like finding children sexually attractive is not a sane mindset.
Totally, so many people excuse pedophilia when it comes to mental illness, i have personal experience, i grew up being groomed by a autistic woman, but everyone took her side because she was autistic.
Agreed
Guarantee he’s also a child molester too. Like he’s acted on it. Because he’s literally telling the police that he’s after a 12 year old and that’s fine if she gives him ANY attention whatsoever. He has absolutely zero shame or fear about being a pedophile.
Agreed. Bury _under_ the jail.
As a person who was groomed online (started when I was 12) till I was 16, and the guy (10 years older) after a joke actually came to my house and wanted to get a job in my city and move 'near me' from the other side of the country, this video was a very difficult watch. It actually gave me flashbacks and I found myself being swollowed by the anxiety seeing it through the little girls eyes. People like this should never, ever be a part of the society
Same. I was 12 an he posed as a kid my age. Years down the road he said "I have something to tell you. I'm actually 36 divorced with 2 sons. (They were as old as me)"
Me: " no you're lying (denial) you just don't wanna talk to me anymore. Don't have to lie just say so"
Him: "I'm not lying an I'm sorry I lied"
Me: (still in denial) "yeah okay what ever. If that's true then prove it "
He then proceeded to send me a Webcam request I accepted an sure enough he was a middle aged balding grown ass man. I was sick to my stomach with how long I had talk to that man an how much information I had trusted him with. Still till this day I have never told my parents that happened. An now I have 2 daughters an it's terrify. Buy unlike the MySpace that I grew up in there's more ways to verify someone. I also make sure my daughters understand the dangers an I always leave the door open to come to me about anything because i know what it's like to not have that support.
That's horrible
I am so sorry that you went through that. I hope he got his karma, and that you have healed ❤
The very instant he admits to stalking/searching for a 12 year old, he needed to be arrested for the kid's safety. The moment he said he was looking for a 6 year old he needed to be tazed and locked away.
I mean does he deserve the taxes ABSOLUTELY NO FUCKING DOUBT. But lawfully unless he resists arrest they shouldn't. That weakens the case against him. Also the reason they didn't immediately apprehend him when he said that is because they want as much information as he's willing to speak out is dumbass mouth before they arrest him to incriminate him. And he is just the belazio fountains of spitting shit out.
He'd been stalking her for 5 years, so he was originally stalking her when she was 7
@@TheMissiIe like that makes it any better 😂💀
Locked away FOREVERRRREE omfg this guys is sick and he’s proud of it! 🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬
wouldn't even be mad if they mag dumped him
“12 is old. I was looking for a 6 year old” 🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬LOCK HIM UP AND THROW OUT THE KEY!!!
100% this man needs to be somewhere with bars and high walls
WORSE
He needs kife in solitary. See how much god talks to him then
Lock him up under the prison tbh.
He needs to get life in prison. I'm sure he'll end up dead in there anyway because of his gross ass intentions.
As a parent to a single digit child, this terrifies the f*** out of me. This solidifies with me that no kind of social media or influencing accounts until they are 18 and understand everything that comes with the territories
May I add, while restricting social medias is not a bad idea this alone will not always keep a child safe and in fact too much restriction can cause them to rebel and put themselves in dangerous situations. If you allow your child social media access tell them of the importance of private accounts, to not talk with strangers, to not post photos of themselves, and overall internet and stranger safety.
You. You get it. It's much better to have reasonable guidelines/rules and teach them about internet safety, rather than shielding them completely from it. I think that applies with a lot of other stuff too, for example, informative and age appropriate s*x-ed > s*x ed solely focused on abstinence.
tl;dr it's better to be taught how to responsibly make choices about stuff rather than total restriction from it, because once they can explore it, it's better for them to be informed rather than flying blind.
@@nicklo8263 I appreciate your advice & I’ll do this when my kid is old enough :)
@@nicklo8263I agree! I would even add to potentially get their logins or make an account yourself and follow theirs so you can keep track of what they post, who follows them, the kinds of comments/attention they recieve, etc. I remember playing an mmorpg that had a whole host of pedophiles in it and coming across a young child that was like 6 or something playing it. A lot of people were saying stuff like block them so we don’t in trouble but I decided to take that kid into my guild and under my wing to try and keep them safe and away from potential predators. One day the kid told me about a known pedophile asking about if they were single and their sexuality, etc. and I told them to block them ASAP because no normal adult talks to children that way. I even went onto to try to explain/lecture them about no adult other than parents should ever be asking you if you’re single, sexuality, or anything of that nature till you’re over 18 at LEAST. I knew that if I just kicked them out and blocked them they’d be vulnerable to the creeps so I decided that rather than throw them to the wolves I’d do my best to teach them what to look out for and try to keep them safe. Some people looked at me funny for it but I had no idea if the parents even knew or were doing anything about it and I wasn’t about to risk this very young child getting hurt. The child was even posting pictures of a toddler relative and I had to tell them to delete it immediately because there are some very bad people here that will save that photo and use it nefariously. People please inform your kids so that they are safe. I basically had to become this kid’s ingame mentor because they didn’t know any better and it truly made me worried and scared for them.
@@kailoligirl08 thats great. I’d hate to see something happen to your child or they be too naive because they were sheltered too much. Being stupid will get you into situations. People prey on naive people
If he says a 12 year old is old just put him in jail, tell the inmates what exactly he’s in for and sent the officers to lunch
Excellent.
A nice long lunch
💯💯💯
Gen 👏🏾 pop 👏🏾 justice 👏🏾
Hell yeah
He keeps talking about "what's in her heart" as if a 12 year old can make that decision about a predator. That's what's making my stomach churn.
Exactly what's in her heart is Disney and gummy candy lol. But Wtf is he talking about
A 12 year old is plenty old enough to know she doesn’t want any grown men stalking her
Yeah totally. He's probably down with puberty blockers for kids too!
@@blister9366Not the random transphobia .. weirdo
@@blister9366 bye Karen.
"Sorry, Sergeant. I heard him say '6 year old' and my gun just went off!" 💅
Wouldn’t put it past him
I was thinking something similar like and sorry sarge my gun just so happen to fall out of its holster and the recoil from the impact on the ground caused it go off (you know fake it till ya make it lol)
@@thesweetteasystem1108 when someone doesnt know how guns work lmfao. theres only one brand of gun notorious for going off when dropped and cops dont carry it. GLOCK is known and used for its safety and reliability, it has 3 safety features and one is Specifically to prevent it from shooting when dropped. cops drop guns often, wouldnt be good having them going off randomly would it?
@@KeanueAnakoni-Aukai blud tried to criticize a joke lmfao
@@KeanueAnakoni-Aukaibro……calm down😂 they are joking
This man has been after her for FIVE. FUCKING. YEARS.
THIS is the comment i came here to see. FIVE years and shes only 12!! How aren't more people noticing that?!
It sounds like he first saw her when she was sick and he has idolized her in his head as that 6 year old and so he was still searching for a 6 year old
FR this man had been stalking her since she was 7!
And travelled across the whole country to try to get to her 🤢
I mean, he said he was looking for a 6 year old right before that.
The cop was actually really smart to not take him in earlier. This body cam, and everything the cop got him to say on it, very likely came up in court and I'd be shocked if this video wasn't instrumental in him getting put away for years instead of months.
Exactly he was digging his own grave with every word he said. at that point let him keep digging. I understand it's hard to listen to and you have to commend the cop for not losing his cool.
He may do 2 of 5. Pedos always are well behaved inside. They get parole.
@@MeaghanTamarapeople get more time for smoking weed than p3d0s what a world to live in
PLUS that guy was terrifying and the cop was def waiting for backup in case the dude had a weapon or decided to go ballistic on him
You got it😀👍 Video evidence like that… played to a jury….? Chefs kiss of perfection… that’s probably why he got 4 years….. 😈
Jail exists for people like this. He needs to be locked up, he's a danger to children everywhere.
This dude been stalking a 6-year-old (who he kept referring to as a "woman") for 5 years and now she's 12. This is next level insane. Get the taser!
This! He does not see her as 12, he has seen her frozen in time at 6 as his "woman".
Stalkers hang on for a REALLY long time. Her entire childhood she’s been followed and harassed by this freak. And it will continue.
Her parents need to restraining order the second he’s released. And they need to move.
This dude is absolutely wicked and heinous.
I was thinking he needs to be forcibly held in a psych ward but im starting to think more of a dark hole in the ground
And the fbi has been involved for HOW LONG? Because if it’s been that long wtf haven’t they done more for her??
This cop has the patience of a Saint. He's clearly trying to figure out every charge he can possibly use to keep this guy in jail for as long as possible.
Harassment of a Minor fits
@4:43 oh wow. When you said she was 12 and that he had been stalking her for 5 years I assumed that meant since she was 12, so I was expecting this girl to be 17 now.. He's been stalking her since she was 6!?!? Unbelievable that it took so long for law enforcement to intervene, absolutely unbelievable.
I died when he said this, unbelievable 💀
The parents should’ve also deleted her social media the instant he became a problem. Can’t monitor someone who’s not online
Boze two videos ago: "now you see, I don't like excessive force when detaining someone committing a crime"
Boze two seconds after listening to this guy: "now folks, I would have tazed him. Put him in handcuffs and given him some shock therapy right there"
I absolutely love this woman lmao
The fine print is that this excludes pedos
She meant to a person this thing is sub human.
@@draknarr2313 calling that thing a human is too kind of you
When children or animals are involved, I’m of the opinion that there isn’t enough force in the world to apply to the “people” that hurt them. I’m glad Boze agrees.
I'm very much with the special cases...The guy was stalking and harassing a kid WTF?!?!
Bro said he was “there for his woman” but admitted to looking for a 6 year old. He needs to be put down.
Yesterday.
And then he *bowed down*
Goddamn solitary confinement is needed
@notville_ Do you have evidence?
@@frootsnacc6790 no, They're just copy/pasting the same thing under every comment. Looks like it's just a pathetic troll.
@@ingloriousbetch4302 Thank you for the clarification
The way my jaw dropped and I wanted to cry when he said that a 12 year old is very old and he was looking for a 6 year old....I hope to God this creature has never touched a child.
I got stalked by an 18-year old when I was 10. This hit close to home. That guy sent me love letters and would stand outside my school and would wait for me. He tried to ask me one time if he could walk me home, which obviously, I declined. And since that didn't work, he tried to follow me home multiple times. Honestly, I didn't even know what p*dophilia was at that time. It never ever occured to my 10-year old brain just how disturbing that experience was. All I know is he was creeping me out. I didn't like how he looked at me and how he'd talk about me in those love letters he sent. I didn't understand WHY at the time, but those love letters grossed me out when I read it. My 10-year old self would describe it as a "yucky feeling".
I wasn't even on the internet. I didn't have a social media account. My family never allowed me near internet cafes when I was a kid because they said "the internet will make you dumb". This guy just saw me one day and made me his target. Predators will find a way to do predator things with or without the internet.
I hope ur doing way better now. Genuinely
that must have been so scary. This is why I was mean as a child. I knew if I wasn't nice, no one would bother me🫣 Hope you are able to heal that trauma.
@notville_ post anything to justify your spamming...but you won't because it's spam. You have no low you won't sink to. Spew your garbage elsewhere. It's the least you could do
@notville_shut up
@notville_ huh?
I audibly retched at his "looking for a 6 year old" word vomit. As a twice CSA survivor, this guy should face the wall.
I _so_ agree. I would've arrested that guy so fast
Perpetrators make such twisted worlds in their minds to excuse a cut-and-dry, bad faith and abusive urge. Really upsetting to see this guy rant about it to a parent like it's nothing
@notville_the f you talking about???
that’s only until she’s 16, and as a 16 year old in court rn for a stalker case, it’s really not long enough and i’m appalled at how the system treats sexual abuse victims even if they’re underaged (they care if you’re 15 or 16 or under 12 when you were touched.. why should it matter)
The laws are made to protect predators. When will yall realize this lol
Our country was founded by child rapiists and racists, like-
I know it’s awful. Hopefully the four years were at least enough time for their family to move or something, I hope she’s okay.
"12 is old, I was looking for a 6 year old" is also wild on the level of... he didn't think she would age at all in 5 years. He knew he'd been looking for a 6 year old for 5 YEARS but was shocked that she was now 12. Delulu land is strong
that’s the part I can’t get over like he’s been in that singular delusion for half a decade?? that’s terrifying
@@shamelesslykristen I wonder if he has anyone wondering where he is back home
@@clearliemeprobably not
He must be sick in the head. They should put him in an asylum and keep him there for life. It doesn't look like he can be rehabilitated.
@@39IA it hasn't been the 1960s for a long while
He said he's been searching for that child for 5 years, but seemed surprised that she had aged. His delusion is so strong that he didn't even take into account the passage of time. He's incredibly ill, disturbing, and disgusting. Lock him away forever.
And the “aging” is a 12 year old girl! That’s even more disturbing 😕
Personally, I think the reason he kept saying "if she says no then I'll leave forever" is because he's so confident that she'll say yes that he's going to extremes
and since she is a child, she most likely doesn’t comprehend or is too scared to react and he would take that as a yes.
Unpopular opinion: this is a prime example why children should not be allowed to put themselves online. There’s inherent danger with parasocial relationships and minors don’t have the forethought to understand the ramifications. Everything online is permanent, AI is being used to create “corn” from photos and videos of children online, and crazy stalkers can think they’re entitled to you.
Keep kids safe, keep them offline.
I don’t think it’s unpopular. When I have children I’m not gonna forbid them from the internet but you better bet your ass they’ll be heavily monitored and educated on proper safety precautions.
You're not wrong but listening to the officers Convo later in the video it seems the mother essentially confirmed the daughter was in that location. Via mentally ill guy calls several numbers eventually gets mom's and got the address.
With how mentally ill guy was acting here I'd imagine he wasn't sly with the phone call , he probably just opened with "is daughtername*/username home? " mom prob then freaked out or confirmed without asking and getting details of who was calling and for what purpose first is my guess.
Really sucks obviously neither parent wanted to escalate the issues but most people aren't cautiously thinking about how to take preventative measures to protect their homes and lives inside. Probably were entirely off guard when the mentally ill guy randomly called the household as well.
@@zackwilcox3183 There should be no “but” in that statement. If you spend any amount of time doing cyber security you will realize how easy it is to find people’s private information. You can reverse Google search a screenshot from videos and find out where someone lives. It’s too easy, too risky, even if the mother didn’t confirm a location this man would of still found the daughter.
That is too much victim blaming, in my opinion. The internet is too useful and entertaining to punish children over the actions of criminals. There has to be a better way. Criminals are the ones who should lose freedoms ... not victims.
Don’t think that’s all that unpopular… I mean a lot of social media sites, even MMOs, have a minimum age requirement with parental permission specifically to attempt to prevent that. All I know, my kids won’t be online until they’re in their teens and I’ll be allowed to be friends with them on their socials to make sure they’re safe.
This is why whenever I see little kids on UA-cam shorts I get worried for them.. I was groomed online and thinking about that happening to another person is just so awful
Omg same
This is the number one reason why when I do, I leave a message for their parents and shame them for putting their children in such vulnerable positions
Same :/ Its the ones with more scruples that get away with it.
Literally!! Every time I see a family channel showing off their kids it makes me sick knowing creeps like this are tuning in. Somebody tried to groom me on Facebook and thankfully I knew what to do and blocked/reported him.
Literally, same :( it’s my first thought whenever I see them online unsupervised, just pure horror and worry for their safety.
When people say "don't take the lords name in vain" I don't think they mean "oh my God" I think they mean this shit.
Yep that's exactly what that verse means
Something that I find additionally creepy- this guy has been stalking for 5 years. If the girl is 12, that means he started stalking her when she was 7. When he said he was looking for a 6-year-old, I wonder if he imagined her from her videos and immortalized her there in his head
I was thinking the same thing!!! 😰
I thought the same thing, but I’m a little skeptical. I don’t know any parents that would let their kid start a UA-cam channel at 6 or 7. I wonder if he’s just convinced himself it’s been 5 years when it hasn’t
well @@OcarinaLink24 lets not forget family channels that will start a channel for newborn babies exist, so it is completely possible this is the case. but i understand the position is hard to believe, its what makes this guys so creepy and scary!😱😱😱
That's beyond creepy, that's effing crazy!
I even thought i misheard that at first.
Until of course... He confirmed it again by saying 12 years is old, i wanted 6.
He's crazy dangerous predator.
Thankfully he's stupid enough to openly admitting and saying it out loud, that makes it easy to convict him.
that was my exact thought
The fact he went all the way from oregon to ohio to stalk what he thought was a 6 year old, instant jail! Its already terrifying if he was stalking anyone but the crossing several states to stalk a child for 5 years adds even more disgusting details to this disgusting man!
Thank you!!! When she said that I was like oh my god, that’s truly *cross-country*
His manic behavior reminded me of adults I had to deal with all throughout my childhood. A lot of them had an untreated mental illness coupled with heavy Meth use. I had to learn a lot of survival behaviors because of them and lost my childhood to that trauma.
I’m so sorry you had to grow up like that. My heart breaks for you, and the child you were who was so let down by the people who were supposed to keep you safe. No child should have to be exposed to this when they’re developing their sense of self and their understanding of the world. I wish you nothing but good things ❤
It sounds strange, but at 37, I'm repairing my lost childhood. I'm doing things that I used to love doing as a kid, but things happened and I lost a lot. Sometimes it's collecting Lisa Frank, sometimes it's visualizing adult me talking child me for a walk, like I wished my parents would do- It's worth a shot. You're worth the shot. I promise.
This guy is an evil monster. Don’t bring mental tall illness into this. Care about the young girl affected by this evil man. There’s no reason for u to make this about u
And this is why I think kids shouldn’t be allowed on the internet, it’s not safe at all..
Yes, I wouldn't change my wild west internet days for the world but it simply is no place for children. We got snatched up fr
The issue really isn’t kids being on the internet rather having unrestricted access I partially blame the parents and youtube, the parents for not monitoring their daughter but also youtube for now age verifying that she meets the minimum required age which I believe is 13 which is far to young they need to bump it up to at least 15-16 and I personally think that parents should have logins to all social media their child
May use since it’s not unheard of for someone that young to use Facebook to keep in touch with long distance cousins and other relatives but ultimately it’s the parent’s responsibility to ensure their child’s safety and in cases like this they almost failed to do that technically did this wouldn’t have happened if they didn’t monitor the daughters accounts for anything creepy or sus asf if I was cps or that state’s equivalent I’d be paying a visit to the parents js and be like uh yeah why weren’t you monitoring your daughters activity sooner? Why didn’t you just tell the cops that you wanted to press charges and to get him away from your house? I’d also let the parents know that there’s other predators on UA-cam like edp445, onision, Daniel larson like parents can’t be to careful since pedos are trying to link up with the lgbtqia community claiming their perverse behavior is now a sexuality which is fucked up but like I said parents can’t be to careful nowadays and they need to pay close attention to who their kids are talking to and find out as much info as they can on said person their real age, it’s better to be safe than sorry.
This is like banning a teen from having a phone.
The internet will always be accessible by everyone, the issue as i see is a lack of monitoring or comdemnation of predation.
A parent will work a child will go to school/baby sat/ be alone at home. A parent can monitor and ristrict their child best case senario, but a private company like discord or twitter, even robox? They need to prevent and enforce rules against adults like this from acessing children. The lack of moderatiom from multi billion dollar corporations is horrifying.
Id be all enforced ID for websites. Flagging troubling content to be documented. It goes down a slight 1984 slope, but to keep children safe there needs to be a societal shift.
I play roblox wit my niece im 24 and she got mw to do the face cam voice thing, i had to put in my ID. I only play with her and my nephew when theyre on. Its a good precaution to protect kids and im happy they implemented it.
@@CajunReaper95 i agree understanding your childs interest and not negleting them. I will say as a kid i was good at hiding what i was doing on the internet.
I got into alotta not so sfw websites and chats.... Teens are good at hiding stuff in their life. Building a repitoire with your kid is smart. Im lucky i was a gay asexual child, i mightve gotten into some bad stuff.
If i partied, smoked, or had people over.. Id tell my mom. I felt that trust with her.. But somethings i kept to myself.
Being a teen is still a child,but i felt grown up enough to do those things, now i feel a lil shame and regret for doing certain things i did when i was younger..
As a kid playing online or chatting online alotta people will abuse you/ bully you for just being a kid .. Or a certain gender.
My parents would have never been able to stop me from playing or chatting.. Despite the turmoil that brought.
In my adulthood i learned to deal with toxic behaviors of strangers. Water off a ducks back.. Some people its alot worse :(
@@CajunReaper95 I 100% agree on every point you made. But unfortunately no matter the platform or site there will always be adults looking for children. There is actually sexually content on youtube kids just kids characters animations. So if a parent were to look at the screen it wouldnt look bad. Roblox Id say has the MOST predators. Now Im only 19 but I still try to look at situations from every possible side or possible situation. Ive also was apart of the first generation to grow up with technology and as an older person I can also see whats its like to be a parent (very very partially there is a lot of new kiddos in the family) and its really hard work. A lot of parents who give their kids tablets, phones, computers, or just general screens and access to the internet wouldnt bother to check stuff like that. Cause its the reason they gave their kids the screens in the first place so they didnt have to play with themselves. (I dont agree with this btw im just saying its what ive seen) So yes I 1000% agree with you that it IS the parents responsibility but it is also just too dangerous. Like ive had a 14 year old like beg me to date them at the age of 18 on discord. Any place where there is a chat room is a dangerous place for kids. Like a child could talk to their parents about their new friend who is there age. But that other person could be anyone. The internet Ive seen and gone through myself causes so so so many negative things to kids.
"I just want her to say no." That's typical stalker language actually. I've heard that on more than a few videos of stalkers. It's language that allows them to avoid the reality that this person doesn't actually want to be around them.
Yup. “I just want her to say no, can she say yes or no?” “She said no.” “NUH UH SHE MUST’VE BEEN THREATENED TO SAY NO SHE DIDN’T REALLY MEAN IT”
This is why giving stalkers extra attention by using even the 1 millisecond it takes to answer “no” is a waste of time.
Say it only once, in writing (text or email), and now there’s a record of proof for the court that you rejected him and told him to never speak with or come near you again… but only once. Then just mute the number, never answer the door, etc. Don’t block them, you can use the messages they keep sending in the inevitable stalking case. But mute the notifications and never look at it.
Honestly I'd be terrified for the kid if he got a no, you know damn well he'd flip out
i heard this after going no contact on an ex after excessive verbal abuse. i still have nightmares he will follow through on his promise to see me even if i call the cops to get his no in person and this was almost a year ago now. i can't imagine how a kid or the parents would handle this and hope they keep her safe from predators like this psycho
@notville_ ?
@justhearmeout3959 don't mind them, I checked and turns out they're saying this in multiple threads, most likely for attention
Stalkers are the scariest thing. They completely break you down. Even if you’re lucky enough to be able to get rid of them, you never feel safe again. My heart breaks for that little girl. I really hope she is doing well.
how DISGUSTING.... I feel so bad for that little girl and her family, that's something you can never really forget :(
This is terrifying! My friend's granddaughter (15) met a guy online who said he was 15 too and lived close by. They planned a secret meeting, and she snuck out the window to her best friends house. Several neighbors reported a strange car circling and parking on their road. The cops caught him before Katie even knew. He was 27, drove over 6 hours, drugs and alcohol, freakin duct tape, a gun and a knife, oh yeah, a registered sex offender!!! I've heard about nightmares like this happening, but I never thought they would happen to someone I knew. Guess that's what everyone says. The police picked Katie up, brought her home and spent 2 hours there talking with the whole family. I'm glad she just got a huge scare and not what that creep had in mind. Love your channel!
I hope she also got some therapy after something as scary as that! What a relief it turned out okay
Thank God she's safe! That's so scary!
I met someone like that. It broke my heart to find out the dude wasn't 13, but was in fact 31. But I learned that people can and will lie on the Internet for, whatever reason? Attention seeking? And trust, but verify.
It was good that the officer kept him talking because the more he talked the more he incriminated himself and showed how much of a threat he was. That is how he got that long sentence
I'm very concerned that the father exited the home in front of this man and confirmed that it was his daughter that he was looking for. I would immediately start looking for somewhere else to live.
this part. i hope they were already in the works of getting tf out of there
They get 4 years to move now!
One of the reasons this is so disturbing especially to a kid and their parents, is he isn’t being aggressive in the “if I don’t see her I’ll kill you all” he’s being rather passive aggressive and calm as he explains he’s looking for a 6 (now 12) year old and that’s “his woman” he really thinks he’s doing the right thing by stalking a child because he believes she is his THATS WHATS SCARY
It’s scary either way. It’s scary that there are adults or anyone above the age range of little kids, trying to have romantic and or sexually relations with little kids.
@notville_ Silence peasant. 🫵
When the cop was asking what he would've done if the 12 year old said yes, feels like hes trying to get something on the camera to get him put away for longer. It really just feels like the cop is trying to keep the guy talking so he can dig his own grave and put him away for a long time
Pedophillia doesn’t get very long sentences unfortunately
This guy is definitely unwell, but even with treatment he's clearly a danger to himself and society.
I think it’s schizophrenia or a schizoid type disorder
Idk man, I feel like both his behavior and his movements are caused by some sort of drug 😬
@@infinitewonders299I don't know any drugs that make you stalk a 6 year old for 5 years. He might also be on drugs, but this is a whole different kind of crazy.
@hopelessromantic3786 Oh, I'm not saying drugs made him stalk a 12 year old for five years, that's not what I meant by behavior. I just meant the fact that this guy was fearlessly shouting his BS to a cop, stumbling over his words & line of thinking, jumbled thoughts, etc. I thought that was obvious, but looking back I can see it needed clarification lol, my bad
@@princessp888
You shouldn't assume that. That mental disorder gets enough negative stigma and shouldn't be assumed that's what causes someone to act out. This dude is just a pedophile that uses God as an excuse.
4.5 years. she'll be 16/17 when he gets out, and though still a minor, she'll be old enough to understand how dangerous this man really is and will also be able to better learn how to protect herself from this. I really hope this family moves and he can't find them before he gets out because you know he won't forget where they live.
I would move and change her name.
If that dude went to prison and said anything like that in prison he'd be dead so perhaps justice would be served if he was sent to prison.
What a creepy dude.
“12 is old. I was looking for a 6 year old” that is disgusting and he said that he was stalking her for 5 years?!?! she would’ve been 6 or 7……..🤢🤮 this man needs to be locked up forever.
this was the most unhinged man I've seen in a long time. 4 and a half years is a good enough period of time for the family to sell that house, move to another state, change their phone numbers, change their lastnames legally, and the child can grow up and not look like they did when they were 12. get away from this man forever.
“I’m here for my woman” THATS A CHILD..
As a victim of an online predator, I genuinely hope the other inmates make sure he doesn't make it 4 more years. They will always seek out new victims, they cannot be redeemed. My heart goes out to the family dealing with this insanity.
Another reason why I will never be okay with kids having social media. Imagine if she didn't have parents to protect her and he was able to lure HER to come to HIM? Children are innocent and don't know any better, but creatures like this guy just see them as things for pleasures because they're beyond sick and selfish. He's lucky her Dad wasn't carrying.
My heart sank at 13:43 after he said how scared her parents must be to the other officer. This entire video is WILD and this guy is absolutely disgusting.
There should be a law that if someone says out their mouth that i want a 6 year old or whatever age or come to a babys house to date the child. They should be locked up right away and off the shyt.
Hearing the sentence was a huge relief. They better not let him out early. That poor little kid deserves some feeling of security.
I am scared for this family and anyone else he fixates on. He is beyond creepy.
We really need stricter laws for stalking cause when they finally go to jail someone is either dead or physically and mentally scared
Another reason children should NOT be online as content creators. Please dont think im victim blaming cause she was just having fun and its not her fault this creep targeted her, but no one should be impacted like this ESPECIALLY children. Thank god her parents took it down but still.
I fully blame the creep and the parents for not keeping their child off of social media. Or if they did, this creep was damned resourceful by going through friends of friends, if I heard correctly.
Like ya said; mentally ill, substance abuse, all of the above, whatever, ya get this deranged THREAT locked up. He was lurking in the neighborhood, around the house! As random & disorganized as he seems , he was able to track down the address so he's obviously capable of doing harm. God knows what, but he's a threat to a minor & was spittin out some really disturbing bs.
I can only imagine the girl inside absolutely terrified that this monster now knows where she lives
What’s crazy to me is that he’s been stalking her since she was 6 or 7 and no one had been able to do anything for years up until this point! I really hope the family can heal and move forward now that this man is behind bars.
I’m an Oregon resident and I’m unfortunately not surprised that his “handlers” told the girls parents not to worry about this guy.
Jesus this is all levels of scary. I’m scared as an adult, I can’t even imagine how a CHILD feels. This is just insane.
“i’m here for my woman, and if she doesn’t want me then i’ll leave right now!” bro SHE SAID NO… also, you just said you meant to be coming for a 6 year old. was that trying to claim she catfished him? 😭
It's like, what woman?! You're here for a child!!!
he said he was looking for her for 5 years, so im guessing she was 6 when he started trying to find her
@@sleepygeekyandreadytodream...ywas it actually 5 years or is he in some kind of delusion and he thinks 5 years has passed?
@@neffyg35 maybe he's delusional? Cuz like now that I think about it, I dunno if a 6 yr old would be allowed to just have a social media account...
But idk
@@sleepygeekyandreadytodream...y yeah it's not too clear the father said she was twelve but when 5 years was very first mentioned I though oh she is 17 now. When the father said 12 I was confused. I agree I don't think a 6 year old would be starting their own youtube channel unless her parents are just dumb.
This one was so hard to watch. It scares me that there are actual people on the planet like this. Seeing stuff like this confirms my agoraphobia and makes me really never want to leave the house or interact with anyone. It just feels like there is so much evil in the world to navigate I’m so overwhelmed :(
When he said "I was looking for a 6 year old" I was in disbelief and that's not easy 🤦🏿♂️
I can't decide if it's more disgusting or terrifying
@@bexlaw3127both.
My first thought was not drugs or alcohol. It seems he has a mental issue... obviously because he's stalking a child. But maybe also schizophrenia. The obsession with religion kinda made me lean towards that as I've seen this before in person.
Edit: so glad he was sentenced to jail. I really hope he doesn't get out anytime soon so that girl can live in peace.
This is literally fucking horrifying. As a mother of 2 little kids like young (1.5 and 4 y/o) this makes me physically sick to my stomach. That poor little girl. Truly hope she is doing okay and the parents i would be so paranoid with her leavung the house if i was them
That's how I see it. Yes, definitely mentally ill. Also. YES he needs to be removed from society until further notice. At least until that girl is old enough to carry a gun.
Mentally ill and a religious freak.
Or old enough to use pepper spray or beat up someone bigger than her
That's a weird sentiment. Even if she can carry a gun he's a danger to her. And he can still be a danger to other minors.
No, he should never be allowed out at anytime out, I don't care if she's protected by the military, creeps like this shouldn't be allow freedom to creep again!
Nah he won't target her after that so we have no choice but to arm her anyway for the other creeps and keep him in some sort of box
I had a stalker when i was 22. i couldn't imagine having to deal with it as a child. Hope things are much better for them now.
This man has been stalking this baby since she was 6 years old 😢. This man is very sick and they are asking him where is he going to sleep tonight smh🤦🏾♀️
I can't imagine being 12 and having a stalker I've had for 5 YEARS. Especially THAT guy. He's scary as hell! I hope this guy leaves her alone after this she must be so traumatized..
Okay, when Boze asks if he’s sober, I would say yes, but a junky kind of sober. He’s high but more coherent than he’s used to. Let’s hope he doesn’t survive prison, and if he does, the inmates and COs will give him the worst time ever.
5:53 the fact he is insane makes him a thousand times more dangerous. That’s the point of bringing up his insanity, not to excuse his actions/words which are atrocious.
Also if she is 12 now that means she was freaking 7 when he started his campaign of terror. If his 5 year thing is true.
The thought of the young girl watching this all unfold makes me sick. Hopefully this “man” doesn’t affect her future!
Keeping us fed, thanks for the upload uncle Boze!
How did he not immediately get arrested after saying he was looking for a 6 year old to date and that he had been stalking her for 5 years
4 1/2 years for just showing up is FANTASTIC. A lot of the time, they’re out in a few months and their only after-punishment is the list. This is genuinely a long time. They see the threat that he is.
Maybe they’re hoping they can medicate him properly in that time, so when he’s out, he’ll at least be “more sane.”
Even if he was on drugs, I think he was genuinely delusional. He has completely re-worked phrases in the bible to fit his own world-view and promote his bad behavior. He was also in complete denial of doing anything wrong and coming up with reasons to believe that she would never say no to him. Everything he said sets off red flags that this person is a danger to himself and other people.
“I’m here for my woman” WHATTTTT???? ELECTRIC CHAIR, NOW.
Im worried this guy has other children he’s been after… stalking a 12 year old for 5 years, then mentioning looking for another 6 year old… there has to be more he’s after/groomed already
I agree.
The worst part is that now he knows exactly where the victim lives should he try to go back
Hopefully he won't get out early and they'll have moved by then.
I’d move so fast tbh
4 years gives the family time to move, change names/ numbers, really get away from this dude. With how many stalker stories you hear where cops don’t do anything until after the victim is hurt/ killed I’m surprised he got any time. Really happy he got time, but still surprised
From stalkers it’s always BS like “I just want a yes or no answer and I’ll leave them alone” and if you cave in and give them an answer it’s always “well they said it under duress, they didn’t mean it” it’s literally moving the goalposts but for STALKING it’s insane
this man travelled across the entire country to stalk a little girl?!😭 electric chair
1:34 I absolutely love that she used the Digital Circus meme of Pomni throwing up
I feel so bad for that little girl, I had a similar incident but it was a school teacher stalking me 😭
Edit: I was in 5th grade and he was an elementary music teacher that gave after school guitar lessons that I attended. He found my IG when I was in 7th grade and continued to stalk me on Facebook until I was 16 😭
A teacher? That's terrifying. I'm sorry that happened to you.
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Dude wtf that's even worst tbh at least thr stalker in this video was some random stranger and not someone your meant to see as a trusted adult
@@skyandthemoonneither is worse or better
What happened?
A man with this level of crazy stalked me, poisoned me with strychnine and put me in a coma for weeks. I had a 2% chance of recovering from the strychnine. I was in multi organ failure while in the coma and had a brain injury from it that I thankfully recovered from. THIS MAN SCARES ME in this video. It gives me flash backs.
wtf???? That's crazy I hope youre doing well, jfc that sounds traumatic
I’m glad you’re alive
This seriously is the craziest stalking case I've ever seen.. ugh.. everything about it. Also, I love your edits
She's 12, he been looking for her for 5 years.
So he has been on her trail since she's 7. At least.
That is beyond scary.
7 is to young to have internet
@@CL0555i’m assuming it was a jojo siwa situation where her parents were posting her and not her posting herself
@@CL0555i had it when i was 7.
@@CL0555but 7 year olds do
@@CL0555 I personally think kids can be on the internet when done correctly. When I was seven I made a video with my mom, that my father recorded. We made cupcakes, wearing modest clothes, and it was me sharing a recipe I created on lemon bar cupcakes! It got 2,000 or so views and lots of kids my age saying they tried it with their parents. It made me want to be a chef and cook all the time (no I’m not a chef now lol) So I personally think when done CAREFULLY and with parental supervision kids can have a great time!
Honestly is cam footage really got me. Back when I was in high school I had a stalker that acted extremely similar to this! He lived across the street and almost broke into the house a few times. He would try to tell me that I was some type of healing goddess, and that our souls were intertwined. It never made any sense. He was basically waiting outside until I came out for whatever reason. My father noticed very quickly and obviously had a issue. So I absolutely feel for this family!!
Ps. The stalker wasn’t able to get into my house, my father is a MMA fighter and my mother is a feral woman! Evidently when I was staying the night at a friends house some big altercation between my parents and the stalker happened, which scared him enough to move away soon after. I still don’t know what happened
He said he was looking for a 6 year old and my jaw dropped so hard omfg. If i was a officer. I would have arrested him at that exact moment. 🤢
"I've been going after her for 5 years and haven't gotten an answer".... I think that's the answer
😳😳😳Nope.
I would've beat his ass & smiled in my mugshot. That was terrifying & gross.
Thanks for the meal Boze! Editors! 💕
This is genuinely terrifying. I can’t imagine being a little girl or a parent going through this! I’m happy the cops actually did something, because a lot of the time, they’ll do nothing because they haven’t “committed a real crime yet”. I think it’s been taken more seriously recently though, and I’m grateful.
He was looking for 6 years in jail, instead he's getting 12. Poetry
He got 4.5
Giving this dude only 4 1/2 years is insane. I was hoping he’d be placed in a mental health facility or kept longer, or just throw the cell key in the garbage disposal with all his creepy ramblings 💀. I only pray that this family has further protection from this man, especially when he’s released.
It’s a shame the police were called before something like an “accident” could happen to the POS.
That officer was brilliant. He was trying to let this guy talk and keep incriminating himself whilst waiting for backup. He wanted to arrest him when he mentioned the 6 year old comment but he knew the more he talked the more info he could get. Well done Officer.
Boze I love your commentary just on point always. Sending loads of love Leisa Western Australia xxxx
I can’t even put my thoughts into words. I’m just in disbelief at how far gone this man is. Hope the family is safe now.
boze your videos always make my day... ive been watching you for years and i put all my friends onto your videos. you are like our national treasure, thank you so much.
I think not hearing anything for 5 years would count as a "no" answer
She's 12 _now_. He's been stalking her for 5 years. That's a baby.
The worst thing is that the more you interact with people like this the more they will tell themselves you like them. I knew if that girl said she wanted him to go he would just think she was forced to say that.
"In her eyes I saw she was begging me to save her."
When he breaks into her room in the middle of the night to 'rescue' her,
"She wants to come with me, but her dad has put cameras everywhere, We both know her dad is working with the police and will try to hunt us down and bring her home. She's struggling against me because she's scared that her dad will find her, bring her home and punish her if she looked as though she came with me willingly."
They say never engage with a stalker at all, for this reason.
"I JUST CAME FOR MY WOMAN", SIR SHE IS 12 SHE IS NOT A WOMAN A LITERAL CHILD, STRAIGHT TO JAIL.