17:38 there's this good saying i heard where someone said "Dont point out anything about someone that they cannot change in 5 seconds" and that really stuck with me!
Not just aunties, my unniversity professor friend asked my "what did I do to cause my Miscarriage "... i had haemorrhaged and was in icu because of excessive bleeding caused by a natural Miscarriage in my 4th month.. it was so traumatic. I went into deep depression because of losing my baby and my supposedly best friend, uter that nonsense.. blocked for life
That might be a test from Allah, and people instead of being compassionate act like your enemy is disgusting. Sorry for your loss, Allah tests those whom he loves
@@Lavender_Fizzallah is not testing us… instead showing us the true face of people who pretend the Care but in our difficult time , couldn’t resist revealing themselves ..
I had a miscarriage and a member of community (I will call her auntie as its a state of mind) call and said…oh, “khayal rakhna chie that” And I ask, “ what do you mean by this? It was my child, off course I was careful “
Honestly so true about shaadi drama and how it can be about anything, I remember the elders got mad as the pictures the married couple were taking on their walima were being displayed on tv-screens in the hall as they were being taken
There’s this aunty in my in laws that whenever she came to our house with her horde of 7 kids my MIL would tell me to lock up my purse and phone and my room because she was an infamous thief. If you go to her house every spoon is a different brand/design because they steal spoons from shaadis 😂😂😂😂
I remember being like 7-8, and my dad(father of 3 girls)'s old friend came to visit. This man says to my father, while my sisters and i are in the room, "Oh aap ko toh bohat dukh hota hoga keh aap ka koi beta nahi hai" my dad was not gonna let this slide and he said "Mujhe beton ki koi zaroorat nahi hai, meri betiyan are enough for my khushi." Lets just say that uncle never came to visit again 🤌🤌
The one who came to the 16 yrs old home and compared her with her son . . 😡😡😡😡😡 and that dumpster son just let the drama play on !!!! Seriously !!!!! That’s UNACCEPTABLE!
Had I heard this as that girls parents .. I’d have fired that woman out or filed restraining order on her saying she’s been harassing my child… hope that girl is ok ..
You guys are really paving the way for us to be able to talk openly about taboo topics that we all need more transparency on, so thank you. I think it would be great if you had an honest conversation about the topic of intimacy, and all the emotions and judement that goes with it. And all things that both men and women can feel, especially since physical intimacy or the "bird and the bees" is something our community does not discuss at all.
Hi guys, I really love your podcast and I'm always waiting for Wednesdays! But can you add some subtitles especially when you speak other than english ? I'm sri lankan-french and its hard to understand for me sometimes 😅
The things about pregnancy and people are so insensitive about it. My sister suffered ectopic pregnancy and had to get emergency surgery the night she learned that she's pregnant. She couldn't even process everything. She had to get emergency surgery otherwise the tube might burst and kill her. The very next day after her surgery our mother asks her whether the fetus was boy or girl. My sister looked at her like she had stabbed her.
Uff everyone has a list of toxic things these uncles and aunties have said to us I am getting married in my family my mil is great I love her but the other aunties are constantly trying to say things to my mil against me and I don't know how to handle it
You guys say that your “ mujy urdu nhi ati” but you speak full sentences. I am raising two children in Australia and its soo so dam hard to teach them urdu, one is 13 and other is 8 they both can’t speak Urdu, like not even one complete sentence. I hired a urdu teacher over Skype when my older son was 9 years old and was in 4th grade. Teacher made him memorise this into, “mera nam sameed hai, main chothi(4th) class ka talib e ilm hun…he is now in grade 8 if you ask him to speak in urdu he will say the same thing 😂😂😂 For the record both of your Urdu is so cute and funny 🤣 😂 and very burger 🍔😂😂😂
Lol when I watch them I question my identity as a desi; i know neither the language nor songs. I can only relate to the toxic relatives. 😢 😢😢 pls don’t do an language video I won’t understand anything 😭😭
17:38 there's this good saying i heard where someone said "Dont point out anything about someone that they cannot change in 5 seconds" and that really stuck with me!
Not just aunties, my unniversity professor friend asked my "what did I do to cause my Miscarriage "... i had haemorrhaged and was in icu because of excessive bleeding caused by a natural Miscarriage in my 4th month.. it was so traumatic. I went into deep depression because of losing my baby and my supposedly best friend, uter that nonsense.. blocked for life
I’m so sorry you went thru that. Hope you’re doing better ❤
That might be a test from Allah, and people instead of being compassionate act like your enemy is disgusting. Sorry for your loss, Allah tests those whom he loves
@@Lavender_Fizzallah is not testing us… instead showing us the true face of people who pretend the Care but in our difficult time , couldn’t resist revealing themselves ..
Uruje laughing hysterically at every thing gets me! Hahahah! 🤣
It really is😂
I had a miscarriage and a member of community (I will call her auntie as its a state of mind) call and said…oh, “khayal rakhna chie that”
And I ask, “ what do you mean by this? It was my child, off course I was careful “
Unreal
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Yes i saw the pin🍉
Honestly so true about shaadi drama and how it can be about anything, I remember the elders got mad as the pictures the married couple were taking on their walima were being displayed on tv-screens in the hall as they were being taken
It’s never ending
There’s this aunty in my in laws that whenever she came to our house with her horde of 7 kids my MIL would tell me to lock up my purse and phone and my room because she was an infamous thief. If you go to her house every spoon is a different brand/design because they steal spoons from shaadis 😂😂😂😂
😮😮😮😮😮😮😮
Shit!! 🤣🤣🤣
Shit!! 🤣🤣🤣
I remember being like 7-8, and my dad(father of 3 girls)'s old friend came to visit. This man says to my father, while my sisters and i are in the room, "Oh aap ko toh bohat dukh hota hoga keh aap ka koi beta nahi hai" my dad was not gonna let this slide and he said "Mujhe beton ki koi zaroorat nahi hai, meri betiyan are enough for my khushi." Lets just say that uncle never came to visit again 🤌🤌
Shoutout to your dad 🙌🏼
These girls spitting facts!!! Louder!! 🫰🫰🫰
The one who came to the 16 yrs old home and compared her with her son . . 😡😡😡😡😡 and that dumpster son just let the drama play on !!!! Seriously !!!!! That’s UNACCEPTABLE!
It really is!
Had I heard this as that girls parents .. I’d have fired that woman out or filed restraining order on her saying she’s been harassing my child… hope that girl is ok ..
Congrats on 5k!!!
Thank you so much!
Can you imagine a documentary on toxic relatives . It’d look like dateline with suspense music 😂
It really would!
This podcast is so frekin real!!! Im saying this as a desi guy. 😂😂😂
we appreciate it!
You guys are really paving the way for us to be able to talk openly about taboo topics that we all need more transparency on, so thank you.
I think it would be great if you had an honest conversation about the topic of intimacy, and all the emotions and judement that goes with it. And all things that both men and women can feel, especially since physical intimacy or the "bird and the bees" is something our community does not discuss at all.
That’s a great suggestion! Thanks for the support❤️
These topics are sooo relatable!!!
Love all of your content.
Thank you!
Zameen ka Kaam. Had me rolling! Hai Allah! 😅😂
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bring more guests, we want those toxic aunties and uncles on here🤣
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43:57 Phupo using her last brain cell to figure out the situation
So many truths! Loved the Pakistani courts topic 😅
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Hi guys, I really love your podcast and I'm always waiting for Wednesdays!
But can you add some subtitles especially when you speak other than english ?
I'm sri lankan-french and its hard to understand for me sometimes 😅
Hi! Thank you for your input! We appreciate it❤️ and thank you for watching!
love the way yall pronounce aunty😂😂 makes it 10x funnier
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The things about pregnancy and people are so insensitive about it. My sister suffered ectopic pregnancy and had to get emergency surgery the night she learned that she's pregnant. She couldn't even process everything. She had to get emergency surgery otherwise the tube might burst and kill her.
The very next day after her surgery our mother asks her whether the fetus was boy or girl.
My sister looked at her like she had stabbed her.
Unbelievable that is so heartbreaking for someone to say that when you have gone through something so traumatic💔
Good job gurliess❤
I love those ok mom mugs ..
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Thank you!!!
Eh ta too much sach boli jandiyan 😜🤣
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Uff everyone has a list of toxic things these uncles and aunties have said to us
I am getting married in my family my mil is great I love her but the other aunties are constantly trying to say things to my mil against me and I don't know how to handle it
That sounds so difficult to navigate! Hoping you have a wonderful relationship with you inlaws❤️
I love this podcast so much! The miscarriage story. Wow. Hope she is ok. ❤
Yes definitely 💔
Omg I had such a toxic story to share!!
call me burger, shawarma, pizza whatever you liiiiiiike ~
Ya my
Uncles are chill I don’t really speak to my aunts nothing in common
I like your channel a lot
Sabotaging Sebastian 😂😂😂
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Also about pronunciation : “data” or “deeta”
Happy 5k
Thank you!
Sabotaging Shabana 😂
ooo that’s a good one😂
Please next time toxic husbands who shows other that they are perfect with there wife but are hell for the wife 😅
You guys say that your “ mujy urdu nhi ati” but you speak full sentences.
I am raising two children in Australia and its soo so dam hard to teach them urdu, one is 13 and other is 8 they both can’t speak Urdu, like not even one complete sentence.
I hired a urdu teacher over Skype when my older son was 9 years old and was in 4th grade. Teacher made him memorise this into, “mera nam sameed hai, main chothi(4th) class ka talib e ilm hun…he is now in grade 8 if you ask him to speak in urdu he will say the same thing 😂😂😂
For the record both of your Urdu is so cute and funny 🤣 😂 and very burger 🍔😂😂😂
Thank you! It’s more that our Urdu could always be better.
Lol when I watch them I question my identity as a desi; i know neither the language nor songs. I can only relate to the toxic relatives. 😢
😢😢 pls don’t do an language video I won’t understand anything 😭😭
😩 we’ll add subtitles if we do it
@@OKMomPodcastok ❤️ i allow it!
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