Do you think the person counceling is not suited for these people? I am taking culture wise? I don’t think the therapist understand the “culture” of these people- she has not said anything to them to help them. Nothing. What do you think?
@@sg5720 I think therapy doesn’t have anything to do with the culture , the therapist is just there to listen to them and the helping part I kinda agree tho
Chioma is literally one of the most beautiful women I've seen. She carries herself admirably. I really hope she finds someone that appreciates her value.
That man can never love her. That ex she was sleeping with and her lack of remorse for it shows the level which he views that man. That man knows it too and has been lying to himself occasionally that he can get past it.It's now not a wonder their sex life also fell apart. I'm also sure that's not the only thing chioma has done if this isn't scripted. If the man wanted the best for both of them he'd never have started a relationship with someone who they can't overlook their past actions. Interact but never get there.
@@michaeldaniel9457 You like the fact that she started a relationship off with DECEPTION? If she had told him from the very beginning that she was going to be sleeping with another man while at the same time denying him, I doubt he would have pursued a relationship with her. DECEPTION is never a good look.
Can’t believe I thought Deborah was weird. She is childish but a woman’s intuition is realllll. That boy is cheating and she knew it. That’s why she’s acting like that
Something has fundamentally changed in Chioma's attitude. She's no longer willing to entertain Paul's narcissistic and insecure BS. And it's lovely to see !
She probably read our comments, researched what a narcissist is and realized what she needed to do. She loves love, but she can't continue investing her love in this man.
Sad that Jamal was factually hiding something all the while making her look neurotic and psycho for having a hunch that he’s not being truthful. She ain’t crazy after all.
Deborah is just a toxic person I must say. You can tell she's very controlling and doesn't allow this guy some breathing space. The guy should just drop her and go and find someone that will make him happier. Or better enjoy the single life
Jamel is the one who brought Debora to therapy, he made her look crazy to everyone when he was the one cheating?!!!!!! I need a seat cause whaaaaat?!! Manipulator at its finest
He didn't make her look bad. She did. Since yall have selective memory like ypipo: It's not Jamel who said "I need the latest and greatest" It's not Jamel who said "I need to keep up with fashion" It's not Jamel who said "I don't care" when Jamel he'd reduced his spending to invest for their future It's not Jamel who said "I need to be treated like a princess" It's not Jamel who admitted to popping up at his work and stalking his phone Is allergy to accountability something women automatically are born with?
Also, if Chioma had allowed Paul to design her website she would have never heard the end of it....for life 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. Actually he would probably add his picture on the welcome page
Yes. That part. Long term relationships aren't just about love, they're about compatibility. It's not two people gazing at each other, but two people gazing outward in the same direction.
It's a Disney version of love ur talking about, ppl look for love first, rather than seeing love as the result, love ain't easy nor always exciting, it's not happily ever after, it's being one with another, and ppl struggle coming to terms with themselves
Deborah is not completely crazy. She has valid points to her issues. No girlfriend/wife likes messages coming from females to her man at 1am. It's disrespectful. Yes, you can't control when people text you, but when you set boundaries and set a standard for yourself towards other people especially clientele, they will respect you accordingly. He's definitely cheating, or at least hiding something.
Yow, I thought Deborah was a little spoiled brat and have lots of insecurities from the previous episodes and was rooting for Jamal but damn bruh! The same ex she's been worried about! Yeah they had a long ass “talk” in the car😂
Absolutely. Also, if Jamel wants to be with other girls then he should be so, just let Deborah free so that she can enjoy her life. It’s the sense of entitlement many men feel to women and their time whilst they are actively engaging in deception just to be able to control women.
He also needs to give her reassurance. It seems like that’s what she really needs is assurance that he’s on her side and for nobody else and doing any and everything he can to prove that. If he really wanted to he would instead of making her think she’s crazy. Like my guy if your cheating your cheating if your not do what you can to keep her thinking otherwise. I low key think he’s still kind of in an immature mentality but that’s just me
The moment he refused to show the Christina messages when he said it was platonic I knew he was lying. A wrongly accused man will happily prove his innocence 😡
I’m actually hurt. Jamel has been gaslighting Deborah all this time and she’s been so sure about her gut feeling. Regardless of how Deborah is, she didn’t deserve the cheating. No one deserves cheating actually.
I saw it episode one. She is a brat. But she is honest and logical although she is demanding. But Jamal plays this innocent victim role. Sometimes those people are the worst. He is not a man just a grown boy who seems he has mom issue
People in episode 1 : Damn Jamel run for your life she’s not a girl for you People in episode 5 : damn Deborah run for your life he’s not a man for you
@@minniekay240 it's actually not about her "self esteem". A lot of y'all are just refusing to clock her own problematic ways (that are very obvious in this series) because of female bias. The reason she stays with Paul is that she subconsciously KNOWS that not many men would put up with her (ironically) unbearable personality
The truth is that even though Debra has her own issues with respect to wanting a sugar daddy and not a boyfriend, Jamel is soo shady. He's always lying like and playing victim
@@PATV_ Right!! Lol 😂 but How’s Harry and I hope Megan’s doing well sha.. oh! How’s Granny Elizabeth- I haven’t had a chance to look into the queen after The death of her husband.
You know Ur problem?you are the kind of person that instead of looking n Hoping there iron tins out,you just looking to take side.hope u hv a good relationship like this
So at first mandem Jamel fancied his girlfriends sister. Secondly he bought only for himself a ticket for afro nation and now he’s lowkey confessing that he cheating? Dang Deborah needs to drop him like a hot potato🤡
If u can tell though that’s been a issue I seen in him since episode 1. If a man doesn’t feel comfortable with his woman not even in his messages. But just holding his phone he’s cheating.
Paul is a clear example of a man who stole his girl's confidence and is now flaunting it as if he birth it. He THINKS his confidence came from losing weight, but the truth is, Chioma showed him confidence comes from acknowledging and appreciating who you are. He can't stand it, because he don't like himself. That's why he nitpicks at Chioma for her cooking, her music selection and her sex drive--her confidence oozes in every way (im sure in other ways too--look at her). He hates that she has what he can't fix with $2000.00 suits. As far as the intimacy goes, of course he blamed her for gaining weight and not himself for being weak. He can't leave her because his (in)security depends on Chioma's confidence. Chioma wont leave because she genuinely loves him for him.
The Paul she knew is never coming back. The love and care Chioma experienced in the beginning was love bombing. Moment he won her and they moved in together he changed and became emotionally abusive. This is classic narc behaviour.
People throw the term narcicist around loosely, but you’re totally right. He is so cold, thinks a lot of himself, implies things without saying it to put people on edge, and the way he twists things and gaslight her it’s horrible.
Then he compliments the same cooking that he was dissing when he implied she has gained weight, the gall and the bladder that this guy has is beyond Audacity😯😯😯😮
“if you don’t plan on marrying me, I don’t know who the hell is going to put up with you” Chioma you don’t have to make the sacrifice for the world. RUN!
Well look how she was being portrayed? There are so many women like her who we all think are stuck up and controlling etc- but when the truth comes out only then you understand why the person acts the way they act. Typical human understanding. We all thought Deborah was crazy at first- now we know why - JAMAL. Happens all the time and women left looking like the crazies. Sigh
I'm I the only one who actually notices that PAUL is actually intimidated by CHIOMA not being home for the last week 😂 nigga scared as shit😂 he knows that Chioma is too good to be lost😂
Nope. He fell for her beauty n he's addicted to it but doesn't like her mindset n he knows that if he empower her she'll leave so he keep trying to break her n hold her back in order to feel safe. A lot of men with pretty women does this.
@@trevonmitchell what mindset does she have? Cause the woman has been begging the man for his time. He's actually starving her of his attention to be wicked. And it's not right. Love doesn't have to be hard. I just think he likes hurting her and taking her for granted because he is insecure.
So that means she’s with a narcissistic man and she’s okay with it cos no other woman can put up with in. Hope she is making the right decision or she just enjoys the praises from Paul.
@@chibuzorozurumbaokeke4543 she’s an issue herself.. those words coming out of her mouth... 🤮.. shows how low she thinks of herself.. her self love is low!!sad!
“If this doesn’t work, she has NOTHING TO FALL BACK ON”. What on earth? You have your FREEDOM, LIFE, FRESH AIR and SPACE when you DEXOT THIS OFFENSIVE ODOR CALLED OUT OF Your Life. Chioma, don’t you know he is BLOCKING YOUR LIGHT, SHINE and YOUR FUTURE ; Paul is HOLDING YOU BACK IN LIFE. The question you want to ask yourself is how many more years of your life do you want to give to PAUL?
Nah this therapist is fake, shes digging for dirt. When she said, "your body language makes me think you have something to worry about", in a court case that's called leading the witness. She dont know how to be non bias party, she digging for views..
I am so, glad i didn't judge Deborah from the beginning. I saw some sense in what she was complaining about from the first episode. Now, I see Jamel is someone who is good at playing it cool while Gaslighting Deborah and the therapist! Chioma, came back with a full energy and I love the vibes. She is giving this "I am done trying to make this work out between us" vibes!
For real, honestly Something been off about Jamel from episode one. So glad I didn’t judge. I’m not gonna lie, things she stated since the very first episode made absolute sense to me
If I were a man, I would be lucky to have Chioma as a gf/partner. Lady is just off the charts gorgeous. And clearly patient that she kept up with a covert narcissist.
She;s the kind of woman men run from, how tf ur dating guys but still fucking ur ex, she's always gonna be fucking that ex, it's her go to guy, she's a thot and a disrespectful one ah that, only good to clap and run.
Jamal disappointed me🥺 but just goes to show you that a man will make feel confused or stupid off you suspecting his cheating and make himself the victim... Ladies trust your first instinct, trust your gut! Men are not only intentional with all their actions but also strategic.
Not to make it a gender thing but women are same way you know right? They are just better at covering their mess. I have had similar experience with someone i trusted and she lied every single time i asked her about it until i found all the evidence and showed it to her.
@@mekkbliss1629 Chioma is the proof that women are just like man, but are just better at painting themselves like the victim. Chioma behaves exactly like Paul throughout this series, but look at how the commentary reacts to both (they tell Paul he's a narcissist and that she "deserves better")
I actually get that, but they aren't married so there's that. They are working towards marriage though so you can't just not go home. Go home and keep the distance. Marriage is hard work. Keep at it when it's hard. Consistency is sometimes key.
@@ekachukwuisibor4881 he was insensitive and her feelings got hurt, but he basically said you need to lose some weight. Hurtful? Yes, but that's something for her to stay in one side of the apartment while he's on the other. That's not a I'm not coming home and I'm not even saying where I'm going to be type deal. But to be honest though that was brewing. It's not about his one comment, but if that's how it's handled I don't know if it's worth it to work it out. It doesn't seem like it will last if they don't talk it out.
Paul asked her to get an abortion cause he didn’t want kids rn yet he makes her take care of his sisters kids!? Make it make sense imagine how difficult that is for her
Paul is a proud, insecure, egotistic, jealous and insensitive person. He feels the world revolves around him and he's not straight forward like Chioma. He's treating Chioma like something he owns, thus, he feels he should always be in charge.
@@bangitybangbabang I don't even think he means that. I feel It's just his way of rubbing in the fact that he came earlier than she did. Deep down, he's not liking this therapy thing and already blamed Chioma's decision to move out on the show. He's hearing but not listening, and is always on the defensive. He's willing to 'air all the dirty laundry', so Chioma can look bad. In all, he's not seeing his shortcomings, not totally acknowledging them and certainly doesn't seem like he's willing to be a better partner to his girl. I don't think he has any plan to marry her and if he does, she'll just have to be a trophy wife that he can control.
As the convo went on it seems he has created Deborah in the sense that he promised her things and now he is unable to get her the things or lifestyle and she is upset. Listen how she talks- beside being raised that way, she is being pushed to act like this - and because of the silly stupid mistakes Jamal has made. Sigh. Paul got focussed on his job and forgot about his woman, Chioma wants attention just like before and he fell off, because just like a lot of couples they have the person so no need to conical out the effort in. Happened in my marriage but thank God my husband and I could come together and remember why we married in the first place. It can’t always be perfect but it can be great. ☺️
No guys. The way Chioma broke out into a smile shows us just how little attention and recognition she needs to be happy. But Paul can't give it to her.
True he is but I mean maybe he feels like he’s investing too much into their relationship so that’s why he’s finding an out cuz he wants to escape. I’m not sure it’s still wrong tho
Whilst i agree that Jamel shouldnt have been cheating or whatever w Christina at the same time Deborah expected wayyyy too much from him. She always compared him to her friends man, she expected too much materialistically and she is sorry imma say it generally NOT bringing anything to the table. Shes already ready to attack Jamel but when he says something then she goes ughh no. Sorry but ms naija must go.
“This is not the Paul I know”. ABEEEEEEGG... Chioma... CHIOMA.. THIS is who Paul is 💀 Sometimes it may take years to know who somebody TRULY is. Just LEAVE. You have fought enough. I have not seen even ONE person defend Paul.
Chioma is manipulative she couldn’t answers the what have you done for them lately? And when he expose how he basically runs her business. She felt bad and had to mention the fact the her MAN, was insecure about HIS woman, working with a specific MAN. Modern women are crazy. He was showing her love and she starts trashing him. The fact that she wouldn’t stop working with that man and the that she was yelling, to people on the internet, about how she was a thot rocket when they started dating. Shows shes not considerate about her man’s feeling, because men do have feeling. This is a trash, women. But to you shes a victim of a man that want to marry and have children with her. And posting sexy picture on the internet is cheating she keep her options open. Which is what she was doing by sleeping with her ex. And how can you give your all in a relationship, that they both agree they want to go to marriage.
And these are fake couples on a reality show on Mtv. But it show that more women will show hate to Paul a man trying to make sure he doesn’t marry the wrong women than Jamel a man that was sleeping with his ex and never stop. This is irony you can only get from a script.
Christian Lima are u sure u are normal? or not psychologically challenged? "chioma is posting sexy pictures on the internet" she's not considerate about her man's feelings? meanwhile Paul selects half naked sexy girls in the club, dancing around him at sits at his table in the name of "seeing a client".
Finally, cats out the bag Jamel is a cheater and this whole time he had us believing that Deborah was being paranoid for no reason. Ladies you see our female intuition, trust it God gave it to us for a reason to protect us from this kind of foolery. Kwasia!
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That lowkey shade from Denise is EVERYTHIIIING lmao "i presume the successful man has had a successful week" GET HIIIIM
Lol
😭😭😭 YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS!
Yea the shade is over the top
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😭😂😂😂😂
Jamal blaming the Coronavirus pandemic for Christina texting him at 1am lol.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
This is the comment I've been looking for.... 😿😹😹😹😹 jamel is a joke.
I was shocked with his response 😂😂😂. I don’t know why he decided to mention the virus lol
😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣 just sneaky 😂😂
Paul needs to stop being mean to the therapist! She’s not the cause of your problem. YOU ARE!
Toxic people hate on those that will make your scales fall off
Do you think the person counceling is not suited for these people? I am taking culture wise? I don’t think the therapist understand the “culture” of these people- she has not said anything to them to help them. Nothing. What do you think?
IKR
@@sg5720 i agree they could have found a more appropriate counsellor
@@sg5720 I think therapy doesn’t have anything to do with the culture , the therapist is just there to listen to them and the helping part I kinda agree tho
Chioma is literally one of the most beautiful women I've seen. She carries herself admirably. I really hope she finds someone that appreciates her value.
Absolutely dear
I love her whole personality as a woman 💘💘✌️
That man can never love her. That ex she was sleeping with and her lack of remorse for it shows the level which he views that man. That man knows it too and has been lying to himself occasionally that he can get past it.It's now not a wonder their sex life also fell apart. I'm also sure that's not the only thing chioma has done if this isn't scripted. If the man wanted the best for both of them he'd never have started a relationship with someone who they can't overlook their past actions. Interact but never get there.
🙄🙄🙄🙄
@Jessica Banks Chioma is TRASH!!
@@michaeldaniel9457 You like the fact that she started a relationship off with DECEPTION? If she had told him from the very beginning that she was going to be sleeping with another man while at the same time denying him, I doubt he would have pursued a relationship with her. DECEPTION is never a good look.
Sis wore a black dress for the occasion, she ain't having it no more.
i just pedped 😭😭
Funeral settings
True
totally done and left his bullshit wit paul & his very sorry ass
She better not have it no more
It’s not Blue therapy if Paul doesn’t say “my high net worth clients”
Facts on facts 😭🤣😭🤣😭🤣
😂🤣🤣😂😂🤣🤣 thats his blue print
@@petuniamoeti7388 it's his praying mantra
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Your too funny
I don't even care if the show is fake anymore cause i'm way too invested now
😂😂😂😂
Lol yeah, that’s why women stay in bad relationships
@@sulymanayomide2859 well damn 😭😭
Deborah said it's not fake.
😂😂😂
Denise tends to look like she's enjoying the tea at times. .. 😂
With a lil evil grin too smhlol
Along with all of us…
She looks *shocked*
😂😂😂 i think all therapists went into it to get all the tea 😂
Ask Paul what’s 1+1. His reply would be “let’s think in a professional perspective” 😂😂😂
What is the professional perspective? He needs to stop with the mansplaining
😂😂😂😂😂😂
HAAHHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHHA
LMAOOO yesss!!!
Or "what do you think "
Can’t believe I thought Deborah was weird. She is childish but a woman’s intuition is realllll. That boy is cheating and she knew it. That’s why she’s acting like that
Men will literally make you mad and then call you crazy in the long run
Deborah really has been redeemed as the show has gone on.
And she needs to trust it, leave that man
She’s probably cheating aswell
If she knew why she still there?
at this point it should become a Netflix show😭😭😭
I wonder if they are going to add more people after these lot
@@renemae8601 yhhh same. I hope they do tbh it should be a series with different people maybe every month.
Muuuums🤣🤣😭
Lol 😂
No cap literally 😂😂😂😂
Rewatch the whole season and take a shot every time Paul says “I deal with high value, high net worth clients” 🤣😭😭😭 drink responsibly
Omg😭😭
🤣😂
I'm fkn drunk 😅😅😅😅😅😅😅
@@becomingsasha 😂😂😂😂😂
Something has fundamentally changed in Chioma's attitude. She's no longer willing to entertain Paul's narcissistic and insecure BS. And it's lovely to see !
amen.
Simp
She probably read our comments, researched what a narcissist is and realized what she needed to do. She loves love, but she can't continue investing her love in this man.
@@tochukwuokey-munonye7884 paul this u?!
Her sister definitely said something to her.
I died when Chioma said “If you don’t plan on marrying me, that’s your business because I don’t know who the hell’s gonna put up with you”
😂😂
Punchline 🤣🤣🤣
I off.. but really, she is so right
It's true though 😂😂😂
That's rubbish, she's sat there either for love or money - but she's sat there. So she's answered her own question 🙄
Loool, this Debra needs a job in the CIA. She said "Jamel has made a new friend this week called Christina..." I am dead.
Lmao 😂
Then went ahead to say they have been texting for 3 months
I love deborah, cheating on her is very hard and I’m loving it
lmaoooooooooooooooooo
For me she got the job when she pulled out an email confirmation of his Afro Nation tickets on her own phone LMAO
Sad that Jamal was factually hiding something all the while making her look neurotic and psycho for having a hunch that he’s not being truthful. She ain’t crazy after all.
Exactly. All this time I’m like she doing too much. But sis intuition was spot on
Narcissist at best
GASLIGHTING!!!! People throw that word around a lot, but we’ve actually seen it on this show.
Thats true and all...but we just can't go past the fact that she demands gifts from him as if he is compelled to
@@nkosinho7323 demanding gifts and cheating have nothing to do with each other 😂
The therapist should honestly receive a bonus for tolerating Paul since episode one 😒
Frfr
Honestly
I swear down
The guy is so disrespectful and he's the one always complaining about disrespect
Its tough being a pro, she is probably grinding her teeth
@@faridamomoh8278 his big bald head is stuck in his butt
Deborah's intuition was STRONG and it did not fail her. Looks like Paul isn't the only villain
So strongggggg
Paul is not a villain.
𝑪𝒉𝒆𝒂𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒊𝒔 𝒔𝒐𝒎𝒆𝒕𝒉𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒕𝒉𝒂𝒕'𝒔 𝒈𝒓𝒐𝒘𝒏 𝒊𝒏𝒕𝒐 𝒂 𝒗𝒊𝒓𝒖𝒔 𝒐𝒇 𝒎𝒂𝒏𝒌𝒊𝒏𝒅, 𝒘𝒉𝒆𝒓𝒆 𝒊𝒔 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒘𝒐𝒓𝒅 𝑳𝑶𝒀𝑨𝑳𝑻𝒀? 𝑰 𝒘𝒐𝒖𝒍𝒅 𝒉𝒂𝒗𝒆 𝒏𝒆𝒗𝒆𝒓 𝒇𝒊𝒈𝒖𝒓𝒆 𝒐𝒖𝒕 𝒎𝒚 𝒘𝒊𝒇𝒆 𝒘𝒂𝒔 𝒉𝒂𝒗𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒂𝒎 𝒂𝒇𝒇𝒂𝒊𝒓 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒉𝒆𝒓 𝒆𝒙 𝒃𝒐𝒚𝒇𝒓𝒊𝒆𝒏𝒅. 𝑺𝒉𝒆 𝒔𝒕𝒊𝒍𝒍 𝒅𝒊𝒅𝒏'𝒕 𝒄𝒐𝒎𝒆 𝒄𝒍𝒆𝒂𝒏 𝒂𝒇𝒕𝒆𝒓 𝒎𝒚 𝒔𝒖𝒔𝒑𝒊𝒄𝒊𝒐𝒏. 𝑰 𝒉𝒊𝒓𝒆 𝒔𝒐𝒎𝒆𝒐𝒏𝒆 𝑰 𝒔𝒂𝒘 𝒐𝒏 𝒂 𝒓𝒆𝒅𝒅𝒊𝒕 𝒕𝒉𝒓𝒆𝒂𝒅 𝒕𝒐 𝒈𝒆𝒕 𝒘𝒉𝒂𝒕 𝑰 𝒏𝒆𝒆𝒅𝒆𝒅 𝒐𝒇𝒇 𝒉𝒆𝒓 𝒑𝒉𝒐𝒏𝒆. 𝒀𝒐𝒖 𝒄𝒂𝒏 𝒄𝒐𝒏𝒕𝒂𝒄𝒕 𝒉𝒊𝒎 𝒗𝒊𝒂 𝒄𝒓𝒚𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒍𝒉𝒂𝒄𝒌𝒆𝒓.𝒄𝒐𝒎 ✌🏾
intuition!"?
Deborah is just a toxic person I must say. You can tell she's very controlling and doesn't allow this guy some breathing space. The guy should just drop her and go and find someone that will make him happier. Or better enjoy the single life
If Paul doesn't say "high net worth clients", he'll choke
Haha
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Everytime he says that line his head gets more Shine, look close 😭
I swear 🤣🤣🤣🤣
🥴🥴🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I love how Chioma isn’t tip toeing around Paul anymore…
Jamel is the one who brought Debora to therapy, he made her look crazy to everyone when he was the one cheating?!!!!!!
I need a seat cause whaaaaat?!! Manipulator at its finest
Yep he’s a gas lighter. Tries to minimise everything she says
Exactlyyy😦
Wow! You summed it up well .
Swears down. Nothing prepared me for it😂😂
He didn't make her look bad. She did.
Since yall have selective memory like ypipo: It's not Jamel who said "I need the latest and greatest"
It's not Jamel who said "I need to keep up with fashion"
It's not Jamel who said "I don't care" when Jamel he'd reduced his spending to invest for their future
It's not Jamel who said "I need to be treated like a princess"
It's not Jamel who admitted to popping up at his work and stalking his phone
Is allergy to accountability something women automatically are born with?
Also, if Chioma had allowed Paul to design her website she would have never heard the end of it....for life 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. Actually he would probably add his picture on the welcome page
Fckin hell bld 😂😂
@Nolusizo Dlalisa It'll be like, Welcome, I'm Paul, the owner of this website's boyfriend 🤣🤣🤣
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂
Istg 😂
One thing I've learnt following this show: LOVE IS NEVER ENOUGH. You can genuinely love someone and not have a successful relationship.
But it’s not love though
Too many people believe that love is enough but a strong relationship that works, takes much more than that you’re right.
I agreed.
Yes. That part. Long term relationships aren't just about love, they're about compatibility. It's not two people gazing at each other, but two people gazing outward in the same direction.
It's a Disney version of love ur talking about, ppl look for love first, rather than seeing love as the result, love ain't easy nor always exciting, it's not happily ever after, it's being one with another, and ppl struggle coming to terms with themselves
Nobody:
Absolutely Nobody:
Paul: "High net worth Clients"
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂💀
😂😂😂 that sh*t irritates me
😂 😂 😂
This the one 😂😂😂😂😂
@@tatendamichelle3322 I stg!!!!
Deborah is not completely crazy. She has valid points to her issues. No girlfriend/wife likes messages coming from females to her man at 1am. It's disrespectful. Yes, you can't control when people text you, but when you set boundaries and set a standard for yourself towards other people especially clientele, they will respect you accordingly. He's definitely cheating, or at least hiding something.
Yow, I thought Deborah was a little spoiled brat and have lots of insecurities from the previous episodes and was rooting for Jamal but damn bruh! The same ex she's been worried about! Yeah they had a long ass “talk” in the car😂
Jamal is definitely Cheating
Absolutely. Also, if Jamel wants to be with other girls then he should be so, just let Deborah free so that she can enjoy her life. It’s the sense of entitlement many men feel to women and their time whilst they are actively engaging in deception just to be able to control women.
lol @OasisFamous I like how you say 'NOT COMPLETELY'.... but yah you have a point
He also needs to give her reassurance. It seems like that’s what she really needs is assurance that he’s on her side and for nobody else and doing any and everything he can to prove that. If he really wanted to he would instead of making her think she’s crazy. Like my guy if your cheating your cheating if your not do what you can to keep her thinking otherwise. I low key think he’s still kind of in an immature mentality but that’s just me
Denise “you had a good week?”
Paul “is that a trick question?”
Lmao 😂😂
30 seconds in he had me 😂😂😂 legend like Paul !
Denise looked like she wanted to laugh so bad 😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣
Denise wants Paul so bad, drawing love hearts on her notebook n shit
So rude for what?? 😭😭
Sis wear the perfect dress to this session cause it’s a funeral for this relationship period 🤷♀️
please hahahahahhahahahah
😂😂😜
😂😂😂😂
Fr LMFAOO
LMAO
When Chioma said the guy had a crush on Paul that's why he's following him and his girls got me laughing hard 😂💀😂😂😂
Jamal is so toxic, almost got me feeling sorry for him, with his little pityful act. Did he just remember he cheated?
Hahahaha
“Did he just remember?” 😭😭😭😭😭😭HAALPP!!
The moment he refused to show the Christina messages when he said it was platonic I knew he was lying. A wrongly accused man will happily prove his innocence 😡
She’s toxic he probably did it caus of how overbearing she is
This 😅😅
I’m actually hurt. Jamel has been gaslighting Deborah all this time and she’s been so sure about her gut feeling. Regardless of how Deborah is, she didn’t deserve the cheating. No one deserves cheating actually.
I saw it episode one. She is a brat. But she is honest and logical although she is demanding. But Jamal plays this innocent victim role. Sometimes those people are the worst. He is not a man just a grown boy who seems he has mom issue
@@MrsAnaelimont spot on! Now I really don’t feel bad about her wanting to milk him dry! 😂
both are toxic
She deserves it hella much, deserving does not mean punishment, it means getting what you resonate with
Honestly!
People in episode 1 : Damn Jamel run for your life she’s not a girl for you
People in episode 5 : damn Deborah run for your life he’s not a man for you
Yout just described what I did
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
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@@onyin_cynthia are you guys watching as the same time as me ? 😂😂 I am at 23:21
@@chrisngoy9827 yes, I think it's same time here
Lol
Every sentence that comes out of Paul's mouth is a red flag 🚩
LOL.
Listen to the whole thing.
Especially this one.
He’s demeanor is a whole red flag!!
Every 👏🏾 Single 👏🏾 One 👏🏾
Paul is red flag walking😂😂😂
If I got a pound for everytime Paul goes “Hhmmmmm”. I’d be on his list of high net worth clients
This is good 😭🤣🤣
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😭😭😭😭
You nailed it 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂😂
“If you don’t plan on marrying me, I don’t know who the hell is gonna put up with you”😂😂😂 Chioma just made my night🤣🤣🤣
She's a silly O, with so much attitude.. Cuzz, My dude.. you can do better.
@@minniekay240 yeah she was really just roasting herself wasn't she
She should be the one to worry with her high body count. Paul's a successful man, he might bed you
@@tochukwuokey-munonye7884 And you know she has a high body count because you have slept with her right? Don’t be stupid!!
@@minniekay240 it's actually not about her "self esteem". A lot of y'all are just refusing to clock her own problematic ways (that are very obvious in this series) because of female bias. The reason she stays with Paul is that she subconsciously KNOWS that not many men would put up with her (ironically) unbearable personality
Paul’s responses are really amusing! He always thinks the therapist is asking trick questions 😂😂😂
I thought it was just me... I find his responses so so amusing 😂😂.
That's because they hit home and so he doesn't like to hear the truth and tries to deflect XD
@@danisverse 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿arddd
True😂😂
What, the therapist that’s not a therapist but and actor in which it is obvious she’s asking round about questions
The truth is that even though Debra has her own issues with respect to wanting a sugar daddy and not a boyfriend, Jamel is soo shady. He's always lying like and playing victim
But Paul nodding his head when Chioma was telling the therapist 5 good things about him! Pls someone tell me you laughed too 😅😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Wordd
@@PATV_ Right!! Lol 😂 but How’s Harry and I hope Megan’s doing well sha.. oh! How’s Granny Elizabeth- I haven’t had a chance to look into the queen after The death of her husband.
Listen!!! 🤣🤣 I couldn't believe my eyes. I laughed!
Loool
I almost died laughing... Paul is super annoying!!!
I love Chioma's facial expression whenever Paul starts talking about something stupid
I agree. I don't know how she deals with him.
😅😅
Nah man I see what Paul was saying she's toooooo aff, them facial expressions would annoying me
😂😂😂😭it cracks me up
You know Ur problem?you are the kind of person that instead of looking n Hoping there iron tins out,you just looking to take side.hope u hv a good relationship like this
I definitely can't be a therapist, I would have thrown something at Paul
You would have had to settle off court with your last dime@every point in time 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Haha haha haha. Ikr
“shut yo stupid ass up!”
*throws notebook*
😂😂😂
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The men are SOOOO toxic in these relationships huts my head...
hurts so bad I can't even spell hurt right hahaahahahaa
Jamel is ok..
No Paul is toxic and Deborah isn't ready for a relationship
It’s not real ma’am
no. you're just not used to men having standards
Can’t even be mad at Paul anymore at this point his narcissism is just top tier comedy 🤣🤣🤣
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Big Energy
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Ts
T
So at first mandem Jamel fancied his girlfriends sister. Secondly he bought only for himself a ticket for afro nation and now he’s lowkey confessing that he cheating? Dang Deborah needs to drop him like a hot potato🤡
Like tf you brought me to therapy trying to play the victim but you were the problem??!! So manipulative
@@feyiakingba3904 both men can go take a kiss honestly, both annoying.
Expeditiously, she can do better
Piss*
If u can tell though that’s been a issue I seen in him since episode 1. If a man doesn’t feel comfortable with his woman not even in his messages. But just holding his phone he’s cheating.
Paul: I'm not insecure, come on look at me.
Rest Of The World: What we looking at??
Lol literally cause he ain't it!
Is peanut head😂
@@progressokorodudu1556 😂😂😂
Mirror head😀😀😀😀
Literally my exact sentiments
Jamal is a a clear example of men making you feel like idiots.
*I ACTUALLY SCREAMED WHEN UNCLE PAUL SAID "OBVIOUSLY I'M NOT INSECURE I MEAN LOOK AT ME". I'M HOLLERING 😂*
Uncle Paul 😂😂😂😂😂 da shade of it 😂😂😂
@@glambyarlinem He acts like such an Uncle..when I did the maths that he is 32 I was Shockethhh. 😂😂
Why are u hollering ma
Half bald ass
😂😂😂😂
Paul definitely gained some arrogance when he lost his weight
😅
Too much and it’s disgusting to think he was once fat and spoke about being depressed only to act like that it’s horrible
I do wanna see the before! 😅😅
@@anointedlolo the guy definitely doesn't think like most people
😂😂😂
When Chioma said "he's just a difficult person. I'm tired of this shit"....Yippieee....She has seen the light!!
She had already seen the light... she just chose to put on shades.
'Difficult' is exactly how people mistakenly minimise Narcissistic personalities. I really hope she follows 'the light'
I hope she has, cos she really feels she's his superwoman when she told him if she doesn't stay with him who will.
That's her exit strategy because she knows she won't be forgiven for sleeping with the ex whilst getting to know Paul
𝑪𝒉𝒆𝒂𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒊𝒔 𝒔𝒐𝒎𝒆𝒕𝒉𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒕𝒉𝒂𝒕'𝒔 𝒈𝒓𝒐𝒘𝒏 𝒊𝒏𝒕𝒐 𝒂 𝒗𝒊𝒓𝒖𝒔 𝒐𝒇 𝒎𝒂𝒏𝒌𝒊𝒏𝒅, 𝒘𝒉𝒆𝒓𝒆 𝒊𝒔 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒘𝒐𝒓𝒅 𝑳𝑶𝒀𝑨𝑳𝑻𝒀? 𝑰 𝒘𝒐𝒖𝒍𝒅 𝒉𝒂𝒗𝒆 𝒏𝒆𝒗𝒆𝒓 𝒇𝒊𝒈𝒖𝒓𝒆 𝒐𝒖𝒕 𝒎𝒚 𝒘𝒊𝒇𝒆 𝒘𝒂𝒔 𝒉𝒂𝒗𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒂𝒎 𝒂𝒇𝒇𝒂𝒊𝒓 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒉𝒆𝒓 𝒆𝒙 𝒃𝒐𝒚𝒇𝒓𝒊𝒆𝒏𝒅. 𝑺𝒉𝒆 𝒔𝒕𝒊𝒍𝒍 𝒅𝒊𝒅𝒏'𝒕 𝒄𝒐𝒎𝒆 𝒄𝒍𝒆𝒂𝒏 𝒂𝒇𝒕𝒆𝒓 𝒎𝒚 𝒔𝒖𝒔𝒑𝒊𝒄𝒊𝒐𝒏. 𝑰 𝒉𝒊𝒓𝒆 𝒔𝒐𝒎𝒆𝒐𝒏𝒆 𝑰 𝒔𝒂𝒘 𝒐𝒏 𝒂 𝒓𝒆𝒅𝒅𝒊𝒕 𝒕𝒉𝒓𝒆𝒂𝒅 𝒕𝒐 𝒈𝒆𝒕 𝒘𝒉𝒂𝒕 𝑰 𝒏𝒆𝒆𝒅𝒆𝒅 𝒐𝒇𝒇 𝒉𝒆𝒓 𝒑𝒉𝒐𝒏𝒆. 𝒀𝒐𝒖 𝒄𝒂𝒏 𝒄𝒐𝒏𝒕𝒂𝒄𝒕 𝒉𝒊𝒎 𝒗𝒊𝒂 𝒄𝒓𝒚𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒍𝒉𝒂𝒄𝒌𝒆𝒓.𝒄𝒐𝒎 ✌🏾
Paul is a clear example of a man who stole his girl's confidence and is now flaunting it as if he birth it. He THINKS his confidence came from losing weight, but the truth is, Chioma showed him confidence comes from acknowledging and appreciating who you are. He can't stand it, because he don't like himself. That's why he nitpicks at Chioma for her cooking, her music selection and her sex drive--her confidence oozes in every way (im sure in other ways too--look at her). He hates that she has what he can't fix with $2000.00 suits. As far as the intimacy goes, of course he blamed her for gaining weight and not himself for being weak.
He can't leave her because his (in)security depends on Chioma's confidence. Chioma wont leave because she genuinely loves him for him.
I completely agree 👌
You can tell Chioma is just tired and when a woman is tired this ain’t going to end well.
You mean when a woman is called out and doesn’t get her way she’s gonna make a scene and play the victim
@@zfg55rfl32 u can't spell 😀
When a woman’s fed uppppp!
U can’t spell, spelled with a U 😂 its UA-cam not an English paper 📝
Paul is gonna regret this .
The Paul she knew is never coming back. The love and care Chioma experienced in the beginning was love bombing. Moment he won her and they moved in together he changed and became emotionally abusive. This is classic narc behaviour.
Textbook Narcissist
Hook, and then played dirty
Exactly, well said..
People throw the term narcicist around loosely, but you’re totally right. He is so cold, thinks a lot of himself, implies things without saying it to put people on edge, and the way he twists things and gaslight her it’s horrible.
Then he compliments the same cooking that he was dissing when he implied she has gained weight, the gall and the bladder that this guy has is beyond Audacity😯😯😯😮
“if you don’t plan on marrying me, I don’t know who the hell is going to put up with you” Chioma you don’t have to make the sacrifice for the world. RUN!
And you want her to be single like you, everything is abt patient
The way I’m hollering 😭😭😭
@@jadaallen9352 😂
@@ritahqueen4821 the main issue here is your spelling sis
Chioma, RUN!!!
"Obviously I'm not insecure, like c'mon look at me"
Looking:
Looking:
Looking:
*Sees only insecurities*
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And ugliness🙈
And he shouldn’t be saying shit. Nothing going on in the face!! PERIOD!
If this show is scripted then Paul is definitely killing his part because wtf!!😭
It is
@@chefhuncho2048 damn I actually believed it’s real 🙁
@@chefhuncho2048 how do you know it's fake?
@@danielsimmonds7934 it is real..people who are saying it's fake I dont know what is up with you people tho..everything now is fake to everyone
@@praisew1957 google Denise she’s a paid actor
Therapist: How was your day?
Paul: Is this a trick question 🤔
Lmaoooooo what is wrong with this man 🤣
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 he is CRAZY !
Very crazy man 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
As in😂😂 he actually has issues
He’s clearly stupid and if he looses chioma, he would be single for life. He must me YORUBA because they clearly think from their asses
This guy is crazy his ego is taking over him.. And bringing issues that are insignificant.. He's crazy
I won't lie deborah was right after all, you lot were all calling her crazy but now look how the tables have turned
Nah Deborah put her phone down so quick because she cleared it. Nobody has a clean phone.
@@JJRichardson_ bruhhhhh 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@Patrick delusion
Well look how she was being portrayed? There are so many women like her who we all think are stuck up and controlling etc- but when the truth comes out only then you understand why the person acts the way they act. Typical human understanding. We all thought Deborah was crazy at first- now we know why - JAMAL. Happens all the time and women left looking like the crazies. Sigh
I’ve beeen saying allll along Deb isn’t crazy 😭
Anyone else cook a whole meal whilst Jamal still trying to come clean 🙄
🤣🤣
I promise I was 😂😂😂
I put on this episode to cook 😭😭
I'm I the only one who actually notices that PAUL is actually intimidated by CHIOMA not being home for the last week 😂 nigga scared as shit😂 he knows that Chioma is too good to be lost😂
Nah cause facts 😭😭sis 😂😭he acting all worried and shit
You are not alone girl 😂😂😂
Yes he’s worried
Nope. He fell for her beauty n he's addicted to it but doesn't like her mindset n he knows that if he empower her she'll leave so he keep trying to break her n hold her back in order to feel safe.
A lot of men with pretty women does this.
@@trevonmitchell what mindset does she have? Cause the woman has been begging the man for his time. He's actually starving her of his attention to be wicked. And it's not right. Love doesn't have to be hard. I just think he likes hurting her and taking her for granted because he is insecure.
When Paul says “mmh...okay okay” he’s re-strategising on ways how to gaslight and manipulate chioma, and she’s having NONE OF IT yesss!!! Go girl
STOP VICTIMISING CHIOMA🤦🏾😂😂😂
Suddenly every girl in the comments is a therapist. LOL
Chioma is always on his ass and I love it!
@@tbg6070 word😂😂😂
@@tbg6070 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂U THE GOAT. FACTSSSSS
Jamel is cheating. He tried playing victim so that we feel sorry for him. Deborah needs to get rid.
Deborah is still a goldigger
That Deborah girl is a hot mess still.
Bro after the conditions deborah wss spitting i dont even blame him ong🤷🏽♂️
Paul looks like someone intelligent, matured & decisive until he opens his mouth waaaaa 😏😏
Bare nonsense
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The show villain: Deborah
The actual villain: Jamel
This is the one ☝🏼 👏🏻
They both villains
True
I feel sorry for Deborah for judging her to early
lydia Mngoma, i was not expecting that. i pegged her for the annoying but harmless girlfriend.
“If you don’t plan on marrying me, idk who the hell’s gonna put up with you” that was spot on Chioma 👏👏
So that means she’s with a narcissistic man and she’s okay with it cos no other woman can put up with in. Hope she is making the right decision or she just enjoys the praises from Paul.
@@chibuzorozurumbaokeke4543 she’s an issue herself.. those words coming out of her mouth... 🤮.. shows how low she thinks of herself.. her self love is low!!sad!
Why does Paul always have to remind us that he has high end clients, I'm starting to think they don't exist
They don't 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
right..... its getting annoying
his manifesting them ..hehe
I think so too, sounds more like a fraudster to me, makes him feel like he's a fake, i feel sad for chioma
😂😂😂I was about to make this comment,I feel Paul is trying to be someone he isn’t
“If this doesn’t work, she has NOTHING TO FALL BACK ON”. What on earth? You have your FREEDOM, LIFE, FRESH AIR and SPACE when you DEXOT THIS
OFFENSIVE ODOR CALLED OUT OF Your Life.
Chioma, don’t you know he is BLOCKING YOUR LIGHT, SHINE and YOUR FUTURE ; Paul is HOLDING YOU BACK IN LIFE.
The question you want to ask yourself is how many more years of your life do you want to give to PAUL?
she meant in the relationship, I think. like..she can't continue
That high note “HI”
Paul won’t kill somebody😭
🤣😂😂😂ikr
😂😂😂truss
Took me out😂😂
It was this for me 😭💀
😂😂😂
Damn! Poor Deborah I’ll admit I judged her way to quickly. Jamal is dangerous his the type to make you feel crazy when he knows you know wassup.
Gaslighting Deborah.
She still a gold digger
@@Fakest rather be a gold digger than a manipulator tf?
She's demanding on the money issues but Jamel seems to be cheating
Exactly, he ain't shit I am so annoyed!!!!
Denise acting like she's in a drama series: So you got nothing to worry about............ or have you?
😂😂made me feel so anxious
🤣🤣🤣🤣
She is a hired actor. If you look up Denise Waterman you see her headshots
@Niks Facts sleeping with him instead of him paying for session. New season drops May 28th
Nah this therapist is fake, shes digging for dirt. When she said, "your body language makes me think you have something to worry about", in a court case that's called leading the witness. She dont know how to be non bias party, she digging for views..
if Steve Harvey was a Therapist, he would've sorted Paul out🙄
True😁😁
Word 😂🤞🏾
I’m 90% certain Jamal has cheated already or is about to.
100%
And I don't blame him..
@@citeebayenterprise1389 are you 😟 for real,???
Yup! He sounds like a cancer ♋. He is definitely cheating on her.
He’s beeeeeeeeen!
The comment section is legit as interesting to read as the therapy session.
Factsss🤣🤣
Things Paul always says:
"let's put it this way"
"let's do it like this"
"think of of it this way"
"at the end of the day"
Long story short
Let’s look at it like this
"from a professional standpoint"😭😹
"Let me tell u this"
I am so, glad i didn't judge Deborah from the beginning. I saw some sense in what she was complaining about from the first episode. Now, I see Jamel is someone who is good at playing it cool while Gaslighting Deborah and the therapist! Chioma, came back with a full energy and I love the vibes. She is giving this "I am done trying to make this work out between us" vibes!
For real, honestly
Something been off about Jamel from episode one.
So glad I didn’t judge.
I’m not gonna lie, things she stated since the very first episode made absolute sense to me
I could be VERY wrong but I just feel like Paul pulled that “my ex cheated on me with the website designer” out his ass😂
@noonecaresbev...I'm with you on that.
Lmao hell yeah
Deadass, I swear
That's all these narcissist do. There is always a cheating ex somewhere to blame for their BS. Bunch of idots
Haha i totally agree. Ooh narcs they are crazy
Jamel is cheating. He should leave not gaslight her. That’s wrong
@drttyu liqm it's all a scripted parody of relationships.
It's also funny jamal says theres someone else after debbie leaves as If she not going to see the clip😂😂
@@paulal2864 this is scripted?
@@kendrickfrempong158 the therapist is an actress... the couples are real couples
@@paulal2864 yet so many peoples relationships are like this ... Chile
Men like to make you look crazy when you’re obviously just picking on the signs. Lol Jamel Jamel.
If I were a man, I would be lucky to have Chioma as a gf/partner. Lady is just off the charts gorgeous. And clearly patient that she kept up with a covert narcissist.
She;s the kind of woman men run from, how tf ur dating guys but still fucking ur ex, she's always gonna be fucking that ex, it's her go to guy, she's a thot and a disrespectful one ah that, only good to clap and run.
He ain’t even covert about his narcissistic tendencies. Ha
Paul cooked for himself for a week and came back 360 “I love your cooking” 😂🤣😂 you’re bloody hilarious
That's how you know a man loves a woman, if a man cannot deal with a woman's absence the come back as puppies
🤣🤣😂🤣🤣😂😂😂🤣
Lmaoooo after all the shit he was talking last week😂😂😂
He was not eating, he is Lovesick Chioma gonna leave your sorry ass
Lol
Dislikes are from Paul’s high earning clients and Jamaal’s clubhouse friends
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🤣🤣🤣🤣 all facts
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Chioma: "If you don't plan on marrying me then that's your loss. I don't know who will keep up with you."
Preach sis preach.
I hope she realizes she doesn't have to put up with him either.
Chioma i have cool brothers in nigeria. that can love u like the queen u are.
I hate her
Poor girl needs to run 🏃 whiles she can
But why do she still want to married hi 🙈🙈
I'm sorry Deborah for judging you..... get the bag from this man, if his gonna waste your time might as well waste his money 💰
Jamal disappointed me🥺 but just goes to show you that a man will make feel confused or stupid off you suspecting his cheating and make himself the victim... Ladies trust your first instinct, trust your gut! Men are not only intentional with all their actions but also strategic.
It's sad last time she said she trusted his ex
AGREE! JAMAL IS A DAMN CHEATER
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Not to make it a gender thing but women are same way you know right? They are just better at covering their mess. I have had similar experience with someone i trusted and she lied every single time i asked her about it until i found all the evidence and showed it to her.
@@mekkbliss1629 Chioma is the proof that women are just like man, but are just better at painting themselves like the victim. Chioma behaves exactly like Paul throughout this series, but look at how the commentary reacts to both (they tell Paul he's a narcissist and that she "deserves better")
Paul : “obviously I’m not insecure come on look at me”
Me : rolling my eyes
Look at what Paul
Look at what??
A guy who lost a good woman????
For him to even say that shows he’s insecure 😂
Chioma’s face at 35:17 lets me know it’s time for her to move on. She’s done.
Pauls a dixx so embarrassing
Honestly I freaking rolled my eyes!!! Douche bag
When paul says “you didn’t come home n you didn’t apologize” 🙄 guy’s crazy
Narcissistic. Chioma needs to run
The guy is toxic, it's pissing me off
I actually get that, but they aren't married so there's that. They are working towards marriage though so you can't just not go home. Go home and keep the distance. Marriage is hard work. Keep at it when it's hard. Consistency is sometimes key.
This his statement got me super upset!! I’m like u said something very insensitive and u expect her to apologize???🙄🙄🙄 Dude is crazy🙄🙄🙄🙄
@@ekachukwuisibor4881 he was insensitive and her feelings got hurt, but he basically said you need to lose some weight. Hurtful? Yes, but that's something for her to stay in one side of the apartment while he's on the other. That's not a I'm not coming home and I'm not even saying where I'm going to be type deal. But to be honest though that was brewing. It's not about his one comment, but if that's how it's handled I don't know if it's worth it to work it out. It doesn't seem like it will last if they don't talk it out.
I'm obviously late to the party but the low-key smirk and shade Denise gave told me everything I needed to know 😭😂 this bout to be a good episode LMAO
Funny how the qualities they love about each other are also the qualities that are causing issues
Haha, so true!
Things have changed, obviously.
These guys are acting out. It ain't real, it's all fiction
Lol init? 😂
@@parfaite_ts not all please. They’re a real life couple.. only the therapist is not real. And some few additions.. so it’s like 35-40% fiction
Paul’s narcissism is just comedy at this point 😂😂😂.
Straight up narcissist. The worst part is that he thinks that he’s attractive 💀💀
Because it’s acting
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It’s his way of hiding his insecurities
Are you a medical doctor to diagnose this man?
Paul asked her to get an abortion cause he didn’t want kids rn yet he makes her take care of his sisters kids!? Make it make sense imagine how difficult that is for her
By the way she talks to him and when she says he is a headache for her, clearly she is done with him.
I didn't kno he wanted that...wow shame on Paul
@@wardiya3arbiya this probably needs to be adjourned
Did I miss that part or something ?
Women get abortions all the time. Paul shouldn't be made a father before he wants to. Yall are stupid if you have a baby out of wedlock anyway. Idiots
Being single has never felt so fulfilling..
Ikr...................
Lmao truth
Paul should keep acting out, it will shock him when one of his “high net worth clients” will take chioma off his hands...
Gaslighting are we; high net worth men wouldn't look at Chioma because she doesn't fit the beauty mode. Stop gaslighting
Facts man
Swears…. He will be sooo shocked when he will get an invite from his high net worth clients 😂😂
@@MrJoennachi and what's the beauty mode?
It's only a matter of time 😅😅😅
Deborah: “Put the phone down”
Jamal: “👁👄👁”
Denise, the camera crew and everyone in the comments: 👀👀
Jamal been cheating. Sorry. He’s too shady.
yeah he is shady
Deffo cheating
I’d cheat too if I’m dealing with a girl who’s popping up everywhere with no life just want to be spoiled seeing me as an ATM 😂
Edit spoiler
Deborah was right, this man is being HELLA shady
Only thing keeping Paul and Chioma together is the word Babe.
yoooh im dead
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Best comment I've seen 😂
Swears 😂😂
"If you don't plan on marrying me, I don't know why the hell is gonna put up with you" - Chioma (with her whole full chest) lmao
Paul is a proud, insecure, egotistic, jealous and insensitive person. He feels the world revolves around him and he's not straight forward like Chioma. He's treating Chioma like something he owns, thus, he feels he should always be in charge.
Can't believe he said he wants to move forward more than her simply because he arrived first.
Boy do you want a trophy??
Likeeeeeeee! You know what am saying.
@@bangitybangbabang I don't even think he means that. I feel It's just his way of rubbing in the fact that he came earlier than she did.
Deep down, he's not liking this therapy thing and already blamed Chioma's decision to move out on the show.
He's hearing but not listening, and is always on the defensive. He's willing to 'air all the dirty laundry', so Chioma can look bad.
In all, he's not seeing his shortcomings, not totally acknowledging them and certainly doesn't seem like he's willing to be a better partner to his girl.
I don't think he has any plan to marry her and if he does, she'll just have to be a trophy wife that he can control.
He is a man
His behavior and attitude is infuriating. Chioma is too fantastic to be with this kind of guy.
Jamal made Deborah look crazy but he's the actual gaslighter.
Mummemsmsmsmsmsmsms
Yuup
As the convo went on it seems he has created Deborah in the sense that he promised her things and now he is unable to get her the things or lifestyle and she is upset. Listen how she talks- beside being raised that way, she is being pushed to act like this - and because of the silly stupid mistakes Jamal has made. Sigh. Paul got focussed on his job and forgot about his woman, Chioma wants attention just like before and he fell off, because just like a lot of couples they have the person so no need to conical out the effort in. Happened in my marriage but thank God my husband and I could come together and remember why we married in the first place. It can’t always be perfect but it can be great. ☺️
Jamal woulda been the ppls champion but he’s not sly enough
He is very shady and sneaky
No guys. The way Chioma broke out into a smile shows us just how little attention and recognition she needs to be happy. But Paul can't give it to her.
Its shows how she has been worn down to require little. That what they do.
@Marco Smith if it’s fake then these are the best actors in the world cuz I’m way too invested
@@donnerkebab1052 exactly 🤣
Antonia Adams Exactly! That’s what they do! Chioma is trauma bonded.
@@donnerkebab1052 tbh i don’t think it’s fake. it’s no way they’re that good at acting.
It’s so sweet how Chioma can still call Paul “babe” even when they are arguing. It shows she truly loves him. Paul can be annoying 😅
Can be? Paul is dead annoying!!!
Honestly everyone owes Deb an apology for roasting her ln ep1. Jamel is too shady…
True he is but I mean maybe he feels like he’s investing too much into their relationship so that’s why he’s finding an out cuz he wants to escape. I’m not sure it’s still wrong tho
For real hes shady
Right Imagine hyping con man like Jamel 🤢👉🏾🚪
@@missluxxe6541that’s not an excuse then break up with deborah and make your life w/ christina or becky or xyz, buy tickets to afronation etc....
Whilst i agree that Jamel shouldnt have been cheating or whatever w Christina at the same time Deborah expected wayyyy too much from him. She always compared him to her friends man, she expected too much materialistically and she is sorry imma say it generally NOT bringing anything to the table. Shes already ready to attack Jamel but when he says something then she goes ughh no. Sorry but ms naija must go.
“This is not the Paul I know”. ABEEEEEEGG... Chioma... CHIOMA.. THIS is who Paul is 💀 Sometimes it may take years to know who somebody TRULY is. Just LEAVE. You have fought enough. I have not seen even ONE person defend Paul.
Chioma is manipulative she couldn’t answers the what have you done for them lately? And when he expose how he basically runs her business. She felt bad and had to mention the fact the her MAN, was insecure about HIS woman, working with a specific MAN. Modern women are crazy. He was showing her love and she starts trashing him. The fact that she wouldn’t stop working with that man and the that she was yelling, to people on the internet, about how she was a thot rocket when they started dating. Shows shes not considerate about her man’s feeling, because men do have feeling. This is a trash, women. But to you shes a victim of a man that want to marry and have children with her.
And posting sexy picture on the internet is cheating she keep her options open. Which is what she was doing by sleeping with her ex. And how can you give your all in a relationship, that they both agree they want to go to marriage.
And these are fake couples on a reality show on Mtv. But it show that more women will show hate to Paul a man trying to make sure he doesn’t marry the wrong women than Jamel a man that was sleeping with his ex and never stop. This is irony you can only get from a script.
@@christianlima987 you aint lie one bit dog
Christian Lima are u sure u are normal? or not psychologically challenged? "chioma is posting sexy pictures on the internet" she's not considerate about her man's feelings?
meanwhile Paul selects half naked sexy girls in the club, dancing around him at sits at his table in the name of "seeing a client".
@@favf549 i think you replied to the wrong guy christian lima didnt say none of what you said and was on your side he pointed out how bad the girl was
Finally, cats out the bag Jamel is a cheater and this whole time he had us believing that Deborah was being paranoid for no reason. Ladies you see our female intuition, trust it God gave it to us for a reason to protect us from this kind of foolery. Kwasia!
Gaslighting it’s called gaslighting
She's a badders girls are very deceiving
nah not all men like us are like that
It's paranoia and insecurity not intuition
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Paul is the type of man you pray against 🤧
I agreeeee!!!! Cause wtf is going with himmm
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Amen