MC Reality, you talk truth... This guy is not ready... When will she get pikin and to see them grow up? Let this girl go ahead and marry because you hear that this guy wants to wait another 2 years...
My brother, thanks for your matured approach as always 🙏🏼 I loved your comment that he should have even said next year for the wedding👍🏽. If a 35years old man is not ready and he already has money and is not in poverty, then he has other issues he needs to confess about. I don't think he knows that ladies have a biological clock that counts down; some even start menopause in their late 40s...but the lady get mind dey knack two guys for the past year...to each his or her own 🚶🏽♂️🚶🏽♂️🚶🏽♂️
Being 35 might not mean anything to him because he’s a man. Let him continue clubbing. Once a woman is above 26, age is no longer favorable to her. There’s something they call pregnancy complications as a result of old age. So Ope made the right decision. I wish her fruitfulness and peace in her new home.
Exactly, make use of your brain when it comes to love not your heart. To some girls it will look like, there is no men again in the world expect the one she spent longer years with, look at the way this girl played her game maturely, actually she knew that in the next 5years the guy is not even ready of which the guy himself confirm it in her presence and Mc Reality
Women usually marry who is ready and not really whom they love. They believe their biological time is short and should not be wasted on mindless suspense or shrouded promises. Men should understand that love grows and dies. Simple.
I married my wife just 2 months after we met and proposing to her; I ditched my 7 years of relationship after the family gave me tough time over and over. But one thing is to break a relationship before moving on. We club every Friday 😅 stupid boy
Like the lady said, she has been asking him and the guy in question is not ready, if she tells him, he will try to convince her like he has been doing 🤷♀️
4 years is enough for you to settle down in marriage. The girl is about 30 years old and there is no marriage move from you to her. I don't blame her ooooo.
If he likes come & see the fruit of Ope's womb!!! That further 2-3years he had the nerve to ask Ope to continue to wait......👶🏾👶🏾👈🏾See Ope's Twin Sons & 👉🏾👶🏾 Beautiful Daughter. 🙌🏾🙏🏾👍🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Sir, 2-3 years kill you deh, get out🤬
Mr. Man, don't waste the lady time. This is the right time to get married. Why are you stressing yourself? Happy marriage, life, you will bear a fruit womb by God's grace in Jesus' name, Amen 🙏
Guy still dey club, e no know say Ope don enter house 🤣🤣🤣, smart girl. He would have wasted her time and still not marry her. Ladies, learn from Ope and be smart.
The only thing wrong here is that the girl should have told him first then wait for them to break the relationship up before jumping into another. That’s why it’s not fair to the guy.
Watching from Australia. The type of lady who is self worthy. She need award . All this foolish men delaying ladies because they feel they are still young. He is crying because the girl wise up. He thought he will be the one to dump her.
Normally, this is what you do @Reality. This man, Ope is gone. In ur next relationship, act swift. Ladies are like commodities, if you see the one you like, grab her fast before another man does. You can expect her to keep waiting when her younger sisters have all married. It is not done.
I was the first person to make a comment here but am retrieving my comment after watching the whole video. Is a good thing he brought it to social media and openly said he needed 2 to3 years to prepare him self for marriage. My dear we should be bold anough to make decisions for our self, this man is not ready for marriage, just want hold you down! What if after the three years he didn't marry you and went ahead to marry another woman! Cos anything can happen
I was the first person to make a comment here but am retrieving my comment after watching the whole video. Is a good thing he brought it to social media and openly said he needed 2 to3 years to prepare him self for marriage. My dear we should be bold anough to make decisions for our self, this man is not ready for marriage, just want hold you down! What if after the three years he didn't marry you and went ahead to marry another woman! Cos anything can happen
Girl don't cancel your wedding, then you will be strolling in the streets for three years, he has no plan at all. Is he a ritualist who doesn't marry😂😂😂
Even if she isnt " in love" with the new guy, she loves him because he values her enough to marry her. Once they are together all things shall fall into place. Congratulations on doing something good for yourself young lady, all the best from America💜
Hi MC The lady should have finished with one relationship cut ties before starting another It's never okay to treat anyone under the shadow for not going with her plans Siblings are going to get married in different interval it's not a race with anyone True will always prevails at the end
It's true she should have dated one guy at a time. Maybe her new husband will find fault with her deception. Maybe she told the new guy, and he was determined to win her heart. All the same, I hope she is happy.
In this our generation now, my sisters any relationship wey don pass 2 years you're on your own.. because na 50/50 chance of getting married 😢. This guy no serious abeg . Na flexing guy him be😢. Ope move on with your marriage and remember to invite him to come and eat jollof rice and chicken with Pepsi drink😊
This girl is a decietful, manipulative and a hypocrite, she has been double dating for a whole year. This girl is wicked and has no conscience. If she doesn't want to be in the relationship she should have left the him. The guy is a joker and not serious
@@kalimbaayinde25 Two wrongs can never make a right . Who has done the greater wrong the woman. The man for whatever reason, reasonable or unreasonable, has been consistent he didn't deceive or mislead. He has a different time table from the woman. She is definitely within her right to say NO , I can't agree I am moving on. But she did not, but rather was dating two men at the same time for one year. That's wicked selfish inconsiderate DECEPTION and fraud.
This guy is not serious. Ope please Carry on with your marriage, let him continue making his plans that will never end. 30 years is not early anything.
Leave him alone he’s a waste of space talking so much bull crap. Ope you’ve done right. 2,3 years? Fibroid, miscarriages, happens from age 35 or earlier then there’s autism. Years later when she’s not pregnant his family will give her a hard time. Mc Reality well done🤝
You right.. My friend had fibroid at year 25 but God bless her with 2kids. The first child they removed the fibroid the second same, having fibroid with my pregnant was not easy foe her the age difference between her first and second is 7 years due to fibroid.Women have whole lot of risk.
@@GL-kitchen2230 Thank God your friend was able to have two children all because she was still in her twenties. Men don’t seem to grasp a woman’s biological clock.
The one that is getting me pissed off is that the Girl was lieing at the first time, if the Guy don't have a prove she for not agree infact Nigeria Ladies are so heartless, and if she must do this, break up with the person first if he insisted to comply to ur demand b4 u move on.This one is seriously heart break.This is what most of them are doing if them get marry and later start having issue there, that is when them will be visiting different one Church to the others
Abeg let him get out😂😂😂. You have everything that takes you to marry a woman but you are still asking for 4 extra years after dating for 4 years. Abi na royal wedding you want give her? I don't even know why people complicate this wedding of a thing. Once the families have agreed the most important thing is to sign the papers at the registry, period. All those extravagant parties are not what makes a union valid, please!
Guy,as you're a man,you wouldn't know that Women Should NOT waste time in getting married and having Children, When they're opportuned to do so. At least when a woman is between 25--to 28years ,She should Start making efforts and Plans towards having her own family,to avoid Problems in getting Pregnant and Complications during Pregnancy and after delivery,GOD Will take Perfect Control.
😢😮Werey still dey talk 2,3years from now, egbami Mr.Time waster ,shey dis guy dey alright sha?Are u kidding me rn...Babe go and marry ur new guy abeg l dont support double dating and l will fault you on that ,u should have been upfront with him and broken it off officially..but a girl's gotta do what a girl's gotta do,when her biological time is ticking
She is dating two guys for one year. You love him and you are dating another man while with him. You are an opportuniste, why you guys are refusing to understand. You want to marry a woman who has been having another lover shameless man. Go marry her and raise the other guy baby.
Normally I don’t do this.
And all of una know say dis kind tin a no dey do😂
MC Reality, you talk truth... This guy is not ready... When will she get pikin and to see them grow up? Let this girl go ahead and marry because you hear that this guy wants to wait another 2 years...
Reality she dated the other guy for 1 year, this is enough to know and love the guy...
My brother, thanks for your matured approach as always 🙏🏼 I loved your comment that he should have even said next year for the wedding👍🏽. If a 35years old man is not ready and he already has money and is not in poverty, then he has other issues he needs to confess about. I don't think he knows that ladies have a biological clock that counts down; some even start menopause in their late 40s...but the lady get mind dey knack two guys for the past year...to each his or her own 🚶🏽♂️🚶🏽♂️🚶🏽♂️
I fear women O.
This is a girl who knows what she wants for herself…
Bravo, girl!!!
Being 35 might not mean anything to him because he’s a man. Let him continue clubbing. Once a woman is above 26, age is no longer favorable to her. There’s something they call pregnancy complications as a result of old age. So Ope made the right decision. I wish her fruitfulness and peace in her new home.
Well said
Ami ooo
😂😂😂. That is a lie.
Go, girl, age is not on your side
Thank you
My dear Ope, you made the best decision. This man has no plans of marrying you, don't listen to him o. You're a very smart girl.
This girl is straight forward she did the right thing at the right time
Reality I love you so much, you are a straight forward person
Correct girl. Good decision👏🏽👏🏽The guy isn’t serious. U do not need millions to marry the woman u love. Unresponsible men flop outside.
The guy is not ready for marriage girl move on . How could you tell her she should give you another three years damn
Mc I must tell you you are an honest person and I appreciate you for that.the lady made a wonderful right thing.🙏🤚✊😁
This guy is under A HUGE SPELL, definitely after 3 more years he can tell her he is no more interested.
Ua right a man on 35 he is clubbing like 25 ? He doesn't know wht he want let him clubbing up to 50
The woman did the harsh right thing. Time does not wait for anyone.
I agree with her. He’s too disrespectful to be stringing her along for 4 years and now to be asking for 3 more years?
You are definitely crazy!! Me waiting 3 more years!! I'm gone 😂😂😂
It's a game
He's into something
He doesn't want to marry her just keeping her
Let her go with someone who is ready fr her,we are tiered of waiting long time in relationship with out any profits, watching from Uganda 🇺🇬❤
I wish every woman out there would be like Okpe. Apply common sense in your life
I did the same oo
The spelling is "Ope"
Exactly, make use of your brain when it comes to love not your heart. To some girls it will look like, there is no men again in the world expect the one she spent longer years with, look at the way this girl played her game maturely, actually she knew that in the next 5years the guy is not even ready of which the guy himself confirm it in her presence and Mc Reality
Women usually marry who is ready and not really whom they love. They believe their biological time is short and should not be wasted on mindless suspense or shrouded promises. Men should understand that love grows and dies. Simple.
Then later, they will cheat with who they love😂😂😂😂😂😂
On point 😂😂😂
This man is simply not ready for a long term relationship. He is 35 he will get married when he is 50.
Well said bruh👍
Correct talk
Sharp girl! Go yo!!!
This a joke😂 Almost every Friday we go out clubing!!!!!😂😂
😂😂😂
Gotta take charge of your life. Wasting the ladies time
Uncle! Do you want to marry her when she is 50years old? Abegi. So now that someone else want to check her out, your body dey sake? Tsuuuiup
Those three years you want her to wait, go start with another lady,time waits for no one.
Hahaha Hahaha
I married my wife just 2 months after we met and proposing to her; I ditched my 7 years of relationship after the family gave me tough time over and over. But one thing is to break a relationship before moving on. We club every Friday 😅 stupid boy
Lol. He wants her to wait 7 years for marriage. He smoking some bad weed. The guy slow.
She made right quick decision
The mumu guy don't want any commitment or responsibility he just wants to be clubbing 😊
But girl you should have told him and move on, not him finding out this way
Like the lady said, she has been asking him and the guy in question is not ready, if she tells him, he will try to convince her like he has been doing 🤷♀️
Why telling him? He is a time waster
@@zoedonajessys874😂😂😂
Ope God bless you.... I love u so much..... u are sensitive
The man does not want to marry her
I love ❤️ this girl, she's very smart chicala. I invite you guys to come and spend honey moon in my house in Germany 🇩🇪.
4 years is enough for you to settle down in marriage. The girl is about 30 years old and there is no marriage move from you to her. I don't blame her ooooo.
Shey na furniture you dey keep? My sister, you made the right decision 👏
Reasonable girl. Correct girl.
The guy is not serious, the girl made the best decision
I wish you all the best my dear Ope
Your home is already Blessed dear🙏
For this issue, guy, next time look sharp. The only mistake the girl did is not to disclose it to the guy.
Baba for plans. I'm making plans for another 2/3years😂😂😂
Exactly 😂😂😂
😂😂😂
By then Ope has entered her menopause, confused man.
The guy is still sleeping he should wake up from slumber
Honestly
Ope congratulations... oga dey club, you think say clubbing is the end of life, fool. God will bless your new home.
Let her continue with her marriage, this guy is not ready.
😮not ready but wants to act like a victim
Am happy for you babe this guy will never be ready
People wen dem Dey call opey na so dem Dey do 😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I don't laugh die Doyin, see as u just dey look dem, chaiii, e sweet me for body , honestly, shey em want make her Lord of de ring😂🎉
If he likes come & see the fruit of Ope's womb!!! That further 2-3years he had the nerve to ask Ope to continue to wait......👶🏾👶🏾👈🏾See Ope's Twin Sons & 👉🏾👶🏾 Beautiful Daughter. 🙌🏾🙏🏾👍🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Sir, 2-3 years kill you deh, get out🤬
We club every Friday and shopping 😂😂😂😂
My dear dont wait another 3-4 years. Follow ur heart.
I don't really get it why people lies and will be looking into your eyes when doing it until you bring out the proof
Mr. Man, don't waste the lady time. This is the right time to get married. Why are you stressing yourself? Happy marriage, life, you will bear a fruit womb by God's grace in Jesus' name, Amen 🙏
Amen 🙏 oo
Wise Lady
Guy still dey club, e no know say Ope don enter house 🤣🤣🤣, smart girl. He would have wasted her time and still not marry her. Ladies, learn from Ope and be smart.
The only thing wrong here is that the girl should have told him first then wait for them to break the relationship up before jumping into another. That’s why it’s not fair to the guy.
Baby girl u are a true African queen 👑
Watching from Australia. The type of lady who is self worthy. She need award . All this foolish men delaying ladies because they feel they are still young. He is crying because the girl wise up. He thought he will be the one to dump her.
Mc reality,you don buy market ooo! The guy said you are supposed to beg her to wait for another 3years, yeye man.
Say clubbing je nkan gidi.
This guy will be a very good Nollywood actor. His voice is commanding 😂😂
Ope, you did the right thing at the right time. Common sense no common but your common sense is very common.
The guy was just wasting her time.
Ogbe'mi, fiye'le'.
She is very right, let her go. We are in support of her, she is a woman for god sake, time passes
Normally, this is what you do @Reality.
This man, Ope is gone. In ur next relationship, act swift. Ladies are like commodities, if you see the one you like, grab her fast before another man does. You can expect her to keep waiting when her younger sisters have all married. It is not done.
He’s not ready to marry. Girl get married in peace
I was the first person to make a comment here but am retrieving my comment after watching the whole video. Is a good thing he brought it to social media and openly said he needed 2 to3 years to prepare him self for marriage. My dear we should be bold anough to make decisions for our self, this man is not ready for marriage, just want hold you down! What if after the three years he didn't marry you and went ahead to marry another woman! Cos anything can happen
I was the first person to make a comment here but am retrieving my comment after watching the whole video. Is a good thing he brought it to social media and openly said he needed 2 to3 years to prepare him self for marriage. My dear we should be bold anough to make decisions for our self, this man is not ready for marriage, just want hold you down! What if after the three years he didn't marry you and went ahead to marry another woman! Cos anything can happen
Ope go and enjoy your marriage, time wasters full everywhere. Onranu.... make she dey wait for you to dey shine Congo dey go.
At it again the smartest Doyin 👍👍👍 God bless you
Guy you nor ready at all😂😂😂😂
Girl don't cancel your wedding, then you will be strolling in the streets for three years, he has no plan at all. Is he a ritualist who doesn't marry😂😂😂
Mr clubber man Shaba 😅
Reality!!! I like your realness.
Even if she isnt " in love" with the new guy, she loves him because he values her enough to marry her. Once they are together all things shall fall into place. Congratulations on doing something good for yourself young lady, all the best from America💜
Good decision girl
Ope please continue with your marriage. This guy will disappoint you. DO NOT AGGREE TO THIS MAN. HE IS STILL MAKING PLANS.
This man is talking about clubbing at 35 years? The most fulish man I’ve seen!
😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂
You don’t have to have a million dollars 💵 to marry
In todays world is very very important ooo, don't be deceived by social media comments ooo.
These women with there Marry me now, they are watching too much American TV 😂😂😂
De woman noh wan club, she wan marry an carry har pikin before she dey geh menopause. U no dey understand? She wan MARRY!!!Commot dey, ah beg...
Good idea girl, women don’t have too much time, don’t wait for him girl don’t even listen to him
Hi MC
The lady should have finished with one relationship cut ties before starting another
It's never okay to treat anyone under the shadow for not going with her plans
Siblings are going to get married in different interval it's not a race with anyone
True will always prevails at the end
The only thing I blame this lady for is that she did not break up with him before dating another man.
This girl is not married.
It's true she should have dated one guy at a time. Maybe her new husband will find fault with her deception. Maybe she told the new guy, and he was determined to win her heart. All the same, I hope she is happy.
Guys stop all this long time dating. After 2 years if you are not ready let the girl go
Girl you do a right time this guy he is wasting your time to fine your husband open your eyes girl
This guy nor well, wasting people's life.
Hahaha.This generation self! Gaming galore. Survival of the smartest.
In this our generation now, my sisters any relationship wey don pass 2 years you're on your own.. because na 50/50 chance of getting married 😢. This guy no serious abeg . Na flexing guy him be😢. Ope move on with your marriage and remember to invite him to come and eat jollof rice and chicken with Pepsi drink😊
This girl is a decietful, manipulative and a hypocrite, she has been double dating for a whole year.
This girl is wicked and has no conscience.
If she doesn't want to be in the relationship she should have left the him.
The guy is a joker and not serious
She did right!
@@kalimbaayinde25 Two wrongs can never make a right .
Who has done the greater wrong the woman. The man for whatever reason, reasonable or unreasonable, has been consistent he didn't deceive or mislead.
He has a different time table from the woman.
She is definitely within her right to say NO , I can't agree I am moving on.
But she did not, but rather was dating two men at the same time for one year. That's wicked selfish inconsiderate DECEPTION and fraud.
This man no serious at all
See Mr Reality's Face😂
For me, the girl is not at fault at all. Look at what the guy is even saying that she should wait for 2 to 3 years.
Its just a shame seeing a 35years old man talking about weekly with a 30 year old lady without a future and expect her not to move on.
This guy is not serious. Ope please Carry on with your marriage, let him continue making his plans that will never end. 30 years is not early anything.
Stop wasting young women's time. 2-3 years of school of courtship is enough to graduate into the eternal college of marriage. Move on...
Leave him alone he’s a waste of space talking so much bull crap. Ope you’ve done right.
2,3 years? Fibroid, miscarriages, happens from age 35 or earlier then there’s autism. Years later when she’s not pregnant his family will give her a hard time.
Mc Reality well done🤝
You right.. My friend had fibroid at year 25 but God bless her with 2kids. The first child they removed the fibroid the second same, having fibroid with my pregnant was not easy foe her the age difference between her first and second is 7 years due to fibroid.Women have whole lot of risk.
@@GL-kitchen2230
Thank God your friend was able to have two children all because she was still in her twenties. Men don’t seem to grasp a woman’s biological clock.
I hope you take the right decision
This is guy is not serious.He is a procrastinator.Young lady run!run! RUN!!!!.
The one that is getting me pissed off is that the Girl was lieing at the first time, if the Guy don't have a prove she for not agree infact Nigeria Ladies are so heartless, and if she must do this, break up with the person first if he insisted to comply to ur demand b4 u move on.This one is seriously heart break.This is what most of them are doing if them get marry and later start having issue there, that is when them will be visiting different one Church to the others
The husband she’s marrying is just an option and not her first choice. The husband will be walking on egg shells through the marriage..
I think the Lady is right 👍
Making plans 😂😂😂😂
Lady, go ahead and marry. The guy is not ready.period
Dis guy is very stupid.for telling a girl to wait more 3yrs..pls girl u re very sharp n smart go ahead and marry..May God bless ur union..
Nigeria girl's with the DESPERATION for marriage 😂😂
Abeg let him get out😂😂😂. You have everything that takes you to marry a woman but you are still asking for 4 extra years after dating for 4 years. Abi na royal wedding you want give her? I don't even know why people complicate this wedding of a thing. Once the families have agreed the most important thing is to sign the papers at the registry, period. All those extravagant parties are not what makes a union valid, please!
Oga you are not ready yet let her go and marry abeg. Even ten years coming you will not still be ready
She did well
Guy,as you're a man,you wouldn't know that Women Should NOT waste time in getting married and having Children, When they're opportuned to do so.
At least when a woman is between 25--to 28years ,She should Start making efforts and Plans towards having her own family,to avoid Problems in getting Pregnant and Complications during Pregnancy and after delivery,GOD Will take Perfect Control.
😢😮Werey still dey talk 2,3years from now, egbami Mr.Time waster ,shey dis guy dey alright sha?Are u kidding me rn...Babe go and marry ur new guy abeg l dont support double dating and l will fault you on that ,u should have been upfront with him and broken it off officially..but a girl's gotta do what a girl's gotta do,when her biological time is ticking
This guy never serious 😀😀😀😀😀
She is dating two guys for one year. You love him and you are dating another man while with him. You are an opportuniste, why you guys are refusing to understand. You want to marry a woman who has been having another lover shameless man. Go marry her and raise the other guy baby.
Kkkkkkkkkkie he still wants to club Chineke ooo