An Opinionated Homosexual with Cody Rigsby
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- Опубліковано 20 жов 2024
- Jennifer and Pumps are joined by Cody Rigsby, Peloton Superstar and author of XOXO, Cody: An Opinionated Homosexual's Guide to Self-Love, Relationships, and Tactful Pettiness. The three discuss wardrobe fraud, if kitten heels can be considered sexy and the intricacies of marrying for money. Pumps has had it with 'Boundary Abuse' and Jennifer calls out parking spot squatters.
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at this point this is just a show of jennifer, pumps, and the most famous homosexuals you can find. i love it ❤
They understood the assignment
And I'm here for it
Just.
Yeah, as a person whose been an intern, I probably wouldn’t have said no, but the concept of unpaid labor on the job in our modern economy is pretty unacceptable. Young people aren’t as willing to accept it.
There is a reason unpaid internships are illegal in some states..I am sure they still occur..just sayin'
For free? I'm not staying one extra second
4:08 I kinda hate that they're ok with exploitation and have such a binary view of it's only exploitation or laziness. They'd rather have us cope unhealthily with the current system and "navigate it" than change it.
But I get it, they're a different generation and haven't deconstructed that yet
Wait. It is an UNPAID internship?! That changes the whole game! Did they say it is unpaid? I assumed it was a paid internship and the intern would be paid overtime for those 10-15 minutes over her 8 hour shift! 🤯
@@neen319 I strongly doubt it was a paid internship...because they probably would have said "she is getting paid"
Love yáll but sorry overworking is so rampant in this country, people should refuse to work unpaid. On that note unpaid internships and student teaching should not be a thing!
They´re probably crying because they can´t afford rent and groceries! Please realize how hard living is nowadays.
Interns team here, give pushy boss an inch and they will take take. Been there.
That’s why you are an intern.
This is where you learn to spot the users and abusers from the good and great boss types!
I don't think anyone should have to work unpaid even 10 minutes, sorry gals but if all 3 employees are crying at work it's probably a problem with the job or the boss 👀👀👀
Hard agree. You don’t have staff regularly breaking down into tears unless the workplace itself is the issue.
also it starts at 5-10 minutes, then eventually it turns into 30 minutes, then you realize you're working 1 hour unpaid doing every sort of task
and... if it was such an easy and trivial task, why didn't the boss do it herself?
I'm 28, I've honestly many times done 10, 20 extra minutes of unpaid work because i cared about my job and of my own volition. Huge difference from being an intern and being *told* to work for free at a company that doesn't even care enough to hire me
Hmmm. Ok, then what happens when a Gen Z is running 10 minutes late? It should be a give/take relationship.
I highly doubt she wasn’t being paid by the hour as a Gen Z but I may be wrong
Two thoughts besties and keep in mind that I still respect you both : I’m agreeing with the Gen Z girl. I’m 28 and I wish I had the brass cojones to say no to my bosses when they asked me to work free labor. Regardless of if it was an extra 10mins or not. I hate to say it but if the interns are all crying every week, that means there’s an issue with Pump’s friend as a leader.
Also about the parking spot warmers : they’re doing it on purpose. It’s a feeling of “you are not going to rush me out of my spot, I’m going to make you wait on my time.” Very that.
Lots of gen z are dealing with the reality that no matter how hard they work, they will never be able to buy a home in their life. Maybe that’s why people aren’t okay with working late at an unpaid internships anymore. Love you ladies!
As a millennial, I say good on Gen Z!
Especially since I doubt that intern was paid
Thansk from the Gen Z poplus
I love these two and I’m a millennial but good on gen z because today is 5 min next u know it’s an hour or two
Not if you hold your “ self care boundrie “ lol omg
@@danishmodern55 What the hell are you on doofus?
I’m with the Gen Z. Your friend should have fit her needs into the 8 hours of free labor she gets every day with said Gen Z intern.
right if it should only take 5-10 minutes why didn’t you have them do it during the work day
I agree, first it's 5-10 mins over then there's an expectation of staying over. Good on them for setting boundaries!
@@aggily We all know that it wouldn't be just 5-10 minutes...and if it was it would snowball - it's called the 'little sin' theory
Omg I’ve binged every single episode all the way from last year and I’m so mad I’m all caught up😂😂😂
Applauding Jennifer for defending the kitten heel. She’s right and she should say it!
Yes, I appreciated that.
Working for free once for 5-10mins easily becomes working for free for 15mins every day or worse, and that shit adds up. They have the right idea, set a firm boundary, no working for free for any period of time from the beginning and you'll never end up being taken advantage of!
This person's time is valuable, the friend can carry her own chairs around after her own work OR offer to pay for a full 15mins of additional time on the clock for the intern to do it. As a younger millenial employer, I applaud this gen Z for not being a pushover.
💯
Except you don’t realize that an intern is there to learn . If this intern is crying about an extra 10 mins - they will never make it in a the real world especially especially if any design job where clients expect tons of overtime and changes for free . If I was that interns boss she would be fired on the spot after I paid her sorry butt for services rendered . She can then go back to her parents attic and cry post on the socials .
Ehhh idk there’s a fine line between setting firm boundaries and just being a dick. You can maintain healthy boundaries that protect you from being taken advantage of while also being part of a team willing to help coworkers for 5 - 10 minutes on occasion… gen Z has just fully appropriated the act of setting boundaries and has turned it into an excuse to get out of anything and everything they simply don’t feel like doing. Your mental health will be fine if you help someone for 5 minutes, i promise.
love these women but sometimes I forget they're old and rich lol
when someone says "gen-z have it so easy" all I hear is "I'm rich and all the parents I know are helicopter parents who are also rich so I think every kid in the world lives like that"
Literally the worst economic and sociopolitical environment in over half a century: "Youngsters got it easy"
@sagephil right 😂 I love them but they're so ovbiously a different class and so out of touch with the actual blue collar (white collar?) working class.
@@katc2040 yeah I love them but later in the episode they talk about buying Prada shoes 😂 I can't even afford getting this cavity fixed
We aren’t crying because we’ve been fed rainbows and sunshine all our lives we cry more because we can’t afford to live or be healthy but we still have to sacrifice our lives for the man
I forget that they live in a upper class bubble sometimes.
And I’m used to running to the bathroom to cry like every other woman, but tbh, why?? Just cry in public. Let em see it. As long as you’re getting your work done on the clock, why hide?
Ehhh come on guys.
I will not work a minute over for my boss to do extra shit not already on my plate because bosses use that to their advantage. I’m surprised you guys aren’t aware how often managers abuse employees who are willing to do whatever the manager wants. I have a life that I want to live, and other responsibilities.
Also, who says we have everything taken care of for us? Lol. Our families are all different, and parents care for kids in varying degrees.
I like that gen z is laying boundaries. You guys talk about not having boundaries and how much of a problem it is, maybe this is their way of changing that.
Gen X, here. I give Gen Z a break because they grew up with mass shootings and global pandemic. Love you guys, though! ❤
love you ladies and this podcast! you make some valid points about Gen Z anxiety and growing up with smartphones (which I agree with!) but I do think if all 3 interns in a workplace are regularly crying, there's likely something wrong with the tone the employer is setting for the workplace...
Had such an overwhelming weekend I’m glad I can unwind on my day off and listen to two women tell me what they’ve had it with ❤
I think gen z is changing the future of work culture. If she is on the clock then staying an extra 10 mins isn’t the end of the world. But if she isn’t on the clock then I think it can be an issue! If my hours are 9-5 on salary then I’m leaving at 5!
Let see how they works out for you . Especially in the design field .
Incredible scrub fraud out of my mother: she’s a nail tech and cuts old people’s toenails on Fridays (health purposes, not cosmetic) so she always wears scrubs on Fridays bc ..ew lol. One Friday my grandma (her mom) ended up in the hospital and the doctors were giving everyone the run around. My mom (who is a certified boss bitch) walked in in those scrubs and started bossin people around to get her mom the care she desperately needed and everyone took her seriously bc she was in scrubs. When the doctor said “I can tell you’re a nurse” she replied with “not a nurse, but I’m in the medical field” hahahaha
Hard disagree. you’re not obligated to work any unpaid time. And saying that is setting a clear boundary. The biggest case of theft in America is wage theft by employers, because they expect you to work for free
10000% this! I think the part that made it very gen z cringe was the term "self-care boundary." Like, just the word boundary would have done lol.
I love that gen z's know the value of their labor though!! Our collective labor is truly our only bargaining tool and that intern was right to set a firm boundary.
The value of their labor is in their experience and skill - which if they are an interns is. It much . Ask Jenn how long and hard she worked to get where she is .
@@danishmodern55 yea and when she started working she legally couldn’t own her own bank account. Stfu
@@danishmodern55 girl, do you buy food with experience? Can I go to my landlord and tell them this month I have lots of experience? Oh, I can’t without horrible consequences? I guess that means unpaid labor is whack.
I'm going to assume (because of the band-aiding and the hanger trick) that Pumps and I have similar teats. And I want to know Pumps's concealing tricks so that we're not out here cutting glass with our razor sharp nips. Because frankly, I've had it with my confrontational nipples.
Im totally eating that sushi roll in my car after i shopped for an hour and a half so i will totally wave someone on. Just dont even wait for me yo 😂
I usually listen to the podcast on Spotify, but now watching it on UA-cam I realize they are in fact not highfiving and Pumps is just doing a singular clap lol
OMG! The scrubs! Happened to me - my salon switched to us wearing scrubs right after reopening after Covid shutdown. Went straight to meet a friend for happy hour and she passed out at the restaurant! The EMTs were asking me 100 questions and I was like- I DONT KNOW! Realized I had scrubs on and they probably thought I was in the medical field… never wore them out again! Lol 🥴🤣
Working for 10 minutes for free a work day at $20 an hour is almost a grand in a year…
As a millenial born in '93 I let out the biggest chuckle at the intern thinking she'd have an assistant. Wooooow 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😭
Scrub fraud: I used to cut a man’s hair that wore scrubs so I assumed he was a nurse or at least in the medical field…he was a home inspector and decided to wear scrubs as his uniform because they’re comfortable.
Well damn, finally called out.😂 I’m a scrub fraud on occasion. When pj’s became socially unacceptable (it was never really acceptable) and I worked at a hospital I’d wear them everywhere. Now I just wear them if I just have to run a quick errand. Well not anymore you’ve shamed it right out of me 😂😂😂 love the pod, the star princess Diana Pumps, and Jen the sporty one with good taste 😉😂
I'm 33, have always said no to bullshit asks like that. And I'm doing GREAT. There's a lot more to someone "making it in the real world" than agreeing with you on some B.S. I worked in kitchens where chefs are known to be crazy and abusive, and had zero problems helping the restaurant get its Michelin star. Never worked extra. Your chairs can wait until the next day. I adore you kunts, but like Cody, I'm an opinionated, successful homosexual.
Amazing commentary on gen z meltdowns but I’ve had it with gym instructors looking at everyone’s private areas and what they’re wearing on top of them
Can’t wait for you to come to Sydney, Australia. Please come💕
Hi ladies!!! Lovely and very fun episode, loved it 💖
i saw the title but when he dropped the f-word i gasped audibly sir- 💀
i was ready 2 fight
Can't wait to see y'all in Chicago 🤩
I work at a pet hotel. We have to wear scrubs to work because of the mess obviously. My coworkers and i will go to the corner store across the street from us, and EVERY TIME i get stolen valor guilt. I wish we had like a little label on our shirts that said the name of our store so I don’t want to scream out I’M NOT A NURSE every five minutes.
Shouts out to Gen Z
Cody is delightful. Loved him on DWTS. Will definitely purchase his book.
Hilarious, as always. Love you!
How about them KNOWING you’re stalking them…they walk 100 ft, and then immediately cut to the next row. Dateline special: parking lot murders 🤬
“Couldnt you find a cute flat or boot?” 😂😂😂😂
OKAY HOLD THE PHONE. I *just* left a review on Apple - ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️, duh - at 3am this morning before going to sleep where I referred to Pump’s MacGyver ways and then today I see this packing tape and that wordsmith Jessica nails it - MacGyver! 😂
I agree with the boundary of not working late, especially in a case where an intern may or may not be getting paid. As a senior level HR professional, I have a very similar boundary but I can adjust my schedule to ensure I work 40 hours a week. To use a boundary under the guise of self-help?!? BS!!
-immediately throws kitten heels-
Hey Jen, we need to know what's on your techno playlist!
Okay skims sponsorship
Once in a while it might be OK to stay an extra 5 or 10 minutes at work, I do that sometimes. It is also weird for an intern to expect an assistant (unless you are required to carry 20 kg bags or to perform an open heart surgery, something which interns wouldn't probably be required to do), but don't underestimate some bosses' desire to take advantage of their employees
Please come to Austin Texas !!!!
I’m sitting here in my scrubs 😮 do estheticians count? Also, drop the skincare! Jenn’s and Pumps skin is amazing!!
I'd count that as medical field
You need to come to London !!
It was weirdly validating to hear you guys talk about the anxiety and depression problems with my generation. All I ever hear is older gens bitching about us having serious mental health problems as if it something we just decided to do
It is something you decide to do bc everyone has anxiety and depression - wait until you hit peri menopause and really really have to deal with it …. Really an entire generation of cry babies that need to be medicated to go to work . Ridiculous .
@@danishmodern55 🙄 millions of women experienced peri menopause before you did - really, an entire dinosaur seeking affirmation and novelty from a hormonal change half the population experiences. Now that’s ridiculous. Time to top up on your estrogen shots lady
@danishmodern55 damn they tried to compliment your generation and you hate them so much you STILL had to shit all over them. Rancid behavior
@@danishmodern55may I ask where you went to med school? I'm just curious as to which med schools are teaching this mentality.
@@danishmodern55 Old person yelling at clouds.
I work in Vet Med, don't forget us! Not scrub fraud 😂.
Just letting you know, the GAYS love you two! I called them all and they said, They have HAD IT!
Packing tape to keep the gurls up ... welcome to drag, Pumps! LOL
But also, I'm clocking out when I'm supposed to clock out, eff your deadline. You ain't paying me extra to be there extra, so nope. But I'm GenX and I'm just like fck your extra, that's supposed to be picked up by the manager, and I just don't care what happens after my end-time.
Parking: they have to plug their phone in, open Maps, and set their home address cause they don't know how TF to get home. That's why they take so long. My niece does that shit, and it makes me want to smack her from here to next Tuesday. Just GO already.
Can you please have a show in Nashville!?!?
Please come to Canada!!!
"that's somewhat of a strong woman" lol
I am required to wear scrubs for my esthetician job and I feel like a fraud.
New phrase added. “Self care boundary” will live on and on with me.
Hey guys I love your show but there's sooo many commercials/ads when you factor in the sponsors (usually up to 3 in 1 video) and the additional ad breaks that you guys add yourselves. In my opinion they're disproportionately high when taking thelength of video in consideration.
I literally do not even wear the wrong undergarments at home
Jennifer Picklewelch, YOU are a sensual sphinx cat with a lovely laugh and the foot-resting-upon-a-table power of a PROFESSIONAL ATHLETE!
Kitten heels are legit rebellion imho. I stan them!
Im a millennial, we were crying but it was just in the bathroom lol
I thought it was only people in California who see you standing there, say nothing, get into their cars and proceed to sit there for 20 f*cking minutes
As a gay man, I’ve had it with gay men that use the “F slur” for shock value and cheap seats laughs. The door needs to stay closed on that word. Very obnoxious and unnecessary. He should have been a bit more responsible and respectful of the invitation to come on this podcast than to act and speak like that. Even with the context being irreverent humor as even that has its boundaries.
Otherwise, love the podcast and look forward to the next episode.
i never thought i’d tune into this show and hear the F slur. this should have been edited out. i’m quite disappointed. this guy doesn’t seem like a nice person at all. i think i’ll skip this one.
I very finally disagree. My parking spot, my choice. Stop stalking me. I have that spot until im gone. Go to another spot. Rude.
Capture Codys " bye boos"
Nooooooooo! I dress for the gym everyday and never go bahaha!!! I feel like it's ok so long as you work from home?
You can dress however you want for whatever you want and it doesn't matter if you are in pajamas or workout clothing or a parka or whatever. I look forward to this podcast every week, but this one has been a trainwreck so far and it makes me sad.
I look forward to this podcast every week, but damn, this episode was such a disappointment. I agree with the things others in the comments have mentioned, but what is bothering me most is the judgemental bullshit regarding what people wear to the gym and which clothes they wear out in public. If you don't like seeing someone's panty line at the gym, don't stare at them. People are not required to wear clothing that suits you, and the idea that this guy is a fitness instructor and he's actively judging people's clothing when they're at the gym is disgusting and wildly inappropriate. Also, the judgement against people who wear athleisure clothing to Target or whatever...how the fuck do you know whether or not they went to the gym that day? What if they put those clothes on to take a walk? And even if they did just put on comfy clothes to go to Target, why is it any of your business? And what if that person you see in pajamas at Target could have a bad cold, or perhaps they just went through a surgery, or maybe they just think pjs are comfy. If you don't like it, you don't have to look at them. I really hope this podcast doesn't devolve into people just being catty towards others. Discussing why you've "had it" with certain things is great, but this episode seemed to be a lot of objective statements about outfits/people/etc that Jen and Pumps personally dislike. Also, if this guest is seriously staring at people's asses/etc while he's doing fitness training, that's extremely fucked up. It's not his job to be rude and judgemental towards others who are just trying to maintain their physical health. Judgemental people like him (and you two, too, Pumps and Jen) are a big part of the reason that so many people avoid gyms in any way they can, because they worry that they'll be mocked or stared at or whatever else if they go to the gym. Also, why in the hell was that word not bleeped?! I hope the next episode is at least a little bit less hateful. 😥😥
I'm usually quick to reverse from a parking spot if someone is waiting, but I'm more of a bitch at the gas station. If there's empty spots and you're behind my car waiting, I will take some time. But I really never take very long at all because I feel self conscious about it lol
OMG, I was once a 27 yr old woman who went to NYC with my boss and "had" to sleep with him. I WAS SO STUPID! Awful, awful story......AND, he was 30 yrs older than me. Designer for commerical buildings there to purchase original artwork for jobs. YUCK
Relying on only scrubs as a gold digger is amateur hour! CNAs wear scrubs and make 14 dollars an hour, so you have to check the car and watch, too!
I have a friend whose dad is a prominent Doctor in Oklahoma. His ex-wife was a professional gold-digger. She was a nurse, and went through the staff directory to make a list of all the single Doctors to find one to marry…it worked. That’s how the pros do it!
She was a professional gold digger yet had a career as a nurse... sounds like she had her own money and job. Sounds like she just had standards and wanted someone with an income like her own
100% on parking!
I'm a golden girl. I wear track suits, jogger sets.☺
As a gen z watching this I just wanna say. A lot of there issues would be solved if they had a ciggie instead of going on tik tok
Skims sponsorship? 😱
Usually I agree with y'all but I really disagree with you on the Gen Z story. No unpaid internship (which should really be called volunteer work because that's all it is) or low-paying hourly job should expect a person to work outside of the agreed hours. If there is something that will require work after the end time, then it can wait until the next day. If the boss doesn't like it, then they and their high salary can take care of it themselves.
cringed so hard at hearing that richard was in hawaii at a time like this :( definitely expected a bit more empathy from y’all
Yeah, this was a big turn-off for me. One of my long-term boyfriends was born and raised in Hawai'i Island, and I learned soooo so much throughout my time with him, his family and friends, and my time spent in the Hawai'ian Islands. There's so much that is problematic with the tourism in Hawai'i, and people died in the most horrific ways due to the fires on Maui. I can't believe they didn't even offer any pushback or ask how he felt about the disaster on Maui (not sure which island he was on, but when you're out on the islands, the news travels quickly, so there's no way he didn't know about it).
@@Ruscharound19 i’m hoping this episode was just filmed prior to the fire because i can’t imagine jen and pumps just ignoring it like that.
Why is Richard's voice sexy like that, and he's married? 😢😂
Agreed Gen z will kill us all Is what I’m hearing
I am a total slut. Laughing and crying thank you! Also 59 years old…slow clap!
Jojo and PP are sick of gen z
the phones just made us more aware of the world and the reality of things like climate change, shootings, fucked republicans, etc. were also aware of all the ways our time will be taken and wasted and how unlikely we will be able recuperate. how unlikely it is we’ll make it in our career paths. how little we’re paid because of rising costs but static wage.
we don’t want to talk to mf just as much as you two don’t. we’re also just ready to say “no, you pay me to be here.”
another waste of our time is most punctuation and capitalization. just fucking read it. i don’t say “my name is capital S shawn, from capital C chicago! capital I love beaches!” like go home mary.
Do you think it's funny when men dress up as and make fun of other disadvantaged groups-like black/brown people? Or just when they dress up as and make fun of women?
Yaaaasss!!❤
👍👍👍
I’ve had it with social media’s appropriation and bastardization of the word “boundaries” as a way of getting out of anything and everything you just don’t feel like doing. If you’re an intern, you’re expected to participate in your internship. refusing to do this isn’t a “boundary”, it is just straight up neglecting your responsibilities.
In life, there’s just going to be things that you don’t want to do, but they’re still your responsibility. I dread paying my student loans every month, but I can’t just refuse to pay them and say it’s a “self-care boundary” 😒
Employers will take a mile if you give them an inch. You dont owe them more than they pay you, which is very little if anything at all if theyre interns. The fact that shes got several interns crying at their place of work should be ringing alarm bells but they somehow managed to make it out like the entire generation is just too sensitive and addicted to phones, which is a typical dismissal and head in sand combo that wont acknowledge the worsening social, political and economic environment. This generation is no worse than the last, they said gen-x and millennials were the participation trophy generation too. Its just inter-generational shit throwing to prop up peoples self-worth and have someone to blame for a deeply sick country.
I don’t like that I was bullied but I’m so damn tough. Bring it on
Would love to hear why you girlies don’t drink❤
Jennifer you're too young to be my mom, but I still wish you were mine
Employers will take a mile if you give them an inch. You dont owe them more than they pay you, which is very little if anything at all if theyre interns. The fact that shes got several interns crying at their place of work should be ringing alarm bells but they somehow managed to make it out like the entire generation is just too sensitive and addicted to phones, which is a typical dismissal and head in sand combo that wont acknowledge the worsening social, political and economic environment. This generation is no worse than the last, they said gen-x and millennials were the participation trophy generation too. Its just inter-generational shit throwing to prop up peoples self-worth and have someone to blame for a deeply sick country.
I love the podcast but I've had it with his shit.
This episode flopped
You’re talking a bunch of snowflakes, I have no time for that.
flats are ugly lets be so serious
It's two sided. If you're in a field as a young person trying to get their stripes. You should be prepared to make sacrifices of your life, time, & whatnot. You should be hungry enough for your journey in your job, being useful to your superior, being dependable. Provided you aren't being abused & it's not happening in a manner that's too frequently. That's part of the journey of being young, having to work HARD, having a ladder to climb, rising into a role with a title. But many of these young people have the expectations that they should leave college and go into the world and be a ceo in a minute.
More like they are expecting to be more than beginner level after college
I love your podcast, but this guest was just vile. I've had it with his personality. Least favorite episode since the suprise-Friday infomercial.
Are the interns getting paid?
I don’t think anyone should be working ever and I hate everything about today so I will never agree about doing unpaid work but I love y’all and he’s a gay man he can say f*g guys plz 😭 + I LOVE KITTEN HEELS THEY ARE HOT 😤