I'm 23, almost 24, and honestly, the most important thing I have ever learnt is that you need to follow yiur own heart and your own dreams. If that means that you have to stop caring about certain things or people, then that's a sacrifice you have to be willing to take. In the long term, giving time, energy and other resources to people or projects that do not fulfill you is going to make you miserable and you'll end up feeling like you have wasted your life away on things that did not matter at all. How do you avoid wasting your life on unnecessary and unfruitful things? Know yourself and know your values. Before you decide to do anything, to share anything about yourself, to make a decision - ask yourself, am I doing this because it aligns with my values and dreams or am I doing this on autopilot/based on other people's expectations/to please others?
I love this! I'm struggling a bit because I don't really fit in with my group of friends anymore and this video was a nice reminder that we all get to make those type of choices
I feel so proud of you Vee! I started watching your channel when I was in college now I'm finishing my masters and looking forward to my PhD candidacy, and you were such a huge inspiration for me 🥹🥹🥰 keep going, you are a girl boss! Love from Brazil ❤️
Vee posted! I am very excited to watch this one. I was seeing your vid since I was in grade 9 and now I am almost a college student you helped me with a lot of things. I am now accepted into a popular college here in my country and I am trying to apply to colleges in the US. And definitely know I owe you a thank you coz you really played a big role in my life.ily vee
Thank you so much you have no idea how much I needed this vídeo. I know in this video you talked about removing your toxic friends but in this time I'm removing my toxic dad who's been always whispering in my ear what he wants me to become, but now I want to be who I want to be, free from all his ideas of what means to be successful in life. Thanks Vee, you are a ray of sunshine
Since I’ve been following you, all of your content has been helpful. Haven't commented but I just wanna say thanks. And I love how much passion you put into your videos 😊
Thanks so much for the Video Vee, I really needed to hear this 💛💛 being in your twenties is sometimes not that easy, but it is what you make of it! & good luck on your PhD journey 😊
Hey Vee. What if it's your family especially dad controlling everything, including your personality, goals,friends etc. But then he pays your fees so you feel guilty when you think about how controlling he is.
Vee, it never mattered what age I was whether I was in my 20s or not, I have always made changes in life if I was unhappy about something.
I'm 23, almost 24, and honestly, the most important thing I have ever learnt is that you need to follow yiur own heart and your own dreams. If that means that you have to stop caring about certain things or people, then that's a sacrifice you have to be willing to take. In the long term, giving time, energy and other resources to people or projects that do not fulfill you is going to make you miserable and you'll end up feeling like you have wasted your life away on things that did not matter at all. How do you avoid wasting your life on unnecessary and unfruitful things? Know yourself and know your values. Before you decide to do anything, to share anything about yourself, to make a decision - ask yourself, am I doing this because it aligns with my values and dreams or am I doing this on autopilot/based on other people's expectations/to please others?
I love this! I'm struggling a bit because I don't really fit in with my group of friends anymore and this video was a nice reminder that we all get to make those type of choices
I’m 20 so no more excuses, gotta start the work!
just finished reading that book! totally changed my mindset about my 20 somethings ✨
I feel so proud of you Vee! I started watching your channel when I was in college now I'm finishing my masters and looking forward to my PhD candidacy, and you were such a huge inspiration for me 🥹🥹🥰 keep going, you are a girl boss! Love from Brazil ❤️
Vee posted! I am very excited to watch this one. I was seeing your vid since I was in grade 9 and now I am almost a college student you helped me with a lot of things. I am now accepted into a popular college here in my country and I am trying to apply to colleges in the US. And definitely know I owe you a thank you coz you really played a big role in my life.ily vee
OML SAMEE i am from Kenya and I am applying as well ..........goodluckk i hope everything goes well
thank you! I hope the same for you too☺️don't worry your self I know you can do it!
Sending love from Ethiopia 🇪🇹
Thank you so much you have no idea how much I needed this vídeo. I know in this video you talked about removing your toxic friends but in this time I'm removing my toxic dad who's been always whispering in my ear what he wants me to become, but now I want to be who I want to be, free from all his ideas of what means to be successful in life. Thanks Vee, you are a ray of sunshine
You have no idea how much I needed this today🥺
Since I’ve been following you, all of your content has been helpful. Haven't commented but I just wanna say thanks. And I love how much passion you put into your videos 😊
Thank you for this, I so grateful to have found you and your videos are helping be a better person
Tomorrow is not promised fr fr
Such an insightful video, Vee!
Thanks so much for the Video Vee, I really needed to hear this 💛💛 being in your twenties is sometimes not that easy, but it is what you make of it! & good luck on your PhD journey 😊
You are amazing .....keep being adorably you !!!!!
Thanks for all this quality content !!!
Hey Vee. What if it's your family especially dad controlling everything, including your personality, goals,friends etc. But then he pays your fees so you feel guilty when you think about how controlling he is.
Preach sis!
Wow Vee!!!....i love your videos, you inspire me a lot....love from Zimbabwe
thanks for this needed it !!
Love you, giiirl
This is very helpful! Thank you!
Please add chapters
Thank you❤️❤️
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You are soo talanted and clever. but haven't you aver thought about the religions in the world. and decided the best one.
She's probably a christian
Christianity is the best
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Hi Vee, recent follower here from LinkedIn🙌🏻. Well done. Please is there a video that addresses how you started your activism journey ?
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