It's so strange to be listening to this song as an adult and to finally understand what it means... I don't think she abuses him, even if the song heavily implies it, it seems deeper than that. I think the song shows how she's afraid of intimacy, she's afraid to love him, get close to him and trust him. So she lashes out in fear because it's the only way she knows how to react. Yet every single time she hurts him her guilt always torments her and makes her realize how much she really needs him and doesn't want him to be hurt. She acts like she doesn't need him and tries to distance herself in her head, when really she's afraid to be without him too.
I really think the moral of this song is that she doesn't necessarily abuse him (even if she does in the video) I think this song is about the fact that she is so mean to him, and she can't really figure out why, but she knows she loves him so much. She knows she needs him. The problem is she can't show him, so he thinks she doesn't love him and therefore he thinks it's best if he leaves her. But this song is basically her screaming out "don't leave me. I need you" she just doesn't necessarily know how to get it out any other way then being mean. Idk that's just me.
My mom used to pick me up and dance with me to this song when I was about 2. She was struggling with drugs for a while and wasn't in my life for a while but I still loved her to death. She finally got back into my life and we became bestfriends. She was getting off of drugs and finally getting better. Then @2:35am on September 5 2018 she died in a hospital by choking on her own fluids. This is the first time I've heard this song in over 4 years and the moment I heard it I started crying cause I remembered how she used to do cute stuff with me like take me to the park and have picnics with homemade blueberry muffins. And let me sit on the counter when she cooked. God I miss her so much❤❤
I’m so sorry you have go through this God bless you🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽And I promise you will heal from this.It sounds like you and your mom really had a great relationship
This reminds me of my mom. She would always play this song when I was younger and when she was in jail I would cry every time I heard this song... it still makes me emotional
Back in June 2009 (when this first came out), I caught my finger in the chain of my bike and the hospital where I had to go to was in Darlington (I'm from the North East of England), and whenever I went for a check up, this song (along with Poker Face and The Fear) would play. Good times.
This song from Pink was from her 5th studio album “Funhouse” which was released on October 28th, 2008 in the United States. This being 2024 makes this song 16yrs old. Who’s still here loving this song as much as I am?
Borderline Personality Disorder made me come here. I love P!nk's music - all of it. This song makes me feel like it's written from the point of view of someone with BPD. If you can look past the original video and just take note of the lyrics, that is.
I have BPD and this is how I feel appt with my husband. Thankfully, he knows it's because I'm hurt. I've gotten so much better but still have outbursts. I'm working on it.
For me I think she's showing the paradoxality of love, how we can really love someone by hurting him. When he/she is there we take it for granted; as our personal property, meaning we can do all we want. But when he goes, we see the missing gab and we realize we can't live without him.
Pink will go down as one of the finest singer/songwriters of all time. I wasn't that keen on her first album but as soon as she got creative control of her work, she was unstoppable.
This song popped up randomly in my head after all these years. I have not heard this song in like years and today I look it up and it still sounds amazing.
This so is beautiful, but oh so toxic. Reminds me of my first relationship. The only thing missing is the man's side; the tears, the weird dreams, the stomach in knots and constanly having your resolve broken only to feel weak and stupid when things repeat. Great song.
Good I am glad =D I am to make people laugh and smile xD After all; I might never be able to change the world but if I can make someone laugh or smile maybe I can change someone's day ;D
this song reminds me of my mum that left me when i was 8 And I'm now 15. I haven't seen her since. And I'm broken. but someday I'll see her. And tell her how i feel. Yes I miss her. BUT I barely knew her. I was only so little to understand what was going on. but the older you get, the more you understand. And the more you're broken.
I keep listening to this song ever since my long-term relationship ended.. I loved him so much but all I did was show my anger. I am still to this day healing from it, I miss him so much but i know he didnt want to be hurt anymore. so i had to let him go, even though it hurts to know he will be happy with someone else..
Can I ask you... How did u get thru it? I'm 30 years old and just a litl over a month ago, the Love of my Life walked out on me! 7 years together and he went to work one day and never came back! Without any reason and not one word! Last night, after over a month, he said My dear I will always and forever love you! But I can't be "in love" with u if I can't love myself! I just can't understand! I love him enough for both of us!! We promised each other that we would always be there for one another! He used to tell me, "You would have to leave me cause I'll never leave you, I'll never fall out of love with u!" And now I'm the one alone, and I'm still very much in love with him! And I can't seem to let him go! The fkn pain is unbearable! Everyone says only time will heal! But the pain gets worse everyday!!! So if u have any advice on how to deal with it, how to get thru this any easier, please let me know!!! Thanks
@@brittneypritt8599 oh my heart 💔 I have no advice for u because I struggle like crazy with heartbreak and go for months even years broken but I just want to check in to see how u are going now?? Your comment got me so bad I almost cried because I know how it feels! Hope u are a lot better now than then? Sending lots of love and hugs x
i love everything about her! how she can pull off so many diff looks an makes em look amazing! like in her new just like fire video, her songs are always what lifts me up. shes always been my role model. . ALWAYS. . i love you Pink! u are amazing!
I first heard this song when I was 8. The same year I lost my father to suicide. I can’t believe I’ll be 18 this year.. I’ve made it this far, still grieving but hey it’s life. I’ll always miss my dad. I just wish I got to know the guy more. Till we meet again!
It’s a definite kick in the teeth once you realize that this is sung from the perspective of an abuser. It’s so easy to view abusers as heartless monsters, but most of the time they really do love their victims in their own malformed, broken way. Hell, sometimes they don’t even want to be abusive but they can’t figure out how to stop. It’s important to avoid dehumanizing them, understanding that they’re just as human as the rest of us is a crucial step in understanding why abusers turn out the way they are.
omg, anyone who hasn't seen the video to this NEEDS to. pink is a legend but she acts like a real psycho in the video lol. u gotta feel sorry for the boyfriend in the video
This is song is just perfect because I was actually told by this person to stop using them as an emotional punching bag "You're my perfect little punching bag,"
im a good guy, or was anyways. then I was in a relationship where I was getting abused and it turned me sour. after a few months of being tolerant, loving, and understanding I had enough, broke up with her and havent dated anyone since. I became a nasty person when she ripped my heart out, toxic people create toxic people, I stopped talking to pretty much all of my family, lost my job, moved back into my dads. All of that pain for a girl who thought she could shit gold bars. This pink song is so relatable to any guy or gal whose been in a bad relationship. (and before anyone calls me a pussy or not a "real man" the woman i was dating was much larger than me in politically correct terms and Im real skinny, so of course she could hurt me easily)
TheRealest Good for you for having the strength to get out. It sounds like the transition has been rough on you but I really hope you are able to find some peace after that. And shit, women often leave much nastier damage in the form of emotional manipulation let alone the fact plenty of them are much more physically formidable than society likes to admit--so seriously fuck anyone who tries to belittle you after what you experienced. They just don't know the first thing about abusive relationships.
TheRealest My brother had the same thing happen to him. Only difference is he is still in that relationship because of the kids. I feel so bad for him.
female on male domestic violence is a highly stigmatized and under reported occurrence. I am so happy you are sharing your story; you may inspire others to leave their "sick" loved ones. I wish you all the luck in your future.
#MAGA #DEUSVULT #MGTOW #ALT-RIGHT #4Chan Good for you. I left an abusive relationship almost a year ago. Keep on keeping on, and hopefully you can heal to trust women again. We’re not all bad. 👍
I'm in love with someone with BPD, it takes a strong love but she's got the purest heart. Patience and understanding... But I'll never leave her... Even after she's gone.
@@TickleMonster333 She's actually moved on and engaged already. I'm in a healthy and happy place. I wish the best for her. And if she ever needs a friend she has one.
This song though. I can definitely relate to shoving someone away a thousand times until they are really ready to go . That's when the please don't leave me comes. They don't want to hear it then though.
me and my bf are currently on edge. I love him i don't want us to fall apart. We fight but what couple doesn't? I just want to cry in his arms. I don't want to give up on us and i don't want him to give up. I don't know what to think right now. ~chloe
Mmmkay just keep trying ☺ you can make it my relationship is super difficult right now just keep trying first sit down with your bf and talk try not to yell if he yells don't yell back keep calm and tell each other what you don't Luke about each other and try to fix the weak spots like a pipe leaking you have to fix the problem if not then your wasting your money in this case your wasting your time fix the problems mmmkay? Trust me this worked for me and I'm only 14 cx
Wow, pink really is a genius! Never realized that lyrics could be beautiful to hear, never realized that someone that so famous could write something that a normal person could feel! That goes to show you that even stars have the same feelings that we have
I don't think this is about abusive relationsheep. I think it perfectly sums the madness that comes to your mind when you are about to lose someone you love and that someone will do everything,even bad things that she doesn't mean to keep the one she loves. And that person doesn't understand it so she is saying baby please don't leave me.
My past female bestfriend, at one point in our relationship treated me badly, kinda like a 'punching bag' as Pink said. It went on for 2 years or so. I'm pretty strong emotionally, so to most of what she said I didn't really give a second thought, but it started eating me away slowly, since I was trying to hold on to our relationship, or at least, what it used to be. One time, as we were walking together, she made some snarly comment that I now don't remember. I stopped in my place, and said: "Why are you so mean to me?". She was pretty stunned by what I said, and replied: "You're just asking for it". I told her: "No, I'm really not. I've done nothing to you but be a great friend, and you are treating me like shit. I think you need to think over what I said and over how you act". I then walked away and headed back home by myself. After a couple of days she confronted me and apologized sincerely, and as she was tearing up, she said that she wasn't herself, and that she'd like a second chance. I gave it to her, and she started acting much better. We started rebuilding our trust. Here and there there were remnants of bad sarcasm, which I quickly called out, but in time they disappeared completely. Our friendship became stronger than ever, and she learned to appreciate me better. We are now, still, great friends :) TL:DR/Moral of the story: Always be 100% honest, really think deeply about what you are feeling so that you can differentiate between what's in your control, what you can do about it, and what's not in your control. If you know yourself, only you have control over what you let in. Other than that, a great song that reminds me of a great life lesson.
Caleigh Brousseau It will always leave you from the moment you eat it to the moment you shit it and, the most fucked up part, you'll be the one to flush it away Lol
Caleigh Brousseau Girlfriends have all left so far. They say I'm too much of a man and too sexy to handle. I feel like they just use me for my body. It's hard being this much of a man, bro. I'm sure I'll find one that won't leave someday, but till then, I'm just happy I don't have anyone I need to share my food with.
Young King I am the same way too but I just don'T look for a boyfriend because then I have to share my food. Even if I did get a boyfriend U AIN'T TOUCHING MA FOOD!
My girlfriend sent this to me when we were falling apart after barely 1 month of dating. But we had been talking for about 4 months. There were...secrets...that she had hidden. They broke me apart and I didn't talk with her much. In about 2 weeks we only messaged each other like 5 times about. Then she sent this song. She had her fair share of problems and suicidal issues too. I couldn't leave her no matter how much love I lost for her at that time. But I stuck with her. For her own good. And slowly as the days went by, I started to fall for her again. More and more. She became my source of happiness. She's been more than good to me. Even when I've had my doubts. She's proved me wrong. Its been 5 months since she sent this. I've never been happier. I just hope we can continue our relationship for much more time to come ❤
@@dabinswifeyyy568 lmao i forgot all about this but nah. we were on and off for about 3 years. Haven't heard from her in over a year. what a dumb teenage moment this was for me 🤣
It does have that effect as it makes you daydream and think of things that are likely to make you cry, such as memories of family members or friends that are no longer with us.
I literally just made almost the same comment...my girlfriend and I were going through a really bad time. Currently separated now but I was such a fucking prick. Just unhappy with myself and life and drinking alot. This song makes me cry like a fucking baby when I hear it.
Interesting takes. We all have our ways of dealing with the torment even a loving relationship can bring. The danger lies when these frustrations are taken into the outside world and exhibited to family, friends, even sketchy acquaintances. That rips a relationship apart, and a vital trust can be lost. That's betrayal, pure and simple.
"Can't you tell that this is all just a contest? The one that wins will be the one that hits the hardest!" God this is a beautiful song. Like if you agree :)
every time I hear this song it reminds me of those stupid special memories I had with the one I love. I was felling depressed and sent him a text saying "please don't leave me" he promised me that he wouldn't...well..two months later he broke me
My girlfriend sent this to me when we were falling apart after barely 1 month of dating. But we had been talking for about 4 months. There were...secrets...that she had hidden. They broke me apart and I didn't talk with her much. In about 2 weeks we only messaged each other like 5 times about. Then she sent this song. She had her fair share of problems and suicidal issues too. I couldn't leave her no matter how much love I lost for her at that time. But I stuck with her. For her own good. And slowly as the days went by, I started to fall for her again. More and more. She became my source of happiness. She's been more than good to me. Even when I've had my doubts. She's proved me wrong. Its been 5 months since she sent this. I've never been happier. I just hope we can continue our relationship for much more time to come ❤
What happened to those days...? When someone said they were 'sorry'? Not because they wanted it to be over or wanted to be forgiven... ... ... But because they meant it.
This song is clearly about borderline personality disorder without a doubt. I even read somewhere its based on an emotional disorder... look it up Borderline personality disorder Even a great book called i hate you domt leave me
+Ludgina Kleine I can just picture it so perfectly! I love Niklaus though. And honestly just want to hug him if he wouldn't rip my heart out. Literally.
Shows toxic relationships like with my boyfriend hes really mean and yells and insults me alot. When u love someone and keep making up. but u learn being in love is the most painful thing in the world at times. But other times Its a adrenaline high joy. U become so used to the pain. I relate to the lyrics cause I really love my man for him taking care of me and making me smile but hate him at the same time when hes abusive and ugly. No ones perfect. People have a ugly side(s) and good side(s). U learn this when ur in a relationship for a very long time life is not all sunshine it rains and is real cold too. Reality is every human is flawed. Prayers to everyone tho!❤💕
I forgot to say out loud how beautiful you really are to me, I can't live without my perfect little punching bag, and I need you. I'm sorry! Please please don't leave me😢😢💔💔 In memory of my baby dad David Ruiz I love you more then you'll ever know dude. I miss you so much. Rest with the angels babe.. 💋❤6/9/75-8/8/18
This was our make up song😢 all this stupid shit we put each other through. Man alcohol is the devil and if I could I wish we could do over again and I could of been strong enough to deal with it all💔
especially at this point just starting to get to know you. i'm not trying to show you my best side because all my sides are the same. the only thing that might make you decide to leave me are your own fears of feeling something so strong and those proverbial "what if's". some times chances are hard to take, but trust has to start somewhere.....if you let it, that somewhere can start here..... but just for the sake of listening to this song, i think Pink is such a "hot" artist! Agreed? thought so!!
I love how when p!nk sings you can hear the emotion in her voice
+Xiamara Brooks I hadn't noticed that, but your right!!!
I noticed the same thing !! Real Artist
+Xiamara Brooks i LOVE p!nk she is AWESOME & i agree only a TRUE artist has that ability
+Xiamara Brooks she has a very distinctive sound , and yes she drips with emotion and sexiness!!
+pvtrichter88 people can rwad
It's so strange to be listening to this song as an adult and to finally understand what it means... I don't think she abuses him, even if the song heavily implies it, it seems deeper than that. I think the song shows how she's afraid of intimacy, she's afraid to love him, get close to him and trust him. So she lashes out in fear because it's the only way she knows how to react. Yet every single time she hurts him her guilt always torments her and makes her realize how much she really needs him and doesn't want him to be hurt. She acts like she doesn't need him and tries to distance herself in her head, when really she's afraid to be without him too.
That actually makes a lot more sense!
It does.... Ik a person like that I've been on and off with her we love each other but can't figure out how to keep it going
@@johngancarcik5682 interesting
It's a nice song too!
cool motive, still abuse (at least to me)
@@randomtree7295 just a dumb thought, but what if he frames her self defense as abuse, and shes beginning to believe it?
I really think the moral of this song is that she doesn't necessarily abuse him (even if she does in the video) I think this song is about the fact that she is so mean to him, and she can't really figure out why, but she knows she loves him so much. She knows she needs him. The problem is she can't show him, so he thinks she doesn't love him and therefore he thinks it's best if he leaves her. But this song is basically her screaming out "don't leave me. I need you" she just doesn't necessarily know how to get it out any other way then being mean. Idk that's just me.
Well said
Agree with you!!!
Thats so me... Sorry but yes, thats me
Sooo basically helga and Arnold?
I think you're right on...
thats how iI take this song too
My mom used to pick me up and dance with me to this song when I was about 2. She was struggling with drugs for a while and wasn't in my life for a while but I still loved her to death. She finally got back into my life and we became bestfriends. She was getting off of drugs and finally getting better. Then @2:35am on September 5 2018 she died in a hospital by choking on her own fluids. This is the first time I've heard this song in over 4 years and the moment I heard it I started crying cause I remembered how she used to do cute stuff with me like take me to the park and have picnics with homemade blueberry muffins. And let me sit on the counter when she cooked. God I miss her so much❤❤
Im so sorry I feel your pain but always know she always loved you no matter what
i’m sorry for your loss but 2 when this song was out?
I’m so sorry you have go through this God bless you🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽And I promise you will heal from this.It sounds like you and your mom really had a great relationship
I'm so sorry for your loss. She'll always love you, even if she's in heaven.
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Very under-rated song writer! All her songs have very relatable messages presented just beautifully
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This reminds me of my mom. She would always play this song when I was younger and when she was in jail I would cry every time I heard this song... it still makes me emotional
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Not ya mama was in jail 😂
Back in June 2009 (when this first came out), I caught my finger in the chain of my bike and the hospital where I had to go to was in Darlington (I'm from the North East of England), and whenever I went for a check up, this song (along with Poker Face and The Fear) would play. Good times.
Mickey!
***** hope ur ok
***** how are u
gd gd been thinking on what u said a lot its made think about ma life a need to chang it
+Mickey Smith +Christine Mcleod
I'm guessing you know each other? Kinda cool.
Step one: Lay down
Step two: Try not to cry
Step three: Fail and cry a river ;-;
lelol
I allready did it soo..
True
ComputaSezNo i really did
I feel like I'm going to do that soon
This song from Pink was from her 5th studio album “Funhouse” which was released on October 28th, 2008 in the United States. This being 2024 makes this song 16yrs old. Who’s still here loving this song as much as I am?
Borderline Personality Disorder made me come here.
I love P!nk's music - all of it. This song makes me feel like it's written from the point of view of someone with BPD. If you can look past the original video and just take note of the lyrics, that is.
I found this song because of an episode and that one phrase is repeating in my head...
Same.
I have BPD and this is how I feel appt with my husband. Thankfully, he knows it's because I'm hurt. I've gotten so much better but still have outbursts. I'm working on it.
I link this song with my childhood with my mom. To me it feels like a disorganized attachment and BPD.
I have BPD and you're completely right its so relatable especially towards our partners or FPs
I love this song so much. This is music. Not the crap we hear nowadays on the radio. This is actually meaningful
For me I think she's showing the paradoxality of love, how we can really love someone by hurting him. When he/she is there we take it for granted; as our personal property, meaning we can do all we want. But when he goes, we see the missing gab and we realize we can't live without him.
Pink will go down as one of the finest singer/songwriters of all time. I wasn't that keen on her first album but as soon as she got creative control of her work, she was unstoppable.
"But baby I don't mean it.
I mean it. I promise" that lyrics was so cool😊😊😊
I wanna dedicate this to my phone when it dies.
+Sierra Kenyon LMFAO
Omg XDDDD
omg same lol
How can I favourite your comment ahahahahahhahaah
Lol
This song popped up randomly in my head after all these years. I have not heard this song in like years and today I look it up and it still sounds amazing.
who still listen to this song in 2019
i still love it♥♥
ME!😜
🙏💔🙌
Yeah, yeah, shat app
2024 and I’m still listening to this beautiful masterpiece…..
This so is beautiful, but oh so toxic. Reminds me of my first relationship. The only thing missing is the man's side; the tears, the weird dreams, the stomach in knots and constanly having your resolve broken only to feel weak and stupid when things repeat. Great song.
This seems to be the song for the UK to Scotland just now
this cracked me up XD
BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA, you ruined this for me forever. I can't listen to this now without laughing or at least lightly giggling....
Good I am glad =D I am to make people laugh and smile xD After all; I might never be able to change the world but if I can make someone laugh or smile maybe I can change someone's day ;D
So true! And now I'm thinking of Hetalia....
Oh yeah! KamisWorld, wasn't it? I watched it. Totally awesome.
when I was two, this song was always on the radio. every time it came on, mom would always turn it up and we'd sing along.
you could sing when you were two?
this song reminds me of my mum that left me when i was 8 And I'm now 15. I haven't seen her since. And I'm broken. but someday I'll see her. And tell her how i feel. Yes I miss her. BUT I barely knew her. I was only so little to understand what was going on. but the older you get, the more you understand. And the more you're broken.
take care always!
I keep listening to this song ever since my long-term relationship ended.. I loved him so much but all I did was show my anger. I am still to this day healing from it, I miss him so much but i know he didnt want to be hurt anymore. so i had to let him go, even though it hurts to know he will be happy with someone else..
are you doing well?
Can I ask you... How did u get thru it? I'm 30 years old and just a litl over a month ago, the Love of my Life walked out on me! 7 years together and he went to work one day and never came back! Without any reason and not one word! Last night, after over a month, he said My dear I will always and forever love you! But I can't be "in love" with u if I can't love myself! I just can't understand! I love him enough for both of us!! We promised each other that we would always be there for one another! He used to tell me, "You would have to leave me cause I'll never leave you, I'll never fall out of love with u!" And now I'm the one alone, and I'm still very much in love with him! And I can't seem to let him go! The fkn pain is unbearable! Everyone says only time will heal! But the pain gets worse everyday!!! So if u have any advice on how to deal with it, how to get thru this any easier, please let me know!!! Thanks
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@@brittneypritt8599 oh my heart 💔 I have no advice for u because I struggle like crazy with heartbreak and go for months even years broken but I just want to check in to see how u are going now?? Your comment got me so bad I almost cried because I know how it feels! Hope u are a lot better now than then? Sending lots of love and hugs x
I can completely relate.❤️ You did it out of love and good intentions thats all that matters.
;-; This song makes me cry
Same :P
This song reminds me of my best friend and her girlfriend
Same
TheSesime my teacher just died today and my boyfriend left me and this song made it worse
Pink is amazing. especially when one is in a middle of a break up of a relationship. thank you for the music, keep it coming. rock on pink.
this is song about Wi-Fi and me
haahhaha
this song is about ep and me
this song is about animal crossing and me
😂😂😂
so true
This song should be placed on a soundtrack for people with Borderline Personality Disorders.
+rojalos Holy shit. As a person who suffers from BPD, ouch. But so true
👍👍👍👍👍 yes!
Am BPD and I think this true
also borderline, i agree
It actually is! That’s where I found it. It’s on The mighty. 25 songs associated with BPD. Or something like that.
Spring/Summer of 2009. God, feels like only yesterday.
i love everything about her! how she can pull off so many diff looks an makes em look amazing! like in her new just like fire video, her songs are always what lifts me up. shes always been my role model. . ALWAYS. . i love you Pink! u are amazing!
I first heard this song when I was 8. The same year I lost my father to suicide. I can’t believe I’ll be 18 this year.. I’ve made it this far, still grieving but hey it’s life. I’ll always miss my dad. I just wish I got to know the guy more. Till we meet again!
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This is my song because me being bullied and mistreated...Just pink in general helped me through a lot of pain and torture....Thank u pink...thank u
I remember jamming out to this song with my mom in the car when I was little. ❤ sad this beautiful song is lost in the catalog of all music.
It’s a definite kick in the teeth once you realize that this is sung from the perspective of an abuser. It’s so easy to view abusers as heartless monsters, but most of the time they really do love their victims in their own malformed, broken way. Hell, sometimes they don’t even want to be abusive but they can’t figure out how to stop. It’s important to avoid dehumanizing them, understanding that they’re just as human as the rest of us is a crucial step in understanding why abusers turn out the way they are.
Cool story bro. Still abuse. And the abused should still leave.
I'm in the same spot with a borderline psychotic. And I'm tired of being destroyed
this has come at my right time thank you Pink from the tiniest village in South Africa
omg, anyone who hasn't seen the video to this NEEDS to. pink is a legend but she acts like a real psycho in the video lol. u gotta feel sorry for the boyfriend in the video
Ikr? 😆
Why the hell do I relate so well to her songs??!! This song reminds me of my older sister...I love her so much!
This song may be old but it's still awesome
she isn't talking about physical abuse but more mental abuse towards him because she doesn't understand how much she truly loves him.
This song will never die!!!!!❤️
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I'm a 34 year old man and this song makes me fucking cry like a fucking baby everytime I listen to it...Jesus christ...
This is song is just perfect because I was actually told by this person to stop using them as an emotional punching bag
"You're my perfect little punching bag,"
im a good guy, or was anyways. then I was in a relationship where I was getting abused and it turned me sour. after a few months of being tolerant, loving, and understanding I had enough, broke up with her and havent dated anyone since. I became a nasty person when she ripped my heart out, toxic people create toxic people, I stopped talking to pretty much all of my family, lost my job, moved back into my dads.
All of that pain for a girl who thought she could shit gold bars.
This pink song is so relatable to any guy or gal whose been in a bad relationship.
(and before anyone calls me a pussy or not a "real man" the woman i was dating was much larger than me in politically correct terms and Im real skinny, so of course she could hurt me easily)
TheRealest Good for you for having the strength to get out. It sounds like the transition has been rough on you but I really hope you are able to find some peace after that. And shit, women often leave much nastier damage in the form of emotional manipulation let alone the fact plenty of them are much more physically formidable than society likes to admit--so seriously fuck anyone who tries to belittle you after what you experienced. They just don't know the first thing about abusive relationships.
TheRealest My brother had the same thing happen to him. Only difference is he is still in that relationship because of the kids. I feel so bad for him.
female on male domestic violence is a highly stigmatized and under reported occurrence. I am so happy you are sharing your story; you may inspire others to leave their "sick" loved ones. I wish you all the luck in your future.
#MAGA #DUESVULT #MGTOW #ALT-RIGHT I so wish I could talk to you
#MAGA #DEUSVULT #MGTOW #ALT-RIGHT #4Chan Good for you. I left an abusive relationship almost a year ago. Keep on keeping on, and hopefully you can heal to trust women again. We’re not all bad. 👍
These comments are like, years old 😭
im already late lolol
This song is perfect example of someone with BPD, like myself all the lyrics describe how a person with BPD behaves. It's not always pretty.
I'm in love with someone with BPD, it takes a strong love but she's got the purest heart. Patience and understanding... But I'll never leave her... Even after she's gone.
Definitely sending this to my husband today with a huge thank you and I'm sorry after my multiple breakdowns this month 😩
Mike V good man, my former fiancée and I are still tight. Just support her it means so much.
@@TickleMonster333
She's actually moved on and engaged already. I'm in a healthy and happy place. I wish the best for her. And if she ever needs a friend she has one.
Or at least how some people with bpd can behave.
p!nk is my favorite female singer
My gf sent me da song when I was mad at her n we stopped talking for a couple of days. When I tell u I would listen to dis song every night n cry.
This song though. I can definitely relate to shoving someone away a thousand times until they are really ready to go . That's when the please don't leave me comes. They don't want to hear it then though.
forgot how much I love this song
I love this song but my favorite thing is coming to the comments and reading the difference debates on the meaning behind it
me and my bf are currently on edge. I love him i don't want us to fall apart. We fight but what couple doesn't? I just want to cry in his arms. I don't want to give up on us and i don't want him to give up. I don't know what to think right now. ~chloe
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Mmmkay just keep trying ☺ you can make it my relationship is super difficult right now just keep trying first sit down with your bf and talk try not to yell if he yells don't yell back keep calm and tell each other what you don't Luke about each other and try to fix the weak spots like a pipe leaking you have to fix the problem if not then your wasting your money in this case your wasting your time fix the problems mmmkay? Trust me this worked for me and I'm only 14 cx
ahhhhh those flashes of my past. ....i was going through puberty. those were horrible times. but i like the song nonetheless.
I'm starting to go through puberty and now I'm scared.
Tammy Carrico Same here and I'm scared too but its OK. It happens to all of us.
Keely Dobrowolsky
True.
I love Pink! Gorgeous!!!
Wow, pink really is a genius! Never realized that lyrics could be beautiful to hear, never realized that someone that so famous could write something that a normal person could feel! That goes to show you that even stars have the same feelings that we have
I don't think this is about abusive relationsheep. I think it perfectly sums the madness that comes to your mind when you are about to lose someone you love and that someone will do everything,even bad things that she doesn't mean to keep the one she loves. And that person doesn't understand it so she is saying baby please don't leave me.
I have been so closed up due to illness i forgot all the greatness in pink and so many other artist.. music I missed you
My favourite colour.........is PINK lolz
My past female bestfriend, at one point in our relationship treated me badly, kinda like a 'punching bag' as Pink said. It went on for 2 years or so. I'm pretty strong emotionally, so to most of what she said I didn't really give a second thought, but it started eating me away slowly, since I was trying to hold on to our relationship, or at least, what it used to be. One time, as we were walking together, she made some snarly comment that I now don't remember. I stopped in my place, and said: "Why are you so mean to me?". She was pretty stunned by what I said, and replied: "You're just asking for it". I told her: "No, I'm really not. I've done nothing to you but be a great friend, and you are treating me like shit. I think you need to think over what I said and over how you act". I then walked away and headed back home by myself. After a couple of days she confronted me and apologized sincerely, and as she was tearing up, she said that she wasn't herself, and that she'd like a second chance. I gave it to her, and she started acting much better. We started rebuilding our trust. Here and there there were remnants of bad sarcasm, which I quickly called out, but in time they disappeared completely. Our friendship became stronger than ever, and she learned to appreciate me better. We are now, still, great friends :)
TL:DR/Moral of the story:
Always be 100% honest, really think deeply about what you are feeling so that you can differentiate between what's in your control, what you can do about it, and what's not in your control. If you know yourself, only you have control over what you let in.
Other than that, a great song that reminds me of a great life lesson.
This song reminded me of my abusive toxic ex. Literally the same words goddamn
To Food: Please, Please, Pleaseee don't leave me!
dude it was a joke
Caleigh Brousseau It will always leave you from the moment you eat it to the moment you shit it and, the most fucked up part, you'll be the one to flush it away Lol
Young King well it won'T leave ya because we have more and more. But if you have a boyfriend or girlfriend they will always leave u :D
Caleigh Brousseau Girlfriends have all left so far. They say I'm too much of a man and too sexy to handle. I feel like they just use me for my body. It's hard being this much of a man, bro. I'm sure I'll find one that won't leave someday, but till then, I'm just happy I don't have anyone I need to share my food with.
Young King I am the same way too but I just don'T look for a boyfriend because then I have to share my food. Even if I did get a boyfriend U AIN'T TOUCHING MA FOOD!
the perfect borderline personality disorder song :)
I think I have that. I wish I was different 😢
Love this song
Yes
No way, has it been 12 years already? Jeez.
A Song about me & my food.
Lol this is the best comment I have ever seen on UA-cam
tooooooooo tru
sooo true 😂😂
Toph Bei Fong women tho :-/ :|
ASHWIN JASS I'm sorry tho
My girlfriend sent this to me when we were falling apart after barely 1 month of dating. But we had been talking for about 4 months. There were...secrets...that she had hidden. They broke me apart and I didn't talk with her much. In about 2 weeks we only messaged each other like 5 times about. Then she sent this song. She had her fair share of problems and suicidal issues too. I couldn't leave her no matter how much love I lost for her at that time. But I stuck with her. For her own good. And slowly as the days went by, I started to fall for her again. More and more. She became my source of happiness. She's been more than good to me. Even when I've had my doubts. She's proved me wrong. Its been 5 months since she sent this. I've never been happier. I just hope we can continue our relationship for much more time to come ❤
Are you still with her?
@@dabinswifeyyy568 lmao i forgot all about this but nah. we were on and off for about 3 years. Haven't heard from her in over a year. what a dumb teenage moment this was for me 🤣
@@Apxthetic98 woah glad that toxicity’s outta ur life. I’m struggling w the same Nd this gave me hope
@@Apxthetic98 hahahah so funny
LOVE MEANS ABANDONING COLORS TO BE COLORFUL (A Theosophical Rhymed Poem In English) in 2 minutes
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I'm getting Megatron and Starscream vibes from this 😂 "You're my perfect little punching bag." 👀
Listening to this as someone with BPD this hits too hard.
I always heard this song when I was younger, on the radio, in stores, etc. So nice to hear again; it's nostalgic, really.
She already Did...
2019....
PINK reads my mind...
IM SORRY DIDNT MEAN IT..
DADADA...
LOVE IT...
one of my favs by her
~adds this to my BPD playlist~
This sums up my love life. Great.
listen to the song made me shed a tear :’(
It does have that effect as it makes you daydream and think of things that are likely to make you cry, such as memories of family members or friends that are no longer with us.
Adhell NuyNoeT I'm drowning in tears
I am a 24 year old male in I love this song ❤😂
I literally just made almost the same comment...my girlfriend and I were going through a really bad time. Currently separated now but I was such a fucking prick. Just unhappy with myself and life and drinking alot. This song makes me cry like a fucking baby when I hear it.
My boss every time I threaten to quit:
This song was my SHIT in 2010 and the I sang it for the aesthetic but now I sing it with meaning and to my best friend ,
Love the guitar on this! Simple yet lovely! And her voice, obviously.
I love this song so much i could put it on everyday of everymonth
u are such a good singer
I like this song. ;~;
Interesting takes. We all have our ways of dealing with the torment even a loving relationship can bring. The danger lies when these frustrations are taken into the outside world and exhibited to family, friends, even sketchy acquaintances. That rips a relationship apart, and a vital trust can be lost. That's betrayal, pure and simple.
"Can't you tell that this is all just a contest? The one that wins will be the one that hits the hardest!"
God this is a beautiful song.
Like if you agree :)
*Me when my wifi fails on me*
Same
Your voice is cutie , Pink ! 🎤💞💞
Just...no more words ! 🙂
every time I hear this song it reminds me of those stupid special memories I had with the one I love. I was felling depressed and sent him a text saying "please don't leave me" he promised me that he wouldn't...well..two months later he broke me
I feel you
+Lillee Taylor eh forget about him, who needs that loser? (you know you sure don't) :)
Where did I read hospital in that?
Ah don't worry, trust me you will feel pain but you will realise he was just a stupid kid 🙂 Girl power
My girlfriend sent this to me when we were falling apart after barely 1 month of dating. But we had been talking for about 4 months. There were...secrets...that she had hidden. They broke me apart and I didn't talk with her much. In about 2 weeks we only messaged each other like 5 times about. Then she sent this song. She had her fair share of problems and suicidal issues too. I couldn't leave her no matter how much love I lost for her at that time. But I stuck with her. For her own good. And slowly as the days went by, I started to fall for her again. More and more. She became my source of happiness. She's been more than good to me. Even when I've had my doubts. She's proved me wrong. Its been 5 months since she sent this. I've never been happier. I just hope we can continue our relationship for much more time to come ❤
What happened to those days...?
When someone said they were 'sorry'?
Not because they wanted it to be over or wanted to be forgiven...
...
...
But because they meant it.
;-;
It's like been less than ten years when this song came out... Nothing's really changed I how u know that, it's only YOU
People are using "Sorry" and "I love you" so easily 😕
This song is clearly about borderline personality disorder without a doubt. I even read somewhere its based on an emotional disorder... look it up
Borderline personality disorder
Even a great book called
i hate you domt leave me
Love her music 😍 👌 great voice
when my bestfriend is having much more fun w somebody else
axtraxia omg ikr 😢😭😩😔
axtraxia True
Lmaoo true 😂
Or someone you can't stop thinking about or loving is with someone else and you can't put into words how you truely feel
NIce hahaha
This song makes me remember about my family and everything that is precious to me.
I always get encouraged by this song to fix my problems with friends and family
Thats a good song coming from our sister
me- pleeease! Leave me!! xD
XD
This is my favorite song.
Please don't leave ME........Love it!!
2024 who is still listening?
This reminds me of Klaus Mikaelson and his family for some reason.
yes me toooooo
+Ludgina Kleine I can just picture it so perfectly! I love Niklaus though. And honestly just want to hug him if he wouldn't rip my heart out. Literally.
Same here!
Me too. You watch the originals
I love the originals, especially Klaus and Elijah x
Shows toxic relationships like with my boyfriend hes really mean and yells and insults me alot. When u love someone and keep making up. but u learn being in love is the most painful thing in the world at times. But other times Its a adrenaline high joy. U become so used to the pain. I relate to the lyrics cause I really love my man for him taking care of me and making me smile but hate him at the same time when hes abusive and ugly. No ones perfect. People have a ugly side(s) and good side(s). U learn this when ur in a relationship for a very long time life is not all sunshine it rains and is real cold too. Reality is every human is flawed. Prayers to everyone tho!❤💕
My fave song when playing Pokemon go
Emotional abuse is the real meaning of the song
I know that's right. Keep your head up love, things get better.
I forgot to say out loud how beautiful you really are to me, I can't live without my perfect little punching bag, and I need you. I'm sorry! Please please don't leave me😢😢💔💔 In memory of my baby dad David Ruiz I love you more then you'll ever know dude. I miss you so much. Rest with the angels babe.. 💋❤6/9/75-8/8/18
This was our make up song😢 all this stupid shit we put each other through. Man alcohol is the devil and if I could I wish we could do over again and I could of been strong enough to deal with it all💔
Am I the only one still listening to this beautiful song
Francle Loja no ✌🏽
This song indeed encapsulates the phrase, “Hurt people, hurt people.”
especially at this point just starting to get to know you. i'm not trying to show you my best side because all my sides are the same. the only thing that might make you decide to leave me are your own fears of feeling something so strong and those proverbial "what if's". some times chances are hard to take, but trust has to start somewhere.....if you let it, that somewhere can start here..... but just for the sake of listening to this song, i think Pink is such a "hot" artist! Agreed? thought so!!
Reminds me of my parents....But my dad was the abuser ._.
i fell bad for you
me 2
Jesi Lulko he wouldnt want ppl to be sorry for him.... he got away from that a$$hole
:'( ahh
Sorry to hear that and I hope everything's better or you're free from the abuse. ☺️