My wife who turned round one day saying she wants to split as she isn’t happy got really upset when I moved out and said I’m only paying for half of the mortgage!! The look and anger on her face was priceless !! She is riddled in debt has a gambling problem and was acting like she was single !! Divorced filed not my problem anymore
As a single homeowner, I think a lot about the damage a relationship can do. Women usually want to consolidate everything to their advantage. They can also use false accusations to steal our property without any repercussions. Truth is, I can't think of a scenario where a relationship can be beneficial.
A woman half jokingly said to me "I need to figure out which of my bills I will assign to you"..... I said now WHY on EARTH would I be paying any of your bills at F*ckin at all.... Needless to say it was the 1st and last date. Good riddance......... Adios.
She could have at least playe dit smart and called you, crying, until you offer to pay. Thats what my girlfriend does. I am conditioning her to stop doing that by making her pay for our dates and suck dick until she works off her debt. So I get my money back and a nice bj. She really likes doing it though so Im not worried about what will happen when were even.
The funny thing is she thought she was 'cute' while she was 'joking' about it. These 304s are all the same... they think they are a god's gift on earth when they are dime a dozen considering that you can't buy anything these days with a dime!
And what kills me is they all think "they're special".....Worthy somehow of a SIMP paying (their bills) ...In exchange for what..? A used up Pu$$y with 475K miles on it...@@frikabg
I was married once, have 3 adult children. I was screwed financially. Glad I never remarried. Only a small percentage of women understand men. Almost 63 and happy not to have put up with BS for years.
I'm 48 and have been single for the last 7 years. I'm free to do whatever I want. I can sleep with the whole bed to myself. I can eat what I want when I want. My ex went through 6 men in 8 months because none of them could tolerate her self-righteous attitude. She didn't cook or clean and spent all her time on Facebook. Something tells me she got the shit end for a change!
Seems that like yourself, she also prefers to do whatever, whenever. Amazingly, some men would not have a problem with that as they are also addicted to AI.
That's how women behave nowadays. Crazy attitude, playing boss girls, selfish, disullusioned, superficial and bitchy, toxic behaviour. Clearly, no men need that kind of 304's.
Most women pay their own bills. However, men are expected to pay at least 1/2 of the mortgage and 1/2 for child care if there is a marriage. Many men work at home while their wives work at the office and vice versa to parent the kids at home. This works well if their jobs are portable.
Take away child support and I guarantee women will be far more selective with their partners. There's far too many women having kids just for the benefits. When I was in my early 20s I started talking to female from highschool and the first thing she ask me our first phone call conversation was if I wanted to have kids. I told her not anytime soon and after that she stood me up and stop talking to me. I'm so glad I felt that way at the time because I could've gotten trapped in divorce.
I would say child support shouldn't go away because the needs of the child should come first. I am however completely in favor of putting a hard limit on child support based on the average cost of living of the primary residence of the child. That way if it only costs $1,000 a month to raise the child the judge cannot award that woman with $20,000 a month just because the husband is a millionaire.
I had a 42 year old women with 3 kids from 2 different dads tell me she wanted 1500 a month to support her. I told her GTFO of my home and never gave her a dime. She couldn’t believe it 😂
WOW! yeah this has become pretty normal because their are a lot of weak men out there that allow themselves to be run over and controlled. all these women didn't just wake up and find themselves this dilutional one day. there was a cause and effect here, not just the weak men either but women have turned themselves into whores that no one wants and while they are getting lied to, used uo and devalued, sometimes just at the local beer joint. they expect more now from men? they are worthless now. I haven't bumped into one I like well enough to give her half my shit lol. I've dated girls that were in penthouse magazine, miss Kansas and every good looking stripper that wasn't a horrible slut that I know of. I talk to them just like I would to a man. We have a social break down here I haven't been able to nail it but its not totally the women... sorry. yes it is. there are a lot of sorry men out there but the women are the ones who have changed the game. the most decent woman I've been out with lately was a russian dentist 30 years old and a full blown doctor. dating several guys at a time and making herself , I don't know how to say it but she wasn't marriage material, probably as good as it gets though. I'm out after that one, haven't dated since
The modern woman's way of thinking these days ... 'I exist and have a vagina there for a man should pay all my bills!' low IQ trash that belongs to the streets with her cats!
I have a rule, I never pay other peoples bills..Its serves me quite well..I'm just shy of an 800 credit rating, I have a nice stash of cash..I always pay my bills on time..I have 2 paid for vehicles, and a nice house..Needless to say, I'm not married, I don't date and I never loan money to anyone..And I think it goes without saying, I don't trust women, period.
American media influence, Hollywood agenda and major American corporations have spread “American values” world wide now you’ll find “modern” women with the same toxic mentality in some of the most remote corners of the world. All I’m saying is be really careful generalizing when picking women outside western societies, because the loyal, traditional beautiful high value women you want, probably wants a guy from her same culture and values, if you happen to find one that wants to date foreigners then be careful because she might be taking her chances to scape to a better life out of poverty.
@@theoteddy9665 my asian gf has tiktok, and we met on tinder. she is not a feminist. she didnt put out on the first date. or the third. we go to church together. we cook together. she loves sucking my dick. i couldnt be happier. i snatched her up when she'd only been in my country for 3 weeks. you gotta be fast, put in some effort, and dont drop the ball. follow through. or just go over to east asia where theres millions of girls that like tall rich western men, know how to cook, take care of kids, and say "yes sir" when you tell them to go do the dishes.
I'm 57 and would if I could afford it become a passport Bros if I was in my 20s. Even I dated single mothers in my 20s but today's men in their 20s are stuck having to date single mothers, raised by single mothers who were raised by single mothers. Now that's 3 levels of crazy !
You could have avoided being a single mother if you wanted to but you chose not to because having a child is 100% on the woman! Your body your choice, remember! A woman can make a man a father even if he doesn't want to be one but a man can't make a woman a mother if she doesn't want to be one so stop trying to act like this is someone else's fault or problem because you chose it! By the way factually speaking men are better parents than women and if you doubt me just look up the stats and you'll see that I'm 100% factually correct!@user-ce4bs3co8r
The men they want, don’t want them. The men they want can have any woman and keeps them in rotation. Why the hell would a man like THAT settle? Much less settle for them! 😂
Well I could have gone that route but Ive always liked the idea of monogamy, marriage, children, happy family, so I declined sleeping with the girls that offered themselves to me on parties and vacations. And I am if you look at the objective statistics a 1%er. Also not ugly or short and have healthy testosterone level. I just got turned off the hookup culture when I was 16 years old watching the disgusting things girls did at parties. Im now dating a nice christian girl thats wifey material. Could I have had a hundred bodies by now if I tried? Probably. I prefer being in the single digits. Never liked the idea of a rotation. If I dont like a woman enough to date her exclusively, I dont want to sleep with her.
What ever happened to getting married to the person you love and building financial wealth together instead of wishing you could meet a guy who makes 1million a year 🤔
I am a 53 year old sound engineer. I specifically do live sound. I am married to my high school sweetheart. I did my first tour as a sound guy, five days after I graduated high school in 1989. My wife (then just a girl I was dating)... stuck with me. I did a lot of work for free or very low pay in those early days (so I could learn a difficult skill). When I was not doing that, I did warehouse work through a temporary staffing service. She still stuck by me. I began to work for large sound companies, touring the nation, then touring the world. She still stuck by me. We eventually married and started a family. In the early days I worked up to three jobs at the same time, and did side hustles. My wife stayed home and was a housewife and mom to our kids. She took care of me as well. She made sure I was set up to go out and conquer the world. I have been at it for 35 years. My former boss retired, and left me a portion of his company, and the company name...and told me to keep it going. My wife still stands by me, and still makes sure our life is set up for me to continue conquering the world. Thanks to her financial abilities, we now own rural land...on which we built our first new home. Right now, I'm the only up (its 5am), and I'm sitting in my den, looking out a big picture window, that overlooks much of our land. I'm having a cup of coffee (my wife sets up the coffee maker the night before), and I'm watching a herd of deer come through. Which I do most every morning. My wife is usually not awake yet. But even if she is, she does not disturb me, because she respects this as my time. This is when I think about what needs to be done, how to get it done, and when it will be done...and I just quietly relax as well. My youngest daughter will be up shortly, and we will get outside and feed the animals. Bu the time we get back in, there will be some sort of fresh food set out....fruit, scrambled eggs, yogurt, juice, tea, etc... Then I will head out to do whatever I need to do today, work wise... We still homeschool our youngest, so my wife takes care of that (but I do history and some "how to" training on a variety of life skills). I have a pretty good life. Its not all perfect. My wife and I have been through rough patches. But we come out of those rough patches stronger than before. And we are probably better now, than at any other point in our life together. I paint this picture to say... If I was a young man in todays world... I do not think there is any way in hell that I would achieve anything close to what I have now, with a modern woman. I wouldn't have the first clue where to even look for a woman like my wife, in todays world. My wife and I have serious conversations about arranged marriage for our daughters. It started out as joking years ago, but its a serious conversation now.
Women: Where are all the good guys at? Good Guy's: We're over here watching you stay committed to someone you don't intend to love or we are watching you sleep with more than one guy at the same time. Either way us good guy's don't want the drama either situation will create if we acknowledge you.
lol those same women literally run away from the table if you just tell them straight up when you first meet them that you are only interested in a strictly monogamous long term relationship. And then they go back to complaining they cant find a good man (who must be willing to let them run around town) When I met my current gf I made it very clear I would not tolerate her going on any first dates with any other men. Its only me, or them. She is a smart girl, so she chose me. Although she was a bit hesitant before I showed her my cock.
A woman asked me to wait for her. I left after 30 minutes. She was coining in from out of town so a bit of Lee way was given. When she showed up and I was gone, she has never been late again
I always show up 10-15 minutes early. One time my girlfriend was 15 minutes late and I said I'd been waiting half an hour. Next week she showed up 15 minutes early too. You just have to condition that stuff and be consistent.
I'm a female who doesn't need a man .. I have a good job, pay my bills, and go on various holidays a year. I am a female who likes to have a partner sharing this life with and I don't expect that man to pay my bills, as theyre mine .. ...and yes, I am a good cook too 😂😂
@@carow6244 You said: *I'm a female who doesn't need a man* Yes, I get the drift but just to fix the technicalities - most of the things around you have been produced by MEN working all the dirty jobs so that others can live in comfort - whether it's cars, electronics ( granted a lot of women there ), houses, making babies so the next gen can continue living, you name it. So you DO need men - technically speaking.
@lukewalken1316 I don't drive, so no car to fix. And I move all my own furniture, I've moved beds, wardrobes, settees outside on my own, its not hard, it's not easy but it's not hard and I'm 5ft 😆 I do the decorating and fix things in my house because I can and would never expect anyone to do it for me. I'll pay an expert when there's something I can't do. And you're just sounding extremely misogynistic. There are female mechanics and probably a high chance of a female controller when phoning emergency services, and a female police officer who would attend. And theres also a high chance it could be a male controller, police officer 🤷♀️ As I said, I don't "need" a man or expect a man to pay my bills, etc, just because he's dating me, I would date a man because I like them not because he could put a shelf up for me 🤣🤣🤣
How is it that so many young women do not know how to cook? Whoever said "they do not come from a good family" is correct. I do not have daughters (thank god) and I taught all my sons how to cook.
And once again, men made it simpler for women to cook. You download a recipe ,throw the ingredients into your gay little thermomix and follow the orders. In all brutality... Women offer nothing. The one thing they claim to offer, intimacy and love, falls apart, once you get to understand the concept of pragma.
lol, it's not even that hard, I just watch my parents cook and lo and behold, I was able to cook by myself about the time I was a teenager, sure there are the occasional pointers but I learned much by just watching
@@kaikosolano8172 I allowed my sons to experiment with cooking when they were very young (single digit age). As they got older they had learned from mistakes and began to hone their cooking skills. I always supervised to teach them tips and tricks of using spices, various cookware, and most important, timing. Now they are grown men and are excellent cooks. My youngest is home from college for the holiday and is blessing us with his wonderful cooking skills.
While dating, every woman I dated/talked to expressed how they LOVE cooking and cleaning. Well, they never cooked one meal and their house was messy. Talking to a robot
Man or woman, cooking is one of the most basic survival skills any human should know. Its also a really fun rewarding hobby and it can save you a lot of money. In this economy, I can meal prep a weeks worth of dinners for myself for 10 bucks, and it tastes like it came out of a restaurant. Pumpkin soup with red lentils is a good recipe for this season. It looks great, tastes great, easy to make, has enough fiber and protein, and it doesnt cost anything. Add some red peppers, turmeric, paprika powder, some fruits like an apple and an orange, finely chopped onions, garlic, puree it, and there ya go you have enough soup to feed an orphanage.
God bless these podcasts. Wish this shit was around 20 years ago. As an older millennial our generation got absolutely fucked. But I’m so grateful I didn’t end up knocking up some 304 and now have to spend the rest of my life bound to a woman intoxicated by feminism. Truly feel blessed to be single with a chance to download all this content and protect myself from the negative consequences of HOEFLATION in the future.
Gen X got fucked way harder than millenials in dating. Im a millenial, and I watched my mother spend 20 years of her life trying to destroy my dad during and after the divorce. I got redpilled at age 6. I can even say I understand women now, although I wish I didnt. My dad wasnt so lucky. He had to find out the hard way.
I find as a woman (I'm 57, but not a dried up old bag), I only find men who want one thing or maybe they might want a relationship but they need to try you out on the 1st date to see if you're compatible. I quit dating because I'm more than a piece of meat. I've gotten tired of hearing comments on my body. I'm grateful I'm attractive but would prefer to hear something about my brain or kindness, something more substantial. I just give up and will die alone.
@@annmarygarcia1321 modern women like you have ruined your chance at love by not choosing the right man who loved you for who you are. I’m sure you’ve made many mistakes spurning good men and now you’re reaping what you’ve sown. You deserve to be alone for not pair-bonding with a man who loved you in the past:
@XHEGEBKCOVYJEKFUVU I am far from a modern woman. I believe in the old fashioned ways. And if you think emotional and physical abuse as well as alcoholism is what a good man is, then I will be alone. I never had a man love me for me. I had men try and change me to be who they wanted. If I spurned a good man I would be regretting it, but I never had one of those.
i dated a single mom of 2 girls we ended up living together for quite a few years i raised the girls as my own and paid for everything they needed only to be told after 12 yrs by her and the girls they dont regard me as family, i was gobsmacked and upset as i treated and thought of these girls as my own daughters and all they thought of me was their mums boyfriend. I found out years later it was their mum who got them to think this way and was telling them never call him dad hes nothing to you. Yet when we split up its all the girls miss you and you need to come back to me. I saw the girls frequently after we split up they ghosted me apart from Bdays and Christmas when it was wheres my gifts at.
Bro women are having 0 problems with using children against men! It is probably integrated in their DNA! This is why I hold the opinion that they are the most vile and soul sucking creatures on the planet hands down no contest. Keep in mind she was using the kids to lure you in while she was teaching her children that you are no one of importance. What kind of a psycho uses children like that... women! And I don't want to hear how 'not all women are like that!' ... the majority of you are! Evil and vile creatures with no concepts of morality or honor!
One of my mom's boyfriends that actually treated me like family, I treated him the same way. When they split I still spent a lot of time with him and told people he was my step dad. He passed away a few weeks ago, I still can't believe he's gone. I'd be heartbroken if I were in your place. Sorry that happened to you. 😢
40 years ago, when I was dating women that were significantly older than I was, I would sometimes come across a woman that fully expected any man she spread her legs for to start paying all her bills. They'd literally hand them to you. First time that happened I just handed them back, confused. She sort of lost her shit at that, screaming that society "expected" a gentleman to pay for his lady's upkeep. So, me, a broke-ass college student was supposed to pay all the bills of a single, employed woman in her early 40s? Hell, she was lucky I could afford movie tickets for a date.
Cooking is basically domestic chemistry. You need to mix the right ingredients / compounds, at the right time, in the right quantity, at this temperature, for this long, in that particular order.
well if ur uneducated that basic level chemistry is hard i guess... nah the thing is so many modern women... specially in america cant cook because.... eating out since child hood probably... even their parents brought in ready-made food probably all the time.. so cooking isnt a thing...
Well the vast majority of professional chefs have always been men. According to the U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics, as of 2020, still only 18% of chefs and head cooks are women. So it’s not that women are expected to be especially good at cooking. Men are better at creating and mastering sophisticated recipes to produce fine dining cuisine. The expectation is just that women in general would at least be able to cook at a basic level, as most men do not work as the aforesaid culinary experts, but are rather specialists in some other fields.
@@arsenelupiniii8040 I don't know a single married western family where the wife didn't expect the man to at least do most of his own laundry, help cook, and help with childcare. The most traditional marriages I observed in my friends' parents where the men in the family just didn't do the jobs that women did were from immigrant, non-anglo/euro/western families. The typical dad in the euro-anglo family structure is perfectly fine filling the dishwasher. I'm pretty sure once you become a father you gain an unbreakable urge to barbeque. It's instinct. I honestly don't think I've met a single family within my own anglo-american culture where the dad doesn't contribute plenty to meals. If you also notice, women don't mention that men are pretty much always the ones to do any kind of actual hard work in the house. You know, mowing the lawn, fixing shit, electrical, plumbing. Christ, I know women that won't even CALL the oil change guy, to them the PHONE CALL about a car is a "man's job". There are legitimate articles where feminists will scream at men for not "contributing to housework" where they pull up cherrypicked data, while just changing the definition of housework to not include the domestic tasks men traditionally do. Nobody cares that men do like 80-90% of the hard work in the upkeep of a house, both in labor and financially, or more accurately, women don't care because we're just labor robots and wallets to them.
Guys, as a traditional patriarchal old-fashioned woman of the East, let me tell you something: First: understand that YOU are the prize. That you don't have to learn "womanese" but that women have to learn how to deserve you. If they don't want to, KEEP GOING. If they think otherwise, KEEP GOING. It's far better to be alone, than to have your life destroyed by an unworthy woman. Second: There are only two types of women: good women (who are LOYAL, faithful and devoted to their family, home makers) and there are SLUTS. There is NO middle ground, nothing in-between. Third: DO NOT (and I repeat: DO NOT) tolerate women's promiscuity. DO NOT pay for their OF accounts, DO NOT support them financially IN ANY WAY whatsoever, except when she's your wife, daughter, mother or sister. Fourth: TEST THEM, by all means! A loyal, faithful, high-quality woman WILL NOT MIND. If she does, she's a SLUT. You'll know right away what you're dealing with. REAL women, GOOD women, HIGH-QUALITY women are rare, I know, but it's always better to be alone and keep your peace, than to be shattered to pieces by an unworthy woman. And one more thing: STAY STRONG. Think with your upper heads. Sure, having fun is great, BUT IT CAN COST A LOT, if you're not smart.
"There are only two types of women: good women (who are LOYAL, faithful and devoted to their family, home makers) and there are SLUTS. There is NO middle ground, nothing in-between." So, a woman could be a virgin, maybe she wants to wait for marriage or hasn't found the right guy, OR, maybe she's on the asexual / aromantic side of the spectrum and not interested in dating, she has a career and is doing well financially, but due to the fact that she's not a homemaker, she's a "slut". After all, you did say there are only 2 types of women. You're even more misogynistic than many of the men here.
Im curious. I started dating a girl from the Philippines 2 months ago. She came to my country to work as an au pair, so I know she can cook and she's good with children. She speaks well of her father and her parents are still together because there is no divorce in the Philippines. And we really like each other. Ive been honest and told her Im only dating to find a woman to marry and not to have casual bedroom fun. She didnt put out until the fourth date. So far only good signs and its going very well. My question for you is, if i wanted to test her, what would I do, and what am I looking for? I havent asked about her body count because she genuinely seems to be selective. I mean, shes definitely not a virgin but I dont get a slutty vibe. Should I ask about that? To be honest when Im dating a girl I dont want to hear or know anything about her exes. It seems to me she has had a few boyfriends but doesnt do one night stands. She complained that guys in this country expect her to give it up on the first date and constantly compliments me for being such a gentleman. Would you advise me to ask about her dating history, one night stands, previous boyfriends? And how would I go about that? I genuinely think she could be marriage material and I do not want to hurt her feelings by asking the wrong questions and breaking our trust. Things are really good right now and I could be happy not knowing. There is no divorce in the Philippines and I do intend to move there if we get married. She said to me last week that I would be a good husband for her. I'd really like to know what you think about this, Im in doubt.
I don't think you realize most of us are done playing stupid games to win stupid prizes. Most woman are now legends in their own minds and have absolutely no idea what they want which changes every day
Look lady, we don't have low self esteem, we're just a little weary from sifting through a million miles of dog shit, here in the western world in order to find a wife/helpmate!!! We're honed in, not hopeless!!! We don't need encouragement, we don't need a peptalk!!! We need to put these passports to use!!! I have four more months of school left and as soon as I'm finished, I'm gone!!!😏👍🏿
"why do they want it from a 34 year old and not from a 21 year old!?" 1. You probably give it away easy 2. Or, more realistically, you're one of the 304 options they got on speed dial. Got em saying "hey alexa, call lonelywoman34" 😂 bruh
most guys would prefer the 21 year old but the 21 year old has way more options so with the 34 year old you probably have a better shot. she has less options and you know she a 304 because shes 34, childless and unmarried.
@@TheSuperappelflapthat's partly, but a lot of these old women are what you can call gap fillers. Booty call. If he's not with another woman, he'll be with her but I guarantee you she's not his first option if he's good enough to get somebody younger. She's just more available because she doesn't have a life anymore. Her whole worth, as she declared it, is based on how many men will screw her. And that's likely the only time she is active.
my first wife was a single mom I loved her and her son and even wanted to adopt him like my dad did for me, she said no and when I asked about having a child of our own she said no. Turns out she was cheating on me the whole time with an E6 in my unit and when we divorced she demaned I pay alimony and childs support I was a paycheck for her. forget dating single moms they want the financial security and nothing more. Btw she ended up having 2 extra kids with that E6 who divorced her when he got kicked out of the army too for her cheating
hello guys I’m a woman at 46 years old and I am ashamed for the behavior of women in our-days 😱 I have a 21 years old son and watching him growing up was completely changing my opinion about you guys 🫶🏽 and anyways since I was young my, my best friends were boys 🫶🏽 😎…. I watch all these videos because of feeling so sorry for the Times in which my son should supposed to find a girl 😣😵💫💔 … thank u for doing these gr8 videos!
Yeah so what the guy above me said, and make sure he works on his career and gets some exercise. If he's in good shape and makes decent money its going to be good for him to travel to some other continents.
A few years ago while at the store I held the door open for a woman just like I would for anyone else. She walked in then turned and said I have boyfriend. Without thinking I immediately replied that must have taken a lot of peanut butter.
I use the "I have a dog" justification EVERY TIME! As my name states, I have been there done that. No more. I have a dog that loves me and never once has run up credit cards.
I've dated single mothers. All of them all pawned their child/ren off to their dad, mother or grandparent and regularly got ran-through on the weekends. I know because I was probably one of the guys who ran through. I fully intend to see where it goes with everyone I date, but they're too easy and that's not just for you, it's for the others too.
If she wants to walk out the door after I expressed my disdain for her going clubbing and acting single, I'd go to the home depot and change locks while she's out. She wants to act single, she can be single for all I care. I wouldn't even tell her to get out, I'd just wait for her to leave.
@@ebutuoyssa same here, brother. I think if it got to this point, though, I'd have the locks on standby in a drawer of spares (I like to keep spare hardware in case things start to break. This is a normal thing for me anyway)
Yeah 13:46 this is the way it used to be: men provided and held it down, women cared for the home and kids. The mom still participated in the major decisions and the dad still helped raise the kids. This is the balanced way it should be. But women hated that lifestyle and those clearly defined gender roles and they wanted to become men. And now that they are men, they can't handle it and they wish they were women again. F around and find out, am I right?
Dont forget in this story, most women in the middle class, or the lower class, had to work as well to supplement income. They worked cleaning houses, taking care of children, doing laundry back when people had to do that by hand, cooking, etc. Women that had a husband rich enough that they didnt have to work, did volunteer work, community service. Church. Feeding and clothing the poor and homeless. teaching kids in sunday school and organizing other activities. Organizing the yearly town fair or christmas celebrations. My grandmother cleaned houses for a bit of pocket cash and volunteered in church. She didn't need to work a regular job as my granddad was a schoolteacher, which back then was a respectable profession that paid a living wage you could raise a family on. But she still worked. She wanted to. Who wants to sit at home all day playing housewife? They were married over 50 years, and sadly they've both now passed away. And my grandmother was a feminist. A reasonable one, who protested for the right for women to work after marriage and stuff like that. If she could see what young women are getting up to now, she'd probably give them a smack around the ears or two. She also had at least equal say as my granddad in what happened around the house. Probably she made more decisions. But it was his money. He was a very patient man and almost never got angry. But if he did get angry, she stopped very quickly. My mother, she divorced my father at 35 and now she's almost 60 and complaining she can't wait for her retirment. Yeah mom, you did that to yourself. Grandparents never approved of the divorce, they barely spoke to her for 10 years.
I knew a very beautiful lady since she was 21. She was a bathing suit model and had a great body! She got hooked on drugs and 30 years later, she's still single, addicted and has done some very disturbing things for money to buy drugs! It breaks my heart to know her.😢🙏🏼 I hope she gets help before she dies of an overdose or killed for turning tricks!🙏🏼💔
Married 20 yrs worked 60 to 70 hrs a week 3 kids big house even moved my mother in law in. 2017 I get brain cancer almost took me out. But I pulled through I was beat up and couldn't work needed help with most things I could do myself. It was hard I understand but In 2018 she decided to leave and not answer my calls for a yr. So I gat a two bed appt and me and my son moved in together. So in 2019 I'm like ok your not coming back so I got a divorce. Only then do I get a call " how dare you do this without talking to me " wtf? Any way still single and still alive Drs gave me six months to live but I'm still here for my children may not be a husband anymore but I'll die a dad
I was so love to be on one of these shows because I’m brutally honest to anyone. I’m talking to and my first words would be if you want respect you’re gonna show me respect
People say so much bs like respect has to be earned, or you should respect anyone. Respect is only given when you force people to respect you. People may pretend to be nice at first but good chance theyll start testing the limits like a 6 year old kid and then you have to shut that down hard. Personally, I can take that from men but if a woman starts playing games or sh!t testing I walk immediately. Just the fact they have a desire to test my limits means they dont respect me. If they respect me they would be afraid. But of course thats considered "toxic masculinity" these days.
Submission DOES involve giving up autonomy. But that is the point. You and your man are becoming a partnership, working together for a common goal. By definition, you are not autonomous at that point. Modern American women refuse to give up any autonomy. Hence, they are fundamentally unfit for serious, committed relationships.
The issue for modern women is looking at relationships as transactional. Obviously every relationship is transactional to an extent, but it is also heavily reliant on storge. If the woman is unwilling to compromise her useless freedom for her husband's happiness and her eventual equal bliss, she is acting hedonistically and is undeserving of being married to.
@@memememe609 for me it mostly depends on whether the transactional part is the primary motivation or a secondary one. i make decent money and im sure that does matter to my girlfriend, but its not the main reason we are together. she has a nice body but what matters more to me than that is that she treats me well. this type of relationship is very difficult to find in the postapocalyptic hellscape of modern dating. took me more than a decade to meet one girl like that.
Our pathetic and morally bankrupt society values WEALTH and LOOKS far far more than it should. Self control (eliminates obesity), loyalty, love (not lust), giving, supportive, faithful, and modest is FAR more important. And those characteristics are for BOTH men and women. For women, feminine and willing to be led by a man is a must. For men, masculine and willing to lead is a must. This WAR of the sexes is leading to western civilization’s collapse.
To be honest love is also a very hard thing to give. I mean true love, not lust or just attraction. True love takes a lot of understanding of how human relationships work.
If they are going to go on their knees and hands for any men including their boss to keep their job then a real dog is more faithfull than them just by being dogs....
A mother who became single, because her only ever mate or husband she ever had sex with since virginity, had somehow died due to illness or tragic accident is the only single mother I would consider dating and maybe marrying if that worked out mutually between her and I and her children. In short; a faithful widow who through no fault of her own sadly lost he original faithful man by illness, or deadly accident. Any single mother outside that is a red flag.🚩
Between 50:00, and 53:24, she said that the Men that have had relationships with single mothers don't want to be with single mothers, she's absolutely right. I don't know any single Men who want to be with any. When you're involved with a single mother, she's instantly demanding the Man pay for everything that kid needs or wants. A single Man doesn't want to raise another man's kids, absolutely not... She's crazy...
When talking about the wage gap we often forget that men are working harder to pay for their wives during pregnancy and child raising. So not only is he having to work harder but its to support the ungreatfull other.
Theres much more to it. Men generally work more hours. Lets say I work 40 hours a week for ten years. With my government mandated vacation days, that comes out to about 47 weeks fulltime a year, plus a few one day holidays and christmas. So lets say 46 weeks in total, times 40 hours a week, times 10 years. I have worked 18,400 hours. Women in my country usually work 24-32 hours and men 32-40. So lets take the upper limit for women as well and say she works 32 hours. That woman in the same 10 years works 14,720 hours. I have 25% more work experience at the same age. So I get paid more, because I am more productive. Women also are less likely to work overtime or want a high level function that requires unpaid overtime. Even with the same amount of work experience, in the same function, men are more productive than women. The wage gap doesnt just not exist, in favor of men, we have a wage gap in favor of women.
Ok here goes and women take notice, 3 of my friends and I started a software business right out of not long after us starting I got offered job at a reputable company and left them to carry on and since my contribution to the work would have been minimal, I gave my shares back to them. 13 years later and the company is verry successful and 1 of the guys is a billionaire and the other two are multi-millionaires. The 2 that were multi-millionaires got married and divorced and that is what dropped them down to their current status and we are still all friends. Now I am going to highlight something that truly peeves my wife. All three these guys and we are all in our mid-forties will pick up a girl sleep with them and leave them behind. None of them will ever marry again and all these women will ever be is a one-nite stand or a share toy.
Not in the eyes of the women they slept with... in the eyes of the one night stands 'he slept with me = he is ready to marry me!' and don't you try and convince them otherwise! They simply 'know their worth!' and their so called 'worth' is now a 666 millionaire that dumped them!
Proverbs 25:24 Amplified Bible (AMP) It is better to live in a corner of the housetop [on the flat roof, exposed to the weather] Than in a house shared with a quarrelsome (contentious) woman
then lock up your fridge and pantry dude them fatties are now BREAKING INTO HOMES and stealing food because they are so fuckin fat they like steal the food now dude
When I was 35, asking a woman my age who was interested in me to have their own transportation, their own source of income and not still be living with your parents was asking too much. And out of the few women like this that "liked me" a couple of them wanted to move in with me after a week of knowing me. Not dating me. Knowing me. Yeah, needless to say, I have no luck with women because as far as they're concerned, I don't exist.
A man is expected to HAVE a million dollars in his bank account at the beginning? And what do we get? We get "Duuuuurrr... Maybe I'll take a cooking class one day... Duuuuurr.." If that dumb narcissist expects a million dollars at the get go, she should have taken TEN cooking classes ALREADY and THEN some. Yeah, well maybe we'll get a million dollars "one day."
Her: if he’s a millionaire, I will offer my unconditional loyalty….. Billionaire: hi sexy lady…… Her: later broke loser. Hi there, I’m very loyal and I’m single and available!!!!!
the black chick at 15:00 her number is stupid, "If a man who was raised by a single mother refuses to date a single mothers, he's part of the problem"..What problem?? He's just sane.
Wife and I are baby boomers, married for 42 years, three adult children and five grandchildren, one that is 22. We are still madly in love with each other. My wife has never expected riches, especially since I was a paratrooper in the Army for 26 years. A lot of tough times but we stuck it out, and are still in love. I suspect this is a younger generation problem in a very narcissistic world.
"He called me a dumb bitch, that's oppression." Damn, if that's oppression, I must have lived under a totalitarian state since I have been using the internet, since I have been called every name in the book then some.
Women, listen up: You need to have even HIGHER standards! You are all goddesses and only deserve the VERY BEST. And NEVER do what a man wants you to, as they are all trying to oppress you. Your are strong and independent QUEENS; you got this! Signed: cats.
I seen someone comment elsewhere which I thought was brilliant,,,,,they said (cannot remember their name to quote sorry) that a women is only as loyal as their lack of better options, so more lack of options then the more loyalty.
I've cut off ties with over 30 women I've met on dating websites and Facebook or as I call it Falsebook because not one of those people were honest about intentions or who or what they were.
The only women a man should be paying bills for is his legal wife. Girls that are not married to a guy should pay their own bills since your not his responsibility.
If you are making a lot of money and you are dating a girl, you both want to get married, shes wifey material, doesnt have a career or make much money, its okay. As long as its bills for important things and she cant pay herself. I have had girls on dates complain to me they didnt have money for basic things like buying panties. So I offer to buy panties for them, they say no, i dont want to be dependent on a man. Now thats much worse than letting me buy some panties for 5 bucks.
Nasty. I never pay on initial dates, having seen what happens. They show up, spend your money, then get a bailout call and ghost. You should pay your own way until it’s established that it’s a match. My last date, that girl was on her phone the entire time. I excused myself and didn’t come back. I watched for a few minutes (20 that is). She had no clue I was gone. Then struck up convo with another dude. No loss, no drama or stress. Thanks I can deal without.
I’m surprised that these guys aren’t starting at the beginning. 1. What was required in the past to raise a family? A partnership. 2. What was the purpose of marriage? 3. Why is it critical that men and women talk to each other about their goals, why they need a partner and what they offer to their future partner? What is it that they want to build with their future partner? 4. What are the benefits of having a true partner for life? 5. What happens if they fail to understand the purpose of marriage?
I’d rather die than date a single mom and here’s why My dad for 11 years dated a woman with a son. My dad was there for the boys birth. He became a brother to me and a son to my father. He raised TJ like he was my dad’s own flesh and blood. Fast forward 10 years and my dad’s gf wanted to leave state but my dad didn’t. They got into a fight and his gf took her son and left state. My dad didn’t only lose his gf. He also lost the boy he helped raise for 10 years. I lost my little brother. The worst part was my dad and I managed to get ahold of TJ and the 3 of us played Minecraft while talking on discord. Then my dad’s ex heard my dad laughed at TJ mercilessly committing a genocide on my sheep farm and next thing we hear is TJ’s mom yelling at him. She said “I TOLD YOU NOT TO TALK TO THEM” we heard him start to cry then he left call and the game. A couple years passed and my dad never got over losing his adopted son. One day he got word from someone that was still in contact with his ex. Due to her weight problem she passed away. They told my dad “Tammy was found dead in her bed… TJ said he thought she was sleeping” which mean he must of been the one to find her. Can you imagine being a 17 year old boy finding your mom dead? I can’t imagine what he went through and what he’s currently going through. It hurts my dad knowing TJ was going through hell and he couldn’t even contact his adopted son
Another aspect often not talked about regarding promiscuous women: microchimerism. Men's DNA is absorbed and stays in a woman after she ingests semen (sex, oral, etc). It will not only effect her (common occurrence to mothers after having a son), it can also be passed onto a child. 80 previous bodies means that any child will be a mixture of 81 men. Not truly "your" child.
And thats another reason why you should always use a condom when youre doing stuff with someone you dont want kids with, both men and women. You know its funny people always tell me I look so much like my dad and my parents got together when they were both 17 and my mom was a virgin. Some kids I went to school with probably dont even know who their real dad is, let alone the ones who like you said have genetic material from a bunch of dudes.
@@gbonkers666no there’s SOME research that suggests this may occur to some degree - in humans, women’s brains can be affected by childbirth and have male dna present… in flies it was seen years ago that offspring may be affected by precious male mating even though the subsequent male actually fertilized the eggs. Other factors were being absorbed… but still there isn’t enough data to be sure of any of it or say to what degree its effect may be.
I'M 55 YO. MY TOTAL BODYCOUNT IS 28. IF A YOUNG PERSON HAS THAT MANY OR MORE NEED TO WARN ANY NEW PARTNER ABOUT SEXUALLY TRANSMITTED DISEASES. Putting the cart in front of the horse is a major problem. WHY WOULD YOU EVER FIND A BROKE DUDE,GIVE HIM A BABY ,LEAVE HIM WITH THE BABY ZND HALF YOUR INCOME.
I'll admit I'm a 324 pound guy with a decent paying job with my own place woman like this wouldn't even look my direction which in my own mind I'm thankful for cuz woman like this I wouldn't even entertain the idea going out with so yeah I may be a low tier average joe but at least I respect myself enough to not waste one second of my time on trash woman like this
so you have 2 options. 1 is lose the weight and get jacked, you have your own place so then they will look. option 2 is, remember to keep the door locked and bolted when winter comes. and oh boy is it coming.
I have a daughter, very beautiful, who married at 24. Her husband makes over 200K and she adds around 70K. No kids, they live a really good life. She stands by him no matter what and he is fully aware that she is going nowhere, regardless of fate or finances. She gives him peace of mind and that only makes him try harder.
as long as she never earns more than he does, she can pull the divorce wreck ripcord down the road (kids or not) and get half that man's assets and guaranteed alimony. doesn't matter if she signed a prenup, she can declare she signed it under duress and the feminist judge will throw out the prenup. she just has to stay with him long enough based on the state laws for the state / province she lives in. if the usa state, if most other places province.
The sad thing is, even if neither man or woman "make the money", a relationship can STILL work, if both parties can be a team! Divy up work, chores & meals at home, etc., Express love and gratitude toward each other. And too many women can't/won't see it.
No man should be paying any women's bills. Men SHOULD be paying their "safe, secure loyal to him" FAMILY bills. Btw a good family background keeps their female children even more secured(protected in the home), This whilst instilling in here good moral and family values till she is is ready to move on and do the same. This is NOT was is being done now a days. What women do wrong, their female children reciprocate it when old enough to do so. Few years back with my X, her daughter had a year long relationship with her first boyfriend(seemingly happy in love) she started hanging around another guy of whom he had even told her to stop hanging around with him. Yeah she left him for the other guy. Just bs nonsense at 17 yrs of age already.
Well if its HER daughter and not YOUR daughter you have little recourse, but personally if that other guy came round my house I would shut the door in his face.
Mental and emotionally displaced individuals will never find happiness. For US, Love, loyalty, forgiveness, communication and endurance. Today still married to the same woman for 45 years. It was a great challenge at times but neither one of us gave up. Maintaining your Soundness Of Mind when faced with adversity is one of the keys.
I'd love a woman that could take care of me financially. Let her work 12 hour shifts, I'll take care of the house sweetheart. What you want for dinner? Here I cleaned up for you! Go hang out with your friends and hit the club, I'll be here. We don't need kids I got us a dog! You found a good man and want to break up? How about instead I work as your butler and just keep doing what I've been doing? That way you can both work and come home to a clean house with fresh cooked meals. I don't want a relationship, I want a patron to serve. You take care of the bills, I'll take care of you and your home.
1:55 I was that broke homeless bum from 17-24. Obviously nobody wants a struggling guy, I dont expect ANYONE to be interested. I worked on my home business and now I'm 33 & doing better. Not getting rich by any means, but I can support myself like a normal person. But that's not nearly enough for any women these days. I have 12 pack abs and a 8 inch'r & I dont think I deserve anyone because I can barely pay my bills. I dont want the headaches.
fat and ugly are synonyms :D if ur ugly in the outside.. ur ugly in the inside ugly as in = depressed,dark etc... thats how people end up superfat... self-pity, depression etc.. if u got fat, its okay... do something about it... better late than never.. to nice how sloth/glutton you have become... american population aint entirely at fault on their own either, in some cases... u just get fat because of the food pyramid in ur country already, what they promote ur GOvernment promotes unhealthy sugar bombs for breakfast as healthy food... :D and people are surprised so many people are fat... ; ]
Even fat ugly women can get love and loyalty from a man. Sure, he will most likely also be fat and ugly. And he wont be a millionaire. But if you can cook and love dick, any woman can find love.
1:56 "The man must do the work and hopefully he will land the woman of his dreams" No. 1) Men, there is no woman of your dreams. That's why they are "dreams." 2) Hypergamy = "She is not yours. It's just your turn." There is no "landing" a woman. Short-term fun? Sure... just be very careful, as we know it's playing with fire. Therefore, men, just do the work. A life well lived is its own reward. The idea that a man can "earn" love from a woman or that she is the prize is a dangerous fallacy and the cause of so much simping. This channel is truly excellent, 99% of the time, so I wanted to share my comment to keep anyone from getting confused.
In Denmark, where i live, it's normal that both men and women work, meeting a stay-at-home-mom is extremely rare and it's in some aspect looked down upon in Denmark, if you wanna buy a house in Denmark, you need the income from 2 people. but i imagine that both help with the kids and the cooking. But Denmark is also an egalitarian country like the rest of scandinavia.
Denmark, like the rest of the Nordic countries has a tremendous social safety net that your taxes are paying for. Hence the necessity for both spouses to work.
So, Im from a small flat country close to yours. Here its the same. But those are all reasons to get out of Denmark or western Europe in general. Your country is not egalitarian. Its puts massive net taxes on men, and most women are net receivers of taxes through subsidies. Child care subsidies, rent subsidies, healthcare subsidies, etc. I pay close to 20 thousand euro a year in income taxes alone and get 0 subsidies. And the best part is most of the women in our countries hate men and dont even want to live with one in the same house. I am paying upkeep for a single mother with 2 children but she doesnt want to date me. Time to leave for a nice tropical island with a woman who appreciates us. I can recommend the Philippines. Screw paying taxes for women who dont want me. I will go where I am wanted.
😂😂😂 @52:00 I totally agree it’s everyone fault why we don’t date single mothers but if you made better choices on the men you let bust in you I promise that will change
Thought for the day, what is a girls best friend?………diamonds. What is a guys best friend?………his dog. 🤔🤔🤔. Ponder that a moment. Girls value material things, guys value love respect and honor. This is why girls do not belong as wives.
My wife who turned round one day saying she wants to split as she isn’t happy got really upset when I moved out and said I’m only paying for half of the mortgage!! The look and anger on her face was priceless !! She is riddled in debt has a gambling problem and was acting like she was single !! Divorced filed not my problem anymore
Hopefully she wasn't granted any of your assets in the divorce.
@@Thanatos9029 half which is not what she deserves as I had my own house before she came along
@@craigy691 ouch. I'm sorry friend. Hopefully your life wasn't too affected by it
As a single homeowner, I think a lot about the damage a relationship can do. Women usually want to consolidate everything to their advantage. They can also use false accusations to steal our property without any repercussions. Truth is, I can't think of a scenario where a relationship can be beneficial.
hmmm you must have married my ex
Women are allergic to two things; accountability, and logic.
And work
The truth. Being a good wife. Cooking cleaning they just want to play on FB. And do what they want. Nothing else.
Modern women yes. There are still a few sane women out there, sadly not enough to go around tho.
*No accountability or logic? Sounds like a Democrat!*
You're right about that one brother. Conservatives always come into power to clean up the MESS liberals make. It's incredibly frustrating.
A woman half jokingly said to me "I need to figure out which of my bills I will assign to you"..... I said now WHY on EARTH would I be paying any of your bills at F*ckin at all.... Needless to say it was the 1st and last date. Good riddance......... Adios.
She could have at least playe dit smart and called you, crying, until you offer to pay. Thats what my girlfriend does. I am conditioning her to stop doing that by making her pay for our dates and suck dick until she works off her debt. So I get my money back and a nice bj. She really likes doing it though so Im not worried about what will happen when were even.
That is WILD.
@fionakiely3505 ..Oh they're out here looking for a simp to pay their way. ....
The funny thing is she thought she was 'cute' while she was 'joking' about it. These 304s are all the same... they think they are a god's gift on earth when they are dime a dozen considering that you can't buy anything these days with a dime!
And what kills me is they all think "they're special".....Worthy somehow of a SIMP paying (their bills) ...In exchange for what..? A used up Pu$$y with 475K miles on it...@@frikabg
I was married once, have 3 adult children. I was screwed financially. Glad I never remarried. Only a small percentage of women understand men. Almost 63 and happy not to have put up with BS for years.
I'm 48 and have been single for the last 7 years. I'm free to do whatever I want. I can sleep with the whole bed to myself. I can eat what I want when I want. My ex went through 6 men in 8 months because none of them could tolerate her self-righteous attitude. She didn't cook or clean and spent all her time on Facebook. Something tells me she got the shit end for a change!
Seems that like yourself, she also prefers to do whatever, whenever. Amazingly, some men would not have a problem with that as they are also addicted to AI.
That's how women behave nowadays. Crazy attitude, playing boss girls, selfish, disullusioned, superficial and bitchy, toxic behaviour. Clearly, no men need that kind of 304's.
Come on youv'e got it. You can pay your own bills. You are strong and independent.
They can but they don't want! They want a man to use as a ATM machine so he can pay for everything and her money is ... her money.
Get a passport and learn how a man should be treated from a woman who was raised to be wives.
Most Western women are not wives and most of all is for sale for a man with most money. Only committed to a man's wallet.
They got this. And I am so proud of them.
Most women pay their own bills. However, men are expected to pay at least 1/2 of the mortgage and 1/2 for child care if there is a marriage. Many men work at home while their wives work at the office and vice versa to parent the kids at home. This works well if their jobs are portable.
Take away child support and I guarantee women will be far more selective with their partners. There's far too many women having kids just for the benefits. When I was in my early 20s I started talking to female from highschool and the first thing she ask me our first phone call conversation was if I wanted to have kids. I told her not anytime soon and after that she stood me up and stop talking to me. I'm so glad I felt that way at the time because I could've gotten trapped in divorce.
Way to many simps out there and that what woman want😂 to pay there bills
I would say child support shouldn't go away because the needs of the child should come first. I am however completely in favor of putting a hard limit on child support based on the average cost of living of the primary residence of the child. That way if it only costs $1,000 a month to raise the child the judge cannot award that woman with $20,000 a month just because the husband is a millionaire.
@@Ultimusvivi Agree, that would greatly diminish women trying to trap wealthy men into child support.
She did you a favor
I had a 42 year old women with 3 kids from 2 different dads tell me she wanted 1500 a month to support her. I told her GTFO of my home and never gave her a dime. She couldn’t believe it 😂
WOW! yeah this has become pretty normal because their are a lot of weak men out there that allow themselves to be run over and controlled. all these women didn't just wake up and find themselves this dilutional one day. there was a cause and effect here, not just the weak men either but women have turned themselves into whores that no one wants and while they are getting lied to, used uo and devalued, sometimes just at the local beer joint. they expect more now from men? they are worthless now. I haven't bumped into one I like well enough to give her half my shit lol. I've dated girls that were in penthouse magazine, miss Kansas and every good looking stripper that wasn't a horrible slut that I know of. I talk to them just like I would to a man. We have a social break down here I haven't been able to nail it but its not totally the women... sorry. yes it is. there are a lot of sorry men out there but the women are the ones who have changed the game. the most decent woman I've been out with lately was a russian dentist 30 years old and a full blown doctor. dating several guys at a time and making herself , I don't know how to say it but she wasn't marriage material, probably as good as it gets though. I'm out after that one, haven't dated since
If she wants support, let her buy a bra.
She was living with you? WTF?
The modern woman's way of thinking these days ... 'I exist and have a vagina there for a man should pay all my bills!' low IQ trash that belongs to the streets with her cats!
Well done mate, you made my day
I have a rule, I never pay other peoples bills..Its serves me quite well..I'm just shy of an 800 credit rating, I have a nice stash of cash..I always pay my bills on time..I have 2 paid for vehicles, and a nice house..Needless to say, I'm not married, I don't date and I never loan money to anyone..And I think it goes without saying, I don't trust women, period.
Sounds like we got that recipe for success from the same cookbook.
I’m on track to getting like ya💪🏾💯
👊 stay the course brother!
Hear hear 👍🏾
Date women outside the western countries as they stay hold the value of being good mothers.
I love how easy it was to create the perfect AI partner for men, but it's impossible for women.
Haha! Right? Like a computer trying to divide a number by zero.
@@chopperdeath right.
Holy shit. This comment might break the internet. 😂
@@DigitalDNA thanks
@ginnungagapabyss5639 you're welcome bro. Also, nice cock bro. 👊
Men definitely approach women
They just don't approach Western/American women
And why would they?
The problem is seeping in Asia as well
if they have a phone with ig, kwick kwock, tinder etc, the mentality is inevitable no matter the place
Girls are where cooties come from. Bart Simpson.
American media influence, Hollywood agenda and major American corporations have spread “American values” world wide now you’ll find “modern” women with the same toxic mentality in some of the most remote corners of the world.
All I’m saying is be really careful generalizing when picking women outside western societies, because the loyal, traditional beautiful high value women you want, probably wants a guy from her same culture and values, if you happen to find one that wants to date foreigners then be careful because she might be taking her chances to scape to a better life out of poverty.
@@theoteddy9665 my asian gf has tiktok, and we met on tinder. she is not a feminist. she didnt put out on the first date. or the third. we go to church together. we cook together. she loves sucking my dick. i couldnt be happier. i snatched her up when she'd only been in my country for 3 weeks. you gotta be fast, put in some effort, and dont drop the ball. follow through.
or just go over to east asia where theres millions of girls that like tall rich western men, know how to cook, take care of kids, and say "yes sir" when you tell them to go do the dishes.
She wasn't wrong in saying single mothers will raise their daughter to be single mothers, but no man should feel obligated to go save single mothers.
Pretty sure Captain Saveahoe is retired.
Critical Thinking skills...that's rich coming a single mom
Some single Moms are married to Uncle Sam.
I'm 57 and would if I could afford it become a passport Bros if I was in my 20s. Even I dated single mothers in my 20s but today's men in their 20s are stuck having to date single mothers, raised by single mothers who were raised by single mothers. Now that's 3 levels of crazy !
You could have avoided being a single mother if you wanted to but you chose not to because having a child is 100% on the woman! Your body your choice, remember! A woman can make a man a father even if he doesn't want to be one but a man can't make a woman a mother if she doesn't want to be one so stop trying to act like this is someone else's fault or problem because you chose it! By the way factually speaking men are better parents than women and if you doubt me just look up the stats and you'll see that I'm 100% factually correct!@user-ce4bs3co8r
The men they want, don’t want them. The men they want can have any woman and keeps them in rotation. Why the hell would a man like THAT settle? Much less settle for them! 😂
Well I could have gone that route but Ive always liked the idea of monogamy, marriage, children, happy family, so I declined sleeping with the girls that offered themselves to me on parties and vacations. And I am if you look at the objective statistics a 1%er. Also not ugly or short and have healthy testosterone level. I just got turned off the hookup culture when I was 16 years old watching the disgusting things girls did at parties.
Im now dating a nice christian girl thats wifey material. Could I have had a hundred bodies by now if I tried? Probably. I prefer being in the single digits. Never liked the idea of a rotation. If I dont like a woman enough to date her exclusively, I dont want to sleep with her.
That why I no longer get get upset when a woman rejects me. Karma's a bitch
What ever happened to getting married to the person you love and building financial wealth together instead of wishing you could meet a guy who makes 1million a year 🤔
what is this "love" that you speak of? you think these women feel love for men? they only love themselves.
Unrealistic expectations = premeditated resentments. This is older than the moon.
The internet. These women are DM millionaires.
They've been hoodwinked bamboozled and led astray
I am a 53 year old sound engineer. I specifically do live sound. I am married to my high school sweetheart. I did my first tour as a sound guy, five days after I graduated high school in 1989.
My wife (then just a girl I was dating)... stuck with me. I did a lot of work for free or very low pay in those early days (so I could learn a difficult skill). When I was not doing that, I did warehouse work through a temporary staffing service. She still stuck by me.
I began to work for large sound companies, touring the nation, then touring the world. She still stuck by me.
We eventually married and started a family. In the early days I worked up to three jobs at the same time, and did side hustles. My wife stayed home and was a housewife and mom to our kids. She took care of me as well. She made sure I was set up to go out and conquer the world. I have been at it for 35 years.
My former boss retired, and left me a portion of his company, and the company name...and told me to keep it going. My wife still stands by me, and still makes sure our life is set up for me to continue conquering the world.
Thanks to her financial abilities, we now own rural land...on which we built our first new home.
Right now, I'm the only up (its 5am), and I'm sitting in my den, looking out a big picture window, that overlooks much of our land. I'm having a cup of coffee (my wife sets up the coffee maker the night before), and I'm watching a herd of deer come through. Which I do most every morning. My wife is usually not awake yet. But even if she is, she does not disturb me, because she respects this as my time. This is when I think about what needs to be done, how to get it done, and when it will be done...and I just quietly relax as well.
My youngest daughter will be up shortly, and we will get outside and feed the animals. Bu the time we get back in, there will be some sort of fresh food set out....fruit, scrambled eggs, yogurt, juice, tea, etc...
Then I will head out to do whatever I need to do today, work wise... We still homeschool our youngest, so my wife takes care of that (but I do history and some "how to" training on a variety of life skills).
I have a pretty good life. Its not all perfect. My wife and I have been through rough patches. But we come out of those rough patches stronger than before. And we are probably better now, than at any other point in our life together.
I paint this picture to say... If I was a young man in todays world... I do not think there is any way in hell that I would achieve anything close to what I have now, with a modern woman. I wouldn't have the first clue where to even look for a woman like my wife, in todays world.
My wife and I have serious conversations about arranged marriage for our daughters. It started out as joking years ago, but its a serious conversation now.
Women: Where are all the good guys at?
Good Guy's: We're over here watching you stay committed to someone you don't intend to love or we are watching you sleep with more than one guy at the same time. Either way us good guy's don't want the drama either situation will create if we acknowledge you.
lol those same women literally run away from the table if you just tell them straight up when you first meet them that you are only interested in a strictly monogamous long term relationship.
And then they go back to complaining they cant find a good man (who must be willing to let them run around town)
When I met my current gf I made it very clear I would not tolerate her going on any first dates with any other men. Its only me, or them. She is a smart girl, so she chose me. Although she was a bit hesitant before I showed her my cock.
A woman asked me to wait for her. I left after 30 minutes. She was coining in from out of town so a bit of Lee way was given. When she showed up and I was gone, she has never been late again
I always show up 10-15 minutes early. One time my girlfriend was 15 minutes late and I said I'd been waiting half an hour. Next week she showed up 15 minutes early too. You just have to condition that stuff and be consistent.
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Actions speak louder than words.
When certain women show you who they truly are, don't dicker over the price, just run.
For a woman to think she doesn't need men, it is like a child saying doesn't need mother
I'm a female who doesn't need a man .. I have a good job, pay my bills, and go on various holidays a year.
I am a female who likes to have a partner sharing this life with and I don't expect that man to pay my bills, as theyre mine .. ...and yes, I am a good cook too 😂😂
@@carow6244 You said: *I'm a female who doesn't need a man*
Yes, I get the drift but just to fix the technicalities - most of the things around you have been produced by MEN working all the dirty jobs so that others can live in comfort - whether it's cars, electronics ( granted a lot of women there ), houses, making babies so the next gen can continue living, you name it. So you DO need men - technically speaking.
@carow6244 can you fix your own car? Can you move furniture by yourself? When you call 911 who usually responses
@lukewalken1316 I don't drive, so no car to fix.
And I move all my own furniture, I've moved beds, wardrobes, settees outside on my own, its not hard, it's not easy but it's not hard and I'm 5ft 😆 I do the decorating and fix things in my house because I can and would never expect anyone to do it for me. I'll pay an expert when there's something I can't do.
And you're just sounding extremely misogynistic. There are female mechanics and probably a high chance of a female controller when phoning emergency services, and a female police officer who would attend. And theres also a high chance it could be a male controller, police officer 🤷♀️
As I said, I don't "need" a man or expect a man to pay my bills, etc, just because he's dating me, I would date a man because I like them not because he could put a shelf up for me 🤣🤣🤣
@@carow6244 And you sound very Misandristic with your "I don't need a man" comment
How is it that so many young women do not know how to cook? Whoever said "they do not come from a good family" is correct. I do not have daughters (thank god) and I taught all my sons how to cook.
And once again, men made it simpler for women to cook. You download a recipe ,throw the ingredients into your gay little thermomix and follow the orders.
In all brutality... Women offer nothing. The one thing they claim to offer, intimacy and love, falls apart, once you get to understand the concept of pragma.
lol, it's not even that hard, I just watch my parents cook and lo and behold, I was able to cook by myself about the time I was a teenager, sure there are the occasional pointers but I learned much by just watching
@@kaikosolano8172 I allowed my sons to experiment with cooking when they were very young (single digit age). As they got older they had learned from mistakes and began to hone their cooking skills. I always supervised to teach them tips and tricks of using spices, various cookware, and most important, timing. Now they are grown men and are excellent cooks. My youngest is home from college for the holiday and is blessing us with his wonderful cooking skills.
While dating, every woman I dated/talked to expressed how they LOVE cooking and cleaning. Well, they never cooked one meal and their house was messy. Talking to a robot
Man or woman, cooking is one of the most basic survival skills any human should know. Its also a really fun rewarding hobby and it can save you a lot of money.
In this economy, I can meal prep a weeks worth of dinners for myself for 10 bucks, and it tastes like it came out of a restaurant.
Pumpkin soup with red lentils is a good recipe for this season. It looks great, tastes great, easy to make, has enough fiber and protein, and it doesnt cost anything. Add some red peppers, turmeric, paprika powder, some fruits like an apple and an orange, finely chopped onions, garlic, puree it, and there ya go you have enough soup to feed an orphanage.
God bless these podcasts. Wish this shit was around 20 years ago. As an older millennial our generation got absolutely fucked. But I’m so grateful I didn’t end up knocking up some 304 and now have to spend the rest of my life bound to a woman intoxicated by feminism. Truly feel blessed to be single with a chance to download all this content and protect myself from the negative consequences of HOEFLATION in the future.
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Gen X got fucked way harder than millenials in dating. Im a millenial, and I watched my mother spend 20 years of her life trying to destroy my dad during and after the divorce. I got redpilled at age 6. I can even say I understand women now, although I wish I didnt. My dad wasnt so lucky. He had to find out the hard way.
I find as a woman (I'm 57, but not a dried up old bag), I only find men who want one thing or maybe they might want a relationship but they need to try you out on the 1st date to see if you're compatible. I quit dating because I'm more than a piece of meat. I've gotten tired of hearing comments on my body. I'm grateful I'm attractive but would prefer to hear something about my brain or kindness, something more substantial. I just give up and will die alone.
@@annmarygarcia1321 modern women like you have ruined your chance at love by not choosing the right man who loved you for who you are. I’m sure you’ve made many mistakes spurning good men and now you’re reaping what you’ve sown. You deserve to be alone for not pair-bonding with a man who loved you in the past:
@XHEGEBKCOVYJEKFUVU I am far from a modern woman. I believe in the old fashioned ways. And if you think emotional and physical abuse as well as alcoholism is what a good man is, then I will be alone. I never had a man love me for me. I had men try and change me to be who they wanted. If I spurned a good man I would be regretting it, but I never had one of those.
As a real man I have my own bills to pay without paying for someone who is useless.
Well said
Paying g your bills is not our job remember- you're strong and independent you don't need no man
i dated a single mom of 2 girls we ended up living together for quite a few years i raised the girls as my own and paid for everything they needed only to be told after 12 yrs by her and the girls they dont regard me as family, i was gobsmacked and upset as i treated and thought of these girls as my own daughters and all they thought of me was their mums boyfriend. I found out years later it was their mum who got them to think this way and was telling them never call him dad hes nothing to you. Yet when we split up its all the girls miss you and you need to come back to me. I saw the girls frequently after we split up they ghosted me apart from Bdays and Christmas when it was wheres my gifts at.
Bro, you just submitted a HoRRoW sToRy😮
Bro women are having 0 problems with using children against men! It is probably integrated in their DNA! This is why I hold the opinion that they are the most vile and soul sucking creatures on the planet hands down no contest. Keep in mind she was using the kids to lure you in while she was teaching her children that you are no one of importance. What kind of a psycho uses children like that... women! And I don't want to hear how 'not all women are like that!' ... the majority of you are! Evil and vile creatures with no concepts of morality or honor!
Dude, that sucks. Those years are gone. It's the sheer heartlessness that is appalling.
Vinnie , I hate that happened to you. You sound like a good Man . Don't forget they are good women who would Appreciate you Brother !
Don't give up.
One of my mom's boyfriends that actually treated me like family, I treated him the same way. When they split I still spent a lot of time with him and told people he was my step dad. He passed away a few weeks ago, I still can't believe he's gone.
I'd be heartbroken if I were in your place. Sorry that happened to you. 😢
Roses are red violets are blue if your man's busy on Valentine's Day the side chick is you 💯 ✝️ 🙏👍 🎉 AMEN
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Oof lmaoo
40 years ago, when I was dating women that were significantly older than I was, I would sometimes come across a woman that fully expected any man she spread her legs for to start paying all her bills. They'd literally hand them to you. First time that happened I just handed them back, confused. She sort of lost her shit at that, screaming that society "expected" a gentleman to pay for his lady's upkeep.
So, me, a broke-ass college student was supposed to pay all the bills of a single, employed woman in her early 40s? Hell, she was lucky I could afford movie tickets for a date.
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I guess it's only called prostitution if they ask for the money in advance.
Bollocks!
She should have been grateful that you took the time to fuck her.
It's a subscription that that woman expected you to make, for one prostitute only in that case.
Cooking is basically domestic chemistry.
You need to mix the right ingredients / compounds, at the right time, in the right quantity, at this temperature, for this long, in that particular order.
well if ur uneducated that basic level chemistry is hard i guess...
nah the thing is so many modern women... specially in america cant cook because.... eating out since child hood probably... even their parents brought in ready-made food probably all the time.. so cooking isnt a thing...
And improperly commenting on it is domestic violence. A violent endothermic reaction will ensue.
As a man actual man , i love to cook, and I don't mind doing my laundry. I run my own business and sill have time to help worthwhile friends.
Well the vast majority of professional chefs have always been men. According to the U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics, as of 2020, still only 18% of chefs and head cooks are women. So it’s not that women are expected to be especially good at cooking. Men are better at creating and mastering sophisticated recipes to produce fine dining cuisine. The expectation is just that women in general would at least be able to cook at a basic level, as most men do not work as the aforesaid culinary experts, but are rather specialists in some other fields.
@@arsenelupiniii8040 I don't know a single married western family where the wife didn't expect the man to at least do most of his own laundry, help cook, and help with childcare. The most traditional marriages I observed in my friends' parents where the men in the family just didn't do the jobs that women did were from immigrant, non-anglo/euro/western families. The typical dad in the euro-anglo family structure is perfectly fine filling the dishwasher. I'm pretty sure once you become a father you gain an unbreakable urge to barbeque. It's instinct. I honestly don't think I've met a single family within my own anglo-american culture where the dad doesn't contribute plenty to meals.
If you also notice, women don't mention that men are pretty much always the ones to do any kind of actual hard work in the house. You know, mowing the lawn, fixing shit, electrical, plumbing. Christ, I know women that won't even CALL the oil change guy, to them the PHONE CALL about a car is a "man's job". There are legitimate articles where feminists will scream at men for not "contributing to housework" where they pull up cherrypicked data, while just changing the definition of housework to not include the domestic tasks men traditionally do. Nobody cares that men do like 80-90% of the hard work in the upkeep of a house, both in labor and financially, or more accurately, women don't care because we're just labor robots and wallets to them.
Guys, as a traditional patriarchal old-fashioned woman of the East, let me tell you something:
First: understand that YOU are the prize. That you don't have to learn "womanese" but that women have to learn how to deserve you. If they don't want to, KEEP GOING. If they think otherwise, KEEP GOING. It's far better to be alone, than to have your life destroyed by an unworthy woman.
Second: There are only two types of women: good women (who are LOYAL, faithful and devoted to their family, home makers) and there are SLUTS. There is NO middle ground, nothing in-between.
Third: DO NOT (and I repeat: DO NOT) tolerate women's promiscuity. DO NOT pay for their OF accounts, DO NOT support them financially IN ANY WAY whatsoever, except when she's your wife, daughter, mother or sister.
Fourth: TEST THEM, by all means! A loyal, faithful, high-quality woman WILL NOT MIND. If she does, she's a SLUT. You'll know right away what you're dealing with.
REAL women, GOOD women, HIGH-QUALITY women are rare, I know, but it's always better to be alone and keep your peace, than to be shattered to pieces by an unworthy woman.
And one more thing: STAY STRONG. Think with your upper heads. Sure, having fun is great, BUT IT CAN COST A LOT, if you're not smart.
"There are only two types of women: good women (who are LOYAL, faithful and devoted to their family, home makers) and there are SLUTS. There is NO middle ground, nothing in-between."
So, a woman could be a virgin, maybe she wants to wait for marriage or hasn't found the right guy, OR, maybe she's on the asexual / aromantic side of the spectrum and not interested in dating, she has a career and is doing well financially, but due to the fact that she's not a homemaker, she's a "slut". After all, you did say there are only 2 types of women.
You're even more misogynistic than many of the men here.
Im curious. I started dating a girl from the Philippines 2 months ago. She came to my country to work as an au pair, so I know she can cook and she's good with children. She speaks well of her father and her parents are still together because there is no divorce in the Philippines. And we really like each other.
Ive been honest and told her Im only dating to find a woman to marry and not to have casual bedroom fun. She didnt put out until the fourth date.
So far only good signs and its going very well.
My question for you is, if i wanted to test her, what would I do, and what am I looking for? I havent asked about her body count because she genuinely seems to be selective. I mean, shes definitely not a virgin but I dont get a slutty vibe. Should I ask about that? To be honest when Im dating a girl I dont want to hear or know anything about her exes. It seems to me she has had a few boyfriends but doesnt do one night stands. She complained that guys in this country expect her to give it up on the first date and constantly compliments me for being such a gentleman.
Would you advise me to ask about her dating history, one night stands, previous boyfriends? And how would I go about that? I genuinely think she could be marriage material and I do not want to hurt her feelings by asking the wrong questions and breaking our trust. Things are really good right now and I could be happy not knowing. There is no divorce in the Philippines and I do intend to move there if we get married. She said to me last week that I would be a good husband for her.
I'd really like to know what you think about this, Im in doubt.
I don't think you realize most of us are done playing stupid games to win stupid prizes. Most woman are now legends in their own minds and have absolutely no idea what they want which changes every day
Excellent advice! Thank you! 💯🙏🏾
Look lady, we don't have low self esteem, we're just a little weary from sifting through a million miles of dog shit, here in the western world in order to find a wife/helpmate!!! We're honed in, not hopeless!!! We don't need encouragement, we don't need a peptalk!!! We need to put these passports to use!!! I have four more months of school left and as soon as I'm finished, I'm gone!!!😏👍🏿
"why do they want it from a 34 year old and not from a 21 year old!?"
1. You probably give it away easy
2. Or, more realistically, you're one of the 304 options they got on speed dial. Got em saying "hey alexa, call lonelywoman34" 😂 bruh
most guys would prefer the 21 year old but the 21 year old has way more options so with the 34 year old you probably have a better shot. she has less options and you know she a 304 because shes 34, childless and unmarried.
@@TheSuperappelflapthat's partly, but a lot of these old women are what you can call gap fillers. Booty call. If he's not with another woman, he'll be with her but I guarantee you she's not his first option if he's good enough to get somebody younger. She's just more available because she doesn't have a life anymore. Her whole worth, as she declared it, is based on how many men will screw her. And that's likely the only time she is active.
There's nothing I love more than seeing these freeloaders come to the realization that they're losing their meal tickets.
me too, its a beautiful thing..
I told a girl no free rides over here she thought i was joking
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my first wife was a single mom I loved her and her son and even wanted to adopt him like my dad did for me, she said no and when I asked about having a child of our own she said no. Turns out she was cheating on me the whole time with an E6 in my unit and when we divorced she demaned I pay alimony and childs support I was a paycheck for her. forget dating single moms they want the financial security and nothing more. Btw she ended up having 2 extra kids with that E6 who divorced her when he got kicked out of the army too for her cheating
Stay single dude. Poons are a waste.
Never date single moms ever.
Jody strikes again!
How is it possible for her to ask for alimony when it's not your kid and she wouldn't let you adopt?
hello guys I’m a woman at 46 years old and I am ashamed for the behavior of women in our-days 😱 I have a 21 years old son and watching him growing up was completely changing my opinion about you guys 🫶🏽 and anyways since I was young my, my best friends were boys 🫶🏽 😎…. I watch all these videos because of feeling so sorry for the Times in which my son should supposed to find a girl 😣😵💫💔 … thank u for doing these gr8 videos!
Your son should find a good woman overseas. It's less than 2% chance in the US.
Yeah so what the guy above me said, and make sure he works on his career and gets some exercise. If he's in good shape and makes decent money its going to be good for him to travel to some other continents.
heres a idea for strong independent women pay you own bills and thats called being equel in real life .
They only want to be equal when benefits them, not the other way around.
Schrödinger's feminism.
A few years ago while at the store I held the door open for a woman just like I would for anyone else. She walked in then turned and said I have boyfriend. Without thinking I immediately replied that must have taken a lot of peanut butter.
Brilliant 😂
@@KingDomsKingdom85 thank you!
Bro please explain 😂
@@E46TY if you need an explanation you are probably too young or too innocent for the explanation. Lol
@@mikebabb2155 if you know, you know
I use the "I have a dog" justification EVERY TIME! As my name states, I have been there done that. No more. I have a dog that loves me and never once has run up credit cards.
Do you remember the Married with Chidren episode where the family dog was granted a credit card?
I've dated single mothers. All of them all pawned their child/ren off to their dad, mother or grandparent and regularly got ran-through on the weekends. I know because I was probably one of the guys who ran through. I fully intend to see where it goes with everyone I date, but they're too easy and that's not just for you, it's for the others too.
Bad move don’t date single moms ever
For sure @@_hellohello5025
@@_hellohello5025Just use accordingly!
yup there is a reason they are single
If she wants to walk out the door after I expressed my disdain for her going clubbing and acting single, I'd go to the home depot and change locks while she's out.
She wants to act single, she can be single for all I care. I wouldn't even tell her to get out, I'd just wait for her to leave.
Let me know if you need me to swing by Home Depot and pick up the hardware while you pull the old ones off.
@@ebutuoyssa same here, brother.
I think if it got to this point, though, I'd have the locks on standby in a drawer of spares (I like to keep spare hardware in case things start to break. This is a normal thing for me anyway)
She deserves that.Why go clubbing when she has you.The only reason she would go clubbing is to cheat.
Yeah 13:46 this is the way it used to be: men provided and held it down, women cared for the home and kids. The mom still participated in the major decisions and the dad still helped raise the kids. This is the balanced way it should be. But women hated that lifestyle and those clearly defined gender roles and they wanted to become men. And now that they are men, they can't handle it and they wish they were women again. F around and find out, am I right?
yes you are
As Ed McMahon would say to Carnac the Magnificent...you are CORRECT, sir.
No.
Dont forget in this story, most women in the middle class, or the lower class, had to work as well to supplement income. They worked cleaning houses, taking care of children, doing laundry back when people had to do that by hand, cooking, etc.
Women that had a husband rich enough that they didnt have to work, did volunteer work, community service. Church. Feeding and clothing the poor and homeless. teaching kids in sunday school and organizing other activities. Organizing the yearly town fair or christmas celebrations.
My grandmother cleaned houses for a bit of pocket cash and volunteered in church. She didn't need to work a regular job as my granddad was a schoolteacher, which back then was a respectable profession that paid a living wage you could raise a family on. But she still worked. She wanted to. Who wants to sit at home all day playing housewife? They were married over 50 years, and sadly they've both now passed away.
And my grandmother was a feminist. A reasonable one, who protested for the right for women to work after marriage and stuff like that. If she could see what young women are getting up to now, she'd probably give them a smack around the ears or two.
She also had at least equal say as my granddad in what happened around the house. Probably she made more decisions. But it was his money. He was a very patient man and almost never got angry. But if he did get angry, she stopped very quickly.
My mother, she divorced my father at 35 and now she's almost 60 and complaining she can't wait for her retirment. Yeah mom, you did that to yourself. Grandparents never approved of the divorce, they barely spoke to her for 10 years.
I knew a very beautiful lady since she was 21. She was a bathing suit model and had a great body! She got hooked on drugs and 30 years later, she's still single, addicted and has done some very disturbing things for money to buy drugs! It breaks my heart to know her.😢🙏🏼 I hope she gets help before she dies of an overdose or killed for turning tricks!🙏🏼💔
Married 20 yrs worked 60 to 70 hrs a week 3 kids big house even moved my mother in law in. 2017 I get brain cancer almost took me out. But I pulled through I was beat up and couldn't work needed help with most things I could do myself. It was hard I understand but In 2018 she decided to leave and not answer my calls for a yr. So I gat a two bed appt and me and my son moved in together. So in 2019 I'm like ok your not coming back so I got a divorce. Only then do I get a call " how dare you do this without talking to me " wtf? Any way still single and still alive Drs gave me six months to live but I'm still here for my children may not be a husband anymore but I'll die a dad
"Dating Isn't FAIR!"...and it will never, ever be fair with you around, Ladies.
They are not ladies, those went extinct right around 1961.
No matter how often they are told what men want, they still don't have a clue what men want. SMH
Nope, you are making excuses for them, aka, Simp behavior, females DON'T CARE what men want...
Nor do they CARE what men want!
Women are completely self absorbed. And obesity is clear sign of self absorption.
@@Carmen-99
They see men as objects, like shoes we provide a service which is replaceable.
Bro this is arguably one of the best compilations I've ever seen. Love it. Instant sub
She said she would take a cooking class. 😂😂😂 I bet she expects the guy to pay for the classes. 😂
I was so love to be on one of these shows because I’m brutally honest to anyone. I’m talking to and my first words would be if you want respect you’re gonna show me respect
People say so much bs like respect has to be earned, or you should respect anyone. Respect is only given when you force people to respect you. People may pretend to be nice at first but good chance theyll start testing the limits like a 6 year old kid and then you have to shut that down hard. Personally, I can take that from men but if a woman starts playing games or sh!t testing I walk immediately. Just the fact they have a desire to test my limits means they dont respect me. If they respect me they would be afraid.
But of course thats considered "toxic masculinity" these days.
Submission DOES involve giving up autonomy. But that is the point. You and your man are becoming a partnership, working together for a common goal. By definition, you are not autonomous at that point. Modern American women refuse to give up any autonomy. Hence, they are fundamentally unfit for serious, committed relationships.
I mean that will make steam come out their ears but if you want that, you only need one word: "compromise".
The issue for modern women is looking at relationships as transactional. Obviously every relationship is transactional to an extent, but it is also heavily reliant on storge. If the woman is unwilling to compromise her useless freedom for her husband's happiness and her eventual equal bliss, she is acting hedonistically and is undeserving of being married to.
@@memememe609 for me it mostly depends on whether the transactional part is the primary motivation or a secondary one.
i make decent money and im sure that does matter to my girlfriend, but its not the main reason we are together. she has a nice body but what matters more to me than that is that she treats me well.
this type of relationship is very difficult to find in the postapocalyptic hellscape of modern dating. took me more than a decade to meet one girl like that.
Our pathetic and morally bankrupt society values WEALTH and LOOKS far far more than it should. Self control (eliminates obesity), loyalty, love (not lust), giving, supportive, faithful, and modest is FAR more important. And those characteristics are for BOTH men and women. For women, feminine and willing to be led by a man is a must. For men, masculine and willing to lead is a must. This WAR of the sexes is leading to western civilization’s collapse.
Truth is it's already collapsed. Feminism and lgbtq killed it. Ppl move out ASAP to avoid being crushed by that falling fat Babylon Jezebel witch.
To be honest love is also a very hard thing to give. I mean true love, not lust or just attraction. True love takes a lot of understanding of how human relationships work.
All that matters is looks, thats the way it's always been and always will be
If they are going to go on their knees and hands for any men including their boss to keep their job then a real dog is more faithfull than them just by being dogs....
men having standards = Insecure
Women having standards = powerful
-some feminist
Thanks for the hour long video, I'm happy and entertained!
A mother who became single, because her only ever mate or husband she ever had sex with since virginity, had somehow died due to illness or tragic accident is the only single mother I would consider dating and maybe marrying if that worked out mutually between her and I and her children. In short; a faithful widow who through no fault of her own sadly lost he original faithful man by illness, or deadly accident. Any single mother outside that is a red flag.🚩
Between 50:00, and 53:24, she said that the Men that have had relationships with single mothers don't want to be with single mothers, she's absolutely right. I don't know any single Men who want to be with any. When you're involved with a single mother, she's instantly demanding the Man pay for everything that kid needs or wants. A single Man doesn't want to raise another man's kids, absolutely not... She's crazy...
When talking about the wage gap we often forget that men are working harder to pay for their wives during pregnancy and child raising. So not only is he having to work harder but its to support the ungreatfull other.
Theres much more to it. Men generally work more hours. Lets say I work 40 hours a week for ten years. With my government mandated vacation days, that comes out to about 47 weeks fulltime a year, plus a few one day holidays and christmas. So lets say 46 weeks in total, times 40 hours a week, times 10 years. I have worked 18,400 hours. Women in my country usually work 24-32 hours and men 32-40. So lets take the upper limit for women as well and say she works 32 hours. That woman in the same 10 years works 14,720 hours. I have 25% more work experience at the same age. So I get paid more, because I am more productive.
Women also are less likely to work overtime or want a high level function that requires unpaid overtime.
Even with the same amount of work experience, in the same function, men are more productive than women.
The wage gap doesnt just not exist, in favor of men, we have a wage gap in favor of women.
Ok here goes and women take notice, 3 of my friends and I started a software business right out of not long after us starting I got offered job at a reputable company and left them to carry on and since my contribution to the work would have been minimal, I gave my shares back to them. 13 years later and the company is verry successful and 1 of the guys is a billionaire and the other two are multi-millionaires. The 2 that were multi-millionaires got married and divorced and that is what dropped them down to their current status and we are still all friends.
Now I am going to highlight something that truly peeves my wife. All three these guys and we are all in our mid-forties will pick up a girl sleep with them and leave them behind. None of them will ever marry again and all these women will ever be is a one-nite stand or a share toy.
Not in the eyes of the women they slept with... in the eyes of the one night stands 'he slept with me = he is ready to marry me!' and don't you try and convince them otherwise! They simply 'know their worth!' and their so called 'worth' is now a 666 millionaire that dumped them!
Proverbs 25:24 Amplified Bible (AMP)
It is better to live in a corner of the housetop [on the flat roof, exposed to the weather] Than in a house shared with a quarrelsome (contentious) woman
Modern women especially huge ones……
Aren’t entitled to my resources
then lock up your fridge and pantry dude them fatties are now BREAKING INTO HOMES and stealing food because they are so fuckin fat they like steal the food now dude
When I was 35, asking a woman my age who was interested in me to have their own transportation, their own source of income and not still be living with your parents was asking too much. And out of the few women like this that "liked me" a couple of them wanted to move in with me after a week of knowing me. Not dating me. Knowing me.
Yeah, needless to say, I have no luck with women because as far as they're concerned, I don't exist.
A man is expected to HAVE a million dollars in his bank account at the beginning? And what do we get? We get "Duuuuurrr... Maybe I'll take a cooking class one day... Duuuuurr.."
If that dumb narcissist expects a million dollars at the get go, she should have taken TEN cooking classes ALREADY and THEN some.
Yeah, well maybe we'll get a million dollars "one day."
This is what happens when you are raised without a father in your house or life.
And there's a reason it's God the Father.
Her: if he’s a millionaire, I will offer my unconditional loyalty…..
Billionaire: hi sexy lady……
Her: later broke loser. Hi there, I’m very loyal and I’m single and available!!!!!
When I met my wife I knew she’s was the one she could cook, clean she’s educated and most importantly she brings me peace.
the black chick at 15:00 her number is stupid, "If a man who was raised by a single mother refuses to date a single mothers, he's part of the problem"..What problem?? He's just sane.
Wife and I are baby boomers, married for 42 years, three adult children and five grandchildren, one that is 22. We are still madly in love with each other.
My wife has never expected riches, especially since I was a paratrooper in the Army for 26 years.
A lot of tough times but we stuck it out, and are still in love.
I suspect this is a younger generation problem in a very narcissistic world.
Back in 1996, my friends and I used to call these girls, "TAF WOC"...the spelling is backwards so the girls didn't understand what we meant. 😂
"He called me a dumb bitch, that's oppression."
Damn, if that's oppression, I must have lived under a totalitarian state since I have been using the internet, since I have been called every name in the book then some.
Women, listen up: You need to have even HIGHER standards! You are all goddesses and only deserve the VERY BEST. And NEVER do what a man wants you to, as they are all trying to oppress you. Your are strong and independent QUEENS; you got this!
Signed: cats.
Too late. They already traded in reality for the Barbie dream world.
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I seen someone comment elsewhere which I thought was brilliant,,,,,they said (cannot remember their name to quote sorry) that a women is only as loyal as their lack of better options, so more lack of options then the more loyalty.
Truth
Stay single gents
I've cut off ties with over 30 women I've met on dating websites and Facebook or as I call it Falsebook because not one of those people were honest about intentions or who or what they were.
Same bro. Probably close to 100 for me over the years. Best to stay single
Fake book
The only women a man should be paying bills for is his legal wife. Girls that are not married to a guy should pay their own bills since your not his responsibility.
Nah, a poon can pay her own bills.
@@monk4ever304 should pay their rent and 5 star restaurants. I don’t give high price free means to a 304.
No you pay. Slave
If you are making a lot of money and you are dating a girl, you both want to get married, shes wifey material, doesnt have a career or make much money, its okay. As long as its bills for important things and she cant pay herself.
I have had girls on dates complain to me they didnt have money for basic things like buying panties. So I offer to buy panties for them, they say no, i dont want to be dependent on a man. Now thats much worse than letting me buy some panties for 5 bucks.
Exactly.
Men can cook their own food , so if a girl tells me that’s what she brings to the table I’ll just laugh at her.
Like Myron said women live a life on easy Mode 😂
The Manguide Cinematic Universe
Nasty. I never pay on initial dates, having seen what happens. They show up, spend your money, then get a bailout call and ghost. You should pay your own way until it’s established that it’s a match. My last date, that girl was on her phone the entire time. I excused myself and didn’t come back. I watched for a few minutes (20 that is). She had no clue I was gone. Then struck up convo with another dude. No loss, no drama or stress. Thanks I can deal without.
I’m surprised that these guys aren’t starting at the beginning. 1. What was required in the past to raise a family? A partnership.
2. What was the purpose of marriage? 3. Why is it critical that men and women talk to each other about their goals, why they need a partner and what they offer to their future partner? What is it that they want to build with their future partner? 4. What are the benefits of having a true partner for life? 5. What happens if they fail to understand the purpose of marriage?
She's not a thrill when you cover her bill.
😂
I’d rather die than date a single mom and here’s why
My dad for 11 years dated a woman with a son. My dad was there for the boys birth. He became a brother to me and a son to my father. He raised TJ like he was my dad’s own flesh and blood. Fast forward 10 years and my dad’s gf wanted to leave state but my dad didn’t. They got into a fight and his gf took her son and left state. My dad didn’t only lose his gf. He also lost the boy he helped raise for 10 years. I lost my little brother.
The worst part was my dad and I managed to get ahold of TJ and the 3 of us played Minecraft while talking on discord. Then my dad’s ex heard my dad laughed at TJ mercilessly committing a genocide on my sheep farm and next thing we hear is TJ’s mom yelling at him. She said “I TOLD YOU NOT TO TALK TO THEM” we heard him start to cry then he left call and the game.
A couple years passed and my dad never got over losing his adopted son. One day he got word from someone that was still in contact with his ex. Due to her weight problem she passed away. They told my dad “Tammy was found dead in her bed… TJ said he thought she was sleeping” which mean he must of been the one to find her. Can you imagine being a 17 year old boy finding your mom dead? I can’t imagine what he went through and what he’s currently going through. It hurts my dad knowing TJ was going through hell and he couldn’t even contact his adopted son
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My neighbor is cutting down a palm tree with San electric kitchen knife as we speak 😂😂😂 she’s strong and independent and don’t need no man.
You reap what you sow.
Another aspect often not talked about regarding promiscuous women: microchimerism.
Men's DNA is absorbed and stays in a woman after she ingests semen (sex, oral, etc). It will not only effect her (common occurrence to mothers after having a son), it can also be passed onto a child. 80 previous bodies means that any child will be a mixture of 81 men.
Not truly "your" child.
And thats another reason why you should always use a condom when youre doing stuff with someone you dont want kids with, both men and women.
You know its funny people always tell me I look so much like my dad and my parents got together when they were both 17 and my mom was a virgin.
Some kids I went to school with probably dont even know who their real dad is, let alone the ones who like you said have genetic material from a bunch of dudes.
Yeah...I'm gonna call BS on this..
@@gbonkers666no there’s SOME research that suggests this may occur to some degree - in humans, women’s brains can be affected by childbirth and have male dna present… in flies it was seen years ago that offspring may be affected by precious male mating even though the subsequent male actually fertilized the eggs. Other factors were being absorbed… but still there isn’t enough data to be sure of any of it or say to what degree its effect may be.
And yet the lady ( with the headphones) is a gem...
Pay your own bills
I'M 55 YO. MY TOTAL BODYCOUNT IS 28. IF A YOUNG PERSON HAS THAT MANY OR MORE NEED TO WARN ANY NEW PARTNER ABOUT SEXUALLY TRANSMITTED DISEASES.
Putting the cart in front of the horse is a major problem. WHY WOULD YOU EVER FIND A BROKE DUDE,GIVE HIM A BABY ,LEAVE HIM WITH THE BABY ZND HALF YOUR INCOME.
That's bad...
I'll admit I'm a 324 pound guy with a decent paying job with my own place woman like this wouldn't even look my direction which in my own mind I'm thankful for cuz woman like this I wouldn't even entertain the idea going out with so yeah I may be a low tier average joe but at least I respect myself enough to not waste one second of my time on trash woman like this
Hold the line my friend. hold the line
so you have 2 options. 1 is lose the weight and get jacked, you have your own place so then they will look.
option 2 is, remember to keep the door locked and bolted when winter comes. and oh boy is it coming.
You ain't missin' much.
I have a daughter, very beautiful, who married at 24. Her husband makes over 200K and she adds around 70K. No kids, they live a really good life. She stands by him no matter what and he is fully aware that she is going nowhere, regardless of fate or finances. She gives him peace of mind and that only makes him try harder.
"she is going nowhere". Had to read that a couple of times to get the context...
as long as she never earns more than he does, she can pull the divorce wreck ripcord down the road (kids or not) and get half that man's assets and guaranteed alimony. doesn't matter if she signed a prenup, she can declare she signed it under duress and the feminist judge will throw out the prenup. she just has to stay with him long enough based on the state laws for the state / province she lives in. if the usa state, if most other places province.
I feel I'm going to do things on my own in this world
The sad thing is, even if neither man or woman "make the money", a relationship can STILL work, if both parties can be a team! Divy up work, chores & meals at home, etc., Express love and gratitude toward each other. And too many women can't/won't see it.
No man should be paying any women's bills. Men SHOULD be paying their "safe, secure loyal to him" FAMILY bills. Btw a good family background keeps their female children even more secured(protected in the home), This whilst instilling in here good moral and family values till she is is ready to move on and do the same. This is NOT was is being done now a days. What women do wrong, their female children reciprocate it when old enough to do so.
Few years back with my X, her daughter had a year long relationship with her first boyfriend(seemingly happy in love) she started hanging around another guy of whom he had even told her to stop hanging around with him. Yeah she left him for the other guy. Just bs nonsense at 17 yrs of age already.
Well if its HER daughter and not YOUR daughter you have little recourse, but personally if that other guy came round my house I would shut the door in his face.
Mental and emotionally displaced individuals will never find happiness. For US, Love, loyalty, forgiveness, communication and endurance. Today still married to the same woman for 45 years. It was a great challenge at times but neither one of us gave up. Maintaining your Soundness Of Mind when faced with adversity is one of the keys.
I'd love a woman that could take care of me financially. Let her work 12 hour shifts, I'll take care of the house sweetheart. What you want for dinner? Here I cleaned up for you! Go hang out with your friends and hit the club, I'll be here. We don't need kids I got us a dog! You found a good man and want to break up? How about instead I work as your butler and just keep doing what I've been doing? That way you can both work and come home to a clean house with fresh cooked meals. I don't want a relationship, I want a patron to serve. You take care of the bills, I'll take care of you and your home.
sounds like a good deal to me
Stay at home father ftw.
Its amazing how you dress shows what you think and feel. The girl in the suit was the best well rounded thinker.
1:55 I was that broke homeless bum from 17-24. Obviously nobody wants a struggling guy, I dont expect ANYONE to be interested. I worked on my home business and now I'm 33 & doing better. Not getting rich by any means, but I can support myself like a normal person. But that's not nearly enough for any women these days. I have 12 pack abs and a 8 inch'r & I dont think I deserve anyone because I can barely pay my bills. I dont want the headaches.
You don’t get something for nothing in this world 🌎, and that includes love.
Weight is not the only factor. Ugly doesn’t help either.
An equivalent exchange, eh? Well, women break that rule in an instant, even without a philosopher's stone.
fat and ugly are synonyms :D
if ur ugly in the outside.. ur ugly in the inside
ugly as in = depressed,dark etc... thats how people end up superfat... self-pity, depression etc..
if u got fat, its okay... do something about it... better late than never.. to nice how sloth/glutton you have become...
american population aint entirely at fault on their own either, in some cases... u just get fat because of the food pyramid in ur country already, what they promote
ur GOvernment promotes unhealthy sugar bombs for breakfast as healthy food... :D and people are surprised so many people are fat... ; ]
Even fat ugly women can get love and loyalty from a man. Sure, he will most likely also be fat and ugly. And he wont be a millionaire. But if you can cook and love dick, any woman can find love.
You forgot to add in STUPID. :)
1:56 "The man must do the work and hopefully he will land the woman of his dreams"
No.
1) Men, there is no woman of your dreams. That's why they are "dreams."
2) Hypergamy = "She is not yours. It's just your turn." There is no "landing" a woman. Short-term fun? Sure... just be very careful, as we know it's playing with fire.
Therefore, men, just do the work. A life well lived is its own reward. The idea that a man can "earn" love from a woman or that she is the prize is a dangerous fallacy and the cause of so much simping.
This channel is truly excellent, 99% of the time, so I wanted to share my comment to keep anyone from getting confused.
In Denmark, where i live, it's normal that both men and women work, meeting a stay-at-home-mom is extremely rare and it's in some aspect looked down upon in Denmark, if you wanna buy a house in Denmark, you need the income from 2 people. but i imagine that both help with the kids and the cooking. But Denmark is also an egalitarian country like the rest of scandinavia.
Denmark, like the rest of the Nordic countries has a tremendous social safety net that your taxes are paying for. Hence the necessity for both spouses to work.
It functions due to a homogeneous society.
So, Im from a small flat country close to yours. Here its the same. But those are all reasons to get out of Denmark or western Europe in general. Your country is not egalitarian. Its puts massive net taxes on men, and most women are net receivers of taxes through subsidies. Child care subsidies, rent subsidies, healthcare subsidies, etc.
I pay close to 20 thousand euro a year in income taxes alone and get 0 subsidies.
And the best part is most of the women in our countries hate men and dont even want to live with one in the same house. I am paying upkeep for a single mother with 2 children but she doesnt want to date me.
Time to leave for a nice tropical island with a woman who appreciates us. I can recommend the Philippines. Screw paying taxes for women who dont want me. I will go where I am wanted.
Egalitarian is an L
Rodney Dangerfield, "What do cars and women have in common on a cold winter's morning?. When you really need them, you can't get them to turn over."
😂😂😂 @52:00 I totally agree it’s everyone fault why we don’t date single mothers but if you made better choices on the men you let bust in you I promise that will change
its not everyones fault. i never screw 304s without a condom. so they dont get pregnant. not my fault if they do.
Single Mom = High Risk, Low Reward
Thought for the day, what is a girls best friend?………diamonds. What is a guys best friend?………his dog. 🤔🤔🤔. Ponder that a moment.
Girls value material things, guys value love respect and honor. This is why girls do not belong as wives.
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