If I’m honest this situation is how I found her, and just from her first video I was complaining pissed off at him and I had seen his first. As soon as I saw how emotional she was I knew this wasn’t just some of the typical UA-cam drama and I felt so awful she had to even talk about this publicly. I remember thinking about how amazing her husband was comforting her, tucking her in and petting her head and it made me cry, I wanted to learn more about this sweet girl and her husband, I remember at first I didn’t see him often in the videos I watched but I fell in love with her personality and goofiness. She’s so real and now she tries to stay away from the UA-camr social scene and I think it’s done a lot of good for her, she has real friends now and a beautiful supportive family and it makes me so happy to see.
Until I saw the word "gaslighting" and the definition, I didn't realize I was a victim. I thought I was just surviving the hardships of life. I live with very little trust of people. It's why I hold on to BTS so tightly. They remind me that good people exist.
Those people who made fun of Steph’s in and out of sleep got mad hate. The guy stopped filming mukbangs and the girl took about a month break. Some of the people he tagged made a ig video were like I don’t know why he tagged me I have nothing to do with it.
1) youre the leader we deserve 2) laughed so hard at you increasing the speed of nikaododo's vid 3) you totally nailed the security system thing wow 4) "i love hamburger" hobi here to lighten the mood thank u
Me being a Stephanie fan from 2018 until now is crazy 😭 like that my babygirl! She is sweet person:( she try to improve herself all the time and she is relatable person! She is a strong woman and I love that for her! My role model fr!!🩷🩷🩷
A really good explanation of this whole situation is from the channel "the right opinion" his video on this actually introduced me to stephanie but it wasnt until months later i started watching her. I was high and bored 1 night & i stumbled on "the right opinion" about this situation, i didnt know who any of the people were that he was talking about. Stephanie is the only one I eventually followed. Idr this situation well but i do remember being on her side even before i knew who she was. I recommend the video about this on the right opinion if you need more info. 💜 Eta: what i know about the avocado guy is that he began as a vegan UA-camr whos channel was about health, but ended up becoming a mukbang gossip channel where he'd overeat for his fans, hence the Stephanie collab, from her Stephanie Soo channel content.
ive discovered stephanie through these videos and honestly im so proud of her. i feel like shes grown a lot since then, she seems more confident and sure of herself now
yoo i remember when this whole thing happened, i felt so bad for her from what i know, the guy is very much a troll, he never really "drops" his persona and he really likes to stir the pot whenever he is involved in something bc to him, imo, bad publicity is publicity nonetheless, he has given up much of his health to content and internet fame, don't know if he has changed at all recently, i don't keep up w him, last i heard from him was from penguinz0, the moistest guy himself lol
Zach Choi is ASMR he doesn’t talk in his videos lol. We watch him for the food he makes because sometimes it’s absolutely outrageous but looks delicious lol and he’s attractive.
Nickacado has a pattern of behavior were he makes himself the victim of people he treats badly. I remember when this happened, I had never watched Stephanie before but I was vaguely aware of her. This made me start paying more attention to her content. 1 because it was so clear she was valid in what she was feeling, and 2 you can clearly see the manipulative behavior she's talking about in his response. 3 is also because I was already familiar enough with nick through very similar situations of expose videos he was doing on other creator's at the time that were getting alot of attention then. It's not that it was similar in what was going on exactly but the way he would start making pointed comments about anonymous creator's in his content, then he'd name drop with more specifics, n it'd build to these exposè's with dms and messages painting a very similar narrative of unprovoked mistreatment out of the blue. Stephanie was just aware enough of his tactics to feel like she needed to say her side first and I feel really bad that he made her feel like she had to do that. The fact that she felt forced to talk about such traumatic personal business in order to show she was being honest is so messed up and sad. I'm proud of her for standing up for herself, but it was clear she was worried ppl wouldn't believe her or understand the context without those details and no one should feel forced to open up about their trauma like this, having it used against them and downplaying how it's affected them. Nick's a pos fs.
I remember when all of this happened in real time and RIDING down for Steph. But very quickly everyone saw how vile Nick was and quickly put him in his place 😴
considering how jealous nikocado was 2 years ago of her house, i wonder how much he's seething now that stephanie has grown even more successful meanwhile he's only fallen off into craziness since 🥴
the Ratatouille mouse was Remy but Pettigrew definitely fits better. i was first introduced to Steph when this came out so i didn't really know what all was going on but really felt for her because i've been there with being abused and treated like he treated her. now she's one of my favorite youtubers because of her storytelling skills. i've rewatched videos just because she's so good at what she's doing. never wanted to hug someone more than i did when i saw Steph so upset 😢
Stephanie is my beautiful lovely girl and when I first watched these vedios, I literally cried like a baby . Because for a lot of people ,it's not easy to say no confidently because of countless reasons. And it's so heartbreaking to see her breakdown like that because I'm also in a state for past 5 years and I had multiple breakdowns and it's the darkest place that you've ever been.😭💜🧡
Learning about this whole thing a while ago really made me like Stephanie even more because she reminded me so much of myself. Our personalities are so similar, and me also being a people pleaser have found myself in a lot of situations in which narcissistic people like Nikocado easily prey upon and take advantage of. I really felt her pain and could relate so much! 😢
honestly you increasing the speed on nick's video is a mood. He is just so nauseating to me. And more strength to Stephanie, I can only imagine how hard & painful it might have been. I work in mental health and I see all this more often than I'd like, and I am filled with awe when I see her. I hope all good things to come to her & that she has such a good support system. Makes all the difference.
Honestly you are probly the only person i would be okay with calling steph 'big sis' because form what i've watched from your reaction to her you dont just watch the popular ones but her vlogs aswell and it feels like your genuinley part of the biss fandom hehehe
So fight or flight actually has a third called fawn (and a fourth called freeze). What she's describing is fawning. Fawning is often a trauma response. Because of her prior trauma with the SA in her home she will likely feel less stable in situations that should call for stability logically speaking. She was in a situation where she was just eating and making videos, and under normal circumstances with someone who doesn't fawn, they would have just said, "Please, lets drop that topic. I don't want to talk about it in the video," but this is not a normal situation because she has triggers because of her prior trauma. So Nik triggered her and she was trying to satisfy him throughout the night so that she could survive. She was in a room with a bear. She was trying to pretend not to breathe, and lay on the ground, and play dead so that she wouldn't draw it's attention, so that she could wait for the right moment to run away. This is a normal response for trauma survivors and especially SA. She did nothing wrong even if there is a theoretical "better" thing to do.
@@IlovetoxicyuriSteph has a vlogging channel called “MissMangoButt.” She made a vlog talking about a stalker called “we hired a private investigator because something creepy happened”
2:16:39 That’s so sweet you sound like a good brother 😭 I raised my little brother and while he hated me growing up now he’s very sweet and protective, he proudly tells people I’m his best friend and when his friends apparently have a crush on me and my brother told me that when they ask if I’m still single or ask him to throw in a good word for them he says “listen I think your cool and all but your not good enough for my sister, she deserves absolute perfection” at first they were hurt until they found out he said the same thing to all his other friends. My brother tells me everything and he said he hoped I wasn’t angry for “controlling” my love life like that but it never bothered me because I know he just wants the best for me, he told me he wants someone who will cook and clean for me because I do it for everyone else and I pay for everyone but no one does it for me and he wants that for me. He explained it to his friends later that it’s like if your mom was going to remarry or something, that’s your mom and you want someone who can take care of her and that’s good enough for her. Even little brothers protect and care about they’re older sister as if they were younger in some ways, I’m still the mother figure in his eyes but also takes up that big brother role and it’s so sweet and I feel lucky to have a brother like that and I bet your sisters feel the same way, it’s truly such a treasure of a sibling relationship to have.
I just watched thi a little bit late but y'all i would give my life away for Stephanie, she's the sister that everybody nee dthat mtfkr avocado always made me sick and disgusted, i love Stephanie and in a kind of way she raised me i've been with her from the begging i love her so much and i hope people can leave her alone ong❤
fun fact, Karlee's channel SWIFTLY died after this whole thing. Went from 100k to 300k views per video to struggling to get 20k consistently. the only videos that had healthy views either had Nik or were straight up tea type videos.
it’s all about safety. we don’t know what the other person will do if we make them more mad so we freeze and do our best to keep the mood as is or make it better
I'm glad that Avocado messed up with the wrong person, Stephanie is a good story teller and knew how to actually make us be on her skin and not just feel like it is another UA-cam drama. If it was someone like let's say James Charles it would just be another " oh UA-camrs are fighting for views" and maybe avocado would still out there doing the same to other people.
ngl i didn’t watch any videos about the stephanie nikocado avocado situation because i was scared of what i’ll find but i’ll watch this one. it’s like learning about what happened for the first time together with someone i’m comfortable enough with so it’s not as scary
He started out as a vegan channel and then started mukbangs and gossiping about other mukbangers. It’s almost after Steph drama he turned for the worst. Steph is queen! She took her power back. I hated seeing this for her but sis is happy and living life. 1:10:27
55:08 nope. His watcher-base accumulated from the extra and dramatic character he displayed in his videos. Which he only began doing once he saw that it brought views in
I don't understand that people support this man, he literally destroyed his body. Couple of years ago i ran into his video's and i became sick..like real sick, an adult man that just eat, scold his bf and many others and CRIED THE WHOLE TIME...he is in my opinion not in his right mind, he let it become this far that one of his last video's i saw he was lying in bed with a breathing machine. And to know he was so healthy he didn't eat meat etc. Me visualizing him with the whole table/ bed full of Mc Do's. He was a normal boy once, the sugar got him anger issues, with babyish manners..he makes me so sick..his whole being is out of this world..he wants always stand in the center even though that he's not an interested person..
As a more recent fan of Stephanie, I stumbled across another UA-camr reacting to these videos and that's how I became so attached to Stephanie. Cuz before I had subscribed to her but I wasn't 100% a fan since I also watch other channels. After I watched these videos, I couldn't help but feel so protective 😅 Especially because the last time someone tried guilt tripping me and pulled the victim card, I was just fed up with the behavior. Because I had set up boundaries, I wasn't the affectionate type even with my partner at the time and this person who I considered a friend crossed the line. He wanted me to coddle him when he victimized himself. And like I did my best to show I cared but like I said I'm not really affectionate, I don't do coddling and I hate it when someone tries that on me (I need my space after all) When he realized that I wasn't really coddling him and I asked him a question as to why he wants me to be a certain way, he got defensive. The details are fuzzy but I snapped and essentially told him he was an asshole who does have a support group but he pushes away the only people who genuinely care about him. He blocked me so he won't ever read that but eh. He doesn't really scare me ever since I saw first hand that he's all bark no bite. He provokes others and then plays the victim. I admit, he got under my skin once I analyzed him after he blocked me but I suppress my emotions a lot. Not only that but I did catch a glimpse of that side of him once while we were "friends." He tried to get me angry, failed (I have thick skin and just agreed with him, basically ignoring him because I needed my personal space to recharge my social battery a bit), got irritated when I was basically smiling politely at him, etc. My therapist was incredibly proud of me for not stooping to his level. Honestly tho, I could never do what he did because 1) my elementary school self was never humbled so I might have a superiority complex when I'm angry (for context, I was smart for that age, I was shy, the teachers loved me and nobody really noticed me unless I was messing with them) 2) I didn't get my anger issues under control young in life for my efforts to go to waste and 3) I got better things to do with my life than start something. Apologies for going off on a rant 😅 I just get so irritated when I see behavior that reminds me of that jerk. Edit: Another tiny detail to show why that guy's behavior didn't really slide with me: I might be quiet and introverted but I have intense anxiety and anger issues. Like I'm incredibly stubborn and I keep my guard up at all times expecting the worst so if someone tries anything I'll be prepared to skadadle out of there with minimal damage. I was raised to not trust anyone but my immediate family (my family has trust issues). Anyway, I also hate being controlled so the moment I sense someone is trying to control me, I close myself off and watch carefully so I can leave ASAP. I do genuinely believe I'm bipolar. But if not, it's something else cuz I'm unhinged when I'm angry even if I don't show it. Like my thoughts are crazy 😂 My therapist gets worried sometimes 😅
I just remembered another thing that might clarify why I referred to him as a friend at the time. I was pretty much a loner (mostly because I'm an introvert and I don't think I'd be a great fit for most people) and I was trying to socialize more. He was the one who approached me, etc. My partner at the time met him (towards the end of the friendship) and my partner said something was off. I trusted my partner and basically said that I'd take it into consideration and see for myself if there's any red flags. That's another reason why it was easier for me to y'know. I trusted my partner to support me if it went downhill and thankfully it didn't but I was lucky to have such a good partner for my first romantic relationship 😅 I'll shut up now unless anyone wants me to clarify anything
I used to like Nick before he got so popular when he was still a vegan. But when I saw him treat his own life partner is disgusting cuz Orlyn seems to be a kind person and he trashes him all the time. It turned me from liking him to dislike and more, the way he treated Steph is crossing boundaries. I feel for her cuz I've been in her situation before.
1:55:00 I just wanna let you know, this wasn't his content before the beef between him and big sis; he actually had a vegan channel gave up on it then he would eatt and talk about UA-cam drama and in a way it's like he picked a fight with the wrong one, they day Stephanie put out her follow up vid to prove her innocence and expose him he just descended into madness he actually was very fit and skinny and then he just lost his marbles
Hey I still like you and all and this Nick guy definitely deserves to be called out, but it’d be nice if it could be done without all the fat shaming. (I mean, his entire personality is right there.) You have fat people in the Tribe (me for one) who can hear that’s how you feel about them. Just made me a little sad, that’s all.
@@tribeloui2023 Thank you, I do appreciate the apology. I’m unfortunately really used to comments like that by now, and wouldn’t have commented if I didn’t think you were the type of person who would be open to hearing it and maybe remembering it in the future too. 💜
I know nothing about these people apart from watching a few videos from Stephanie about S Korea, which were well presented and researched. But worryingly it feels like she prioritised her appearance on social media over her mental wellbeing and safety. That is screwed up. She DEFINITELY should have made a better excuse and walked out. And just listening to this guy for 20 seconds is enough, and people actually WATCH this? Haven't you got anything better to do like watching paint dry?
You should watch boze's video on this. Stephanie is a people pleaser, not that she prioritised her appearance on media, that's her personality. People pleasers are exactly like her. Kind of insensitive comment
Ok we need Stephanie’s wedding video reaction 😭
Omg I remember when this dropped I felt so bad for her :((
Oh husband Mango is the one you should show to ur partner and tell him “see be like him”
I still hate that guy and his minions
If I’m honest this situation is how I found her, and just from her first video I was complaining pissed off at him and I had seen his first. As soon as I saw how emotional she was I knew this wasn’t just some of the typical UA-cam drama and I felt so awful she had to even talk about this publicly.
I remember thinking about how amazing her husband was comforting her, tucking her in and petting her head and it made me cry, I wanted to learn more about this sweet girl and her husband, I remember at first I didn’t see him often in the videos I watched but I fell in love with her personality and goofiness.
She’s so real and now she tries to stay away from the UA-camr social scene and I think it’s done a lot of good for her, she has real friends now and a beautiful supportive family and it makes me so happy to see.
you HAVE to watch their wedding video pleaseeee i love seeing happy stephanie 😭
Yess
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Yes please!!!!!!!!
Avacadoo is crazy 😭
IKRRRR I have been laughing for ages 😭😭😭😭
Team Stephanie always
bruh, this is how i discovered stephanie! i was so upset for her. glad i wasn't alone in feeling that way!
Same. I was soo 😢 sad
Until I saw the word "gaslighting" and the definition, I didn't realize I was a victim. I thought I was just surviving the hardships of life. I live with very little trust of people. It's why I hold on to BTS so tightly. They remind me that good people exist.
Those people who made fun of Steph’s in and out of sleep got mad hate. The guy stopped filming mukbangs and the girl took about a month break. Some of the people he tagged made a ig video were like I don’t know why he tagged me I have nothing to do with it.
1) youre the leader we deserve
2) laughed so hard at you increasing the speed of nikaododo's vid
3) you totally nailed the security system thing wow
4) "i love hamburger" hobi here to lighten the mood thank u
Me being a Stephanie fan from 2018 until now is crazy 😭 like that my babygirl! She is sweet person:( she try to improve herself all the time and she is relatable person! She is a strong woman and I love that for her! My role model fr!!🩷🩷🩷
You continuously calling him NickacadoAvacadoo was so funny and I genuinely found it way easier to say 😂
Dude I hated this dude hurting my girl Steph Soo like that back when this happened. Team missmango!
I watched this whole issue before, and I have been and will always be in Stephanie's corner.
A really good explanation of this whole situation is from the channel "the right opinion" his video on this actually introduced me to stephanie but it wasnt until months later i started watching her.
I was high and bored 1 night & i stumbled on "the right opinion" about this situation, i didnt know who any of the people were that he was talking about. Stephanie is the only one I eventually followed. Idr this situation well but i do remember being on her side even before i knew who she was. I recommend the video about this on the right opinion if you need more info. 💜
Eta: what i know about the avocado guy is that he began as a vegan UA-camr whos channel was about health, but ended up becoming a mukbang gossip channel where he'd overeat for his fans, hence the Stephanie collab, from her Stephanie Soo channel content.
stephy turing “in and out” into a merch with 100% profits towards an organization that stop bullying is so fucking iconic i love this womennn
Yo I remember this drama. Watching everything fold out realtime was insane
5:17 BYEE MY DAWG HAS NO FILTER AND I LOVE IT 🤣🤣🤣 He just says whatever's on his mind im here for it 💀
ive discovered stephanie through these videos and honestly im so proud of her. i feel like shes grown a lot since then, she seems more confident and sure of herself now
Gotta protect big sis Stephanie at all costs 😭❤️
You should watch Bozo vs The World take on this, she breaks everything down to the T !
yoo i remember when this whole thing happened, i felt so bad for her
from what i know, the guy is very much a troll, he never really "drops" his persona and he really likes to stir the pot whenever he is involved in something bc to him, imo, bad publicity is publicity nonetheless, he has given up much of his health to content and internet fame, don't know if he has changed at all recently, i don't keep up w him, last i heard from him was from penguinz0, the moistest guy himself lol
After this issue she never had a collab again with another youtuber, more power to her!
Zach Choi is ASMR he doesn’t talk in his videos lol. We watch him for the food he makes because sometimes it’s absolutely outrageous but looks delicious lol and he’s attractive.
Nickacado has a pattern of behavior were he makes himself the victim of people he treats badly. I remember when this happened, I had never watched Stephanie before but I was vaguely aware of her. This made me start paying more attention to her content. 1 because it was so clear she was valid in what she was feeling, and 2 you can clearly see the manipulative behavior she's talking about in his response. 3 is also because I was already familiar enough with nick through very similar situations of expose videos he was doing on other creator's at the time that were getting alot of attention then. It's not that it was similar in what was going on exactly but the way he would start making pointed comments about anonymous creator's in his content, then he'd name drop with more specifics, n it'd build to these exposè's with dms and messages painting a very similar narrative of unprovoked mistreatment out of the blue. Stephanie was just aware enough of his tactics to feel like she needed to say her side first and I feel really bad that he made her feel like she had to do that. The fact that she felt forced to talk about such traumatic personal business in order to show she was being honest is so messed up and sad. I'm proud of her for standing up for herself, but it was clear she was worried ppl wouldn't believe her or understand the context without those details and no one should feel forced to open up about their trauma like this, having it used against them and downplaying how it's affected them. Nick's a pos fs.
I barely started the video and already mad that someone was messing was Stephanie. I’ve never seen his videos but have heard he’s not a good person.
I remember when all of this happened in real time and RIDING down for Steph. But very quickly everyone saw how vile Nick was and quickly put him in his place 😴
One day when I see a Stephanie and Louis collab I’ll be able to say I was here from the beginning ❤ and it would be a fire collab!!
considering how jealous nikocado was 2 years ago of her house, i wonder how much he's seething now that stephanie has grown even more successful meanwhile he's only fallen off into craziness since 🥴
the Ratatouille mouse was Remy but Pettigrew definitely fits better. i was first introduced to Steph when this came out so i didn't really know what all was going on but really felt for her because i've been there with being abused and treated like he treated her. now she's one of my favorite youtubers because of her storytelling skills. i've rewatched videos just because she's so good at what she's doing. never wanted to hug someone more than i did when i saw Steph so upset 😢
I agree. He looked like Pettigrew too much. Might be a relative.
this was the era where i wanted to gatekeep my biss from that evil entity... i really hated that dude to my core...
Damn. She was ALWAYS beautiful as fuck.
Stephanie is my beautiful lovely girl and when I first watched these vedios, I literally cried like a baby . Because for a lot of people ,it's not easy to say no confidently because of countless reasons. And it's so heartbreaking to see her breakdown like that because I'm also in a state for past 5 years and I had multiple breakdowns and it's the darkest place that you've ever been.😭💜🧡
Learning about this whole thing a while ago really made me like Stephanie even more because she reminded me so much of myself. Our personalities are so similar, and me also being a people pleaser have found myself in a lot of situations in which narcissistic people like Nikocado easily prey upon and take advantage of. I really felt her pain and could relate so much! 😢
she FUCKING DESTROYEDDDDD HIM!! INTO OBLIVION! i legit just occasionally watch this.. i have seen her videos like 10 times.. lmao!
Like the video before it even started . And as a member of tribe I stand with Stephanie .
honestly you increasing the speed on nick's video is a mood. He is just so nauseating to me. And more strength to Stephanie, I can only imagine how hard & painful it might have been. I work in mental health and I see all this more often than I'd like, and I am filled with awe when I see her. I hope all good things to come to her & that she has such a good support system. Makes all the difference.
After this it was rare to see steph do collabs. Nick been sick. And well time proved it
Peter Pettigrew I'm dead 😭😭😭
Honestly you are probly the only person i would be okay with calling steph 'big sis' because form what i've watched from your reaction to her you dont just watch the popular ones but her vlogs aswell and it feels like your genuinley part of the biss fandom hehehe
I can’t wait for some Stephanie Vlogs too specially the Spooky ones 💃🏻
So fight or flight actually has a third called fawn (and a fourth called freeze). What she's describing is fawning. Fawning is often a trauma response. Because of her prior trauma with the SA in her home she will likely feel less stable in situations that should call for stability logically speaking.
She was in a situation where she was just eating and making videos, and under normal circumstances with someone who doesn't fawn, they would have just said, "Please, lets drop that topic. I don't want to talk about it in the video," but this is not a normal situation because she has triggers because of her prior trauma. So Nik triggered her and she was trying to satisfy him throughout the night so that she could survive.
She was in a room with a bear. She was trying to pretend not to breathe, and lay on the ground, and play dead so that she wouldn't draw it's attention, so that she could wait for the right moment to run away. This is a normal response for trauma survivors and especially SA. She did nothing wrong even if there is a theoretical "better" thing to do.
Also that recent video of the stalker too🤦🏻♀️I went nuts watching it
What video?
@@IlovetoxicyuriSteph has a vlogging channel called “MissMangoButt.” She made a vlog talking about a stalker called “we hired a private investigator because something creepy happened”
2:16:39
That’s so sweet you sound like a good brother 😭
I raised my little brother and while he hated me growing up now he’s very sweet and protective, he proudly tells people I’m his best friend and when his friends apparently have a crush on me and my brother told me that when they ask if I’m still single or ask him to throw in a good word for them he says “listen I think your cool and all but your not good enough for my sister, she deserves absolute perfection” at first they were hurt until they found out he said the same thing to all his other friends.
My brother tells me everything and he said he hoped I wasn’t angry for “controlling” my love life like that but it never bothered me because I know he just wants the best for me, he told me he wants someone who will cook and clean for me because I do it for everyone else and I pay for everyone but no one does it for me and he wants that for me.
He explained it to his friends later that it’s like if your mom was going to remarry or something, that’s your mom and you want someone who can take care of her and that’s good enough for her.
Even little brothers protect and care about they’re older sister as if they were younger in some ways, I’m still the mother figure in his eyes but also takes up that big brother role and it’s so sweet and I feel lucky to have a brother like that and I bet your sisters feel the same way, it’s truly such a treasure of a sibling relationship to have.
I just watched thi a little bit late but y'all i would give my life away for Stephanie, she's the sister that everybody nee dthat mtfkr avocado always made me sick and disgusted, i love Stephanie and in a kind of way she raised me i've been with her from the begging i love her so much and i hope people can leave her alone ong❤
thanks for stanning our big sis Stephanie❤ and the Avocadoo word.. imma start calling avocados avocadoo from now on😂
fun fact, Karlee's channel SWIFTLY died after this whole thing. Went from 100k to 300k views per video to struggling to get 20k consistently. the only videos that had healthy views either had Nik or were straight up tea type videos.
Oh what about a juicy confessions video reaction 😳
W Husband!!!
i just realized your face at 1:55 when you watched that guys vid is the same face i made😅
it’s all about safety. we don’t know what the other person will do if we make them more mad so we freeze and do our best to keep the mood as is or make it better
I'm glad that Avocado messed up with the wrong person, Stephanie is a good story teller and knew how to actually make us be on her skin and not just feel like it is another UA-cam drama.
If it was someone like let's say James Charles it would just be another " oh UA-camrs are fighting for views" and maybe avocado would still out there doing the same to other people.
i really can't stop laughing at avacadoo lol. i might need to start calling avocados avacadoos from now on
5:20 BYE
ngl i didn’t watch any videos about the stephanie nikocado avocado situation because i was scared of what i’ll find but i’ll watch this one. it’s like learning about what happened for the first time together with someone i’m comfortable enough with so it’s not as scary
😢she apologized to him WAY too much!! He is annoying, i wont ever watch him. Im.sorry she had to go through all of this!❤ take care
He started out as a vegan channel and then started mukbangs and gossiping about other mukbangers. It’s almost after Steph drama he turned for the worst. Steph is queen! She took her power back. I hated seeing this for her but sis is happy and living life. 1:10:27
Stephanie is 누나 (noona) to you
We need tribe merch
i remember watching this at the time not even knowing who she was 😕
I LOVE your intro purple background
1:08:07 SAME 😭😭😭
55:08 nope. His watcher-base accumulated from the extra and dramatic character he displayed in his videos. Which he only began doing once he saw that it brought views in
react to "who tf did i marry" pleaseeeeeee + i love that you react to my favorite people (BTS and Stephanie)
avacadoo & avadodoo 😭😭
Omg! 😅😅😅 This time was weeiird.. 😅
I don't understand that people support this man, he literally destroyed his body. Couple of years ago i ran into his video's and i became sick..like real sick, an adult man that just eat, scold his bf and many others and CRIED THE WHOLE TIME...he is in my opinion not in his right mind, he let it become this far that one of his last video's i saw he was lying in bed with a breathing machine. And to know he was so healthy he didn't eat meat etc. Me visualizing him with the whole table/ bed full of Mc Do's. He was a normal boy once, the sugar got him anger issues, with babyish manners..he makes me so sick..his whole being is out of this world..he wants always stand in the center even though that he's not an interested person..
not me watching this again just to see your reaction because we're parasocial besties XD
2:06:48 nikocado avodoodoo is insane but very apt 😭😭
I am sorry but if vocado guy became bold? Pelón he would look like Peter Pettygrow (i think thats how is write) from harry potter
Wait can someone clarify for me - they say nick has a husband and that he went on a date with a random guy? Poly or shotgun wedding?
As a more recent fan of Stephanie, I stumbled across another UA-camr reacting to these videos and that's how I became so attached to Stephanie.
Cuz before I had subscribed to her but I wasn't 100% a fan since I also watch other channels. After I watched these videos, I couldn't help but feel so protective 😅
Especially because the last time someone tried guilt tripping me and pulled the victim card, I was just fed up with the behavior. Because I had set up boundaries, I wasn't the affectionate type even with my partner at the time and this person who I considered a friend crossed the line.
He wanted me to coddle him when he victimized himself. And like I did my best to show I cared but like I said I'm not really affectionate, I don't do coddling and I hate it when someone tries that on me (I need my space after all)
When he realized that I wasn't really coddling him and I asked him a question as to why he wants me to be a certain way, he got defensive. The details are fuzzy but I snapped and essentially told him he was an asshole who does have a support group but he pushes away the only people who genuinely care about him.
He blocked me so he won't ever read that but eh. He doesn't really scare me ever since I saw first hand that he's all bark no bite. He provokes others and then plays the victim. I admit, he got under my skin once I analyzed him after he blocked me but I suppress my emotions a lot.
Not only that but I did catch a glimpse of that side of him once while we were "friends." He tried to get me angry, failed (I have thick skin and just agreed with him, basically ignoring him because I needed my personal space to recharge my social battery a bit), got irritated when I was basically smiling politely at him, etc.
My therapist was incredibly proud of me for not stooping to his level. Honestly tho, I could never do what he did because 1) my elementary school self was never humbled so I might have a superiority complex when I'm angry (for context, I was smart for that age, I was shy, the teachers loved me and nobody really noticed me unless I was messing with them) 2) I didn't get my anger issues under control young in life for my efforts to go to waste and 3) I got better things to do with my life than start something.
Apologies for going off on a rant 😅 I just get so irritated when I see behavior that reminds me of that jerk.
Edit:
Another tiny detail to show why that guy's behavior didn't really slide with me:
I might be quiet and introverted but I have intense anxiety and anger issues. Like I'm incredibly stubborn and I keep my guard up at all times expecting the worst so if someone tries anything I'll be prepared to skadadle out of there with minimal damage.
I was raised to not trust anyone but my immediate family (my family has trust issues). Anyway, I also hate being controlled so the moment I sense someone is trying to control me, I close myself off and watch carefully so I can leave ASAP.
I do genuinely believe I'm bipolar. But if not, it's something else cuz I'm unhinged when I'm angry even if I don't show it. Like my thoughts are crazy 😂 My therapist gets worried sometimes 😅
I just remembered another thing that might clarify why I referred to him as a friend at the time. I was pretty much a loner (mostly because I'm an introvert and I don't think I'd be a great fit for most people) and I was trying to socialize more. He was the one who approached me, etc. My partner at the time met him (towards the end of the friendship) and my partner said something was off. I trusted my partner and basically said that I'd take it into consideration and see for myself if there's any red flags.
That's another reason why it was easier for me to y'know. I trusted my partner to support me if it went downhill and thankfully it didn't but I was lucky to have such a good partner for my first romantic relationship 😅
I'll shut up now unless anyone wants me to clarify anything
I used to like Nick before he got so popular when he was still a vegan. But when I saw him treat his own life partner is disgusting cuz Orlyn seems to be a kind person and he trashes him all the time. It turned me from liking him to dislike and more, the way he treated Steph is crossing boundaries. I feel for her cuz I've been in her situation before.
2:17:16 nah, weirdos like him can get all the hate bruh. 💀
Tbh we all had something we wanted to say abt this guy as soon as he showed up on the screen let's be real 🤡🤣🤣🤣
1:55:00 I just wanna let you know, this wasn't his content before the beef between him and big sis; he actually had a vegan channel gave up on it then he would eatt and talk about UA-cam drama and in a way it's like he picked a fight with the wrong one, they day Stephanie put out her follow up vid to prove her innocence and expose him he just descended into madness he actually was very fit and skinny and then he just lost his marbles
He was also a very talented violinist
Can someone explain whos veronica and the situation cause i dont know the whole story
it's so funny how his name was never pronounced correctly throughout the video 😂😂😂
niko avadoodoo 😂 2:06:46
I did not see the link for the original video. Can I get that, thanks~
husband mangooo
1:12:36 LMAOO
Hey I still like you and all and this Nick guy definitely deserves to be called out, but it’d be nice if it could be done without all the fat shaming. (I mean, his entire personality is right there.) You have fat people in the Tribe (me for one) who can hear that’s how you feel about them. Just made me a little sad, that’s all.
Aw I’m sorry I didn’t wanna make anyone other then him feel bad I love all my tribe members
@@tribeloui2023 Thank you, I do appreciate the apology. I’m unfortunately really used to comments like that by now, and wouldn’t have commented if I didn’t think you were the type of person who would be open to hearing it and maybe remembering it in the future too. 💜
Idgaf if nikocado lost the weight he lost i still hate the guy
I am first!! 😊😊
I know nothing about these people apart from watching a few videos from Stephanie about S Korea, which were well presented and researched.
But worryingly it feels like she prioritised her appearance on social media over her mental wellbeing and safety. That is screwed up. She DEFINITELY should have made a better excuse and walked out.
And just listening to this guy for 20 seconds is enough, and people actually WATCH this? Haven't you got anything better to do like watching paint dry?
You should watch boze's video on this. Stephanie is a people pleaser, not that she prioritised her appearance on media, that's her personality. People pleasers are exactly like her. Kind of insensitive comment