I suffer from anxiety and it's difficult to deal with people in general in India. Even my parents, they ain't much of help. I have to deal with it alone.
Every thing will be fine , I too have strict parents . But remember we are armys and no one messes with us , not even anxiety . BTS and I am here for you . I was in a same situation and You are not alone . Everything will be turn out fine . I purple you !
I know this comment is 1 year old. But if anyone saw this reply, just ignore all bullshit. Exactly 1 year ago , I was too suffering from anxiety, the best thing to do is get a gym subscription and start working out like beast. Mark my words , you will get rid of anxiety within a week or so ( I took 3 days for normal levels) . But yaa this the best thing anyone can do
Lol .... Due to this I ate machar wali agarbatti ko kill myself Ghar logon ne pata laga liya Aur rayta faeil gya Ab zinda hu aur abhi bhi comparison hota h
@@adityaubhad3262 I was his biggest fan Watched all his films chichore was the best 😭😭i still can't believe this Karan barwa ko sadak par la denge saale mdhrchd ki ek bhi film nhi chlne denge saari flop hongi 😠😠😠😠😠
I scored only 73% in my 12 th and i become very depressed ... no jee no neet i used to smoke a lot but one day i cried a😭😭 lot and stood infront of mirror and i shouted i will do what i was made to do now i am a self made entrepreneur I earn in lakhs by affiliate marketing and blogging bdw i am in 2nd year in BSC physics in a govt clg in my village in which 624 rs per semistar ...and my friends still repating neet for 2 to 3 years due to parents pressure thanks to my parents for supporting.❤️❤️❤️
I've been struggling with depression since my 10th grade due to academic pressure and realized my behaviour change since then. Although I was a very good student but because of my mental health issues I was struggling in 11th and 12th. Since then I have been with multiple psychiatrists and tried multiple anti-depressants & medications and struggled with their side effects. Now I am 24 had multiple relapses but still hopeful and continuing treatment. These 7 years have been hell of a ride 💥 and completely changed my outlook of life. 🌟
@@siddharthrajan24 Yaa I do need this. I don't know what's happening, but I am struggling alot, I am in 11th. I get nightmares of suicides, I don't know why. My friends are blaming me only. My parents are blaming me for my poor appetite, I lost my 22kgs of weight in 3 months. I can't sleep , sleeping only 3-4 hrs a day. I feel tired everyday.
@@siddharthrajan24 I have been councelled. I tried meditation, yoga. I used to watch calmer music to relax myself. But , nothing seems normal now , even yesterday, I don't why and how I got guts but I started thinking about doing suicide at 1 am . I never even dare to think such things , still this time I took a rope and I don't even what happened. I thought about my parents , and went to bed , but don't even know why I was doing that or was it a nightmare. I am completely terrified , what's happening right now. I have no normal breathing or heart rates .
Sad reality is every jee aspirant and engineering student now a days dealing with loniness and they feel alone , basically most of them are depressed due to parents. Issue , carrer , relationship , money issue or many things may be any type of insecurities, Mainly males because no one care about them ,
Who's asking u to be scientist it's not the education system it's your parents and society not the education system no department would come to u to be scientist doctors or engineer it's the money that attract
There's so much generation gap between us and our parents because the world itself has changed so much in the last 50 years. I feel this could also be a reason why our parents fail to understand how we feel. And yes technology plays a huge role in this. The more we discover online, the more we start feeling insecure about the way we are.
Same. Worst thing is that maine to syllabus bhi nhi khatm kiya...... daily 13hrs baithta hun padhne lekin bilkul mann nahi lagta...... still.... I'll keep on going
Hey, Actually I don't have any interest in engineering I took maths sci just because of family pressure they think I can't do anything there is no financial problem but I want to become independent and I am the girl child and I am sensitive that's why no one allow me to go out alone. One driver is always with me I don't go to parties and not have many friends I talk to my best friend but he also has many problems so I can't him my problem wesee hi itna pareshan hai woh They rold me to clear mains and get a Good college than only we can think I started my preparation from 12th and I started my preparation This is the first time jaha sabse zada mehenat ki hai maine 10-11 mahine bina ruke bina overthink karke bus lagi hui thi I got 95% in jee mains Jan And now my family want me to clear adv Bhaiya I don't have energy now Mujhe sab pata hai Kya karna Kesse karna Kitna karna Kab Karna Par ab himmat nhi hoti ! Aur woh abhi bhi bolte hai ki kiya kya hai tumne tum nalayak ho ! I don't know now what to do to prove myself They never ask me about my preparation my mental health they just ask - padhai kessi chal rae hai Agar mai kehe du ki theek hai tho its okay par agar main thoda sach bhi boldu They were like Dekhlo tum hum kya kare phir humse mat bolna abhi mehnat karlo phir sab theek ho jaega bahar SHYD jane mile Bhaiya I can't do this now ! Please help please !
Thoda sach mat bolo pura boldo Baad me dekho kya karte hain parents kyuki adha adhura bologe to nahi unko kuch samjhane wala hain nahi tum ko kuch fayeda hoga Wese parents khud itna pressure me hote hai to aap ka pressure nahi samjh pate
@@roylux206 Chhichhore jaisi movie super hit jane k baad bhi Sushant singh se 7 movie chhen li gyi jo usne sign ki thi Karne k liye💔💔😔😔 Aur Uppr se Y Lockdown, yhi sb mein depression mein chala gya hoga News mein bata rahe the arthik tangi b chal rahi thi usko, uppr 4.5lakh/ month k flat mein rah raha tha Aur abhi thode samay pahle karoro rupaye donate kiye the, Nagaland Flood relief, kerala flood relief mein💔 wahan k CM ne khud tweet kiya tha 😞😞 He was such a down to earth person 💔💔
Aapne hard work se bollywood me entry krne walo ko bollywood me jaldi izzat nhi di jaati..... Wo ek outsider th like as Akshay kumar ... ♥, Shahrukh khan.... Miss u sushant singh rajput..... 😔
I like the fact that everyone on internet talking about suicide..but your the one who is explaining with the fact and telling us how to overcome this.... thank you bro🙂👍
You've addressed this issue in such a nice way... But by the time people are aware of helping the one who needs help , they might just end up unaliving themselves
I am literally in tears while watching..I was thinking about this since 3 days but couldn't open up to myself or anybody..I simply feel like I'm not so strong enough to handle my anxiety..I literally have lost intrest in everything..and just try studying every day..I would always squish it under my heart and never talk about but it's growing day by day.. I will start my personal dairy again which I quit 2 years ago..thank you bhaiya.. you are always here when I need you..love you very much.
@@Healer_work I don't know myself if it's okay to write such comments..but then I feel, if I can't share it with anyone but there are some people here who can understand..then maybe I should open up..like a mental breakdown..I think letting it out may help it
@@Healer_workofc..I never really spoke about this to anyone ever..except for today..cuz I was already feeling dreadful and fight with my mom..I actually feel like writing him about how I feel..but when I see people who came out of this phase by themselves I feel little driven..then I shut down my thoughts. I don't think he has so much to time to read all the emails from thousands of students like us..I don't think he is liable but we have to learn to deal with it..cuz again the sun will rise tomorrow morning and I know there is no one to talk about this but just get back to your table and read.
I don't know you Shreya...but i want to say that i am sending lots and love and support to you. May be i can't fully understand what you are going through...but the only thing i know as a human being is to uplift another fellow himan being. I hope you know that you have immense value and i am going to pray for you whenever i pray for my family.(HOPE I DON'T SOUND CHEEKY HERE) love and support.
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Sushant had a great understanding about quantum physics ..he declares himself as "photon in a double slit". We lost a person with a great scientific approach towards life..
Somethings that I want my lovely friends to know about depression ..... 1. Depression and sadness are not the same. 2. It's not their choice. They can't control it. Stop asking them to react in a certain way. 3. Telling them to just try to be happy and positive is the same as telling an asthma patient to try to breathe more. 4. Medication can't do everything. They need someone to talk to. 5. Don't compare their sufferings to that of others. For example - " tere pas sab hai to tu depressed kyun hai. Use dekh, tere dukh uske dukh ke aas paas bhi nahi hai. Vo to nahi depressed hua." 6. Just because they laugh with you doesn't mean their depression is over. It takes time. 7. Depression doesn't see your age, proffesion, income, house, cars, luxury, family etc. It can happen to anyone. That's it. Apni family aur surroundings ka dhyan rakhna. Kya pata kal ko tumhari vajah se kisi ko nayi zindagi mil jaye. Jao ab phodo.
Sir to be honest in my village still gender equality and specially castism is a big issues..may be in big cities now it isn't..but in small towns and villages it still exists..
People like you are really needed for revamping the Indian education system . Even after 3 Idiots and Chichhorre , society aur log abhi bhi waise hi hai.
Was in same situation 6 month back , because ( just mention so that person going in this phase can relate or get empathy ) : 1. Low self esteem 2. Negligible hang out . 3. Average till now ( then). 4. Comparing ( dad used to scold me a lot , and eventually I got ton know it was my fault). 5. My hands use to shiver due to fear in tense situation . 6. Inferiority complex ( body ( man boobs and pot belly , personality ). 7. Thoughts of I have no talent , I am weak ,etc . And they gave solution ( actually it was present but I was unknown to them )to all -. Spirituality !
@@omaugustyasingh6835 According to me if anyone just observe his or her life with a bit of consciousness Then he or she will automatically know what is needed to be done
The main reasons why we get stressed and feel the constant pressure to perform well in exams like neet and jee is first, maybe the society but second, maybe we ourselves.. Hum toppers ko bhagwan bana dete hai.. and when we dont perform close to them, we feel like losers. They are excelling in the field they like that is academics and we wud excel in a field that we love, and thats fair. Plus there's no only one way of doing things, you can experiment and find what study method best suits you. And then compare ourselves with ourselves only.
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*Every life matters, no one is worthless, the universe wouldn't be in the exact same state as today had anyone been missing* - Butterfly Effect In depression you just see darkness and no light, and in ignorance it's all light and no darkness, reality is something in between, you do have to see both the good and the bad of this world but only when you're out of both the depression and the ignorance
Honestly saying I am feeling max things that are the symptoms of depression..... Now I am aware and I will definitely talk to my parents...... Thnku so much bhaiyya 😊
I am an MPC, IIT student who just completed 12th term 1(forced to take it due to the society expectations while i am an emotionally connected with art, music and literature). After 2 years of lockdown and then lifting it up suddenly when ever they want and telling us to come to school, when many of us were in different states during that time and we had to rush back. As soon as we go we are bombarded with practical exams, projects works, records, final exams, all kinds of exams like seriously. After my term 1 which was the most depressing experience for already a depressed, anxiety study i broke down but had to keep myself together to write the next exams. Immediately after that for term 2 we have to prepare simultaneously with Mains preparation digging up 11th syllabus exam and then practical's, records, projects...... We can't show it out cause in India depression, anxiety and other mental pressure is just a fantasy for the older generation, they need to know that society changes and people change, we don't have the same kind of syllabus and exam stress they had that time, this is new and an awareness on taking children's mental state seriously should be spread. Many students are opting for suicide like it their future career choice and the others just laugh and say "same lol" honestly i don't know how to handle that...... "It's all because of the internet" "It's all a phase" "Concentrate more on studies not on your selfish reason and excuses of mental state" these are the sentences heard most of the time. We have classes online from 8 to evening 6 continuously on the internet. This phase creates trauma as we grow up. Mental state, depression, anxiety , suicidal thoughts leave scars emotionally that can't be erased by studying more and more.
This indeed is a very serious issue that needs immediate attention. Now I know why I was feeling so low post jee for 2-3 months , all the negative thinking pattern comparison & anxiety made me feelingless . But I don't know when it got over, Accepting & months of self analysis,time with family may have worked ,but I am all fit & fine now. Watching this video I realised I've improved . My small efforts did make a change at the end.
Yes , take the association of right people & be hopeful always , God will do the needful, i am about to graduate from tier3 college but i have already secured admission in IIT Jodhpur by cracking Gate in 3rd year, Now aiming for top 4 IITs. Life will give mutiple opportunities but youll be able to take them only if you remain confident & dont let Jee make you badly judge yourself . Spiritual solutions work the best in these tough times. Please read bhagvat gita & connect with devotees All my Best wishes to you! Hare Krishna @@Nishu-p8p
Remain confident ,dont loose it for just one less achievement. You have achieved some things in past & surely will achive more in future. (I gave an advice , assuming you are in similar mental state as i was after jee, regardless be happy) @@Nishu-p8p
You ask us to talk freely with our parents....here I am even afraid to show this video to them....and I guess that, not only me but many like me are there....!!!
To all Sush fans! You know why he hanged himself? You really wanna know? . Not because of depression Not because of remembering his mother but because of loneliness and Unacceptance We Forgot who is sush after Chichhore Because we never gave a damn... Rip Sush and I hope we dont disappoint the Next time! Edit 1 - I didnt say he didnt gave a damn , I said we supporters never knew what was going on and we never give a damn. That's what lead him to suicide . Supported by Millions , Surrounded by none
@@nishantyadav7481 listen dumbo dont read and just believe in news and Social media? He cant suicide just for his mom .. if he missed his mom soo much .. he could have hanged himself earlier .. In real he was banned from all Production house . and He was treated like he was nobody .. pls first think wht ur commenting!
Aman bhaiya ..pls do more videos on mental health problems as it is a real genuine problem in all of us that not many Indian youtubers talk about it and that too in Hindi (so that it connects with us more) ..
Sir at the age of 16 mother's death Continuous struggling and facing discrimination in career as well in married life just because of some big egocentric people makes a rank holder weak
Bhaiya has played a very important role in my life: Helped me with the trauma of my fathers parallysis At the time when even i cannot afford mu food he is the only one who taught me tu phogega Aur mai phodega At this moment i take pride to sat sat naman to bhaiya and thank you for everythinh
Aman bhai also make contents for people who have already passed out and are starting out a lil late in life like someone who is 24-25 and starting out on how to comeback and make up for lost tym along with side hustle and life coaching advice for college students and fresh graduates.
@@NGodwill most of us are suffering from sleeping issues , lost interest in everything , laziness , lonely just bcoz of lockdown 😬😬 I too have very bad sleeping schedule and all the symptoms but I never think about sucide or to end my life 🤷 I am just happy or grateful for what I have .
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Bhaiya ap sahi mein bhot acha kaam kr rahe ho kyuki students next generation hain or ap unhe ITNE important Matter pr educate kr rahe ho .... Blki har school mein is baat pr constantly baat honi chahiye!!! Thank you bhaiya
even i was (or i guess am) in depression.. my friend asked me to watch chhichhore.. after watching the movie i was like.."galti saalo tumhari hai, bacha paida hua nhi ki shuru ho jate ho.. ki ache marks lao, ache college mejao, achi job lo, marks ache nhi aye toh future me kuch nhi hoga tumhara.. wth..arey itna pressure daloge toh kya khakh concentrate karega bacha, pressure badhega aur kuch nhi" coz the same thing happened with me, that pressure destroyed my life
Thank u bhaiya I would like to tell u one story : once there was a girl very talented intelligent curious mind ....had aspirations bigger than her reach ....she got molested twice by a family member ...she was only 15 yrs old ...she tried reaching her mother bt could not tell very clearly ...mother had load of many family members could not understand clearly....dat little girl stopped believing , became aggressive,rude, she didn't felt loved , an outsider a teen boy, like it happens in schooldays, liked her dey started talking and dat girl believed dat d boy loves her and did everything possible for him bt sooner d girls health started deteriorating ,she suffered from 2 major diseases( one of which she battled in a year and one she carries for the rest of her life an autoimmune disorder )and when she needed dat boy d most he left .The girl fell into depression in d course .....later aftr an year her two frnds helped her out by reaching her family....(now the real game wat everyone's talking about from 2 days - reach out ,talk blahh blah).... when her family came to knw dat she isn't doing well in studies not eating etc dey took her to a pschycatrists.... councelling statrted u know bhaiya wat dat doctor charged 3000 for every session + 1000 fees of d neurologist ....she took seven sessions 27k + medicine costs ..u can imagine...d girl started pretending everything is fine when she realised she is troubling her family due to herself and the sessions stopped ....sbko laga sab theek h .....till today the girl battles everyday every night and reaching out is not even an option ....coz no one really understands u knw ...not even d pschycatrists could who was a professional .... The girl went back to d same boy aftr two years becoz dat seeing dat boy made her actually happy and once again d boy left aftr getting troubled by her behaviour . Once again she starts it all over again fighting it all by herself in d hope one day all dis is gonna be over ,one day things will be normal for her also , one day she would actually feel happy rather than trying hard and pretending to be happy. This story has a message " Start living for ur own self, do things which make u happy ,and keep hustling ,one day we r gonna win dis battle of life " - dat helps
5:25 this literally impressed me Me:- Mom i got 85% Mom:-Topper k Kitne % h Me:- Ummh! 92% Mom:- Itne kmm kaise uske jaisa padda kr toh Me:-kya jarurat h duniya ko meri 😞
So I just wanted to share this. I hope of anyone could relate this. I study for 7-8 hrs a day with guilt if each day ki aur padhna hai yaar itne se kuch nhi hoga, I was in contact with all my friends a month back, but when people in my home saw me chatting with them, it was concluded that I'm wasting time, soon a time came, when I was talking to very close ones, just. Every day I made my schedule to study more and more, but no one saw my efforts, my results were improving somewhat, but everything anyone noticed was the time I wasted, how does it feel!? When you try to give in, so much, but no-one understands. Slowly I felt I give nothing to this family, as mostly all my siblings are great achievers and I'm an average student. And as of now, I'm not really talking to anyone, about anything.
I can relate so much it doesn't matter how much i study but no one ever notice and my siblings they're younger than me but they've been so good at anything ! But I'm a average person i don't know why . But this hurts a lot .
Plz make a video on "How to handle SEXUAL desire in student life". I think this a big problem in student life and most of us do not know how to handle or manage this.
Psychedelic’s definitely have potential to deal with mental health symptoms like anxiety and depression, I would like to try them again but it’s just so hard to source here
I battle from depression, anxiety and C-PTSD, for over 5 years now .I've heard shrooms cure depression. wish doctors were more open to natural medicine
I have been depressed for so many years but no one understands that it is a disease that needs treatment. People just laugh at you and ignore you and they say yar ye to pareshan hi rehta hai. Indians need to change their attitude towards depression. It is a normal disease that can happen to anyone just like diabetes or cancer. It is nothing to be ashamed of. It is great that you made a video about it.
I'd be more glad if you could post this video a year back. I was having all those symptoms. I had no friends to share things with. I'm not close to my parents either but fortunately, music and writing helped me a lot. I'm doing well now and I'm happier to see that finally, people are talking about this.
Ya.. But it has been disastrous for many others also.. Like domestic violence, animal violence have so much increased.. And yes, maybe sushant rajput must not have died if there would not be any lockdown...
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I have ocd... I have just been procrastinating for so long... After 11 days i have 12 board exam... Idk what would i do... I guess i would just try my best.. BTW your lectures are really helpful.. Really helping me. Thank you 🙏sir.
Aapne jo saare points bataye jaise lonely feel hona , sleep cycle disturb, low and useless feel hona symptoms hai mujhe par i don't think i am depressed i m just sad. AUR SABSE BADI PBM - I DON'T HAVE ANYBODY TO SHARE MY FEELINGS AUR PARENTS ITNE OPEN NHI HAI AGAR UNKO BOLA TO VO BOLOGE ENGINEERING ME MAN NAHI LAG RHA TUMHARA ISLIYE BAHANE HI MAAR RAHE HO .
Not in my case, mne apne parents se baat ki apne mental condition k baare me ,and they reply very friendly and i feel very relaxed after that .so kuch bhi condition ho apne parents se ya friends se jisse bhi baat kr sakte hi kro.qki apne depression ko dabana is not the solution
Thank you sir..all of your words are very motivational..👍😊 And i also agree on the topic that we must have to Spend time with nature..I love spending time with nature in the afternoon. And i want to tell you that i was depressed but now i Accept the Situation and completely moved on..again thank you very much sir.. A great fan..😊😀👍❤
It's just killing me inside, I start getting angry quickly, don't talk to people, feel like failure. can't talk to parents, They spend money so much on me .i don't know if I can handle it may be this life is not for me. Trying to get help where I can , I have no friends to talk , the look in my father's eye when I see in him I see myself as failure ,I am fighting alone and may be I am gonna loose 🙂
Hey bro, calm down. It's a phase. Trust me. I have been there, so many things not gone in my favour. We have to fight, not only for us but the people around us. Keep fighting..
@@Satyam54230 you don't have to be sad because you have chance to choose what you like, do what you want enjoy your life it's just phase not whole life .Give your best and you will be happy at the end. If life gonna be that easy what kinda life it is then,enjoy you time ,be with friends And choose your stream by your own not because of pressure 😊😊and you are in 10 enjoy and study 😄
These things are easier said than done because there have been times when i was low i tried to open up then i realised that people don't give a crap.. they have this notion that we should solve our mental problems ourselves..
1.bhaiya you said us to be free with our parents but mere Jaise bohot se bachahe even can't show your videos to them once I tried my mom said yeh bhi abhi young hai isliye aise bol Raha hai I said her ki Aman bhaiya bohot successful hai then also she is telling internet par tum yehi sab Dekhta hi hai phone Ka asar hai ki aaj parents ke against bol Raha hai my father understand brother sister as machine which will always works according to him like he say ki ek bachhe ko 10 hours padhna chaiye aur in extra time guest ki care karte raho like wo Kabhi bhi guest lakar aa jayege aur disturb karte even if I am studying humko uta bolenge ki baad me kya karte ho padh Lena if I told him about any problem like marks and all he is like tum logo ko Kitna facilities milta hai humre time Kuch nhi milta tha Mila hota to aaj IAS rehta I am a student who is away from parents since was in class 6 but Mai har ek ya do months me Ghar aata Hu but aate hi dimag Ka dahi ho jata hai coz of expectations and all 2.their are many friends of mine Jo sirf kahete ki depressed hai like all of them (all are not depressed we know)that is why parents thinks that it's just an excuse to prevent from scolding coz of marks Hope will understand Plz if possible reply . Peace✌️
Bro same happens with me..I'm tired of this now Just let it be..and get a good college first..fir Aman bhaiya ko karenge tho success tho kabhi apni honi h..aur bhaiya bhi tho yahi kehte h na..tc bro.
Congratulations on 2 million subscribers......you deserve so much than this ....... all the best bhaiya for upcoming 5 million then 10 million and then 25 million From Maharashtra 😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘
If we tell parents about depression, they'll advise you to change diet, get up early , exercise, and all those things which are given on Google. But what they don't realise is sometimes things are beyond that. Not everyone is the same. Sometimes all we need is someone to listen our thoughts, emotions . And Yeah sometimes we need to go to a dimaag ka doctor for that. Having emotional problems is not equal to pagalpan or being weak.
Even if student somehow become courageous and open up to their parents, indian parents will start making mockery of them and scold them assuming that it must be their kid's fault. Indiam parents never believes their child and it is already assumed that their kids are wrong
I have the same feeling..from the past few weeks , i am feeling very low and when my parents see me in this situation they just be like...'ae her drama started again'. I dont know what to do now. No ones there to whom i could share my feelings😢😔
18:06 I used to do this in the early morning and these 30 mins were one of the best 30 mins. of the whole day. It not only makes me motivated but also fills up with energy.....I'll recommend this to everyone
Thank you so much sir for this session...honestly I'm telling you that before viewing this video perhaps after some months I'll face depression....but now after watching this video many doubts are clear now...& now I get this point how to face it 🙂😇.....thanq so much sir 🙌
Why no one is talking about Meditation. This technique is a gift given by our Indian ansistor. There are so many benefits of this like reduces stress, controls anxiety, emotional health,and many more. And mediation completely close the gate for depression to enter our head. So whoever reading this comment and they think they are depressed just try mediation for 5-10min for few weeks ,and you will see real change. I also think that this should be added in every school curriculum. I think schools should add yoga and meditation in place of those wasteful prayers.
RIP Sushant Singh Rajput
Such a talented and charming actor.
May God give strength to his family.
Aman bhaiya you are best
Aman sir u r best
Very sad...
Really he was very talented actor. RIP to him ...
Rest in paradize Sushant ❤️
I suffer from anxiety and it's difficult to deal with people in general in India. Even my parents, they ain't much of help. I have to deal with it alone.
Every thing will be fine , I too have strict parents . But remember we are armys and no one messes with us , not even anxiety . BTS and I am here for you . I was in a same situation and You are not alone . Everything will be turn out fine . I purple you !
Sa!me
Same 😔
@@nehalgohit1067 ya you are right but bts increase anxiety lol
I know this comment is 1 year old. But if anyone saw this reply, just ignore all bullshit. Exactly 1 year ago , I was too suffering from anxiety, the best thing to do is get a gym subscription and start working out like beast. Mark my words , you will get rid of anxiety within a week or so ( I took 3 days for normal levels) . But yaa this the best thing anyone can do
Nobody better knows about depression except sufferers...🤝❤️
Real fact🌟🔥:)
Yes really
I have dipression reason family background poor😭
Sahi kaha😢
First parents make you depress. .. and then they won't believe that the life they gave us will make us depressed .....
@@shubham_goyal_1088pakka try karunga bhai
😢😢😢😢
Right pehle Khud depression me daldo phir tane do😭😭😭😭
I never felt depressed but it always hurts whenever my family compares me with some else's abilities...I wish maybe some day they will stop it😔
Lol .... Due to this
I ate machar wali agarbatti ko kill myself
Ghar logon ne pata laga liya
Aur rayta faeil gya
Ab zinda hu aur abhi bhi comparison hota h
@@RahulSahu-gx7ej😱😱😱
@@RahulSahu-gx7ej 😭
Just avoid their comparison words...
It's simply because they feel you aren't resourceful, I wife kept on saying tose kinds of wrods because I was broke at a point in my life
The man who told the untold story has left his own story untold 😔😔
True though
Really
Dil pe lagi hai yaar Dil pe😭😭😭
@@adityaubhad3262 I was his biggest fan
Watched all his films chichore was the best 😭😭i still can't believe this
Karan barwa ko sadak par la denge saale mdhrchd ki ek bhi film nhi chlne denge saari flop hongi 😠😠😠😠😠
@@avmcian8719 *AB BADLA LENGE* 🤬🤬🤬
I scored only 73% in my 12 th
and i become very depressed ...
no jee no neet
i used to smoke a lot
but one day i cried a😭😭 lot and stood infront of mirror and i shouted i will do what i was made to do
now i am a self made entrepreneur
I earn in lakhs by affiliate marketing and blogging
bdw i am in 2nd year in BSC physics in a govt clg in my village in which 624 rs per semistar
...and my friends still repating neet for 2 to 3 years due to parents pressure
thanks to my parents for supporting.❤️❤️❤️
Well done. Ur friends preparing for neet, aspiring to be a doctor, can't even cure their own mindset...
Happy for you bro
How you are incoming from affiliating marketing ...would you like to share it??
u r lucky that u r parents supported u
baut bda bkcod ha tu
I've been struggling with depression since my 10th grade due to academic pressure and realized my behaviour change since then. Although I was a very good student but because of my mental health issues I was struggling in 11th and 12th.
Since then I have been with multiple psychiatrists and tried multiple anti-depressants & medications and struggled with their side effects. Now I am 24 had multiple relapses but still hopeful and continuing treatment. These 7 years have been hell of a ride 💥 and completely changed my outlook of life. 🌟
Can i talk to u pls sir.. I need some guidance....
@@siddharthrajan24
Yaa I do need this. I don't know what's happening, but I am struggling alot, I am in 11th. I get nightmares of suicides, I don't know why. My friends are blaming me only. My parents are blaming me for my poor appetite, I lost my 22kgs of weight in 3 months. I can't sleep , sleeping only 3-4 hrs a day. I feel tired everyday.
@@alakarai1438 this is anxiety and depression... Have u checked with a doctor??
@ surya saini, can you reply back please....
@@siddharthrajan24
I have been councelled. I tried meditation, yoga. I used to watch calmer music to relax myself. But , nothing seems normal now , even yesterday, I don't why and how I got guts but I started thinking about doing suicide at 1 am . I never even dare to think such things , still this time I took a rope and I don't even what happened. I thought about my parents , and went to bed , but don't even know why I was doing that or was it a nightmare. I am completely terrified , what's happening right now. I have no normal breathing or heart rates .
Sad reality is every jee aspirant and engineering student now a days dealing with loniness and they feel alone , basically most of them are depressed due to parents. Issue , carrer , relationship , money issue or many things may be any type of insecurities,
Mainly males because no one care about them ,
Aur uske baad exam na nikalna
👍👍
True. The pressure on men are enormous too, but nobody seems to give a fuck.
It's so true
It's not see the real motivation Aman Dhattarwal😀
he is not 2nd sandeep maheshwari
he is 1st aman dhattarwal
Yaaaa
Both are amazing 😉
Very correct bro 👏👏👍
right
WoW bhai itni mast line likhi😄
👌🏻👌🏻
The symtems you've mentioned, I think we all have these systems💔
me too 80%
Symptoms
Yes. But trust me everything will be alright. Keep faith
Realised I have all the symptoms :’)
You good man, wanna talk?
@@m1tulesque well he probably didn't see lol
RIP
@@Anonymous-lw4nq thanks
Dhyan rakho apna
Our education system must change
*Not everyone can become a scientist*
Engineer and doctors too
Mumkin nahi bro
i'm allowed to choose whatever i want but i still feel sad idk why
@@peng9940 same bro...it because of low self esteem and fear and self doubt
Who's asking u to be scientist it's not the education system it's your parents and society not the education system no department would come to u to be scientist doctors or engineer it's the money that attract
Congrats for 2M bhaiya
He cannot do suicide
It's unbelievable 😞😞😞
One who have 10 million
Then how he can ??
Bhai jab overthinking Hoti hai to Kuch me nhi ata
I am depressed, and this video honestly helped me a lot, thank you so much!
There's so much generation gap between us and our parents because the world itself has changed so much in the last 50 years. I feel this could also be a reason why our parents fail to understand how we feel. And yes technology plays a huge role in this. The more we discover online, the more we start feeling insecure about the way we are.
*TANISHQ DHATTARWAL IS SO LUCKY THAT HE HAS SUCH A GOOD BROTHER 🥰🥰🥰🤩🤩🤩*
Exactly
you have the same bro...but the thing is you can't recognise him/her/them.cheers ✌🏿
@@krishnapandey4781 yes you're right👍
Your brother can be lucky too
Bhai usse pucho tub PTA chalega... intelligent aur legend Longo ke brother sister toh kya cousins b khush nhi rhte expectations ke Karan 😂😁😀😀...
Me having all the symptoms and having 12th boards and JEE in 2 months : "I am in Danger"
Same. Worst thing is that maine to syllabus bhi nhi khatm kiya...... daily 13hrs baithta hun padhne lekin bilkul mann nahi lagta...... still.... I'll keep on going
Same😢😢😢
Same
Same broooooo
No bro
This Video Just Saved My Life Today 🙂.
I was tired of having suicidal thoughts
Same 🥲
Same
Please Don't!
Please!
Advice from a random stranger
But don't!
We live in a society where we can share our heavy feelings,emotions and pain stored inside us to our friends but not to our parents😊💔
Sometimes I also feel being an girl born in India death is better than being born to Indian parents.
Hey,
Actually I don't have any interest in engineering I took maths sci just because of family pressure they think I can't do anything there is no financial problem but I want to become independent and I am the girl child and I am sensitive that's why no one allow me to go out alone. One driver is always with me I don't go to parties and not have many friends I talk to my best friend but he also has many problems so I can't him my problem wesee hi itna pareshan hai woh
They rold me to clear mains and get a Good college than only we can think I started my preparation from 12th and I started my preparation
This is the first time jaha sabse zada mehenat ki hai maine 10-11 mahine bina ruke bina overthink karke bus lagi hui thi
I got 95% in jee mains Jan
And now my family want me to clear adv
Bhaiya I don't have energy now
Mujhe sab pata hai
Kya karna
Kesse karna
Kitna karna
Kab Karna
Par ab himmat nhi hoti !
Aur woh abhi bhi bolte hai ki kiya kya hai tumne tum nalayak ho !
I don't know now what to do to prove myself
They never ask me about my preparation my mental health they just ask - padhai kessi chal rae hai
Agar mai kehe du ki theek hai tho its okay par agar main thoda sach bhi boldu
They were like
Dekhlo tum hum kya kare phir humse mat bolna abhi mehnat karlo phir sab theek ho jaega bahar SHYD jane mile
Bhaiya I can't do this now ! Please help please !
You are not alone bro even I had same problems
Thoda sach mat bolo pura boldo
Baad me dekho kya karte hain parents kyuki adha adhura bologe to nahi unko kuch samjhane wala hain nahi tum ko kuch fayeda hoga
Wese parents khud itna pressure me hote hai to aap ka pressure nahi samjh pate
nahi degA
@@rugvedjoshi1505 kya nahi dega wo kya bol rahi hai tu kya samjha raha hain
सीख ली जिसने अदा गम में मुस्कुराने की, उसे क्या मिटायेंगी गर्दिशे जमाने की…..
Sushant was murdered by the cruel film industry .He never get acknowledgement for his movies. He was self made😪😪
How do u know that he was murdered not suicide
@@roylux206 Chhichhore jaisi movie super hit jane k baad bhi Sushant singh se 7 movie chhen li gyi jo usne sign ki thi Karne k liye💔💔😔😔
Aur Uppr se Y Lockdown, yhi sb mein depression mein chala gya hoga
News mein bata rahe the arthik tangi b chal rahi thi usko, uppr 4.5lakh/ month k flat mein rah raha tha
Aur abhi thode samay pahle karoro rupaye donate kiye the, Nagaland Flood relief, kerala flood relief mein💔 wahan k CM ne khud tweet kiya tha 😞😞
He was such a down to earth person 💔💔
@@rishabh7861 ekdum sahi bola bhai...me tere comment se sehmat hu is duniya me koi ho ya na ho me tere saath hoon☺️🔥
Bhai....amir Khan ne to AWARDS mein jaana hi chod dia hai...unhone khud bola tha...ye sab baised he kuch UA-camrs ki Farah...!!!
Aapne hard work se bollywood me entry krne walo ko bollywood me jaldi izzat nhi di jaati..... Wo ek outsider th like as Akshay kumar ... ♥, Shahrukh khan.... Miss u sushant singh rajput..... 😔
I like the fact that everyone on internet talking about suicide..but your the one who is explaining with the fact and telling us how to overcome this.... thank you bro🙂👍
You've addressed this issue in such a nice way... But by the time people are aware of helping the one who needs help , they might just end up unaliving themselves
I am literally in tears while watching..I was thinking about this since 3 days but couldn't open up to myself or anybody..I simply feel like I'm not so strong enough to handle my anxiety..I literally have lost intrest in everything..and just try studying every day..I would always squish it under my heart and never talk about but it's growing day by day..
I will start my personal dairy again which I quit 2 years ago..thank you bhaiya..
you are always here when I need you..love you very much.
@@Healer_work I don't know myself if it's okay to write such comments..but then I feel, if I can't share it with anyone but there are some people here who can understand..then maybe I should open up..like a mental breakdown..I think letting it out may help it
@@Healer_workofc..I never really spoke about this to anyone ever..except for today..cuz I was already feeling dreadful and fight with my mom..I actually feel like writing him about how I feel..but when I see people who came out of this phase by themselves I feel little driven..then I shut down my thoughts. I don't think he has so much to time to read all the emails from thousands of students like us..I don't think he is liable but we have to learn to deal with it..cuz again the sun will rise tomorrow morning and I know there is no one to talk about this but just get back to your table and read.
I don't know you Shreya...but i want to say that i am sending lots and love and support to you. May be i can't fully understand what you are going through...but the only thing i know as a human being is to uplift another fellow himan being. I hope you know that you have immense value and i am going to pray for you whenever i pray for my family.(HOPE I DON'T SOUND CHEEKY HERE) love and support.
@@roopikasharma5795 ❤️❤️❤️❤️thanks for all the kind words..I wish there were more people like you..thank you and sending virtual hugs..
all the students who are struggling to find a system in their lives and are not able to studg come and checkout this channel i am also on same mission with myself
Channel name:- ARYAN KI SOCH
sushant was AIR 7 AIEEE genious mind full of talent we have lost something big RIP
DCEEE*
Stop making fake news AIR 7 BADA aaya Maine hsmare physics teacher ne bataya ye totally wrong ha
@@timesaver5754 Go and just check your facts on google, he really got Rank 7 in AIEEE, He is from my college.
He got 7th rank in DCE , "NOT" in AIEEE
@@timesaver5754 Abey chup reh chutiye Tera aur Tera sir dono chutiye
Sushant had a great understanding about quantum physics ..he declares himself as "photon in a double slit". We lost a person with a great scientific approach towards life..
If he had spiritual approach, he wouldn't have hung.
RIP SIR
He was very good in academics... He also got AIR 7th rank in AIEEE
@@What-is-Mind Spritual knowledge apko normal bana dega comparison se dur ho jaoge
@@What-is-Mind ye mai apko bol ke nahi samjha sakta, ap khud samjh jaoge time par
@@What-is-Mind I think ap interested ho spiritual knowledge me.
Aman bhai apne tho bohot sahi kaha yar. Everyone needs a brother, friend, teacher like you jo itna teek taak samjatha hai😊
Somethings that I want my lovely friends to know about depression .....
1. Depression and sadness are not the same.
2. It's not their choice. They can't control it. Stop asking them to react in a certain way.
3. Telling them to just try to be happy and positive is the same as telling an asthma patient to try to breathe more.
4. Medication can't do everything. They need someone to talk to.
5. Don't compare their sufferings to that of others. For example - " tere pas sab hai to tu depressed kyun hai. Use dekh, tere dukh uske dukh ke aas paas bhi nahi hai. Vo to nahi depressed hua."
6. Just because they laugh with you doesn't mean their depression is over. It takes time.
7. Depression doesn't see your age, proffesion, income, house, cars, luxury, family etc. It can happen to anyone.
That's it.
Apni family aur surroundings ka dhyan rakhna. Kya pata kal ko tumhari vajah se kisi ko nayi zindagi mil jaye.
Jao ab phodo.
True .......
Well said
Thanks 🙏
Sahi baat bc
I think u r subscriber of Shobhi nirwan...
Am I right.😅
Nobody and I say NOBODY is useless in this goddamn world!
No No No. EVERYBODY is useless. So, you shouldnot commit suicide because everybody is as useless as you.
I need kamwali , come home tommorow
@@0xrpj Haha! Getting your pun and you can say so like "NOBODY IS SPECIAL IN THIS WORLD!"
Karan jouhar Ka naam suna hai?
@@truegamer3164 Thanks but no thanks! And if you think that the word "kamwali" can be used as a disgrace then my friend you are WRONG!
Sir to be honest in my village still gender equality and specially castism is a big issues..may be in big cities now it isn't..but in small towns and villages it still exists..
It still exists in cities also
One thing also exist...class system...high class, middle class and low class
It exists in my town also...but I always ignore it and treat everyone as my friend and senior one..
In harsh forms
political parties will not let the castism end it is very good for them
People like you are really needed for revamping the Indian education system . Even after 3 Idiots and Chichhorre , society aur log abhi bhi waise hi hai.
Was in same situation 6 month back , because ( just mention so that person going in this phase can relate or get empathy ) :
1. Low self esteem
2. Negligible hang out .
3. Average till now ( then).
4. Comparing ( dad used to scold me a lot , and eventually I got ton know it was my fault).
5. My hands use to shiver due to fear in tense situation .
6. Inferiority complex ( body ( man boobs and pot belly , personality ).
7. Thoughts of I have no talent , I am weak ,etc .
And they gave solution ( actually it was present but I was unknown to them )to all -. Spirituality !
Bhaiya plz kuch video CARRER COUNSELING pe:--
1. How to find your interest in life
2. How to choose ideal career in life
🙏
Just want to tell you one thing
That there is no such thing as ideal career
@@machaeljack1070 okay atleast a video related to career counseling is worth watching I guess
@@omaugustyasingh6835 I don't think that anyone in this world can tell you what is right or wrong for you
@@omaugustyasingh6835 According to me if anyone just observe his or her life with a bit of consciousness
Then he or she will automatically know what is needed to be done
You, Dhruv, and many other educational creators are such a resource to the youth of this country.
I have seen this guy growing from 2k to .....2M and now I know what it takes🧡🧡🧡
The main reasons why we get stressed and feel the constant pressure to perform well in exams like neet and jee is first, maybe the society but second, maybe we ourselves.. Hum toppers ko bhagwan bana dete hai.. and when we dont perform close to them, we feel like losers. They are excelling in the field they like that is academics and we wud excel in a field that we love, and thats fair. Plus there's no only one way of doing things, you can experiment and find what study method best suits you. And then compare ourselves with ourselves only.
Exactly 😓
all the students who are struggling to find a system in their lives and are not able to studg come and checkout this channel i am also on same mission with myself
Channel name:- ARYAN KI SOCH
Fr
speaker at iit's nit's and iiit's
got highest package in india
top iit jee online educator
strategy
motivation
dream big
do it
now!!
tu phodega!!
1 crore
Aman Bhaiya no
@@copycat7030 really?
@@copycat7030 1.52 crore hai bhaiya ka package, 1crore nhi hai...bhaiya ne hi btaya tha unacademy pr ek baar
@@ujjwalmaheshwari72 sahi bola
You're the only deserving person for this 2M I've ever seen in my life!! ❤️💫 Thanks alot for each and every knowledge you provided to us!🙏❤️
I cried watching this video when you were talking about parents
And I don't know why??
@@existence... Yes they are unable to understand their children but they love them so much..........
Kakashi Sensei : The Most Depressed Character 💔
😢😢😢😢
*Every life matters, no one is worthless, the universe wouldn't be in the exact same state as today had anyone been missing* - Butterfly Effect
In depression you just see darkness and no light, and in ignorance it's all light and no darkness, reality is something in between, you do have to see both the good and the bad of this world but only when you're out of both the depression and the ignorance
OP Thinking Bro Salute To You 🙏🙏
this hit different
Well said
You're right... Good job bro
Honestly saying I am feeling max things that are the symptoms of depression..... Now I am aware and I will definitely talk to my parents...... Thnku so much bhaiyya 😊
In my school there was a psychology teacher Anita mam.... She really helped lot of us 🙏🏼🙏🏼
I am an MPC, IIT student who just completed 12th term 1(forced to take it due to the society expectations while i am an emotionally connected with art, music and literature). After 2 years of lockdown and then lifting it up suddenly when ever they want and telling us to come to school, when many of us were in different states during that time and we had to rush back. As soon as we go we are bombarded with practical exams, projects works, records, final exams, all kinds of exams like seriously. After my term 1 which was the most depressing experience for already a depressed, anxiety study i broke down but had to keep myself together to write the next exams. Immediately after that for term 2 we have to prepare simultaneously with Mains preparation digging up 11th syllabus exam and then practical's, records, projects......
We can't show it out cause in India depression, anxiety and other mental pressure is just a fantasy for the older generation, they need to know that society changes and people change, we don't have the same kind of syllabus and exam stress they had that time, this is new and an awareness on taking children's mental state seriously should be spread.
Many students are opting for suicide like it their future career choice and the others just laugh and say "same lol" honestly i don't know how to handle that......
"It's all because of the internet" "It's all a phase" "Concentrate more on studies not on your selfish reason and excuses of mental state" these are the sentences heard most of the time.
We have classes online from 8 to evening 6 continuously on the internet.
This phase creates trauma as we grow up.
Mental state, depression, anxiety , suicidal thoughts leave scars emotionally that can't be erased by studying more and more.
As a fellow 12th grader I absolutely agree
This indeed is a very serious issue that needs immediate attention.
Now I know why I was feeling so low post jee for 2-3 months , all the negative thinking pattern comparison & anxiety made me feelingless . But I don't know when it got over, Accepting & months of self analysis,time with family may have worked ,but I am all fit & fine now. Watching this video I realised I've improved . My small efforts did make a change at the end.
are you ok now ?
Yes , take the association of right people & be hopeful always , God will do the needful, i am about to graduate from tier3 college but i have already secured admission in IIT Jodhpur by cracking Gate in 3rd year, Now aiming for top 4 IITs. Life will give mutiple opportunities but youll be able to take them only if you remain confident & dont let Jee make you badly judge yourself . Spiritual solutions work the best in these tough times. Please read bhagvat gita & connect with devotees All my Best wishes to you! Hare Krishna @@Nishu-p8p
Remain confident ,dont loose it for just one less achievement. You have achieved some things in past & surely will achive more in future. (I gave an advice , assuming you are in similar mental state as i was after jee, regardless be happy) @@Nishu-p8p
You ask us to talk freely with our parents....here I am even afraid to show this video to them....and I guess that, not only me but many like me are there....!!!
Ya me too
Yes u r correct
100%%%%
100% True!
It feels that just can't do anything about it and that's the worst feeling 😔
Same guy
To all Sush fans!
You know why he hanged himself?
You really wanna know?
.
Not because of depression
Not because of remembering his mother
but because of loneliness and Unacceptance
We Forgot who is sush after Chichhore
Because we never gave a damn...
Rip Sush and I hope we dont disappoint the Next time!
Edit 1 - I didnt say he didnt gave a damn , I said we supporters never knew what was going on and we never give a damn. That's what lead him to suicide . Supported by Millions , Surrounded by none
Why Nishant ? He is very true
@@nishantyadav7481 bhai yehi sab useless hate is the reason of depression 🤦🏻♂️
@@nishantyadav7481 listen dumbo dont read and just believe in news and Social media? He cant suicide just for his mom .. if he missed his mom soo much .. he could have hanged himself earlier .. In real he was banned from all Production house . and He was treated like he was nobody .. pls first think wht ur commenting!
@@nishantyadav7481 Bhai nishant pagal ho kya? maine bola ki hum supporters ne Unhe ek tareke se bholaa diya...
lol, bhai ye kya reason hua?
Aman bhaiya ..pls do more videos on mental health problems as it is a real genuine problem in all of us that not many Indian youtubers talk about it and that too in Hindi (so that it connects with us more) ..
Sir at the age of 16 mother's death
Continuous struggling and facing discrimination in career as well in married life just because of some big egocentric people makes a rank holder weak
Never be in such loud places that you can't hear your own thoughts
Bhaiya has played a very important role in my life:
Helped me with the trauma of my fathers parallysis
At the time when even i cannot afford mu food he is the only one who taught me tu phogega
Aur mai phodega
At this moment i take pride to sat sat naman to bhaiya and thank you for everythinh
Aman bhai also make contents for people who have already passed out and are starting out a lil late in life like someone who is 24-25 and starting out on how to comeback and make up for lost tym along with side hustle and life coaching advice for college students and fresh graduates.
Cuz lost time is most depressing..
Having all the symptoms in myself but still I feel like I am happy in my life .🙄
Same here bro
@@NGodwill most of us are suffering from sleeping issues , lost interest in everything , laziness , lonely just bcoz of lockdown 😬😬 I too have very bad sleeping schedule and all the symptoms but I never think about sucide or to end my life 🤷 I am just happy or grateful for what I have .
@@shubhamgawade2219 don't worry dude ... Everything will be okay after this lock down when we back to our daily routine . 😉
@@deeptikumari1877 I am in even more bad situation
Me too
i have experienced all 6 symptoms of depression till age of 17 only....(💯truth)
@Himanshu only because of my family 👪
Same.
How are you bro?
Same
I will again start writing poems
Best of luck buddy...
Good 👍bro
All the best
all the students who are struggling to find a system in their lives and are not able to studg come and checkout this channel i am also on same mission with myself
good job bro, Do whatever you feels good
Ya all d best of luck 🤘 bro
Bhaiya ap sahi mein bhot acha kaam kr rahe ho kyuki students next generation hain or ap unhe ITNE important Matter pr educate kr rahe ho .... Blki har school mein is baat pr constantly baat honi chahiye!!! Thank you bhaiya
even i was (or i guess am) in depression.. my friend asked me to watch chhichhore.. after watching the movie i was like.."galti saalo tumhari hai, bacha paida hua nhi ki shuru ho jate ho.. ki ache marks lao, ache college mejao, achi job lo, marks ache nhi aye toh future me kuch nhi hoga tumhara.. wth..arey itna pressure daloge toh kya khakh concentrate karega bacha, pressure badhega aur kuch nhi"
coz the same thing happened with me, that pressure destroyed my life
Thank u bhaiya
I would like to tell u one story : once there was a girl very talented intelligent curious mind ....had aspirations bigger than her reach ....she got molested twice by a family member ...she was only 15 yrs old ...she tried reaching her mother bt could not tell very clearly ...mother had load of many family members could not understand clearly....dat little girl stopped believing , became aggressive,rude, she didn't felt loved , an outsider a teen boy, like it happens in schooldays, liked her dey started talking and dat girl believed dat d boy loves her and did everything possible for him bt sooner d girls health started deteriorating ,she suffered from 2 major diseases( one of which she battled in a year and one she carries for the rest of her life an autoimmune disorder )and when she needed dat boy d most he left .The girl fell into depression in d course .....later aftr an year her two frnds helped her out by reaching her family....(now the real game wat everyone's talking about from 2 days - reach out ,talk blahh blah).... when her family came to knw dat she isn't doing well in studies not eating etc dey took her to a pschycatrists.... councelling statrted u know bhaiya wat dat doctor charged 3000 for every session + 1000 fees of d neurologist ....she took seven sessions 27k + medicine costs ..u can imagine...d girl started pretending everything is fine when she realised she is troubling her family due to herself and the sessions stopped ....sbko laga sab theek h .....till today the girl battles everyday every night and reaching out is not even an option ....coz no one really understands u knw ...not even d pschycatrists could who was a professional .... The girl went back to d same boy aftr two years becoz dat seeing dat boy made her actually happy and once again d boy left aftr getting troubled by her behaviour . Once again she starts it all over again fighting it all by herself in d hope one day all dis is gonna be over ,one day things will be normal for her also , one day she would actually feel happy rather than trying hard and pretending to be happy.
This story has a message " Start living for ur own self, do things which make u happy ,and keep hustling ,one day we r gonna win dis battle of life " - dat helps
@h first 😂
@h first 😂😂
@h first 😂
Someone please show that girl anime any anime of slice of life.
I'm really about what you had to go through
5:25 this literally impressed me
Me:- Mom i got 85%
Mom:-Topper k Kitne % h
Me:- Ummh! 92%
Mom:- Itne kmm kaise uske jaisa padda kr toh
Me:-kya jarurat h duniya ko meri 😞
Bhai pubg lite kam khel le to tu topper ban jayega 😂🤣
Oh bhai
Sahi h
Sab ki same halat hai bhai
Sed bro
@@aditshah2662 bhai vo toh bss 2 hours khelta hu
You are Really Changing the World🙏
So I just wanted to share this. I hope of anyone could relate this.
I study for 7-8 hrs a day with guilt if each day ki aur padhna hai yaar itne se kuch nhi hoga, I was in contact with all my friends a month back, but when people in my home saw me chatting with them, it was concluded that I'm wasting time, soon a time came, when I was talking to very close ones, just. Every day I made my schedule to study more and more, but no one saw my efforts, my results were improving somewhat, but everything anyone noticed was the time I wasted, how does it feel!? When you try to give in, so much, but no-one understands. Slowly I felt I give nothing to this family, as mostly all my siblings are great achievers and I'm an average student. And as of now, I'm not really talking to anyone, about anything.
I feel you brotha!
I are very relatable to me
I can relate so much it doesn't matter how much i study but no one ever notice and my siblings they're younger than me but they've been so good at anything ! But I'm a average person i don't know why . But this hurts a lot .
Exactly....... Well said Bhaiya ♥♥People need to understand Difference between Depression nd their mood swing!!!!!!! 😶😶
14:41 best dialogue of the video. bhaisahab maza aa gya! "placement ko chor, agar tereme dam hoga na, kal ko tu khud placement dega."
Parents vali baat bilkul true hai yrr.. parents zarurat se zyda expect krlete hai yrr...fr hum unse vo share ni kr paate jo hum actually chahte hai😕
Old is gold:
Khushiyan baatne se badhti hai,
Gam baatne se kam hota hai 🙃
Plz make a video on "How to handle SEXUAL desire in student life". I think this a big problem in student life and most of us do not know how to handle or manage this.
Wrong boy or girl karke thoda related hai
Muth mar ke soja bhai😂😂
Psychedelic’s definitely have potential to deal with mental health symptoms like anxiety and depression, I would like to try them again but it’s just so hard to source here
I battle from depression, anxiety and C-PTSD, for over 5 years now .I've heard shrooms cure depression. wish doctors were more open to natural medicine
I've been having this constant, unbearable anxiety because of university stress..not until I met Myco_louiis.. he really helped me
I have been depressed for so many years but no one understands that it is a disease that needs treatment. People just laugh at you and ignore you and they say yar ye to pareshan hi rehta hai. Indians need to change their attitude towards depression. It is a normal disease that can happen to anyone just like diabetes or cancer. It is nothing to be ashamed of. It is great that you made a video about it.
I'd be more glad if you could post this video a year back. I was having all those symptoms. I had no friends to share things with. I'm not close to my parents either but fortunately, music and writing helped me a lot. I'm doing well now and I'm happier to see that finally, people are talking about this.
lockdown has been beneficial for many of the youtubers.
Ya.. But it has been disastrous for many others also.. Like domestic violence, animal violence have so much increased.. And yes, maybe sushant rajput must not have died if there would not be any lockdown...
Rightly said
But they are getting very less after rates
all the students who are struggling to find a system in their lives and are not able to studg come and checkout this channel i am also on same mission with myself
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I have ocd... I have just been procrastinating for so long... After 11 days i have 12 board exam... Idk what would i do... I guess i would just try my best.. BTW your lectures are really helpful.. Really helping me. Thank you 🙏sir.
same situation 😭😭😭pls share your telegram account
Great work buddy. Society need more individuals like you. I hope you will be able to reform the thought process of millions.
Congratulations for 2 MILLION BHAIYA❣MANY MORE TO GO 😌🌸
Aapne jo saare points bataye jaise lonely feel hona , sleep cycle disturb, low and useless feel hona symptoms hai mujhe par i don't think i am depressed i m just sad. AUR SABSE BADI PBM - I DON'T HAVE ANYBODY TO SHARE MY FEELINGS AUR PARENTS ITNE OPEN NHI HAI AGAR UNKO BOLA TO VO BOLOGE ENGINEERING ME MAN NAHI LAG RHA TUMHARA ISLIYE BAHANE HI MAAR RAHE HO .
Time will heal everything bro. Don't worry.
Bhai kuch points too mere bhi ho rahe h but mujhe nhi pata ye sad hone h ya depression
Yha india ke pairents kisi problem ko samjhane ke taiyar hi nhi hote isliye unhe kuchha batane me bhi dar lagta hai
True!! Dude😞😞
Not in my case, mne apne parents se baat ki apne mental condition k baare me ,and they reply very friendly and i feel very relaxed after that .so kuch bhi condition ho apne parents se ya friends se jisse bhi baat kr sakte hi kro.qki apne depression ko dabana is not the solution
Truth!!! 😭😭😭
Bahut sahi bro
That's true
It's soo sad to see how many aspiring students die due to competition in India.
Thank you sir..all of your words are very motivational..👍😊
And i also agree on the topic that we must have to Spend time with nature..I love spending time with nature in the afternoon.
And i want to tell you that i was depressed but now i Accept the Situation and completely moved on..again thank you very much sir..
A great fan..😊😀👍❤
I literally started crying watching this vid 😭😭😭
So true video
Ler ha
It's just killing me inside, I start getting angry quickly, don't talk to people, feel like failure. can't talk to parents, They spend money so much on me .i don't know if I can handle it may be this life is not for me. Trying to get help where I can ,
I have no friends to talk , the look in my father's eye when I see in him I see myself as failure ,I am fighting alone and may be I am gonna loose 🙂
Hey bro, calm down.
It's a phase. Trust me. I have been there, so many things not gone in my favour. We have to fight, not only for us but the people around us. Keep fighting..
@@geCk.0O Ya man you are right 😄
I also live alone there is no one who understand me. Now I'm in 10th or pta nhi aage kya hoga mera 😞
@@Satyam54230 you don't have to be sad because you have chance to choose what you like, do what you want enjoy your life it's just phase not whole life .Give your best and you will be happy at the end. If life gonna be that easy what kinda life it is then,enjoy you time ,be with friends And choose your stream by your own not because of pressure 😊😊and you are in 10 enjoy and study 😄
@@Satyam54230 don't take stress kiddo and enjoy your study ,talking by experience 😄😄be strong
What I like the most about you that you saves our time by just coming straight on the topic not just revolving around it .
I keep coming back to this vid when I feel low
These things are easier said than done
because there have been times when i was low i tried to open up then i realised that people don't give a crap..
they have this notion that we should solve our mental problems ourselves..
Loved this video. It was damn helpful. Thank you Aman sir 🙏🙏
Every parent should watch this video..
1.bhaiya you said us to be free with our parents but mere Jaise bohot se bachahe even can't show your videos to them once I tried my mom said yeh bhi abhi young hai isliye aise bol Raha hai I said her ki Aman bhaiya bohot successful hai then also she is telling internet par tum yehi sab Dekhta hi hai phone Ka asar hai ki aaj parents ke against bol Raha hai my father understand brother sister as machine which will always works according to him like he say ki ek bachhe ko 10 hours padhna chaiye aur in extra time guest ki care karte raho like wo Kabhi bhi guest lakar aa jayege aur disturb karte even if I am studying humko uta bolenge ki baad me kya karte ho padh Lena if I told him about any problem like marks and all he is like tum logo ko Kitna facilities milta hai humre time Kuch nhi milta tha Mila hota to aaj IAS rehta I am a student who is away from parents since was in class 6 but Mai har ek ya do months me Ghar aata Hu but aate hi dimag Ka dahi ho jata hai coz of expectations and all
2.their are many friends of mine Jo sirf kahete ki depressed hai like all of them (all are not depressed we know)that is why parents thinks that it's just an excuse to prevent from scolding coz of marks
Hope will understand
Plz if possible reply .
Peace✌️
U caught the exact nerve of current situation brother... That's the problem..
Bro same happens with me..I'm tired of this now
Just let it be..and get a good college first..fir Aman bhaiya ko karenge tho success tho kabhi apni honi h..aur bhaiya bhi tho yahi kehte h na..tc bro.
Jzt show it if they dont hv a clash max to max they will slap u once bt if u let thm knw smthng is wrong with u thell listen............
100 percent true bihar se ham haii hamre ghar me bhi mahool yahi haii
Same story of mine bro..😭
Congratulations on 2 million subscribers......you deserve so much than this ....... all the best bhaiya for upcoming 5 million then 10 million and then 25 million
From Maharashtra
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Me too from same state.
Be safe from the deadly virus
Social... social stigma
Congrats for 2M sir ! Much much respect to you!💜
If we tell parents about depression, they'll advise you to change diet, get up early , exercise, and all those things which are given on Google. But what they don't realise is sometimes things are beyond that. Not everyone is the same. Sometimes all we need is someone to listen our thoughts, emotions . And Yeah sometimes we need to go to a dimaag ka doctor for that. Having emotional problems is not equal to pagalpan or being weak.
I can help you bro just believe me
@@Nishu-p8p Thanks bro!! Already taking therapy, (secretly)😂
@@Sharwari_Admane ohk
@@Sharwari_Admane muje bhi bta do konsi therapy h ?
I m facing extreme depression and feeling everything in this world are worthless😢
Even if student somehow become courageous and open up to their parents, indian parents will start making mockery of them and scold them assuming that it must be their kid's fault. Indiam parents never believes their child and it is already assumed that their kids are wrong
I have the same feeling..from the past few weeks , i am feeling very low and when my parents see me in this situation they just be like...'ae her drama started again'. I dont know what to do now. No ones there to whom i could share my feelings😢😔
@@reenajain5601 well in this situation everyone should interact with their friends, if you dont mind you can share your thoughts with me
Same here... Indian parents try to be Hitler in thier children life rather than being thier friends..
When you want to share this video to your parents but you can't due to bridge of expectations they've made💔
Yaar kaaaaaaaassss aap mere real bhai hote...i pray to god ki har kisi ko apke jaisa bhai jarooooorr mile...
18:06
I used to do this in the early morning and these 30 mins were one of the best 30 mins. of the whole day. It not only makes me motivated but also fills up with energy.....I'll recommend this to everyone
Hey aman bhaiya, why did u delete college review playlist
@@Sparsh_Plays-xD Thanks mate
Thank you so much sir for this session...honestly I'm telling you that before viewing this video perhaps after some months I'll face depression....but now after watching this video many doubts are clear now...& now I get this point how to face it 🙂😇.....thanq so much sir 🙌
I cried during all vdo , pr last sentence ne mere man ko pucha ki sach me sahi bol rhe hai bhiya tum hi toh ho jise samaj ko badalana hai!
Spend time with nature like Aman sir says. This is actually work, it improves your creativity and peace of mind.
Its obvious bro
My friend helped me a lot during my worst time..!
I wish mine friend does the same
Why no one is talking about Meditation. This technique is a gift given by our Indian ansistor. There are so many benefits of this like reduces stress, controls anxiety, emotional health,and many more. And mediation completely close the gate for depression to enter our head. So whoever reading this comment and they think they are depressed just try mediation for 5-10min for few weeks ,and you will see real change.
I also think that this should be added in every school curriculum. I think schools should add yoga and meditation in place of those wasteful prayers.
Just what I needed to see today. Thankyou so much. Nice to see that someone understands