It’s funny that other people judge your relationship right away. Any relationship have difficulties and hardships. Jealousy is hard to admit to your partner but talking about how you feel about each other is the key to keep your relationship strong. Keep up on being honest and disregard the negative people. Love your vlogs.
Great vlog guys I know exactly what you guys go through . My wife is from Vietnam we talked on Skype for 1 year back in 2015 before we’d saw each other . We got married in Vietnam I went to Vietnam 5 times until I was able to bring her to the USA . After all are hard work she is finally a U.S. citizen .. we went through everything you guys went through the good and the bad ..your boat business will thrive trust me ..
Hi guys. I've watched many ldr videos and I'm happy to say that this Q&A video is very unique because the Q&W were not prepared and it came naturally from your heart, the real feelings of each situation. Qudos 👏. I wish many would see and appreciate the wonderful comments you both made and how you handle situations in a relationship which are overlooked by many couples and end up in trouble. After watching 2 of your vlogs I've now become a subscriber to your channel. Good luck with your boat project and also may I suggest for you both to have a look at setting up a "Greenhouse" which is a very lucrative business and very relaxing and enjoyable too, this can give you a good income as no matter what happens people need to eat. I myself am a greenhouse grower and if you want any ideas, suggestions how to do it do let me know how I could be in touch with you guys and I would gladly share my knowledge and also videos/photos of my greenhouse crop. Sometimes we think twice and are backword in taking the step to start something new but when we think out of the box it can be done. Good luck to the future that your building together and may God bless you ❤
Thankyou Andre and Charmie for this interesting vlog. I am wondering how the transition from LDR to reality happens. I started my LDR with my Filipina girlfriend 2 years ago and visited her the first time in person 1 year ago. I plan to to visit her the second time this September….
You are both amazing people and great for each other. Hopefully Andre you will give Charmie the great honor of asking for her hand in marriage and fully committing to each other, reaping the full benefits of a loving union. 🙌🏼🙌🏼☺️
Nice to hear both your view points and I appreciate and thankful that though differences in culture and standards able to meet at the end. To remember " made in germany" Andre succeed to make asawa and family realize your stand point, and thats !toll" being the man the leader with a strong oriented woman at your side . I remember what my son has said, "mama better not to do a thing if half done!." means make the best you can, quality. God bless both of you.
Hello your American friend in Arizona here. Please don't use the word "hate" when describing each other. Hate is a very harsh word for simple disagreements. Try dislike or dislike greatly if you want. I truly enjoy watching your videos. Jetzt fuele ich mich wieder besser. Die besten Gruesse von Gary & Imelda aus Arizona, bis bald.
I just finished watching your video guys and one thing I'm just going to say is you guys do what you want you are always going to have negative people out there that have nothing better to do with their life
Charmie you’re funny & beautiful! Andre is lucky to have someone like you! You always speak out your feelings ! Glad I found you guys on here and I love watching you both ! I’ve seen lots of these LDR men with young Filipina women and they have been taking good care of by these beautiful young women! Andre you have a beautiful woman that cares about you Good luck on your relationship you both make a cute couple !
Hi Guys there will always be critics in the world. They’re just like an asshole everyone’s got one. Lol Carry-on with what you guys are doing because it’s fabulous and everybody likes it ! ❤ Great job keep up the good work 👍
They intrepited it thst way Char my hubby same deutsche din po sya…. Eifersüchtig daw me … hahaha tumatawa nlng me then…… pero am so worried po…. My hubby is chubby but more on muscles not fats…. Thats the personality of charmaine….. and i love it…. Some pinays have no balls only say yes always their partners…… stand wots in ur mind like charmaigne….. i love also to wear my hubby’s upper things……. In am in philippines i wanna bisit you guysss….
Hehehe so funny, I think that's how pinay cuddle and kiss cause that's how I do too, sometimes I give little bites on or pinch on the cheeks,arms or tummy😂
I feel sorry for any POOR man stuck with 6 WOMEN and no way out? Remember 6 women from VENUS can over come a big guy like you BOO-HOO-HOO! Better you than me!
Hey guys. This was a really nice video. I really think if you continue on this path you will last a lifetime. By the way Charmie you look so much better without make up. Take care.
@@thecrownsvlog My Filipina wife is the same, But as she you are also beautiful, My wife is now 44 years old and she does not need any makeup at all, truly amazing.
I don't think Charmie needs to be self conscious about looks at all..I do think that a lot of people complicate too many small things in life compared to just getting on with things..that's my response to some of the homely situations you both are dealing with..I'm different to Andre because I say it like it is in a relationship regardless..communication matters but in most cases there's no need for too much back and forth over small things..once you both realise this that's when you realise you're thinking more about being playful or boom boom as they say in Thailand aswell as fun times
Oh and Andre by the way being more affectionate matters..that's a biggie buddy..everyone understands you being busy but most of us men would give a woman love and affection without making them feel like it's a chore..it should never feel like a chore
It's not instructing. It's supported because you're aren't behind everything he does so you push him to be the best he can be whatever he wants to do and that's true love ❤❤❤
I CAN'T BELIEVE YOU GUYS FEEL THE NEED TO EXPLAIN TO STRANGERS ABOUT YOUR RELATIONSHIP. IF IT WORKS DON'T MESS WITH IT. SOME MEN NEED A STRONG WOMAN DOESN'T MEAN HIS WEAK OR A PUSSY. I'M SURE ANDRE CAN TAKE CARE OF HIMSELF WITH HIS WOMAN. PERSONALLY I THINK YOU GUYS ARE CUTE TOGETHER.TIME TAKES CARE OF EVERYTHING THE LONGER YOU GUYS ARE TOGETHER THE BETTER YOU WILL GET ALONG. LOVE IS THE KEY IF YOU HAVE THAT BETWEEN YOU NOTHING WILL COME BETWEEN YOU.
Hi Andre, I understand where you are coming from, as I work for a German company near Dortmund and we are known for the quality equipment we build. Anyone can make something cheap, but to make quality takes investment, research, development, testing and improving in areas where you can. You can be proud of the culture you grew up in. All the best to you both 🙏
This is one of your best videos you have put together. Your true feelings for each other were captured in its rawest state of beauty. It seems you two can work out anything so long as you never forget what brought you together! Enjoy Germany and stay safe.
Just love this couple. Andre...what a wonderful guy. Charmie is one lucky girl. Andre is generous, considerate, and a real gentlemen. This proves good men are still available. Andre loves Charmie so much. Never split up. You're both from different countries with very different life styles, but love conquers all. Charmie reminds me of the Filipina friends I have. They are petite, pretty and full of love...just don't cross them - or else...he, he, he. Love this couple. They are inspiring everyone. Get married and live to a ripe old age together. Big Love.
You two are so awesome. I am so happy I found you on here; I have had several LDR relationships with Filipina women that didn't work out for various reasons. Then I see the two of you together and I have renewed hope sort of, except that I am not that young.
Guys I been watching UA-cam Videos over a year now and you guys are the first one I have really liked just seen the one with her family and other people helped repair your boat! You guys are what people need to see on line of what’s it’s all about living with each other and down the road getting married! And she is a keeper for sure not like others I have seen . Keep up the good work!
I think this was another great video. Very honest and real. No matter what or where the people in the relationship are from dont forget why you are together! Work isn't everything and if you take 5 minutes make it the best 5 mind you can because you can't get back time!! I'd say also Andre it might be different how she gets close and things, but remember to appreciate it also. There are so many men and women that don't care or show any affection. So enjoy that between both of you. Remember to hold hands Nd take the moments for each other, communication and understanding. I like the goofy funny quirks between you both. You look great together and wish you amazing success with your business, relationship, and families!!!
- A LITTLE jealousy is OK it shows she cares, but when it becomes so excessive that it becomes an interrogation just to walk out the door it has crossed over into psychopath territory. Being overly jealous will have the opposite effect, it isn't going to draw him closer to you, it is going to push him away into the arms of another lady. - Excessive jealousy also shows a lack of TRUST, without trust you have nothing. The older retired men going to the Philippines have dealt with life's stresses, now is the time for them to relax, have PEACE and happiness, if she's not giving him that and just adding more drama and stress, he's not going to stay. - Rationalizing shows you know you are WRONG, and you are trying to make yourself look better, by trying to argue with the other person to get them to agree with you. - Many foreigners associate tattoos, bad attitudes, constant partying, dressing in tight skimpy clothes, excessive make-up with "bar girls". - Charmie shows a LOT of western woman traits and acts/behaves in a masculine way and is disrespectful, the type woman most foreigners are fleeing their own country to get AWAY from. - Constantly forgetting about things that are important to him shows she's doesn't care about his needs and wants, only her own, and doesn't actually listen to him. - You say when you get angry you get silent, in other words tampo, which is immature, childish, manipulative, and ABUSIVE BEHAVIOR, it is NOT cultural, it is a BEHAVIOR you choose. MATURE ADULTS talk about their problems to resolve them before they become something bigger, you can't do that if one of you is throwing a childish temper tantrum because you didn't get your own way, and not talking. - Constantly interrupting the other person when they are talking is DISRESPECTFUL and selfish, it shows you don't care about the other persons thoughts, that they have nothing of value or importance to say, only you should be heard. - It also shows you don't respect the man's decisions and aren't being submissive and allowing him to lead. He sets plans and you continually go against those plans and do your own thing, you are being rude, disrespectful, selfish, emasculating, NOT submitting to his decisions, NOT allowing him to lead, showing you don't care about him, and being VERY masculine. But if the woman is being masculine, and the man being feminine, then the 2 role dynamics are there, just not the way life intends them to be. If a woman constantly emasculates the man and makes him feel/act in a feminine way by her acting like the man in the relationship, don't expect the man to step up and take on the man role when needed, like as a protector. - You don't worry about him breaking up with you because you've taken on the masculine role in the relationship. - Scratching your neck, playing with your necklace are tell tale signs you are getting uncomfortable, everyone has things they do subconsciously, this is usually associated with lying. - If he tells you he doesn't like when you do something, it is called a boundary, if you continue to do it you are crossing those boundaries, it is rude and disrespectful, and you are showing you don't care about that persons needs, and are trying to emasculate him, it is manipulative and ABUSIVE behavior. - Constantly hitting the other person, especially when it leaves bruises is called ABUSE!!! A man is a direct reflection of the woman by his side, if she is loud, rude, disrespectful, then the man is not seen as respectable also. Don't be blinded by outer beauty and ignore red flags, there are 1,000's of videos by other Filipina's telling foreigners what red flags are, and Charmie displays MANY of them. One of the red flags of a woman trying to hide her child from a foreigner is saying the child is their niece/nephew. It's fairly easy to tell if an Asian woman has had a child, beyond just having stretch marks, there's a change in their color/appearance in a specific area that I won't mention (No, it's not down there). You can wrap a turd in pretty paper, but it's still a turd on the inside. You can wrap a woman in outer beauty, but if she's just a mean, rude, disrespectful, horrible, miserable, ABUSIVE, emasculating, non-submissive person, she's still a turd on the inside, and that's the kind of ugly no amount of make-up can hide.
Hi buddy. Just wondering as I'm looking to do fasting too, did you mean you didn't eat anything for a month? Or you had one meal a day? I'd love some advice if you don't mind.
I love following you two because you are meant for each other and even though you come from different cultures love knows no boundaries. How did you two meet. Oh, and ignore the haters because in the wise words of the great philosopher Taylor Swift, haters gonna hate hate hate hate hate.
A man has to be flexible with his filipina. You already know that they have a different concept of time and even thought they are late often its usually because they try to do too much at once. They like to stay busy, and that makes them late. I wish I had someone as beautiful as Charmie wear my clothes all day long.
I am sorry about the loss of the baby in your family. That’s a very difficult and heavily emotional time for all involved. Andre is big-hearted and because of that, along with being in a new area, away from his own family, surrounded by new culture, I can imagine that being a very difficult time. A lot of emotions. Anyhow, it’s just another chapter in your journey together. A sad one; but it’s good to have each other.
The girl is obviously extremely jealous which could kill a relationship. Ich finde das, keine gute Character von einer Frau. Sie muß dich in jeder Zeit vertrauen. Trust and Respect equals Love.
I just fell on your channel by chance. OMG you have made me laugh so much .Its a wonder I did not wake my husband up as I have laughed so much. 😂 Your both amazing never change. Love from Wales 🏴 UK xxx
Andre, for myself living with my girlfriend in Cebu. I brought a large luggage check in with clothes as remain here. Find clothes here is an issue for I am 182cm tall and 98km and the Filipinos are much smaller. My girlfriend is 168cm and 40 31years younger. I met as covjd was slowing on a dating site. 2 half years before we met face to face. All the her family met me at the airport in Cebu. My died in 2007 and she told her mother. 3 girls no boys so her mother says I am here son. My girlfriend has a 2 bedroom apartment and staying there and her parents live over 2 hours out in the province and stay at her appointment. The first night on arrival I stayed with her and parents. Strange sleeping with her with her parents and 2 sisters there also.. never seen her before. I am permanently living here. Guys thank you
I have watched a few blogs over the years on a lot of different topics, and i would say this probably would be the best, it was very informative and as honest as youse could be without disrespecting each other, and it was all done off rhe cuff!, im well over 50 and I learnt a lot in myself on how people need to be more aware of underlying cultural differance up bringing lifestyles etc. This should be shared and shared again, these are the type of blogs there needs to be more of no doubt will only be positive feedback fr you guys a real credit to both of you guys and your parents doubt be proud of you both fr this blogs, really good stuff ,all the very best❤❤
What a wonderful relationship... Have you ever wondered what the 'ship' in 'relationship' means? It refers to the fact that a relationship can either float or sink.. Let it be yours will always float.. 👌🎉🇵🇭🇩🇪and Congratulations and have a funtastic sailing...God bless you both! 🙏
Here's a suggestion. If you want to save money on a trip to Europe spend some of it in Eastern Europe. Hungary, Romania, Czech republic and Slovenia are all beautiful. I know you want to be in Deutschland but it's not like places like Paris are good right now.
100% the same. My wife from Minglanilla has her own walk-in closet which is actually a 20m2 room. Then I have a small closet in the bedroom. However, I am "allowed" 2 shelves hahaha. And yes, guess who is wearing my shirts? Especially in the evening and morning. As a Dutch, punctuality is a normal thing same like Germans. Same experiences here. However, it is improving slowly :D
It’s funny that other people judge your relationship right away. Any relationship have difficulties and hardships. Jealousy is hard to admit to your partner but talking about how you feel about each other is the key to keep your relationship strong. Keep up on being honest and disregard the negative people. Love your vlogs.
This Girl is Beautiful but be careful don't burn your fingers andre...
I AGREE
Great vlog guys I know exactly what you guys go through . My wife is from Vietnam we talked on Skype for 1 year back in 2015 before we’d saw each other . We got married in Vietnam I went to Vietnam 5 times until I was able to bring her to the USA . After all are hard work she is finally a U.S. citizen .. we went through everything you guys went through the good and the bad ..your boat business will thrive trust me ..
Hi guys. I've watched many ldr videos and I'm happy to say that this Q&A video is very unique because the Q&W were not prepared and it came naturally from your heart, the real feelings of each situation. Qudos 👏. I wish many would see and appreciate the wonderful comments you both made and how you handle situations in a relationship which are overlooked by many couples and end up in trouble. After watching 2 of your vlogs I've now become a subscriber to your channel. Good luck with your boat project and also may I suggest for you both to have a look at setting up a "Greenhouse" which is a very lucrative business and very relaxing and enjoyable too, this can give you a good income as no matter what happens people need to eat. I myself am a greenhouse grower and if you want any ideas, suggestions how to do it do let me know how I could be in touch with you guys and I would gladly share my knowledge and also videos/photos of my greenhouse crop. Sometimes we think twice and are backword in taking the step to start something new but when we think out of the box it can be done.
Good luck to the future that your building together and may God bless you ❤
Thankyou Andre and Charmie for this interesting vlog. I am wondering how the transition from LDR to reality happens. I started my LDR with my Filipina girlfriend 2 years ago and visited her the first time in person 1 year ago. I plan to to visit her the second time this September….
I’ve learned to not take assumptions to heart, but then again i don’t vlog. I notice he’s a teddy bear and she’s strong, and both are caring.
You are both amazing people and great for each other. Hopefully Andre you will give Charmie the great honor of asking for her hand in marriage and fully committing to each other, reaping the full benefits of a loving union. 🙌🏼🙌🏼☺️
Nice to hear both your view points and I appreciate and thankful that though differences in culture and standards able to meet at the end. To remember " made in germany" Andre succeed to make asawa and family realize your stand point, and thats !toll" being the man the leader with a strong oriented woman at your side . I remember what my son has said, "mama better not to do a thing if half done!." means make the best you can, quality. God bless both of you.
You guys are great sharing what you feel and are committed to sticking together
I am newbie jn uour channel but then I was able to enjoy your videos and i can relate to you guys because I also have an LDR relationship.
I feel your pain. My Filipina wife is sooooo loud when talking to her sister 1 meter away from her. Is this common with Filipinos?
Yes especially visayan 😩🤣
You are a beautiful couple. Keep up the great vlogs.
Hello your American friend in Arizona here.
Please don't use the word "hate" when describing each other. Hate is a very harsh word for simple disagreements. Try dislike or dislike greatly if you want.
I truly enjoy watching your videos.
Jetzt fuele ich mich wieder besser. Die besten Gruesse von Gary & Imelda aus Arizona, bis bald.
Charmie you look very harsh to your man. Do you respect him kkk
I just finished watching your video guys and one thing I'm just going to say is you guys do what you want you are always going to have negative people out there that have nothing better to do with their life
You guys are Great Together!! :)
You two are a good couple and y'all look great together.
Charmie you’re funny & beautiful! Andre is lucky to have someone like you! You always speak out your feelings ! Glad I found you guys on here and I love watching you both ! I’ve seen lots of these LDR men with young Filipina women and they have been taking good care of by these beautiful young women! Andre you have a beautiful woman that cares about you Good luck on your relationship you both make a cute couple !
Wow so real love it, she is spicy I love it you are both so funny and real thank you for your Vlog.
Cute, funny and reasonably honest. Enjoy your vlog.
oh. I laughed so so hard. It was so real. The honesty is fantastic guys.
Don't mind , people say, keep going.👊👊👊👊👊👊👍👍👍
Wishing you guys the very best of luck and happiness…love your videos …god bless you both ❤❤❤
This was a nice sit down talk
Hi Guys there will always be critics in the world. They’re just like an asshole everyone’s got one. Lol
Carry-on with what you guys are doing because it’s fabulous and everybody likes it ! ❤
Great job keep up the good work 👍
Loved this vlog!
I love you guys. I learn a lot.. I hope you guys last until tye end!🫢😊😚😚
They intrepited it thst way Char my hubby same deutsche din po sya…. Eifersüchtig daw me … hahaha tumatawa nlng me then…… pero am so worried po…. My hubby is chubby but more on muscles not fats…. Thats the personality of charmaine….. and i love it…. Some pinays have no balls only say yes always their partners…… stand wots in ur mind like charmaigne….. i love also to wear my hubby’s upper things……. In am in philippines i wanna bisit you guysss….
Hello ate hehehe would be great if you visit us bohol for some time ☺️☺️☺️
Always cherish the love and happiness you 2 obviously have for each other, NEVER take it for granted!
she need to keep her hand to herself .....
Wünsche Euch wirklich alles, alles Gute für Eure Beziehung und Zukunft ! Werde Euch mal besuchen wenn ich im Land bin !!! Liebe Grüße Erwin Zado
My Filipina is the same. Jealous insecure. Is there another woman?! Hahaha. Cute.
haha - u guys are funny...ingat always ingat
Beautiful couple
😂😂😂
❤
living together might get pregnant
Hehehe so funny, I think that's how pinay cuddle and kiss cause that's how I do too, sometimes I give little bites on or pinch on the cheeks,arms or tummy😂
I’m same too hahaha. Maybe Filipina thing ate 🤣😊
@@thecrownsvlog that's maybe our love gestures dai
Does she smell your arm, Pit😂😂😂😂
I feel sorry for any POOR man stuck with 6 WOMEN and no way out? Remember 6 women from VENUS can over come a big guy like you BOO-HOO-HOO! Better you than me!
He has lost some weight
He worked so hard for every pounds he lose 😊
@@thecrownsvlog i know its not easy to lose weight my son is big also he works out everyday but he eats alot.
Yo she's very aggressive ! I see danger in this relationship .
Hey guys. This was a really nice video. I really think if you continue on this path you will last a lifetime. By the way Charmie you look so much better without make up. Take care.
I always feel insecure and ugly with my bare face 🤦🏽♀️🤣
@@thecrownsvlog My Filipina wife is the same, But as she you are also beautiful, My wife is now 44 years old and she does not need any makeup at all, truly amazing.
I don't think Charmie needs to be self conscious about looks at all..I do think that a lot of people complicate too many small things in life compared to just getting on with things..that's my response to some of the homely situations you both are dealing with..I'm different to Andre because I say it like it is in a relationship regardless..communication matters but in most cases there's no need for too much back and forth over small things..once you both realise this that's when you realise you're thinking more about being playful or boom boom as they say in Thailand aswell as fun times
Oh and Andre by the way being more affectionate matters..that's a biggie buddy..everyone understands you being busy but most of us men would give a woman love and affection without making them feel like it's a chore..it should never feel like a chore
It's not instructing. It's supported because you're aren't behind everything he does so you push him to be the best he can be whatever he wants to do and that's true love ❤❤❤
In deed,my husband instructs a lot 😳...i've learned a Lot from him and vice versa...
You guys seem great together. I am a new to your channel. Good luck to you both...
I CAN'T BELIEVE YOU GUYS FEEL THE NEED TO EXPLAIN TO STRANGERS ABOUT YOUR RELATIONSHIP. IF IT WORKS DON'T MESS WITH IT. SOME MEN NEED A STRONG WOMAN DOESN'T MEAN HIS WEAK OR A PUSSY. I'M SURE ANDRE CAN TAKE CARE OF HIMSELF WITH HIS WOMAN. PERSONALLY I THINK YOU GUYS ARE CUTE TOGETHER.TIME TAKES CARE OF EVERYTHING THE LONGER YOU GUYS ARE TOGETHER THE BETTER YOU WILL GET ALONG. LOVE IS THE KEY IF YOU HAVE THAT BETWEEN YOU NOTHING WILL COME BETWEEN YOU.
Hi Andre, I understand where you are coming from, as I work for a German company near Dortmund and we are known for the quality equipment we build. Anyone can make something cheap, but to make quality takes investment, research, development, testing and improving in areas where you can. You can be proud of the culture you grew up in. All the best to you both 🙏
I'm English and even we value some German products
It's always a pleasure to enjoy your sincerity ❤ I like your point of view on life... 😊
This is one of your best videos you have put together. Your true feelings for each other were captured in its rawest state of beauty. It seems you two can work out anything so long as you never forget what brought you together! Enjoy Germany and stay safe.
Just love this couple. Andre...what a wonderful guy. Charmie is one lucky girl. Andre is generous, considerate, and a real gentlemen. This proves good men are still available. Andre loves Charmie so much. Never split up. You're both from different countries with very different life styles, but love conquers all. Charmie reminds me of the Filipina friends I have. They are petite, pretty and full of love...just don't cross them - or else...he, he, he. Love this couple. They are inspiring everyone. Get married and live to a ripe old age together. Big Love.
You two are so awesome. I am so happy I found you on here; I have had several LDR relationships with Filipina women that didn't work out for various reasons. Then I see the two of you together and I have renewed hope sort of, except that I am not that young.
You guys are so cute. Y’all crack me up. I bet there’s no boring moments in your relationship. I agree Andre is cute and cuddly.
Sweet couple
A man can cry as well Chamie, Why not 😊
RESPECT EACH ATHER. F... K THE PEOPLE WHAT TALK ABOUT YOUR LIFE🤞🤞👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍
What is your names plz post them on your blogg
I love you guys.
I hope I can have a beautiful relationship this year when i meet my Filipina.
I enjoy your videos.
You both are awesome..
I just love both of you😊❤. I love watching all your videos. You're so cute
Your hair looks awsome! I wish my fiance would curl her hair more often. Andre your looking pretty dapper also :)
Guys I been watching UA-cam Videos over a year now and you guys are the first one I have really liked just seen the one with her family and other people helped repair your boat!
You guys are what people need to see on line of what’s it’s all about living with each other and down the road getting married!
And she is a keeper for sure not like others I have seen .
Keep up the good work!
I CAN'T BELIEVE YOU CAN HAVE ANY HATERS...YOU ARE A KEEPER ♥♥♥
I think this was another great video. Very honest and real. No matter what or where the people in the relationship are from dont forget why you are together! Work isn't everything and if you take 5 minutes make it the best 5 mind you can because you can't get back time!! I'd say also Andre it might be different how she gets close and things, but remember to appreciate it also. There are so many men and women that don't care or show any affection. So enjoy that between both of you. Remember to hold hands Nd take the moments for each other, communication and understanding. I like the goofy funny quirks between you both. You look great together and wish you amazing success with your business, relationship, and families!!!
- A LITTLE jealousy is OK it shows she cares, but when it becomes so excessive that it becomes an interrogation just to walk out the door it has crossed over into psychopath territory. Being overly jealous will have the opposite effect, it isn't going to draw him closer to you, it is going to push him away into the arms of another lady.
- Excessive jealousy also shows a lack of TRUST, without trust you have nothing. The older retired men going to the Philippines have dealt with life's stresses, now is the time for them to relax, have PEACE and happiness, if she's not giving him that and just adding more drama and stress, he's not going to stay.
- Rationalizing shows you know you are WRONG, and you are trying to make yourself look better, by trying to argue with the other person to get them to agree with you.
- Many foreigners associate tattoos, bad attitudes, constant partying, dressing in tight skimpy clothes, excessive make-up with "bar girls".
- Charmie shows a LOT of western woman traits and acts/behaves in a masculine way and is disrespectful, the type woman most foreigners are fleeing their own country to get AWAY from.
- Constantly forgetting about things that are important to him shows she's doesn't care about his needs and wants, only her own, and doesn't actually listen to him.
- You say when you get angry you get silent, in other words tampo, which is immature, childish, manipulative, and ABUSIVE BEHAVIOR, it is NOT cultural, it is a BEHAVIOR you choose. MATURE ADULTS talk about their problems to resolve them before they become something bigger, you can't do that if one of you is throwing a childish temper tantrum because you didn't get your own way, and not talking.
- Constantly interrupting the other person when they are talking is DISRESPECTFUL and selfish, it shows you don't care about the other persons thoughts, that they have nothing of value or importance to say, only you should be heard.
- It also shows you don't respect the man's decisions and aren't being submissive and allowing him to lead. He sets plans and you continually go against those plans and do your own thing, you are being rude, disrespectful, selfish, emasculating, NOT submitting to his decisions, NOT allowing him to lead, showing you don't care about him, and being VERY masculine. But if the woman is being masculine, and the man being feminine, then the 2 role dynamics are there, just not the way life intends them to be. If a woman constantly emasculates the man and makes him feel/act in a feminine way by her acting like the man in the relationship, don't expect the man to step up and take on the man role when needed, like as a protector.
- You don't worry about him breaking up with you because you've taken on the masculine role in the relationship.
- Scratching your neck, playing with your necklace are tell tale signs you are getting uncomfortable, everyone has things they do subconsciously, this is usually associated with lying.
- If he tells you he doesn't like when you do something, it is called a boundary, if you continue to do it you are crossing those boundaries, it is rude and disrespectful, and you are showing you don't care about that persons needs, and are trying to emasculate him, it is manipulative and ABUSIVE behavior.
- Constantly hitting the other person, especially when it leaves bruises is called ABUSE!!!
A man is a direct reflection of the woman by his side, if she is loud, rude, disrespectful, then the man is not seen as respectable also. Don't be blinded by outer beauty and ignore red flags, there are 1,000's of videos by other Filipina's telling foreigners what red flags are, and Charmie displays MANY of them. One of the red flags of a woman trying to hide her child from a foreigner is saying the child is their niece/nephew. It's fairly easy to tell if an Asian woman has had a child, beyond just having stretch marks, there's a change in their color/appearance in a specific area that I won't mention (No, it's not down there). You can wrap a turd in pretty paper, but it's still a turd on the inside. You can wrap a woman in outer beauty, but if she's just a mean, rude, disrespectful, horrible, miserable, ABUSIVE, emasculating, non-submissive person, she's still a turd on the inside, and that's the kind of ugly no amount of make-up can hide.
12:28 scene is so true. Long distance relationship versus living together you learned so many things about each other that you cannot learn on camera.
Hi buddy. Just wondering as I'm looking to do fasting too, did you mean you didn't eat anything for a month? Or you had one meal a day? I'd love some advice if you don't mind.
A German has a plan. Meets a Filipina. 10 seconds later. What plan were you talking about? 🤣
I love following you two because you are meant for each other and even though you come from different cultures love knows no boundaries. How did you two meet. Oh, and ignore the haters because in the wise words of the great philosopher Taylor Swift, haters gonna hate hate hate hate hate.
Oh my God guys. I love watching this. very true feelings
A man has to be flexible with his filipina. You already know that they have a different concept of time and even thought they are late often its usually because they try to do too much at once. They like to stay busy, and that makes them late. I wish I had someone as beautiful as Charmie wear my clothes all day long.
I am sorry about the loss of the baby in your family. That’s a very difficult and heavily emotional time for all involved. Andre is big-hearted and because of that, along with being in a new area, away from his own family, surrounded by new culture, I can imagine that being a very difficult time. A lot of emotions. Anyhow, it’s just another chapter in your journey together. A sad one; but it’s good to have each other.
Ahahaha.. OMG.. i see my LDR baby just doing the same things.
Charmie, do you have a sister, cousin, niece or friend that’s like you???
You guys are amazing couple always stay true to each other and love is the most important key
Chinekene man of this days they dont cuddle woman always on the phone .
Question,after you met each other in a dating site,you both still talk to other man/woman?
Love that you're both so fun and happy! It's cute that she likes to wear your clothes😊
When a woman wears your shirt she is telling everyone she isn’t available.
Why did Anfre find out(she was married)b4 is that why the break-up?
I wouldn't last a month with someone like Charmie, she is mean and bossy. 😡
Forget the damn boat, focus on cuddling
It's called "Filipino time" always late
Great Vlog guys love the honesty
Love this couple nice blog
The girl is obviously extremely jealous which could kill a relationship. Ich finde das, keine gute Character von einer Frau. Sie muß dich in jeder Zeit vertrauen. Trust and Respect equals Love.
😂hahahahahaha funny
When will going to have a baby? ❤
You seem like a lovely couple. Don't give up on each other ⭐
no a good match at all!
Continued Happiness!
I surprised you still together , she seems like a gold digger who will get as much as she can from you sadly...
Yep just stay at that stage ☺️
😂😂😂😂😂enjoyed the whole video😊Thank you guys....me and my German Boyfriend currently in LDR😊 seeing these types of videos motivates me.
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Andre and Charmie dont worry about what other people say. Your great together. You both look very happy. Hope you both have a great future together
Oh honey your jealousy is insane 😭🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽 Don’t hide your identity through keyboards 🤪
A woman that loves you will always wear your clothes.
What is LPR means
LDR long distance relationship
I just fell on your channel by chance. OMG you have made me laugh so much .Its a wonder I did not wake my husband up as I have laughed so much. 😂
Your both amazing never change. Love from Wales 🏴 UK xxx
Andre, for myself living with my girlfriend in Cebu. I brought a large luggage check in with clothes as remain here. Find clothes here is an issue for I am 182cm tall and 98km and the Filipinos are much smaller. My girlfriend is 168cm and 40 31years younger. I met as covjd was slowing on a dating site. 2 half years before we met face to face. All the her family met me at the airport in Cebu. My died in 2007 and she told her mother. 3 girls no boys so her mother says I am here son. My girlfriend has a 2 bedroom apartment and staying there and her parents live over 2 hours out in the province and stay at her appointment. The first night on arrival I stayed with her and parents. Strange sleeping with her with her parents and 2 sisters there also.. never seen her before. I am permanently living here. Guys thank you
I have watched a few blogs over the years on a lot of different topics, and i would say this probably would be the best, it was very informative and as honest as youse could be without disrespecting each other, and it was all done off rhe cuff!, im well over 50 and I learnt a lot in myself on how people need to be more aware of underlying cultural differance up bringing lifestyles etc. This should be shared and shared again, these are the type of blogs there needs to be more of no doubt will only be positive feedback fr you guys a real credit to both of you guys and your parents doubt be proud of you both fr this blogs, really good stuff ,all the very best❤❤
What a wonderful relationship... Have you ever wondered what the 'ship' in 'relationship' means? It refers to the fact that a relationship can either float or sink.. Let it be yours will always float.. 👌🎉🇵🇭🇩🇪and Congratulations and have a funtastic sailing...God bless you both! 🙏
Here's a suggestion. If you want to save money on a trip to Europe spend some of it in Eastern Europe. Hungary, Romania, Czech republic and Slovenia are all beautiful. I know you want to be in Deutschland but it's not like places like Paris are good right now.
1:14 - 6 those girls together , is a trick Andre , but ur so respectful I'm sure it's fine!, but typically , that's a HEN party!!😂
100% the same. My wife from Minglanilla has her own walk-in closet which is actually a 20m2 room. Then I have a small closet in the bedroom. However, I am "allowed" 2 shelves hahaha. And yes, guess who is wearing my shirts? Especially in the evening and morning. As a Dutch, punctuality is a normal thing same like Germans. Same experiences here. However, it is improving slowly :D