Living Alone in NYC | Why I'm scared, My Happy Girl Era, Traveling to DC + More!

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  • @MsAaliyahJay
    @MsAaliyahJay  10 місяців тому +28

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    • @mrsdickerson2018
      @mrsdickerson2018 10 місяців тому

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    • @stephanylouis
      @stephanylouis 9 місяців тому

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  • @Kaycherri321
    @Kaycherri321 10 місяців тому +286

    being happy is not an era this is FOREVER !!!

    • @hillaryr6396
      @hillaryr6396 10 місяців тому +13

      Joy is forever

    • @chenesehenderson5194
      @chenesehenderson5194 10 місяців тому +4

      Exactly

    • @JennJennntv
      @JennJennntv 10 місяців тому +10

      If you know Aaliyah you know she has moments of depression , im guessing thats why she said that . The goal is always be happy but sometimes just showing up is the next best thing at the moment

    • @kaytrades8399
      @kaytrades8399 10 місяців тому +5

      "Thank you"🙏🙏🙏🥳💐🤩💜🤎🧡❤️🤍🎵🎵🎵🙌🌤️✨💫🌟⭐🌈 amen!!!!🤍🤍🤍🤍 So tired of people saying that🙄🙄🙄

    • @TheGreenSkreenKween
      @TheGreenSkreenKween 10 місяців тому

      Happiness is not a forever all the time thing.
      Happiness is an emotion that comes n goes.
      JOY & PEACE IS FOREVER INSIDE YOU.🤔
      Those things can be tinkered with IF YOU ALLOW SOMEONE TO INTERRUPT YOUR LIFE NEGATIVELY.🤷🏽‍♀️
      Aliyah dating diff men can be a good/not so good experience.
      Yes we need them just like they need us.
      However, I think making your relationship public on line like a lot of women young n old do is not it.
      Until he becomes your husband DONT DO IT!
      Keep your business of UA-cam private from him UNLESS YOU KNOW HES NOT TRYING TO USE YOU FIR FAME ETC.
      I’m a new UA-camr and NO HE WOLL NOT BE INVLUDING MY BUSINESS ENDEAVORS.
      YOURE NOT MY HUSBAND!
      The same way men do and behave.
      They don’t put you on the social media , you can’t call after 9pm, he can ONLY GO OUT ON WEDNESDAY🤣
      You get my drift where I’m getting at…
      TREAT THEM THE WAY THEY TREAT YOU!
      Men respond to ACTIONS
      NOT
      WORDS!
      Love you Ms. AJ!
      You are meant for a loyal and loving husband!
      God will bring him to you.

  • @polishedqueen1158
    @polishedqueen1158 10 місяців тому +125

    Her transformation is so refreshing. I love how she has evolved. 💕💕

  • @annmcleod8023
    @annmcleod8023 10 місяців тому +69

    Im so glad that you have come into your own. That your getting more private about your life. The world doesn't need to know every single thing about you. You need your privacy. You learn that with age. Im so happy about your business. Your doing sooo great. Im proud of you Lil sis. I call you that because im 60 yrs old. Probably the grandma smurf of the bunch but im never to old to learn. A lot of ppl say i dont look my age. Oh well ill take that. Love you aaliyahjay . Been with you a long-time. I learn about dry skin care. What makeup hydrates the skin.❤❤❤❤😊🎉🎉🎉

    • @SONYARenee
      @SONYARenee 10 місяців тому +3

      I agree, and sometimes friends and family should be on a need to know basis.

    • @Lia_Sha
      @Lia_Sha 10 місяців тому

      🙌🏾💕

  • @TalksWithNi
    @TalksWithNi 10 місяців тому +18

    THE JACKET IS GIVING GALLERIA / CHEETAH GIRLS NYC VIBES !!!! I WANNNNNT

    • @LacyLane
      @LacyLane 10 місяців тому

      Factsss

    • @Lia_Sha
      @Lia_Sha 10 місяців тому

      Yessss

  • @ThatDollNiecee
    @ThatDollNiecee 10 місяців тому +30

    Idk about y’ll but I just LOVE private Aaliyah . Like it’s so refreshing to see sis just thriving and minding her business

  • @9trf690
    @9trf690 10 місяців тому +44

    The “IT GIRL” is back to reclaim her THRONE 🔥❤️ I love it! NOBODY serves looks like Aaliyah 😍

  • @Mommy_Three
    @Mommy_Three 10 місяців тому +9

    You give more grown vibes now like when watching you it gives this is a GROWN AAAHH WOMAN

  • @Just_Tay30
    @Just_Tay30 10 місяців тому +23

    OG subbie here! You, your content, and platform as a whole has aged beautifully with the times. Your content is as relevant then as it is now! I’m always here for it ❤️❤️❤️

  • @HeartyHeartt
    @HeartyHeartt 10 місяців тому +24

    Reminds me of the good ol vlogs. So glad to continue seeing you're growth from pop up events to living and learning and staying fabulous ❤❤

  • @meicealways5842
    @meicealways5842 10 місяців тому +7

    Girl we are all so proud of u and your happy girl life! And u can tell we’re all growing with u because we’re tellin u to protect your privacy. Your real supporters don’t wanna be all up in your business! We’re just happy you’re making content girl! Love u!

  • @Twelvestar12
    @Twelvestar12 10 місяців тому +8

    It's called growth. I'm so happy for you Aliyah... get it girl.

  • @LoveeLorynn
    @LoveeLorynn 10 місяців тому +10

    Just gotta find a healthy medium, don’t overshare but share just enough to connect with your supporters ❤

  • @naturally_fit3549
    @naturally_fit3549 10 місяців тому +9

    Heavy on the happy girl era. I love watching a realistic UA-camr like you’re dope. Keep it up and 🥂 to a healthy happy life boo💜💖

  • @alexussturdivant6938
    @alexussturdivant6938 10 місяців тому +5

    This convo was needed.. happy girl era. Those who grow up with you feel like we’re going through and are in similar places in our lives

  • @ExtraReagan
    @ExtraReagan 10 місяців тому +3

    Love youuu! I’m glad you’re putting your happiness before an aesthetic. Being perfect on camera gets boring. Authenticity is always the best ❤

  • @rochelleduncan875
    @rochelleduncan875 10 місяців тому +6

    I love when you give us new content. My comfort ❤

  • @spoildrama7
    @spoildrama7 10 місяців тому +6

    Nahhh that true religion varsity jacket is bomb

  • @chrtyhwrd
    @chrtyhwrd 10 місяців тому +4

    I can definitely tell you been different Aaliyah. Your voice also sounds different too. However, if you hate it (your bubble) then only you have the power to change that. Also, you are older now as well and we change. You can just simple embrace that. Your subribers will love you anyway or your new subcribers will be the ones in this new journey of yours. I miss the old you too, but I know we all change. I'm not the same either girl. Blessings to you❤️

  • @Queenkady876
    @Queenkady876 10 місяців тому +5

    Sending love from jamaica 🇯🇲 boo we luv ❤️ you out here 🫶🏼

  • @BrownEbony
    @BrownEbony 10 місяців тому +2

    We love Native!!! Let me gone head and use the code!!! & a private life is a happy life - leave something for the imagination 🥰

  • @tanyacivic
    @tanyacivic 10 місяців тому +1

    Thats the thing about Aaliyah...She's ALWAYS growing and glowing.

  • @furry_fy2
    @furry_fy2 10 місяців тому +1

    I miss the old me too sis😢 dealing with toxic people will do that to u❤I’m happy you’re finding your happiness again

  • @missd6769
    @missd6769 10 місяців тому +1

    LISTENNNNN this hair is GIVING, it's giving grown woman vibes and I love it on you!!!!

  • @TShaiNatalia
    @TShaiNatalia 10 місяців тому +11

    I feel what you said about being in a bubble😩 I think it was the pandemic because I’ve been feeling the same or maybe we’re just getting older lol

    • @bellastar1299
      @bellastar1299 10 місяців тому +5

      Idk but I wanna go outside lmaooo! I understand what she’s saying about getting back to that place. I’ve been inside for like 4 years but, ugh lol

  • @W.S.T.K
    @W.S.T.K 10 місяців тому +9

    Hey i love you so much and I felt you a lot in this vlog i believe us cancers are very moody and emotional and we live by our feelings a lot more than we should that’ll make us doubtful or overthink but I want to say you got this keep having faith and time will play it’s out for the rest

    • @bellastar1299
      @bellastar1299 10 місяців тому +1

      Omg this is to trueee. So many things wouldn’t weigh on us but, we allow the heavy ones to keep us from sooo many things!

  • @marij3583
    @marij3583 10 місяців тому +3

    ❤ Hey Aaliyah, it was crazy that you were taking pictures right across from my job… So, happy you came to our city (DC) to visit… 💐

  • @shanicem.3535
    @shanicem.3535 7 місяців тому

    You seem like you are in such a great space mentally and I love it & you look SO pretty per usual!

  • @michellealicea8487
    @michellealicea8487 10 місяців тому +2

    Beautiful so glad that you are in a good space I always pray for the girls. My Daughter is your age . She watch you girls I love too see the glow up you been doing this . Love to see you girls glow and grow

  • @xoAuthentiChick
    @xoAuthentiChick 10 місяців тому

    You not bring the same is growing pains Aaliyah, when your prefrontal lobe fully forms. I changed a lot to around the same time, along with a midlife crisis, and relationship woes/becoming a mother. Give yourself some grace, you’ll evolve back into the woman and the you soon ❤️

  • @iriswood3744
    @iriswood3744 10 місяців тому +3

    Hi Dont be afraid Be Brave i live alone to i have been holdin me down for 19, 20 years i dont feel awkward/afraid

  • @mupaaa9747
    @mupaaa9747 10 місяців тому +7

    After all the " we " in this video...girl you are not alone ( cf the title)

    • @kennayakimble
      @kennayakimble 10 місяців тому +3

      Right I’m tryna figure out who the hell is “we” 😂😭😭

  • @AdoseofAlana_
    @AdoseofAlana_ 10 місяців тому +1

    Girl you look so pretty I'm loving the hair its giving effortless. Make that happy girl era a forever thing 😉❤ also i was excited about that outfit you described in the beginning and we didnt get to see it 😂😂 what happened lol. And im so mad you were in DC and i missed it! My neck of the woods!!!

  • @MyAlaskaHome
    @MyAlaskaHome 10 місяців тому +5

    What is the lip color the person used on you? I absolutely loved it!

  • @leeksboss6039
    @leeksboss6039 10 місяців тому +4

    I need the Happy Girl Era part to be a sound on Tik Tok ASAP

  • @jennamariee478
    @jennamariee478 10 місяців тому

    happy to see you stepping outside of your comfort zone. Love you so much Aaliyah

  • @stefanieservance138
    @stefanieservance138 8 місяців тому

    Yrs love the chit chat happy to see you in you're happy girl era love this for channel very inspiring and soothinh 😊❤

  • @shelinkacunningham4517
    @shelinkacunningham4517 10 місяців тому +2

    I loveee that!!! Yes happy girl era!! That’s what I need!!!!

  • @ADoseofKryssy
    @ADoseofKryssy 10 місяців тому

    Thank you for sharing your with us! You showed us how to boss us and I’m excited for you to show us your journey into your happy girl era which I pray is everlasting!

  • @Kaialeslie
    @Kaialeslie 10 місяців тому +3

    uhm where is that robe from in the first clip? its eatingggg and I also know the feeling in being in a really unknown "waiting" season but I see God's light in you and I can feel that he is preparing you for your best season yet.

  • @lulu.916
    @lulu.916 10 місяців тому +1

    Almost to 2mil you deserve it🎉🎉...road to 2mil lets get it....

  • @candicesmith1708
    @candicesmith1708 10 місяців тому +1

    Oh wow !
    Congratulations!!
    You were in my neck of the woods! DMV

    • @gr82bdanyelle
      @gr82bdanyelle 10 місяців тому

      DC babyyy not the M or the V lmaoo Real Washingtonian don’t say that acronym

  • @Lia_Sha
    @Lia_Sha 10 місяців тому +1

    I’m noticing your lil gap is peeking again . I love it😩😍

  • @accordingtobrittt
    @accordingtobrittt 10 місяців тому

    I’m so overdue for some Karen and Rita! I hope it’s still bringing you so much success and happiness ❤

  • @officiallycoco22
    @officiallycoco22 10 місяців тому +1

    Yes you were in DC. I hope you enjoyed yourself while you were here😊

  • @Lia_Sha
    @Lia_Sha 10 місяців тому

    GIVE YOURSELF CREDIT MAMAS YOU ARE THE REAL UA-camR GOAT !🙏🏾💯

  • @ShaniquaJwest
    @ShaniquaJwest 10 місяців тому

    Can you do a hair tutorial, on this look especially? 😍😍😍😍

  • @jessicabellone913
    @jessicabellone913 10 місяців тому

    You are beautiful girl !! With or without makeup! Wishing you all the happiness on your journey! 💖

  • @baileyfunk
    @baileyfunk 10 місяців тому +1

    so much congratulations aaliyah I been watching you for so long ! and you really are a success I hope you feel tht shit cuz girl you did that, I seen it ❤

  • @marilynporter1484
    @marilynporter1484 10 місяців тому +1

    I can't wait to get my Native 🎉 just ordered 😝😝😝

  • @GracefullyGracious
    @GracefullyGracious 10 місяців тому +2

    Can we please get a tutorial on how to get your wig like this??

  • @michellee.1982
    @michellee.1982 10 місяців тому +2

    I love the lip color at the end of your video wen you said they was crusty..😂 whatever huni you are beautiful...but what's the brand and color name of that lip?

  • @relaxingspa2925
    @relaxingspa2925 6 місяців тому

    I love your smile it's so beautiful ❤️💯💪🏿

  • @stephanylouis
    @stephanylouis 9 місяців тому

    Thanks for the code Boo ❤

  • @jasminedequise
    @jasminedequise 10 місяців тому

    Happy Girl is a LIFESTYLE 🩷

  • @Apiscesworld
    @Apiscesworld 10 місяців тому

    Obessed with the bomb shell curls!!😍😍

  • @heartofgold848
    @heartofgold848 10 місяців тому

    Loving your growth

  • @deebwoy9291
    @deebwoy9291 10 місяців тому

    Its an Emotional/Feeling you/we become aware of... which consist of varying degrees... if its the The Feeling preferred to be resonating in Your life throughout in the Now!
    ...then recognize it and allow it!
    A Happy Life.... Living it and Feeling it... is on-going Balancing Act!
    Enjoy! 😍💯❣

  • @Eksemandisa
    @Eksemandisa 9 місяців тому

    Love from South africa !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @jamaicanbsnrn
    @jamaicanbsnrn 10 місяців тому +8

    Been watching since you were a teenager doing your makeup by the apartment window. This was when you didn’t put makeup on your forehead😅

    • @PhitayaaM
      @PhitayaaM 10 місяців тому +2

      low key she still doesn't lol she not messing up that lace for anyone lol

    • @taes.8724
      @taes.8724 10 місяців тому +3

      Just concealer !

  • @meicealways5842
    @meicealways5842 10 місяців тому

    Soon as i left dc seems like everyone wen took
    Dupont was a good area i stayed in that same area! Their food was bomb up there!

  • @FrontDesk-b7w
    @FrontDesk-b7w 10 місяців тому

    Werk Boo, you look amazing and I pray you receive all the blessings God has in store! :-) Keep Applying Pressure!

  • @bond007jinxie6
    @bond007jinxie6 10 місяців тому

    I was about to ask bout surgery but I see you answered it unlike some of the others & this is y you’re where u at

  • @Shesosassygirl
    @Shesosassygirl 10 місяців тому

    loved the Target outfit💕

  • @Jasmeinmaree
    @Jasmeinmaree 10 місяців тому

    I’m loving this!!!! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @SofreshSoclean101
    @SofreshSoclean101 10 місяців тому

    Love this for her 🫶🏾

  • @NailsbyKnesha
    @NailsbyKnesha 10 місяців тому +1

    Make up and skin flawless❤❤

  • @MsLi512
    @MsLi512 10 місяців тому

    The hair. The coat 😍

  • @Crossg77
    @Crossg77 10 місяців тому

    Love love this hair style on you

  • @PattyPatShow
    @PattyPatShow 10 місяців тому

    Please we need a video of this hair 😍😍😍

  • @Eksemandisa
    @Eksemandisa 9 місяців тому

    LETSSSSSS GOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!! 😊😊😊😊

  • @CleansingGemAesthetics_Chii
    @CleansingGemAesthetics_Chii 10 місяців тому

    I have been loving your transformation… I can’t wait to get to this level of life. So refreshing!! You need your privacy! 🫶🏾✨

  • @Lia_Sha
    @Lia_Sha 10 місяців тому +1

    22:01 🥹🥹💕💕🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @tgyltrizzy
    @tgyltrizzy 10 місяців тому

    Forever my fave ❤

  • @kimholmes2024
    @kimholmes2024 9 місяців тому

    I ❤you sis either way

  • @Cocoamamiiii
    @Cocoamamiiii 10 місяців тому

    Im impressed that you put the white tee on without getting any makeup on it lol

  • @madaleinem8109
    @madaleinem8109 10 місяців тому +3

    Can you do a hygiene shopping video or your hygiene routine plzz🥲

  • @FamilyGALyuhh
    @FamilyGALyuhh 10 місяців тому

    Native and DC checking innnn🎉🎃👠

  • @jasminedequise
    @jasminedequise 10 місяців тому +1

    Aaliyah, your becoming a WOMAN your growing out of your “Girl stage.” That’s why you’re a different person, that’s why you don’t feel like you felt 2 years ago. You have elevated you have to EMBRACE the woman you’ve BECOME. 💕🥰

  • @nataliearguelles8063
    @nataliearguelles8063 10 місяців тому +1

    Babe whats the link to the white amazon tee?!? 🫶🏼🫶🏼😂

  • @DominiqueStarr1
    @DominiqueStarr1 10 місяців тому

    I love Native!

  • @aleynaaleyna8731
    @aleynaaleyna8731 9 місяців тому

    You should link up with Rochelle Clarke remeber you gueys linked up way back it was good times

  • @honeybeet3713
    @honeybeet3713 10 місяців тому

    The OG IT GIRL ✨😍

  • @TheGreenSkreenKween
    @TheGreenSkreenKween 10 місяців тому +2

    Happiness is not a forever all the time thing.
    Happiness is an emotion that comes n goes.
    JOY & PEACE IS FOREVER INSIDE YOU.🤔
    Those things can be tinkered with IF YOU ALLOW SOMEONE TO INTERRUPT YOUR LIFE NEGATIVELY.🤷🏽‍♀️
    Aliyah dating diff men can be a good/not so good experience.
    Yes we need them just like they need us.
    However, I think making your relationship public on line like a lot of women young n old do is not it.
    Until he becomes your husband DONT DO IT!
    Keep your business of UA-cam private from him UNLESS YOU KNOW HES NOT TRYING TO USE YOU FOR FAME ETC.
    I’m a new UA-camr and NO HE WILL NOT BE INCLUDING MY BUSINESS ENDEAVORS.
    YOURE NOT MY HUSBAND!
    The same way men do and behave.
    They don’t put you on the social media , you can’t call after 9pm, he can ONLY GO OUT ON WEDNESDAY🤣
    You get my drift where I’m getting at…
    TREAT THEM THE WAY THEY TREAT YOU!
    Men respond to ACTIONS
    NOT
    WORDS!
    Love you Ms. AJ!
    You are meant for a loyal and loving husband!
    God will bring him to you.💚

  • @SenseiAishitemasu
    @SenseiAishitemasu 10 місяців тому

    My city 🎉 and ofc it was raining lol

  • @annette6569
    @annette6569 10 місяців тому

    Love your vlogs. Can I please ask where your wig is from and if you could do more hair and makeup vlogs 😊

  • @marvelouslee6764
    @marvelouslee6764 10 місяців тому

    First one 😂 to click!! #1 fan ❤😘

  • @yoyo2182
    @yoyo2182 9 місяців тому

    I like this you better … maturity is not always talkative… when you’re happy like under eye circles… you gotta conceal it 😅… if you wanna keep it… less is more… Blessings my sustah ❤🎊

  • @Leshababy123
    @Leshababy123 10 місяців тому

    You look gorgeous 🥰🥰 hair tutorial plssss🥰🥰

  • @JennJennntv
    @JennJennntv 10 місяців тому

    I never seen Gossip girl 🤣 I might have to tune in

  • @CH-pf6ce
    @CH-pf6ce 10 місяців тому +2

    I think what’s she’s alluding to with “happy girl era” is the reality that’s she’s almost 30 but single, no man or family life. Being a bad bitch is cool and all but it’s short lived. Look at how even young Miami is talking about she’s 30 soon and NOW want to settle down. After BURNING her 20s being a city girl thot. I think in this case, Aaliyah didn’t burn it being a thot but did burn her 20s giving a single man way too many yrs of her life with no ring or progress. Only to break up and start from scratch at 30. We have to learn how not to burn the precious yrs of our lives.
    I pray Aaliyah finds love bc at the end of the day all this success feels empty when there’s no one to share it with, no family of your own, etc. and I think. That’s what her heart is missing the most these days

  • @keashathomas962
    @keashathomas962 10 місяців тому

    You should do a robe haul Aaliyah soft girl edition. Because for the life of me I have no idea where you find all the good soft & sexy robes.

  • @PhitayaaM
    @PhitayaaM 10 місяців тому +4

    its so funny because I put my man onto gossip girl and he will sit with me and watch it lmbo

  • @gr82bdanyelle
    @gr82bdanyelle 10 місяців тому

    DuPont hotel lol! So sad I didn’t see u in my cityyyy

  • @alexuslisby54
    @alexuslisby54 10 місяців тому

    Definitely Master the Bad B* Era Period ❤‼️💅🏽

  • @ishaw9894
    @ishaw9894 10 місяців тому

    Tell big arms we said heyyy!!!

  • @Jasminelovee
    @Jasminelovee 10 місяців тому

    When you trying to talk & listen to your bf convo at the same time lol 😂

  • @lilmiszbootybounce09
    @lilmiszbootybounce09 10 місяців тому +1

    I liked it before I watched

  • @Elliahxvlishv
    @Elliahxvlishv 10 місяців тому

    Me and Aaliyah got dressed together how cute😂💕

  • @Gisellej80
    @Gisellej80 10 місяців тому

    Hair looks nice