Melina KB - I’ve Had Enough (Lyrics)

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  • Опубліковано 25 сер 2024
  • "I've Had Enough" Official Music Video out now. Click here to watch: • Melina KB - I’ve Had E...
    This girl’s night anthem is the soundtrack to slamming the door on your ex, celebrating self-care, and leaving toxicity in the past! Over the course of the past few years I was on the receiving end of the most disgusting misogyny, and expected to take it all graciously and politely. I am done with being silent, and it deeply hurts me knowing many others have shared these experiences universally. Writing “I’ve Had Enough” has inspired me to take back my story and stand up for myself, and it would fulfill my heart if I could help anybody do the same. No man can demand our bodies, our spirits, our love, and BLAST THIS BOP TO TELL ‘EM SO!
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 2,9 тис.

  • @lienebaumane2801
    @lienebaumane2801 3 роки тому +18189

    This song sounds like it could be in a musical

  • @heyitshay5129
    @heyitshay5129 3 роки тому +12974

    "If your so mature now I think it's time you grow up. Admit you did it we all know you did it. And yet you still gaslight me up." Those lyrics hit me different.

    • @LunarTrap2625
      @LunarTrap2625 3 роки тому +249

      It reminds me of my mother when she cause many problems to my family and treating me bad for no reason when I saw the lyrics, that’s every emotions that I have to go through when she does that….

    • @heyitshay5129
      @heyitshay5129 3 роки тому +135

      @@LunarTrap2625 Aww. It reminds me of my father. Who would gaslight me and abuse me. We are getting ready to go to court to get full custody for my mom. I am so sorry you had to deal with that.

    • @epilepsylizard2469
      @epilepsylizard2469 3 роки тому +50

      That’s what I came here for

    • @kyzdenise3495
      @kyzdenise3495 3 роки тому +37

      @@LunarTrap2625 the same thing is also happening to me too..I hope you're feeling better now

    • @LunarTrap2625
      @LunarTrap2625 2 роки тому +25

      Thank you guys for that support since I needed it due to depression and anxiety because of her and I’m trying to talk to people about my problem but what if they don’t know what I have been and just walk away from me?

  • @randomheadful7190
    @randomheadful7190 2 роки тому +3323

    I’m 52 and my teenage daughter introduced me to this song. I am so glad young women have music like this reminding them of their worth in a very powerful way. The lessons here are ones I wished I had learned much younger. To all you Gen Z girls, never compromise your integrity or your soul for a man. It’s time we held them accountable. I know I’ve had enough.

    • @yestheprofileismyart6435
      @yestheprofileismyart6435 2 роки тому +73

      Ty!

    • @zelda7059
      @zelda7059 2 роки тому +85

      The only flaw I will point out in this song is how gendered it is. If it was more gender neutral then I think a more wider audience would relate to this. (Like male and non binary victims.) Yeah, most predators are men but we shouldn't forget that alot of predators are women too.

    • @arandomcatheehee
      @arandomcatheehee 2 роки тому

      @@zelda7059 I think this song is specifically meant to be empowerment for women, especially since we still have men in power trying to quiet us and take our rights away. Example: Texas wants to make abortion completely illegal AND punishable with death sentence. Rape has a lower bail than abortions. In many places in the world, women are still heavily oppressed.

    • @oreos.mikewheeler442
      @oreos.mikewheeler442 2 роки тому

      @@zelda7059 Your comment is probably my favorite one here. I love this song but the only dislike I have is that it seems to make only girls relate to this. Even though it doesn't say every boy is a predator, I would like it to have girls, boys, AND non-binary people.

    • @Soup_phobic
      @Soup_phobic 2 роки тому +12

      @@yestheprofileismyart6435
      Agreed

  • @noah_the_tvboy1321
    @noah_the_tvboy1321 Рік тому +540

    As a boy, who's was molested by a young adult at the age of 8 for months, and nothing was done about it, I can't help but love and sing this song

    • @IristheDreamon
      @IristheDreamon 7 місяців тому +34

      I’m sorry that happened to you. I hope you’re doing better now. ❤

    • @azrael5839
      @azrael5839 6 місяців тому +20

      I hope you're feeling alright and if you're not that you find the path of healing. Mental pain may linger but we can learn to be happy despite it 💖

    • @eli3rdgender208
      @eli3rdgender208 5 місяців тому +14

      You are not alone

    • @serenityy111
      @serenityy111 4 місяці тому +14

      youre struggle is valid, and we're all here for you

    • @Quail.was-here
      @Quail.was-here 3 місяці тому +16

      Girl or not sa is a horrible experience. I hope you’ve mentally healed.

  • @unnah
    @unnah 3 роки тому +11454

    this gives me Someone Gets Hurt from Mean Girls, kinda Burn from Hamilton and Congatulations vibes (also heather chandler and regina george) I LOVE THIS

    • @MelinaKB
      @MelinaKB  3 роки тому +2084

      YES oh my gosh thank you!!!! That is such a huge compliment!

    • @iluvcheese6679
      @iluvcheese6679 3 роки тому +118

      I thought the same

    • @jamieroman2495
      @jamieroman2495 3 роки тому +55

      Yes exactly

    • @roxyannee5536
      @roxyannee5536 3 роки тому +37

      YEAH EXACTLY

    • @tennie3812
      @tennie3812 3 роки тому +61

      Oh gosh so that's why a small part of me was like, this vibe feels kinda familiar

  • @junospace
    @junospace 3 роки тому +6316

    this is the song you listen to while planning to ruin your exes life and i’m all for it-

    • @MelinaKB
      @MelinaKB  3 роки тому +887

      Absolutely & thank youuu!!!

    • @angelbarrameda8571
      @angelbarrameda8571 3 роки тому +144

      Don't just plan, do it 😶🤭 it's more fun that way

    • @chloeloves1167
      @chloeloves1167 3 роки тому +47

      Let's burn down their house I believe in you

    • @VinVin_31
      @VinVin_31 3 роки тому +37

      Wouldn’t make you any better.

    • @Ruyumi-Royota
      @Ruyumi-Royota 3 роки тому +16

      @@MelinaKB this is amazing
      ✨👏🏾✨

  • @darksnakezz8932
    @darksnakezz8932 2 роки тому +1425

    i feel like as a man i am not "allowed" to sing along to this since its a song for women whose voices got silenced. but as a victim of rape twice i just can't do anything but sing along. thank you for your amazing song!

    • @dagianlee8519
      @dagianlee8519 2 роки тому +312

      This song should be for everyone.

    • @browhattheactualfu-2659
      @browhattheactualfu-2659 2 роки тому +358

      This song isn't directed at every man in the world. It's for the ones that abuse, assault, etc. Sing on!

    • @CxmfyBeanoldacc
      @CxmfyBeanoldacc 2 роки тому +116

      I hope your doing better 🥺❤️

    • @JustAFantasy2015
      @JustAFantasy2015 Рік тому +100

      good sir sing to your hearts content

    • @hithere911
      @hithere911 Рік тому +90

      I'm sorry you had to go through that. I hope you're in a much better place and doing better now.

  • @Goodnight.Jupiter
    @Goodnight.Jupiter 2 роки тому +247

    The "I survived a toxic relationship" Anthem and im here for it

  • @colormelolita
    @colormelolita 3 роки тому +4635

    I realized one of the reasons I love this. Her enunciation and it almost sounds like a Broadway song if the chorus didn't repeat i could hear this in a musical. ALSO she's an alto and we need to normalize people who can sing don't need to hit soprano notes and still sound fire and make an impact.

    • @gachacute7379
      @gachacute7379 2 роки тому +190

      Yeah it does! For some reason “you are such a flame out. Your only drive left’s in the bed” really reminded me of a broadways show idk why

    • @Lulu_RL800
      @Lulu_RL800 2 роки тому +52

      I would love any Broadway musical she sings in. Cuz it does and it sounds amazing.

    • @katpage9378
      @katpage9378 2 роки тому +3

      That’s actually the reason I really dislike this song

    • @tanginamo12321
      @tanginamo12321 2 роки тому +40

      @@katpage9378 to each their own

    • @katpage9378
      @katpage9378 2 роки тому +2

      @@tanginamo12321 thanks. I really dislike frozen too

  • @amity4562
    @amity4562 3 роки тому +14736

    AM I THE ONLY ONE WHO GETS PARTNERS IN CRIME BY SET IT OFF VIBES FROM THIS??? I LOVE THIS.

    • @nex_._
      @nex_._ 3 роки тому +382

      YES I HEAR THE SIMULAROTIES

    • @calicothecreator.
      @calicothecreator. 3 роки тому +1172

      Pov: the partners in crime splitted up

    • @amity4562
      @amity4562 3 роки тому +223

      @@calicothecreator. YES LMAO

    • @melanchabri
      @melanchabri 3 роки тому +179

      OMG THANK YOU, I THOUGHT I RECOGNIZED THIS SONG

    • @rosebud577
      @rosebud577 3 роки тому +84

      @@calicothecreator.
      YES

  • @rosierose7031
    @rosierose7031 2 роки тому +485

    My mother works with abused women and she absolutely loves this song!

    • @tseliius
      @tseliius 2 роки тому +26

      Tell your mom that she’s awesome. ✨

    • @saturn6563
      @saturn6563 2 роки тому +13

      Tell your mom that she is awesome and also tell your mom to tell the women she works with that they are awesome!

    • @ed_cmntonly
      @ed_cmntonly 8 місяців тому +6

      Tell ya mom she's based and got the highest respect from humanity

  • @Glitched_Goth
    @Glitched_Goth 2 роки тому +797

    As someone who got groomed and has the frustrating experience of said groomer avoiding accountability like the plague, the part 2:58 - 3:17 hits SO hard for me. This entire song makes me feel so much less alone in my resentment and anger towards him. Everyone who's experienced any type of sexual assault, abuse, grooming, etc, is SO strong. And after reading the comments I can confidently say that, we survived hell, and for that we should have the right to feel any emotions we can towards our abusers with no strings attached or others telling us to "forgive and forget". It should be, and IS, up to you how you handle your recovery process - not forgiving whoever hurt you does NOT make you a bad person and it is NOT required to heal. Because it is YOUR choice on how you cope/recover. And nobody from an outside perspective has the right to tell you that it's wrong.

    • @makennalillian2435
      @makennalillian2435 2 роки тому +20

      ive experienced this exact same damn thing, and i agree with EVERYTHING you said. yes maam 👏

    • @dekuanimeweeb9336
      @dekuanimeweeb9336 2 роки тому +29

      My mom keeps telling me I NEED to forgive my ‘brother’ for things he did to me and I told her no and she gets mad at me every time. She always says ‘you can forgive someone but it doesn’t mean you forget’ and I tell her I’m never forgiving him and that I don’t care about him anymore

    • @molly.dog8brooke792
      @molly.dog8brooke792 2 роки тому +16

      YESSSSSS!!! My parents told me “you didn’t tell us at the time, so it’s time to get over it, you can’t keep using that as an excuse” (an excuse for what, I’ve never asked). Fuck that, I’m allowed to be as resentful as I want towards them. Say it louder for those in the back!!!

    • @Mvlt1
      @Mvlt1 Рік тому +10

      Damn I feel so sorry for y’all. I’m a trans guy, I had my dad sexually abuse me and rape me multiple times when I was 4-5, and my friends got sexually abused by family members, and my little sister got sexually assaulted by my step great grandfather I know how it feels and I have empathy for all those who had to experience that

    • @BlindStarLily
      @BlindStarLily Рік тому +12

      Thank the gods I’ve never been SAed, but I was made to feel extremely uncomfortable and vulnerable by a much older man. I was fourteen years old, maybe 4`9`` and 100 LBS soaking wet. I’m also disabled, and as such I took a certain bus full of other kids who couldn’t take the normal bus to school. It came right to my door to pick me up. The bus driver saw me in a very modest sundress. Like when I say modest, I mean knee length dress with a jacket on over it and a ribbon in my hair. I looked like a little girl, and he kept making these extremely uncomfortable comments about how pretty I looked, telling me that the boys would be all over me, how he’d, “See you tomorrow, beautiful lady/pretty girl,” and how I should, “Stop biting those beautiful lips.” It took me crying into a friend’s chest for an hour to be able to report him, and even then he wasn’t fired. I was just moved to a different bus. Until he quit, whenever I passed him, he’d call out, “Hey sweetie,” to me whenever I passed by his bus, and he later went on to comment about how suggestively another disabled friend, who is younger than me, looked in the clothes they were wearing. For reference, they were literally just wearing shorts and a T-shirt. I finally worked up the courage to tell my older brothers about it, and they told me it wasn’t sexual harassment because he didn’t tell me he wanted to have sex with me, and started getting all up in arms defending the adult man who told a fourteen year old girl who looked about twelve years old how beautiful her body was. I feel sick to my stomach just thinking about him, and I still remember his full name and now can only associate the first name with bad things. Though it was nice later on that my bus drivers after him knew exactly what he’d said and one of them outright told me, “You have every right to be angry. Nobody should ever talk to a young girl like that.” It was especially validating because he had previously been friends with the other driver until he learned what he’d done, at which point he stopped respecting him completely and wouldn’t even allow him near the bus when I got off and on. That’s the driver who’s name I wish I remembered

  • @breemcgarry194
    @breemcgarry194 3 роки тому +7253

    Added this to my “the only time I miss a man is when I swing and he ducks” playlist 😌

    • @gannawalidibrahim2664
      @gannawalidibrahim2664 3 роки тому +470

      why do i feel like me and you would be friends

    • @nattykat2736
      @nattykat2736 3 роки тому +313

      Imma need that playlist, thanks

    • @ellie9621
      @ellie9621 3 роки тому +244

      Don't be shy share the playlist (jk u don't have too)

    • @cupidarrows6656
      @cupidarrows6656 3 роки тому +95

      PLEASE- I LOVE IT

    • @webby9044
      @webby9044 2 роки тому +84

      Omg I saw duck and I just thought of the song duck is lord

  • @potatoskin5168
    @potatoskin5168 3 роки тому +2968

    I DO NOT BELIEVE IN SIGNS BUT THIS CAME OUT ON WHAT WAS SUPPOSED TO BE MY ONE YEAR WITH A SHITTY EX. THIS IS THE SONG I NEED TO HEAR TODAY

    • @MelinaKB
      @MelinaKB  3 роки тому +426

      I AM SENDING YOU SO MUCH LOVE & AM SO GLAD THIS SONG REACHED YOU

    • @sherrilogan5400
      @sherrilogan5400 3 роки тому +21

      Same like wtf

    • @wowsports8800
      @wowsports8800 3 роки тому +15

      Then you should start to believe

    • @theincarnateofkurro
      @theincarnateofkurro 3 роки тому +8

      @@wowsports8800 dont force beliefs on people :/

    • @_cocoon_8694
      @_cocoon_8694 2 роки тому +8

      @@theincarnateofkurro I Thought They Were Repeating What Parappa The Rapper Said-
      *"I Gotta Believe!"*

  • @dancingbunnie5550
    @dancingbunnie5550 2 роки тому +139

    ''And for the boys, Who don't care who they destroy, Told us "No'' was not a choice, You can not silence our voice."
    probably my favorite line.

  • @17lili17
    @17lili17 2 роки тому +774

    screaming this while still in an abusive relationship, fuelling the future me who WILL have the strength that i don’t now.
    june 2023- i’m out ❤️

    • @justherebruh6822
      @justherebruh6822 2 роки тому +48

      you got this girl!!!

    • @ihakarthik4725
      @ihakarthik4725 2 роки тому +41

      you can do it hon!!!! we’re rooting for you!

    • @SophieCxt
      @SophieCxt 2 роки тому +34

      I’M CHEERING YOU ON!!!

    • @neurodivergent-velociraptor
      @neurodivergent-velociraptor 2 роки тому +20

      You got this love!! Rooting for you ❤️

    • @17lili17
      @17lili17 2 роки тому +13

      @@justherebruh6822 i get stronger and closer every day ❤️

  • @lucychivers
    @lucychivers 3 роки тому +3639

    Wait a second....
    WHY ISN'T THIS THE WOMEN'S ANTHEM YET?
    This song and "When A Girl" By Cary should be our anthem 💞✊🏼✊🏽✊🏾✊🏿💞

    • @HerefortheOGvideos
      @HerefortheOGvideos 3 роки тому +26

      Thanks for commenting this song! I went to listen to it & I love it

    • @BLU-ky6bn
      @BLU-ky6bn 3 роки тому +30

      Question? Why do women need an anthem? Does every gender need one orrr?

    • @elsaoravakangas2538
      @elsaoravakangas2538 3 роки тому +10

      And power by little mix

    • @urmom-un9yx
      @urmom-un9yx 3 роки тому +17

      Don't forget "boys will be boys" by dua lipa💗

    • @Norecalls
      @Norecalls 3 роки тому +72

      @@BLU-ky6bn genders dont need an anthem, I believe this is just a complement for how well written this song is sense no comment should be taken seriously tbh, yeah i wont deny the song is good but it shouldnt just a play a role as an anthem sense this could just genuinely be an experience the singer has went through

  • @tinyartangel9611
    @tinyartangel9611 3 роки тому +1501

    That one dislike is from the ex

    • @MelinaKB
      @MelinaKB  3 роки тому +308

      TEA TEAAAAA

    • @heyitsmeurcat6951
      @heyitsmeurcat6951 3 роки тому +61

      @@MelinaKB girl don’t forget us when you become famous pleaseee

    • @scar_rat1955
      @scar_rat1955 3 роки тому +17

      @@heyitsmeurcat6951 LOVE THE PFP

    • @batsybuns5911
      @batsybuns5911 3 роки тому +14

      Scar_ Rat
      I READ ‘I LOVE THE PP’ HELP

    • @scar_rat1955
      @scar_rat1955 3 роки тому +6

      @@batsybuns5911 BHAHAHA

  • @Alini_
    @Alini_ 2 роки тому +142

    2:18
    It reminds me of the bully started out friend who gave me trauma, the class mates and teachers who stood by and did nothing and blamed me. My dad who reaffirmed the things the bully would tell me. The friends who took advantage of me and left me. The boy who wouldn’t leave me alone and scarred me when I was 6 years old on the school yard. The doctors and therapists who push me to the side and allowed my issues to get worse. The family who loved me only when I behaved. The bully who left my psyche more shattered than Cinderella’s forgotten glass slipper.

    • @thatchaoticneutral3730
      @thatchaoticneutral3730 2 роки тому +4

      Yooo!
      Same dude, wanna talk ‘bout it?
      If not we good but like trauma isn’t very fun

    • @trinityrodriquez5476
      @trinityrodriquez5476 2 роки тому +3

      Reminds me of my emotionally abusive mother

    • @0sleepy_moon
      @0sleepy_moon 2 роки тому +2

      I have a story like that it was when I was in kindergarten everyone bully me pinched me and laugh at me and everything bad I was still little so I didn't understand that it was bad and did not tell anyone :(

    • @girlygirl666lollipops
      @girlygirl666lollipops Рік тому

      That is so sad like

  • @kreati_
    @kreati_ 2 роки тому +67

    I love that it starts as a song about one specific woman's experience but at the end it becomes an anthem for every girl who has gone through similar problems.

  • @eldritchcatgirl
    @eldritchcatgirl 3 роки тому +3591

    I award you the highest honor,
    **Makes an animatic in my head of this, never to be created**

  • @yamnamoreno7607
    @yamnamoreno7607 3 роки тому +2866

    IVE BEEN WAITING FOR THIS ONE! SO EXCITED TO ADD THIS TO MY PLAYLIST.

    • @CacahueteParlante
      @CacahueteParlante 3 роки тому +75

      ME TOO SIS

    • @MelinaKB
      @MelinaKB  3 роки тому +196

      OMG THANK YOU!!

    • @MelinaKB
      @MelinaKB  3 роки тому +157

      @@CacahueteParlante Y'all are SO SWEET

    • @nekomc6232
      @nekomc6232 3 роки тому +31

      @@MelinaKB I'm not gonna say I know you BUT GREAT VIDEO❤❤❤

  • @luna-mo3ol
    @luna-mo3ol 2 роки тому +91

    This needs to be in a musical. Like seriously.

  • @jessicahalma-reed5854
    @jessicahalma-reed5854 2 роки тому +224

    Was anyone else struck by: "I don't deserve this, and for your next girlfriend, you need to treat her with respect"?
    I'm so used to hearing women sing songs about exes and bashing the women who date him after them as slots and hoes.
    If 2021 is the year that women move more towards standing up for each other and building each other up regardless of what they do or who they date, then at least something good came out of it ❤

  • @flyingblind5677
    @flyingblind5677 3 роки тому +959

    The pre chorus is the actual embodiment of a chefs kiss

    • @MelinaKB
      @MelinaKB  3 роки тому +133

      ahaha I love this comment thank uuu!!!

  • @BasicallyCaramel
    @BasicallyCaramel 3 роки тому +800

    The part everyone uses: 2:18 - 3:05
    The best part of the song: 0:01 - 3:31

  • @jonathanfellows7868
    @jonathanfellows7868 2 роки тому +126

    This song fits unnervingly well with the USA right now-

  • @jjhurd1464
    @jjhurd1464 2 роки тому +132

    Does this bring up memories of parental psychological abuse for anyone else? My dad still gaslights me and has the audacity to demand my presence whenever he wants something done but refuses to acknowledge that I've already done so much for him.

    • @nuny4592
      @nuny4592 2 роки тому +18

      It's always funny when people say you never do anything for them yet they're always the first person they run to when they need something done.
      But anyway, it honestly *does* remind me about my parents (as well as reminds me of my ex). It's def the typa song that I'll blast once I cut my parents out of my life when I turn 18.

    • @isabelberger9441
      @isabelberger9441 2 роки тому +7

      Yes, it reminds me of my mom…

    • @BraveBowgamingYT
      @BraveBowgamingYT 2 роки тому +3

      yes very

    • @thatbluspook4483
      @thatbluspook4483 Рік тому +1

      Yes, it reminds me of the verbal, emotional, and psychological abuse my mother put me through. Soon, it'll be the anniversary of my first year free of her, and hearing the section with "gaslighting me up" shook me when I heard it in a short. I will probably listen to this when I have bad days thinking about her from now on.

  • @lexisgswlife
    @lexisgswlife 3 роки тому +585

    THIS SONG GAVE ME FUCKIN CHILLS!!! AS A SURVIVOR THANK YOU MA'AM!!!! I DIDN'T DESERVE WHAT I GOT AND I AM PROUD TO SAY THAT NOW

  • @pygmydae
    @pygmydae 3 роки тому +5544

    as a trans guy I just- yes. stand up and be HEARD, ladies- I may not be one of you anymore but you've sure as hell got my support

    • @The_Diminished
      @The_Diminished 2 роки тому +448

      hi, also a trans guy! That's super cool :D

    • @Ivemovedlmao
      @Ivemovedlmao 2 роки тому +418

      Hey there two trans guys! I completely agree. We are all here to support you, and as the song says, NOBODY can demand who you are or your body. You are an amazing human being, and you absolutely deserve rights, no matter how many idiots protest to it.
      and to whoever reading this, I’m so proud of you for coming this far 🫂

    • @SophieCxt
      @SophieCxt 2 роки тому +139

      I support you!

    • @hwaslvtt
      @hwaslvtt 2 роки тому +206

      Same!!! I may not be a woman anymore, but ill still stand by and support women forever.

    • @olioaks9869
      @olioaks9869 2 роки тому +57

      Sameee

  • @Bread-ky3qe
    @Bread-ky3qe Рік тому +89

    As a victim of SA, this song speaks to me.

  • @chunkybum96
    @chunkybum96 2 роки тому +98

    I'm so glad I came across this song! Mainly because for 3 years I got groomed and sexually assaulted by someone who I thought loved me. I was young and dumb but I've since dumped his ass and found an amazing man. To anyone who has experienced this you guys deserve better and you will get through this. If I could go back and change what happened I might but if I did I don't think I would of met my current partner. So I'm not sure..

    • @SpiderBrained
      @SpiderBrained 2 роки тому +8

      I am so sorry no one should ever have to go through that

  • @Xx_Yasomi_xX
    @Xx_Yasomi_xX 3 роки тому +594

    2:18 the part that everyone heard at tiktok

    • @MelinaKB
      @MelinaKB  3 роки тому +123

      Yasss I love my Tik tok fam❤️

    • @ManaSamaLover.
      @ManaSamaLover. 3 роки тому +13

      Tyyyy

    • @rosebud577
      @rosebud577 3 роки тому +19

      @@MelinaKB
      We love you too /p

    • @MelinaKB
      @MelinaKB  3 роки тому +30

      @@rosebud577 AWWW THANK U

    • @catthecastrophe
      @catthecastrophe 3 роки тому +9

      that's literally where im here from

  • @sarahmassalha2358
    @sarahmassalha2358 3 роки тому +601

    Never had a song make me want to scream the words so loudly as this song has. So beautiful and empowering. You’re so talented and strong for releasing such a song that I’m sure has a large story behind it.

    • @lyricaall
      @lyricaall 2 роки тому +3

      I relate so much! Personally, it gives me a kind of feeling of… closure? Whatever it is, I think it’s good?

  • @caramelcaffemacchiato1707
    @caramelcaffemacchiato1707 2 роки тому +55

    this sounds like it could be a part 2 to "All You Wanna Do" from SIX the musical. This song sounds like it can really fit in a musical and I think the message aligns if Katherine did decide to fight back

  • @btrhasmyheart
    @btrhasmyheart Рік тому +20

    Thank you for making this song! I’ve been dealing with a lot of PTSD and depression lately and I view this song as a personal theme of mine for the ones who have hurt me in the past thank you! 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @flyingblind5677
    @flyingblind5677 3 роки тому +1674

    I feel like as a guy I’m not worthy to sing along to this song, BUT ITS SO MF GOOD

    • @SnowieKitten
      @SnowieKitten 3 роки тому +307

      i feel like guys are allowed to also relate to & enjoy songs like these, so u shouldn't feel like u can't sing it!

    • @flyingblind5677
      @flyingblind5677 3 роки тому +312

      @@SnowieKitten I relate to the subject matter, but I know this song is made for women especially at the end with “here’s to my girls.” I sing along until that point. As a guy I need to stand aside and let voices be heard, if more people could just shut up when people are voicing their hurt then we’d be farther along with true equality by now. I hope you have a great day

    • @naureenabdulmajeed526
      @naureenabdulmajeed526 3 роки тому +137

      @@flyingblind5677 people like you are holding onto the thin strings of hope we have for humanity

    • @flyingblind5677
      @flyingblind5677 3 роки тому +88

      @@naureenabdulmajeed526 well hope isn’t inherently worthless, but at this point, it may be so

    • @izabellaalloyswife5863
      @izabellaalloyswife5863 3 роки тому +92

      You have every right to sing this. Everyone has the right to feel powerful.

  • @seancatsir743
    @seancatsir743 3 роки тому +506

    This is so good. The set it off tone/beat. The strength of burn in Hamilton. Omggggg. This is so fucking good

    • @totallyjokers
      @totallyjokers 2 роки тому +24

      First burn/congratulations vibes

    • @_lynx2568
      @_lynx2568 2 роки тому +5

      yep

    • @hxney7293
      @hxney7293 2 роки тому +6

      AYE SET IT OFF AND HAMILTON

    • @adeleaslan8182
      @adeleaslan8182 2 роки тому +2

      It reminds me of the beginning of your obedient servant

  • @feonixrizen4960
    @feonixrizen4960 4 місяці тому +4

    My abusive ex tried texting me yesterday after over a year. I'm so proud of myself for shutting him down and telling him where he can shove it

  • @thatbluspook4483
    @thatbluspook4483 Рік тому +6

    Even though it's a song about bad men hurting people, I vibe with this on a different level.
    I'm a trans man who's only been free of an abusive mother for almost a year, and all of my life up to my escape last year was hell. She was discreet, she was good at hiding it and tricking people to turn on me if I tried to use my voice. Even took coming out to my grandfather who passed away by doing it for me without my knowledge. I could write a book how wicked she was.
    I lost my best friends because of her, and even though I have been struggling... I've been thriving. I have moments where I miss the "safety" of being under her thumb, but then I remember how bad it was... This song is going to be one of a few that I listen to when I think about what I went through.

  • @inthelife1775
    @inthelife1775 3 роки тому +713

    I've been so excited for this to come out. I have not been disappointed. Such an amazing song

    • @MelinaKB
      @MelinaKB  3 роки тому +80

      Oh my gosh thank you, that means the world!!!

  • @Sup_sneks
    @Sup_sneks 3 роки тому +210

    This song literally made me think that there was a whole ass Broadway musical I was missing out on!! It’s so good I’m just jamming to it repeatedly!!!

  • @loveisanopendoor3532
    @loveisanopendoor3532 Рік тому +9

    This feels like such a main character moment in a Broadway musical.

  • @nataliamercado3875
    @nataliamercado3875 2 роки тому +3

    This song blew my mind. Usually I think cool song and move on. I ran to google from tik Tok to listen to the full version.

  • @Lizbeth-mu8bo
    @Lizbeth-mu8bo 3 роки тому +572

    Who wants to bet that the one dislike is from the person the song is about 😂

  • @lime_forrest1451
    @lime_forrest1451 2 роки тому +112

    This song reminds me of one of my dear friends. He got into a relationship that was in short, heavily abusive. He deserved so much better then what he was getting and finally was able to stand up for himself after he realized that this person was being absolutely horrible to him. I know this song has a predominantly female role but it can truely happen to anyone. My best friend who I am now proud to call my lover are as happy as can be and are both getting over our scars from past relationships to help better one another and make a life for ourselves in which we are both comfortable. Cause that’s what love should be, a union that can be associated with both comfort and contentment.

    • @CodyG.
      @CodyG. 2 роки тому +15

      You're right! Personally I don't think this song is necessarily tall is necessarily targeting only women women. Women and men alike go through abusive situations whether it be Physically or sexually. I would say this is a great song but what bothers me the most is how People think only women can go through abusive situations. I've gone through abusive situations myself And as much as I'm happy to hear people standing up for themselves people also have to realize that men go through hardships and abusive situations. I just wish more people realized that.

  • @justinebidault1672
    @justinebidault1672 2 роки тому +4

    I get the vibes of SIX the musical, I love it

  • @purplephonefan
    @purplephonefan 2 роки тому +28

    This song reminds me of my relationship with my father. He was emotionally abusive to my mother, my brother, and me. Not to mention, very transphobic. He gaslighted me for years, and always played the victim.
    I gave him three years to become a better man, and yet he still claims that I was the one who hurt him. I was a CHILD. He's 51.
    I haven't talked to him in a long time, and I'm happy now.

    • @noah_the_tvboy1321
      @noah_the_tvboy1321 Рік тому +1

      Very happy that it worked out in the end, wish the best :)

  • @danyphantom7008
    @danyphantom7008 3 роки тому +104

    Came here straight from tik tok and I'm in love! ❤

    • @MelinaKB
      @MelinaKB  3 роки тому +20

      Awee hi!!! Thank you so much🥺🥺❤️

    • @danyphantom7008
      @danyphantom7008 3 роки тому +7

      @@MelinaKB hi love!! ❤ and yw! I wish I heard this song back in hs when I was in my toxic relationship but still, I appreciate and love this song. I listened to it nonstop actually :)

  • @tris8735
    @tris8735 3 роки тому +232

    I’VE BEEN WAITING ANS THIS DID NOT DISAPPOINT

    • @MelinaKB
      @MelinaKB  3 роки тому +18

      AWEEE THANK YOU!!!!

    • @tris8735
      @tris8735 3 роки тому +5

      @@MelinaKB OFC!! THIS WENT STRAIGHT ON MY PLAYLIST

  • @robertpitt5940
    @robertpitt5940 Рік тому +6

    As a girl who is dealing with trouble..this is my motivation song!!

  • @sageyy__m0thz
    @sageyy__m0thz Рік тому +6

    My fav part "If your so mature now
    Then I think it's time you grow up,
    Admit you did it! We all know you did it! And yet you still gaslight me up"

  • @ch1o_a
    @ch1o_a 3 роки тому +434

    🛐You need to write a friking musical or I would cry. Tienes un chingo de talento, sigue así y llegarás lejos

    • @y4rwnnnnnnnn
      @y4rwnnnnnnnn 3 роки тому +16

      @Victoria Crow The song is so good that people would pray to it.

  • @susanaeaton179
    @susanaeaton179 3 роки тому +267

    Boy, this gives me some heathers, mean girls, and Hamilton vibes. With just a pinch of the ladies from Henry 8. I found this song because Instagram gives you tik tok videos. And I fucking love this song! Please don't give up your singing!

  • @Blazeloulou
    @Blazeloulou 2 роки тому +5

    It's been one week since I started listening to this song... I'm sure it's a sign, 'cause the song I listened before this one was all you wanna do from six the musical.
    Both of them talk about abuse.... It's hitting me so hard that I feel like someone took me down suddenly and I couldn't do anything about it

  • @brambureksoleny321
    @brambureksoleny321 2 роки тому +7

    I relate to this on a spiritual level but about my toxic and controlling "friend"

  • @tris8735
    @tris8735 3 роки тому +97

    can we just take a minute to admire how gorgeous she looks in that picture~ like how??

  • @texiexomusicidk4203
    @texiexomusicidk4203 3 роки тому +80

    It’s right about the anniversary of when I got with my shitty ex for six years. I left him September and this song has helped me feel like myself again

  • @shortstackashe
    @shortstackashe 2 роки тому +4

    my ex was a very, very bad person. no one seems to quite understand the extent of the effect he had on me in most aspects of who i am now. this really, really makes me feel seen

  • @fuzzysockstv4197
    @fuzzysockstv4197 2 роки тому +43

    This song makes a huge statement, especially with all the bullshit going on in the US right now. All my women, they/them's, trans queens, and anyone else who stands with women, like this comment.

  • @ladybi_
    @ladybi_ 3 роки тому +495

    ~Lyrics for those who like to see them all at once like me❤~
    So you say you really miss me? (Aah)
    Well that makes me laugh
    'Cause you miss the way I let you walk all over me
    Broke every bone in my back
    So you wanna reminisce things? Huh (aah)
    Well don't come round here with that
    If we review through your phony excuses
    I bet it won't change the past
    Closed for the weekend
    Don't you apologize
    I know you don't mean it
    I quit
    Here's to the "no"s
    To the "I think you should go"s
    To the leave his ass alone's
    To the hanging up thе phone's
    To the no man can demand my body, my spirit, my lovе
    Ooh
    Here's to the "no"s
    To the "walk yourself on home"s
    To the keeping on my clothes
    To the highs without the lows
    To the no man can demand my body, my spirit, my love
    Ooh
    I've had enough
    So you're claiming you're a martyr, what?
    Like I don't have a clue
    Too bad I'm smarter, be discreet's a starter
    I'm staring right at the proof
    Closed for forever (uh-huh)
    I'm done with shutting up
    I've learned a lot better
    Listen
    Here's to the "no"s
    To the "I think you should go"s (I think you should go)
    To the leave his ass alone's
    To the hanging up the phone's
    To the no man can demand my body, my spirit, my love
    Ooh
    Here's to the "no"s
    To the "walk yourself on home"s
    To the keeping on my clothes
    To the highs without the lows
    To the no man can demand my body, my spirit, my love, love, love
    If you're so mature now
    Then I think it's time you grow up
    Admit you did it
    We all know you did it
    And yet you still gaslight me up
    You are such a flame out
    Your only drive left's in the bed (your only drive left's in the bed)
    I don't deserve this
    And for your next girlfriend
    You need to treat her with respect
    Here's to my girls
    Standing up for what they're worth
    Yeah, you know who run the world
    I am ready to be heard
    No man can demand my body, my spirit, my love (my body, my spirit, my love)
    Ooh
    And for the boys
    Who don't care who they destroy
    Told us "NO" was not a choice
    You cannot silence our voice
    No man can demand our bodies, our spirits, our love
    We've had enough

    • @epilepsylizard2469
      @epilepsylizard2469 2 роки тому +7

      This is literally a lyric video

    • @ss-iy5zd
      @ss-iy5zd 2 роки тому +54

      @@epilepsylizard2469 they clearly said, “Lyrics for those who like seeing them all at once.”

  • @sophiamarques1778
    @sophiamarques1778 3 роки тому +59

    IVE BEEN WAITING FOR THIS ONE!!! TURN IT UPP🔊🔊🔊🔊🔊

  • @c4ndy.._..c0m
    @c4ndy.._..c0m 2 роки тому +21

    As someone who was sexually harassed by one of my classmates multiple times, this song hits really hard for me, my partner was also sexually harassed by the same person, but my school did basically nothing, but you know what, shoutout to all the people who went through sexual abuse, rape, grooming, etc. you all are so strong, and I'm sorry to anyone who went through that

    • @NightmareKana
      @NightmareKana 2 роки тому +1

      Bro im so sorry to hear that, you and your partner don't deserve to go through that kind of stuff

    • @c4ndy.._..c0m
      @c4ndy.._..c0m 2 роки тому +2

      @@NightmareKana thx, we ended up cutting him off and we don't talk to him anymore

    • @FluffyCoconut
      @FluffyCoconut Рік тому

      Thank you, that means so much.

  • @sushmarani8269
    @sushmarani8269 3 місяці тому +3

    This is what we call lyrics, I am so done with singers singing the same line again and again and calling it a song ❤

  • @miraris.
    @miraris. 3 роки тому +61

    This is Angelica vibes with Eliza's voice from Hamilton, it's like Burn & Congratulations but she's actually burning him.

  • @yassouza1620
    @yassouza1620 3 роки тому +259

    Your vocals, the mean of the lyric, GOD I LOVE THIS SO MUCH

    • @MelinaKB
      @MelinaKB  3 роки тому +28

      THANK YOU SO MUCH🥺❤️

    • @GamingGuineaPig
      @GamingGuineaPig 2 місяці тому

      @@MelinaKB even new kanye is better like even carnival is better

  • @LeonardoHamato
    @LeonardoHamato 2 роки тому +5

    Someone's gonna think something happened to me with how often I blast this song and sing it with such passion istg
    It's a good song

  • @senecarus_whitur
    @senecarus_whitur 11 місяців тому +4

    I know this song is about a romantic relationship but listening to this after finally standing up to my boss, who belittled me to no end feel so good

  • @liannegordon9622
    @liannegordon9622 2 роки тому +19

    This song feels like the solo in the musical right before the interval where the good girl who is loved by everyone finally gives up and becomes the villian

  • @JB-en2ze
    @JB-en2ze 3 роки тому +47

    hello I've recently left a 3 year relationship because he cheated on me again and your song is helping me not to be soft to him and take him back. thank you 🥺🥺

  • @__fairy--frost__8796
    @__fairy--frost__8796 2 роки тому +5

    " I don't deserve it and for your next girlfriend, you need to teach her with respect " it's the most beautiful part. It hits different :)

  • @MythicalReign
    @MythicalReign Рік тому +4

    I just wanna scream this song to the top of my lungs. Maybe I'll be heard then

  • @starlitdrms9210
    @starlitdrms9210 2 роки тому +90

    ‘ *admit you did it we all know u did it* ‘
    Those lines hit me so bad in the heart

  • @ririrante6358
    @ririrante6358 3 роки тому +23

    This is the exact song ive been waiting made me cry even if it was upbeat,, i had a courage to break up with him since all he think is the 'bed' even if i told him no... The part where "and for your next girlfriend you need to treat her with respect" thats exactly what i told him.. but he kept his stand thinking he respect me.. so sad.. im happy im free

    • @ririrante6358
      @ririrante6358 3 роки тому

      Thank you for this song 💜

    • @gachacute7379
      @gachacute7379 2 роки тому

      You did the right thing breaking up with him. A good, mature, and caring boyfriend Willis understand if you weren’t ready for that and would wait as long as you need. I’m really happy for you and I hope you find someone who will treat you how you deserve 💕 also I agree, this song is so good and made me more confident especially about breaking up with my ex.

    • @gachacute7379
      @gachacute7379 2 роки тому

      *would understand

  • @L1ndsay_h3r_h0tness
    @L1ndsay_h3r_h0tness 21 день тому +2

    “If your so mature now, then I think it’s time you to grow up” hits hard

  • @StarBurned
    @StarBurned 4 місяці тому +2

    I’m sending this to my friend going through a toxic relationship as a subtle reminder she is strong

  • @janedaisy1519
    @janedaisy1519 3 роки тому +85

    OH IM ACTUALLY NOT THAT LATE! I have seen you so much on my fyp your so talented girl thank you for gifting the world with this beautiful song :))

    • @MelinaKB
      @MelinaKB  3 роки тому +10

      oh my gosh hi! that is SO COOL TO HEAR, you are so sweet thank you!

    • @gachacute7379
      @gachacute7379 2 роки тому +1

      Tiktok brought me here cause you were so good! I’m so happy for you that your music is spreading around tiktok too

    • @GamingGuineaPig
      @GamingGuineaPig 2 місяці тому

      @@MelinaKB u know what else will be cool your body when the life drains from it

  • @jarodtatom1785
    @jarodtatom1785 2 роки тому +9

    This song gives me the vibes of what I feel towards my Father(change some of the words of course, but the "If your so mature now, then I think it's time you grow up, admit you did it, we all know you did it, and yet you still gas light me up, your are such a flam out" reminds me of him trying to abuse us, and how he acts like he is so much better than us

    • @RK1M15
      @RK1M15 11 місяців тому

      I'm really sorry

  • @helixisverygay7831
    @helixisverygay7831 Рік тому +6

    I know that I was technically all of my abusers were women, (not men) I still love this song with all of my heart. (I just change a few of the words around whenever I sing it, so it fits my pov more accurately)

  • @jellcie
    @jellcie 2 роки тому +2

    no bc the build up reminds me of the anger I felt towards my toxic bestie. This song rlly scratches an itch in my brain.

  • @emmagaston1120
    @emmagaston1120 3 роки тому +17

    I’ve been playing the songs back to back for the last two days, Best song ever

  • @AxeSoul
    @AxeSoul 3 роки тому +172

    You telling me this has 13K views? Do I need glasses? That should, at the very least, be a M, not a K. I saw this on TikTok and I’m really hoping it blows up on there, this deserves to be one of, if not, the best song made in 2021, I don’t care how early we are in this is a masterpiece

    • @Sav2006
      @Sav2006 3 роки тому +12

      It’s now 120k. She’s growing so fast. I’m so happy for her. I hope she keeps making music, her voice is pure bliss.

    • @richie3519
      @richie3519 3 роки тому +3

      @@Sav2006 227k now !!

    • @darkanti427
      @darkanti427 3 роки тому +3

      349k views now!

    • @laibahashmi311
      @laibahashmi311 3 роки тому +3

      388k Views!! ☺️

    • @haruchiid7254
      @haruchiid7254 3 роки тому +1

      391k now

  • @amayafuller8895
    @amayafuller8895 2 роки тому +4

    It’s insane how relevant these lyrics are to a situation I’m going through.

    • @lyric5064
      @lyric5064 2 роки тому +2

      I hope you'll be able to get out of that situation

  • @angelakearney1703
    @angelakearney1703 2 роки тому +13

    1:13 hits different

  • @saillama
    @saillama 2 роки тому +14

    This song literally describes what I’m going through but it’s with people I used to be friends with 😩

  • @CryptiComet
    @CryptiComet 3 роки тому +10

    This has only been on here for two days and I’ve already lost caught of how many times I’ve listened to this on loop.

  • @lyssaadams9508
    @lyssaadams9508 2 роки тому +2

    Gives such theater vibessss

  • @0rgangrrrl
    @0rgangrrrl 2 роки тому +2

    This radiates so much Angelica from Hamilton vibes and I'm here for it😩

  • @s0ftsiren_840
    @s0ftsiren_840 3 роки тому +59

    I’m going through my first heartbreak feeling used/sad/hurt/angry and this EXACTLY describes how I feel. THIS IS THE BAD BITCH ANTHEM I NEEDED.

  • @-BugIsGay-
    @-BugIsGay- 2 роки тому +16

    OK this is officially my favourite song ever-
    Ik someone else said it but-
    These lyrics hit different.
    "If you're so 'mature' now, then I think it's time you grow up. Admit you did it, we ALL KNOW you DID it, and yet you still gaslight me up.."

    • @GamingGuineaPig
      @GamingGuineaPig 2 місяці тому

      u want a good relationship song lil bro listen to runaway

  • @butt_torpedoes
    @butt_torpedoes 2 роки тому +11

    I love the vibe the song gives

  • @USSlee
    @USSlee 2 роки тому +1

    Saved in my playlist - needed a fight song for court, 3 years, there's nowhere left to run, he'll admit he did it or burn in the flames of his own gaslighting

  • @katte011
    @katte011 3 роки тому +46

    I am so in love with this song!! Like others have said, it gives me MAJOR musical vibes and it's absolutely brilliant! I can soo imagine a whole broadway sequence to this... I hope you make more songs like this and pursue a broadway sound since you do it so well.

  • @cereal.boxx_7326
    @cereal.boxx_7326 3 роки тому +19

    Put this woman in a musical and I will watch it straight away, this song give of Hamilton x mean girls vibes

  • @skyechadwell5391
    @skyechadwell5391 Рік тому +2

    This gives me musical theatre vibe

  • @MelodyPeridot
    @MelodyPeridot 4 місяці тому +1

    This song is 100% a good thing to get in your mind if you're struggling with narcissistic or sociopathic abuse (just don't get caught listening).
    If you're escaped, like I have this past October, listen to this. This will help with the trauma bond. The abuse is addictive but this song is how it should be. If you're away, savor the freedom. Savor how no one can tell you what to do, what to wear, who to talk to. You don't owe sex to anyone, whether you're the girlfriend or wife. you shouldn't be afraid to even lift your eyes up from the ground. You don't deserve to die for disobedience.

  • @thenonbinarykitten
    @thenonbinarykitten 3 роки тому +21

    I love this it's a combination of every strong woman who had dealt with a toxic man and is just done

  • @bel8792
    @bel8792 3 роки тому +17

    The one dislike was from the ex and their friend that feels bad for them :)

  • @zainagreek5706
    @zainagreek5706 Рік тому +6

    I am ready to be heard !!! Yess its up to me when to talk as long as we all know who did it no more of being silent, i am standing up to the world #noisachoise #myrapedoesntdefineme

  • @Darcie105
    @Darcie105 5 місяців тому +1

    I LOVE THIS SONG LIKE IS IT JUST ME OR IS SHE SO RELATABLE!!?