From Trans to Detrans: Daisy Chadra
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- Опубліковано 12 вер 2024
- Daisy is a UA-camr who used to identify as nonbinary, then transgender, and now reidentifies with her female biological sex. In this episode, we talk about her story, the nature gender dysphoria and social dysphoria, some of the gender ideology that she used to believe in but no longer does, the massive role that the internet played in her journey and transition, and what kind of advice she’d give to parents with trans identified kids.
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look, 60 years ago I was jealous of guys, that they can do things that were socially acceptable to do by them, but unfit to do by girls or women. Certain occupations were destined for men, other for women. finally, in my late teen, I found an occupation that I liked and was available for women also. I was wishing for many years that I was a boy and nothing would change my mind. Later I married and become a mother. I found that there is nothing more rewarding than being a mother and grandmother...and thank God that in my time there was no "opportunity" to transfer gender. Children and young people change their minds so often...they get ideas from books, movies, teachers, and other sources. let them grow and discover themselves and the world.
I have a similar story. Raised with only brothers, I loved my boy friends to the extent I wished I was a boy. I loved dirt, blue jeans and t shirts, climbing trees and rocks and playing football in the streets. It's a good thing my early years were 40 years ago. The most rewarding experience ever is being a wife and mother. I wouldn't change that for the world.
@@winniecash1654 What is cool about you is you added the word WIFE. Winnie could not do that. By far most women can not and will not see wife as good. To a man, it was your greatest strength. Feminism has totally removed that from men and women. Women hate being women. Men don't understand why at all. Women don't even know what a woman is. Just ask one.
As a girl I was very much the same. Had older brothers that I looked up to and were jealous of. I wore their clothes played with their toys and even gave myself a masculine name bc I wanted to be like a spiritual healer and defender of innocence kind of like Jesus mixed with the main character from Kung fu. I thank God for that phase and I thank God I grew and went through other phases bc each phase I went through I got a different perspective on everything. I became very girly in my late teens and later became a mother. Everything was a gift and I would not change my past. I do worry there are children now who were like me and may just have empathy towards the opposite sex and curiosity about men. I later in life realized that I love men so much, not to become one but to share my life with one.
A feminist is just a very angry woman who wishes she were a man. Why do women want to be men? I don't know. Now women are so cancelled,women don't even know what a woman is. Just ask a highly educated woman what a woman is. She had no idea. Ask an uneducated woman or man what a woman is and they will tell you in one minute. Women are removing themselves from the world. Men wish you wouldn't do this, but you can't stop yourself. You hate .......................you.
I can tell your years by your wise words so much wisdom behind them. I was quite the Tom boy during the week and in beauty pageants so they would have said I was a boy but also a drag queen. Ya I've seen it a few times it's also in the docuseries Generation Drag on Discovery + . But I'm a mother and grandmother and I Praise the LORD that I grew up in the 70s & 80s and didn't have to deal with that.
I got the chills when at 29:39 he asked Daisy “What would you have liked for your parents to do for you at 17?” And she answered “I wish they would have taken the internet away from me.” He too was shocked… Us parents really need to wake up before it’s too late! Because Satan and his demons are working overtime and in ways and degrees I don’t think we’ve ever seen in our lifetime. LORD HELP US 🤍
This video was very much needed.
So young people are getting horrible advice online. Thousands are dying as they get horrible advice about the alleged dangers of vaccines. Millions identify people with different political opinions as dangerous anti-American enemies from thousands of cancerous Facebook and other social media sites. There are so many wonderful ideas and information we can access online but more and more I have to ask; Is it worth it?
Same here, I was born in 2000 and I was online at 7 years old, at age 9 was the first time I came across pornography. I was fairly late onto social media but I wish I'd of never started, my own children will not be online
They all say that and it’s effective too. I follow a few mothers who took it all away. 2 of them sent their kids to outdoors camp. They came back completely divorced from this gender crap.
Same! I’m just starting the fight with my 13 year old (she just asked for social media for the first time this year) but I will keep up the good fight! It’s addictive, harmful, and brain washing 😔
this probably less satan and more just social contagion. why would satan care if someone is trans? he wants people to be evil, not get plastic surgery.
I’m not a religious person and have no idea how I found your UA-cam channel, but feel compelled to tell you how incredibly likeable you are. You have such a kind energy, and engage with your interviewees so genuinely. Super listenable content, thanks for sharing!
+Natalie Walter So a campaign of transphobic misinformation equates to "kindness" in your book?
@@highroller-jq3ix lol
@@teenagekrabklub That's such a brilliant and thoughtful response. You definitely exemplify the insightful, nuanced, informed discourse on this topic and are incredibly convincing in your "not-religious-person-who-randomed-my-way-here" disguise.
@@highroller-jq3ix omg the delusion 😂 love it
@@teenagekrabklub lol
This is the second video of yours that I have watched and I just have to say, I really appreciate how open minded and compassionate you are toward your guests. I think you make them feel very comfortable talking about these topics
This one hits home. I would have been like Daisy if my parents didn't force me to accept who I am by repeating "you will never be a boy" "you can't change your sex" over and over again. I'm so glad they did that! Today I'm happy as a women. I don't wear makeup or dresses, I'm not girly but I've learned that I don't need to pretend to be a man to feel good. I can just be a less feminine girl and that's fine! Something my parents did that was crucial was getting me into competitive soprts, where being a tomboy is cool and valued : it builed my self esteem as a girl and made me forgot about the dysphoria because I was accepted the way I was.
As long as you feel happy, are healthy and comfortable with who you are and what you stand for: that’s more important. Makeup, clothes and what society associates as “girly things” are transient our bodies will change with age, but what remains untouched after years are our souls I wish you all the best.
I have a daughter that was a tomboy since she was born, she used to play with toys for boys and being athletic, etc. a real tomboy. She dress only jeans. She expressed gratitude to her mom and I because we never pushed her to be different than that; now she is 26 and she is straight a beautiful woman. Thank you for expressing about you, God bless you. Your parents did the best.
Tomboys are SO valuable and important to female competitive sports. In my school the Tomboys were just as popular as the beauties, but a lot nicer and a lot more fun. I worry about the future of women's sports if this trend continues. Especially one on one events.
Love your gratitude for your parents
+Delphine So they verbally berated you into conforming? Neato.
Daisy is so articulate. She has thought this through so well... on so many levels. Preston asked sensitive questions that helped bring out lived issues. How brave. How important.
Daisy is extremely smart. And she lands on her feet too. She has got married and to a trust fund baby no less. How many detransitioners can say the same?
Thank you! That actually helped me, as a mother of a trans teenager. This is helpful with a more balanced, not to 'anti-trans' starting point, because I need to approach this with love and not with as much criticism as I possibly can. This interview gave me a little bit more understanding, although I still am convinced my daughter is my daughter and not my son.
Have you looked at Jazz Jennings. She was about 6 years when she came to UA-cam. Very insightful
Whatever u do just don't let him do puberty blockers or go trans before he's 25
My prayers are with you and your family. Enquire is she has researched online, bring in that it would be worthwhile to explore people that have transitioned then ? De transitioned. As this has led to a hi incidence of suicide, or just heartache. I will pray against principalities and powers. My heart is with you guys.
Your daughter is and will always be your daughter!
@@djm5699 and her problems followed, she had an addiction to food and got huge. I don’t think it ended up so well.
I am 63 years old, so my growing up years were very different from Daisy’s. Remember, when I was a child girls did not get any active toys. For instance, when I played catch with my brother and the neighbor boy, no one thought to ever buy me a glove. I got Barbies for presents, which I did not really enjoy. I read science fiction and loved science and nature. When I was in high school, no one suggested that I should pursue college (my parents would not pay towards that). If I had discussed college, I would have been steered toward nursing.
So, when I was almost 3, my baby brother was born. I had been told numerous times that if I had been a boy, we would not need to have him! We shared baths in my family as small children and of course noticed his genital differences. I remember pulling on my labia, wishing I could make mine look like his. Later, in school, I liked the boys and wanted to play with them, but our elementary school separated the genders. I hung out near the line between our halves. Later, reading Science Fiction written by Asimov and Clark, there were few female characters. Asimov, especially, could not write women. They were female, but acted like men. I never had the chance to wear or play with makeup. We did not pay for hair salons, mostly my mom cut my hair. I did not have female friends who tried hairstyles or makeup and we had no money for clothes beyond the ones we got at the start of the school year from the JC Penney or Sears catalogs. At times in all of those years, I felt boyish. How much of that was that I could see how women were second-class citizens - could not get most jobs, could not have their own credit cards. Misogyny was everywhere. For an idea of how women were thought of, treated, and talked to go to your local oldies TV station and watch a few Adam-12 episodes.
If gender dysphoria were a “thing” in my youth, I might have been tempted to adopt that attitude about myself. I could see myself as a grown man easier than I could have seen myself as an adult woman. Most of that was likely because of societal misogyny. Until our civilization grows up and treats all genders the same, some of us are going to reject our genders just because of it. It makes it very difficult for people like Daisy, I bet, to grow up today!
I usually watch videos like these to see what's new in the world. I was born intersex. I had both genitals. At the age of 4 the doctor cut off my penis, and left the other parts. I never fitted in anywhere. I shave my mustache, and beard every day. I wear unisex clothes, because this is what I feel comfortable in. I have never fitted in any community, because of my appearance. I decided a long time ago that I don't need anyone's approval to be who I am. All I worry about is living. I'm 56 years old, and being a loner is the greatest feeling ever. I love my life. I love myself.
When I was a kid I liked playing with toy guns, playing soldiers etc with my brothers and I wished I could have the same freedom as my brother. Thank God I was just labeled a tomboy. Today I am married and have children. If I was growing up now I would likely have been convinced I was trans. I feel so sorry for kids growing up now in all the confusion.
Me too. I became a very pretty tall woman, but I did have a birthday party and wanted tools for my toolbox! Best birthday ever! I wanted to build a tree fort like the boys, and Daddy helped it it wonderful! In high school I discovered boys and had many many boyfriends! Thank God, literally, I wasn’t born in todays times. I love who I am!
@@Candy-O1776 We were both fortunate to have had great parents.
I totally see her point about the bathroom. But there was/is that male student in Virginia who claimed to be female who raped two different girls in the bathroom, and the school board covered it up (as good as they could). So what do we do about the ones who are trying to exploit and perverse the whole gender argument. We need to solve both issues. Everyone's safety needs to be considered.
Vulnerable bathroom , must ask for a key . Solves the problem for disabled people being bullied and Trans and gay students. It seems less of a privilege to be sought after by those who do not need it.
This was fascinating. I am so concerned for kids these days. When I was young, my mother detached from me after birth, and my relationship with her caused me to resent women in general. When I got my period, I was disgusted and horrified by what was happening, which made me hate being a girl even more. I used to daydream about what it would be like to be a boy instead, and that seemed easier and less "cursed" than my life as a girl. I cannot imagine what would have happened if there was anyone reinforcing that I should take hormones or block my puberty because of those feelings, because I'm so happy I'm a woman now. I'm so glad she is speaking out, and I hope families can overcome these things together.
I am so glad that you are not afraid to face subjects most Christians fear or hate. I am a Christian who trys to be open to people in all walks of life. It's not our job to judge and hate others, but to try and understand with compassion.
When you find the right church, it's like coming home. There's no feeling like it. I was saved nearly 6 years ago. It flipped my life upside down for the better.
When we are children and young adults we are extremely easily conditioned into believe basically anything. She had this idea when she was only 4 and it was also reinforced by the relatives constantly repeating this idea. She is explaining this so well and she is so sweet. You can hear how she shifted idea about her sexual identity back and forth as soon as she met any discomfort. I change people's perception for a living and it's scary how little the average knowledge about conditioning is. It's science. It's everywhere. We are even conditioning ourselves. We are primordial biased beings but we can rather easily bring our own awareness to this fact and don't have to live in effect of things but we can realise that we are the cause. Good interview thanks from Italy 🇮🇹🙏
I had discomfort with my body when I was younger. I think that is very common because of puberty. I just had to ride it through.
Thank you Daisy for your courage and bravery to speak out and share your story with us.
This video is super important! I just stumbled on it. Daisy's testimony is important and also she can relate to very modern times, and how in her life it's already changed.
Do people really experience dysphoria at 2 or 3, or is that added into the story after the fact to help with the rationalisation. How much do we really remember from our toddler years?
I told my Nana about some things from my earliest memories once. She was shocked I knew and asked "who told you that?"
I told her "no one- I remember."
She replied "you were only a baby! No more than 2 years old when some of those things happened!"
I answered with more memories from when I was in a pram and in a high chair and she was blown away!
Long story short:
It is possible to have memories from extremely early on in life for some people.
@@elsh332 i have also remembered stuff from under the age of 3 and talked to my parents about it and they confirmed it was possibly true, but it was minimal and hazy. this doesn't really counter my point that this is all probably post hoc rationalizing. the older the memory the less reliable it is, especially when you're using it to prove something, in those cases we tend to repeatedly "practice" a memory making it stronger and more fleshed out, but not necessarily any more accurate
I think "memories" from such a young age if they truly exist, are not like the memories of an adult. At most they will be fleeting and nothing particularly profound, and at that age there is so much that you cannot possibly understand, to come to a logical conclusion.
No one has dysphoria at 2 or 3. At that age you believe that Santa Claus is real.
I remember a lot from when I was 3 and some fragments from when I was 2, so it is possible but I don't know if a child that age can grasp such difficult concepts.
Thank you for having Daisy on as a guest. I have been following her as well and appreciate her story.
Daisy, you are so intelligent and wise. Grateful to hear this, Preston. Thanks, both.
I was a anti-pink tomboy all through my young years and into high school. If I was a kid today, I bet I would have been told to transition. Who I was would have thought that was absurd, but growing up hearing it like kids do today, I would not even be the confident woman I am today. This has to change, kids must not be “indoctrinated”, they must be allowed to grow out of it. If they don’t after they are through puberty completely (23-25), they possibly after full evaluation and risk/benefits, it can be a good decision.
Edit: I was also raised from the age of 9 by my father, so I think very much more “like a man” than most women & still don’t relate to girly things. I am just happy with who I am. I am definitely not a normal woman & I am fine completely with this. I am just me.
I am from a female dominated family, but I was also very anti-pink, perhaps not a tomboy, but I used to laugh at many things considered girly... It's scary that today's kids can't simply be who they are as individuals without someone interfering and trying to make them "fit in". And all in the name of "diversity" 😐
Fist bump sis. I'm another female almost identical to what you described. I'm just me. It don't gotta be complicated. Lol.
I've only just discovered your channel. Generally I'd run away from something that identified itself as a Christian channel. But now that I've seen three of your podcasts I'm totally sold: it's a really great program and, Preston, you're a great, sensitive, articulate, kind interviewer.
Best of luck to her, young children who are now being taught its ok to be in another body (which at a very young age can be confusing) girls can jump from 1000% tomboy to not - if left alone to naturally develop, they will decide how their sexuality will roll. This amputation of body parts and drugs is sinister in how it is being pushed.
I think it has a lot to do with trauma and culture. The current western cultural revolution has a lot to do with this trans wave. Go to Africa and try to find out how many kids are going through this issues.
I know trans people from Africa and/or in Africa, so what's your point?
When I was a little girl I only wanted to be a professional football player and I swore I was never having children only puppies. I wanted to be a boy so bad I would dress and act like a boy. When my period came at 10 I was devastated, and despondent, why couldn’t I have been a boy? I thought I was the only one that thought that way, nice to know I wasn’t alone. It wasn’t until I had children that I fully embraced being a woman. I’m so happy that my parents let me figure it out on my own.
Love self and others unconditionally is our challenge. Unless we realize that we are all spiritual beings living in a physical body, we will have difficulty in this journey called life. We are all playing a role here in duality. The very highest and best to everyone playing their part.
Yes Daisy! 🙌🏻 So good to hear you over here w/ Preston. Love that you two came together for this conversation.
Children may have been exposed to sexual abuse that they subconsciously repress. The abuse can later in life result in them having problems with their gender and body.
Absolutely. And some of that abuse happens at extremely young ages. Close family is pretty certain that a relative who took me in his vehicle for several hours without permission at about 6 months of age molested me. I still don't recall any of that, but I'm sure it had an effect on my perception of the world.
There are also teachings that can affect this area of one's life. One that I'm sure shaped my decisions profoundly was my dad telling me, "There are no good men. They only want sex. I know because I'm a man."
Growing up in the 60s, I sometimes was envious that boys were allowed to do more than girls. I liked sports, riding my bike, being outside. My brother could ride his bike anywhere he wanted, walk up to the convenient store , when we were teenagers he stayed out until 2am , no questions asked. Dad got him his own car but felt girls didn’t need one of their own, but sharing one with parents was enough. But I never, ever wanted to be an actual boy. I just wanted the same privileges. I wanted to be a hot chick, I liked sewing, art, painting, but also hockey, softball, bicycling, horseback riding. I don’t understand wanting to change your actual sex.
Hi Preston. I like your way of interviewing very much. You are honest and truthfull and at the same time very respectful and kind i find this a rare quality and realy inspiring.
It leads to so much profoundness of these Interviews your guests feel save to reveal precious thougts. Great guest again.
You are a great listener, respectful and asking the good questions.
This is the second video I've seen that you have done that's been about regretting transition. What about interviewing someone like me where transitioning was necessary like it was for Buck Angel? It really was do or die for me. When I came out to my Mormon family, as devout as they are, they completely understood right away and accepted me with open arms. This wasn't something out of the blue, this had been a life long issue until I was 29. Now 12 years later I am still damn proud of how far I've come and I will never look back.
Daisy would have greatly benefited from psychotherapy when she was in middle school . She is very I intuitive and she would have saved herself a lot physical and psychological pain . I remember working a woman psychiatrist , who work a lot of young girls . Her practice was so full , it was very , very difficult to see her . I remember speaking with her and her practice . She made her office a very safe place without judgement . She saved a lot girls from self harm and straying in the wrong decision . Just listening to Daisy saying how she didn't know how to classify her gender . Going from nonbinary , to trans and then detranditioning , sound like if she had someone to talk to , who was a therapist, it would have saved her the pain of transition . Children should not be told they can be any sex they want to be . Let's be realistic here , 4 year old get confused easily . 4 year old will want to wear short pants to school in the middle of winter , so really talking to them about gender ? If 1 to 2 % of people who are regretting their choice of transition, that is a very high number in medicine ! Sure there are people who transitioned and it saved their lives , but a lot of people transition for all the wrong reasons .
I feel like parents who are concerned about how to talk to their kids to discourage them from having surgery should just tell them straight out that they love them and that there are serious health risks and complications associated with it. Leave out opinions or judgements and anything that could potentially sound like that.
I have learned enough from listening to some of these interviews that I am so alarmed for the young people who have come under the influence of being able to transition to what they believe they want and now those who are brave enough to speak out about their experience. Since I have great grandchildren and hope and pray that my grandchildren would be strong enough to push back if one of their children came under the influence. I am just appalled that counsellors and then doctors doing such drastic and life threatening surgery on young people and adults. Thankful for those willing to speak out, those who have written books and spoken out about it and then those who have detransitioned has really been a learning experience, and I highly commend them for being brave enough to speak out.
Thankful for the caring and kindness and support for those brave enough to speak out.
You LISTEN and TAKE INTEREST in their interests. Even if it's so boring or confusing like listening to them explain their video games or Manga let them play the new song they love ❤️ it's that COMMUNICATION that means everything. If you listen to them talk about ALL that regular stuff they'll come to you about the important stuff. That's exactly what I did and still do with my kids and they have come to me about EVERYTHING, stuff you would never think a teen boy would talk to his mother about but we ALWAYS spoke APPROPRIATELY about ALL subjects but they were still able to come to me on all subjects. I didn't leave it up to the schools or the streets for them to learn.
Well done, I'm not involved in this subject other then witnessing the absurd direction or society is headed today. Thank you very much.
Telling a four year old that they can choose their own gender must feel like a person with acrophobia crossing very high narrow bridge with no railing.
The internet influence so much in the life of our youth and this is the result confuse and unable to become a successful woman. Very sad
I was not expecting such kind and non judgmental attitude from a Christian. This was amazing to experience this conversation.
She speaks soberly and seems to have a conversational and accessible personality. Mr. Sprinkle seems prepared and unafraid to acknowledge reality's difficulties and nuances. Big plusses!
I'm believing that this is more of a social dysphoric view we slowly begin to believe. Especially if every who, professional, teacher parents make a point to say things that will make us see ourselves through others eyes. I will feel better... no, I will fit the narrative and be accepted, loved this great person. Then, reality hits. We were looking and building ourselves on the edge of someone else's mirror.
Daisy hits the nail on the head about the internet. Think how much garbage there is online and how it could turn the head of an impressionable kid. But there are broad problems with the media, the education system and society as well.
I think strict gender roles and expectations help drive transitioning. Gender roles put men and women in boxes. God didn't create boxes, he created men and women. He created men and women to be who they are, even if that doesn't fit a "mold." I would be interested to hear her perspective in that. Kudos to her!
This is a wonderful discussion. It helps open hearts.
You can tell by the repeated use of the word "like" how young this woman was when she went through transition and how still her use of the word is permeating through her speech and expression. Can you imagine someone much younger than her trying to express what dysphoria is and all of that.
A piece of (hopefully) constructive criticism: A good interviewer talks just enough to draw the interviewee out, but stays in the background. Your questions are long and drawn out, sometimes even talking over Daisy when she tries to answer.
I know of one female inmate that was impregnated by a trans innate.
This is a great video, thank you for this interview, I wish the best for this beautiful and sweet young lady, my daughter has the same age. God bless you guys.
My rec for parents who don’t want their kid to medically transition. Please know nobody that’s thinking of ending their life is actually thinking far enough ahead that it takes to go though that medical transition. Get your kid into counseling to learn tools towards self acceptance. Limit time online, but also have them go through all the information out there of complications that happen with medical transition so they fully know the negatives are a lot and aren’t fun o go through. Also tell your child you will support them if they still want to transition after they become a certain age.
Can't say how I might have handled you as a teenager. But I can say that whatever your parents did, the end result is amazing! I'd be very proud of you if you were my daughter.God bless.
If you are going to question our right to Women's spaces I am out. That crosses the line for me. Blair is just a performer. Don't be fooled. The harm done by crossing this boundary is devastating. Telling girls and women we don't have the right to exclude men from our spaces is offensive beyond any excuses. Please get right in your heart if you honestly think it's ok to lie to children and they aren't allowed to say when they are uncomfortable. Yes of course many predators are coming into women's spaces and assaulting women. This is almost all of them. Predators always seek out, create and exploit loopholes. Lesbians have been dealing with this for decades. The allowances you are making for these predatory scammers is making me sick.
Preston, hope you invite Laura Perry on soon. A detransitioner with an awesome story!!!
God created male and female. That’s it!
I appreciate Daisy’s willingness to seek after what is true after realizing she was headed down a dark path.
@Max Mac Lochlyn Pot calling the kettle black... Go back under your bridge, troll.
@@JacobNachman6754 No... just no.
@@JacobNachman6754 I am saved in Jesus, by His sacrifice on the cross. He was perfect and has given His people His righteousness, so Yaweh sees me as He sees Jesus. Because of Jesus, we are under a new covenant, a covenant of grace.
This whole nonsense about being trans has nothing to do with how God has actually created us. There are clear distinctions of men and women all throughout scripture, and we should honor how God made us, not make up what we want because it "makes us happier."
People who identify as "trans" or who identify as a bird all need Jesus. He will set you free from your present darkness.
@@trevorwest28 yes God made humans both male and female. Every body has both male and female hormones in them.
@@JacobNachman6754 🐂💩
I considered myself bisexual for part of my young adulthood, but even before I became a Christian, I looked closely at the thoughts and emotions that were creating bisexual desires and realized that a small part was lust-based and tied to societal stimuli (in other words, anything with a sexual connotation like fashion models could become the object of my lust because it was convenient) but the remainder related to various psychological challenges. One was low self-esteem/insecurity and the desire to be validated by being the recipient of sexual desire from both genders (the more, the better) or by my competition (other women; and first I was attracted to the opposite body type--voluptuous--because it was my perceived greatest competition, but then I became attracted to women with a similar body type to help affirm my own beauty). Also at play were fears like not being able to find a suitable husband and wanting a back-up plan or being found unattractive by all males (now or later) and wanting a backup plan. Once I saw the inner workings leading to my desire for women, that desire fell away, praise God!
But for others, their story may look a little different. A teenage son of someone I somewhat knew began cross dressing because his grandmother was dressing him up as a girl when he visited and was praising him; that affirmation and extra praise led him to want more of it. And I imagine that the same kind of thing could happen at a much subtler level to even infants when the child experiences praise or lack of praise from a parent or caregiver or watches such in others (perhaps siblings) and then makes a faulty conclusion (similar to ignored children concluding that they can never get their needs met which may result in behaviors like setting the bar very low and settling for any partner regardless of how irresponsible and unsuitable for marriage and the raising of children) that may never become fully conscious. And I once watched a documentary on a serial killer who said that his sexuality early in life got connected to death when he saw (something like, I can’t recall exactly) a dead animal in the woods-very sad, but I will say that perversions like this or much less severe/disturbing are to be recognized and corrected rather than affirmed and lived out.
As a Christian, I would also add that there is a spiritual component to life, and fallen/rebellious angels (1/3 of the total) kicked out of Heaven and now called demons have been given permission by God to test/tempt humanity (including children) to also rebel against their creator. We’ve all been given one life to prove our allegiance by obeying our creator, and sometimes we don’t see the benefits of his designs until we live within them and obey them.
There are also teachings that can affect this area of one's life. One that I'm sure shaped my decisions profoundly was my dad telling me, "There are no good men. They only want sex. I know because I'm a man."
Geez! What a mess. It's a good thing there is nothing else to transition to. Let's hope this is the last trip on the merry go round for her.
Bathrooms: there sometimes seems to be a difficulty for this disabled person to get into the wheelchair accessible single bathrooms these days because there are very nice trans people using them. I bet the usage of these bathrooms has gone way up. After all, it does solve the problem of which bathroom to use! Just try to leave room for we folks in wheelchairs and walkers!
Yes, Daisy! Followed her back in the day and excited to hear her again. Can't wait to listen to this later!
“Medical gatekeeping” - gatekeeping is meant to be a good thing, and the word itself has become stigmatized.
@ 28:00, Daisy said that everything that her parents tried didn't stop her! 29:45, Daisy said that she wished that her parents had taken the internet away! If she really wanted to access it, she could have gone onto chat rooms at school or on a friends's Smart Phones.
I have often wondered if I was traumatized but i can't remember anything.... I've always had a negative view of femalness and a positive view of maleness as well...still do...
Thank you for sharing Daisy’s story and that of others. I want to hear them to help me understand. The church in my circles isn’t talking about this. Many young people exploring Christianity have concerns about the churches attitude about this and other big issues. I am not interested in being judgmental or black in white. I want to love people but I’m trying to work out how I can best do that.
I def have struggled with depression my entire life ......I just feel super happy at the idea of being a boy tho... I do feel that is why I'm often depressed.... I see beautiful sweet girls and I just Wana love them so bad 😣... Some of them I literally have to force myself not to ask them to marry me the second I see them..if I was a guy, I think I would have been married already ..I've known a few girls that are so good and so beautiful inside ... My best friend .... She tried to let me know I was like a lesbian I think.... Not directly..I just got the vibe that she was trying to tell me something... Now she's married to a guy and it just doesn't feel right at all..I grew up as a ballerina .... But I've always identified as a boy....
You are so loved!
Trauma shows in many ways … the way you saw men versus women shows you did have a trauma … the relationship of your parents or other close experiences might have contributed to that too
watching here from Brazil ! :)
Preston, really ? A 6 month old baby has the ability to recognize their gender ?
Are you kidding me ? You are very foolish to utter such nonsense. A 6 month old baby wants to eat, desires family connection, wants to sit up, roll over, etc.,
Great talk! Thanks. On Reddit/Detrans, over and over again you see “why didn’t someone tell me this was dangerous, not right for me?“ But clearly, I think people did: parents, maybe friends etc it’s just so hard for that message to get through to a young teenager, Particularly when the spending most of their time in in “affirmation bubble” online.
Has anyone noticed that daisy could be Preston’s female twin. They look like family. Very cool.
Trauma and a dormant gene for bipolar is why I have a DSM-5 disorder. Trans difference is the only accepted disorder.
In the 70's when I was a teen, I thought guys my age with the longish hair (pre the glam rock look, which I did not like) looked so cute. Definitely cuter than girls and we girls were supposed to be the cute ones. If gender theory had been pushed on me I might've seen that as a sign that I wanted to BE a guy, instead of just honestly finding them pretty darn attractive. But I thank God that the global confusion hadn't quite landed on the public consciousness yet or who knows what direction my life could have taken.. I am hoping as well as believing that this craze will be obliterated because it has wrecked so many lives. It's possible, with God, to reclaim what His enemy has stolen, and I pray for the day when more and more and more people leave that confusion for good.
I was just sayin amen over and over when you spoke of how Christians should treat Transpeople. But I also agree with some progressing the stereotypical woman.
My first listen to your channel and subscribed after watching for a while. Very interesting episode , can't wait to hear more.
I never felt like gender roles were imposed upon me, I was always told it didn't matter if I was a woman or man I could still do what I wanted to do, I just needed to work at it. I did marry and have 4 children, we eventually divorced for various reasons but stayed close friends ,I then met and had a blessing which was the marriage of the time with a woman I fell in love with and 20 years on am still happily with. I'm glad none of this was around then as all my friends were boys, I played baseball, football, worked out in the gym with them so feel I would have been directed down the path of being trans male even though I was very much a girl and just had male friends who I felt more comfortable with. I still have more male friends than female.
The fact the blue and pink nonsense, the gap between the sexes, still is hugely present in the USA makes this trans issue specially a hype in the USA. In Europe children fortunately are raised so much more neutral. It is all about culture. Culture starts in the cradle.
I feel so sorry for Daisy. She was misled at a young age and it ended up ruining her life. Being a Christian is believing in Jesux and His sacrifice that freed humanity so that our sins could be forgiven and not held against us. The Bible is the ultimate truth, denominations complicate things by causing division. A personal relationship with God is what God desires of us. It's the reason humans were made.
Very natural beauty. Beautiful as who she is. ❤️🙏🏻
Kids are completely spoilt and undisciplined.
What a beautiful face!!!! Wow, Daisy you are very pretty.
Incarcerated transwomen who are NOT sex 9ffenders are not in danger. They are ADORED in prison.
Transwomen who are sex offenders...in the UK, that's 51% of incarcerated transwomen. Over half. they are the ones who want to transfer
Y'all talked a lot about social influence. I'm curious about parental influence. If you have affirming parents who are gently helping you through confusion and who talk with you about everything, will that influence you away from gender dysphoria, vs the parent who is either mostly absent or who actually pushes you more into dysphoria.
15:00 Great point! Almost no one addresses this: the ratio changes between individuals.
Lovely girl. You will be a inspiration to many who fear changing back to who they are. ❤️🕊🦋🦋🦋
I can remember wanting to be a boy since I was like 4 or 5 as well...
I’m not sure if the guy in this video is truly a Christian. Jesus is very clear about those who follow him. Jesus lays out what sin is and to turn from it.
Daisy, I'm assuming that as a 16 year old, if you had come across this discussion with your future self you would have been dismissive?
I'm trying to work out whether to share this with a teenager relative!
33:33 yes!! Thank you. Making children USE their body’s will help straighten out a lot confusion about how it works.
Good for her
She didn't agree with the Bible and didn't want to give up her stuff and take up her cross . She wanted faith on HER terms and bcz it didn't fit what she wanted she decided it wasn't true. And all the prayers were ingenious bcz she admits she DIDN'T agree with the Bible so it doesn't work that way
Gender stereotypes = gender expression stemming from gender identity. That's how I see it anyway.
Daisy is a straight girl
44:33 This circular argument occurs because … feelings are involved? That’s what gets said…
If she can save one youngster I hope she can
Thank you for having Daisy on, what an interesting and lovely person. It was so helpful to hear your discussion.
Preston Sprinkle seems like a nice interviewer.
44:57 Sex and gender are different but I would say one's self sense of gender is informed by their physical sex and even more so by the social constructs of what the sexes are and do. When these 2 are incongruent it's what is deemed dysphoria.
I remember always just thinking I was the same as my brothers.... I really did not like growing up and being more and more identified as a girl ..... It felt like I was becoming a girl when I spent my childhood as a boy...
I know this is beside topic, but I love her eyes, soo beautiful! I really hope she recovers her voice.
She wont. Her voice will be deep permanently because of the testosterone
Don’t mess with Gods work.
Does sexual preference have anything to do with trans gender proclivities?
Please stop saying make and female when talking about gender. Those are terms that deal with biological sex. Biological sex can not be changed.