Secrets and insecurities are the exact opposite of strenght so that doesn't really apply here If I'm reading that correctly, you might as well never use your strenght for a women cause they can use you. But that's basically for everyone and a risk of life😂
There’s always a time and place to tell things about your past, but having a trusting loving significant other is the goal. Being able to be vulnerable to the right woman can increase your quality of life to the extreme. Acceptance is key!!!
I love this and that's just how it should be....those women that have a problem doing this are likely not the ideal partner for the guy in question or just not great relationship material themselves (the whole "attack on men" theme in society through harsh feminism doesn't help either....). Love and understanding go hand in hand. Yes, a man needs to be strong and firm in his stance in the relationship....but always shielding our weaknesses and secrets from the one we're sleeping with and sharing a bank account with is simply not mutually healthy and mature. I wouldn't share intimate and vulnerable details with someone who was emotionally immature, vindictive, or showed a lack of respect towards the relationship generally.
@ The funny thing is if you are sleeping with someone and sharing finances and still can’t trust with your past , then that’s not a relationship! It’s an appeasementship .
Same, when I was young I tried to force myself into social situations, to appear "normal". One day it hit me like a lightning bolt, I love to be alone and there's nothing wrong with it. I'm happiest when alone.
I think it's important to know "what" to reveal and "when" to reveal it....but if you "fear" your partner acquiring certain information....I dunno something is off with either the foundation of that relationship or the partner in question probably. I wouldn't share intimate and vulnerable details with someone who was emotionally immature, vindictive, or showed a lack of respect towards the relationship generally.
I've had 2 women in my life in romantic/intimate ways that had guilt tripped me into opening up about something before. I cared about both of them, so i opened up only for it to be thrown back in my face. Both told me they think it's just better if we are friends. I don't play the friendzone shit especially after being told I'm not wanted. Both of them couldn't believe i didn't want their "friendship." One apologized to me years later but the other one still doesn't see or feel she did anything fucked up to me. We work at the same place, and she does some of the most petty shit still.
That's awesome, man. You're blessed to have a good woman. In today's society, it's very rare. We need to hold on to the good women. My ex used my vulnerability against me. So I'm just relaxing right now before I get back in the dating game.
I shared something extremely personal to a girl i liked years ago, and we never spoke much after that. She wanted to know so badly until she didn't and i revisit that moment from time to time. Please heed Tyrone's advice and hold off on sharing personal or confidential info with someone you're interested in.
Tyrone I’m sure you’ve heard this a lot but man you are blessed and you truly deserve all the success you’ve gotten and the future successes as well, keep doing ya thing! 💯✌🏾
I'm hoping to meet my "Scarlo" someday soon; I'm kind'a talking to someone now, and I'll see how it goes. Congratulations on lucking out and meeting a good woman. It's rare to have that nowadays.
Learned that lesson the hard way. Now it’s just my way of thinking has changed to “Suck it up, Keep it Private, I have no right to complain”. Now when others especially those close to me open up I tend to not care anymore on the inside and I’m scared of myself because I don’t want my heart to harden. Its ruined one relationship where she wanted me to open up but I immediately put that wall up and said no. I became more blunt and my I go through responses in a serene way no longer getting upset or bothered; I just shut down or remain calm/poker-faced. I go through life now knowing not to open up or confide until the day I die.
Been with my wife since 2012. I can honestly say there is zero reasons for me to worry about telling her anything. She hasn’t given me a reason to not trust her in 13 years.
Congratulations to you, Tyrone, and to ScarLo. I hope you two are meant to stay together. The only reason you should not confide everything in a significant other is if things go badly, like a breakup, the secrets will be revealed and used against each other. One day, they are your best friend and the next day, some people find out that it was their enemy all along. Keep your friends close, but keep your enemies closer. Meaning keep any eye on things and keep your head on a swivel just in case someone very close to you decides to turn on you. Many days are a Physical, Mental, and Spiritual battle. Keep moving forward and best of luck everyone.
Never had a long term relationship like you and the boss lady ScarLo but I can humbly say that the only women who have seen me cry is my mum and sis. No other woman has been that important or connected with me to see these grown man tears.
I’ve only experienced the side of being vulnerable with women and then it being used against me. It’s made me jaded, but I’m hopeful. I can read people far better.
Most definitely, we as men need to keep some secrets order to protect ourselves from possible backlash. Having someone you can FULLY trust makes a HUGE difference like Tyrone is saying.
Confided in and told my insecurities to my ex and she used them against me. I’ve vented and stuff to my current gf and she doesn’t say anything about them. It really does depend on the woman and how much she loves you. Tyrone found the one. You love to see it!
@@R_wir3As a man I don't like the idea of needing a prenup. Shows your partner that you don't fully trust them, and if you don't fully trust them then why are you marrying them?
If you can't be vulnerable with a woman, you might as well be alone. Being a (Black) male in today, it's so hard. We have to constantly have a guard up, be hard, be a "man" and all that jazz, we have to have a point in the day where we can go to our safe space where are peace is and take all of that off and be vulnerable, be sensitive, be not okay, ECT. We barely get the support of our women in this community much less a people as a whole so why further drive us into the ground with splitting us up versus bringing us together?
How about this? Tell them, so they can be exposed when they use it against you. Better to be vulnerable upfront and not waste time. This coming from a man that had 4 of 5 wanting to come back; some years later. With my wife now for 20 years.
Advice from someone older. 'Do not give what you hold scared or valuable away to those who do not appreciate, honor, respect, and protect you. He/she might be hot, sexy, funny, or even charming but be honest with yourself about the person. If you got burned, forgive and move on with the life you have been given. The choice is yours to make. You're still young, you still have time to chose again. This goes for family, friendship, or even a soulmate.' Matthew 7:6-7: “Do not give dogs what is sacred; do not throw your pearls to pigs. If you do, they may trample them under their feet, and turn and tear you to pieces. “Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you.
That's my exact mindset, if a girl I am with decides to cheat on me, then she will regret it by losing me. I have no problem telling someone what they did to make me leave, and I have no problem leaving and going full ghost on them. I have other things to do than to be running behind a woman to make sure she ain't being suspicious. Red pill awareness definitely educated me on some things so that I'll have less of a chance of being blindsided. I'll also admit that I'm purple pilled. (Never heard of purple pilled until I saw Alpha Male Strategies). If my memory serves me correct, purple pill is pretty much having awareness of female nature while still being open to a relationship or marriage.
Great video Tryone and yes sime my secrets in my lrevious relationship used it against me. Now in my 40's and a better relationship ive learned rhat as well. Great advice and salute to you and your Queen.
Do not tell any unfamiliar woman your secrets. But find a woman you can develop loyalty, reciprocity, and trust with; and I would be vulnerable with her as long as you'll dating or married together to grow the relationship even more!
when you find the right one, you can be vulnerable to them and with them. i was with my ex for 13 years married for 12. i thought i knew her but people change. i trusted her 150% but at the end, she was playing around with multiple guys so my vulnerability walls are thick now lol. with the ex wife and ex gfs, theyve said that i need to open up and express more. lol when it came down to it, "i have my own problems i cant deal with yours..." lol wtf i thought we were tight!
See I never were the “trusting” type tbh but then I met this one girl who was clearly and genuinely different than the girls I was used to (I’m from New York raised in the city and across the bridge so you already know) in the beginning it was like a breath of fresh air knowing that I finally found the “one” per say but ofc we had our ups n downs I definitely could’ve been better in areas but that being said a lot of the things I told her in the beginning she deadass used them shits against me by expressing how I did things in my past so evidently I must be doing the same thing to her when she knows i never showed any of those traits or anything to her that being said. I learned not everything in the beginning will end the same towards the middle/End so be careful n patient to not let things in the beginning be the dictator in your decision to “let in” someone
When it comes down to vulnerability especially with the passing of a family member I would never tell a GF/wife that and instead go to the funeral by myself bc the moment the woman sees me vulnerable in that situation, she’ll leave me.
Shout out to you Tyrone and your lady Ms. Scarlo. I'll say this, there is a huge difference between telling your woman about something that is a legit issue for you. How you communicate that is even more important. Now, its another thing entirely to complain and whine to your woman about your worries. Not only that, but burdening her with expectations of you needing her to be someone that constantly has to validate you and your insecurities.
From childhood all the way up to adulthood I've seen how some girls/women would argue and use what you told them against you , even worse when theres other people around and they hear the kind of things that she says that you trusted her with , that's why I keep everything to myself and my girl that I've been with for 6 yrs still doesn't know any of my secrets
The reason you dont care if they go on girls trips is because you know your worth and you can move on very quickly with your money and platform. You can most definitely tell your secrets to a woman, but big but it has to be a very very very trustworthy person properly vetted.
My last relationship was off and on for almost 4 years. The last time I tried with her she already knew most of my secrets but this time was different because I wanted to make sure she was the one before In popped the question. Not only were the arguments worse than ever between us but she would attack my character and used all the things she knew about me against me and as a defense I did the same back. Needless to say we broke up and as a result I wish I never met her in the first place. You’re right man. Don’t open up to people if you don’t know how to trust them. They will burn you faster than a pack of cigarettes at a trailer park
In this case, I think most of us had somebody violate our trust with secrets, but you CANT hold every partner to that standard. You gotta have a way of finding out if you can trust who you choose
I love this and that's just how it should be....those women that have a problem doing this are likely not the ideal partner for the guy in question or just not great relationship material themselves (the whole "attack on men" theme in society through harsh feminism doesn't help either....). Love and understanding go hand in hand. Yes, a man needs to be strong and firm in his stance in the relationship....but always shielding our weaknesses and secrets from the one we're sleeping with and sharing a bank account with is simply not mutually healthy and mature. I wouldn't share intimate and vulnerable details with someone who was emotionally immature, vindictive, or showed a lack of respect towards the relationship generally.
The issue is they can always become emotionally immature, vindictive, and disrespectful at any point because of their emotions, so since there's always a risk you're better off being safe. The same way you shouldn't invest money you're not willing to lose, you shouldn't divulge any information you're not willing to deal with thrown back at you
Been with my wife for 17 years. I share everything with my wife, and she shares everything with me. Super-grateful I got the right one. We even have a girlfriend together and we're a throuple for the past 2 years. Those red pill dudes are like divas to me lol
past behaviours depict future trends. If she cheated in the past, tf I look like taking her seriously and giving her a relationship?! That's always been my moto when dating
Im with Tyrone 90% My ex wife was solid af. But after she got on meds for depression she changed a lot. And ended up cheating like mad. And i found out suddenly. Drugs have a way of changing people. So in that vein i put a asterisk on certifying what he said.
You can’t stop someone from cheating, do right by people and if they do cheat, that has everything to do with them and nothing to do with you. Keep it moving bro
I have, and the situation is pending at times and then sometimes it’s not . Some women are … yeah idk , even with 15yrs behind the belt , but either way doesn’t effect me
I agree a lot of the red pill guys are a little bit too extreme. And it’s usually the ones that can never get women that come off like they know all women
Don't trust anybody. - Stone Cold
and what happened the moment he trusted Triple H? Uh huh. DTA.
@@sandman9601 Stone Cold NEVER... SAW IT... COMING.
this comment is 🔥STONE COLD🥶
Pac said that
What?
I told my insecurities to my mom a couple times and she immediately used it against me, never opened up to her ever again after that.
Sorry to hear that pal.
That's rough man.
Same my sister convinced me to open up and then used it against me, I haven't spoken to her for ten years.
My mom did the same to me. She said stop acting like a bitch😂. Now she wonders why i dont tell her anything about my personal life
Yeah mate 99.9% of women I've met, but hey I still hope for a normal one 😅
Proverbs 31:3 KJV
[3] Give not thy strength unto women, Nor thy ways to that which destroyeth kings.
Exactly. Proverbs is called the book of wisdom for a reason
Secrets and insecurities are the exact opposite of strenght so that doesn't really apply here
If I'm reading that correctly, you might as well never use your strenght for a women cause they can use you. But that's basically for everyone and a risk of life😂
Amen 🙏🏾
@no.1spidey-fan182 strength in this context means anxieties, fears, etc.
Very true, you're not doing her a favor by enabling her, she has to find her own strength, especially if she wants to be with a strong man
scarlos next video: 3 dirty secrets i have on tyrone
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There’s always a time and place to tell things about your past, but having a trusting loving significant other is the goal. Being able to be vulnerable to the right woman can increase your quality of life to the extreme. Acceptance is key!!!
I love this and that's just how it should be....those women that have a problem doing this are likely not the ideal partner for the guy in question or just not great relationship material themselves (the whole "attack on men" theme in society through harsh feminism doesn't help either....).
Love and understanding go hand in hand. Yes, a man needs to be strong and firm in his stance in the relationship....but always shielding our weaknesses and secrets from the one we're sleeping with and sharing a bank account with is simply not mutually healthy and mature. I wouldn't share intimate and vulnerable details with someone who was emotionally immature, vindictive, or showed a lack of respect towards the relationship generally.
@ The funny thing is if you are sleeping with someone and sharing finances and still can’t trust with your past , then that’s not a relationship! It’s an appeasementship .
Wrong
Strongly disagree
Not everyone agrees and that’s fine. It’s just an opinion
One time I told a Ex about how my cousin died from cancer when we was kids and she laughed smhhh never saw her again after that day
You dodged the joker
Tyrone looking like a lawyer that won’t ever let you down in that photo😭
I'm an introvert. This is a non issue for me. 🙃
Same! Takes a lot for someone to gain my trust
@@vanillashake5495 🤣 welp!!! on to the next video seems im 99.9% from doing that
Same
I'm ambivert but I always stay to myself, more now than I used to.
Same, when I was young I tried to force myself into social situations, to appear "normal". One day it hit me like a lightning bolt, I love to be alone and there's nothing wrong with it. I'm happiest when alone.
"A fool vents all his feelings,
But a wise man holds them back."
Proverbs 29:11
A man of wisdom I see.
I agree
I think it's important to know "what" to reveal and "when" to reveal it....but if you "fear" your partner acquiring certain information....I dunno something is off with either the foundation of that relationship or the partner in question probably. I wouldn't share intimate and vulnerable details with someone who was emotionally immature, vindictive, or showed a lack of respect towards the relationship generally.
@@DatsLegitness Grow up kid 🙄
You do know that Solomon had over 700 wives and only had 2 bad things to say right? Lol
There's all kinds of secrets I should have never told my woman! My dreams. My fears. Where I buried the bodies. And talk about judgemental, too!
Wait what?!
@@pratikdodake7645 yeah man, never let your woman know your fears!
I know what you mean. I always get jugded, when I mention the buried bodies :P
🤣😂
HOLD UP
I've had 2 women in my life in romantic/intimate ways that had guilt tripped me into opening up about something before. I cared about both of them, so i opened up only for it to be thrown back in my face. Both told me they think it's just better if we are friends. I don't play the friendzone shit especially after being told I'm not wanted. Both of them couldn't believe i didn't want their "friendship." One apologized to me years later but the other one still doesn't see or feel she did anything fucked up to me. We work at the same place, and she does some of the most petty shit still.
That's awesome, man. You're blessed to have a good woman. In today's society, it's very rare. We need to hold on to the good women. My ex used my vulnerability against me. So I'm just relaxing right now before I get back in the dating game.
She loves you Tyrone. Happy for you!
I shared something extremely personal to a girl i liked years ago, and we never spoke much after that. She wanted to know so badly until she didn't and i revisit that moment from time to time. Please heed Tyrone's advice and hold off on sharing personal or confidential info with someone you're interested in.
Tyrone I’m sure you’ve heard this a lot but man you are blessed and you truly deserve all the success you’ve gotten and the future successes as well, keep doing ya thing! 💯✌🏾
I'm hoping to meet my "Scarlo" someday soon; I'm kind'a talking to someone now, and I'll see how it goes. Congratulations on lucking out and meeting a good woman. It's rare to have that nowadays.
I hope it goes well for you!
Learned that lesson the hard way. Now it’s just my way of thinking has changed to “Suck it up, Keep it Private, I have no right to complain”. Now when others especially those close to me open up I tend to not care anymore on the inside and I’m scared of myself because I don’t want my heart to harden. Its ruined one relationship where she wanted me to open up but I immediately put that wall up and said no. I became more blunt and my I go through responses in a serene way no longer getting upset or bothered; I just shut down or remain calm/poker-faced. I go through life now knowing not to open up or confide until the day I die.
Been with my wife since 2012. I can honestly say there is zero reasons for me to worry about telling her anything. She hasn’t given me a reason to not trust her in 13 years.
Lucky you 😏
Never kick a man when his down
Congratulations to you, Tyrone, and to ScarLo. I hope you two are meant to stay together. The only reason you should not confide everything in a significant other is if things go badly, like a breakup, the secrets will be revealed and used against each other. One day, they are your best friend and the next day, some people find out that it was their enemy all along. Keep your friends close, but keep your enemies closer. Meaning keep any eye on things and keep your head on a swivel just in case someone very close to you decides to turn on you. Many days are a Physical, Mental, and Spiritual battle. Keep moving forward and best of luck everyone.
Confided in a ex and she used it against me. Confided in my wife and she never brung it up
Bingo 👍
Never had a long term relationship like you and the boss lady ScarLo but I can humbly say that the only women who have seen me cry is my mum and sis. No other woman has been that important or connected with me to see these grown man tears.
That's real my bro Respect
Very true...I have a scarlo and she's the same to a extent but mostly she's definitely down for me and to see me win and succeed
So true!! We learn this more and more the older we get. Some fortunate dudes out there learn it at a young age
I’ve only experienced the side of being vulnerable with women and then it being used against me. It’s made me jaded, but I’m hopeful. I can read people far better.
Most definitely, we as men need to keep some secrets order to protect ourselves from possible backlash. Having someone you can FULLY trust makes a HUGE difference like Tyrone is saying.
Scarlo is a keeper
Confided in and told my insecurities to my ex and she used them against me. I’ve vented and stuff to my current gf and she doesn’t say anything about them. It really does depend on the woman and how much she loves you. Tyrone found the one. You love to see it!
Marry Her Tyrone
With a prenup
@@R_wir3🤡
Jajaja dude
@@R_wir3As a man I don't like the idea of needing a prenup. Shows your partner that you don't fully trust them, and if you don't fully trust them then why are you marrying them?
what's the point? a sheet of paper that invites the government into your relationship?
Or, confide a false insecurity or an insecurity that doesn’t really bother you just to see if they use it against you.
You’re playing 4D chess
So true. She loves you to death! It shows.
This is why I can never get married.
Just dont tell her things that she can use against you or lose attraction over.
Well if I'm honest I'm looking at your profile pic and I'm gonna go ahead and assume there's other reasons you might not get married🤣
@ItsAme7143 what does "j" rhyme with?
@@ItsAme7143why? that's a sick pfp
If you say so.
If you can't be vulnerable with a woman, you might as well be alone.
Being a (Black) male in today, it's so hard. We have to constantly have a guard up, be hard, be a "man" and all that jazz, we have to have a point in the day where we can go to our safe space where are peace is and take all of that off and be vulnerable, be sensitive, be not okay, ECT. We barely get the support of our women in this community much less a people as a whole so why further drive us into the ground with splitting us up versus bringing us together?
Brotha your story times and advice videos gotta be some of your best videos, POST MORE PLEASE 😩🙏🏼
Truly happy for you both!!!
I never told any woman anything about my insecurities or anything that can be used against me in any way
Sounds pretty fuckin' gay, honestly. You tell your mommy? Your buddies? "I love you so much bro". Just be honest with yourself.
I trust my lady more than most trust themselves.
Respect and best wishes for the both of you.
1:01 Damn! Is that mirror-universe Tyrone from Star Trek: TOS Season 2, Episode 4?!?
Tyrone salute bro you have a real good woman stay blessed 💯🤘
You've been Magnetized!
I feel this I’ve been there before
I told a girl my plans, she used that opportunity to start asking me for money A LOT. It got irritating and i had to let her go. Never again.
My current ex has been gossiping about me and using my insecurities and personal things ive told her against me.
How about this? Tell them, so they can be exposed when they use it against you. Better to be vulnerable upfront and not waste time. This coming from a man that had 4 of 5 wanting to come back; some years later. With my wife now for 20 years.
Thats the point, you nailed it. The problem is (like MGTOW and red pill peeps) their afraid to do so.
Thanks for talking about this and sharing you’re personal experiences
Tyrone knows his value, and it doesn't derive from cash or fame.
You look happy man I am happy for you stay blessed 💯🫡💯🙏🏽💯
"Or she will use them to destroy you"
Advice from someone older.
'Do not give what you hold scared or valuable away to those who do not appreciate, honor, respect, and protect you. He/she might be hot, sexy, funny, or even charming but be honest with yourself about the person. If you got burned, forgive and move on with the life you have been given. The choice is yours to make. You're still young, you still have time to chose again. This goes for family, friendship, or even a soulmate.'
Matthew 7:6-7: “Do not give dogs what is sacred; do not throw your pearls to pigs. If you do, they may trample them under their feet, and turn and tear you to pieces. “Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you.
That's my exact mindset, if a girl I am with decides to cheat on me, then she will regret it by losing me. I have no problem telling someone what they did to make me leave, and I have no problem leaving and going full ghost on them. I have other things to do than to be running behind a woman to make sure she ain't being suspicious. Red pill awareness definitely educated me on some things so that I'll have less of a chance of being blindsided.
I'll also admit that I'm purple pilled. (Never heard of purple pilled until I saw Alpha Male Strategies). If my memory serves me correct, purple pill is pretty much having awareness of female nature while still being open to a relationship or marriage.
Tyrone bout to do his wife's impression from Norbit, "Ehh Resbusha."😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣
Trust, communication. That's it ❤
Great video Tryone and yes sime my secrets in my lrevious relationship used it against me. Now in my 40's and a better relationship ive learned rhat as well. Great advice and salute to you and your Queen.
I learned this lesson the hard way many times. Never again am I telling a woman my personal business. 👍🏻
Do not tell any unfamiliar woman your secrets. But find a woman you can develop loyalty, reciprocity, and trust with; and I would be vulnerable with her as long as you'll dating or married together to grow the relationship even more!
when you find the right one, you can be vulnerable to them and with them. i was with my ex for 13 years married for 12. i thought i knew her but people change. i trusted her 150% but at the end, she was playing around with multiple guys so my vulnerability walls are thick now lol. with the ex wife and ex gfs, theyve said that i need to open up and express more. lol when it came down to it, "i have my own problems i cant deal with yours..." lol wtf i thought we were tight!
Tyrone and Scarlo are true relationship goals ❤️
I never open up to anyone because the last time I did it the person I opened up to made me feel like crap
That feeling goes away pretty quick, and then is replaced with crappier feelings that come with competence and responsibility lol
Happy for ya bro
Never tell your issues to anybody thats not a solid person. Guys will tell your bussiness too.
See I never were the “trusting” type tbh but then I met this one girl who was clearly and genuinely different than the girls I was used to (I’m from New York raised in the city and across the bridge so you already know) in the beginning it was like a breath of fresh air knowing that I finally found the “one” per say but ofc we had our ups n downs I definitely could’ve been better in areas but that being said a lot of the things I told her in the beginning she deadass used them shits against me by expressing how I did things in my past so evidently I must be doing the same thing to her when she knows i never showed any of those traits or anything to her that being said. I learned not everything in the beginning will end the same towards the middle/End so be careful n patient to not let things in the beginning be the dictator in your decision to “let in” someone
Tyrone, I miss your advice videos. Chronicles of adulthood.
People be using them to exploit you, real scumbag behaviour.
The secret I have, I can't even tell my mom and father. I may can tell this girl I'm talking to now, even though I never met her in the physical.
MGTOW is still the best Philosophy!
Can you tell me the full form of this?
@@pratikdodake7645 just stay single, yes, you can have female friends but stay focus on your goals
@@pratikdodake7645 might get tomorrow off work
No it's not. Men and women are designed to be together, it's a very depressing philosophy and only heartbroken guys are willing to follow it
@@tstone9151good for them, they'll not be heartbroken again.
When it comes down to vulnerability especially with the passing of a family member I would never tell a GF/wife that and instead go to the funeral by myself bc the moment the woman sees me vulnerable in that situation, she’ll leave me.
Micah 7:5 Trust ye not in a friend, put ye not confidence in a guide: keep the doors of thy mouth from her that lieth in thy bosom.
Shout out to you Tyrone and your lady Ms. Scarlo.
I'll say this, there is a huge difference between telling your woman about something that is a legit issue for you. How you communicate that is even more important.
Now, its another thing entirely to complain and whine to your woman about your worries. Not only that, but burdening her with expectations of you needing her to be someone that constantly has to validate you and your insecurities.
Facts
From childhood all the way up to adulthood I've seen how some girls/women would argue and use what you told them against you , even worse when theres other people around and they hear the kind of things that she says that you trusted her with , that's why I keep everything to myself and my girl that I've been with for 6 yrs still doesn't know any of my secrets
The reason you dont care if they go on girls trips is because you know your worth and you can move on very quickly with your money and platform. You can most definitely tell your secrets to a woman, but big but it has to be a very very very trustworthy person properly vetted.
I could’ve used this in 2019 when I was 19 😂❤
My last relationship was off and on for almost 4 years. The last time I tried with her she already knew most of my secrets but this time was different because I wanted to make sure she was the one before In popped the question. Not only were the arguments worse than ever between us but she would attack my character and used all the things she knew about me against me and as a defense I did the same back. Needless to say we broke up and as a result I wish I never met her in the first place. You’re right man. Don’t open up to people if you don’t know how to trust them. They will burn you faster than a pack of cigarettes at a trailer park
Women don't fight fair.
-Corey Wayne (best relationship coach on Earth)
Man it's all about finding love yourself and trust.
Amen Brother! Words to live by.
In this case, I think most of us had somebody violate our trust with secrets, but you CANT hold every partner to that standard. You gotta have a way of finding out if you can trust who you choose
You need to make a video on how to pick the right one. Or elaborate on the relationship topic.
I’m glad you acknowledge your Scarlo is a Rare one
I agree 💯
I agree with 76%-80% of it.
That's why I'm so happy that I married my wife! She's the best woman I've ever met, and she's 100% all about me!
Listen to me,neveeeeeeeeer ever 🤣🤣🤣🤣
"The mass of men lead lives of quiet desperation." - Henry David Thoreau
I love this and that's just how it should be....those women that have a problem doing this are likely not the ideal partner for the guy in question or just not great relationship material themselves (the whole "attack on men" theme in society through harsh feminism doesn't help either....).
Love and understanding go hand in hand. Yes, a man needs to be strong and firm in his stance in the relationship....but always shielding our weaknesses and secrets from the one we're sleeping with and sharing a bank account with is simply not mutually healthy and mature. I wouldn't share intimate and vulnerable details with someone who was emotionally immature, vindictive, or showed a lack of respect towards the relationship generally.
The issue is they can always become emotionally immature, vindictive, and disrespectful at any point because of their emotions, so since there's always a risk you're better off being safe. The same way you shouldn't invest money you're not willing to lose, you shouldn't divulge any information you're not willing to deal with thrown back at you
tell em tyrone
Been with my wife for 17 years. I share everything with my wife, and she shares everything with me. Super-grateful I got the right one. We even have a girlfriend together and we're a throuple for the past 2 years. Those red pill dudes are like divas to me lol
😅 you're definitely one of the very lucky ones Mr Tyrone Magnus however as for myself I'm never confining in a anyony ever especially ♀️
past behaviours depict future trends. If she cheated in the past, tf I look like taking her seriously and giving her a relationship?! That's always been my moto when dating
Im with Tyrone 90%
My ex wife was solid af. But after she got on meds for depression she changed a lot. And ended up cheating like mad. And i found out suddenly. Drugs have a way of changing people. So in that vein i put a asterisk on certifying what he said.
0:59....Call Time!!!
I have a Scarlo type ...shes the best .....btw dont ever take the shopping 🛍️ nookie 🤣 pill 💊😅
You can’t stop someone from cheating, do right by people and if they do cheat, that has everything to do with them and nothing to do with you. Keep it moving bro
It's my spool of wire...
I have, and the situation is pending at times and then sometimes it’s not . Some women are … yeah idk , even with 15yrs behind the belt , but either way doesn’t effect me
Mine used one against me during yesterday's argument, shes loyal but damn
I agree a lot of the red pill guys are a little bit too extreme. And it’s usually the ones that can never get women that come off like they know all women
I dont even tell em my real name. Cant trust em, i never will.
Facts 🫡🔥