Vlog | Going Back Home, Being a Village Girl, Cousin's Lobola Negotiations & Lots More

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  • Опубліковано 20 жов 2024

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  • @zizi_moloko
    @zizi_moloko  Рік тому +300

    Hey Lovelies... Over the holidays, I was lucky enough to get some time to spend with my family. I went back home to my childhood home and spent some time with the cousins that I grew up with and ofcourse, one of my cousins is a soon to be Mrs and we were there to support her during her Lobola Negotiations and just love on and serve her in-laws....
    This Vlog is really special to me so I hope you really enjoy it...

    • @Tee-pj6cd
      @Tee-pj6cd Рік тому +2

      Hey.. hayibo! I went to the same high school as uMakoti(Sthe) at some point in my life.

    • @kuenamonaheng
      @kuenamonaheng Рік тому +1

      Enjoyed it alot thank you for sharing😍. Going back to my mothers village where she grew up and when I used to visit on holidays also gave me ho much joy and sadness at the same time seeing how things have change but yet stayed yet same... everything looks smaller than I remembered🤣

    • @skylarblue8875
      @skylarblue8875 Рік тому

      I loved the vlog sis wami❤️❤️

  • @nomakhaya24
    @nomakhaya24 Рік тому +119

    Zizi you need to stop being afraid an automatic 😂😂 your dream Merc is waiting for you in automatic mode

  • @tshego7442
    @tshego7442 Рік тому +63

    I can already tell you’re gonna become a cautious mom, you’re so sweet. 🥹

  • @OyamaMgojo
    @OyamaMgojo Рік тому +71

    Absolutely loved this vlog so so soooo much!!!!! I'm obviously going to number my favourite moments as usual...
    1. Zizi has this habit of saying the funniest things with a straight face. What's "Kaloku ndine mpundu ezinkulu so ndihleli phezulu"🤣🤣🤣everyone was in stitches besides her.
    2. Love how quick you nipped the "weight gain" comments in the bud. I struggle with this when I'm home.
    3. Cinematic views zase Marhambeni were so beautiful. Loved how you involved us in the details. Every home has a porcelain dog as an ornament sana🤣🤣🤣
    Your family reunion made me so mushy. What a special privilege it is to have family that loves and gets together for good times🥺❤️

  • @12Nomzamo
    @12Nomzamo Рік тому +8

    Thanks for explaining the Xhosa speaking cause I always get confused when u mention KZN as your home . Your vlogs never disappoint shem siyabonga Zizi for your authenticity in a very Instagram curated Era ❤

  • @simplysinovlogs
    @simplysinovlogs Рік тому +11

    It's how cautious you were of the baby boy climbing up the stairs... You are going to be such an amazing mom one day Zizi❤️.... Also, I love how you so respectfully reprimanded umamncane from talking about your weight, I wish elders and people in general would understand that commenting on people's weight is not nice at all.

  • @cikizwamatrose45
    @cikizwamatrose45 Рік тому +10

    I don't know why am crying, but this is beautiful Zizi.

  • @ayandamtyebi6825
    @ayandamtyebi6825 Рік тому +20

    It's me waving goodbye to your cousins ezilalini😂. This vlog is the most realistic and intriguing I've seen. The moment you had reminiscing about your grandparents and their home, had me in tears. Life really moves on, we will always appreciate those who loved/love you deeply ❤. The music was perfect for each scene.

    • @mokobakiwendy9706
      @mokobakiwendy9706 Рік тому

      I waved goodbye too😂😭oh gosh such a beautiful video mahnii.❤️

  • @faithmsipha2416
    @faithmsipha2416 Рік тому +8

    I have'nt seen my family for live 3 years . I got so emotional watching this vlog with so much love in it . Family makes us complete. Thank you for sharing your family with us Zizi

  • @deemashabela9982
    @deemashabela9982 Рік тому +39

    This was probably one of my favourite vlogs to watch, so wholesome, made me feel so emotional because I feel the same way whenever I go to my late grandparents home, a mix of sadness, guilt and happiness. Thanks for sharing this with us Zizi ❤️❤️

  • @khunindlovu3310
    @khunindlovu3310 Рік тому +22

    I was holding the tears In when Zizi was speaking about her childhood home,her grandparents then they just went flowing when she was playing change in time ahgg thank you allowing us to see such intimate moments

  • @lincavanessa9954
    @lincavanessa9954 Рік тому +9

    Africa is just sooo beautiful, our culture, our people, our food, our countries😭😭😭…. Thank you for this beautiful video Zizi! Love from Rwanda💋

  • @dintlebogatsu4743
    @dintlebogatsu4743 Рік тому +8

    This was so refreshing, as an African it gave me nostalgia… made me miss my mom and grandma May thier souls continue to Rest In Peace ❤🙏🏾

  • @nornomzizi5843
    @nornomzizi5843 Рік тому +11

    Zizi Moloko is just on another level 💞

  • @BuhleN20
    @BuhleN20 Рік тому +7

    The b-roll when you were eMarhambeni 🥺🥺🥺 aaaw man, sooo much nostalgia. We also got to see a glimpse of mommy Zizi, and you’re gonna be such a great mom to your soccer team! The music selection was top tier too 😍Congratulations to your cuzzy!

  • @thandekandlovu5135
    @thandekandlovu5135 Рік тому +11

    This was the most emotional vlog😭😭😭 It left a lump on my throat. Just thinking about how family structure/ dynamics changes over years as we loose loved ones 💔 Beautiful vlog ke my dhiye ❤️

  • @aphiwebongo2183
    @aphiwebongo2183 Рік тому +10

    Oh thank you Zizi ntombi for sharing this with us 😥. It has made me miss my cousins from my dad's side and we haven't spent time together in forever. Thank you so much Zizi ❤️

  • @dudumalapane4880
    @dudumalapane4880 Рік тому +46

    This was so emotional for me. Our family has separated, I miss my cousins and my grandparents home filled with love and laughter.
    You’re so lucky that you’re able to still maintain healthy relationships with cousins thina we’ve tried many times and failed.

  • @silindokuhlekhubone
    @silindokuhlekhubone Рік тому +3

    Thank you for a therapeutic session 😢😢😢..I just had to cry because you took me back into my childhood…everything came back ..Growing up poor and moving into a better place but for some reason I miss that place wheee we used to eat food in one plate or dish ..A place I wanted to leave so badly when I was young but now I miss it 😢

  • @nondumisod
    @nondumisod Рік тому +7

    Oh Zizipho. I shed a tear when u were reminiscing on your childhood, you being raised by your grandparents, and them being no more(same with me). But ke indeed life goes on❤

  • @Power2Black
    @Power2Black Рік тому +9

    Dudu Busani Dube mentions eNtsikeni in Iqunga, her fourth novel in the Hlomu series. So beautiful with all those hills and valleys.

    • @KhanyiSibande
      @KhanyiSibande Рік тому +1

      That’s what I crossed my mind when she mentioned eNtsikeni

  • @khulekaninyuswa721
    @khulekaninyuswa721 Рік тому +5

    Changing drivers was a great idea,you shouldn't drive if you not confident about it... Especially on the Freeway! Checking in🙋

  • @dipuo-x9z
    @dipuo-x9z Рік тому +8

    WOW WOW WOW WOW!!!!! What a vlog. I went through the entire hour like it was 15 minutes. You are the girl you think you are and more shem. Your content is loved and appreciated ❤️

  • @sinolwethuhlebo6511
    @sinolwethuhlebo6511 Рік тому +3

    I just shared a tear when you were feeling sad. I felt that I go home quite often but I am trying to build my own family and I also want to rebuild my home as well akukho lula but kuzokwenzeka one day. I really felt that moment Zizi thank you so much being you. I love your content mntase. ❤️❤️

  • @BYTHEBRUSH
    @BYTHEBRUSH Рік тому +6

    I love how you take cognizance of the finer details Zizi.. It's 100 percent for effort doll!!!

  • @luyandamiya853
    @luyandamiya853 Рік тому +15

    Such an emotional, wholesome and relatable vlog. I think this is my favorite vlog by far❤

  • @babuirapoo
    @babuirapoo Рік тому +5

    What a wholesome vlog❤
    Family reunions are the best

  • @anastasimankesemokgobu1724
    @anastasimankesemokgobu1724 Рік тому +11

    This was the most emotional vlog I have ever watched on your channel, seeing where you grew up for a few years of your life,to the life that you have created for yourself reminded me that it does get better. I also come from the rural areas in Limpopo, but we are not so separated. I know how it feels to grow up in such an environment, one really has to do well in school to get a better life. Yoooh what a beautiful yet emotional vlog ♥️♥️

  • @maitemashangoane4758
    @maitemashangoane4758 Рік тому +7

    I can never fully explain in words how wholesome Zizi's vlogs make me feel shem. Like after a long day at work I come back sit back and just enjoy pure beautiful content. Rea leboga Mrs Moloko 🥰

  • @nqobiile
    @nqobiile Рік тому +6

    my fav youtuber! thank you for the video, you've given us another part of who you are. loved from the beginning to the very end. you are so relatable.

  • @mavissibanda2959
    @mavissibanda2959 Рік тому +6

    Loved this so much Zizi. The part where you were looking over your granny’s home was so emotional❤

  • @SipheleleWeAreEnough
    @SipheleleWeAreEnough Рік тому +9

    This vlog was what I needed today ❤ warm and comfort it felt like a hug

  • @franscinasemakalengmedupe2890
    @franscinasemakalengmedupe2890 Рік тому +5

    Oh this was a beautiful vlog. The way I love you Zizi. ❤️. You are such a lover, the warm hugs you give. The way you were so careful with that baby. Like everything wethu was just 👌🏽. Seeing your background and how far you have come, its really encouraging.

  • @bridgetditshego3506
    @bridgetditshego3506 Рік тому +8

    Hi Zizi thanks for the wonderful vlog ntombi.Love how close you are with the family because as we grow old we tend to drift apart.Love it for you since a family that prays together stays together.

  • @MsKay287
    @MsKay287 Рік тому +4

    I really enjoyed watching. It felt like a 30minute vlog I really didn't want it to end. Zizipho I love, love how authentic you are. You are just the ultimate wholesome hun, your content is top tier. 💯❤️❤️❤️

  • @ladye1253
    @ladye1253 Рік тому +4

    This was an interesting side of you Zizi- I enjoyed this vlog 100%. The authenticity was on another level.

  • @siscaliciousentertainment
    @siscaliciousentertainment Рік тому +7

    Gosh, did I not want this vlog to end. This vlog displayed a side of you which we've been aware you've had in you but been waiting for you to unleash sorta vibes and I loved it a million. Family dynamics and seeing how unfiltered you have been with your family is the best part of this video and really leaves me feeling emotional. 🥺🥺💗💗

  • @busisiwepakade3924
    @busisiwepakade3924 Рік тому +5

    Beautiful, wholesome vlog as usual. Nibahle kini, Ntombi. When you were talking about your childhood, chile, I became emotional. That road trip from Mariannhill Toll Plaza, BP Garage (Refreshment stop) outside Hammersdale, Thornville turnoff brought so many memories of us visiting both my maternal and paternal families in Kokstad.😍

  • @tatekambeu4724
    @tatekambeu4724 Рік тому +4

    One of my favourite vlogs to date. Thank you for sharing with us the moments that bring you happiness and the people close to your heart. I pray you get to have more heartwarming experiences like this one ❤

  • @phumlamyataza8527
    @phumlamyataza8527 Рік тому +2

    I like your cousins for being so understanding about your vlogging. You're so blessed. 😇 They are so sweet 😍

  • @lilykok7357
    @lilykok7357 Рік тому +4

    This was beautiful Mrs Moloko, your very supportive my dhiye may God continue to bless you.

  • @saytshenigumede5239
    @saytshenigumede5239 Рік тому +1

    You are honestly the BEST UA-camr in SA! Hands down!

  • @lebohangmeya9755
    @lebohangmeya9755 Рік тому +12

    The excitement I get when I see a notification for your channel Zizi 🥺♥️
    I love you my dhiye ♥️

  • @bongib2793
    @bongib2793 Рік тому +4

    This vlog made me so emotional gosh. So relatable! Your content is great Zizi

  • @leratolegae1846
    @leratolegae1846 Рік тому +8

    Discovered your channel last week and I'm obsessed Chile :)

    • @Busisiwemanzikazi
      @Busisiwemanzikazi Рік тому

      You will not be disappointed..best you Tuber in SA for me ...go back to her previous vlogs you will be inspired

  • @carolbongekanduku2341
    @carolbongekanduku2341 Рік тому +2

    Great vlog….it was beautiful to see my village through UA-cam ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @keneilwemarwane
    @keneilwemarwane Рік тому +11

    Such a beautiful and relatable vlog! i enjoy your content so much Zizi.

  • @mercymafuta8702
    @mercymafuta8702 Рік тому +3

    Notification gaaaang!! 🔔 Been looking forward to some Zizi content in my life 💃💃

  • @AneleNdoda
    @AneleNdoda Рік тому +9

    Thank you for such beautiful and wholesome content Zizi ❤️

  • @boitumeloramosa1456
    @boitumeloramosa1456 Рік тому +4

    This was beautiful to watch. Thank you. Im so fulfilled, like honestly!

  • @tshepang_11
    @tshepang_11 Рік тому +3

    Such a wholesome vlog🥺😭❤️ siyabonga sisi for taking us home with you🤍😭

  • @BonoloPalesaNorris
    @BonoloPalesaNorris Рік тому +3

    Oh man Zizi this vlog made me want to visit my hometown, it’s been so long and I understand what you mean by feeling guilty; ever since my grandparents passed on, no one goes home anymore. Replayed from 41:52 and got more and more emotional with each replay ❤ Thank you for this video 🥹

  • @kgomotsomoloto3962
    @kgomotsomoloto3962 Рік тому +2

    What a wholesome vlog, had to re-watch it even
    ❤️

  • @Katlego_Mmekwa
    @Katlego_Mmekwa Рік тому +5

    Such a wonderful vlog I really enjoyed 🥹❤️
    The weight topic is always a topic when going back home I even got to a point where I hate going home during holidays 😢

    • @yethugamedze7317
      @yethugamedze7317 Рік тому +1

      I hate it so much...I also stopped visiting relatives. 😒 it's so inconsiderate and growing up it affected my self esteem.

  • @Prism446
    @Prism446 Рік тому +5

    Awww Zizi this is beautiful & very authentic .Just got emotional coz we were discussing this with hubby ukuthi we would rather invest where we are in the UK 🇬🇧 for our son coz back in Africa uzokhula & maybe not bother going back then it will be a loss 😢

  • @SibuleleTafeni
    @SibuleleTafeni Рік тому +3

    That was beautiful sisi. Really enjoyed that was so wholesome... family vibes🥰 Thank you for sharing Zizi

  • @TheNarrator1989
    @TheNarrator1989 Рік тому +1

    I've just the most beautiful movie ever , u lol , u cry, it remind u of home, where u come from, the importance of family yho , thanks Mrs Moloko

  • @ziphelelemadonsela2486
    @ziphelelemadonsela2486 Рік тому +2

    Ngaze ngaHappy💃. Ohh the love I have for you❤

  • @nalediliphapang7429
    @nalediliphapang7429 Рік тому

    Oh Zizi enkosi sisi for sharing. I was on Route 56 nam ngo December 2022 heading home to the EC after 10 years. Felt the same mix of emotions sisi. Having been raised by my grandmother during my primitive years.

  • @ayapharalasi278
    @ayapharalasi278 Рік тому +10

    Your vlogs are literally SO GOOD ntombi!! I am always soo hooked!
    I loved the lali content!

  • @roselineuiras8603
    @roselineuiras8603 Рік тому +3

    Wholesome on all levels. Love it here 💕💕🌹🌹💖💖

  • @anelisaluke
    @anelisaluke Рік тому +2

    you made me miss ezlalini sana.......not me wanting to cry while you are talking about the guilt of your grandma's house.

  • @jeanetteyalley6435
    @jeanetteyalley6435 Рік тому +1

    One thing your vlog did, was make me miss the simple things that make one happy… being at home, being in USA and seeing blogs like this I truly miss SA mpumalanga to be exact

  • @nontobekotau9773
    @nontobekotau9773 Рік тому +2

    This was such a wholesome vlog I really enjoyed it. Thank you. Also emotional when you showed us your grand parents house.
    After spending last week crying, Im home sick again.

  • @Miss_kaytt
    @Miss_kaytt Рік тому +1

    I can’t believe I watched right up until the end yet I have an early morning tomorrow . Beautiful Vlog Hun❤

  • @nandisameela5050
    @nandisameela5050 Рік тому +1

    So much nostalgia, such a wholesome vlog. My favourite vlog yet

  • @napsadinaps2330
    @napsadinaps2330 Рік тому

    Cam back here after two months to rewatch..this vlog is wholesome bandla. The warmth is unmatched.

  • @kelebogilemillicent1207
    @kelebogilemillicent1207 Рік тому +6

    Can't wait to relax and watch.
    We love your vlogs Mrs Moloko they are wholesome and refreshing .

  • @siba92
    @siba92 Рік тому +2

    It's 12:39 pm I'm stressed Sana because adult life!! Came across this video, let me relax and open my savanna, watch my girl 💃💃🥂

  • @thejourneyofhope08
    @thejourneyofhope08 Рік тому +11

    As I rush here after my job interview just to release some stress 🙂 happy new year my dhyie it's good to have you back ❤️❤️❤️💕💕

  • @sandisiwemahlamvu6448
    @sandisiwemahlamvu6448 Рік тому +6

    Someone: i-rain iyeza
    Uncle: ngena Noah
    🤣🤣🤣🤣
    Wholesome vlog❣️

  • @bex_saku
    @bex_saku Рік тому +2

    Yoh Zizi🥹what a wholesome vlog mahn🥰reminded me of your Lobola vlog running errands with Namhla💕this is beautiful

  • @Mensforum
    @Mensforum Рік тому +1

    Beautiful dear I appreciate your love an the tightness in your family I see you've kept gogo's values nonke wow I wish all families were like yours, ya'll are sooo blessed bethuna Zizi oh my dear keep up the good work, love the originality in your videos oh maan I'm touched, very emotional as we all at some point move on in life in all aspects of our lives. Wooooow I'm just in awe dear🥰 loved this it was like I journey seriously... You sure gave us an experience. Awesome ❤️

  • @nosisandlovu801
    @nosisandlovu801 Рік тому

    Just that Zizi is wearing same dress noKhunjulwa..Issa sisterhood there maDhiye. I love it ..road leads to 40 madhiye....

  • @dimphohadebe250
    @dimphohadebe250 Рік тому +2

    My fav notification !!! Zizi, this vlog was so wholesome and really enjoyed every moment.

  • @cookwiththepolishedmama
    @cookwiththepolishedmama Рік тому +3

    I already feel ba this is going to be wholesome ke sana ❤

  • @andileh843
    @andileh843 Рік тому +2

    What a wholesome vlog🥰❤️🔥thank you so much Zizi❤️

  • @unana.__
    @unana.__ Рік тому +1

    What a relatable beautiful vlog!😭😭❤️ Ohh thank you Mrs M...

  • @ChefSharon263
    @ChefSharon263 Рік тому +3

    Those teapots are scrubbed to the gods.. a wholesome vlog Zizi♥️♥️

  • @tshego7442
    @tshego7442 Рік тому +4

    What a refreshing vlog 🥹

  • @llt4726
    @llt4726 Рік тому +1

    Love how all of you work well together🥰🥰🥰

  • @SimplyNoxoloSangweni
    @SimplyNoxoloSangweni Рік тому +2

    Lol mamncane though but I get her. Abantu basemakhaya associate being big with being happy. Ma umkhulu nje you're happy kubo.

  • @kelebohiledienkimotaung9100
    @kelebohiledienkimotaung9100 Рік тому +1

    Our girl, thanks for the vlog ke wethu dear❤️❤️❤️

  • @sisandamasika2061
    @sisandamasika2061 Рік тому +1

    Ohh wow what a nice vlog May God Bless your family Zizi nibambane zinqabile family ezinje cc🥰

  • @Mosolodi_ii
    @Mosolodi_ii Рік тому +1

    I just love your videos so so much sis Zizi🥺❤️. I enjoy your content so much my sister even says I'm always watching you😂. Be it sit downs, hair videos vlogs.. Everything

  • @shandrydavids1112
    @shandrydavids1112 Рік тому

    Zizi you half a wonderfull family,there's alot of love when you'll together. Stay close to each other cause family is important

  • @aminamoloto8611
    @aminamoloto8611 Рік тому +2

    What a beautiful vlog, really enjoyed watching it ♥️

  • @RauhaHangalo
    @RauhaHangalo Рік тому +1

    Thank you Zizi, this was really nice 🙏🏽

  • @neilwek4231
    @neilwek4231 Рік тому +2

    This was such a beautiful vlog, my goodness. Zizi you are so soft😍 I really enjoyed it❤️❤️

  • @nomhirumbu7197
    @nomhirumbu7197 Рік тому

    Jonga Zizipho, I just love you...nje masiqale apho. Such a beauty🥰, and then your content ke...👌I enjoy every vlog yakho..the most uncomplicated and enjoyable to watch

  • @misspurplerain
    @misspurplerain Рік тому +1

    What a wholesome vlog🥰🥰
    Love the relationship you have with your cousins
    This was beautiful to watch 🤞🥺

  • @sikelelwa_
    @sikelelwa_ Рік тому +1

    Looked forward to watching this the whole day. It was worth it. Thank you Zizi ❤

  • @sphiwemonama7575
    @sphiwemonama7575 Рік тому +2

    Thank you for sharing your family with us, I really enjoyed this vlog wethu

  • @Ghulane-Flora
    @Ghulane-Flora Рік тому +1

    Beautiful and refreshing vlog. I enjoyed this a lot 🤗❤️

  • @thulzmadiba
    @thulzmadiba Рік тому +3

    Spending my lunch on this channel,, a whole hour, thanks for such a beautiful vlog 💖💖💖💖💕💕💕🎊🎊

  • @busisiwemadlala5084
    @busisiwemadlala5084 Рік тому

    Aaaaaaaargh Mrs Moloko😍😍😍 I honestly didn't want this Vlog to end 😳😳😳❤️❤️❤️

  • @ntutudawuwa8604
    @ntutudawuwa8604 Рік тому

    Sbwl umleqwa Bandla. I love this vlog it takes me back when I use to visit my rural home and meet all the cousins uncles and aunts .

  • @noxolo4538
    @noxolo4538 Рік тому

    Zizi’s Sound tracks 😭😭 this video makes me so emotional I wanna go home

  • @likamva_mtshofeni
    @likamva_mtshofeni Рік тому +1

    Hey Zizi😭❤I really enjoyed this vlog , the family gatherings and family vibes😭❤was a bit emotional full of joy and happy seeing you guys happy like this 😭❤I LOVE THIS VLOG really enjoyed it😂and please don't forget to add others to the family group cz I can see they were so happy to see others

  • @thato_trinity7642
    @thato_trinity7642 Рік тому

    Definitely a fave🥺🎉😭wow wow wow wow... So wholesome❤️ loved it loved it loved it