I came out as being gay back in 1995 in my mid 20s and back then gay marriage was unthinkable here in the united states. The one thing I would always advise to others is to remember the good from a relationship and that you actually had the opportunity to have been in a gay relationship. Life is not perfect and so all you can do is just make the best of it. I would even say that to a straight couple. Every morning that you wake up is a good day. Very touching and educational video. I really enjoy watching this series. Thanks.
Tyler 個分享令我諗番上一季嘅 Andrew，同樣讀書叻事業唔錯，但得唔到屋企人嘅支持，成為一個無法跨越嘅障礙。希望假以時日，Tyler 媽媽會明白勉強冇幸福，可以接納仔仔啦。 Jason 咁嘅態度唔係幾掂，睇完呢集覺得佢好似都未係好知道自己想要啲乜。 Stone 值得有一個對佢更好嘅人，希望佢會 match 到 💪
I didnt expect my tears just drop from eyes till my table while watching through my desktop " during tyler story" , Vinci you did an amazing job for Boyscation 1 & too , it must be mentally and physically exhausted. Keep fighting :D
feel like guys like jason, where they're constantly being bombarded with prospects, they're often the ones who can't reciprocate love as deeply. like, whoever they pick will feel this intensity, because they've beaten out so many others, but then the jason types ultimately fizzle. same thing happened with my ex! "i think you like me more than i like you" is such an awful line to hear
Heartfelt chapter. I do believed everyone will fall in love (again for Stone - second spring) with the right person. Like Vinci, he fall in love and married his best friend/partner/husband. I met my husband in 2000 and we got married in 2011 (when U.S. first legalized same sex marriage).
I think this is such an interesting look into gay dating in Hong Kong! Very brave of them to join this show, and I hope they find their match (on the show or elsewhere) ❤ It's sad that discrimination and inequality are reasons why it's harder to maintain a relationship... of course, I think it's fair to say that another reason is temptation. And perhaps, because they don't have the same rights like straight couples, for some, a relationship feels less serious which is also why they take it less seriously. If that makes sense!
Jason é um criança grande no corpo de um homem , o cara pelo jeito não é de levar relacionamento a sério, acredito que esteja no show só para curtição mesmo. Ele e o Ivan para mim se merecem 😂😂
Obrigado a equipe do @Boyscation nos ensinar tanto a cada episódio desse reality. O episódio de hoje me fez chorar muito, como deu vontade de passar pela tela e abraçar o Stone e o Tyler 😢. Como foi comovente ouvir suas histórias, chorei ao ouvir a não aceitação da mãe do Tyler, que essa mãe um dia aceite a orientação desse filho lindo e maravilhoso e perceba a jóia linda que Deus deu a ela. Stone,Tyler e Kendrick vocês merecem serem felizes e ter alguém que os ame e valorize esse coração lindo que eles têm ❤😊. Quanto ao Jason ele é um cara crianção que ao meu ver não parece querer realmente nada sério, e nesse episódio ele me confirmou mais ainda o que penso dele, sua atitude foi ridicula com seu ex-relacionamento 🤦🏻♀️, agora percebo que ele e esse Ivan se merecem mesmo. Estou a Shippar muito o Kurt e Tyler juntos, ele se combinam. Apoiando sempre do 🇧🇷🌻💙
I actually didn’t have the chance to watch one full episode of boyscation too yet because my parents and family members they don’t quite like watching such TV shows, but I think I feel the same way for stone like majority of the viewers his outlook n the way he treats love actually make him more charm and actually he’s not like other gay guys where it’s very obvious right away but he’s rather more ‘manlihood’ and I believe he will be able to find someone who will love him back
Fun show :) I just want to share something here... when you are truly emotionally available and HONEST with yourself... and truly love yourself for who you are - with all your goods and flaws... you will then gain inner peace and contentment with your own being... When THIS happens, you will stop changing yourself for others, stop comparing and weighing others affection towards each other... Once you finally realize "you ARE enough" and starts to really live your life honestly... The Other One will show up. Otherwise, the relationship will tend to be at risk to develop significant power differential, passive aggressive behaviours, gaslighting, chaotic emotional states, and/or reinforced trauma bonding, the relationship will be doomed to fail. That being said, not everyone is built for relationships - being single does not mean one is being lonely. Happiness and "completeness" tend to come from within, almost never from outside. To expect other one to "complete" you is an act of sheer folly. Staying in a neurotic relationship can also be a default choice for some people as well.. as so many people I'd talked to would rather be in an abusive passive-aggressive relationship than being functionally single. BUT if one really reaches the state of self-acceptance and truly blocks out the external "noises" - like it or not... the special someone will so up... Birds of feather indeed Flock together ! It may happen early or later in your life journey... He/She/They will know immediately when the ONE shows up. When one starts losing yourself and feeling like a martyr - that's a red flag. I am happily attached and I met my partner later in life (in my late 40s), we both have very similar "colourful" experience in the past with people and relationships... we both met each other by serendipity... when we met we were at a very good mental/emotional state and happily single... we were not actively looking for "relationship" then, but we were open for connection for growth. We have talked about how interesting and how "easy" our relationship has been, still lots of silly laughter and bantering, and still find each other sexy and appealing. We have also concluded that if we met 5 years earlier it would not work out... as we were not "ready" for each other then... because of all these, we don't take each other for granted in all areas...
這一集睇到我crying. Tyler 醫生故事好感人。Tyler 好爭氣，學有所成，成為醫生。阿Stone 是次心情長劍，不斷付出，到最後都要同老公分手. 你們加油。好多人支持你們。
愈來愈好睇。
敞開心扉不容易！謝謝你支持！
「所有相愛的人都可以一生一世」 - Yiboh❤
很喜歡他講這句話時的神情~
會員影片區有Yiboh講佢同媽媽出櫃嘅經歷！訂閲咗未？
@@汪子洋我也...太美好了，溫柔又堅定地
好中意Stone嘅分享 好欣賞佢對愛情嘅認真 我覺得佢係咁多個裡面最靚仔最好嗰個👍👍👍
Stone 對Calvin的 “Done” “Bye” 做得好 越來越中意Stone 👍 Calvin越睇越悶 已經冇咗最初頭一兩集一出場嗰種票王魅力😓
Calvin份人好似好難相處
真係要相處耐左先知
我係女生都覺得Tyler真係一個好男仔，有學識有修養，比起人品人格，性取向其實一d都唔重要，媽媽應該要proud of囝囝，希望媽媽快啲釋懷
同上一季一樣，除咗好鍾意睇參加者追求愛情嘅過程，最最最enjoy 同respect 嘅係參加者願意講自己以往嘅愛情經歷以及愛情觀。呢啲深度的對話其實開闊咗我呢個觀眾對於愛情嘅觀念，亦讓我認識到愛一個人係有千種百種嘅面向，不停豐富和衝擊我的愛情觀同待人處事嘅態度。很佩服亦好多謝兩季嘅參加者咁有勇氣喺鏡頭前講出呢啲咁私人、咁真摯、甚至可能回想都已經覺得傷痛嘅經歷。
亦十分欣賞兩季節目都會介紹一啲相關的支援機構，開了眼界，亦認識到社會原來有唔同人有唔同處境嘅困難🙌🙌🙌🙌
今集對Nelbon改觀。Nelbon 對感情好認真。Stone 亦很好，希望兩人有機會發展。
聽到佢地講出自已經歷。真的好難想像他們面對社會家人壓力。多謝黃賢誌拍這新一季令大眾理解多一點同性者。希望他們找到自己一生所愛的走到最後❤
也謝謝你的支持
I do appreciate stone's outlook on gay marriage. He is loyal to his partner.
Tyler同Stone故事太感人啊!可以搵到啱嘅人真係唔容易。
I came out as being gay back in 1995 in my mid 20s and back then gay marriage was unthinkable here in the united states. The one thing I would always advise to others is to remember the good from a relationship and that you actually had the opportunity to have been in a gay relationship. Life is not perfect and so all you can do is just make the best of it. I would even say that to a straight couple. Every morning that you wake up is a good day. Very touching and educational video. I really enjoy watching this series. Thanks.
Thanks so much! 😊😊
拍得好好，好好睇
不過如果每集嘅時間長啲會更加好🤣
之前仔仔一堂都有追開支持❤️
好多謝你，有冇做會員睇埋我哋嘅會員專屬片，咁每集就有更多嘢你睇啦
Tyler 個分享令我諗番上一季嘅 Andrew，同樣讀書叻事業唔錯，但得唔到屋企人嘅支持，成為一個無法跨越嘅障礙。希望假以時日，Tyler 媽媽會明白勉強冇幸福，可以接納仔仔啦。
Jason 咁嘅態度唔係幾掂，睇完呢集覺得佢好似都未係好知道自己想要啲乜。
Stone 值得有一個對佢更好嘅人，希望佢會 match 到 💪
雖然我預感Ivan會被Friendzone，但真心戥佢慘
@@616L 希望佢及早抽身... 雖然睇佢嘅心心眼程度應該好難...
@@danlojolo 鐵達尼號，沉咗撈唔起
@@616L你估錯左
@boystory_ 咁要多謝阿Kurt喇
其實我有好多話要說，夜了，所以簡單的說，在這個年代，大多數人都在找有條件的愛，所以關係很難維持長久。除非兩人都很專一。
多謝！
Thanks again!
越來越喜歡阿stone.祝他在這個節目會找到對的人.加油加油加油
即使受過傷害，還是相信一輩子的愛情，好欣賞Stone，多謝你
I didnt expect my tears just drop from eyes till my table while watching through my desktop " during tyler story" , Vinci you did an amazing job for Boyscation 1 & too , it must be mentally and physically exhausted. Keep fighting :D
一段關係必須付出、但不能沒有自己 ⋯ that’s just me
大家加油💪🏻
鐘意今集了解每位更多
傾計果部份發現有人原來渣底
Stone終於多反小小鏡頭原來幾靚仔
亦睇到Stone內在嘅靚👍
@@ninwacheung 有內在美外在美會加好多分
Stone嘅五官好端正 其實真係幾靚仔 越睇越正
只能講一個願打一個願捱，總有人會倒貼自己比D靚仔，其實好難叫佢哋醒，同佢講分分鐘反面，裝睡的人最難醒。
Nelbon一句拆穿真係大快人心
希望Nelbon同Stone有機發展
好開心 Juzco & Nelbon 返嚟參與呢個節目,令呢季個節目生息不少.
是juzco
@@陈熙-x8s Thank you!
睇落Jason 從末正式投入一段感情。😅，Stone 好專一不過對方唔同步，無計😢，Nelbon,通常外表同內心返差大係正常。睇吓佢係咪真嘅暖男就要睇多幾集先😊
Jason似乎一直係被追嘅一方
Stone同Nelbon嘅愛情觀都幾似，希望佢哋有機會發展
@@616L 但我覺得Nelbon 係鐘大隻type . 所以外型上Stone 可能唔啱
I think Nelbon and Stone could work together! They are both sweet and give a lot to someone when they are in love ❤
來啦 准時報道😊
好感動醫生媽媽加油
越嚟越中意Tyler❤😊
feel like guys like jason, where they're constantly being bombarded with prospects, they're often the ones who can't reciprocate love as deeply. like, whoever they pick will feel this intensity, because they've beaten out so many others, but then the jason types ultimately fizzle. same thing happened with my ex! "i think you like me more than i like you" is such an awful line to hear
Kendrick is a sweetheart, he should focus on the other guys from now on, the feelings he had are definitely the sign its time to move on
stone thank you for sharing sweetie
對Nelbon印象改觀了.以為他很花心.估唔到他對感情專一👍🏻
佢個樣冇計，只可以專一🤣
Heartfelt chapter. I do believed everyone will fall in love (again for Stone - second spring) with the right person. Like Vinci, he fall in love and married his best friend/partner/husband. I met my husband in 2000 and we got married in 2011 (when U.S. first legalized same sex marriage).
希望Nelbon同Stone都能睇到對方，佢哋兩個嘅精神頻率似乎幾夾。
Let’s see!
I thought the same!
今集心痛Tyler / Stone, 希望佢地早日得償所願!
好看，好感人
Kendrick don't be sad, God has a better plan for you...💙🌹
第一集已經覺得stone最好相處，但竟然冇票。每晚幫伴侶按摩喎，呢啲男人邊度搵😂😂
絕咗種嘅絕世好男人！
I think this is such an interesting look into gay dating in Hong Kong!
Very brave of them to join this show, and I hope they find their match (on the show or elsewhere) ❤
It's sad that discrimination and inequality are reasons why it's harder to maintain a relationship... of course, I think it's fair to say that another reason is temptation. And perhaps, because they don't have the same rights like straight couples, for some, a relationship feels less serious which is also why they take it less seriously. If that makes sense!
❤❤賞心悅目
I appreciate Ston's strength and wish him happiness
Who is Simon?
You mean Stone?
@@616L yes stone
Tyler’s your mum love for you is unconditional even though at times words do hurt but you are blessed your mum loves you deeply……
好准时❤❤❤
對兩票王由頭到尾都冇好感過，獨愛Tyler🤪媽媽到而家都係未接納到，相信佢一定好難受，要加油
JASON 既表現同想法令我開始有D討厭佢, 相反就越黎越鐘意STONE。先唔講專一呢樣野, 佢個D "一生一世~~👊~信" 呢D動作, 語氣好正, 好似係一個好易相處嘅人。另外都鐘意TYLER, 佢個種唔怕醜勇於表現自己, 同埋明知自己係對方心目中仲未係第一都安然接受嘅態度好好, 而且佢成日笑咪咪樣幾CUTE。NELBON 都因為呢集既分享有D改觀, 雖然仲有DD覺得佢講D野都可以唔一定係真🤣
對比Juzco，我認為Nelbon反而係認真對待
Jason é um criança grande no corpo de um homem , o cara pelo jeito não é de levar relacionamento a sério, acredito que esteja no show só para curtição mesmo. Ele e o Ivan para mim se merecem 😂😂
意外的和 Jason 的情感经历一样, 当对方一直觉得很平稳的时候, 其实我自己一直在关系付出不对等的内耗中无法自拔. 所以忽然提分手对他来说冲击很大, 不过分手后更看清了他不是我想象中可以相伴到老的那个人... 所以别忘了爱自己！
愈來愈鍾意jason，kurt&stone
性格好好！好得意！
尤其係jason🤭❤️
仲有成日以為ivan係louis，抽離唔到出嚟
（不過呢2集cc字幕怪怪地！有時人名又會打錯，有時會無啦啦快出或者慢出，想你地改善下🙏例如Calvin&Kelvin，搞到我唔記得佢叫Calvin定Kelvin）
Tyler真係好叻仔, Kendrick 主動過但最後變左透明人... 好感同身受...
早啲心死係好事...... 我都唔見得Jason真係會揀Ivan
@@616L暫時覺得Jason其實係微渣男😂
@@dw.9035真係希望快啲friendzone咗Ivan，放返佢出嚟畀現實世界嘅熊啤啤們
@@dw.9035之前有睇過唔知邊個網友分析，Jason嗰種人係被追慣，所以唔識表達自己嘅感情。
睇吓佢當Kendrick冇到就知
Obrigado a equipe do @Boyscation nos ensinar tanto a cada episódio desse reality. O episódio de hoje me fez chorar muito, como deu vontade de passar pela tela e abraçar o Stone e o Tyler 😢.
Como foi comovente ouvir suas histórias, chorei ao ouvir a não aceitação da mãe do Tyler, que essa mãe um dia aceite a orientação desse filho lindo e maravilhoso e perceba a jóia linda que Deus deu a ela. Stone,Tyler e Kendrick vocês merecem serem felizes e ter alguém que os ame e valorize esse coração lindo que eles têm ❤😊.
Quanto ao Jason ele é um cara crianção que ao meu ver não parece querer realmente nada sério, e nesse episódio ele me confirmou mais ainda o que penso dele, sua atitude foi ridicula com seu ex-relacionamento 🤦🏻♀️, agora percebo que ele e esse Ivan se merecem mesmo.
Estou a Shippar muito o Kurt e Tyler juntos, ele se combinam. Apoiando sempre do 🇧🇷🌻💙
lots of fun and games but love the heartwarming moments.
好鐘意太辣 🥺
勇敢come out 係對自己嘅解脫但Come out 好困難，所以如非必要可以選擇不come out 。因為每一個人接受能力有分別。親如相親，佢哋接受唔到就唔好夾硬嚟。傷害嘅其實不只你自己。
Nelbon 😍Calvin 😍 兩個d小動靜我都好鐘意呀
其實，大家係Member 都知，
好現實，冇feel 就冇 feel, 你做咩都冇用 😮。 不要哭。
好感動的一集
I actually didn’t have the chance to watch one full episode of boyscation too yet because my parents and family members they don’t quite like watching such TV shows, but I think I feel the same way for stone like majority of the viewers his outlook n the way he treats love actually make him more charm and actually he’s not like other gay guys where it’s very obvious right away but he’s rather more ‘manlihood’ and I believe he will be able to find someone who will love him back
還發現了兩個對感情專一的仔仔❤
愛情從來沒有對與錯、只有適合不適合！人家沒選你就大方接受、自己繼續前行、你越酸、越怨婦只會不斷給自己減分！
今晚遲咗爬墻睇第七集，睇完感觸良多，原來我同stone嘅想法咁一致，不過我又估唔到kendrick會出軌😅。我自己其實同stone一樣都係相信愛情，同埋唔會出軌嘅人，因為我其實好懶，有咗一個之後就懶得再識第二個了😂，敬重你啊stone🎉
每個人都有黑歷史
好似Stone咁專一13年嘅男人，喺男同志界始終係稀有動物
@@616L 係少嘅，都仲有
Nelbon同Stone喺今集有型咗好多, 有啲幾正嘅氣場!
每個人嘅打扮都好睇咗, 希望唔會再著顏色tee。
顏色T係當日分完房玩遊戲想每兩個人同房嘅一組，所以以顏色分別
今集好有意思，有洋蔥🥹
上個星期感覺上jason calvin兩位係大熱門。今個星期開始剪片剪到佢兩位衰衰哋😂。 by the way, 牙stone 💪
Fun show :)
I just want to share something here...
when you are truly emotionally available and HONEST with yourself... and truly love yourself for who you are - with all your goods and flaws... you will then gain inner peace and contentment with your own being...
When THIS happens, you will stop changing yourself for others, stop comparing and weighing others affection towards each other...
Once you finally realize "you ARE enough" and starts to really live your life honestly... The Other One will show up.
Otherwise, the relationship will tend to be at risk to develop significant power differential, passive aggressive behaviours, gaslighting, chaotic emotional states, and/or reinforced trauma bonding, the relationship will be doomed to fail.
That being said, not everyone is built for relationships - being single does not mean one is being lonely.
Happiness and "completeness" tend to come from within, almost never from outside. To expect other one to "complete" you is an act of sheer folly.
Staying in a neurotic relationship can also be a default choice for some people as well.. as so many people I'd talked to would rather be in an abusive passive-aggressive relationship than being functionally single.
BUT if one really reaches the state of self-acceptance and truly blocks out the external "noises" - like it or not... the special someone will so up... Birds of feather indeed Flock together ! It may happen early or later in your life journey... He/She/They will know immediately when the ONE shows up.
When one starts losing yourself and feeling like a martyr - that's a red flag.
I am happily attached and I met my partner later in life (in my late 40s), we both have very similar "colourful" experience in the past with people and relationships... we both met each other by serendipity... when we met we were at a very good mental/emotional state and happily single... we were not actively looking for "relationship" then, but we were open for connection for growth. We have talked about how interesting and how "easy" our relationship has been, still lots of silly laughter and bantering, and still find each other sexy and appealing.
We have also concluded that if we met 5 years earlier it would not work out... as we were not "ready" for each other then...
because of all these, we don't take each other for granted in all areas...
Adoro ❤❤❤🇧🇷
呢集真系好好喊😭
The best Esp. so far in this season. Very touchy ❤🩹❤🩹❤🩹
Thanks ❤
Stone +oil💪💪
其實到而家我都未分得清d人名,某部份人都被妒忌掩蓋了自己優秀的一面,何必追着某人而將自己變做綠葉,買凍肉那位本身也很不錯,幾靚仔,呢個係節目又吾係做人世,個井外面好大喎
Juzco听到八卦的表情很搞笑🤣🤣
繼續承包我既Kendrick❤唔洗傷心，或者可以睇下其他人，有無可以係你心中慢慢開始加分既趨勢？！過來人如是說
Is it Bali island right? That's awesome
yes. Bali
Nelbon係暖男
Os rapazes são lindos, ❤
今集對仔仔了解多咗
我都覺得假陽具擺設嗰part令件事cheap咗，可以從其他角度令大眾了解同志文化，咁先乎合節目宗旨😊！
@@sourdough-p2r 其實解得通成件事就OK，唔需要咁形象化，否則成件事low 哂。
Anthony 笑聲似魔鬼😂
5:46 6:23 請loop不用謝😂
Tyler 性格真係幾好
間resort 响巴里邊一邊, Seminyak?
Nusa Dwa
所以七年之癢係無分同性婚姻/異性婚姻
可唔可以加埋ig live 落嚟😂
喺Boyscation IG可以全部搵返啲live喎
@@boyscation ok 而家知。因為bilibili 都可以睇到。我諗UA-cam 可唔可以都有😂😂
Tyler😢😢😢
❤️❤️💪🏻🌈✌️👍
❤❤❤❤fv show
Antony d 笑聲 : 恐怖，嚇人，奸。
真係要改改 ，唔該。
似魔鬼😂
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食煙我覺得好正常，特別系top 十個有八個系食煙嘅！
Stone係調香師，既然對氣味敏感，接受唔到煙味其實說得通，加上佢咁細個就結婚，對住同一個男人十幾年，離婚呢兩年先開始入返呢個圈，估計佢都冇夜蒲開。
相反蒲開Bing Bing嗰幾個（尤其是喺嗰度返工嘅Nelbon）應該慣曬陣煙除。
1:12 字幕打錯左個名Kelvin
Yes noted
So sad for kendrick but that is reality no choice
1st
nelbon 加油！ 我懂你。 但珍惜生命，远离水瓶！
😮😮😮
@@fannynai7744 calvin專一啊
你怎麼知道！ 水瓶一向也是我的剋星😢
好鍾意calvin始終在做自己，不會因為是上電視所以做個樣出來，我相信可能他真人也會有點難相處不過還是喜歡他，可能真的男人不壞，大家不愛😅
我相信有些gay可能會迷戀直男而calvin是最接近直男的gay所以真的對我來說蠻吃香，至少不要讓大家單一以為同志就是陰柔三姑六婆什麼的
你好像已經認識了他一樣，分析他仔細
呢啲神秘感強嘅男人先會多人留意，不過夢想幻滅（例如Stone接受唔到Calvin食煙）就係後話喇😂
he seemed to self centered not only 有點難相處
前兩集有D討厭calvin，但今集對他又有翻好感。正如你話齋，佢一直都係做緊自己，唔會因為做節目就改變自己，可能佢性格就係比較驕傲、自我，唔講得笑，過於較真，但佢都話自己無出過軌，對感情好認真，好加分的。我覺得他是果種好難走入佢內心，需要好多耐性，但一旦走進了他就會很愛你的那種。
佢百份百造作厴低把聲，. 其實佢平時講嘢高音好多.
这集😢
J’aurais vraiment aimé plus d’images avec YIBOH car vous l’avez zappé au profit des extravertis 😢😢😢
Kandrick 😢😢😢😢😢
我覺得kendrick最靚仔❤
Lori愛得好卑微，其實唔好㗎！
所以佢成日畀人hurt.
太單純，所以交过的男朋友都記唔曬
Kendrick 其實要有自知之明 唔啱就唔啱 朋友就ok
Kendrick 我觉得最靚仔最顺眼，绝不差，我以女性视觉😎😎
始終如二 1-7級依然只有Lori 和 Calvin是菜❤ （ROC Taipei
多謝！
Thanks