Real Men Pour In - Bishop T.D. Jakes
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- Today, we thank every father. There are men who generously pour into their children, knowing the pain and sacrifice of being a father, and those who couldn’t because they weren’t poured into themselves. This Father’s Day, we honor both because whether our fathers were present or not, God still has a plan. When you find yourself in need of unconditional love, support, or guidance, rest assured the Heavenly Father will always show up to pour in.
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Message: Real Men Pour In
Scripture: John 15:9-17 (KJV)
Speaker: Bishop T.D. Jakes
Date: June 19, 2022
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My husband sent me this tiktok. He always told me that I never pour into him the way he pours into me. For years I've been trying to do such. I watched him get mad, and angrier. It wasn't until I prayed and fasted that God revealed to me this exact message. I'm angry that ppl took only the parts of this message that was fitting to them and shared it on social media leading ppl astray. I searched for this video because I knew it was more to this. My husband actually moved out after seeing that tiktok without fully seeing the whole story. My marriage is failing and divorce is at the table right now. I pray that God pours into us and heals us. i pray that i can be what my husband needs. Please pray for us. we are fighting a heavy ground warfare right now.
Praying for you🙏🏾
@@africancoils thank you so much sis. that means a lot to me❤🙏
@@itsme-nq2le You're welcome❤
@@juliettiesomerville8018 I’m in agreement with your prayer. In the name of Jesus. Amen. 🙏
@@victoriakenney2848 🙏
To everyone reading this You're about to transition from being skipped over to being sought after! Relax. You won't have to compete for what God says is yours.
Amen Amen 🙏🏾
Wow! Received. Amen!
I receive 🙌🏾 amen
Amen
Amen 🙏
I was born in a Muslim family ...but the love that I have in my heart for Jesus Christ is huge ..I can proudly say that I am a Christian now and GOD has shown that he loves me too.
Jesus is a Muslim prophet
Hallelujah I also accept Christ as my saviour lord
Praise GOD
😒
This sermon is powerful for a woman like myself who's been raised to walk in masculinity in order to be safe, successful and happy by myself. I feel validated in asking God to help me learn how to allow and make space for a masculine partner in my life because in truth that is what I need. I've been living and loving outside my nature all my life and confused why I can't find the kind of commitment and connection I deeply need and desire. This sermon will be going onto my Playlist for sure!
Awesome testimony! I saved this into my playlist as well.
Embrace your feminine side. Become soft and caring to a man and you will find love.
Yes, you are going to need God word and prayers daily, cause of your upbringing, and confusions, not that it's your fault, but how you were taught by confused and broken people in your life... yes, I agree with you that God will raise up someone to level with you on your level while you are continuing to grow and mature in the a woman.
Smh
Atleast you did not take this sermon as a war against black women, but rather a reminder of completeness that there must be in our communities and a role that we can play in eachother lives and societies...
The Father is the head of the home. The mother the heart of the home.
Well said
TRUE.
love this
One Man Aman
🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Praying for a strong husband that is strong enough to understanding the meaning of pouring in and but also able to communicate when he can’t!
Amen me too
This also explains why I am so tired. I constantly give all I've got to everyone and don't have nothing left for myself.
“Women, be careful about pouring too much into us (men). It’s our job as men to pour into you (women)…Insists for better out of me (men) rather than replacing me.” Men were designed to pour in. Real men pour in.
Selah!!! That’s rich! Thank you God for this Word! Thank you Bishop Jakes!
Shalom! How are you? may God richly bless you and grant all your heart desires for you in Jesus name...
@@blessedday...7254 Thank you
@@davidvogel2909 you are welcome, how are you doing?
This is so true men can’t be men from women treating them like women.I see women chasing men down looking for a date when a man suppose to chase the woman and a man suppose to earn his keep not be giving it.
Women supposed to pour into her children 🙄
The way social media has cherry picked this message. Glad I was able to locate the full message and get that clip in context
Yessss!! So glad I found it.
@@shiketheiasimmons4687 Amen! That's why we need to research and not trust everything social media puts especially in these last days.
Exactly. We have to get the whole context
I was thinking the same thing I had to find this and hear the full sermon for myself. I'm so glad I did
Me too
Sometimes when life teaches you that you have to pour in yourself
woke up feeling just like this today just empty, i cried out to God and then a family member out of no where sent me this video. God is always on time.
What a blessing!
Amen
SAME!!! I don’t even subscribe to Christianity but I’m listening
Amen. God leaves outside time. He surely is not limited by 24hrs. He shows up at the exact moment you are in need most. Best wishes! Keep trusting
GOD BLESS YOU .
A man who pours in is an asset!🔥🔥🔥🌳 GOD bless it⚡✨
Muddbabygang_ add me please
What I couldn't get from my biological father, I get it from God 🙏🙏
A blessing
Amen
Facts Respect 🇯🇲❤️
He is are one true father
🗣️🙌🗣️🙌🗣️🙌🗣️🙌🗣️
Thank you God for all the blessings you have pulled in my life I love you father
Just because a man is in your home, doesn't mean he's there! 👏🏾🙌🏾👏🏾🙌🏾👏🏾🙌🏾👏🏾🙌🏾👏🏾🙌🏾👏🏾🙌🏾👏🏾🙌🏾👏🏾🙌🏾👏🏾🙌🏾👏🏾
Converse is also equally true!
Both ways I think,
So true and I know first hand!!
@@jnl1959 men can rarely take accountability. There you go pointing a finger. Self reflection. She was talking to the women
@@JShaw2384 I think u are pointing a finger cause he said equally
Growing up without a father, watching this has helped me understand my position as a father now, and how even tho my real father was never there, my spiritual father has always been, and will always be🙌🏾
Is it just me, or is Elder TDJakes turning into a living, breathing Elijah right before our very eyes?!! Praise be!!! We are so blessed to be honored with his teachings. God is so good!!
He has really been on fire and I love i!
You are not alone for sure....He is a blessing to people all over the world.
Yea. It's just you
The Bible says ‘dwell with a woman according to knowledge ’ 🔥
What scripture is the words found....
Hello Kaye
@@homemadehospitality282 1 Peter 3:7 (KJV) Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge, giving honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered.
@@ladennayoung2939 Thank you for providing the scripture!
It said wife. If you ain't a wife, sit down.
This man UNDERSTANDS!! God speaks through him!
He is definitely anointed
I now understand why my girlfriend get so angry when I don't give her attention, time ... I have not been pouring in. I have been a bad boyfriend, but today I will start pouring in🙏
Amazing, one of Adam mistake was that he wasn’t pouring enough into Eve, that her mind went idled and got beguiled by the snake. Now a days, we work work, work and doesn’t pour in. One of the best way ; for us men to pour in is being observing the sabbath with your family. Sadly, society not ready for this conversation.
Glad you understand
Adam 1 was the only human made) physically pre-mortal, in other terms, physically immortal.
Adam 2 was the only human birthed) physically immortal.
Best advice is to walk away.
Women only see men as a paycheck.
Just as soon as your money drys up.
Off to divorce court she will go.
Then tax your future earnings.
Which will leave you starving and homeless.
While she feasts on steaks and lives in the home that you built.
Just walk away before it’s too late.
Keep pouring in Mr Oupa Mangena, I hope you don't run dry while pouring in without getting any "thankyou" or "welldone". We've been there brother and done that, it's tiring. But then every man to himself, and knowing South Africa and the way women are put on pedestals over men I hope the best for you bro......
Respect to Kevin Samuels giving men space to speak truth.
This has nothing to do with that charleton
Kevin too needed God and he also died empty. His message lacked the love of God.
This entire sermon !!! Not just pieces…the entire message is a blessing!!! Love ❤️ this!!!!
T.D. what a timely and informative message. I got a lot out of the sermon. I'm looking forward to going over the scriptures and applying them to my life. Leadership and guidance among men is so needed..Many of us are called to leadership and need to know how to lead his family learn how to lead in relationships learn how to lead in life.. Thank you.
I agree. Maybe women are upset because this message is coming from a man. This message is just as impactful as Juanita Bynum's No More Sheets sermon. ❤️
@@mdmsteele which is still wild to me. I wish men and women just stop fighting each other and just listen. Then take the appropriate action.
I agree
@@shwonbrooks3802 Exactly. The fighting between men and women is disheartening.
Go off Pastor !
This was a very needed message. As a young man with parental issues it's been hard to figure out how to be the man God made me. It hurts because I'm honestly empty now, and it reflects. But since I've been walking with God more my spirit has guided me to people places and events that have shaped me to be better
I can relate to you on this
Plz continue to do well, I'm sorry for all the hell our blk women are bringing our blk men thru. Lord have mercy.
Broooo you are not alone I’m struggling with this same thing.
I salute you young man!
Hang in there. God is with you.
You can't expect God to bless you if you don't obey! Life changing truth
Amen
Amen
Hello how are you?
Good evening
This
Only the voice of Satan will make someone mad about this message. This is God speaking out of this man!
Like God spoke out of him saying Gays an lesbians can coexist with real born again Christians????
@rochelleperry2242 so did God not coexist with sinners, Prostitutes, and drunks?
@@MarliQQLuv Yes, while here on earth he had to coexist. But he was only here because our wicked hearts are so wicked, and he knew that his presence on earth was necessary to at least turn the hearts of some who would see him in the flesh and believe, because his Spirit being in heaven wasn't enough. Without his presence on earth all, or close to all would not believe, and would be lost.
IDK HOW THIS MESSAGE GOT TWISTED!!!!!THIS WAS A WORD!!!!
Bishop Jake's for most homes it's hard to let the man be the head of the home when the man does not have his head in the home. 🙏
What you are saying is true. Women we're supposed to be helpmates (the Bible). Not slaves. Jesus hates divorce, but separation is very necessary if someone is not being accountable or responsible. Neglect is abuse, lying is abuse, gaslighting is abuse, and saying the women isn't behaving or talking right to me (the man), is ANOTHER form of gaslighting. Of course she isn't talking nice to you! Would they behave like this at their job or in public? How about this! Stop talking to them period. Cut yourself off completely from that negativity and focus on the healing path for you and your children. Plan your escape if you need to, get a restraining order if you need to (if you are married or not), go back to school if you want to, improve yourself for you and your children (if you have any) while praying, praising God along the way. Doing what you have to do within God's powerful, healing, protected, productive, perfect will, thank you Jesus! God will become your father, husband, EVERYTHING! My ex husband didn't grow up after 23 years and it didn't get better, it got worse! I loved him too much. The closer to being that "obedient wife" the worse he got! He liked sin too much and still does today. I finally divorced him after 23 years. I live a life pretty much of healing peace now, but a lot of damage was done. He still is not accountable for his damaging part. I do still pray for him, but have to keep distance because his beliefs are not mine. We were unequally yoked, even though he said:"he was a Christian." Pastor is correct about "support attention." It's called "emotional neglect" (another form of abuse). This has been going on for generations and is a generational curse. I pray for men's hearts to be softened and filled with the love that is lacking, so they can pour love into their families in Jesus's name Amen! 💯🙏👆✝️💖💪🏝️🌈🌄🕊️
@@darlenenorton793nice post and know that I'm praying for you.
@@thejuiceradioandtalkshow Thank you for your kind reply! God IS good! I could write a book on how God "poured into" my life AFTER I kicked out my demon of a husband! His own mother said:"let him go, the devil has him." It's called codependency "enabling" those kind of behaviors in people. You need to get out of the way and let them suffer the consequences of their unhealthy choices. He didn't start getting better till I did that. I appreciate your prayers, they are more precious than gold to me AND God! Be Blessed Happy Peaceful Healed and strong in Jesus's name Amen! 💯🙏👆✝️💖💪🏝️🌈🌄🕊️
So glad I found the full video… message was powerful and no form of disrespect found against black women.
This message! I pray the Lord cover and protect my babies from their father abandoning them, that our Heavenly Father fill the void and let them know they’re loved. AMEN
Go find a husband
I am blessed to be a man after the heart of God.
What your earthly father couldn't pour into you your heavenly father pour into you. What your earthly father can't give you your heavenly father can give you. Amen. In Jesus name amen.
My ex-husband never knew how to pour into any of us
Happy Father's Day Bishop TD Jakes ♥️ My Father died in May 20, 2021 I am just now get it.♥️ Thanks ♥️
Glory be to God
Powerful truth! Our men need this type of love and reminder.
ALL THESE CODES 4WE THIS & WE THAT SO WHERE THE ONE FOR WE STUPID. Never got that number
The woman's need this type of love ❤️
Leave the negative aside the message is for men and women's get it straight 💯
God is the Ultimate Father.
"Insist for better out of me rather than replace me"👏🏾
Lord I am here putting my life in your arms. Please deliver me and relieve me from my depression. Deliver me and give me my financial breakthrough
Please Jehovah help this great Soul!
@@mikafishet8043 thank you. Please pray for me.
I ask God to do it for you Kevorn... God touch him right now in Jesus name AMEN. Fulfill his Asking God lead him, guide him to be the man you want him to be. Love him inevitably. In Jesus name AMEN
He unpacked a lot of truth.
God Really Spoke in this sermon.
Screaming ORDER! 🙌🏽💪🏾💃🏿
The people are hungry and thirsty for the true word!!!!
This is one of the best sermons he has preached hands-down he touched my spirit as a mother and I want to thank God for this message😇
Where are you from ma ?
From Connecticut
This is one right here touch my soul
@@topedami5702 nap
@@aunniedemps8796 yea Paise God Elohim
I wish more people would listen to this instead allowing SM to trick you into thinking that this is an attack on women. There is so much truth in this sermon. We need each other. We are out of order.
EXACTLY
We need each other? For what?
People have no comprehension and lack understanding!!
Uh oh. You found it lol
Whenever a person, male or female, speaks about women living outside of their nature, the person gets attacked. TD Jakes, Kevin Samuels, Monique etc... It hurts to accept because then you have to either admit that you don't care, and will continue to live outside of your nature or start the journey of change, and change is Work!
Glory be to my God 🙏
When parenting is HARD it means you're doing it RIGHT
This word is sooooo good! And it ain’t women bashing either! Men we have to pour in!
Don't matter how its said whoever mad still going to be mad.
@@nolanjenkins8566 right
What the devil has for bad, God has for good. The enemy didn’t know that he was actually doing Gods work because look at the people he brought to the video. So many will be blessed. Hallelujah
TD Jakes is my Teacher My Lover My Friend
Thanks
This is one of my absolute favorite sermons from him, or even of all time. So relatable and well said. Love the visuals, the depth, the comedy, the masculinity, the femininity, the honesty, the emotion, all of it! Beautiful! 😢❤🙏🏾💯👑
This has got to be the best Father’s Day word I’ve ever heard… Father please pour into me…..
Amen
God bless every man who decided to be a good father
He running this session
In the name of the Father lord thy GOD
☝️God bless you ❤
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Us women seeing time passing on us and our fathers leaving us. We feel such a relief when a man comes into our life and make us feel some type of way, so we pour more than he pour into us because as the pastor said it was never our jobs (women) to pour that much into men so now I understand and makes all sense why we are so dry up when they left us because it was never our jobs to do so.
Thanks TD✔️ . Bless you!
U😂q
This was a powerful service. Watching men pouring out their hearts to God at the altar was so touching. Men should never be afraid to be open , even in crying.
Blessings Bishop Jakes, for allowing God to use u in such a profound way.
Helpline ☝️
Thank you every good father who bleeds within and still stand
Bishop Preach then! Amen
I’m watching this at work and it made me cry 😭 because I don’t wanna stand alone I want my husband to come in and lead but it’s all in Gods timing in the meantime I’m going to unlearn my ways and come prepare to be a wife
Social media may have tried to twist this message but it brought me here and this sermon just gave me life
I've got to be zealous for the Lord not zealous for oneself you're not going to find heaven on Earth!
From the structure in which the Bible is written; this is logical teaching!
This man is certainly full of Gods knowledge wisdom and understanding! I pray he remains with us till Jesus returns to take us home.
Yes he is!!🙌🙏
Amen 🙏 to that prayer
AMEN to that 🙏🏼🙌
OMG... My same exact thoughts.
Amen 🙏🏽 💯
What a powerful movement today!!! I felt this deeply. I prayed for my husband and my son during the pouring today!! This is a must watch again…..the Holy Spirit is in this msg
YES IT WAS, and YES IT IS!!! 💯💯💪🏾💪🏾
Yes amen I’m not married but I prayed for my future husband, my son and grandson as well. I totally agree this is a must watch again. This message was so powerful straight from heaven. Much love from Louisiana 🙏😊
Repent to Jesus Christ
“As a father has compassion on his children, so the Lord has compassion on those who fear him;”
Psalms 103:13 NIV
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@@repentandbelieveinJesusChrist3 REVELATION 12:9-11😢😢
Yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah
Insist on better out of me, rather than to replace me
It's no wonder this message is getting twisted on social media...it's powerful and life changing. 💪🏽🖤🙏 Praying for all of those that need to hear this, please let it reach their hearts despite the confusion the world is bringing to it.
You said a mouthful... the problem is we stray when it doesn't fit the NARRATIVE we are looking for.... this message is spot on.... stay WOKE women
The Truth has and always was hard for people to accept,the flesh automatically want its way to fit our selfish desires=Self Narratives.
Powerful and recommended for every man🙏
My God❤
Td Jake's is one of the most powerful understanding passionate man of God. This message is powerful and an eye opener.
I never had a father to pour into me. I always sought the advice from my Heavenly Father. I had a spiritual father. However he disappointed me. Today I am a father of 3 children. To God to be all the glory. ☝️
EXACTLY what is a Spirit Father? What Possible Why Could He Have Dissappointed YOU?🤔
How did he disappoint?
Obey our Heavenly Father and our peace and joy will be overflowing. We will be missing nothing.
I am so glad I listened to the full sermon to get the context of what social media has blown out of proportion. Such a powerful message and he does not bash men or WOMEN but rather talks about order.
Facts!!
My exact thoughts.
Yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah
Thirst = Anger.
Teach us Bishop!! This need to be in counseling sessions, book meetings, single meetings etc BOOM!!!!
I must be fruitful
God Bless You Abundantly The Jakes Family 🙏⛪️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏⛪️⛪️🙏⛪️🙏⛪️🙏❤️🙏
I choose love ❤️ 💖 ❣️ ❤❤❤❤❤
"That which is born out of pain, is the way you cope with disorder"🌱✌🏾
It’s like I prayed hard for the Lord to bring the proper tools for my marriage and family. My wife mentioned numerous things she need from me as we are heavily struggling. After multiple areas of research. This message confirms I haven’t been the man God has called me to be but through his Grace, mercy and patience, I believe a change for the betterment of my family will happen. Now it’s time to apply the tools that been in me all alone. Thank you Jesus for the wisdom speaking through TD Jakes. This messages is clearly changing fathers and husbands access the 🌎
May God bless you to do the work that you need to do for your family.
Wow.. that took a lot of humility. It hurts to say, but after watching this video and reading your comment, I too have not been the man that God has intended me to be for my wife.
Thank you for sharing.
God is the Only Way.
If ye keep my commandments!! Don't let that go over y'all heads!
Bishop you dont even know how valuable you are.. please continue... we love you
Bishop jakes the father I never had and I didn’t know I really need, God blessed you sir ❤️🙏❤️
He's my Poppa too. A father in the Lord. I'm thankful.
💯
Truth! ❤️
Shalom Mister POWELL! How are you? may God richly bless you and grant all your heart desires for you in Jesus name...
@@flamingrobin5957 which verse
I agree real men pour in
Give those kids back to their real parents they are hurting
Sir, you are a generational blessing for your abundant and non-stop pouring has given us light.
Lord please fill my emptiness till I'm overflow.
Happy Father's Day to every Father, who at the sound of Bishop's voice, are inspired and feeling blessed. 🙏
I’m getting ready to CRY 😭
At 6 years, I was driving her in the morning to school, my late daughter said, Mommy I know my father is in heaven, its his birthday today, can we just call him so I can here his voice. The pain of seeing your ch8od not making a card for her father while others kids in class. It was 12 years of pain on my child.
sad but good that the Lord is with Him. Take care of the daughter and our good Lord shall bless both of you.
Condolences to you, the worst pain is when a child suffers with a present but absent father. ❤
Draw Bishop❤️
Praying 🙏🏻
Don't worry God will take care of her.heavenly God is her father.
One of the deepest sermons I've heard. As a father, I deeply connect with it.
GOD'S GRACE IS SUFFICIENT FOR US ALL
HALLELUJAH
The world needs to hear this 🙌 🙏🏼 👏🏽
This was a very good and much needed sermon; especially for our black communities and families.
Thank you Lord. My father. I. Am. Sorry. My. Father. My friend ship. No. No. My father. Help me. My father. Open the door. My father. Help me. I. Am Pawan Singh. Goa. India 🇮🇳
Praise God almighty!!!!!
One of the best sermons i have heared in recent times.
It is sad how this message was taken all out of context. This was a great message and is true in today's culture. May God touch all of our hearts and heal our communities so we can hear and change our ways!
It is sad. But what the devil means for evil, God turns it around for good. If it weren’t for the controversy, many, including me would not have heard this message that I needed to hear.
@@psalmistciri2499 You are so right
We all hear the the Holy Spirit if we allow the spirit to talk to us. I’ve and experienced the spirit enough to trust what He tell me.
Agree we have to stay in context seriously and stop isolating verses. Only if we all read without chapter and verses we would understand.
Btw what the devil meant for evil Yah made god. Is only talking about his death and how Yahshua used that to defeat the devil and not only the devil defeat death.
That scripture is not used for everything. That’s a reminder of what our messiah has done for us
Yah blessings to you all here on this comment
I be real TD jakes has the gift to speak but he into prosperity gospel. Just an motivator. Doesn’t preach the full gospel and when you just preach a half truth we know half truths are lies cause you hiding something
Glad he made ppl feel good and look into our messiah but we have an accountability to read pray and fast to seek his knowledge and truth. Trusting in him not man. Testing every spirit to see if that spirit is of him Even if he sounds good or tickling our ears. Let see the truth.
There was no controversy in this message, women can climb the corporate ladder, but God still has order and when women degrade men in there Man position that God put them in, then a women is truly missing the true role that God has placed her in and that is a sad predicament. If a woman has missed the fathering of her dad, it is hard to understand the role of her husband’s (Fatherhood) God has to teach her how to be a humble;YES submissive wife. I know because I am speaking of myself and now I am glad that my husband leads.
My God yes Lord 🙏❤
I really love your preaching l also pray for you to keep your life in Jesus care don't worry about what man say or do God Jesus will handle all people's just keep doing your call ing it help a lot people's that while Satan try to attack you your preaching help hold to Jesus holy Spirit and we love you for real spiritual help let nobody stop you on this Jesus journey Jesus love you and do do my family amen we on a Jesus journey ❤
I do believe this maybe the sermon of the year!
This message is BEAUTIFUL....for those who are criticizing it...they are empty