I watched another video and they said he was a woman beater and had disfigured his girlfriend's face. It was also reported that he was a felon. I believe it was all in divine order, it was his time to go.
That "man" is everything but and he got what he deserved. I'm glad the lady and her kid weren't charged. I'm so sick of these weak men taking their anger out on women. GO GET THERAPY!!!!!!
You can't be serious. Both men were raised by immature women. They murdered him and got off cause it was a blk man. I don't agree with him hitting her but her initiating a murder is too wrong. We are grown women making childish decisions the their kids repeat the process. Many of you are actually applauding this murder. Mostly women. Satan really does rule our community.
I am from Chicago. Unfortunately, not talking or walking away doesn't guarantee not getting attacked. I guy just randomly walked up in my face and thought he was going to rub up on me. I pushed him off of me and he act like he was about to hit me and I was lucky that the guy that came in with him told him not to do that. But that's just one story. 😔 I'm a Black woman and I am sick of this mess.
Grown men stood around while a man beat hear with haymaker punches. Her son stepped up when the so-called men did not. And you right, I am moving out of Chicago (trying to sell my condo) because that is the mentality there. I have no protection there. I'm not from there, even though I have lived there for 30 years. And my mother, in all of her eldership, told me that I needed to come home.
Ni&&as have made a habit of shooting other men. People love to demand other men to step up, but most men aren't going to risk their life when dealing with ignorant ni&&as.
That man was just evil. I believe he wasn't doing this for the first time. He's always been disrespectful to women. Like you said Fumi, the lady and her son need to leave Chicago and settle in a different place and seek therapy. You have hit the nail on the head on this one Fums.
And his girlfriend is the perfect example of why people are afraid to get involved. If you see him beating her in public and you intervene and say you 💀 him she will lie on you. Which is what she did. And we know that he beats her. Then she's encouraging him to assault this woman in the restaurant. So we suggest to women to get a weapon and protect THEMSELVES
@@junglemayne4057 EXACTLY.. That dem👹n burned down HER house & that ffooll was still with him. If it wasn't her it was his x gf. Anyway she's all on these nets cap'n 4 that DEGENERATE.. Smh.. THESE POOKIE'S & THEIR SHANAENA'S DESERVE EACH OTHER.
Hi Fumi, I wanted to recount my story as this also happened to me. My father was outside cleaning the cars and my brother's car was parked outside of the house but in the front side walk. Some hoodlums were terrorizing the neighborhood and decided to start beating on random cars, one which was my brother's car was getting vandalized. My father of course, as a dad would said hey, please don't hit that car it's my son's car. One of the hoodlums started to beat my dad and my dad which was handicapped fell on the floor right away. I was the only one in the house and I heard my dad saying stop, my dad is handicapped and could barely walk. I tell you! I went red! I did not think. I was cooking and had the largest butcher's knife in my hand I came out like a cavewoman and was acting like an animal. I slashed this man and protected my father like an animal. I felt tall and I would not regret not one bit if he didn't back up in time and I stab him. I was ready to k*ll. Don't ever mess with family. EVER!
You go girl! Thank you for sharing your story of courage. I am sorry this happened to you and your dad. I know where you inherit your courage from... Your dad is the real deal because I promise you, I would have been so scared to even tell them to stop - yet your dad did just that😇 Here's to you and your dad. We need people who want peaceful commuties just like you and your dad. You taught our street brothers a lesson that they will never forget.
She brought it to you like a big sister, auntie and mom all at once. This incident brought me back to shanquella robinson. I'm sad that no one stepped up to help her. Society is more driven to film you getting hurt than to step in and help. You are right unfortunately in Chicago they are so use to violence in this manner that grown men standing in line and cooking the food didn't stop him. Sometimes it is best to get your food and things and walk away. This guy had a issue with anger and probably a mental health illness also. Even stray dog have more restraint than he did. It is said in the bible that you if you live by the sword you will die by the sword. And in his case he got instant judgment. Maybe this will deter people from behaving like this in the future.
My mom died when I was 12 years old. My siblings ages 8, 5 and 3. My mom taught me how to pay bills and run the household until my great aunt traveled to Pennsylvania to make funeral arrangements and she raised us until we were adults. Also, my first husband was an abuser. The authorities didn’t do anything. They asked what did I do to provoke him. So, what I did to keep my children safe, I had them to live with my great aunt. She lived across the street, so that was a blessing. I stayed with first husband until my last 2 babies ( twins) were in the 12th grade. Afterwards, I decided it was to leave the marriage. I would have done it sooner but they didn’t have laws to protect women especially wives in those days. So I’m blessed that I am a survivor. A few years later I met my second husband and he treated me like a queen and that was a wonderful blessing. So I know exactly what you mean. Thanks for sharing your experience.
@@MsMelyjeanshe should leave because we don’t know if he was in a gang and her son doesn’t need to be the victim of retaliation because he did the right thing and protected his Mom. They need to leave.
As a Black woman, I was raised to understand that I should not expect to be defended. If it happens, it's a bonus. I have children I know to my core that they will defend me to their last breath as I would for them. Fumi you are right children are born to you. That boy could not see his mother being hurt and do nothing, he couldn't, it hurts his heart. Love your assessment. it's completely accurate.
I’m so thankful this lady and son had charges dismissed. The only thing I will say is I don’t know how many times I’ve been around ignorant violent and disrespectful persons at restaurants, gas stations, convenience stores, etc. Whenever I’m around these individuals I usually ignore them because I will probably never see you again. I’ve been around people playing loud vulgar music and I had my young small daughter or guys with their pants sagging so bad in front of my child and I get thru whatever we’re getting from the place and I leave. On the other hand, my daughter’s father checks all behavior at the door around my daughter, whether telling you to pull your pants up, turn that music down in the presence of my daughter and they always comply. But I started telling him to ignore these people because we won’t see them again after we leave and he said no I can’t do it. So I then asked please ignore these people in mine and our daughter’s presence because things can escalate very quickly and someone might lose their life. But I would hope my son would protect me in a circumstance like this as well.
I dont care what words are said ... No man should punch a woman out! Im so grateful that young man man protected his Mothers life...and PUT THAT VICIOUS EVIL DOG DOWN. Black people wont miss that one!
I’m glad you wrote this! I thought the same thing. No one has maturity anymore. The man who was killed could be alive, the mother who was assaulted could have walked away, and her son wouldn’t experience more trauma. All of this could had been avoided if someone would ignored and WALKED AWAY!
That Monster has an extensive DV rap sheet. His girlfriend who was laughing in the background told the lies that got reported. This Lady is a good mother; she had her son thriving in a chaotic environment. She did not call to him. He heard her in distress from getting hit on by a Rabid Dog; that Are Common in too many of Our Communities. His death was Karma. The Mother could have been killed. Karma.
What is so sickening is that he was with his girlfriend in the restaurant and she egged him on. And now people are dogging the girlfriend on social media because he was known for beating her up too, and posters say he recently burned down the girlfriend's house.
That was what was bothering me... like she was acting like his behavior was ok. And have you seen the funeral shirts?? It said Knockout King with his picture. His whole family is despicable!
I saw Miss Hood and her lawyer on tv. That lady is traumatized. I can’t imagine what trauma her son is going through. My prayer is that they get the help they need, emotionally and spiritually. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
I commend that young man. It really upsets me that NOONE did a damn thing to help her before she called her son. I got no sympathy for the dead guy...NONE! You want to beat up a woman then you get capped!😐 Thank you Fumi.❤
The idea that this woman had to get a legal license to carry and teach her son gun safety tells me. She doesn't feel protected in her community. As a single mother myself, I feel that when men realize that you are not with a man, they feel empowered to make you feel unsafe. Right now, I have a 63 year old neighbor who feels entitled to always to come in my yard and say and do things he won't do if I am married. But I know my boy is in college, I am not in the position to move. So I'm calm. 2 more years. But the hatred for single mothers out here is real. Or if they know you are alone.
So spot on. You can see clearly on the video that there is a man directly behind Ms. Hood just watching that fool disrespect her and then put his hands on her smh
Am from the carbibean and where my mother is concerned with 7 of us 4 boy and 3 girls all bets are off if any man put thier hands on my mother. My stepdad try it and brother put him the hospital for 6 months in coma when he came though he broke up with my the same day.keep ur hands at ur side.
I'm Jamaican too. I was a little girl the last time my father hit my mother. My brother came in the kitchen and literally picked my father up, raised him above his head, and held him in the air. My mother had to stop my brother from body slamming him. My brother moved out very soon after because that incident changed everything.
That part. He signed his own death certificate. Put your hands on me, my kids are doing the same thing that baby did. He thought he was going to be waiting for his order number, but he got the number he was granted years ago
Fumi I’m a single mom I live in Japan with my two kids , being a single mom is so difficult,listening to you keeps me motivated and I’m also asking my self the same question, I want to make the difference in the world for my kids to be proud of me , how ever little I do ! Thank you Fumi for daily motivation. I love you!
Preach Queen Fumi! That young man is a hero for protecting his mother. May God protect them both. It's a shame that the pathetic men who stood around and didn't intervene to protect her nor her son. I hope they leave Chicago and relocate for a better life.
And for a lot of these beastly disrespectful males I read their comments on other platforms, they blame the single mom outright without thinking because of their hatred for the single black women. Many asked “where was her husband?”, “That’s what she gets for being a single mom!”, “she should be ashamed of herself for putting herself in a position to traumatize her son to unalive!”. Their reaching is unimaginable, now a single mom raised a young son right to protect his mom and family if necessary, they still fault her. They believe a woman should not say a word back to a man or she deserves the worst beating and maltreatment. Justice was served on the spot without fail.
AMEN! There should have been a CHORUS of voices saying “I WISH YOU WOULD!” We need to stop enabling these people, it starts at home, in the family, and in our communities. It is not ok, we cannot condone this nonsense. The child did what he had to do, instinctively he killed the predator! No one else had come to this woman’s aide. Keep imparting your love and wisdom out her Fumi and to everyone else, please BE THE CHANGE YOU WANT TO SEE! Peace ☮️
The part I can't get over is you can clearly see a man standing behind Ms. Hood, and he acts like nothing is going on. I couldn't believe a man was ok watching another 'man' beat on a woman right in front of him 😡
@@Maramom2017 Black men never protect Black women in public. I remember when a old homeless white man called this Black woman a n**** at a Wendy's. Of all the Black men present, it was a biracial-lookimg woman who stepped up and cussed him out. Then he was chased out the place
Fumi was not playing with this one. I completely understand! Even if you tell your child to turn the other cheek, mothers are off limits. If your son sees that the mother is the only one that's always there and providing for them, they are automatically going to want to stand up for their mom.
How can anyone not adore you. From one sister to another...I salute you. You are a light in this dark cruel world. I watched this video TWO times. You gave me chills. Every word was on point. We love us some Fumskie ❤❤❤
Fumi, you are so right the restaurant, and the bystanders failed this mother and son. All the people could do is stand and record this outrageous situation. I am so thankful for the fact that the mother and son will NOT face any charges. That beating he put on her while his girlfriend stood by and commented "He said he was going to knock her out" should be ashamed of herself. What that tells me is he was beating her butt. Well, fortunately, he will NOT be around anymore to put his hands on someone. I live for it, love it "They will get CAPPED". My son said he would have done the same thing if some man was putting his hands on me.
"I have to EAT THE SHIT to protect HIM." This got meeeeeeeeeee. This line is the personification of my life as a single mother to my son. Motherhood is the most difficult job I've ever had. I also wouldn't trade it for anything in the world.
Hello Fumi! It’s a well known polish stand in Chicago! I assume everyone in the polish stand was afraid of what might happen, so people try to stay out of the way. It was so disheartening seeing him beat her like that all over some words. I’m overjoyed the dropped all charges. Now I pray she gets her son the necessary therapy, and relocate to another state.
That's also what's wrong. Other grown men wouldn't step in to protect a woman. I wonder why? Were they scared or was it that she wouldn't shut up for him. I swear, some of these men these days. They don't even know what chivalry is. The number of times I've seen something like this and I've stepped in and the men are just watching. As a society we can't normalize men wailing on women like this. I don't care if they won't shut up. They know they are beating on someone wlphysically weaker than themselves.
This was at a fast food restaurant called “Maxwell Street” on the south side of Chicago. My family is from this neighborhood. It’s time to have a conversation about black male rage. Auntie, you spoke the truth about "brothers." 46:54
Fumi unfortunately this type of violence committed against BW happens across the US. Every 5 hours a BW is toe tagged by men in her own community. BW and especially single mothers who are BW are constantly being degraded and met with violence. What shocked me about this situation was that someone intervened. My friend was dragged through CTA, the train, while BM looked on and did nothing. In the US, we are on our own and have to protect ourselves. I sincerely hope that BW worldwide are not experiencing this violence and lack of protection in our communities.
Me too. Grabbed and almost kidnapped by a random man on a NYC train platform at night and a bunch of "men" sat in the train, watched me fight this random man off and they did nothing. These grown azz Black males just literally sat in the train & watched. By the grace of God I got away & ran into the train before the doors closed.
Thus brought tears to my eyes. I can never understand how we have become so insensitive and just stand by to see people being hit. 😢😢😢 This happens way too much 😞
Thanks Fumi for inspiration on a dark day. I’m a single mom with adult children. I keep things as chill as possible when I’m with my girl child cause she don’t play that 💩. We need you to keep speaking on injustice and violence against black women - wherever it rears it’s ugly head. My prays to sista mom and her man child. It’s gonna be a rough road. May the blessings and protection of our prayers hold them in healing love and light. God Bless our single moms. 💜🙏🏽
Man I absolutely love this lady love her wisdom , honesty, and how down to earth she is. Fumi and judge Lynn Toliver are women who I can listen to all day long every day 365 days a year.
That's why I'm so afraid to leave this earth, I have to make sure my babies are safe and prepared before I leave. That man got what he deserved may he rest in shyt.
These men are violent because their aren’t enough men to stop them. They think they can do anything they want to, especially in these type of communities. This is why my son moved me into a different area. It’s sad. Her son should not to had to make that decision. That man didn’t make it heaven. He was punching a woman and then he bust hell wide open. And a young man had to step in. Sad 😞
YESSSSSSSSSSSS! QUEEN FUMI DESALU thank you, for telling the TRUTH! this young man said Hell no! not my mother or any mother. This woman raised her son to respect women, I was raised the way, if you hit a woman you are afraid to hit a man in your defense. Men we comes from all women's womb that create our lives. BECAUSE! if that was my restaurant and saw this piece of SHIT! hit any woman in front me! I would try it with all my soul to Turtle Wax his ass from top to bottom. I bow down to the young man for protecting his mother and I hope she gets all her coins. FUMI! this one was powerful from you and a God giving God Bless you! Fumi you are an angel on this earth.
Tbh, some of these street fighting thugs have been known to beat women as well as fight with other men. In my 43 years of life, I've learned never to think a woman beater absolutely won't fight another man because that's not an absolute fact. My cousin used to be one of those guys, plus he was known on the streets for beating other men up because he can box.
Fumi, you are a class act! Even when you are giving it to us raw and real. I love how you give us perspective from all angles. Thank you for being you and loving us. We love you right back 🤎
Fumi I always love your videos but this has to be one of my most favourite ever❤You touched on so many subjects with wisdom,and again judged the event fairly from the different perspectives of the people involved.The story of what happened when Adrian was ill just pulled everything together.I could say so much more but will just finish by saying- you are a gift and you are gifted🙏🏾
I really feel for that little boy, and yes I mean LITTLE BOY. He has been forced to become a man at a very young age due to this trauma. His childhood will never be the same after this incident (and who knows what he had to endure before this). So many children are hurting. Ladies, please, please avoid single motherhood if you can and properly vet men before choosing to be with them. Children in these circumstances really suffer.
Oh wow, became a mother @24 and the part 2 of this video really had me in my feels... Oh wow, aunt Fums has said what she said, as mothers if you did not collect one or more sense from here than I don't know. The wisdom on here is on fire 🔥🔥🔥
He was a bully and used to threatening women with violence. I am glad he stood up for his mother and I pray for his peace of mind I hope he isn’t scarred in any way from this. He already learned the lesson of protecting someone you love without hesitation. As a Mom of two boys my heart breaks for them both, glad the DA let it go as self defence which was a just ruling.
My Dear Fumi, you are Godsend. Speak the Truth of what people do not speak about publicly what Women have to go thru. Especially Black Women in this World. My heart dropped when I heard this story from you. Thank you again. You spoke from your soul and it resonated to everyone, that deep gut feeling that WE feel and unfortunately far too women period experience on a daily bases. 💯
I am not black but I love your Fumi, I love listening to you. I can listen to you all day and I love all your wisdom. You are a gem in thus sick society. Thank you for being a light in this dark world.
I was looking at the BET Hip Hop Music Awards and the first person that won an award was a woman, when so got up to receive her award, no man was there to help her up the steps. I was shocked. If they are not respecting women in Hollywood, you know some of these men are not going to respect us at the restaurant. We are going to have to demand respect and stop tolerating being treated badly. I heart go out to the mother and her son. I have to start thinking about what I can do to make a better world for our children too.
I'm no mother but I got tears falling from my eyes how can a Doctor be so cruel . That's a child a small innocent soul ! He is more important than your worthless ego . How dare she I'm glad that god was on your side and things took a turn for the better. As, we say here if you are in a desperate need of help , if you can get it from a mad dog than endure , and that doctor and front desk were less than that .I said it no regrets there.
Yesss!! Fumi!! He had the habit of beating woman. He deserved what he got. He didn't have a choice but to defend his mother. God bless his mom, because she must have been scared. A damn shame no man stood up for her. God bless this little boy for having the heart to protect his mom!!🙏🏾💗
Tell me why I got ma serious face nodding and agreeing with you then low and behold @23:56 Came. I was so shocked I busted out laughing. I wholeheartedly agree!!
Struggling to make sense of this awful thing... So many times and in so many cultures and countries, single mothers and their children wear a bully bull's-eye target on their backs and for no reason... I specifically avoided having children while single because of so many similar things that I saw my friends who were single mothers going through... and as luck would have it I met my hubby late in life and kids weren't possible. But these single mothers are taking abuse from their own men, from other men and even jealous women.... For a stranger to just open up on a woman and go from arguing to beating her like she was the devil... he got what he deserved and his behavior earned him an express trip to hell. Frankly these two shouldn't have even been arrested in my book, just questioned, to give a statement of record at the police station for the investigation, but I'm betting that no bystanders in the restaurant would corroborate her story. I haven't spent time in Chicago in 20 years, but every restaurant I set foot in on South Side had some kind of security there even then... This restaurant and the people of Chicago are at huge fault for not protecting their citizens. Bring in the National Guard if need be. This madness from these wannabe gangsters has gone on too long. Shame on the Chicago police and DA for leaving their dirty work to a 14 yr old boy to take the trash out but thank God he had the survival skills to handle it.
With JESUS All things are POSSIBLE. PLEASE DON'T EVER GIVE UP on having children if you desire them. We serve a CREATOR OF THE UNIVERSE. He lives outside of time, space and matter and HE WILL GIVE YOU YOUR DESIRES. JUST BELIEVE. HAVE FAITH IN HIM. MARK 11:22-24😊
He couldn't know she was a single mother . He could of suppose because black man run from their Kids always . Just the audacity to put your hand on a women you don't even know . I'm sorry he was a waist of breath .
@@anm9881There's less of these BM running from their kids than many BW like to admit. Please stop the blanket statements about BM because there's a bit more to it than people like to admit.
When my Momma died, my maternal instincts kicked in BIG TIME! Church people were trying to tell us what to do, and I swear, I was feeling like a tiger with claws out ready to defend my younger siblings. That's the instincts God gives us as firstborns. It was truly a shame that no one ABSOLUTELY NOBODY stood up for that lady, even if it meant trying to pacify the idiot. Now, this little man has to live with this on his conscience in this world of internet. I really don't know what's happening to our humanity. Where I come from, it's usually cowardly to attack a woman in public. This was really a shame to the men in that community.
Thank you so much on the perspective you gave around 21:00-22:00 because it helped me personally. I sometimes resent having to be a “little parent” as the oldest sibling in my house. Love you Fumi ❤
Best of Fumi YET, right here. Such a brilliant woman. A 5-star sister/ mum to us all. A very smart one I believe we should all take very seriously and expect great things from... but no pressure 😅 Just keep being you! ✨️
Girllllllllll!!!! You felt this to your core and it translated clean through the television keep doing what you're doing answer the call it is a call on you and you have more than answered. I am a cheerleader and will continue to be. I will continue to pray for you . Don't kill her sis . :-)
Your message was beautiful and needed to be said. I’m so proud of you. I’ve been watching you a few months and you are a blessing. I’ll stay in touch and I’ll be praying for you as you grow. ♥️🙏
Thank you for laying it out plainly, Fumi. You presented both sides of this madness in your gracious, passionate, and non-judgemental way. I was listening to your story while doing errands, and when you mentioned how that #**@!! had the nerve to call you out of your name I had to sit down. I totally get where you are coming from. I don't have kids, so I still have that fire in me when encountering these demonic spirits. Watching that thug brutalize that woman while those other "men" watched and did nothing, is sickening but predictable.
@@lorettahines7936 BM often use this excuse, or "bw say they don't need no help". And the same males in this Chicago video actually lied to the police, saying Carleisha was the aggressor! And they literally fled out of the joint like a bunch of scared girls. There is another video of yet another violent bm attacking a Black female security guard in an office (I can't remember which city but it was in the past few days), while all the black male security guards stood around and did NOTHING with their hands in their pockets. It took the only White male security guard to step in and taze the unhinged thug, with the black male security guards watching with their mouths agape. Guess these bm security guards (who should all be fired) didn't want to get hurt, either--smh.
Auntie these men in the US are literally attacking women like it’s nothing my own friend got attacked and I’ve even almost gotten attacked just for saying “ No thank you” so this was triggering and when I tell you I was proud of her son GROWN MEN WERE RIGHT THERE AND DID NOTHING that boy is a honor roll student I’m so happy his future was NOT messed up he defended his mother as he should
Fumi sis, you are bringing me to tears with this one. I am with you 100% on everything you said. I'm married, but I have seen my own mom deal with this. I have BEEN that 14 yo boy having to defend my mother from a black man hitting her at an age that was far too young to have to deal with it. My father unfortunately died when I was 8. His family and my mother's always supported and protected me, but there were still times, as an only child, where I had to assume roles beyond my years. It's traumatic. It's hard, and it shapes you for the rest of your life. Now, with my own daughter, I am sooo fiercely protective of her. I am so different than I would be in my 20s as well. I get it all. I even get your frustration with our men and how they didn't stand up for her. It was pathetic and infuriating. I know too man black men who would have stepped in and laid him out, but I know just as many who are like those men in that restaurant that day. It's a damn shame. Then we get villainized for being the way that we are. We do not have the luxury of waiting on help. Thank God for her son.
WOW Fumi 🙋🏽 I've never heard you curse before ‼️SO I know that this really rubbed you the wrong way ‼️ And I totally agree with you MY BEAUTIFUL AFRICAN WARRIOR SISTER ‼️I DON'T FEEL SORRY FOR THE GUY EITHER ‼️ I'M GLAD THAT THE MOM AND SON WEREN'T CHARGED ‼️❤
Thanks my friend Fumes. This is so sad. You have brought me to tears. You are so right single mothers have to go through so much. I became a single mom to my three kids and I did it all my dear. We have to protect them at all times. Put them first moms! ❤❤❤❤❤❤
This story is what brought me here. I am one of the many single mothers born and raised in Chicago. Although my sons are grown now, I would do whatever in my power to protect them and they would do the same for me. There should not have been any charges against that mother and son. This is my first time watching one of your videos. Wow, you can count me as a new fan!
I live and love it Fumi you spoke your Television show into existence. I pray God grants you your hearts desire. And i know you will use that blessing to uplift and bless others🎉💝💯
You hit the nail on the head with this one. I'm so glad her and her son are free of charges. It also needs to be said that black men don't protect their women.
I'm a single mom and the first child and yes I taught my only daughter everything and when I had my accident and awoke from my coma and left hospital, my daughter was the one that re taught me how to cook and how to relearn everything again.
Heroic and sad that a man had to die in such an unwrranted circumstance but so happy he saved his mother. Sister Fumi let's continue to pray for this world! 💜
ohhh gosh, you said it all Fumi!!! be a single mother is not easy at all in this society, LOVE what you said in all situations THINK before taking action, and often learn sometimes to walk away😥😥
I just had to comment. Fumi, sister, I ran into your channel this year. I live and love what you do for us out here. THANK YOU soo much. You are the BEST..! Much love and favor to you. ❤💖💕🌹🙂
You are right about the situation. Another concern however, is why a fourteen year old carrying a gun? Chicago is a beautiful city. I love visiting there. Rude people are everywhere. I agree that society failed, in this situation. So sorry for your bad experience with your son. Thank you for sharing.❤
ROFL....Fumi you cursed....rofl. I love you!!! There is something wrong with the men in our society. All women need to learn self defense moves. Take them down! How dare his sorry behind hit a woman. Fumi you would act like I would turn it out. God bless all the single moms!
This story broke my heart💔, and you said it all. This child will have to live with therapy and possibly on antidepressants for the rest of his life. The "By-stander Effect" is real, we live in a society where people just stand by and watch harm to be metted out on fellow people, and I am sure they were recording the whole thing too while this happened to her 🤦🏽♀️😔😡
Fumi , I come here for healing. Thank you, you never let us down. From your observations to your flat out common sense pronouncements. Bless you & your family, & yes you speak for me. Bless your voice & your platform. I have NEVER heard you curse before - what an appropriate moment to stand ten toes down in ALL languages ! xoxo
Beautifully said FUMI - I can relate to all that you said. I have 4 boys and I was a single mother for most of their lives. I married my loving husband at age 58. I wish I met him earlier...smile. But I was attacked by women with box cutters while holding my then 15 month old son. I had to have many stitches and a little therapy. The women were caught and there was court. But I was tested because the women's information, their home, phone#....landed in my hands. I wanted badly to do something deadly to them. But I thought of my little boys. My parents were both deceased and I'm an only girl. Who would take care of my babies and love them like me. That stopped me and made me good thru the court system. Both were sentenced to 5 years in state prison and the Judge was very upset about what they did because a baby was in my arms. A woman at the courthouse said to me, I've been listening to your case and I've been where you are. But I'm here to find out my fate in court because I retaliated and did harm to the woman who did harm to me. Now I'm going to jail. You did the right thing in thinking about your children. You were not weak, because that's how I felt. My prayers to this mother and her son. I hope they can leave Chicago for a better way of life for them both. Thank you again Fumi for sharing your intimate stories and thoughts with us. God bless you...Sorry this was so long.
He needed to GO. He was evil. This was self defense !
Absolutly his ex girl friend that he was beating his pathetic too .
I watched another video and they said he was a woman beater and had disfigured his girlfriend's face. It was also reported that he was a felon. I believe it was all in divine order, it was his time to go.
That "man" is everything but and he got what he deserved. I'm glad the lady and her kid weren't charged. I'm so sick of these weak men taking their anger out on women. GO GET THERAPY!!!!!!
The way he was punching her with all his might?? That was so disturbing to watch. He could've beat her to death. That was his karma.
@@sophiaelayne9984e got what he deserves .i'm glad they got of the charges.
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Or he learned it from his mother.
You can't be serious. Both men were raised by immature women. They murdered him and got off cause it was a blk man. I don't agree with him hitting her but her initiating a murder is too wrong. We are grown women making childish decisions the their kids repeat the process. Many of you are actually applauding this murder. Mostly women. Satan really does rule our community.
@@rgw1380rwYeah, no, That's his father all the way. Men teach boys to hate women.
I am from Chicago. Unfortunately, not talking or walking away doesn't guarantee not getting attacked. I guy just randomly walked up in my face and thought he was going to rub up on me. I pushed him off of me and he act like he was about to hit me and I was lucky that the guy that came in with him told him not to do that. But that's just one story. 😔 I'm a Black woman and I am sick of this mess.
God bless u and protect you ❤
@@tammi67able Thank you
Grown men stood around while a man beat hear with haymaker punches. Her son stepped up when the so-called men did not. And you right, I am moving out of Chicago (trying to sell my condo) because that is the mentality there. I have no protection there. I'm not from there, even though I have lived there for 30 years. And my mother, in all of her eldership, told me that I needed to come home.
Unfortunately... Black men aren't protective anywhere in the US. At least, not in a way that isn't paternalistic. I get ill just thinking about it.
Ni&&as have made a habit of shooting other men. People love to demand other men to step up, but most men aren't going to risk their life when dealing with ignorant ni&&as.
That man was just evil. I believe he wasn't doing this for the first time. He's always been disrespectful to women. Like you said Fumi, the lady and her son need to leave Chicago and settle in a different place and seek therapy. You have hit the nail on the head on this one Fums.
And his girlfriend is the perfect example of why people are afraid to get involved. If you see him beating her in public and you intervene and say you 💀 him she will lie on you. Which is what she did. And we know that he beats her. Then she's encouraging him to assault this woman in the restaurant. So we suggest to women to get a weapon and protect THEMSELVES
@@junglemayne4057
EXACTLY..
That dem👹n burned down HER house & that ffooll was still with him. If it wasn't her it was his x gf. Anyway she's all on these nets cap'n 4 that DEGENERATE.. Smh.. THESE POOKIE'S & THEIR SHANAENA'S DESERVE EACH OTHER.
Yes. I agree. She needs to relocate.
Amen sister yes we first born are bless I like your talk you are so precise
How would you feel if that man was punching a white cop and they got off.
Hi Fumi, I wanted to recount my story as this also happened to me. My father was outside cleaning the cars and my brother's car was parked outside of the house but in the front side walk. Some hoodlums were terrorizing the neighborhood and decided to start beating on random cars, one which was my brother's car was getting vandalized. My father of course, as a dad would said hey, please don't hit that car it's my son's car. One of the hoodlums started to beat my dad and my dad which was handicapped fell on the floor right away. I was the only one in the house and I heard my dad saying stop, my dad is handicapped and could barely walk. I tell you! I went red! I did not think. I was cooking and had the largest butcher's knife in my hand I came out like a cavewoman and was acting like an animal. I slashed this man and protected my father like an animal. I felt tall and I would not regret not one bit if he didn't back up in time and I stab him. I was ready to k*ll. Don't ever mess with family. EVER!
You go girl! Thank you for sharing your story of courage. I am sorry this happened to you and your dad. I know where you inherit your courage from... Your dad is the real deal because I promise you, I would have been so scared to even tell them to stop - yet your dad did just that😇 Here's to you and your dad. We need people who want peaceful commuties just like you and your dad. You taught our street brothers a lesson that they will never forget.
You go girl!
Yes yes and yes
Get a permit if you're still living in that neighborhood
Can I get an AMEN!
OMG! Once again, NOBODY stood up for a Black woman! I believe your assessment of this situation is on point!
Did you see the men running out? I couldn't believe it.
Tell it Fumi. 👏🏾👏🏼
Black women are hardly protected. That perp didn't think about the possible outcomes as he has done it before, he learnt a final lesson.
Amen!!!!!
He had a history of beating black women. Then he had the audacity to say “on my grandma’s life” as he threatened her. Like WTF???
Fumi giving us raw, unpolished realness today. This woman has wisdom AND layers. #WeLive
Totally!!!💯👋🏼
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The next Oprah with a bullet !!!❤ no pun Intended!!
We Love ❤️
She brought it to you like a big sister, auntie and mom all at once. This incident brought me back to shanquella robinson. I'm sad that no one stepped up to help her. Society is more driven to film you getting hurt than to step in and help. You are right unfortunately in Chicago they are so use to violence in this manner that grown men standing in line and cooking the food didn't stop him. Sometimes it is best to get your food and things and walk away. This guy had a issue with anger and probably a mental health illness also. Even stray dog have more restraint than he did. It is said in the bible that you if you live by the sword you will die by the sword. And in his case he got instant judgment. Maybe this will deter people from behaving like this in the future.
My mom died when I was 12 years old. My siblings ages 8, 5 and 3. My mom taught me how to pay bills and run the household until my great aunt traveled to Pennsylvania to make funeral arrangements and she raised us until we were adults. Also, my first husband was an abuser. The authorities didn’t do anything. They asked what did I do to provoke him. So, what I did to keep my children safe, I had them to live with my great aunt. She lived across the street, so that was a blessing. I stayed with first husband until my last 2 babies ( twins) were in the 12th grade. Afterwards, I decided it was to leave the marriage. I would have done it sooner but they didn’t have laws to protect women especially wives in those days. So I’m blessed that I am a survivor. A few years later I met my second husband and he treated me like a queen and that was a wonderful blessing. So I know exactly what you mean. Thanks for sharing your experience.
She needs to leave Chicago with her son.
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Doesn’t matter where you are. A Florida mother, Ajike Owens, got shot through a locked door by her neighbor.
@@MsMelyjeanshe should leave because we don’t know if he was in a gang and her son doesn’t need to be the victim of retaliation because he did the right thing and protected his Mom. They need to leave.
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I’m worried about them hurt, the dead guy got his family and friends out there hurting from his death.
And they might take revenge.
I agree. They need to leave.
I aspire to be like fumi, she never take sides and always deliver. You can make a great counselor
Awwwwwwwwwwww, thank you my love. 💕 🙏
She is so full of wisdom, luv her❤
*Fumi*
@@FumiDesaluVold u are advertising violence. it's not good it's from the 😈 devil.
@@godhg9694you’re a 🤡😅
As a Black woman, I was raised to understand that I should not expect to be defended. If it happens, it's a bonus. I have children I know to my core that they will defend me to their last breath as I would for them. Fumi you are right children are born to you. That boy could not see his mother being hurt and do nothing, he couldn't, it hurts his heart. Love your assessment. it's completely accurate.
I’m so thankful this lady and son had charges dismissed. The only thing I will say is I don’t know how many times I’ve been around ignorant violent and disrespectful persons at restaurants, gas stations, convenience stores, etc. Whenever I’m around these individuals I usually ignore them because I will probably never see you again. I’ve been around people playing loud vulgar music and I had my young small daughter or guys with their pants sagging so bad in front of my child and I get thru whatever we’re getting from the place and I leave. On the other hand, my daughter’s father checks all behavior at the door around my daughter, whether telling you to pull your pants up, turn that music down in the presence of my daughter and they always comply. But I started telling him to ignore these people because we won’t see them again after we leave and he said no I can’t do it. So I then asked please ignore these people in mine and our daughter’s presence because things can escalate very quickly and someone might lose their life. But I would hope my son would protect me in a circumstance like this as well.
ENOUGH IS ENOUGH
I dont care what
words are said ... No man should punch a woman out!
Im so grateful that young man man protected his Mothers life...and PUT THAT VICIOUS EVIL DOG DOWN. Black people wont miss that one!
She ordered him to do it. And then kill the witness
I’m glad you wrote this! I thought the same thing. No one has maturity anymore. The man who was killed could be alive, the mother who was assaulted could have walked away, and her son wouldn’t experience more trauma. All of this could had been avoided if someone would ignored and WALKED AWAY!
@@makeba133what are you saying
I hope Kalisha and her son get counseling. Taking a life at 14, at any age, has placed a target on his back emotionally, financially and physically.
That Monster has an extensive DV rap sheet. His girlfriend who was laughing in the background told the lies that got reported. This Lady is a good mother; she had her son thriving in a chaotic environment. She did not call to him. He heard her in distress from getting hit on by a Rabid Dog; that Are Common in too many of Our Communities. His death was Karma. The Mother could have been killed. Karma.
I agree! Totally
The son is a hero. The amount of negative press I've seen is disgusting. I pray the boy and his mum get the help and healing they need. Love u Fumi
No he is not why he can't fight him
What is so sickening is that he was with his girlfriend in the restaurant and she egged him on. And now people are dogging the girlfriend on social media because he was known for beating her up too, and posters say he recently burned down the girlfriend's house.
Who said that his girlfriend said that. I needn't hear it on the video.
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No surprise there...
Oooh damn. She should be on her knees thanking this family from freeing her from her abuser
Word on the street is Jeremy also beat his mom too. He had a disdain for women and acted feminine.
That was what was bothering me... like she was acting like his behavior was ok. And have you seen the funeral shirts?? It said Knockout King with his picture. His whole family is despicable!
I saw Miss Hood and her lawyer on tv. That lady is traumatized. I can’t imagine what trauma her son is going through. My prayer is that they get the help they need, emotionally and spiritually. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
That's my prayer for the family also 🙏
I commend that young man. It really upsets me that NOONE did a damn thing to help her before she called her son. I got no sympathy for the dead guy...NONE! You want to beat up a woman then you get capped!😐 Thank you Fumi.❤
The idea that this woman had to get a legal license to carry and teach her son gun safety tells me. She doesn't feel protected in her community. As a single mother myself, I feel that when men realize that you are not with a man, they feel empowered to make you feel unsafe. Right now, I have a 63 year old neighbor who feels entitled to always to come in my yard and say and do things he won't do if I am married. But I know my boy is in college, I am not in the position to move. So I'm calm. 2 more years. But the hatred for single mothers out here is real. Or if they know you are alone.
Male cousins? Friends? That neighbor needs to be checked.
Your statement about the community enabling lots of the things in on point!!!!!!!!!!!
So spot on. You can see clearly on the video that there is a man directly behind Ms. Hood just watching that fool disrespect her and then put his hands on her smh
@@Maramom2017Men have learned that it's not always a good thing to gamble with engaging ni&&as in these past few decades of gang gang and gunfire.
Am from the carbibean and where my mother is concerned with 7 of us 4 boy and 3 girls all bets are off if any man put thier hands on my mother. My stepdad try it and brother put him the hospital for 6 months in coma when he came though he broke up with my the same day.keep ur hands at ur side.
She is from Jamaica
I'm Jamaican too. I was a little girl the last time my father hit my mother. My brother came in the kitchen and literally picked my father up, raised him above his head, and held him in the air. My mother had to stop my brother from body slamming him. My brother moved out very soon after because that incident changed everything.
When a child is born, the mother is reborn! Profound analogy Fumi. That's deep.❤
That part. He signed his own death certificate. Put your hands on me, my kids are doing the same thing that baby did. He thought he was going to be waiting for his order number, but he got the number he was granted years ago
Fumi I’m a single mom I live in Japan with my two kids , being a single mom is so difficult,listening to you keeps me motivated and I’m also asking my self the same question, I want to make the difference in the world for my kids to be proud of me , how ever little I do ! Thank you Fumi for daily motivation. I love you!
Preach Queen Fumi! That young man is a hero for protecting his mother. May God protect them both. It's a shame that the pathetic men who stood around and didn't intervene to protect her nor her son. I hope they leave Chicago and relocate for a better life.
No one stood for her, everyone kept watching and his gf was laughing, I'm glad her son stood for her.
And for a lot of these beastly disrespectful males I read their comments on other platforms, they blame the single mom outright without thinking because of their hatred for the single black women. Many asked “where was her husband?”, “That’s what she gets for being a single mom!”, “she should be ashamed of herself for putting herself in a position to traumatize her son to unalive!”. Their reaching is unimaginable, now a single mom raised a young son right to protect his mom and family if necessary, they still fault her. They believe a woman should not say a word back to a man or she deserves the worst beating and maltreatment. Justice was served on the spot without fail.
@@gracegeorge7285they are DEGENERATES
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The guy who beat her may be the product of a single mother.
AMEN! There should have been a CHORUS of voices saying “I WISH YOU WOULD!” We need to stop enabling these people, it starts at home, in the family, and in our communities. It is not ok, we cannot condone this nonsense. The child did what he had to do, instinctively he killed the predator! No one else had come to this woman’s aide. Keep imparting your love and wisdom out her Fumi and to everyone else, please BE THE CHANGE YOU WANT TO SEE! Peace ☮️
The part I can't get over is you can clearly see a man standing behind Ms. Hood, and he acts like nothing is going on. I couldn't believe a man was ok watching another 'man' beat on a woman right in front of him 😡
I bet the on-lookers were recording it that was just as sick as the predator SMH
@@Maramom2017 Black men never protect Black women in public. I remember when a old homeless white man called this Black woman a n**** at a Wendy's. Of all the Black men present, it was a biracial-lookimg woman who stepped up and cussed him out. Then he was chased out the place
@@Maramom2017they are COWARDS 🤡
@@Maramom2017Many men learned to mind their businesses over these past few decades of ni&&as pulling guns and shooting "He Man" to death.
Sisters we need to STAND TOGETHER! Blessed are those that strengthen the bonds of love and loyalty! 💛
Fumi was not playing with this one. I completely understand! Even if you tell your child to turn the other cheek, mothers are off limits. If your son sees that the mother is the only one that's always there and providing for them, they are automatically going to want to stand up for their mom.
How can anyone not adore you. From one sister to another...I salute you. You are a light in this dark cruel world. I watched this video TWO times. You gave me chills. Every word was on point. We love us some Fumskie ❤❤❤
Fumi, you are so right the restaurant, and the bystanders failed this mother and son. All the people could do is stand and record this outrageous situation. I am so thankful for the fact that the mother and son will NOT face any charges. That beating he put on her while his girlfriend stood by and commented "He said he was going to knock her out" should be ashamed of herself. What that tells me is he was beating her butt. Well, fortunately, he will NOT be around anymore to put his hands on someone. I live for it, love it "They will get CAPPED". My son said he would have done the same thing if some man was putting his hands on me.
IT IS HARD!! Black women most times only have each other. Thank God court the strength that we have. I love you my sisters!! ❤❤❤
"I have to EAT THE SHIT to protect HIM." This got meeeeeeeeeee. This line is the personification of my life as a single mother to my son. Motherhood is the most difficult job I've ever had. I also wouldn't trade it for anything in the world.
Hello Fumi! It’s a well known polish stand in Chicago! I assume everyone in the polish stand was afraid of what might happen, so people try to stay out of the way. It was so disheartening seeing him beat her like that all over some words. I’m overjoyed the dropped all charges. Now I pray she gets her son the necessary therapy, and relocate to another state.
That's also what's wrong. Other grown men wouldn't step in to protect a woman. I wonder why? Were they scared or was it that she wouldn't shut up for him. I swear, some of these men these days. They don't even know what chivalry is. The number of times I've seen something like this and I've stepped in and the men are just watching. As a society we can't normalize men wailing on women like this. I don't care if they won't shut up. They know they are beating on someone wlphysically weaker than themselves.
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@@TheLoveweaver oh, men dedinitely suck. it's about being a decent human being, which they keep demonstrating they have no capacity
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The way the worker kept working makes me think conflict happens a lot at this place. Any given Sunday.
This was at a fast food restaurant called “Maxwell Street” on the south side of Chicago. My family is from this neighborhood. It’s time to have a conversation about black male rage.
Auntie, you spoke the truth about "brothers." 46:54
They are quite literally RUINING every American city!
Talking about it won't really change anything, my friend.
@rgw1380rw Yes it can. We can talk about how to stay safe and avoid certain situations and people whenever possible.
There's no reason for that man putting his hands on her. The son did nothing but protect his mother ❤
Fumi unfortunately this type of violence committed against BW happens across the US. Every 5 hours a BW is toe tagged by men in her own community. BW and especially single mothers who are BW are constantly being degraded and met with violence. What shocked me about this situation was that someone intervened.
My friend was dragged through CTA, the train, while BM looked on and did nothing. In the US, we are on our own and have to protect ourselves.
I sincerely hope that BW worldwide are not experiencing this violence and lack of protection in our communities.
Me too. Grabbed and almost kidnapped by a random man on a NYC train platform at night and a bunch of "men" sat in the train, watched me fight this random man off and they did nothing. These grown azz Black males just literally sat in the train & watched. By the grace of God I got away & ran into the train before the doors closed.
@@reesebloom8093they hate bw or they are coward or they are cut from the same clothes.
Thus brought tears to my eyes. I can never understand how we have become so insensitive and just stand by to see people being hit. 😢😢😢 This happens way too much 😞
Thanks Fumi for inspiration on a dark day. I’m a single mom with adult children. I keep things as chill as possible when I’m with my girl child cause she don’t play that 💩. We need you to keep speaking on injustice and violence against black women - wherever it rears it’s ugly head. My prays to sista mom and her man child. It’s gonna be a rough road. May the blessings and protection of our prayers hold them in healing love and light. God Bless our single moms. 💜🙏🏽
Notice how the son didnt victimize anyone he got the TARGET. You always look so well put together❤❤❤❤❤
Man I absolutely love this lady love her wisdom , honesty, and how down to earth she is. Fumi and judge Lynn Toliver are women who I can listen to all day long every day 365 days a year.
That's why I'm so afraid to leave this earth, I have to make sure my babies are safe and prepared before I leave. That man got what he deserved may he rest in shyt.
Thank you from the single mothers.
I needed to hear Fumi wisdom . This is America madness!
Dear Fumi, I don't usually comment. All I have to say is: You are an amazing big sister to all of us!
Another great video, truly an internet auntie for young ladies 🥰
FUMI! She cussed and said MOFO and more! You came correct today, ma'am!!!
These men are violent because their aren’t enough men to stop them. They think they can do anything they want to, especially in these type of communities. This is why my son moved me into a different area. It’s sad. Her son should not to had to make that decision. That man didn’t make it heaven. He was punching a woman and then he bust hell wide open. And a young man had to step in. Sad 😞
YESSSSSSSSSSSS! QUEEN FUMI DESALU thank you, for telling the TRUTH! this young man said Hell no! not my mother or any mother. This woman raised her son to respect women, I was raised the way, if you hit a woman you are afraid to hit a man in your defense. Men we comes from all women's womb that create our lives. BECAUSE! if that was my restaurant and saw this piece of SHIT! hit any woman in front me! I would try it with all my soul to Turtle Wax his ass from top to bottom. I bow down to the young man for protecting his mother and I hope she gets all her coins. FUMI! this one was powerful from you and a God giving God Bless you! Fumi you are an angel on this earth.
All the time, women raise their sons to respect women, but unfortunately it doesn't mean they take heed
❤Yes ❤ pure facts from Auntie Fumi ❤
Tbh, some of these street fighting thugs have been known to beat women as well as fight with other men. In my 43 years of life, I've learned never to think a woman beater absolutely won't fight another man because that's not an absolute fact.
My cousin used to be one of those guys, plus he was known on the streets for beating other men up because he can box.
Fumi, you are a class act! Even when you are giving it to us raw and real. I love how you give us perspective from all angles. Thank you for being you and loving us. We love you right back 🤎
Fumi I always love your videos but this has to be one of my most favourite ever❤You touched on so many subjects with wisdom,and again judged the event fairly from the different perspectives of the people involved.The story of what happened when Adrian was ill just pulled everything together.I could say so much more but will just finish by saying- you are a gift and you are gifted🙏🏾
I really feel for that little boy, and yes I mean LITTLE BOY. He has been forced to become a man at a very young age due to this trauma. His childhood will never be the same after this incident (and who knows what he had to endure before this). So many children are hurting. Ladies, please, please avoid single motherhood if you can and properly vet men before choosing to be with them. Children in these circumstances really suffer.
Oh wow, became a mother @24 and the part 2 of this video really had me in my feels... Oh wow, aunt Fums has said what she said, as mothers if you did not collect one or more sense from here than I don't know. The wisdom on here is on fire 🔥🔥🔥
Say it Fumi. No one stepped up to help that lady but her son. Now that young man has to live with that for the rest of his life...Not fair.
Standing Ovation to aunty Fums. I love love your videos but this to me is the best. Packed with lessons. You came out 200%
He was raised to be a coward so sadddddd he got what he deserved.
Omg hearing your story give me chills.
I know what it is to have a sick child.
Because am a mom.
He was a bully and used to threatening women with violence. I am glad he stood up for his mother and I pray for his peace of mind I hope he isn’t scarred in any way from this. He already learned the lesson of protecting someone you love without hesitation. As a Mom of two boys my heart breaks for them both, glad the DA let it go as self defence which was a just ruling.
My Dear Fumi, you are Godsend. Speak the Truth of what people do not speak about publicly what Women have to go thru. Especially Black Women in this World. My heart dropped when I heard this story from you. Thank you again. You spoke from your soul and it resonated to everyone, that deep gut feeling that WE feel and unfortunately far too women period experience on a daily bases. 💯
Fumi you're a beautiful, blessed, honest young woman. We love you just as much❤ #FUMINATION
As a Mom, I really needed this powerful message. Thank you 💕🙏🏾
I am not black but I love your Fumi, I love listening to you. I can listen to you all day and I love all your wisdom. You are a gem in thus sick society. Thank you for being a light in this dark world.
Growing up, we were taught to keep our hands to ourselves. When you don’t… these are the results.
Thank you Fumi for expressing the same sentiment about this issue! I love your channel and the love and positive energy you give!❤
I was looking at the BET Hip Hop Music Awards and the first person that won an award was a woman, when so got up to receive her award, no man was there to help her up the steps. I was shocked. If they are not respecting women in Hollywood, you know some of these men are not going to respect us at the restaurant. We are going to have to demand respect and stop tolerating being treated badly. I heart go out to the mother and her son. I have to start thinking about what I can do to make a better world for our children too.
Thank you Fumi for speaking the truth ❤
Great job Funmi! Shared with a few friends. This video should go viral. Really sad that the restaurant didn’t call the cops😢
I'm no mother but I got tears falling from my eyes how can a Doctor be so cruel . That's a child a small innocent soul ! He is more important than your worthless ego .
How dare she I'm glad that god was on your side and things took a turn for the better.
As, we say here if you are in a desperate need of help , if you can get it from a mad dog than endure , and that doctor and front desk were less than that .I said it no regrets there.
Yesss!! Fumi!! He had the habit of beating woman. He deserved what he got. He didn't have a choice but to defend his mother. God bless his mom, because she must have been scared. A damn shame no man stood up for her. God bless this little boy for having the heart to protect his mom!!🙏🏾💗
Tell me why I got ma serious face nodding and agreeing with you then low and behold @23:56 Came. I was so shocked I busted out laughing. I wholeheartedly agree!!
She said it...sho' nuff did and meant it.
#MyGirl.
Struggling to make sense of this awful thing... So many times and in so many cultures and countries, single mothers and their children wear a bully bull's-eye target on their backs and for no reason... I specifically avoided having children while single because of so many similar things that I saw my friends who were single mothers going through... and as luck would have it I met my hubby late in life and kids weren't possible. But these single mothers are taking abuse from their own men, from other men and even jealous women.... For a stranger to just open up on a woman and go from arguing to beating her like she was the devil... he got what he deserved and his behavior earned him an express trip to hell. Frankly these two shouldn't have even been arrested in my book, just questioned, to give a statement of record at the police station for the investigation, but I'm betting that no bystanders in the restaurant would corroborate her story. I haven't spent time in Chicago in 20 years, but every restaurant I set foot in on South Side had some kind of security there even then... This restaurant and the people of Chicago are at huge fault for not protecting their citizens. Bring in the National Guard if need be. This madness from these wannabe gangsters has gone on too long. Shame on the Chicago police and DA for leaving their dirty work to a 14 yr old boy to take the trash out but thank God he had the survival skills to handle it.
With JESUS All things are POSSIBLE. PLEASE DON'T EVER GIVE UP on having children if you desire them. We serve a CREATOR OF THE UNIVERSE. He lives outside of time, space and matter and HE WILL GIVE YOU YOUR DESIRES. JUST BELIEVE. HAVE FAITH IN HIM. MARK 11:22-24😊
Someone came forth with a recording and that's when charged were dropped. The surveillance footage didn't capture everything, if if not mistaken
He couldn't know she was a single mother . He could of suppose because black man run from their Kids always . Just the audacity to put your hand on a women you don't even know . I'm sorry he was a waist of breath .
Well said! ❤
@@anm9881There's less of these BM running from their kids than many BW like to admit. Please stop the blanket statements about BM because there's a bit more to it than people like to admit.
Fumi every time I watch your videos I feel so proud and honored to be a black woman. ❤
When my Momma died, my maternal instincts kicked in BIG TIME! Church people were trying to tell us what to do, and I swear, I was feeling like a tiger with claws out ready to defend my younger siblings. That's the instincts God gives us as firstborns.
It was truly a shame that no one ABSOLUTELY NOBODY stood up for that lady, even if it meant trying to pacify the idiot. Now, this little man has to live with this on his conscience in this world of internet. I really don't know what's happening to our humanity. Where I come from, it's usually cowardly to attack a woman in public. This was really a shame to the men in that community.
Thank you so much on the perspective you gave around 21:00-22:00 because it helped me personally. I sometimes resent having to be a “little parent” as the oldest sibling in my house. Love you Fumi ❤
same here.. I literally had to do that on mothers day.. lol
I love your coverage of this story! Thank you for your honesty!
Best of Fumi YET, right here. Such a brilliant woman. A 5-star sister/ mum to us all. A very smart one I believe we should all take very seriously and expect great things from... but no pressure 😅 Just keep being you! ✨️
Girllllllllll!!!! You felt this to your core and it translated clean through the television keep doing what you're doing answer the call it is a call on you and you have more than answered. I am a cheerleader and will continue to be. I will continue to pray for you . Don't kill her sis . :-)
Your message was beautiful and needed to be said. I’m so proud of you. I’ve been watching you a few months and you are a blessing. I’ll stay in touch and I’ll be praying for you as you grow. ♥️🙏
Thank you for laying it out plainly, Fumi. You presented both sides of this madness in your gracious, passionate, and non-judgemental way. I was listening to your story while doing errands, and when you mentioned how that #**@!! had the nerve to call you out of your name I had to sit down. I totally get where you are coming from. I don't have kids, so I still have that fire in me when encountering these demonic spirits.
Watching that thug brutalize that woman while those other "men" watched and did nothing, is sickening but predictable.
Those other men don’t want to get hurt..
@@lorettahines7936 BM often use this excuse, or "bw say they don't need no help". And the same males in this Chicago video actually lied to the police, saying Carleisha was the aggressor! And they literally fled out of the joint like a bunch of scared girls.
There is another video of yet another violent bm attacking a Black female security guard in an office (I can't remember which city but it was in the past few days), while all the black male security guards stood around and did NOTHING with their hands in their pockets. It took the only White male security guard to step in and taze the unhinged thug, with the black male security guards watching with their mouths agape. Guess these bm security guards (who should all be fired) didn't want to get hurt, either--smh.
Auntie these men in the US are literally attacking women like it’s nothing my own friend got attacked and I’ve even almost gotten attacked just for saying “ No thank you” so this was triggering and when I tell you I was proud of her son GROWN MEN WERE RIGHT THERE AND DID NOTHING that boy is a honor roll student I’m so happy his future was NOT messed up he defended his mother as he should
Fumi sis, you are bringing me to tears with this one. I am with you 100% on everything you said. I'm married, but I have seen my own mom deal with this. I have BEEN that 14 yo boy having to defend my mother from a black man hitting her at an age that was far too young to have to deal with it. My father unfortunately died when I was 8. His family and my mother's always supported and protected me, but there were still times, as an only child, where I had to assume roles beyond my years. It's traumatic. It's hard, and it shapes you for the rest of your life. Now, with my own daughter, I am sooo fiercely protective of her. I am so different than I would be in my 20s as well. I get it all. I even get your frustration with our men and how they didn't stand up for her. It was pathetic and infuriating. I know too man black men who would have stepped in and laid him out, but I know just as many who are like those men in that restaurant that day. It's a damn shame. Then we get villainized for being the way that we are. We do not have the luxury of waiting on help. Thank God for her son.
WOW Fumi 🙋🏽 I've never heard you curse before ‼️SO I know that this really rubbed you the wrong way ‼️ And I totally agree with you MY BEAUTIFUL AFRICAN WARRIOR SISTER ‼️I DON'T FEEL SORRY FOR THE GUY EITHER ‼️ I'M GLAD THAT THE MOM AND SON WEREN'T CHARGED ‼️❤
Thanks my friend Fumes. This is so sad. You have brought me to tears. You are so right single mothers have to go through so much.
I became a single mom to my three kids and I did it all my dear. We have to protect them at all times. Put them first moms! ❤❤❤❤❤❤
I love your energy Fumi❤😂😂😂
You are so gorgeous! So glad your son got the treatment he needed. Love your passion.
This story is what brought me here. I am one of the many single mothers born and raised in Chicago. Although my sons are grown now, I would do whatever in my power to protect them and they would do the same for me. There should not have been any charges against that mother and son. This is my first time watching one of your videos. Wow, you can count me as a new fan!
I live and love it Fumi you spoke your Television show into existence. I pray God grants you your hearts desire. And i know you will use that blessing to uplift and bless others🎉💝💯
You hit the nail on the head with this one. I'm so glad her and her son are free of charges. It also needs to be said that black men don't protect their women.
I'm a single mom and the first child and yes I taught my only daughter everything and when I had my accident and awoke from my coma and left hospital, my daughter was the one that re taught me how to cook and how to relearn everything again.
Heroic and sad that a man had to die in such an unwrranted circumstance but so happy he saved his mother. Sister Fumi let's continue to pray for this world! 💜
ohhh gosh, you said it all Fumi!!! be a single mother is not easy at all in this society, LOVE what you said in all situations THINK before taking action, and often learn sometimes to walk away😥😥
I just had to comment. Fumi, sister, I ran into your channel this year. I live and love what you do for us out here. THANK YOU soo much. You are the BEST..! Much love and favor to you. ❤💖💕🌹🙂
Amen Fumi preach the truth lady!
You are right about the situation. Another concern however, is why a fourteen year old carrying a gun? Chicago is a beautiful city. I love visiting there. Rude people are everywhere. I agree that society failed, in this situation.
So sorry for your bad experience with your son. Thank you for sharing.❤
His Mother's licensed gun was in the glove compartment.....
Well....his Mum carried. (Legally)....He defended her, period!...
@@YDeniseify Thanks for the information. It makes sense of how he had access
She had her papers. Done.
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ROFL....Fumi you cursed....rofl. I love you!!! There is something wrong with the men in our society. All women need to learn self defense moves. Take them down! How dare his sorry behind hit a woman. Fumi you would act like I would turn it out. God bless all the single moms!
Please do a makeup tutorial Fums! The girls need help with the eye shadow application to look as good as yours!
This story broke my heart💔, and you said it all. This child will have to live with therapy and possibly on antidepressants for the rest of his life.
The "By-stander Effect" is real, we live in a society where people just stand by and watch harm to be metted out on fellow people, and I am sure they were recording the whole thing too while this happened to her 🤦🏽♀️😔😡
Fumi , I come here for healing. Thank you, you never let us down. From your observations to your flat out common sense pronouncements. Bless you & your family, & yes you speak for me. Bless your voice & your platform. I have NEVER heard you curse before - what an appropriate moment to stand ten toes down in ALL languages ! xoxo
Beautifully said FUMI - I can relate to all that you said. I have 4 boys and I was a single mother for most of their lives. I married my loving husband at age 58. I wish I met him earlier...smile. But I was attacked by women with box cutters while holding my then 15 month old son. I had to have many stitches and a little therapy. The women were caught and there was court. But I was tested because the women's information, their home, phone#....landed in my hands. I wanted badly to do something deadly to them. But I thought of my little boys. My parents were both deceased and I'm an only girl. Who would take care of my babies and love them like me. That stopped me and made me good thru the court system. Both were sentenced to 5 years in state prison and the Judge was very upset about what they did because a baby was in my arms. A woman at the courthouse said to me, I've been listening to your case and I've been where you are. But I'm here to find out my fate in court because I retaliated and did harm to the woman who did harm to me. Now I'm going to jail. You did the right thing in thinking about your children. You were not weak, because that's how I felt. My prayers to this mother and her son. I hope they can leave Chicago for a better way of life for them both. Thank you again Fumi for sharing your intimate stories and thoughts with us. God bless you...Sorry this was so long.