How the Spirit of Shame Keeps You From Overcoming Lust
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- Опубліковано 5 лют 2025
- I know that I said implifications instead of implications --- don't shoot me. Lol But I hope that this video frees someone who is battling with the spirit of shame attached to lust. Don't let the lies of the enemy force you to believe that the humanity of your flesh is the sin -- it's the acting on your flesh that is.
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Edit: I mention in this video that Adam should have conveyed God’s instruction to Eve, this is not me mentioning that he did not convey it or that Eve was unaware, it’s me highlighting the responsibility that Adam had over Eve in the garden. Eve fell not because of Adam’s lack of leadership but due to her nature in being the one that Adam is to yield to. Hope this provides clarity in this instance. God bless you 🙏🏽
I appreciate the edit. I been talking about this with the homies. But I do believe it was a lack of leadership on Adam’s part. As the husband the head of the home he was responsible for the direction of the family, that’s why God came in garden and said Adam where are you and he begins questioning Adam. Again appreciate the Edit
@@JanelKLauren according to the Bible Eve was deceived. Eve had to have know because if she didn’t then why did she say what she said in Genesis 3:2-3?
I know I'm a guy and most of your content is for woman but your videos have been helpful and very encouraging! You're doing a great job! So thank you!
Major factz I'm with you on this
It's for everyone 🙏🏽❤️
Paul said it’s better to marry than to burn with lust.
Amen! I agree with this scripture, but I feel it’s more applicable to those who are actively in ungodly relationships. Paul mentions later in that chapter in Corinthians that the unmarried persons care for the things of the Lord. Which means in our singleness he is to be our focus. But I do agree those in relationships that are flesh driven, marriage is the best covering. Love covers a multitude of sins. Thank you for watching the content. I’m thankful you could be led here. God bless 🙏🏽
@ I guess I misunderstood something. When you said you were struggling with lust I figured you meant some sort of sexual immorality. Paul dealt very strong with the church of Corinth about sexual immorality.
Thanks! It would be a good discussion on temptation coming back from the past in to the present.
"Guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it". Proverbs 4:23 pray the blood of Christ can uproot the seeds of lust, believe me the enemy wont have a foothold even if he temps you. Curse, causeless!
I know this video is for me wow. I've strugged with lust since I was as young as 8 and now I'm 24. I didn't have a true relationship with the lord until I was 22. Even though I haven't relapsed in a while I still get lustful thoughts and temptations. Thank God I'm not quick to fall in like I used to. I myself had the mindset that I had to completely ignore the fact that I deal with lust and I thought the second I got tempted, I sinned and it would keep me ashamed. Thank you so much for this ❤
The shame is what keeps us from seeking after his face. David had a heart of sorrow when he sinned, so please know God sees us but we must be willing to turn away from the sin and let him renew us in mind. Prayers for your continual overcoming sister. God bless 🙏🏽
You are sooo beautiful, a glow from the Lord!
You are right no one is talking about this!! The enemy plays on Shame
Thank you for these wise insights, active faith, courage to speak to this topic and for your love and care to take the time to create and share this. Thank you!
I first want to say I love your hair. Second, I also love your transparency in dealing with lust. Yes, we all face every day and you're we need to talk about it more and we need to go to God for help because He is the only person who can free from lust.
Thumbs up to you, this is how the Church grows.
❤ the haircut is amazing.
Thank you, Paul's letters are key to understanding how to live through Christ.
God be the Glory, thank you sis. Keep pressing on the word on for all
God is so good. Thank you for tuning in. God bless🙏🏽
I would love for you to talk about how temptation and lust can come out of nowhere and you haven’t done anything in months or weeks and hasn’t been a problem until it sneaks up on you
This video has exposed a very important and overlooked fact. As a man I've experienced it far too often. Shame is very deceptive because on one hand, it makes you feel like you're being honorable by hiding yourself and "not being a hypocrite". But on the other hand, it robs you of time you could've spent on your purpose. Our Father is like a quarterback waiting to give us the ball, but we decide to sit on the sideline in the middle of a play.
Thank you for this video Janel. A lust series would help all of us out, male or female.
Aman. Keep fighting.
God bless you. Thank you for tuning in 🙏🏽
Thank you for speaking on something that has such a stronghold on humanity that everyone is ashamed to share and open up about. "The Truth Will Set You Free"! Stay beautifully blessed. Pete
This is gonna open up A good discussion.
The implifications of this content is enlightenification. Thank You for sharing Your Journey & Experience.
😂🎉 amen!
Awesome Teaching!! Praise GOD for what he is doing through you in this ministry!!! Praying for you Sister in Christ 🙏
God bless you sis ❤❤❤
Thank you sister for this is something that I struggled with allot in life.
Im glad this could bless you brother 🙏🏽
Hold all women accountable. Amen
I can relate to your testimony because I’ve delt with the same thing. I believe Jesus has delivered me from it. I fell time and time again. But through repentance, and diligently seeking his face he has delivered me Amen. So I thank God for you and documenting your spiritual journey. Your light shines bright and The Father has something Great in store for you!! God bless and continue in the fight against the enemy and all his devices
Thank you janel,I just subscribed
This was really helpful,the lust itself is something within us it’s our action than comes after it that matters and how decision to flee from it
Thank you so much.
This video is a amazing thank you so much for talking about this
Beautiful Soul 🥰🥰🥰 your on point with this one continue to know your worth your Body is the Lord's Temple continue to give Him praise as a living sacrifice you can do all things in Jesus Christ whom strengthen us. Much Respect for you Sis 🙏🙏🙏 praise Yahweh 🙌🙌🙌 Amen
Wow your words are very inspiring I wish I had a woman like you in my life to help me to grow in Christianity very nice video really appreciate it ❤
Always on point as usual sis I thank God for your growth 🙏🏿 and revelation..you're right this is a major conversation that's deeply needed in the body of Christ 💯💯💯
This blessed me! Thank you for your work
All taken in 🙏🏾 overcoming Lust
Thank you 🙏🏾❤️
Continue doing what you are doing you are helping Gods people
🫡 Chief lady keep up the fight and spread the Gospel
Hell of a video. Keep up the kingdom work
Great video ♥️
Great video! I’m here for a lust series!
Thank you so much Sis! You have to keep doing these vids! 🫶🏾
On time!
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Whew.. this is a very humbling, yet frustrating matter. Learning more of the Word, and understanding to even think of being with someone sexually who you aren’t married to is immoral. Not to mention pornography/ masturbation and flat out fornication.. oh Lord.. I’ve prayed for marriage for quite sometime now, but now you have me wondering would that genuinely resolve a deeper issue!? Only God knows, but I pray God will allow me to realize His intention. Amen
Effectively. As a small resume of my way.Temptations will always come, but what makes the difference between you and others is what you do with temptations.
I realize something when GOD say to not do something, it apply for Christian but also for none believer and life in general.
A rich man told me one day the real power of a man is to have the ability to have high self-control in you life, because it will lead you to success.
However, to not batteling every time and make self-control flow, you need the Spirit to guide you.
I believe that by firmly looking and desire sincerely to grow all the fruit spirit in your life, you will set yourself free from lust also.
Having the fruit spirit is a clear indicator of where you are in the spiritual journey.
The Holy Spirit allows you also to obtain discernment in your life that is important to overcome flesh temptations also.
As Janel said overcoming it don't mean temptations are gone for ever , so praying for barriers is must to not let any door open.
Also as we are human and body I believe that GOD put tools in this earth that help a bit such as daily sports and healthy hygiene and nutrition as it increase self-control.
To conclude I believe that seeking the holy spirit in our daily life will free us from it without really noticing it.
This is such a timely word, I needed to hear this word. Indeed it is a constant battle between the flesh and the spirit. I wanted ask you though Janet, could you point me to scriptures on the importance of fasting?. How do you approach it personally?. I've never done it yet but I want it to be part of my walk with God. I hope you'll see this message.
Amen!!! ❤️🙏🏾
Amen sister
Solid video
Absolutely hate every sin and especially lust. The Lord will help you overcome it by the Holy Spirit and dying daily to self.
Amen ✝️🙏🏽
Shame itself is an overlooked and hard to understand force. I do not have a handle on it but it has come up often in recent months in both my prayer and relationships. Shame taints our sensual/sexual aspect and that seems like where it is most often linked when it comes up. But shame's tentaclles are in other areas too. Gil Scott Heron has a song called Pieces of A Man. It is about a man getting notice he has lost his job and it is told from the perspective of his son. One verse states:
"I saw the thunder and heard the lightning!
And felt the burden of his shame
And for some unknown reason
He never turned my way"
Shame is described here as powerful, like thunder & lightning. It is a burden. And it is a barrier. In the song, a barrier to his son, who is looking at his father, yearning for a look back, a connection at this time of crisis. Shame in this song seems to also be distorting - the son yearns for his father immediately, but shame makes him inaccessible. His father's pain is made worse by an isolation rooted in shame. Where does shame come from? I do not think it comes from God. It is often imposed externally, often at a very young age, but can happen at any time, by words or actions others may direct to us, or even how we perceive the words or actions of others toward us. And i think we can impose shame on ourselves too by feeling inadequate, unworthy, etc. Shame is devastating because it infects us, seems to spread within us, and as it hovers upon us a heavy burden invites us to develop counterfeits in our life to cope, distortred, desperately-man-made versions of how God wants us to live, but which shame has separated us from. In a sexual context, porn is an example of how we can express sexual desires in an isolated way, easy because we can enter & exit it on our own terms. Anger is another way we try to protect our shame - angry outbursts tend to keep people from getting close to the core issue. And this usually reinforces the isolation or causes an angry response from others and the cycle continues and before you know it, multiple lives are busted up and no one is really even close to dealing with the root issue.
Is that my proverbs 31 😭❤️
Amen
Jesus is king❤🔥❤🔥❤🔥God bless you beautiful soul😌🙏Subscribed^^
Maybe you can explain the juxtaposition of bearing your cross & the thorn in your side when it comes to lust &/or addiction to porn. Because praying it away & trying to obey is a struggle.
Yeah.. that spirit of shame will have you feeling like you’re wasting God’s grace when asking for forgiveness. Knowing your weaknesses and triggers, the battle is that much harder with lust. Fast and keep trying to fast.
I also did the Daniel fast but 18 days into it before the end I fell back into lust and I feel bad :( even though I completed the fast I sinned, and now I'm watching videos like this to stay strong.
The righteous man falls seven times but gets back up 8. Congratulations on fasting. Ask God what he wants you to do now. Repent. And turn away. True repentance is changing. God bless you in this journey 🙏🏽
@@JanelKLauren Thank you.
I ask God to gave me powers that I have asked for, that I had it for about 14 years but we're actually born with it.
Had a dream i seen the lion of judah through sunlight a week before my birthday🦁.. had a dream i was spiritually woke. seen Jesus fighting my battles.. had a dream i heard Jesus say "believe" i did 100% seen Jesus and his disciples... had a dream i was drowning under water, started thinking of Jesus name and Jesus saved me, had a dream i was dying in the flesh and the armor was covering up my soul like how iron man suit does⚔✝.. had a dream of the rapture, many was freaking out but i was waiting patently on Jesus.. had a dream that i was in the spiritual warfare, many crazy things was happening but i started thinking of Jesus name and he saved me.. had a dream a friend (friends) was telling me that when i wasn't there it was a sad day, but when i was i made the sunlight come out.. had a dream i was sharing the goodness of Jesus and saved many souls for Jesus.. had a dream i was sharing the goodness to someone and heard thunder then clouds appear, then a angel came out of the clouds flying down and landed a few feet away from me, as the angel was coming down i was being put into my armor of god⚔.. had a dream Jesus was showing me something that would shock the people, you know how in the bible Jesus spoke to many people/kings.. Moses for example, Jesus spoke to him on the mountain 🏔 & even in the burning bush🔥🌳.. this dream I had is similar to what Jesus did for Moses✝.. had a dream december 2 that i was sharing the goodness of Jesus to a group of people, so imagine being sleep physically (on earth) but you are woke spiritually sharing you testimony as you were physically (on earth).. Glory to Jesus✝, had a dream december 25 a friend of mine didn't know Jesus so i helped her understand all he did but long story short i had a dream i seen her sharing the goodness of Jesus to family and friends.. later that day she told me she told her friends and family about Jesus✝.. had a dream december 30 that i was sharing the goodness of Jesus to someone (spiritually) had a dream January 6 2025 that i was thinking of Jesus name and no harm or fear was able to mess with me.. had many more!! Glory to Jesus..
Amen.
amen
"spirit LUST against the flesh?" Huh?
Galatians 5:17 NKJV🙏🏽
I subbed after a video I watched of yours. I deleted my messages I was typing to you. I tried 4 times. I kept deleting. I have been through many experiences and demonic attacks. If I listed them here, I would feel like a victim. I do not ever want to be a victim. I want to know if certain souls are more targeted than others? For what reason? Maranatha x
GALATIANS 5:19-21
why struggle with it? what's the purpose of marriage? ask yourself why are there are so many young single people, bound by lust nowadays yet wanting nothing to do with marriage? don't be deceived rid yourself of deception by embracing the truth, thx.
Did Abraham commit adultery?
Read Roman’s 7. You may be under the law . There is no hope there, just continual bondage.
Take it from somebody, by God’s grace, who made it out of the dungeon…. It will not go away. It will come back. Clean the cup and try all you want, but the unclean spirit returns every time and he brings 7 buddies.
Your only hope is deliverance. Cry out to the Lord Jesus Christ, “oh wretched woman that I am.” If you’re broken, desperate, and done trying to keep the law, Christ will receive you as His own and you will be free , free INDEED.
Or… you can keep fooling yourself. It won’t go away.
Does being too attractive get you hate for preaching gospel ?
Lust simply means desire. Is a man desiring his wife a sin? Like anything else it can be used to do evil.
Lust isn't desire. Lust is a preversion of desire. There is a difference between love and lust. A man desires his wife out of love not lust. Lust is wanting what is not in aligment with the spirit of God. The flesh lust after things of the world. Our sexual desire is a natural part of us but it is bounded by the flesh which corrupt or desires. But when submitted to the spirit it is free from lust and comes in alignment with God's will. Lust is about taking, self gratification. It devalues and disregard others. It is about gratify yourself and your flesh. People who act out of lust abuse themselves and others. There is a misconception between Godly sexual desire and lust. They are two different things. Desiring your husband or wife is natural but wanting to use them or abuse them is lust or wanting to step outside the marriage is lust. Sexual desire inalignment with God's way of it is not lust.
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ἐπιθυμέω
Transliteration: epithymeō
Pronunciation: ep-ee-thoo-meh'-o
Part of Speech: verb
Root Word (Etymology): From ἐπί (G1909) and θυμός (G2372)
TDNT Reference: 3:168,339
Outline of Biblical Usage:
to turn upon a thing
to have a desire for, long for, to desire
to lust after, covet
of those who seek things forbidden
All lust isn’t sinful. We can pervert it and make it sinful if we are craving godly things. The word lust can be used or mean a strong desire or craving for a thing.
@@haywardhuntsberry7038 The word lust at it roots means an intense desire for something but within this spiritual/biblical context it means having a desire for an ungodly thing or practice. Epithumia the greek term used in the new testament refers the the desire for the unlawful or whats contray to God's will. So the term is used to denote wanting what is forbidden. But it can be used positively to emphasize intensity of your desire for something. But when speaking about sexual desire that's not of God is constituted as sinful/lust. You have to be clear with the language and context because people always used the term within the marriage context synonymously with the natural Godly desire for one's married partner. But a understand the context they used it but it has spiritual implications where you end up can't discern perverted desire from Godly desire. So a wouldn't use the word lust because a married man can't lust after his wife only if it has been desecrated where it's purely a physical thing absent of love.
Spirit of shame doznt even exist
Dang you cute❤
I know that I said implifications instead of implications --- don't shoot me. Lol But I hope that this video frees someone who is battling with the spirit of shame attached to lust. Don't let the lies of the enemy force you to believe that the humanity of your flesh is the sin -- it's the acting on your flesh that is.
Thank you for watching this video and supporting my ministry. I pray that this video blesses you.
I also do not ever reply to comments where I ask for money -- so if you are seeing these in the comments, it is not me, please report the pages as they present themselves.
All donations to my ministry can be made to my cashapp $JanelKLauren
Email: janelklauren@gmail.com
Thank you❤