Words of Wisdom to Our Younger Selves
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- Опубліковано 28 сер 2022
- We open up about advice we'd give our younger selves, and the theme of the hour is “everything is going to be alright.”
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They had this conversation when I was 17, I'm 24 now and its still so important to hear and understand. I'm really glad I had these ladies teaching me and sharing their experiences growing up ♥
They helped me grow up a lot
Do you feel old now at 24? I watched this when i was 17 and i am 23 now !!
Same Well I’ll Be 24 In December But I Feel You 🥹
Same! Same age, same feelings. Just same 😭
@@liz2251 hey sorry for the late reply, but i feel so young still, i'm still waiting to grow up in a weird way
I just want to hug Tamar, it's hurt seeing her cry like that
I never liked Tamar that much years ago, but after seeing more of her story and the things she’s been through, she’s truly an inspiration to me. She’s such a strong woman and I have major respect for her
I am pretty sure Jeannie was super close to sharing about how she got out of her abusive childhood perpetrator just before Loni cut in.
I was Tamar when I was 20 in an abusive relationship. I can totally relate to Tamar , now 8 years later I am healed and whole because of God grace
I admit sometimes Tamar pisses me off, but to see her this vulnerable and emotional when I am used to her always being the tough badass loud and funny one .. breaks my heart . M glad she got out of that situation. Hope that “man” gets what he deserve .
When Lonnie stopped and said, "okay…. I got you," to Tamar, omg my heart hurt 🥺 Lonnie is an amazing friend. She knew what was up.
She is a terrible friend.
Wait,.. why?
Tamar is one of those people when seeing her cry makes you cry. I’ve never been physically abused but I suffered sexual abuse and her tears made me go back momentarily.
The twenties be tearing me tf up 😩 lol and I’m in my late twenties. I’ve overcome so much, I’m intelligent, gifted, etc, but I hate the ups and downs of your twenties can be soo exhausting
Wow that was truly one of the bravest sorties ever that been shared on the show, much respect for Tamar for that powerful decision she made 🙏🏾
This is why as women we gotta love on each other because we all have a story that can help one another
Save your money ! I’m almost 30 and wish I would have saved the money I made working… paying for that now. It’s like the quote says… missing out on temporary fun to build permanent stability is not a loss ….
Women need honest conversions like this
Yes we do and align yourself with women who do
.... I been having suicidal thoughts and this video just told me not to give up, thank you for reminding me I will be okay
Stay strong Topacio. Start creating little by little the life you would want. ❣️
Stay stong Topacio.. There is victory around the corner. You'd pull through you are stronger than you perceive! Lots of love and many warm fuzzy hugsssss :)
❤️❤️
Praying for a breakthrough for you. I’ve been there…but God. God has you❤️
I know this sounds cliche, but it gets better.. I’ve been there… You’ve got this. You have a purpose. You are worth it. You are enough💛Much love and prayers to you.
This is ministry. This is healing. God bless you all. ❤️🌸
Chile. This is the side of TT I love the most🥺🥺.
She's not one to cry easily but this is A damn strong and inspirational woman.
Mad respect girl🥺🥺🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️❤️❤️
There's a lot women out there, getting abused by their husband or man, but still stay for their families,children, financial support, love, believe that they will changed, or somn. They're even getting sick mentally and physically at the point being suicidal, that's crazy, i just hope they're getting out someday and live a happy life
I missed this show, come back ladies please.
This video always makes me cry everytime I watch it!!! Tamar is so strong! ❤️
I would tell my 20 year old self that in the end people are going to think or feel about you how ever they want to ..so do you
Yes
This is the most beautiful show by far. I need to come out and attend ❤
No can give you happiness but yourself and the good decisions that you make by finding yourself and go after your dreams. ❤️ always
Oh Tamar !you are human after all,thats why you are so vibrant,strong,courageous & happy...am so sorry you had to go through all that but am so proud of you for coming out of it so bold and more beautiful.#Our God is a faithful God who gives us beauty from ashes.Speaking Out Doesn't Mean You Are Weak,It Means You Are Strong.Thank You All Ladies😍.
Wow I totally understand Tamar, I went through something very similar where I almost didn’t make it out alive, but I’m so thankful that God gave me the strength to get out Bc I realized who I was & what I deserved! So proud of us women
An honest conversation. I miss this ♥️
Women go through a lot.
I have always loved everything about Tamar from day1. She has a more beautiful soul than she tends to let on.
My prayer for Tamar is that she finds someone that understands her and loves her relentlessly regardless just like Jeannie found hers.
Amen!
This was such a good episode, tearjerker, needed by a lot of people
man this segment was so beautiful... you really have to find yourself to protect yourself, that nobody can tell you nothing about yourself. Only works with the Lord. Amen
I love Tamar without even seeing 👀 this episode. And I 💯 % agree with her. I got marry way tok young to the wrong person. Because I did thing that wa she pattern of live. My husband was physically mentally and verbally abusive to me and I was too embarrassed to let my family know. I love that the women on this show is so relatable
Tamar is soo pretty
You gotta be strong and say you know what. Enough is enough. Get out and get out soon. #Strongwomenforever
Is this God speaking to me ? I’m literally 23 and I’m so lost rn idk what I’m doing and I’m not happy with the way life is going ☹️
Girl, I feel you. I’m 31 and I’m not happy either with the way life is going. At 23 though I was happy I must say. I was reading a book earlier that helps me lift my spirit up a bit or feel hopeful but it’s so hard. Check it out if you like, it’s called, Do it Afraid. You are still at a good age to create the life you want though. Travel to beautiful nature placard and find yourself then stand strong. ❣️
@@bbri75 awww thank you so much 💕💖
Hey beauty. Your twenties are a roller coaster of highs and lows. Ride the waves and trust God. I’m 27 and I can truly say that GOD is the one who will keep you. He’ll lead you to the right company, the right relationship, career, etc. i know it’s very difficult. Trust me! My 21 year old self needed to trust God and chill. God has a plan for us. Things just won’t look the way we want it to look.
@@BriaBarrows Amen Sis! Wow I really really needed to see this today 💖 God bless you
@@tiffanymatsvai1929 God bless you too ♥️♥️
I would tell my younger self as today is my brithdayyyy!! 21 in the building! I would tell myself to find the beauty within my willingness to not follow the crowd! I mean we always talk about peer pressure and the time in grade school where sex, drugs and rock & roll become serious! With the pressures of ur peers thinking it’s “cool” to do something that’s considered risky or fun by other teens whether it’s smoking, having sex, being involved in bullying, whatever! It’s ok to go to the beat of your own drum and not focus on what others are doing to be cool! You’re cool in ur own way and don’t need those things to be cool!
Happy Birthday! Always see you in the comments for a year or so now lol. As a tad more seasoned individual, going to the beat of your own drum is great until it's hard to find people to match your tempo. Now it's easier, because friendships are readily available. However, as you start to really get into career, if that's your path, and get rustled by life issues, individuality can become less meaningful as you try to navigate it all. Be strong and remember that you can have and be yourself, but if that self is not stable, it's destined to crumble, and no one can rebuild it but you (with GOD, if you lean spiritual) Good luck! Cheers to 21
HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!🎉❤️
That part! You are smart and you got this
I think it's best not to rush into marriage at a young age it can be a waste of time because you are going to explore when you're young
What a beautiful episode
I love me some Tamera Mowry-Housley 😍😍
Love this episode. Marriage is a big step
Tamar's hair looks really nice.
I wish if I could have turn back the time so I never make these stupid mistakes
Same
Oh Tamar :(
I so relate to Andriaan
Another great episode of the real The ladies have great hot topics
Good afternoon to you Ladies!
Good afternoon
@@jessicahubbard7218 How are you Ladies doing?
Love to watching you all, its always enjoyable, fun, funny, and a lot to learning
Im so sad for Tamar
❤️❤️❤️
Why are all of the girl chat segments incomplete?
Are we gonna get more full episodes?
Yes
Yea. Show is done. No reason not to upload them
What season is this?
Season 1
Not loni calling victims cowards
yes, that was not cool.
That’s not necessarily what she meant… in this case it’s courageous to stay despite the hardships of being in a relationship like that! But you’re brave when you know well enough to leave! I don’t think she was intentionally saying that women are cowards for staying
Yeah i dont think she meant it that way either@@MajesticMyronn
This show needed Tamar
It’s good to watch this but I still feel alone . L
Gm edagdwg being yourself is real God blessed her enjoy your life know god for yourself as a child of God Linda j. Peace
It is really disturbing hearing people got married just to have sex like just wow. Sex really and truly not that emergent. I legit cannot handle when they start crying
It happens a lot with Christians though. It’s just the truth. We are human, we have feelings and people ( especially the sheltered ones), just wanna have sex lol and the bible says wait so they just date anyone to do it. I’m Christian but this is some foolishness to me. A marriage is too much just to get married for sex
It is really the Real 💕🫶🏼
12:13 - Please take your time, please do your best and try to be strong, Tamar 😍. I L❤ve You and I L❤ve You So Much 🫂🫂😍😍😘😘💋💋.