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  • @HistoryAndGeopolitic
    @HistoryAndGeopolitic 10 місяців тому +36

    It takes guts to talk about your dark side in public. Thanks Ajay sir for giving us the precious life lessons! ❤️

  • @marketwizard3816
    @marketwizard3816 10 місяців тому +17

    I became addicted to alcohol when I was 18, and after one year when my mom passed away I became a pro drinker, Too much problem came into my life as well as my home,I lost my job,I used to drink and come home at night, I knew I was doing wrong but I had to do it to forget mom, one day I saw my father crying, it broke me, it's been 3 years since that day I don't touch alchohol and I am doing a new job, thnx Ajay vai for sharing this kind of life lesson, Many youngsters need to learn this lesson earlier

    • @THISINDIAN
      @THISINDIAN  10 місяців тому +5

      very sorry bhai. good luck with the life ahead

    • @amitkumarsingh6769
      @amitkumarsingh6769 10 місяців тому +1

      You are the champ 👍

  • @durgeshjaiswal
    @durgeshjaiswal 10 місяців тому +12

    Hi Ajay Sir !! I have been following your life lesson series quite seriously, this has helped me a lot. I can relate to the point when you are asking to quit any kind of addiction, this can even impact mental health which is extremely important these days.

    • @THISINDIAN
      @THISINDIAN  10 місяців тому +3

      any addiction will suck everything out a person. just like a zombie but in a different way

  • @raghavplr
    @raghavplr 8 місяців тому +1

    It takes guts to share about your not so good past. Please also share if you can how you finally got out of your addiction as it can help many.

  • @adityakshirsagar5383
    @adityakshirsagar5383 10 місяців тому +1

    Excessive mobile use, being stuck in preparing for goverment jobs till late 30s and still not coming out of the cycle is also a disguised addiction being faced by the youths of India currently.

  • @nyknicky
    @nyknicky 10 місяців тому +2

    It’s very difficult to realise one’s mistake and then to share it on an open forum and be honest about it is extremely difficult. Hats off to you Ajay bhai, Full respect 🫡

  • @ritanshugihar1998
    @ritanshugihar1998 10 місяців тому +4

    you are truly gem brother Accepting your past mistake is not easy but you did it and gave us a lesson for our life God bless you bhaiya ❤

  • @sumitmadhwani
    @sumitmadhwani 8 місяців тому +1

    Very Inspiring and it take guts to confess this. I really admire you as a person and the way you live your life, and want to be somehow like you.
    If possible please share how you stopped drinking Alcohol it will be very helpful.

  • @kabirbahri
    @kabirbahri 10 місяців тому +3

    Superb advice Ajay! Absolutely it’s difficult to come out these addictions. Disciplined mindset is the key I believe!

  • @huzzhaq661
    @huzzhaq661 10 місяців тому +2

    Thanks Ajay Bhai it needs courage to speak out. Your words just hit me like you were telling a part of my life. I'm on my way to improve myself and I have also started running, and yes running really helps you in self control I can see that and maybe that's why you also like running.
    Please put out more videos like this.

    • @THISINDIAN
      @THISINDIAN  10 місяців тому

      yes running is so helpful for our brain. just love the feeling

  • @shirishgor
    @shirishgor 5 місяців тому

    Thanks for sharing information ❤

  • @user-hw4sr8nc6z
    @user-hw4sr8nc6z 10 місяців тому +1

    One of the best vlogs in your channel. Thanks for sharing.

  • @Chaubeyjiiiiii
    @Chaubeyjiiiiii 10 місяців тому

    Thanks a Lot for this ADVICE ...ill keep it forever ... UP( ALLAHABAD ) Se

  • @adityaviratsingh5247
    @adityaviratsingh5247 10 місяців тому

    सर मैं भी आपही के जैसे था अब मैं भी सब दोस्तो से अलग हो गया अब मेरी लाइफ आपसे मिलती जुलती है इसलिए मुझे आप बहुत पसंद हो सर और हमारी राशि भी same है आप तो मेरे जैसे निकले सर i love you man❤❤❤❤

    • @THISINDIAN
      @THISINDIAN  10 місяців тому

      kya baat hai... Masttttt

  • @roastinghouse7763
    @roastinghouse7763 5 місяців тому

    Thanks for sharing a part of ur life chacha ji I'm at teenage nd I would make sure to not do such mistakes!.❤️🙌🏻

  • @AryanManik
    @AryanManik 10 місяців тому +1

    Thankyou Ajay Bhiya For Sharing Your Experience With Us , Well I don't have any bad addiction but I will definitely impart this Story to my spoiled friends (किसी का तो भला होवे)
    😁

  • @happylittlefingerz8995
    @happylittlefingerz8995 9 місяців тому +1

    Such a great video, in fact this should be shared more. But bro its great to see that you are doing well in present. But I really felt bad for the pain your parents have gone through. You owe a biggest apology to them

  • @For_greater_good
    @For_greater_good 10 місяців тому +2

    Thank you Ajay for putting your heart out and being brave. Love life lessons videos❤

  • @mandeepkiranchakrabarty1869
    @mandeepkiranchakrabarty1869 9 місяців тому

    Aap k baatein soon k khud ko rectify karne ka utsah mila. Thank you Ajay jee.
    🙏🏻

    • @THISINDIAN
      @THISINDIAN  9 місяців тому

      Long time no see

    • @mandeepkiranchakrabarty1869
      @mandeepkiranchakrabarty1869 9 місяців тому

      @@THISINDIAN Haa jee, kafi samay ho gaya aap k vlogs nehi dekhe aur dekha v tou "eye opening" wala. Thank you mujhe yaad rakhne k liye, it means a lot. 🙏🏻

  • @i_am_debu
    @i_am_debu 10 місяців тому +1

    Thank you for sharing your story Ajay sir, happy that you came out of it and I wish you all the best for whatever you do and doing right now. I’m sure you’re a happy person to this day and date. ❤

  • @Bharatiya_aman
    @Bharatiya_aman 10 місяців тому

    Ajay bhai, thank you for sharing. You dont know but I am addicted to 3 things, been on and off and now I literally beg ki bus chorva do ye adatein

  • @raghusandela2769
    @raghusandela2769 10 місяців тому +1

    One should have courage and honesty of acceptance and especially revealing one's not so glorious past. You are really awesome personality. Why don't you start podcast channel.

  • @shaunfernandes44
    @shaunfernandes44 10 місяців тому +1

    Thanks, Ajay Bhai... Really needed this!

  • @YouTubeQuora
    @YouTubeQuora 10 місяців тому +1

    Ajay Bhai... One of the best life lesson... Special for Stock Market People
    I have seen people spoil their set job too
    Thank for this nice Vlog ☺️

  • @Tanishqbruhhh.08
    @Tanishqbruhhh.08 10 місяців тому +1

    Tbh I'm a big fan of your particular life lesson series Ajay uncle I swear to God. I'm deeply obsessed by all of your deep & dark truth stories of your life cuz I'm a type of a person who looks at the failures more rather than looking at the tiny successes you know. Extremely grateful for this life lesson video ❤.

  • @brajeshsoni1982
    @brajeshsoni1982 5 місяців тому

    Now you are in good shape .thanks god . keep it up . u make good vlogs.. tk cr bro ..

  • @srinivasmishra9411
    @srinivasmishra9411 10 місяців тому +1

    U r a genuine person.Thanks for sharing ur practical experience.

  • @SameerSakhawat-TE-
    @SameerSakhawat-TE- 9 місяців тому

    We want more life lesson vlogs like this

  • @ayushpateria
    @ayushpateria 10 місяців тому +1

    You have been an inspiration for so many ajay bhai. Hats off to you. ❤

  • @harshvardhannegi700
    @harshvardhannegi700 10 місяців тому

    Good one Ajay bhai u r inspiration

  • @rakshajasani6177
    @rakshajasani6177 10 місяців тому

    Confessions about your darling side of life requires lots&lots of guts..hats off to you sir for doing it

  • @vhagar1469
    @vhagar1469 10 місяців тому +2

    This video needs to be seen by many Indians at this point who are addicted to Dream 11, One of my uncle lost 1,27,957 Rupees because of fantasy betting apps like dream11

  • @komalmahtani7293
    @komalmahtani7293 10 місяців тому +1

    Same story of my brother .But he went extreme n couldn't leave it n ruin his personal life n he is no more now

  • @athlene
    @athlene Місяць тому

    Thank you sir🙏🙏

  • @sandeepsandy3332
    @sandeepsandy3332 10 місяців тому

    Sir itni deep baatye apne itne short or easily samja diya ki me kya bolu me b kuch aisa he tha beer pihne ka addiction ho gaya tha last 4 months se dekha b nhi ushki taraf apki video late hai but aj double motivation mila ushke liye thanks sir❤

    • @THISINDIAN
      @THISINDIAN  10 місяців тому +1

      masttt. bohot log samajte nahi hai par sharab aur drugs addiction ke outcome mein zadaa difference nahi hai

    • @sandeepsandy3332
      @sandeepsandy3332 10 місяців тому

      @@THISINDIAN correct sir👍🏻

  • @Eban-Hamdani
    @Eban-Hamdani 10 місяців тому

    Bhayya, thank you for sharing this. It takes a lot to open about this stuff. We all respect you a lot for caring for us and opening up this way.

  • @rajivkukreja4516
    @rajivkukreja4516 10 місяців тому +1

    I can so relate to this I remember there was this gambling parlour behind mmk/ national college lane near Linking Road in the early 90s Have seen my friends getting addicted to this at that time

  • @abhijitbhabad1503
    @abhijitbhabad1503 10 місяців тому +3

    Love from goa

  • @RajanishPandit009
    @RajanishPandit009 10 місяців тому

    I love the way you are explaining about good things its related to every single life of such kind of situation so thank you so much Boss for sharing real experience of your life.❤

  • @swarupmahajan5046
    @swarupmahajan5046 10 місяців тому

    Hie Ajay sir I can relate to all of this . Because Mai bhi issi chiz se gujar Raha hu. Ghar se paise churye. Bohot sare drugs ka addiction Kara hai. Sab friends family and society Mai koi bhi accha nahi bolta hai muze . Lekin Mai abhi uss sab chiz se bohot age nikal chuka hu . Lekin khud ko ab bhi Mai maff nahi kar paya hu

    • @THISINDIAN
      @THISINDIAN  10 місяців тому

      Time is the ultimate healer. Good job 👍 Be proud that you are done with it. Baakee one way or the other we all pay our debts. Take care

  • @amitkumarsingh6769
    @amitkumarsingh6769 10 місяців тому

    Thanks for sharing Dada. May God bless us to overcome any form of addiction. ✌️👍

  • @vedjadhav9198
    @vedjadhav9198 10 місяців тому +1

    Thank you very much sir ❤

  • @shivammittal9785
    @shivammittal9785 4 місяці тому

    Thank you so much sir iss leason se mai bhi nikla ho reallyy

    • @THISINDIAN
      @THISINDIAN  4 місяці тому

      Bach gaye boss 👏 💪

  • @prakashmallhotra6729
    @prakashmallhotra6729 10 місяців тому +1

    deep conversation and loved it. relatable . very few people talk about their dark side . for me its porn masturbation. Like me many youngester are suffering from this addiction

  • @syedasif7023
    @syedasif7023 10 місяців тому

    Ajay bro i was watching your vlog since long time, but this episode really you are amazing person

  • @adityakshirsagar5383
    @adityakshirsagar5383 10 місяців тому

    Thank You for the life lesson video sir, really love the series keep sharing your life experiences, we really learn a lot from them. Takes a lot of courage to share the on screen in todays time. Mobile addiction is one problem many youngsters facing these days, please do share insights on it too, thank you.

  • @SuperYtttt
    @SuperYtttt 10 місяців тому

    This is what we want! Thank you for making this vlog .

  • @mohammadadnan9003
    @mohammadadnan9003 10 місяців тому

    You are a motivation sir
    This video is very helpful and informative

  • @gagangogia8413
    @gagangogia8413 10 місяців тому

    Ajay bhai, what a come back !!
    You are inspiring person, I took your advice now, I am now in Australia.
    Thank you!! , keep sharing your thoughts and inspiring stories.
    🐕‍🦺

  • @kickstanful
    @kickstanful 10 місяців тому

    Ajay bhai aap kabhi kaam kya karte uspe bhi video banao sir.

  • @kvijay6409
    @kvijay6409 10 місяців тому

    Thank you so much sir for giving the life lessons, thanks for your awareness, quite helpful for the youngsters like me.

  • @ExxTenth23
    @ExxTenth23 10 місяців тому

    Love to listen your valuable lessons. Let that keep coming ❤.

  • @tysonjr.5642
    @tysonjr.5642 10 місяців тому

    Thanks for sharing this with us. U r a fighter.

  • @100rabhk3
    @100rabhk3 10 місяців тому

    bro sidha dil se bat ki haia pne ...respect

  • @MyFilmsIndia
    @MyFilmsIndia 10 місяців тому

    Nice very motivated nd inspirational for us

  • @manishtoppo6629
    @manishtoppo6629 10 місяців тому

    Really Inspired ajey bhai...Thanks ❤

  • @subetkadam7684
    @subetkadam7684 10 місяців тому

    Good lesson to youngsters sir 😊 👏👌

  • @Tangy_touch
    @Tangy_touch 10 місяців тому

    बॉस,
    आज तक का सब से बेस्ट वीडियो है।

  • @cricketholic287
    @cricketholic287 10 місяців тому

    Thanks for sharing Ajay bhai

  • @shiva.2025
    @shiva.2025 10 місяців тому +1

    try to vlog with dogs more often and increase the frequency

  • @rohitshankar1627
    @rohitshankar1627 10 місяців тому

    Rula Diya Ajay bhaiya😢

  • @makichu-qn7gs
    @makichu-qn7gs 10 місяців тому

    U r a true motivator..
    Love from Kolkata....

  • @ChandraPrakash-ju7kv
    @ChandraPrakash-ju7kv 10 місяців тому +1

    would love to hear when and why did you come to usa?

  • @Artic11
    @Artic11 10 місяців тому +1

    Hello Sir, Long time didn't watch your videos, thanks for the lesson! 🫂🌉🥀

  • @indiansoul912
    @indiansoul912 10 місяців тому

    Thank you for sharing ❤. I can feel that!

  • @akshaygupta368
    @akshaygupta368 10 місяців тому

    Sir aapne addiction ko stock market se compare kiya.....pls share your experience in stock market & bitcoin market in next vlog of life lessons

  • @mukarrambintariq2693
    @mukarrambintariq2693 10 місяців тому

    Great person ❤ Love from Gujranwala

  • @abdulkadirnagori7441
    @abdulkadirnagori7441 10 місяців тому

    Hats off

  • @rk_valvi
    @rk_valvi 10 місяців тому

    Good lesson❤ ❤ sir

  • @powerplantstudy
    @powerplantstudy 10 місяців тому +1

    Damm true

  • @karn990
    @karn990 10 місяців тому

    Thanks sir keep giving us lessons ✨

  • @mukulsharma277
    @mukulsharma277 10 місяців тому

    Life lessons are always awesome ❤❤❤❤

  • @vivekluvs
    @vivekluvs 10 місяців тому

    More power to you man💪💪

  • @ashutoshsharma4751
    @ashutoshsharma4751 10 місяців тому

    Ajay bhai yeh parlour ki aap ko baat kar rhe ho yeh casino 🎰 h kya?? Mko bhi h problem iski mko bhi help chiye. You are right log paise k liye nahi khelte log khelte h game khelne k liye game khelene ka Chaska hota h paisa kamane ka nahi. I’m trying to get out of it hopefully I will one day. Thanks

    • @THISINDIAN
      @THISINDIAN  10 місяців тому +1

      Boss. You need to. Get a hobby or something to divert. Best of luck

  • @sumeets0200
    @sumeets0200 10 місяців тому

    It take guts to admit and to leave it from your life.

  • @vibhasingh6967
    @vibhasingh6967 10 місяців тому +1

    Love from varanasi

  • @kyleburonx882
    @kyleburonx882 10 місяців тому

    Good! Dude, tell us your stock market story. 🙂🙂

  • @vedantpotdar5022
    @vedantpotdar5022 10 місяців тому

    Love from Mumbai ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Bhartiya969
    @Bhartiya969 10 місяців тому +2

    Bhai what happened to your friend?? You are lucky that you came out of it.. may be because u reach US and all your bed companies did not get an opportunity to pull u back in that gambling..
    In our time pool table gambling was at a peak and many of my friends and cousins end up visiting police station because of gambling behind the pool table..
    By God's grace I was busy with internet and computer same time so I grow up in technology field and my friends are no where now and sometimes I feel bad for them..as I could have stopped them but they all want quick money and as you said it's not about money it's about the thrill.. Of gambling
    Like to know more about it bhai if you can save someone with any kind of addiction then it will wash your sin of gambling..
    I don't have courage like you, I can't accept my past in front of thousands of people and on social media..

    • @THISINDIAN
      @THISINDIAN  10 місяців тому

      bhai I had to make this vlog. This is super important for some youth to understand the seriousness of this. The only way to convey is by giving my own story. Aur dhoodh mein tuo koee nahe dhula hai bhai. Jisko jo sochna hai sochney duo. I'm not trying to impress anyone.

  • @wolf78889
    @wolf78889 10 місяців тому

    (me :Rushabh )thank you sir for this life lesson video (i am also a stock market person right now i am also doing it in wrong way
    by putting all my money in one trade which is wrong & taking unwanted trade but i am controlling on my overtrading thing )

    • @THISINDIAN
      @THISINDIAN  10 місяців тому

      If you are day trading you are playing with fire. Be very careful.

  • @zabihraushankhan1691
    @zabihraushankhan1691 10 місяців тому

    Amazing boss. I am addicted to smoking and i wanna quit but don't know how. I have reduced from 15 cigarettes to 6 now but i wanna completely quit. So, please tell me how you quit smoking.

    • @THISINDIAN
      @THISINDIAN  10 місяців тому

      I use to smoke 20 to 30 a day. I quit cold turkey. One day I got sick and I didn't feel like eating or smoking for a couple days. Thats when I realized that it's all in our head. Never smoked again. Now I hate the smell of cig smoke.

  • @user-nb7jt3ye1p
    @user-nb7jt3ye1p 10 місяців тому

    Aaj ke time me .. Mobile phone.. Addiction dekhne ko milte h .... or bachche bhi ho Raha h

  • @xen0076
    @xen0076 10 місяців тому

    Yo ajay we love your content

  • @rajeshagnihotri2668
    @rajeshagnihotri2668 10 місяців тому +1

    Hello sir meri long GSD ne Thursday night ko first time puppy diye tino male but 2 ki death ho gai same day or ab WO bhi khud na kuch kha rhi na Khana na dog food na milk Kuch bhi nhi Kuch susagiston denge kya

    • @THISINDIAN
      @THISINDIAN  10 місяців тому

      best thing to do osko vet ke pass leke jaoo

  • @abhijeets2226
    @abhijeets2226 10 місяців тому

    Thank you sir for your experience 🙏

  • @InfoGainers
    @InfoGainers 10 місяців тому

    🙏

  • @vedjadhav9198
    @vedjadhav9198 10 місяців тому +1

    This channel teach me more than any other my subscribe channel

  • @aseemmadaan2132
    @aseemmadaan2132 10 місяців тому

    Hello sir how are you doing
    In next vlog can you tell us how to quit smoking I am not able to

  • @buriburizaemon1711
    @buriburizaemon1711 10 місяців тому +2

    Addiction bahut kharab chij h abhi recently kai cases hue h mere neighboneighborhood Me suicide ke jisme sare cases me gambling wajah h aur jo abhi recently hua h usme mere friend k father ne sucide kr liya.

    • @THISINDIAN
      @THISINDIAN  10 місяців тому +2

      very sorry for your friend

  • @gauravnanwani5887
    @gauravnanwani5887 10 місяців тому

    🙏Jai jhulelal 🙏 love from indore

  • @maryreal3825
    @maryreal3825 8 місяців тому +1

    One of my friends son is a alcoholic What is your suggestion does she move him from here to India Please give your opinion bhai

    • @THISINDIAN
      @THISINDIAN  8 місяців тому

      He needs to be around the right company. Good Friends can many times help accomplish what parents can’t. 2nd: He will get over it if he decides to. The right habits like getting involved in running, joining a good gym will help. As he will start focusing on his health. 3rd: Get rid of friends and family members who are into drinking. Unfortunately, many times the 1st family is into drinking themselves and then complain about their children getting hooked to alcohol. If that’s the case. They need to stop 🛑

    • @maryreal3825
      @maryreal3825 8 місяців тому +1

      @@THISINDIAN The problem is how to take a risk in relocating him he is doing a good job here and staying with parents so his overheads r nil if they relocate him they won’t know what is going on please do reply and give your opinion bhai They can send him to India or Canada they can afford but u know in India he again will have ample of time with nothing to do
      That is also a problem please suggest
      He has no friends know but has got drinking habit he drinks a lot at a time he is lonely too

    • @THISINDIAN
      @THISINDIAN  8 місяців тому

      @@maryreal3825 first, he needs to be willing to quit. If he has no desire to quit then it’s a tough one to overcome. If he wants to quit then he needs to replace drinking with another habit. Seems like he’s just drinking because he has nothing better to do and like you said. He is lonely. Exercise is one of the best replacements. As it turns into a hobby and naturally one thinks about the intake of foods and liquids in a healthy manner. Send him this video. Maybe he will get it.

    • @maryreal3825
      @maryreal3825 8 місяців тому

      @@THISINDIAN I did send this one but he has blocked me and he does exercise everyday
      for an hour or two without fail What to do please share your opinion after reading

  • @kunalkundra22
    @kunalkundra22 10 місяців тому

    Ek time pe mera bada bhai Jo Iss duniya me nahe hai wo video game parlor Ka owner tha in vikhroli and Ghatkopar, so aapka dard samjh sakta hu main 😢

  • @amitverma4307
    @amitverma4307 10 місяців тому

    Hello Ajay sir and thanks🙏😊

  • @peekabooplays4427
    @peekabooplays4427 10 місяців тому +3

    1st please pin ❤

  • @aaradhanashrivastava7088
    @aaradhanashrivastava7088 10 місяців тому

    Sir I've been noticing your channel sometimes doesn't show anywhere if i search
    What's wrong there?
    Can you tell...

    • @THISINDIAN
      @THISINDIAN  10 місяців тому

      I almost deleted it. Had it in hidden status

  • @chiragreddy7140
    @chiragreddy7140 10 місяців тому

    Hiii sir
    How are you?
    Gave a great message sir 🫡 thank you 😄

  • @user-nb7jt3ye1p
    @user-nb7jt3ye1p 10 місяців тому +1

    Hum to Delhi SE h ..😂Humme koi inta Rich ....Nahi Mila 😂

    • @THISINDIAN
      @THISINDIAN  10 місяців тому

      Delhi mein ek se ek hai boss

  • @vishalsingh-tw4jj
    @vishalsingh-tw4jj 10 місяців тому

    ❤️👍👍

  • @yashvlogs3601
    @yashvlogs3601 10 місяців тому

    aap to sambhal gaye sir but mere ghar me to inhi sab chakkar me saare paise doob gaye and ab koi bada bhi nahi bacha ghar me ab meko hi sab sambhalna he and i'm so scared ki kese sab kuch sambhaluga

    • @THISINDIAN
      @THISINDIAN  10 місяців тому +2

      good luck boss. hard hai par ye time nikal jayega

    • @yashvlogs3601
      @yashvlogs3601 10 місяців тому +1

      @@THISINDIAN i just have a wish aap jab bhi india aao mere se milna hi aap me kitne comments kia hu aapko

  • @abdullahsohail4898
    @abdullahsohail4898 10 місяців тому

    Well done slaute loves from pakistan❤❤❤