Hiiii 😗🫶🏾 how we feelin’? What we eatin’? 🍿Do you put a cap on what you do for someone you just started dating? Are certain things off limits if you’re casually dating? Let me know!
Absolutely! When you're casually dating, setting boundaries is super important. You need to figure out what you're comfortable with and let your partner know. While there's no set rulebook, some things to think about are: how much money you want to spend on dates or gifts, how much time you're cool with investing in the relationship, and how emotionally involved you want to get. The main thing is to be honest and communicate openly with your partner. Boundaries are healthy and help make dating a positive, fun experience!
You said it best Helen. Do it for experiences, even if things fall out between ya, you still have that experience in your memory. Life is all about experiences
I’d say that if you really like someone, SHOW THEM! The small gestures go a long way and create the foundation for the relationship should it go further. Don’t overplay your role especially since this is new, but don’t be small about it either. Life is short, have fun!
Exactly! I also think it’s better to show this side of who you really are, so that they can get an understanding of what they’re dealing with too. Living life with intention is key ✨
You’ll never regret showing up as your true self and being as authentic and genuine as possible (which in your case translates really well through your vlogs. I’m new to your channel, but really love the content so far 😊) So many of us are lonely and do not have the one person who we know will be there always. Even if always is a limited time. Show people how you feel. And tell them how you feel! ❤ Good luck!
I've been a FAN since the first day I was suggested to watch your videos. Your cinematic shots, yet because of the lens you use, it brings warmness to your content. LOVE THIS 🤩🙆🏽♀ And that Public Hotel shot?! WHEW
You should make merch saying “there’s someone else coming” u say it like every other time lowkey every time u get in an Uber/Lyft situation. Plus I feel like it encapsulates like the friend New York vibe of ur vids. Community ya know it giving one love. Lol I’m high. Luv ur shit 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾
I don’t think the matcha class and flowers is too much. That’s really cute. I like doing relationship type dates as first dates lowkey😭Like going glass blowing or going to a pottery shop. But that’s just me. If it doesn’t work out, oh well. I had fun anyways and that is always the goal.
excited for youuu and your date. about whether going all in or not, i mean does it matter? it’s all part of the experience. if i like the energy, i definitely go all in for my lovers. i try not to let my fear prevent me from sharing my love to connections i care about.
this! I was gonna leave a comment of my own but I'm with marie here!! do what makes you happy, the experiences and everything that comes with loving someone (or getting there) is the entire point! life is short so why not make the most of it while you can. The fact that these actions are coming from the heart is even better :') real lovers fr
Yes I agree! I feel like if you going back & forth with yourself on whether or not you should do something for someone then it’s time to take a step back & reevaluate what’s going on. But if it comes naturally, allow it flow! I love this ✨
Thank you! I literally search HIGH and LOW for music EVERYWHERE! Soundcloud & UA-cam mostly (for the mainstream songs). I also have a subscription with Epidemic Sounds that provides thousands of songs that I can use without getting any copyright claims. ALSO, since I’m now a UA-cam Partner, UA-cam has a wide range of songs that I can use for a cost or no price at all.
I think if you have avibe with that person than go all out. Do those little things that will make it feel like big things. That is so sweet and so thoughtful. I love what you said for the experience and to me its the thought that counts as so many people are selfish instead of selfless
@@gabbyosifo7914 lmaooo wait hold on now! Bc I knew someone would peep. But it’s not for that reason lol, I don’t like to take home the plastic bags that’s all lol
Your love for experiences and doing the things you love and doing things out of love is literally the whole point of life. You have a beautiful way of expressing your love, so why stop or limit yourself. Just listen to your own advice honestly. 🤍
I think def just do for people what you feel like you want to do for them. Downplaying it bcs you haven’t known them for a certain amount of time would not be true to yourself and whoever you hang out with you should be able to be true with
I agree. I am the same way and it don't matter with who. I love experiences & I feel like doing things for other people that they like regardless of how long I've been dating them, honestly opens up my life to new things! So why not enjoy making people happy & in the end if something doesn't work, you still may have found something you love doing! Your heart is pure, it's easy to give to others no matter the magnitude, friend, partner, etc! 🙂↔️
W Video as alwas Helen my wife and I Love your content it’s so organic and real your own style. We’re also from Brooklyn so it hit different for us. I wanted to know what camera do you use for your pictures that give it that vintage look. Keep growing sis and stay blessed❤.
I appreciate this! I love when people from Brooklyn comment on my videos lol so much love ✨💜 thank yall for tuning in! For this vlog specifically, I used fuji’s disposable film camera, you can get those at CVS or even amazon! In my earlier vlogs I used my Olympus Stylus film camera
Think your plans sound thoughtful and caring, maybe ask her, is there anything special that she’d like? Maybe make a homemade cake!😉❤️ Flowers were beautiful.
GO 10000% IN! i used to have a hard time in the past doing that with males... Now i have a WIFE and i undrstand you simply need someone who also does not mind being unhinged lmao
W Video as alwas Helen my wife and I Love your content it’s so organic and real your own style. We’re also from Brooklyn so it hit different for us. I wanted to know what camera do you use for your pictures that give it that vintage look. Keep growing sis and stay blessed❤.
Hiiii 😗🫶🏾 how we feelin’? What we eatin’? 🍿Do you put a cap on what you do for someone you just started dating? Are certain things off limits if you’re casually dating? Let me know!
Absolutely! When you're casually dating, setting boundaries is super important. You need to figure out what you're comfortable with and let your partner know.
While there's no set rulebook, some things to think about are: how much money you want to spend on dates or gifts, how much time you're cool with investing in the relationship, and how emotionally involved you want to get.
The main thing is to be honest and communicate openly with your partner. Boundaries are healthy and help make dating a positive, fun experience!
You said it best Helen. Do it for experiences, even if things fall out between ya, you still have that experience in your memory. Life is all about experiences
Right! When you lead with love & good intentions you can never lose!✨
I get a kick out of making someone feel special even if it doesn’t go anywhere 🤷🏽♀️ I think that’s a great idea.
Exactly & that’s also a result of how you treat and show up for yourself! 💜
@@Whatthehelen_ speakkk 🫰🏿🫰🏿🫰🏿🫰🏿
the film pics are so cute. I love seeing them.
they’re so nostalgic 🥹
I’d say that if you really like someone, SHOW THEM! The small gestures go a long way and create the foundation for the relationship should it go further. Don’t overplay your role especially since this is new, but don’t be small about it either. Life is short, have fun!
Exactly! I also think it’s better to show this side of who you really are, so that they can get an understanding of what they’re dealing with too. Living life with intention is key ✨
You’ll never regret showing up as your true self and being as authentic and genuine as possible (which in your case translates really well through your vlogs. I’m new to your channel, but really love the content so far 😊) So many of us are lonely and do not have the one person who we know will be there always. Even if always is a limited time. Show people how you feel. And tell them how you feel! ❤ Good luck!
My mans never at the uber on time. Every time you like “there’s someone else coming” lmao 😂
Lmao bruh even when I ask him if he’s ready BEFORE calling the uber, he still never behind me 😭
Helen posted EVERYBODY MAKE SOME NOISEEE🎉🎉🎉
AHHHHHHHHH 😭✨🥹💜🫶🏾
Loved watching the Friendsgiving and hearing about your dating experiences
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I've been a FAN since the first day I was suggested to watch your videos. Your cinematic shots, yet because of the lens you use, it brings warmness to your content. LOVE THIS 🤩🙆🏽♀ And that Public Hotel shot?! WHEW
Thank you for the support, it really means a lot 🥹💜🫶🏾
You should make merch saying “there’s someone else coming” u say it like every other time lowkey every time u get in an Uber/Lyft situation. Plus I feel like it encapsulates like the friend New York vibe of ur vids. Community ya know it giving one love. Lol I’m high. Luv ur shit 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾
@@niacunningham7330 lmaooo this is hilarious! He’s literally never right behind me 😭 that’s a cute idea though! Thank you 🫶🏾✨
Your spotify or apple music playlist would mean the world rn😇
I do have a spotify playlist(in the description) but I think I’ll make another one with all the songs from my vlogs.
Vibes, vibes…. Vibes all around !! I love it. 😊
thank u 🫶🏾✨
I don’t think the matcha class and flowers is too much. That’s really cute. I like doing relationship type dates as first dates lowkey😭Like going glass blowing or going to a pottery shop. But that’s just me. If it doesn’t work out, oh well. I had fun anyways and that is always the goal.
Right! Like let’s do something fun & adventurous lol!
excited for youuu and your date. about whether going all in or not, i mean does it matter? it’s all part of the experience. if i like the energy, i definitely go all in for my lovers. i try not to let my fear prevent me from sharing my love to connections i care about.
this! I was gonna leave a comment of my own but I'm with marie here!! do what makes you happy, the experiences and everything that comes with loving someone (or getting there) is the entire point! life is short so why not make the most of it while you can. The fact that these actions are coming from the heart is even better :') real lovers fr
Yes I agree! I feel like if you going back & forth with yourself on whether or not you should do something for someone then it’s time to take a step back & reevaluate what’s going on. But if it comes naturally, allow it flow! I love this ✨
Your music selections are always so good! How are you able to find your songs for your videos??
Thank you! I literally search HIGH and LOW for music EVERYWHERE! Soundcloud & UA-cam mostly (for the mainstream songs). I also have a subscription with Epidemic Sounds that provides thousands of songs that I can use without getting any copyright claims. ALSO, since I’m now a UA-cam Partner, UA-cam has a wide range of songs that I can use for a cost or no price at all.
I think if you have avibe with that person than go all out. Do those little things that will make it feel like big things. That is so sweet and so thoughtful. I love what you said for the experience and to me its the thought that counts as so many people are selfish instead of selfless
8:56 🫡
Awwww love this Helen!!!! Life all about experiences 100%
you get it ✨
I knew you didn’t grocery shop often when you just put the veggies in the cart w/o baggin em 😅😂
@@gabbyosifo7914 lmaooo wait hold on now! Bc I knew someone would peep. But it’s not for that reason lol, I don’t like to take home the plastic bags that’s all lol
@ naw that’s real! i usually grab a bunch of them to use when i take my dog on a walk. otherwise i wouldn’t have noticed lol
It’s a good day❤. Helen posted
you know the vibes 🙂↕️ thanks for tuning in ✨🫶🏾
You always the first one to get into the uber😅and someone is always coming😂
Lmaoooooo there’s always something he’s searching for when it’s time to get out the house
Your love for experiences and doing the things you love and doing things out of love is literally the whole point of life. You have a beautiful way of expressing your love, so why stop or limit yourself. Just listen to your own advice honestly. 🤍
Exactly! You’re so right, that’s really the whole point! ✨
I think def just do for people what you feel like you want to do for them. Downplaying it bcs you haven’t known them for a certain amount of time would not be true to yourself and whoever you hang out with you should be able to be true with
Exactly! No point in downplaying anything, stick to what comes naturally!
Lovely as always! 🥹
Thank you Fonso 🫶🏾💜
I say do what you feel is right! bump what anyone thinks. aint nothing wrong with showing that you care!
Who was that music at the 2:42 mark, I love her voice.
@@simplyphillipbrown chaka khan- night moods
I agree. I am the same way and it don't matter with who. I love experiences & I feel like doing things for other people that they like regardless of how long I've been dating them, honestly opens up my life to new things! So why not enjoy making people happy & in the end if something doesn't work, you still may have found something you love doing! Your heart is pure, it's easy to give to others no matter the magnitude, friend, partner, etc! 🙂↔️
Exactly! This benefits both of us at the end of the day too! I feel like when you lead with good intention it’s never really a bad experience
W Video as alwas Helen my wife and I Love your content it’s so organic and real your own style. We’re also from Brooklyn so it hit different for us. I wanted to know what camera do you use for your pictures that give it that vintage look. Keep growing sis and stay blessed❤.
I appreciate this! I love when people from Brooklyn comment on my videos lol so much love ✨💜 thank yall for tuning in! For this vlog specifically, I used fuji’s disposable film camera, you can get those at CVS or even amazon! In my earlier vlogs I used my Olympus Stylus film camera
@ thank you Helen I appreciate the reply stay blessed sis and keep doing your thing we’re looking forward to seeing your next project ❤️.
Where was that purple spot with all the books surrounding you 👀👀
a reading room at my job
Think your plans sound thoughtful and caring, maybe ask her, is there anything special that she’d like? Maybe make a homemade cake!😉❤️
Flowers were beautiful.
I wish I could bake! Lol that’s cute though. Thank you ✨🫶🏾💜
I don't think it's unhinged, I'm the same way haha
What song is that at 2min?
@@saintflite chaka khan- night moods
I be shopping at the same grocery store
Lol no wayyy
You in love my nigga and that’s okay🖤
Damnnn girlll are you a Libra?! Coz I’m literally the same - go big or go home :’)
Lmaoo I am 😭
Nahh 😂 $10 for butter ? Nahh come to the hood that joint would be $4-5
This was the hood! Lmao thats the problem
@ 😂 oh then that must be a different type of hood cause … huhh💀💀
GO 10000% IN! i used to have a hard time in the past doing that with males... Now i have a WIFE and i undrstand you simply need someone who also does not mind being unhinged lmao
public better pay for those frames tho 😮
Lol no seriously! Finding someone who can match the unhinged energy is top tier lol because yes let’s do this! 🥹
6:11 this is a lovely take on dating. It’s very NB to operate in this way regardless of the outcome🥹✨💞
Friend this was so romantic you did a great job for someone you're dating. 💪🏾👥👏🏾🫶🏾🍾🥂🎉
thank you 🥹🫶🏾
W Video as alwas Helen my wife and I Love your content it’s so organic and real your own style. We’re also from Brooklyn so it hit different for us. I wanted to know what camera do you use for your pictures that give it that vintage look. Keep growing sis and stay blessed❤.