Sleeping With The Enemy: Domestic Violence (1991)

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  • @JB-pk4ck
    @JB-pk4ck Рік тому +91

    The worst thing if you grow up with this, Life is danger, it becomes almost impossible to feel joy, even after the threat has long gone.

    • @giantleprechaun2350
      @giantleprechaun2350 Рік тому +1

      Get over it

    • @aliezahjuarez1212
      @aliezahjuarez1212 Рік тому +5

      You have to get over it and be strong. Trauma may be trauma, but you don't help yourself how you gonna survive

    • @giantleprechaun2350
      @giantleprechaun2350 Рік тому

      @@aliezahjuarez1212 Yeah

    • @JB-pk4ck
      @JB-pk4ck Рік тому +5

      ​@@giantleprechaun2350thanks for the platitude. My comment was general. Any trauma is surmountable , just sometimes people need help. Comments like these come from people who have had very little to deal or are cold and unfeeling. .

    • @JB-pk4ck
      @JB-pk4ck Рік тому +3

      It's not always a matter of being strong, it's knowing the way. At 51 I've survived quite well considering my trauma began with abduction and attempted murder when I was 3 . 😢

  • @LoveHandle4890
    @LoveHandle4890 Рік тому +60

    One of the greatest films of all time that has stood the test of time and always will.

    • @DragonHeart613
      @DragonHeart613 5 місяців тому +3

      Agreed. One of Julia Roberts' very best films.

  • @danacarter9147
    @danacarter9147 3 місяці тому +7

    That scene is all the more traumatizing.

  • @fgatti78
    @fgatti78 Рік тому +104

    He is a monster

    • @maxpower252
      @maxpower252 Рік тому +1

      Movie

    • @jonathanorozco8075
      @jonathanorozco8075 7 місяців тому

      ​@@giantleprechaun2350
      Yes is a monster, but with a dangerous man
      He is nothing is a bug

    • @giantleprechaun2350
      @giantleprechaun2350 7 місяців тому +1

      @@jonathanorozco8075 He just has anger management and insecurity issues

    • @microwavedmetal
      @microwavedmetal 5 місяців тому +1

      And she’s a cheater both of them are disgusting

    • @giantleprechaun2350
      @giantleprechaun2350 5 місяців тому +1

      @@microwavedmetal Yeah. She emotionally cheated on him!

  • @aliezahjuarez1212
    @aliezahjuarez1212 Рік тому +54

    I remember my first boyfriend and he would blame me for things I didn't understand, so he would walk away and take his anger on me. I was just being a teenager and having some fun. There are times I needed his help but he would be irritated or angry so I just shut up and do it myself back in school. Then 5 years later of being together he cheated on me because I was focusing on myself with school. I still remember he showed up wrapped his arm around her shoulder who was also my friend and kissed her in front of me. That broke me deep.
    I'm 23 now and love is scary but the memories we shared is what kept us going

    • @ASMRyouVEGANyet
      @ASMRyouVEGANyet Рік тому +12

      I've been there. Get therapy. It will change your life. Also, I fully believe teenagers should not be having serious relationships. Our brains are not fully developed until age 25. We should not be forming these tight bonds with anyone but ourselves. We need to learn who we are before getting into serious relationships.

    • @giantleprechaun2350
      @giantleprechaun2350 Рік тому +3

      What do you mean by you just being a teenager and having some fun?

    • @Jeff-fu8is
      @Jeff-fu8is 10 місяців тому +4

      He is the definition of an abusive husband

    • @agus.tkhfjkn777
      @agus.tkhfjkn777 4 місяці тому +2

      Eso no es amor. Eso es manipulación psicopatica, amor es otra cosa

    • @bgos4727
      @bgos4727 2 місяці тому

      So sorry that happened to you

  • @LoveHandle4890
    @LoveHandle4890 Рік тому +49

    One of the most underrated films of all time.

  • @LoveHandle4890
    @LoveHandle4890 Рік тому +36

    He would’ve made a perfect Ted Bundy tbh.

  • @gracebenjamin5548
    @gracebenjamin5548 Рік тому +44

    He's a horrible man

  • @blackbelle6322
    @blackbelle6322 10 місяців тому +28

    Oh hell no! My ex tried to pull some abusive BS with me and I told him “Someone is gonna die today MF’r, either it’s gonna be you or me and I already got right with Jesus so I suggest you do too cause it’s gonna go down right now”! It got rough but he never touched me again. Needless to say it was over after that.

    • @giantleprechaun2350
      @giantleprechaun2350 8 місяців тому +4

      What did he try to do? What happened?

    • @catholicfemininity2126
      @catholicfemininity2126 4 місяці тому +2

      God bless you for saying that. So cool. I'd probably say the same thing, but different. AT least I hope I would if I was ever in that situation. But I ain't letting someone do that to me without a fight.

    • @fairisfair2986
      @fairisfair2986 4 дні тому

      😅😅😅😅 dang right

  • @EdwardC.WilliamsII
    @EdwardC.WilliamsII 7 місяців тому +11

    Julia Roberts best role in my honest opinion

  • @abeltesfaye_
    @abeltesfaye_ 8 місяців тому +16

    I feel bad for this actor bc he scares the hell out of me and I don't trust him!!! 😭 I can't imagine how many people are genuinely terrified of this man bc of this movie haha

    • @wonjubhoy
      @wonjubhoy 8 місяців тому

      He was an IRA man in patriot games too, even more reason to be scared of him.😂

    • @vinaymulukutla358
      @vinaymulukutla358 4 місяці тому

      Patrick was always great at playing bad guys. He's 6'3'' and has a very sinister gaze.

    • @classicalmusic1175
      @classicalmusic1175 2 місяці тому +2

      He's a really nice guy in real life. I have met him.

    • @vinaymulukutla358
      @vinaymulukutla358 2 місяці тому +1

      @@wonjubhoy He also plays a very heroic and intrepid mountain explorer from history in the movie Mountains of the Moon and Robin Hood in a British adaptation of it which also features a then unknown Uma Thurman. A highly talented actor can play any character both good and bad.

    • @moubhattacharyay6891
      @moubhattacharyay6891 26 днів тому

      That's The Victory Of An Artist.. They're ALWAYS LIVE & LARGER THAN LYF BY PLAYING THEIR CHARACTERS REMARKABLE.. 😊

  • @JohnWest-zq5gs
    @JohnWest-zq5gs 5 місяців тому +7

    My sister was in a relationship like that well me and my six brothers showed up one night and took her out of there we never told him we were coming just showed up

    • @danacarter9147
      @danacarter9147 3 місяці тому +3

      Your sister is so lucky to have heroic brothers like you coming to her aid, God bless your hearts🙏👍💛

    • @JohnWest-zq5gs
      @JohnWest-zq5gs 3 місяці тому +1

      @@danacarter9147 thank you

  • @victoruribe2465
    @victoruribe2465 8 місяців тому +12

    He was a sadist.

  • @dereksherinian6631
    @dereksherinian6631 Рік тому +10

    “Just smell the bread..”

    • @giantleprechaun2350
      @giantleprechaun2350 11 місяців тому +1

      It smells burned lol

    • @MadameHemlock
      @MadameHemlock 4 місяці тому +1

      I used to think he said breath 😂 I always thought "why would she want to smell your nasty ass breath?" Either breath or bread it's kinda weird and random to say

    • @LaraRoxx1980
      @LaraRoxx1980 4 місяці тому +2

      She’s baking the herb bread he likes so much .

    • @shoshanamichaelia9739
      @shoshanamichaelia9739 3 місяці тому +1

      Spoiler supper😂

    • @dereksherinian6631
      @dereksherinian6631 3 місяці тому

      @@shoshanamichaelia9739 our lovely supper

  • @carolinewolf565
    @carolinewolf565 2 місяці тому +2

    So true and equally creepy! What a world we live in

  • @Muffinga
    @Muffinga Рік тому +13

    He is really worried about that beautiful supper meanwhile he had no qualms over kicking his wife who was already on the floor.

    • @giantleprechaun2350
      @giantleprechaun2350 11 місяців тому +2

      He had to eat I guess😅

    • @vinaymulukutla358
      @vinaymulukutla358 4 місяці тому +2

      No supper for him at the end of the day though. She ''drowned''

    • @tenderpawsm473
      @tenderpawsm473 Місяць тому +2

      Imagine what would have happened if she had said, "It's your turn to cook. Your arms aren't broken." How would THAT have gone?

  • @chrishouston3566
    @chrishouston3566 4 місяці тому +2

    Sometimes when you marry purely for money, you pay your half of things in other ways

  • @ravishankarraju9358
    @ravishankarraju9358 15 днів тому +1

    Wow 😂😂😂

  • @shiningstone6771
    @shiningstone6771 8 місяців тому +7

    Just imagine the smell from him🤢

    • @tenderpawsm473
      @tenderpawsm473 Місяць тому +1

      Ben looked smelly. That isn't to say he wasn't handsome, but the two aren't mutually exclusive.

  • @williedaniel6194
    @williedaniel6194 4 місяці тому +4

    Sleeping with the enemy 😴

  • @Pacmogtro
    @Pacmogtro 5 місяців тому

    He doesn't seem capable of having a perhaps angry discussion on her "mistakes". He just whacks her, without getting any context at all that she is up to "no good".

    • @tenderpawsm473
      @tenderpawsm473 Місяць тому

      Gimmie a break. She was looking out the window. It's not like she put out for the doctor.

  • @HeidiRobinson-ft7vl
    @HeidiRobinson-ft7vl 13 днів тому

    What made him into that monster? She didn't deserve his abusive behaviors towards her. I've been involved with abusive men like him. My parents also abused me. I'm still healing from it to this day at 46. Faith is the evidence of things unseen and the substance of things hoped for. Every knee will bow and every tongue will confess that Jesus Christ is Lord.

  • @M-ps6ve
    @M-ps6ve Рік тому +5

    Why does she fall 10 seconds after he hits her

  • @spaceballs44
    @spaceballs44 Рік тому +4

    I always wonder how the actor feels after the scene is over? If there was a role and I was offended to try a reading or to get the part as the abuser I wouldn’t want to do it. If I was financially secured and offered roles in other work I wouldn’t do it, it would be a pass for me. But if I owed a lot in taxes had to keep the lights on and had to pay my publicist to get the part then I’d do it cause I had to.

  • @srtjhsrzdfhkgdf9961
    @srtjhsrzdfhkgdf9961 5 місяців тому

    好きな映画です

  • @MatthewRoby-z3s
    @MatthewRoby-z3s 4 місяці тому +4

    I hate him

    • @talkfan
      @talkfan 4 місяці тому

      He’s an actor and it’s a movie you ding bat

    • @danacarter9147
      @danacarter9147 3 місяці тому +1

      Same here.

    • @tenderpawsm473
      @tenderpawsm473 Місяць тому +1

      Me three.

    • @ellebee690
      @ellebee690 Місяць тому +1

      We're supposed to, I believe.

    • @moubhattacharyay6891
      @moubhattacharyay6891 26 днів тому

      Haha.. That's The Victory Of That Actor He Played That Nasty Character..
      He Performed Soo DAMN WELL His Role That We Viewers Giving Him Rewards By Spitting On Him & Showing Our Hatesss Towards Him..
      IT'S HIS WIN AS AN ACTOR..😊
      Bt, The Thing's..In Real World Alots Of Narcissists Lyk This Character Is Literally Miserable For Their Own & Also Making The Living Hell For Their Partners / Surrounding Lyfs..
      MONSTERS ARE REAL & YOU SHOULD SAVE UR HATERES FOR THEM IN REAL LYF ALSO BE ASSURE NVR FALL IN ❤ WTH THEM.. LOL!

  • @MrRub25
    @MrRub25 19 днів тому

    Sleeping with a bastard

  • @jonjordan4040
    @jonjordan4040 2 місяці тому

    Based

  • @9418
    @9418 Рік тому +5

    0:14

  • @NWAWskeptic
    @NWAWskeptic 11 місяців тому +6

    Republicans vision for America and what makes a “good” wife.

    • @giantleprechaun2350
      @giantleprechaun2350 11 місяців тому +1

      😅

    • @MichaelSmith-hk2eu
      @MichaelSmith-hk2eu 6 місяців тому +1

      Absolutely

    • @finster1968
      @finster1968 4 місяці тому +2

      No, this is what makes a good husband. One who can turn a bad wife into a good one.

    • @MichaelSmith-hk2eu
      @MichaelSmith-hk2eu 4 місяці тому +2

      He tuned her up nicely. She needs to listen better that’s for sure.

    • @tenderpawsm473
      @tenderpawsm473 Місяць тому +1

      Thankfully, no children were involved. Imagine a child witnessing this horrid scene?

  • @MrBoBoTom
    @MrBoBoTom Рік тому +8

    He sure showed her!

  • @dawnofthedelts
    @dawnofthedelts 27 днів тому

    Carbs are bad for you.

  • @margheritaguazzotti1562
    @margheritaguazzotti1562 3 місяці тому

    Il nem😢 della droga Pfizer lyrica simil influenza muscolare CSM ottobre

  • @giantleprechaun2350
    @giantleprechaun2350 Рік тому +1

    Why was she crying?

  • @virginianeil6172
    @virginianeil6172 Рік тому +17

    Jealous obsessive control freak , reminds me so much of my ex , this scene is horrible to watch 🫣😢😩

  • @unburningflame
    @unburningflame Рік тому +7

    That'll teach her to look out of windows again. 🪟