After a long day of praying for the ability to let go, this came at the very exact moment I knew I was letting go of someone very special to me. It was a gift. We are in this together and we're never alone. Thank you, thank you so much for this beautiful moment.
i struggle with letting go. my wounded child constantly feels not good enough and not worthy. she wants validation and love so desperately. i keep looking for this love outside of myself and keep getting even more hurt. it is so hard to stop these habits.
Incredible...it took this man's suffering and practice to discover this question within himself. The question and answer resonated with me deeply and helped me heal. Thank you!
Aww this is so beautiful. Amazing how the work transforms us. I love how aware Scott is of what is happening for him. Can completely relate to this. I've been searching for love especially romantic love mt whole life. I find it quite regularly but it always ends... It's my most painful lesson. I just want someone to accept me and keep loving me... I realise that person is myself. And it seems the more work I put in the harder the lessons are. I keep attracting people more wounded than myself and having to let them go 💖🙏
Très émue par ce témoignage. Beaucoup de personnes vivent cette expérience mais Scott a eu le courage de l’exposer avec franchise, lucidité et simplicité . Merci Scott 🌷🙏 Merci pour la sagesse et bienveillance de vos réponses avec une touche d’humour .😊 💝🙏
This is a lovely and powerful post and one I think so many of us share with Scott for different reasons with different levels of impact on ourselves. Really lovely post, thank you for your strength in sharing your vulnerability. Indeed nearly all of us are wounded children inside. Lovely advice and the biggest thing to do is to talk, talk and talk as it helps you and helps others to open up and realise its not just them that are struggling. I hope your in a better place now Scott where ever that may be and what ever you are doing. Big love and deep joy 🙏
I am so grateful for the humility and courage of this man to share his little child within. I have carried along my little child story all my life. And when the brother says, we hold on - tell another story I agree. At times I feel this non-self relatedness and there is no woundedness. In romantic/intimate relationships here is where I have found myself having to pass through all of the painful emotions from my childhood. I always find myself abandoned/neglected/not worthy/unloved. I wonder if it is better I focus my energy on practice and renunciate these kinds of relationships? I need the strength of practice to renunciate/live a life of celibacy. I believe I will have to keep on going through them until I do, finally let go. And if I don't renunciate - how do I go about causing as little harm as I can? in this process?
When people say goodbye to me That means that I can’t love them And they are leaving because I haven’t been able to love them This expresses so precisely why I feel the pain of separation and letting go
Did anybody else think the second monk subtly told Scott to move on from plum village at 10:50, especially taking into consideration how he later spoke about changing his story. I totally agree with the second monk, Scott needs to change his story and move on, from what the second monk said, he seems to have gone through the transformation he needed. He spent several years working on his 5 years old self, but we remain 5 years old for only one year. I hope Scott is well. May all beings be well :)
Thanks for the q&a. Tbh, I think it might be somewhat clearer to use less words, and choose them more carefully, mindfully (in the second part of the answer). For me, I got lost with the speed, all the compliments made and referrals to mother, father, mother earth, etc, and little explanation for the audience. Anyway, good vibes, thanks for your wonderful channel💛
Basis of Budhism is reincarnation and law of karma . The necessity of Budhism is impermanence sufferings and concept of no soul . Budhism guide us to stay in human world and heavens until final stage is attained 🙏🙏🙏
Easy,…have your voicemail greeting as follows: “Hi, thanks for calling. I’ve decided to make some changes, please feel free to leave a message but note: if I don’t call you back,..it means you are one of those changes,..goodbye”
After a long day of praying for the ability to let go, this came at the very exact moment I knew I was letting go of someone very special to me. It was a gift. We are in this together and we're never alone. Thank you, thank you so much for this beautiful moment.
This is such a beautiful video. I hope Scott knows how much good he did to the world through his vulnerability and openness.
I want to love freely too without making people feeling caught or me feeling caught. Thank you for sharing
i struggle with letting go. my wounded child constantly feels not good enough and not worthy. she wants validation and love so desperately. i keep looking for this love outside of myself and keep getting even more hurt. it is so hard to stop these habits.
I could have written all of this myself. Yes, it’s hard to change all of this.
I can relate wholly to Scott. May we find refuge in ourselves and learn to let go. 🙏.
Incredible...it took this man's suffering and practice to discover this question within himself. The question and answer resonated with me deeply and helped me heal. Thank you!
Yes me too 💖
Thankyou Scott for asking the question. I see the needy in me. 🙏
This was beautiful. I needed this. Letting go is necessary for growth for yourself and others. Holding on to stories only hurt us
Thank you for sharing. Love you Scott. You're a beautiful soul❤
This one makes me cry.
Me too...
@@isabellefaubert940 me too, makes you want to put your arms around him and comfort him.
@@gerrievanderlee4701 yes and we'd all cry together really hard. And then we would be sorted 💕💕💕💕💕
@@isabellefaubert940 are you sarcastic?
@@gerrievanderlee4701 sometimes yes (in life) but not with what I just wrote. I feel like that at the moment...
Aww this is so beautiful. Amazing how the work transforms us. I love how aware Scott is of what is happening for him. Can completely relate to this. I've been searching for love especially romantic love mt whole life. I find it quite regularly but it always ends... It's my most painful lesson. I just want someone to accept me and keep loving me... I realise that person is myself. And it seems the more work I put in the harder the lessons are. I keep attracting people more wounded than myself and having to let them go 💖🙏
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Such a blessing that I found this video🙏🏻
Yes...freedom to go or to stay. Thank you to everyone making me feel that way. ❤
Thank you for sharing, thank you for allowing your vulnerability, thank you for the teaching.
What a dear man asking the question. So blessed to find this video. Truly awesome🌿
Congratulations, Scott. What a transformation, mate. That is the result of decades of intense psychotherapy with the best practitioners. Very cool.
Learn to tell a new story...I needed to hear this. ❤👏
This video is one of my favorite ones
Me too it made me cry and feel such love
Dear thay, dear sangha and all other living beings, thank U for Sharing this with US. 🙏
Très émue par ce témoignage. Beaucoup de personnes vivent cette expérience mais Scott a eu le courage de l’exposer avec franchise, lucidité et simplicité . Merci Scott 🌷🙏
Merci pour la sagesse et bienveillance de vos réponses avec une touche d’humour .😊 💝🙏
This is a lovely and powerful post and one I think so many of us share with Scott for different reasons with different levels of impact on ourselves. Really lovely post, thank you for your strength in sharing your vulnerability. Indeed nearly all of us are wounded children inside. Lovely advice and the biggest thing to do is to talk, talk and talk as it helps you and helps others to open up and realise its not just them that are struggling. I hope your in a better place now Scott where ever that may be and what ever you are doing. Big love and deep joy 🙏
Amazingly beautiful talks. ❤️💗❤️💗 I have accepted the fact my mom’s passing 13 years ago painfully, I am still missing my mom every day. 😢
🧡 Lovely sweet humble man. Thank you to all who spoke. 🧡 When you’re forced to let go, you have to let go. You have no other choice. 🧡
Yes..it’s a beautiful sharing..thanks Scott..u have so much love in u
I am so grateful for the humility and courage of this man to share his little child within. I have carried along my little child story all my life. And when the brother says, we hold on - tell another story I agree. At times I feel this non-self relatedness and there is no woundedness. In romantic/intimate relationships here is where I have found myself having to pass through all of the painful emotions from my childhood. I always find myself abandoned/neglected/not worthy/unloved. I wonder if it is better I focus my energy on practice and renunciate these kinds of relationships? I need the strength of practice to renunciate/live a life of celibacy. I believe I will have to keep on going through them until I do, finally let go. And if I don't renunciate - how do I go about causing as little harm as I can? in this process?
Such a beautiful video. May we all learn to truly love and accept ourselves. May peace and love prevail on earth.
Beautiful story from Scott. Wonderful sharing & teaching from Brother & Sister. Thank you so much
I am so grateful to have heard this. Thank you🙏🏽
Really touched by this. Thank you beautiful souls.
We are all ONE. Thank you 🙏
Very good question and wise answers! Very uplifting!
how fortunate for him to be there
I’m so glad I’ve made it here.
When people say goodbye to me
That means that I can’t love them
And they are leaving because I haven’t been able to love them
This expresses so precisely why I feel the pain of separation and letting go
This is so beautiful sharing, thank you! Thank you Scott for being so brave to show your vulnerability.
So moving. Scott, you’ve put in the work and you’re awesome. Thank you for sharing ❤️🙏
Thank you Scott for bringing this subject up!
Powerful teaching ,thanks to you Scott,be blessed .love yourself!
A little attachment is ok :D
Thank you all so much for this beautiful talk! Felt it deeply
Did anybody else think the second monk subtly told Scott to move on from plum village at 10:50, especially taking into consideration how he later spoke about changing his story. I totally agree with the second monk, Scott needs to change his story and move on, from what the second monk said, he seems to have gone through the transformation he needed. He spent several years working on his 5 years old self, but we remain 5 years old for only one year. I hope Scott is well. May all beings be well :)
I have similar feeling...
Such an important topic...
Here is difficult in not only to say goodbye, but after to be open for saying Hello
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Thank you so much for this. I wept.
Scott, Thank you for being brave and vulnerable in asking this question. May I ask who is answering the question?
Dear Melissa, it's Dharma teacher Sister Tuệ Nghiêm plumvillage.org/monastics/dharma-teachers/sr-tue-nghiem/ 🙏
Beautiful conversation..
What a great video
What a beautiful and precious sharing, what wonderful answers, thank you 💖
Wow, the question's so amazingly put that it seems to answer itself :O
Thanks for the q&a.
Tbh, I think it might be somewhat clearer to use less words, and choose them more carefully, mindfully (in the second part of the answer).
For me, I got lost with the speed, all the compliments made and referrals to mother, father, mother earth, etc, and little explanation for the audience.
Anyway, good vibes, thanks for your wonderful channel💛
take care of yourself, Scott!
Ich bedanke mich bei euch allen von ❤
Hermoso video, cómo está hoy Scott? Se nota su belleza interior. Graciass
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Where is plum village location
France
Thanks
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Basis of Budhism is reincarnation and law of karma . The necessity of Budhism is impermanence sufferings and concept of no soul . Budhism guide us to stay in human world and heavens until final stage is attained 🙏🙏🙏
That was beautiful but happy farm sounds a bit like a cult. Do you guys grow your own food there?
Seems a bit like it. But people are free to leave as I understand it, which makes it not a cult.
Easy,…have your voicemail greeting as follows:
“Hi, thanks for calling. I’ve decided to make some changes, please feel free to leave a message but note: if I don’t call you back,..it means you are one of those changes,..goodbye”
It is painful to see so much mental illness,…may God’s Grace somehow find you and remove you from this false narrative and false doctrine
Sister ngieu tu,love to you.sympatetic face,lovely