Ren - Su!cIde (Rock Artist Reaction)

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  • @tundiel
    @tundiel Рік тому +221

    I think everyone who hears this wants to give Ren a hug. I only 'found' Ren in March, but it's been a beautiful thing to be a part of the growing community of fans and reactors who have embraced everything that Ren does, and to know that Ren SEES all this love, and encouragement for him. ❤

    • @LeeannG
      @LeeannG Рік тому +19

      He was on twitch today and wants everyone to know he’s okay. He wanted to check in with his fans tho to make sure WE were okay, since he knew the song might stir up some stuff. The stream started out with him really making his fans feel supported and it ended in an argument about how many potatoes he could hold at once. He said over 30, but I think he’s full of it 😂😂

    • @tundiel
      @tundiel Рік тому +9

      @@LeeannG I haven't laughed so much in a long while. Flipping hilarious, with lots of running jokes going right the way through. I wonder if Cillian is going to get bombarded 🤣🤣🤣

    • @LeeannG
      @LeeannG Рік тому +8

      @@tundiel I know! It was probably one of the best song release streams I’ve ever seen. Such a good vibe. I like what he said too about grief, about how it doesn’t really hurt less but the intervals that it consume you get farther and farther apart.

    • @tundiel
      @tundiel Рік тому +6

      @LeeannG yeah, some wise little nuggets from Ren as is usual, but mixed in with some much needed laughter and absurdity. Everything in balance 😉

  • @thomasgoldschmidt298
    @thomasgoldschmidt298 Рік тому +100

    Only Ren can address such sensitive topics in this meaningful and healing way.
    He draws you in and then hits you straight into the heart ❤.

  • @brandimantel5987
    @brandimantel5987 Рік тому +82

    “I feel blessed to just be alive at the same time as this guy” I had this exact thought yesterday!! Glad I’m not the only one that feels this way. Ren makes my heart ache, like literal chest pain. Great reaction ❤

  • @stopdropnroll
    @stopdropnroll Рік тому +35

    The courageous and non conforming powerful Ren. He hasn't planned any of this, it is just purely the result of authenticity pouring out of the man. To take a taboo and difficult word such as suicide and repeat it over and over again in such a catchy melody is part of the magic. Normalising it then surround it with brilliant lyrics and finish it off with his own heart wrenching vulnerable lived trauma. We are witnessing a break through moment through this lad. Powerful powerful Ren. Stay the course mate, stay unaffected by the noise that's coming. Stay away from legacy media and the lure of new media. Stay away from shiny things, you are the shiny thing.

    • @Silkytoaster
      @Silkytoaster Рік тому +3

      I hope we protect Ren - “ stay unaffected by the noise that’s coming …stay away from shiny things “- your words are so true . If you watch Uncle MOMO - he knows REN’s work and was the first person to do a reaction to Hi Ren - and spoke directly to Ren - that he will be great but he needs to prepare for what that brings - it was a prophesy - Ren has become great .

  • @kevinodell8261
    @kevinodell8261 Рік тому +46

    REN is brilliant he challenges everything with his music. THIS IS A TOUGH ONE.
    REN deserves so much more coverage.
    NOTHING DISAPPOINTS

  • @Shiroar
    @Shiroar Рік тому +26

    You are right, the chorus is catchy AF. Ren is doing beautiful and important things with his art by leading the way in voicing things we don’t talk about enough. But not only is he getting us talking about suicide, he is making us sing it too 😅
    The more recent addition of the ending part really completed the song. And made it utterly heart wrenching 😢 What a beautiful way of putting it into words and music. We definitely need Ren. He is making thousands of people cry with him and wanting to give him a hug. Man is something very special.

  • @highlightshadow
    @highlightshadow 3 місяці тому +2

    The line "i miss missing that" ---- it's so utterly true ---- whether depression or similar, it robs you of the want to do thing --- things you used to miss, you stop missing. You become isolated and numb and just want something to happen to you cos you're too scared to do it yourself

  • @ElWray8
    @ElWray8 Рік тому +16

    R.I.P. Joe. You were definitely loved.

  • @andiereds73
    @andiereds73 Рік тому +13

    I lost my 25 year old son to cancer last year... I still can't find the words to describe how it feels... The fact that I knew he was going to die... The fact that he died 11000 kilometers away from me... The fact that he is GONE... We need to talk about death in all its forms, we need to break the taboo, death happens, we need to talk about it ❤

    • @LetsGoEers3
      @LetsGoEers3 27 днів тому

      I’m so sorry about what you and you Have suffered through!! So sorry. But, And Ren, through us, and this reactor and fellow RENegades, we are hear fir you you!
      I hope to God that you are feeling better than 1 yr ago, but I would guess that’s not possible, a year later
      I hope peace somehow finds you and you share your story over and over til it starts to help! It’s gonna help us. I pray it helps you also!
      Take care!

  • @alexiaspaedt-mcintosh5311
    @alexiaspaedt-mcintosh5311 Рік тому +53

    Song is so powerful and it ripped my heart out too and shredded it. Tears during and every reaction since too. I just want to hug Ren. He can channel such pain into such a force. RIP Joe... I can see how much you are loved.

  • @lillyvanpug
    @lillyvanpug Рік тому +16

    Nobody was reafy for this. No matter how much we thought we were!
    And that's okay. Ren has broken a taboo with this and opened up a space for conversation of grief, guilt, anger, pain and despair 🪽🪽🪽

  • @Jos-mc8lx
    @Jos-mc8lx Рік тому +10

    Ren is the GOAT= Approved ! I can't imagine my life without this man's music anymore ! 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @vickihammond5576
    @vickihammond5576 Рік тому +16

    First of all I love this song and the video on so many levels. For me the first part of the video looks at all the reasons someone might be feeling when contemplating suicide. The gray and blurry background, the disjointed and disturbing images of REN. It all works to create a feeling of being alone in a very bleak and harsh vision of the self and the world….it feels disconnected and hopeless. The words he raps are all pain and anguish and yet despite all of this he knows that there may only be darkness and nothingness when you fall through the cracks to the other side….so it’s never the right time for suicide.
    In the second part of the video the background is much lighter but the face and words REN speaks are all about the hurt and guilt suicide creates for those who are left behind. Not only dose he miss his friend but he also misses the part of his life and himself that died with his brother.
    The take away message for me; no matter how painful and hard life is their is always the possibility for things to get better….life is fragile but as long as there is life their is hope. If your are having suicidal thoughts hold on, reach out for help and support. As a nurse and as someone dealing with depression I know that the mental health sector needs reform. We need to get away from the almost total reliance on pharmaceuticals. More holistic ways of helping people are desperately needed. Suicide, we don’t like to think about it or talk about it. In todays world we are told we cannot even use the word anymore, as if that helps…this is absurd! If we can’t discuss it we cannot help ourselves or anyone else.
    REN we are so glad you learned how to dance with your demons. You are so courageous and a much needed voice for our times. We love you for opening up your heart and your mind to us. Big ups to you for sharing your genius, your creativity and musical artistry you’re such a breath of fresh air. We love you for choosing life ✌🏼🫶🏼🙏🏽

    • @andrukthegreat
      @andrukthegreat Рік тому +2

      Your comment , your analysis man, its so on point. , the thing about stopping relying on artificial meds. man and about the word being considered taboo. touche man. You said Excellent!

    • @REN4eva
      @REN4eva Рік тому +2

      #vickihammond you spoke my mind!

  • @MoreKellBellPlease
    @MoreKellBellPlease Рік тому +22

    I sobbed at the last part, especially. I hate seeing people in pain.

  • @heatherhobbit2931
    @heatherhobbit2931 Рік тому +11

    This song is for all those left behind. Way too many of us feel this song with every fiber of our beings, which is why it needs to be done. So grateful its Ren.

    • @sierrabaughman810
      @sierrabaughman810 Рік тому +1

      Left behind here
      Miss my brother
      TY his birthday is tomorrow
      June 11,2023
      April 2014 was last time I recognized who I am, because without my only Sibling, my little brother, my bestfriend, only 18months apart into dysfunctional home, I've only ever known myself as an older sister whose instinct was to protect him.... I failed!, I couldn't protect him from himself and in that instant I lost the only thing I loved about myself... my little brother...my whole life's memories aren't the same when you're sitting there reliving them as you stare blankly, tears falling,talking aloud doesn't change the fact yourself by yourself while symbolic ashes sit collecting dust over 9 years on the shelf. It's hard when you no longer can relate to the reflection in the mirror, because in an instant you're forever changed into someone else, I suppose symbolically you leave the dust how else can you be represented with him on that shelf. His skin turned once into Ashes as mine daily to Dust,
      Brother and Sister
      Ashes and Dust
      talking to yourself

    • @heatherhobbit2931
      @heatherhobbit2931 Рік тому +1

      @@sierrabaughman810 oh honey.

    • @heatherhobbit2931
      @heatherhobbit2931 Рік тому +1

      @@sierrabaughman810 I just want to wrap my arms around you.

    • @REN4eva
      @REN4eva Рік тому +1

      That is so heartbreaking. Please always remember that you have a value in yourself, in your own being. Not only because you once was a sister. I hope that you have friends who can be there for you. Seak help if you need it. Listen to Ren and other great musicians. Find beauty in the incomplite, crazy, ugly but wonderful world we all are living in. I wish you all the best ❤️

  • @QDog915
    @QDog915 Рік тому +38

    For those interested, Ren has a comment on the video that explains who Joe was and how close he was to him and to saving him.

    • @Silkytoaster
      @Silkytoaster Рік тому

      Ren has a comment on the video - what video - do you have a link ?

    • @JS-lg1pw
      @JS-lg1pw Рік тому +5

      @@Silkytoaster UA-cam Channel renmakesmusic - community area
      Ren wrote: "Today I want to write something beautiful and eloquent but I’ve been staring at my computer screen for the past 10 minutes blankly. So I’ll just write.
      Today, the 1st of June is my friend Joe’s birthday.
      I first met Joe when I was 8 years old, my friend Josh said I had to meet this guy, so we both walked over to his, it took about 10 minutes from my house. I was greeted by this kid covered head to toe in freckles, he grinned at us, climbed onto the back of his sofa and screamed “Swanton Bomb!” then front flipped off the top and landed right onto his back on a stone floor. He lay still for a moment, twitched a few times, then got up, grinned at us, brushed himself off, and did it again.
      This was Joe. He’d do anything to make people laugh. He ended up becoming one of my best friends. He was there when we stole our first cigarettes out of his mums pack, way too young. He was there when I had my first kiss, with a girl twice my size on the back of the 42 bus. He was there when I first got so drunk I threw up in the woods after drinking as much white lightning Cider as we could. I was there when he did his first backflip on skates, and saw him do a 720 off of the pier cave, that moment became legendary.
      Joe was the funny one in our friend group, he’d make us laugh till it hurt. No one had a bad word to say about him. It was impossible not to like him. Usually we put celebrities, athletes and actors on pedestals, turn them into role models and admire them from a far. The person I admired was Joe.
      Him and Sagar knew every word to the songs id write, we’d get drunk at parties and they’d be singing along as loud as they could. It gave me a lot of confidence back then.
      On Christmas Eve 2010 I was sitting in a pub with Joe, he’d been feeling low after a couple of consecutive break ups. He tried to check himself into a mental health outpatient facility a few weeks earlier but they turned him away because he didn’t have an appointment. He turned to me and said that sometimes he wished he could just walk into the sea and keep walking. He said it in a kind of half joking throw away comment type of way, then took a sip of his drink, walked over to the juke box and put Dig by Incubus on. If I knew that was the last time I’d see Joe id have hugged him, told him how much I loved him, how much I looked up to him, how much we all loved him, and I wouldn’t have left that pub. I didn’t know that, so I finished my drink, said happy Christmas and left.
      Two nights after Christmas I got woken up by a phone call at 3am, it was my friend Ella. She told me Joe was on the Menai Bridge, a large suspension bridge connecting the main land to the isle of Anglesey where we lived. He’d been on the phone to her in tears saying goodbye. He told her to tell everyone he loved them. I pulled on my clothes as fast as I could and started running toward the bridge. It was up a hill. I lived about a ten minute walk away, I could run it in five. As I ran I started dialling then redialing his number. The line was busy, which was a good sign, it meant he was still on the phone to someone. As I got about halfway, the busy tone changed. It told me the line was out of service. I got a sinking feeling and picked up my speed. I arrived to the bridge minutes after I left my house. It was deafeningly quiet. I was the first person to arrive. I got there probably about 2 minutes too late.
      Joe’s body was never found.
      Initially we refused to believe he was gone. The coastguard came out that night, with boats, and helicopters. Me and my friends spent the next 10 days putting up missing posters everywhere we could, walking up and down beaches with flashlights, getting about 3 hours sleep a night. When you’re walking up and down a beach with a torch when its dark everything looks like a body. We still haven’t found Joe.
      As his birthday came around, I wrote a song, freckled angels, a song I dedicated to Joe which I sang in front of his friends and family. A charity football match was put on for him, raising money for the RNLI where I won two bottles of wine in a raffle, I drank them both as quickly as I could, naturally, turned to my friend and probably slurred something along the lines of “This is the last time I ever drink” That was 12 years ago, I haven’t touched a drop of alcohol since.
      My first ever album I named Freckled Angels in tribute of one of the best people I ever knew.
      Skip forward some years. I’d been sitting on this song I wrote a few years ago. It always felt a little incomplete. It was going to be my next release, but I was dreading it because of this feeling of incompletion. I decided, very last minute, to do something about it. I sat by my piano, and the rest of the song fell out of me. I hadn’t thought about Joe in a little while, and the song initially wasn’t going to be about him, but the words all fell out of me. I wrote and recorded a whole 2 minutes extra, recording each part as I wrote it. Tears spewing out of my eyes pretty much the whole time, and decided not to do my usual thing of perfecting each line, I just recorded every line as it came. This will be my next release. You can turn on notifications by following the link in the comments below
      During this campaign I will be raising money for the RNLI, the group of brave men and women who spent hours tirelessly looking for Joe after the night he went missing. I'll also be donating 50% of the profit on all copies of the 'Freckled Angels' album directly to Joes family as a nice surprise gift. I will include links to the RNLI donation page below where 100% of the money will go to support them, I will be travelling to the UK later this month to make a music video, and have carved out a couple of days where I will travel to my home town on the isle of Anglesey to present the royal national lifeboat institution with a cheque of all the money raised."

  • @Perspectiveon
    @Perspectiveon Рік тому +1

    Really appreciate that you gave your take on the line " I see the world through fibonacci sequences and double dutch ". I think you were spot on ; seeing the beauty of the natural world where basically everything is designed on fibonacci sequences and double dutch being all the gibberish talk of people not seeing the beauty causing the Worlds destruction. Almost every other reactor skips this line probably bc they don´t get it and I find it so important. Kudos. In this time and age where so many people, corporations and goverments only worship themselves, power and money the well-being of the natural World and All Peoples depends on Ren and others speaking on behalf of humanity. You making this reaction video contributes too. Thank You.

  • @redangel169
    @redangel169 Рік тому +5

    I think its important that its catchy and it really is! Because it is catchy though, you remember it AND its message. The nature of his art always blows me away

  • @banzy3
    @banzy3 Рік тому +15

    I've watched a few reactions, and you're the only one who understood 'Double Dutch' in the way that I've always understood it... Along with the Fibonacci sequence interpretation, I think you hit the nail on the head.

    • @WitsEndGirl
      @WitsEndGirl Рік тому +1

      In the past I've heard the term used in this way. Last night it was pointed out to me that Double Dutch is the name of a hairstyle of infinity braids. I think his love of double or triple meanings means it can be all the interpretations.

    • @LeeannG
      @LeeannG Рік тому

      Double Dutch is a style of jump roping where two people on the ends use two jumps ropes in opposite directions while the person in the middle jumps. It’s really hard lol

    • @TheRealityleak
      @TheRealityleak Рік тому +1

      Most British people would recognise double Dutch as confusing and incomprehensible. I'm guessing that's how Ren would gave meant it too.
      Though your theory of the jump rope game fits the narrative too. That's the beauty of music and art. It's so individual, right?

    • @LeeannG
      @LeeannG Рік тому +1

      @@TheRealityleak good point! I also wasn’t aware there was any other explanation for that term until this video tbh. I was also coming from a place of visual cues too, I could actually see both the things in my head. But nothing is really ever just surface level with Ren I don’t think. I’ve learned a lot from his songs

    • @staceyjayneplatt9527
      @staceyjayneplatt9527 8 місяців тому

      Double Dutch is a British saying!!🇬🇧🇺🇸🙏💙💙😘

  • @BrandonWestfall
    @BrandonWestfall Рік тому +1

    I'm surprised you haven't listened to Freckled Angels which was the first song he wrote for Joe Hughes shortly after his death.
    Ren is incredible.

  • @lorihutcheon5363
    @lorihutcheon5363 Місяць тому +1

    “I feel blessed to be alive at the same time as this guy”
    I literally just said the same thing to my husband last night after Ren’s Kujo’s Beat Down! Been obsessively following this beautiful human for 2+ years but just discovered your channel and subbed because we clearly share the same love and respect for our guy and binging on your journey which mirrors mine!
    I also recently came across the below quote and naturally Ren came to mind I’m certain you’ll agree…
    Talent hits a target no one else can hit;
    Genius hits a target no one else can see.
    (Arthur Schopenhauer)
    Blessings my friend❣️

  • @musictofreeyourmind5560
    @musictofreeyourmind5560 Рік тому +7

    I've already listened to this song a bunch of times in the last 24 hour

  • @Northmaniack
    @Northmaniack Рік тому +12

    I don't normally watch reaction videos, especially people I don't know, because what can they bring to my life. But your video showed up next to Ren's song somehow, and somehow, driven by the mood, I decided to give it a chance. I do not regret. Watching your reactions, or rather listening to them because something kept falling into my eyes, I was able to sort out what I felt listening to this song this morning. Many of us have been through a lot in our lives, but Ren can perfectly dress it in a musical envelope, thanks to which others can find solace. Thanks a lot for explaining "Double Dutch", I wasn't familiar with this term as English is not my native language. In my country, the equivalent of this idiom is "sounds like Chinese". Thanks again and see you in the next reactions to Ren's work.

    • @cindyd.01
      @cindyd.01 Рік тому +3

      “Ren can perfectly dress it in a musical envelope”! That’s exactly right, well said! ❤

  • @oldgreymare3677
    @oldgreymare3677 Рік тому +1

    Thank you for this moving reaction! You are the first I have seen who took note of the changing face in the last part. I like your interpretation. My thought was that this was REN growing up from 19 to current (33) age; changing on the outside but still haunted by that terrible night that he lost his friend. May he find some degree of healing in the sharing of this video!!!

  • @denalinde
    @denalinde Рік тому +12

    After about 5 listens I allowed myself to dance for the first bit. Ren is so good at making beautiful, catchy music with deep subjects. 💜

  • @markchasse8992
    @markchasse8992 Рік тому +1

    Great observation on Ren's image! Thx!

  • @kimzwolinski9919
    @kimzwolinski9919 Рік тому +2

    The thing I love most about this is showing the aftermath of when someone commits suicide. The pain it leaves family and friends is brutal.

  • @kirstymitchell1703
    @kirstymitchell1703 Місяць тому +1

    As a person who has been through "attmepts" many times in my life. This song literally makes me cry every time. But hes put it out there and it supports all those who have been there. Or even thought about it. Big love Ren ✌️and to all those who truly reeonate ✌️

  • @joshuawiedenbeck6944
    @joshuawiedenbeck6944 Рік тому +6

    People tend to miss the line "Treading on the tracks in the nightime." Followed by "Never really felt like the right time." Ren is referencing walking on train tracks at night, when the trains can't see you. A contemplative walk where you contemplate if you're going to move if a train comes or if you'll just stand there. Deep deep shit.
    Edit: Also, "treading down tracks" has a double meaning of writing music.

  • @tigrexoscar9101
    @tigrexoscar9101 Рік тому +4

    ''i just blessed to be alive at the same time of this guy'' thats how we all feel dude!

  • @sabrinaevans8746
    @sabrinaevans8746 Рік тому +3

    I’ve noticed that Ren appeals to a broad age bracket. I’m in my 60s but I could swear he’s in my generation. I was also amazed that there are so many senior citizens his fan base

  • @mauraleib
    @mauraleib Рік тому +4

    Your reaction to “the type of song I don’t usually listen to” was so spot on and thoughtful. The most insightful reaction I’ve seen yet. Let’s all give REN and each other many hugs! ❤

  • @thomashickmott541
    @thomashickmott541 Рік тому +1

    Bro I work as a Paramedic. Had SO many people who should hear this song!!! It drew out so many horrible memories I have trapped in my head.

  • @TobiiRheaStarr
    @TobiiRheaStarr Рік тому +1

    We all just wanna give him a massive hug. I hope he feels that massive virtual hug from us all. He is so precious and needs protecting at all costs 🖤

  • @BallisticAero
    @BallisticAero Рік тому +6

    Your take on the second half is really unique, first person I've heard talk about the image of Ren with the headphones on applied metaphorically to all of us and I gotta say I love that thought

    • @FischtankProductions
      @FischtankProductions  Рік тому +2

      Thank you bro. When it came to the words on this one, it caught me off guard and i felt like deeer in the headlights. But the imagery spoke to me vividly

    • @BallisticAero
      @BallisticAero Рік тому +1

      @@FischtankProductions You and most of us brother, I've been left mostly speechless on this song as it hits too close to home and I'm not big on reaction channels (even when I do I'm usually the silent scroller) but yours among a very few select others typically offer some really quality insights and thoughts so thank you for that. Hope you're doing well brother keep up the grind

  • @annaspurlock439
    @annaspurlock439 Рік тому +5

    You’re the first reactor I’ve seen that has correctly captured the Fibonacci sequence and double Dutch line. You’re right that in British slang double Dutch means gibberish

    • @LeeannG
      @LeeannG Рік тому

      I think it’s a double. Look up double Dutch jump roping

  • @LetsGoEers3
    @LetsGoEers3 27 днів тому

    This video starts off perfect….
    “I’m always at a loss for words when I react to a REn video.”
    You have no idea how happy that makes us to hear you say that
    I’m still on the journey to watch all of your video. Ren videos and will watch some others also!
    I’m so grateful I have found you Along with the other RENegades, the validation you and they present is uncanny, unmatched!

  • @Langdanion
    @Langdanion Рік тому +2

    Ren is that “Once in a lifetime” artist… you put it perfectly, we’re lucky to be alive during his time…❤️

  • @bl4nk451
    @bl4nk451 Рік тому +1

    Posted by Ren
    Ren:
    Today I want to write something beautiful and eloquent but I’ve been staring at my computer screen for the past 10 minutes blankly. So I’ll just write.
    Today, the 1st of June is my friend Joe’s birthday.
    I first met Joe when I was 8 years old, my friend Josh said I had to meet this guy, so we both walked over to his, it took about 10 minutes from my house. I was greeted by this kid covered head to toe in freckles, he grinned at us, climbed onto the back of his sofa and screamed “Swanton Bomb!” then front flipped off the top and landed right onto his back on a stone floor. He lay still for a moment, twitched a few times, then got up, grinned at us, brushed himself off, and did it again.
    This was Joe. He’d do anything to make people laugh. He ended up becoming one of my best friends. He was there when we stole our first cigarettes out of his mums pack, way too young. He was there when I had my first kiss, with a girl twice my size on the back of the 42 bus. He was there when I first got so drunk I threw up in the woods after drinking as much white lightning Cider as we could. I was there when he did his first backflip on skates, and saw him do a 720 off of the pier cave, that moment became legendary.
    Joe was the funny one in our friend group, he’d make us laugh till it hurt. No one had a bad word to say about him. It was impossible not to like him. Usually we put celebrities, athletes and actors on pedestals, turn them into role models and admire them from a far. The person I admired was Joe.
    Him and Sagar knew every word to the songs id write, we’d get drunk at parties and they’d be singing along as loud as they could. It gave me a lot of confidence back then.
    On Christmas Eve 2010 I was sitting in a pub with Joe, he’d been feeling low after a couple of consecutive break ups. He tried to check himself into a mental health outpatient facility a few weeks earlier but they turned him away because he didn’t have an appointment. He turned to me and said that sometimes he wished he could just walk into the sea and keep walking. He said it in a kind of half joking throw away comment type of way, then took a sip of his drink, walked over to the juke box and put Dig by Incubus on. If I knew that was the last time I’d see Joe id have hugged him, told him how much I loved him, how much I looked up to him, how much we all loved him, and I wouldn’t have left that pub. I didn’t know that, so I finished my drink, said happy Christmas and left.
    Two nights after Christmas I got woken up by a phone call at 3am, it was my friend Ella. She told me Joe was on the Menai Bridge, a large suspension bridge connecting the main land to the isle of Anglesey where we lived. He’d been on the phone to her in tears saying goodbye. He told her to tell everyone he loved them. I pulled on my clothes as fast as I could and started running toward the bridge. It was up a hill. I lived about a ten minute walk away, I could run it in five. As I ran I started dialling then redialing his number. The line was busy, which was a good sign, it meant he was still on the phone to someone. As I got about halfway, the busy tone changed. It told me the line was out of service. I got a sinking feeling and picked up my speed. I arrived to the bridge minutes after I left my house. It was deafeningly quiet. I was the first person to arrive. I got there probably about 2 minutes too late.
    Joe’s body was never found.
    Initially we refused to believe he was gone. The coastguard came out that night, with boats, and helicopters. Me and my friends spent the next 10 days putting up missing posters everywhere we could, walking up and down beaches with flashlights, getting about 3 hours sleep a night. When you’re walking up and down a beach with a torch when its dark everything looks like a body. We still haven’t found Joe.
    As his birthday came around, I wrote a song, freckled angels, a song I dedicated to Joe which I sang in front of his friends and family. A charity football match was put on for him, raising money for the RNLI where I won two bottles of wine in a raffle, I drank them both as quickly as I could, naturally, turned to my friend and probably slurred something along the lines of “This is the last time I ever drink” That was 12 years ago, I haven’t touched a drop of alcohol since.
    My first ever album I named Freckled Angels in tribute of one of the best people I ever knew.
    Skip forward some years. I’d been sitting on this song I wrote a few years ago. It always felt a little incomplete. It was going to be my next release, but I was dreading it because of this feeling of incompletion. I decided, very last minute, to do something about it. I sat by my piano, and the rest of the song fell out of me. I hadn’t thought about Joe in a little while, and the song initially wasn’t going to be about him, but the words all fell out of me. I wrote and recorded a whole 2 minutes extra, recording each part as I wrote it. Tears spewing out of my eyes pretty much the whole time, and decided not to do my usual thing of perfecting each line, I just recorded every line as it came. This will be my next release. You can turn on notifications by following the link in the comments below
    During this campaign I will be raising money for the RNLI, the group of brave men and women who spent hours tirelessly looking for Joe after the night he went missing. I'll also be donating 50% of the profit on all copies of the 'Freckled Angels' album directly to Joes family as a nice surprise gift. I will include links to the RNLI donation page below where 100% of the money will go to support them, I will be travelling to the UK later this month to make a music video, and have carved out a couple of days where I will travel to my home town on the isle of Anglesey to present the royal national lifeboat institution with a cheque of all the money raised.

  • @shawnchapdelaine2089
    @shawnchapdelaine2089 Рік тому +7

    ren is fire

  • @michaelkennedy8270
    @michaelkennedy8270 Рік тому +2

    Yeah Fischtank, this is damn bro; cubed, cured and ingested. Nothing comes close to a revelation of a topic that nearly every one of us have contemplated at some point in our bizarre incorporations.

  • @LetsGoEers3
    @LetsGoEers3 12 днів тому

    Kind sir, you did it again…Ren did it to you again….at 5:45
    “That is the thing about Ren videos. They always make me feel a way I have never felt before from another artist. And every time it’s a different kind of feeling. Thats when you know, he’s….” and then comes the EPIC silence of hat I have never seen another artist do to somebody, def not more than once. But over and over.c he takes your breath and your words.
    EXACTLY what he does to me
    I can not get enough.
    THANK YOU SO MUCH!!! 🙏 🙏 ♥️ ♥️

  • @primitivedogs4638
    @primitivedogs4638 Рік тому +4

    "Have faith that you're not alone. Have faith that you're not on your own." Shinedown - Daylight

  • @SGI999
    @SGI999 Рік тому +1

    You are a wise and loving and kind man I think. It’s why you get it and express it simply and beautifully.
    Ren is a gift to us. You interpreting Ren is a gift to us.
    It is a positive and powerful piece of art because it becomes an anchor to keep us moored to the world with the knowledge that we are not alone in our dark times. That’s all. Wish I could make more time for your channel. I’m over subscribed all over the joint man lol but I always return to catch up
    Love your work❤

  • @zfgdun
    @zfgdun Рік тому +1

    Great reaction dude. My tear ducts have not stopped since he dropped this

  • @rudyb.
    @rudyb. Рік тому +1

    My tears flowed like the waterfalls at Yosemite National Park right now. Beautiful and rare. Thank you Ren!

  • @im2yz4u17
    @im2yz4u17 Рік тому +22

    You are the first to get the meaning of "I see the world in Fibonnaci series and Double Dutch". Basically, I see the complexity and plan in nature or humanity but I do not understand or am confused by it's meaning. I want to give Ren a hug also. But he will break me when he hugs back.

    • @ThatDoomScroller
      @ThatDoomScroller 2 місяці тому

      I love these lines , in addition to the beauty of golden ratio, Fibonacci each step is built from the 2 previous steps. And double Dutch is non-stop obstacles coming at you from both directions

  • @dergotterbote4039
    @dergotterbote4039 Рік тому +3

    what ren shows me more than ever before is....that we are all connected. thats the key

  • @fourcornersofbrighton
    @fourcornersofbrighton Рік тому +2

    This one has been hard for most of us; fans and reactors both. I have dealt with depression for most of my life and much of what has kept me here is the realization of how it would hurt those I love. The second half of this song is brutal but it is also a good reminder of how it hurts those left behind.
    Musically, it's another masterpiece! The video is beautiful as well. I think the animation was a great choice for this one. Louis Mardlin is the video editor for Ren's animated type videos and he did a fantastic job.
    I agree with you about needing multiple listens to mentally process the lyrics, music and visual elements. He's layered, like an onion and he's been making me tear up today. Great reaction!

  • @ethantodd4400
    @ethantodd4400 Рік тому +1

    Thanks for your reaction man ✊🏽 One Love....

  • @Av3rageD4D
    @Av3rageD4D Рік тому +1

    Couldn’t agree more with your breakdown, and thank you for providing valuable insight to what the Double Dutch line can mean.

  • @helenajrgensen3157
    @helenajrgensen3157 Рік тому +1

    I feel the same way. I want to hug him and let him know we are here for him.
    This is a rough one.
    I thought it was brutal, it was beautiful and most importantly it was important!
    Just the fact that he repeats the word Suicide so many times - because it's a subject we have to deal with. That he uses the first 2 verses to tell about how he himself has thought about it; but that it was like there was never "the right time" - Also from there move on to what it did to him that his friend Joe committed suicide. It makes an enormously painful impression.
    I love Ren and I found this track his most brutal, but also his most vulnerable.
    I love the lyrics and I love the visual expression ❤

  • @kg291
    @kg291 Рік тому +1

    r.i.p joe, imagine just missing saving your friend by a few minutes and having to live with that :(

  • @Amos4946
    @Amos4946 Рік тому +1

    This song is HARD, i've went through this myself, 5 years ago , been doing good after that, but man this song represent what it really feels like to be just down at the bottom of the abyss. Down there, you see no lights, just emptyness, you dont show it, dont talk about because you think are they gonna say ' you dont looklike you gonna do it' or w/e' because you dont show it. Also you think its not the right moment to talk about it, you think they dont wanna hear about it. Then comes the day you dont see any lights on the other side and you think its time to do it, theres a sharp knife near you or a bridge, or something else, youre thinking over and over is there something to go on , but no nothing . I cried at every single reaction ive watched, because i knew the feeling of how his friend felt and see the damage that could have cause.

  • @Aurora-cv5to
    @Aurora-cv5to Рік тому +5

    Thanks for your comments on the lyrics' meanings. I'd never heard that meaning or Double Dutch, so thanks for that. Here's another one: Double Dutch is the name of a jumprope pattern using two ropes being turned in opposite directions. To do the pattern, you have to be deeply enmeshed in the rhythm, and in harmony/cooperation with the two twirling the ropes. Its a deep harmony that requires others and is difficult to explain... so, the conflict between the dry, mathematical order and beauty, and the messier, more delicate beauty of the harmony between people. That's the thing about Ren (and other good poets) there's usually multiple interpretations.

  • @philk9227
    @philk9227 Рік тому +2

    Ren's pain is raw and palpable and is utterly heartbreaking

  • @lindzee7410
    @lindzee7410 Місяць тому

    Sorry if this is annoying being that your Ren vids are older, but I'm just now deep diving into Ren and am absolutely enamored by this incredible human. And of course you're awesome so Ima be going through each of your Ren reactions.
    I have a lot of linear issues with Ren. Not the same. But his music has been getting me through my own autoimmune/ADHD/medical gaslighting/everything else issues. And that's in addition to this brilliant musician that impacts so many souls.
    My heart breaks that his body rejected his last treatment and he is heading back to Canada to go through it all again. I'm just grateful he has a support system and keeps trying. The word 'strength' does not encapsulate what this shit entales. It's devastating and continuously breaks a person down.
    Much love Fisch. I appreciate your reactions as always.

  • @huambo
    @huambo 11 місяців тому

    Thankyou for being real Ren, you're a positive force my friend.

  • @10ekrom
    @10ekrom Рік тому

    I don’t have many words, Ren is just amazing and you reacting to him is even better. So glad you both exist in the music world!!! His creative work, lyrics, and delivery mixed with your genuine reactions makes my irrational thoughts calm right down. Both humans have helped my mental health and I’m thankful for that!!! ❤

  • @berlingolingoful
    @berlingolingoful Рік тому

    Man, I like your thought- the image is both him and all of us listening to him.

  • @MissMeKate
    @MissMeKate Рік тому +5

    It's so powerful, but gut wrenching too. I hope it helps people to reach out.

  • @Mirrorhead66
    @Mirrorhead66 Рік тому +1

    They sent a poet. His name is Ren

  • @MissMaria1969
    @MissMaria1969 Рік тому

    He just amazing. I’ve been listening to him since January I love everything this young man does he is beyond amazing Thank God I’m alive today during this time it’s RENs time to be at the top thank you great reaction ❤

  • @aaronb4493
    @aaronb4493 Рік тому +1

    If this saves one person then what a legacy to Joe. RIP Joe

  • @dancerbird76
    @dancerbird76 Рік тому

    Thanks Fischtank. You’re right about there being so much going on in Ren videos. I’m a reader so always concentrate on the written lyrics in the second part of this track-this time I focussed on the image of Ren and I think it hits even harder when you look properly at his image and listen to the lyrics.
    We do need songs like this, we do need to speak about topics like this - Ren is opening the door for us all to be able to do that.
    Thank you Fischtank for another great reaction.

  • @annebiebrich9155
    @annebiebrich9155 Рік тому

    Great reaction! I wanna' give Ren a hug too !

  • @cheetara32
    @cheetara32 Рік тому

    Ren is exactly what we all need right now, he's helping us to all reconnect yo our emotions, and therefore to each other and ourselves.... its a movement that we have to pay forward...

  • @NOLAgenX
    @NOLAgenX Рік тому +1

    Ren connected hard with me on this. I lost one of my closest friends 4 years ago now. I still wonder what I could have done differently, and am wracked with grief whenever I think of him to this day. I ask why, but there is no answer. Like Ren, I push it down most of the time and ignore it. Thanks for your reaction.

  • @suzanne33
    @suzanne33 Рік тому +1

    Wow!!! That was too real and a heart breaking ending!! still 😮😢😮❤❤❤

  • @mothermaclean
    @mothermaclean Рік тому

    Thank you for reacting to this i have listened and watch this so many times and i still cry thos is such a meaningful song to me as i feel in a dark place recently and this helps me feel and explain my feelings

  • @salishseamermaid
    @salishseamermaid Рік тому

    Another fantastic reaction to an amazing song.

  • @danwalby7365
    @danwalby7365 Рік тому +1

    He sees the world beautiful through pain.

  • @staceyhawthorne8194
    @staceyhawthorne8194 Рік тому +2

    Its beautifully haunting

  • @webcrawler2007
    @webcrawler2007 Рік тому

    This is one of my favorite breakdowns and reactions to this song. Cheers man, you nailed it

  • @lukecollett5944
    @lukecollett5944 Рік тому

    I always come here for your equal intro and retrospect, your attentivness to the detail and thought of your reactions, and the genuinely positive and loving responses to the music, and your support of artists and people like Ren, Love your stuff mate nice to have a genuine onlune personality to watch xx

  • @doodons
    @doodons 10 місяців тому

    You got this spot on, great reaction

  • @whozitwhatzit4802
    @whozitwhatzit4802 Рік тому +2

    Ren had this pinned in his comments on the release re: Joe and the song.
    Today I want to write something beautiful and eloquent but I’ve been staring at my computer screen for the past 10 minutes blankly. So I’ll just write.
    Today, the 1st of June is my friend Joe’s birthday.
    I first met Joe when I was 8 years old, my friend Josh said I had to meet this guy, so we both walked over to his, it took about 10 minutes from my house. I was greeted by this kid covered head to toe in freckles, he grinned at us, climbed onto the back of his sofa and screamed “Swanton Bomb!” then front flipped off the top and landed right onto his back on a stone floor. He lay still for a moment, twitched a few times, then got up, grinned at us, brushed himself off, and did it again.
    This was Joe. He’d do anything to make people laugh. He ended up becoming one of my best friends. He was there when we stole our first cigarettes out of his mums pack, way too young. He was there when I had my first kiss, with a girl twice my size on the back of the 42 bus. He was there when I first got so drunk I threw up in the woods after drinking as much white lightning Cider as we could. I was there when he did his first backflip on skates, and saw him do a 720 off of the pier cave, that moment became legendary.
    Joe was the funny one in our friend group, he’d make us laugh till it hurt. No one had a bad word to say about him. It was impossible not to like him. Usually we put celebrities, athletes and actors on pedestals, turn them into role models and admire them from a far. The person I admired was Joe.
    Him and Sagar knew every word to the songs id write, we’d get drunk at parties and they’d be singing along as loud as they could. It gave me a lot of confidence back then.
    On Christmas Eve 2010 I was sitting in a pub with Joe, he’d been feeling low after a couple of consecutive break ups. He tried to check himself into a mental health outpatient facility a few weeks earlier but they turned him away because he didn’t have an appointment. He turned to me and said that sometimes he wished he could just walk into the sea and keep walking. He said it in a kind of half joking throw away comment type of way, then took a sip of his drink, walked over to the juke box and put Dig by Incubus on. If I knew that was the last time I’d see Joe id have hugged him, told him how much I loved him, how much I looked up to him, how much we all loved him, and I wouldn’t have left that pub. I didn’t know that, so I finished my drink, said happy Christmas and left.
    Two nights after Christmas I got woken up by a phone call at 3am, it was my friend Ella. She told me Joe was on the Menai Bridge, a large suspension bridge connecting the main land to the isle of Anglesey where we lived. He’d been on the phone to her in tears saying goodbye. He told her to tell everyone he loved them. I pulled on my clothes as fast as I could and started running toward the bridge. It was up a hill. I lived about a ten minute walk away, I could run it in five. As I ran I started dialling then redialing his number. The line was busy, which was a good sign, it meant he was still on the phone to someone. As I got about halfway, the busy tone changed. It told me the line was out of service. I got a sinking feeling and picked up my speed. I arrived to the bridge minutes after I left my house. It was deafeningly quiet. I was the first person to arrive. I got there probably about 2 minutes too late.
    Joe’s body was never found.
    Initially we refused to believe he was gone. The coastguard came out that night, with boats, and helicopters. Me and my friends spent the next 10 days putting up missing posters everywhere we could, walking up and down beaches with flashlights, getting about 3 hours sleep a night. When you’re walking up and down a beach with a torch when its dark everything looks like a body. We still haven’t found Joe.
    As his birthday came around, I wrote a song, freckled angels, a song I dedicated to Joe which I sang in front of his friends and family. A charity football match was put on for him, raising money for the RNLI where I won two bottles of wine in a raffle, I drank them both as quickly as I could, naturally, turned to my friend and probably slurred something along the lines of “This is the last time I ever drink” That was 12 years ago, I haven’t touched a drop of alcohol since.
    My first ever album I named Freckled Angels in tribute of one of the best people I ever knew.
    Skip forward some years. I’d been sitting on this song I wrote a few years ago. It always felt a little incomplete. It was going to be my next release, but I was dreading it because of this feeling of incompletion. I decided, very last minute, to do something about it. I sat by my piano, and the rest of the song fell out of me. I hadn’t thought about Joe in a little while, and the song initially wasn’t going to be about him, but the words all fell out of me. I wrote and recorded a whole 2 minutes extra, recording each part as I wrote it. Tears spewing out of my eyes pretty much the whole time, and decided not to do my usual thing of perfecting each line, I just recorded every line as it came.
    During this campaign I will be raising money for the RNLI, the group of brave men and women who spent hours tirelessly looking for Joe after the night he went missing. I'll also be donating 50% of the profit on all copies of the 'Freckled Angels' album directly to Joes family as a nice surprise gift. I will include links to the RNLI donation page below where 100% of the money will go to support them, I will be travelling to the UK later this month to make a music video, and have carved out a couple of days where I will travel to my home town on the isle of Anglesey to present the royal national lifeboat institution with a cheque of all the money raised.
    Turn on notifications for the video here: ua-cam.com/video/n3JNtfi4Vb0/v-deo.html
    Raising money for RNLI :
    www.justgiving.com/page/ren-gill-1685546882254?Link&/ren-gill-1685546882254&
    Freckled Angels album: renmakesmerch.com/products/freckled-angels-cd
    Presave Suic*de: found.ee/ren-suic-de

  • @Me_1983-
    @Me_1983- Рік тому

    This song has to be so therapeutic for him, it has been ages since he sang about Joe and you can hear at the end of the song this release as he just let's it all out. He has talked about how he ran so fast to save him and was just moments too late as Joe had jumped off the bridge and his body never recovered swept away by the sea, though they looked endlessly. He has endured so much and truly puts his all into his music, what we receive is magic for our ears

  • @adamwest8256
    @adamwest8256 Рік тому +2

    Fuck, this is going to be a long comment. Fishtank and Ren, thank you for this video. It hit right at ground zero for me.
    2006 I met the most beautiful, intelligent, amazing woman in the world and how she fell in love with me is still a mystery, but she did. She was a multi millionaire, I was just a poor country boy who worked as a drillhand. She had been Miss Alabama, I was covered in mud. I was hitting way above my weight.
    So, I bought a ring and she said yes before I could finish my proposal. That was the good times.....
    She was sick. She had a Chiari malformation that caused almost endless pain and she was on a 75mg fentanyl patch. The 30 day prescription never lasted and the only thing that would ease the pain until she could get another dose was alcohol....
    I had just started a new job where I could be home every evening to be with her instead of being a thousand miles away.
    I needed to be professional and undistracted, so while going through the last day on training, I left my phone in my truck....
    Training done. I go to my truck and check my phone. I have 5 messages, and multiple missed calls from Michelle, that was her name. All telling me how much she loves me and begging me to come home. I texted her back and said I love you too and I'll get us a pizza on the way home. I also tried calling, but she didn't answer.....
    I finally made it home, but she didn't come outside. She would usually come and jump into my arms every time I pulled in the driveway. I walk into our house and call her name. No response. I go upstairs still listening for her when I hear the raspy breathing. I follow the sound to our bedroom. She's lying on the bed face covered in blood. I immediately thought she had fell and hit her head on the nightstand and climbed into bed ( blacking out and fainting is a common side effect of a Chiari malformation). I called 911 to get medical help. I told them what was happening and about her labored breathing. She was on her back, so the operator told me to roll her on her side to help clear her airways....
    That's when the gun fell out of her hand.......
    She died in my arms while I waited on the paramedics.
    I got to see heaven for a year or so, then I was sent right back to the hell of reality.

    • @Seasonofthesicc
      @Seasonofthesicc 11 місяців тому

      Jesus Christ I’m so sorry. That’s gut wrenching and there are no words that could help you but hopefully this music is somewhat therapeutic and that you’re not alone. You made her life great and that’s all you could ever do. Please don’t blame yourself as it’s never in our hands. Be well

  • @candacemay7187
    @candacemay7187 Рік тому +4

    RIP Joe -- ❤

  • @valentindumitru9554
    @valentindumitru9554 Рік тому

    Thank you, man!

  • @alex1014
    @alex1014 Рік тому +1

    he released some info talking about his friend. ren got a call at 3am and went to the bridge and arrived about 2 minutes to late.

  • @dorkette_chicky
    @dorkette_chicky Рік тому +3

    Peace friend.

  • @Dragonartykay
    @Dragonartykay Рік тому

    Same here. Thank you.

  • @darknessB4dawn
    @darknessB4dawn Рік тому

    It makes you feel more open to discussing a topic we have been shown by society that we shouldn't speak about. I think it's beautifully brilliant.

  • @hollyryalsgrubb1273
    @hollyryalsgrubb1273 Рік тому

    Thank you for this. You did it justice.

  • @minneyruth
    @minneyruth Рік тому

    I think we all would love to give Ren a hug 🫂 ❤

  • @richardlamond7767
    @richardlamond7767 Рік тому

    First time catching one of your reactions. Really happy i did, too!
    As far as the song goes, im not really one to get super emotional over a song, but this one had me busted up bad.

  • @janedoe2379
    @janedoe2379 Рік тому

    Great reaction. It earned you a new sub. Loved your style. ❤

  • @Tessimistic420
    @Tessimistic420 Рік тому

    Ready to cry again. Because it is so true

  • @reviewandreactionvideoswit7200

    Thank You

  • @grannymegrannyiam6886
    @grannymegrannyiam6886 Рік тому

    Yes, we all want to give him a hug, so much that my arms hurt!❤️

  • @TheShermanm4
    @TheShermanm4 Рік тому

    We all want to give Ren a hug. Love your Ren reactions bro.

  • @aNomadicSasquatch
    @aNomadicSasquatch Рік тому +1

    I had to rewatch that last section multiple times during the premier, couldn't absorb it all in one pass.

  • @ryanjackson645
    @ryanjackson645 Рік тому +1

    THIS BRAUGHT LIGHT TO MY KNOWING OF THAT JUMPROPE GAME COULD NEVER DO IT BUT JUST BRAUGHT MIND BACK TO THAT PLACE

  • @moonshelter3448
    @moonshelter3448 Рік тому

    I feel like reactions like this are as important as the song. And God bless Ren.❤

  • @BeenSittin
    @BeenSittin Рік тому

    Ren brings out the realness in life and the results that can become of being real.

  • @UND3ADSN1P3R33
    @UND3ADSN1P3R33 Рік тому +2

    The fibonacci sequence part has a double meaning to me becuse its the golden ratio, so everyone says its beautiful, but when you graph it, it is a inword spiral. So in this song he could be saying he sees the beauty in the word but also an inword spiral

  • @foxinasweater2300
    @foxinasweater2300 7 місяців тому

    I've been suicidal since I was 9 years old and Ren's suicide song, and other stories of people who have lost others to suicide, helps keep me grounded in remembering that my life would have a ripple effect on the people who are around me. I have seen some people who don't get it get all pearl clutching that talking about suicide encourages it, but for me it prevents it. And I'm sure I'm not alone on that. We should talk about it

  • @mldkenny
    @mldkenny Рік тому

    The world his hugging Ren today.