Seriously I'm that person who used to think that you only get depressed when you fail in your life but no........this story really changed my thoughts and myself as well!!!
@@suchismitakar2154 mental strength utni bhi strong nahi thi but parents ka support ki wajah se stress bilkul nahi hota hai papa ne bol rakha hai jab tak mein 28-29 ka nahi hojata tab tak jitna experiment krna hai kar le tab tak mein paise kama raha hu and uske baad bhi agar kuch nahi hua toh fir unka kaam mujhe sambhalana hoga 😶
I was a krishna bhakt from child like from 8 year old I was topper student till class 11 th , but after watching pk movie my believe in God was completely shattered and I also did watch movie i virus(south indian movie) how they showed that other than male and female gender otherse are worse, I am a boy but because I was than not that manly frnds in my class mzak m kisiko v gay ya not manky bolke chidate the Or ya if I saw transgender people , after getting very good marks in class 10th i used to feel like sucide because in my mind because I was unmanly I used think in my mind I don't derseve to be with people that I stayed 2 years 11th and 12 alone, left my oold frnds because inside me I used to fear I am becoming like I movie transgender villain, But than I saw inner engineering on you tube I did that my depression went away,and that time ayushman khuarana movie about was released and showed that other gender also haved respect than I used to feel even I M gay so what,I told my mom and papa that some people in my class 11th and 12th bullied me ,tortured me mentally when teacheree was not around that I gay in my mind gay means I movie transgendered villain at that time I was 16th and 17 in class 11th and 12th though I am not gay i M attracted to female even girls used to talked I just separate myself from everyone, I told my parents everything afterse years now no sign of depression everything in life feels great again now I am doing great in academics.now again I believed in God spirituality, devi they really do exist but ite only our physical limitations that we cannt see them but we can feel them
@@suchismitakar2154ab to one night stand , dating , causal relationship , S*x before marriage wala culture as chuka h , us wala ise welcome karo ab , Thanks to feminist , industrialists, media. Bollywood and wokism
Life is difficult for everyone ( Toppers, Backbenchers, Rich, poor).... But make your self mentally strong to Faces All the situations which came in your Path...
Mental health is as important as physical health, but nowadays it is more neglected, we can become physical healthy by doing exercises but what about actual health?
Absolutely 💯 right ❤ Hello there ...hare Krishna... I don't know which religion you belong to. Name: Im not ...talking about any specific religion here. I am just saying that mental health is as important as physical health. Mental health is also important to maintain mental health. You should definitely do mantra meditation, do something like this in your daily routineWe need it so that our mind remains completely calm and there is peace in the mind.....😅😊❤ By the help of ... 1.mantra meditation 2. Chanting holy name of god ... 3. Spend family time ...😭🫶🏻
@@pagalshubh6848 you didn't understood my context , I am trying to say that we are living in different spaces right now and we are not giving equal importance to mental health
@@unknown-i6u1qbro mental health ke liye bhajan karo Deenanath Prabhu ka , Bhagwannanam me Bahot dhakti hai , jab wahi ekamatr aashray honge to koi depression wagairah nahi , Dak hi path hai dharm ka jo dehavsan ke baad sath me jaayega , aur dak had hai parmatma ka wahan koi seat limitations nahi hai . Tyag, vairagya , bhakti ka jeevan ke pravesh ho to koi depression nahi
Maturity is when you realize that suicidal and depressing contents are good for informative point of view but consuming such contents makes you more sensitive and conscious to depression and trauma! Just skip such contents and spend time with yourself and nature, friends and family and yes if you are not blessed with such people then just connect yourself with God. Only summary is that No one is ever fully satisfied with owns life. And if your ever find yourself deprived just think of the people who are far beyond deprived even with the resources which you as a human being are blessed with.
This is what exactly I think but couldn't frame in words as u did. I request you to write more things on this topic. Many suicidal persons would definitely benefit.
I was also in severe depression when I was 14... The only thing I did was not committing Suicide.... I overcame depression after an year but I lost my short term memory.. Conclusion: life is a beautiful journey don't end it by ur own hands... Suicide is never the solution..!!
ii am noww in depression🙂🙂 bhai mai last year 12th kiya tha pcb se extra me maths aur fir drop liya neet keliye aur cutoff bhaggya mera 350 marks aya kya kru life me smjh ni arha depression me hu btech cse krlu? leki private se 15k salary milti h ya unemployed rhuga fir kya kru bhai? na nind ari na bhuk lgri soch soch kr bhai bhai🙂 hamko tention hora 2 hr soya hu rat me nind tutjata aur yhi khyal ata h🙂 i will loose my respect from family, my dreams, whole life will be regretting suicidal thoughts arhe h🙂
@@hellofvision bhai family wagaira ka sochne k bajaye apne baare mai socho. Tension liye bagair ye socho ki tum kya chahte ho, kya karna chahte to, kitna kamana chhahte ho fir uske baare mai research karo sath mai pray bhi karo and then apne parents se discuss karo. Time lagega but it will be worth it. Also darna mat dar insan ko haar ne se pehle hi mardeta hai and dar se zyada darawna kuch nhi hai. Best of luck. 🙌
Mera 5th drop hai aur i can feel sach me yaar ye depression anxiety bahut kharab cheez hoti hai aur iska sabse bara reason pata hai ky hai vo hai physical excercise during preparation ham band kr dete hai jisse ky hota hai stress increase hone lagta hai and then dhire dhire depression anxiety kab ho gaya pata hi nahi chalta....mai sab hi aspirant se kahooga jitne bhi hai per day 1 hr physical exercise jaroor karo pasina khoob nikalo body se tab jaa kar tum Stress depression anxiety negative thoughts sucial thoughts se bachoge ye mera personal experience hai mai pichle ek saal se bahut pareshan tha anxiety Depression se kuki mai 13 hr study aur itna menatl pressure le lia ki mujhe pata hi nahi chala ki mujhe kaise anxiety ho gaye aur 2024 ke neet ke exam se pahle mujhe 1 din me 4 panic attack aane lage jiske wajah se mera 5 saal ki mehnat barbad ho gaya mujeh laga ki mera is saal to selection pakka hai maine pichle 3 saal se sare sports aur physical work band kr dia tha sirf ye neet ke chakkar me but mai fail ho gaya aur 560 par atak gaya currently my age is 24 sab ne kaha ke ek chance aur do tm capable ho but mai andar se toot gaya aur depressed ho gaya but jab mera chota bhai mujhe kaha ki circket khelna start kr do to mai sunday Sunday start kar dia to mera sara anxiety Depression alhamdulillah 90%cure ho gaya within 1 month aur Mai week me ab 5 day 1hr walking and running krta hoo minimum 5km per day isse maine apne mental health par bahut positive affect dekha hai and now mai apna final attempt dene jaa raha with all positive vibe mujhe nahi pata mera selection hoga ki nahi hoga mujhe nahi pata mai doctor banuga ki nahi banuga par itna to hai kuch accha karuga kuki zindagi to kuch to kar hi loge agar ye zindagi hi nahi rahege to ky ghanta ukhar loge rank 1 laa kar?? isliye per day minimum 3-4 km walk ya running kro fir dekho ye negative thoughts ye suicidal thoughts kaha gayab ho jayga pata bhi nahi chalega....be strong insan hai bolege hi bas yaad rakhna ye zindgi tumhare hai so kisi ke haat me apne life ke key mat dena ❤ I know kuch log aayge bolenge are tune 6 saal laga dia ek neet ke lie to mia inlogo ko kahna chahta hoo bhai sabki life ek jaise smooth nahi hoti ho sakta ho uske life me itne problem thi ke vo shahi se padh nahi paa rha ho aur tune 6 saal me ky crore ki company khari kr li??wahi kar rha hoga mostly 9 se 6 duty 15k to 20k milta hoga aur yaha gayan de kar logo ko. Depressed krna band kr samjha na....islie in jaise chaman ke baato ko na suno ye jalte hai agar isne is saal itne mehnat kar li aur mbbs me chala gaya to life set hai iski kuki minimum after completion mbbs and intership tm 60-70k kama loge aur itna kaafi hai 2 waqt ki roti khaane ke lie....islie Stress lena band kro jo hoga dekha jayga ❤(baaki mera selection ho gaya to tumhe mai apne life ke Story sunaoga kaise ek Allen carrier institute ka 5 silver medalist ko 6 drop lag gaye neet nikalne me yes mai rank holder tha 2019 me Allen carrier institute me vo bhi 5 silver medal ke sath but kahani bahut intrested hai likh kar batauga to maza nahi aayga just wait for my turn in shaa allah next year on camera aakar batauga kaise topper bana looser then bana topper mark my words🥳🥳)
लगता हैं की इस दुनिया मे हम ही तकलीफ में हैं लेकिन जब इन लोगो को देखती हु तो लगता हैं कि क्या तकलीफ रही होगी 😢 क्यों हम अपनी खुशियां खोते चले जा रहे क्यों हम खुश्यियो को छोड़ रहे दुख को गले लगा रहे क्यों हम ऐसा के रहे सब कुछ रहते भी इंसान खुश नही रह रहा क्यों अकेलापन फील होता हैं
@@Rakeshsharma32q sharam nhi aate bakwas puchne mae tmhare ghar mae female nhi h kya mtlb pehle to koyi aise hi sad h because of this heavy loss n tm bakwas ques puch rahe ho shame on you .
being an neet ug aspirant i always feel empty from inside also am in 12 grade the overthinking of managing boards along with neet makes me so stressed idk is this a depression or not but yeah i dont talk anyone baout thiss as acc to my mind it will be waste of time in my preparation also my parents forced me to score full even in class unit tests am writting here beacuse i cant discuss with anyone so as stranger someone can help me
See aastha, You are 12th grader and you need not to stress alot but healthy stress is needed to keep going as you have board this year focus on boards if you think you will not be able to balance both take a drop and then prepare peacefully for neet, but if in case you want that i can do both succeed in both then please don’t overdo yourself.Understand you,your potential your capabilities because if you messed up both prep in order to do boht then your boards marks will be messed up and score in neet will also be not up to mark as it’s a very big deal in comparison with boards where you have fixed set of concepts and you know how questions can be framed but in neet its very vast and you need to be thorough with everything. So don’t take anything on ego,think what is right for you then proceed. All the best❤
I currently feeling empty have no thing to do i just feeling roj sona padhna, what i doing why i not busy in life bas padhna. I feeling that i end up. Bcz i feeling i have nothing to do. So i decided to leave phone also. By the way i not see mobile phone too much 1hr or 2hrs in 1 day bcz i living alone since class5 . I topped in class10, class12 preparing now for neet but now i feel empty . Have no thing to do.
@@rajveerkumar4730i not played any game Or sport since 7yrs . Even mai cricket to khele hue 6yrs ho chuke hai. I have no friend no social life. Just I decided to leave from here and return to home.
Absolutely true last 1 years I ignored literally everything to get clg 629 lake bhi kuch na mila yes but was on antidepressants for 3 months but this year I am trying to manage Everything and that's needed really needed
I have always noticed that the TOP RANKERS are mostly "depressed" because they never get to live life to the fullest like others, mainly because of self-created pressure on themselves. I have seen this since school times and this is really messed up to even think about. May such souls rest in peace, at least now 🙏🏻
i was a neet aspirant for last 4 yrs { 11 nd 12 std + 2 yrs drop } . i never wanted to become a doctor never ever matlab 10th tak jab report card mein likhe the na aim maine sab kuchhh likha thaa ias scientist astronaut pilot professor etc bt never doctor . bt everyone blessed me nd wished ki main doctor banu nd for my father i admitted okay lets give it a try prepare for neet. For almost 2 nd half yrs i was still confused ki kya kar rhi hun sahi ho raha h nhi ho raha bt finally this yr 2023 - 24 my last drop i was mentally ready that yaaahh doctor hi banna h bcs i can't leave this medical line bcs sab frnds v try kar rahe the main kaise chhod du jaise taise karke acchhe se padha i left everything social media social life function nd even happiness.... whole yr shaayad 1 ya 2 dost k saath baat karti thi wo v highest 10 baar poore saal mein . i cant share my feelings rona aata tha khud roti thi sambhaalti thi uthti thi sab khud .. mummy ko depression ki baat bolu then she be like ye sab faaltu cheez hai .. 🙂 thn neet exam happened scored good marks bt rank was not good . isi marks pe mbbs hota tha ek saal pehle bt not this yr . so at last again i failed i was devastated . i thought koi na BDS kar lenge fir neet prep chalta rahega ... bt then suddenly my CUET ICAR result came nd it was amazingly nice then i realised ki agar mehnat karne k baad v kuchh haasil nhi hua matlab ye hasil hona hi nhi tha . So now i have stopped thinking about my past ....this last yr really taught me a lots of things . I got very good rank in ICAR nd got my fav clg IARI . soon i am going to start my new life journey nd I'm happy ki mera nhi hua bcs ab sochu to main itna pressure nhi handle kar paati maine zidagi bhar sirf padha h kabhi life mein khushi se kuchh nhi kiyA h na hi ghoomi hun na get together na kuchh . i always wanted to go in teaching field nd i wish ki wo banu taaki i can not only teach the subject bt also life lessons nd morals . so its a small message " agar kuch mila to khub aur gar na mila to aur khub kyunki hona na hona sirf bhagwaan ka marzi h .. agar mil jaata shayad tab kuchhh bahot bura hota ." so thank god nd move on !!!
लगता हैं की इस दुनिया मे हम ही तकलीफ में हैं लेकिन जब इन लोगो को देखती हु तो लगता हैं कि क्या तकलीफ रही होगी 😢 क्यों हम अपनी खुशियां खोते चले जा रहे क्यों हम खुश्यियो को छोड़ रहे दुख को गले लगा रहे क्यों हम ऐसा के रहे सब कुछ रहते भी इंसान खुश नही रह रहा क्यों अकेलापन फील होता हैं
This is the best video, made on this topic. Some people are genetically prone of obsession and depression. The feeling of empty, when you're free, is a sign of depression. One must consult a psychiatrist and must take medicines for the same. These people shouldn't be left alone.
I noticed one thing here, physical health and mental health is important but spirituality is also important to live through this world. Connection with God is very important. Many people with new ideologies of Atheism dont understand this concept and alas it is inspiring our youth the most, the idea that you always have to feel good in this world, do well in your career, relations, if someone crosses you label them with prefix 'toxic' is the whole idea of new modern western psychology. And it fits with those who neglect the concept of judgement day. I'm not a preacher tho, but you have understand why in almost every religion there is the concept of afterlife or atleast spirituality. I'm not asking to become sannyasi, life is important, career is important, relationships are important, but life does not stop here. You won't find my comment related to the video but I don't wish this on others, so I found it important to point out.
@@moubhattacharyay6891 this generation's definition of happiness is so limited to partying, traveling, dating, etc. They don't recognize what is happening inside of their mind, they are only concerned with what they can see, hear and feel. This needs to be changed.
If topper can take such last step... Then imagine the mental condition of neet student at this moment with the score 630 to 650 despite which no government medical seat left for them It's very easy for some people to say "mbbs hi sab kuch nhi hai koi aur coarse lelo" ,"drop lelo agle sal aiims phod doge" "some so called unicorn coaching wale be like 600+ walo ke liye hmm coarse free mei denge" "it's very easy for them to say kuch aur karlo paisa hi sabkuch nhi hai and khud to crores mei earn krr rhe hai" did they even no how much hard work does it takes to score that many marks??? how difficult and scary it will be for students to take drop for this year after working so hard and not getting any success, what guarantee is there that they will get it next year?? Everyone, including all the coaching centers, knows that there was a scam in the NEET exam this year but everyone is busy in selling their own courses this year Many students got entry through the back door, but no one raised their voice some so called teachers just did the drama of making videos in front of supream court and nothing else.There is no one here who cares about us, when will we get justice??Even if we take drop this year ,what guarantee is there that people won't buy papers again? The administration is planning to conduct the exam in two shifts this year, but there will definitely be a scam in this too. Just look at the state of NEET PG, how much partiality has been done during normalization of both shifts. Where is the justice and transparency?? Someone getting seat by buying paper,someone take seat in private by paying huge money, someone getting seat through reserved quota even at the score of 300 to 500 and on another side students with score of 630+ from poor financial condition end up with nothing isn't it unfair??💔 this is the failure of this country every thing is compromised here Nobody can even imagine how worse the mental condition of the students and their families must be at this time......
I'm Feeling too bad for u..I can't even imagine what time you all are facing right now..I myself a dropper this year..and it's my 1st drop and didn't gave neet 2024 after 12th exams as I wasn't prepared..even though by the end of 12th I wasn't having any intention to give neet and was about to join college for any good course..but due to some reasons I ended up taking a drop..and now I'm about to complete my backlogs which I created as I joined the course late..and now I'm not sure that I will be able to Crack neet 2025 or not...as you also know this time there would be more aspirants giving neet exam including 600+ marks droppers... Sometimes I get a thought of getting one more drop if I couldn't make this time and start my prep early..but at that instant I too think what if I ended up not getting the college?....what if this scam would be repeated again if I'm about to reach cutoff?...I'll be in the same condition as you people are right now..and I know I'll be in too much depression if such thing happens to me...that's why sometimes I think to take up a partial drop next year so that even such things happen I'll be on the safer side..but I can't find any other such good courses🙁.. And as you have said about the coachings...yes..they don't care about such things and just want to advertise and grow there business..as nowadays people are finding coachings to be the best source for there businesses...they don't care that much about the students..or how much they suffer to prepare for this examination.. I hope you people cope up with this scam and may the God give you courage for fighting up your battles..💙
I get u completey, facing the same issue! I scored 600, it was my 1st attempt along w boards…parents don’t allow me to take drop either, so gtg with private…and here in my state even a top pvt clg cutoff is 598…so even for pvt clg, not only money but mark is also needed…and no doubt scam has happened and rank inflation is so insane this year! I get ur position completely! It’s unfair as hell
Thanks Lakshya bhaiya to give importance to this issue 🙏 Competition ki tayari aapka self confidence and self worth kayi baar break kar deti hai and life m vhi sabse important hota hai .. .So people who are reading this I request them to study psychology self help books or too seek therapist if you can afford because many times the root cause could be underlying trauma and incidents which a individual at our age is unable to track and leads to recoccuring behaviours and patterns There are many opportunities in this world just we need to see them and become your own best friend and try to give time to physical exercise in the morning -Keep hustling and keep your loved ones with you so that unse baat kar ke hi thoda acha feel ho jae
Spirituality is very important in every aspects of our life irrespective of whichever religion or god one believes in.... if we truly start to have faith in almighty God it gives us inner strength to deal with life more positively
Mere papa ne bhi 29 November 2023 ko suside kr liya tha kyuki unka operation fail ho gya tha or bo itne depressed ho chuke the ki unhe bas phashi hi dikhti thi bahut bar bachaya but end me 😢😢 sab khatam ho gya abhi me 1 year se itni depressed hu 10th me district topper thi abhi 12 me aisa lag rha pass ho jau bahi bahut hai
I am genuinely anxious for you too Pta nhi tumhe dekh ke lagta nhi tum satisfy ho bhi neet se Pls tum apna bhi dhyan rakhna I think you are also going through high functioning depression.. Tumhari videos dekh ke lagta h tum me vo sare symptoms h jo high functioning depression me hote h Pls have a search on youtube about high functioning depression and counslt a doctor also Take care And one more thing life is much more beyond than aiims Good luck
It’s a way of thinking. It’s a perspective of life. He has everything n everything perfect still he choose the wrong step. His perspective was negative. U will find people who have nothing really, but still they have a positive outlook towards life. Medicines can help obviously but not from within. Maybe help temporary. But u gotta change ur perspective at the end.
लगता हैं की इस दुनिया मे हम ही तकलीफ में हैं लेकिन जब इन लोगो को देखती हु तो लगता हैं कि क्या तकलीफ रही होगी 😢 क्यों हम अपनी खुशियां खोते चले जा रहे क्यों हम खुश्यियो को छोड़ रहे दुख को गले लगा रहे क्यों हम ऐसा के रहे सब कुछ रहते भी इंसान खुश नही रह रहा क्यों अकेलापन फील होता हैं
Damn, can't even think a brilliant brain like him would take such a tragic step. It really shows how important mental health is, no matter how successful or intelligent someone might appear.
It's rightly said that you can't patch the wounded soul with just a Band-Aid. It's high time to prioritise the mental health above everything....... Open forums and discussions should be made mandatory in every public space, including schools, colleges, and workplaces. It's time to take a break from your hectic routine and look around for loved ones and friends who are exhibiting sudden change in behaviour but are unexpressive. It's possible that they need your assistance, and it could save their life. Life, after all, is more valuable than anything else in the entire universe......
I too had suffered from dipression and had regular visits to a doctor till 3 month then ignored the treatment. The one thing which I learnt from that phase is that what I feel is not actually me.... it's some kind of neurochemical imbalance running though brain, what I am? I am consciousness which is different from these neurochemicals and whenever I feel that neurochemicals are doing out of balance, I do such things to start making them in balance, feel good things, physical exhaustion, oxygenating exercises etc.....the only thing which I learnt, whenever I feel dipressed or stressed, I don't accept that these is complete me, but some part of my brain which is different from my identity that is consciousness, I always try to relax hyperactivity behaviour.
If human conciousness is always aware about the root it belongs to....mental health will keep coming back on track...psychiatrists and psychologists therapists provide the same thing... GOOD POSITIVE WORDS WITH THEIR HEALING THERAPIES That's what religous books do !! Reciting and consuming positive content from religous books keeps u on track I'm the most happiest content person because of spirituality Youngsters need to go back to what mankind took for granted Gratitude and spirituality is the key
God ik the pain may my lord help his parents now yes depression is real this year i got 629 in neet and didn't get any clg am dropping agin but last year but believe me 2024 jan to march was hell for me i was into depression and anxiety although i was a topper in school and even was scoring well in tests still i suffered from that hell and its real .. i was on antidepressants and recovered as well now completely fine by god's grace we should seek professional help when needed my lord i can understand the pain 😭
Struggle is the life jab life se Struggle khatam ho jata h kuch karne ko nhi bachta toh bhi aadmi deeprssion chala jata i have also feel deepresion afer mbbs but brain is structured that way it wants everytime challenges isliye jab tak isko challenges dete rahoge tab tak isko maja aata rahega isko challenge dena band kar diya toh ye tumhe depressed kar dega nasha,poronograpy m bhi hamare jane ka yahi reason h hum brain ko challenges nhi dete
To anyone going through depression, its completely curable as i have gone through it myself . I know things get difficult and negative talks surrounds you that will i be ever like before and i faced the same doubt but if you are reading it just keep good lifestyle, exercise take help from psychologist and it will be cured.
@@PRIME-v7t it's basically when you start feeling insignificant in this world, as in you have no purpose in life. It might be because of a drastic change in your environment or the way you used to live your life. It can be because of studies (you were a consistent topper but now you are not able to do well in studies, while other students can) or social life (you are finding it difficult to make friends or are not able to connect in your friends group) or parents (their expectations from you are higher now, they depend their future on your performance but you are not able to stand on their expectations) or relationship (your partner is toxic) or other factors (for eg, harrasment) or simply living alone with very less social interaction or multiple of these factors. Anything can be possible but one thing that is common among all is the inability to share your feelings with someone, where you can feel heard. Trust me feeling heard is very important for your mental health which is lacking these days. Changing your environment, your habits, engaging in outdoor activities, talking to parents or at least friends can help a lot. If nothing works, spirituality is a way. Take stand for yourself, be courageous, socyde is not a solution, you may think that it may end your sufferings but just think about your parents, your dreams. Any sort of expectations should not belittle you, you are more capable of what you think about yourself and there are millions of possibilities, if one doesn't seem to work, try another. All the best😊
everyone once in their life feel this situation even i was the same person I used to think what if I survived and found paralysis!!!!! I was so stupid I used to think all the day about what to end my life I used to be sad all the day I would not do anything but only think about how to end my life! That time was extremely hard you can’t think about anyone who is imp to you. You only think about how to end the life I can’t express that situation but that part of my life taht 2 years were extremely stressful difficult but toady I’m grateful that I SURVIVED AND IM HAPPY NOW! just want to say no matter how difficult it’s but you have to stand for yourself and no matter what life is beautiful just give it a chance and you will realise it!! Don’t take any of decisions like this! Ik it’s difficult but you will overcome it one day and you will be proud of yourself okyy! And yeah just always try to help people you never know how someone’s life is going
There's some reason behind such behaviour it's not something related to being a doctor he said in his bio he was forced to become a doctor he has history of depression in his family his family is responsible for his suicide not him or anyone else
Here i want to share my stroy I am 27 year old girl from knapur . I have a dream since from my childhood that one day i will be a doctor andthen i started preparing and in 2015,2016,2017 i prepared but unfortunately not got selected. I remember i was in depression and whole day i only cry and do unusual things and always try to hurt my self use to fight from my parents and shout in home even i try to hurt my Little brother and my father mother are very scared of me In short i behave like a pagal Mere papa muje bahut sare mandir la jate the ki ye sahi ho jaye Spritual cheeje help krti hain Phir meine el normal se college mein btc ( teaching course mein ) addmission liya Mere mummy papa ne kabhi doctor ko nhi dikhaya but yeah bahut supportive the bahut ache se bat krte acge se pyar se rhte meri failure ko bhul gye the And then mein jab btc krti bahut bura lgta tha ki bekar jagha agyi But now today I did btc b.ed m.ed ( bhu)ctet uptet net jrf Aaj doctor jitni nhi but dhere dhere hi sahi padh rhi hu aage ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Actually as a whole society hum success ko itna chase krte and and krwate h ki hum 2 scnd ruk kr khud se ye bhi nhi puchte ki mere liye individual level pr successe h kya
idk y i can relate to this... i cracked neet this yr but yes ofc i couldnt manage none of the colleges i expected bcoz of nta... everyone is like ur grateful tht atleast u got mbbs... after all this jo mila uska kadar karo nd all nd ik i should... but idk y i m not okay... also being a girl from west bengal and ig everyone knows what happened here... nd after tht i m scared... consumed by irrational and illogical stupid thoughts... got nothing to do the whole day... these thoughts are draining me i feel empty... nd i almost stopped talking to the 1-2 friends left till now... yup i dont have much friends... nd i m lost now... shattered tbh... yes this is how nta crushed dreams nd yes ik everyone will say stop acting atleast u managed a govt clg!!! nd i know i m stupid scared and coward... wish someone understands me!!!
@sushmitasarkar9381 Hey congratulations for what u achieved... Everyone's life isn't same dear... Kolkata case had many other reasons.. and her death is a planned murder... Just don't let these thoughts burn ur dream... We all r with u... U will become a doctor one day... Don't let ur thoughts shatter ur passion... Go ahead.. and talk to ur friends and family.... Enjoy this life and be happy... Have a great day ahead ❤
u r not stupid scared and coward, wut u r going through is genuine. i feel like u should seek talk therapy. Also i m pretty sure u will achieve great heights in life
7:20 In 99% case of depressed people's there's no one in their life whom they can share their problems 1) parents - they will not understand our problems as bcz of generation gap 2) other relatives - Do you think they even care about you?? absolutely no!!! 3) " Friends " - Obviously they will not take us seriously!! Now who's left with whom you can discuss your issues...? & suppose if anyone hears your issues then also is your problems going to get solve after talking to that person?? No. You are still living your hell life.... As you are the only person who can solve your own issues.... You have to face it yourself at the end
Faulty education system is the cause . Aur Indian society jaha ap log rank ko hi importance dete ho . Aur sab rat race me loop me fase hue ha . Medical college me bahut sare frustration hota ha.
Bhaiya I am also suffering from severe depression...maine 4 baar try Kiya tha suside karne ka ..bahut painful jindigi hote hai lagta hai ke apne he daldal me fas gae hai usme se nikalna bahut muskil ho jaata hai ...and thank God finnally me iss serious mentally illness se bahar aagya
Bhaiya mere backlog kam nehi ho raha hai isiliye me sari umede chhod chuki new day i try to give 100% but i am fail and i small depreesed but i dont commited suicide please help me
Mere aak relative the jisko 2022 me neet ke andar counselling me semi government medical college alloted hua tha....abhi woo bohot khush he mbbs journey se...
U r right..if human conciousness is always aware about the root it belongs to....mental health will keep coming back on track...psychiatrists and psychologists therapists provide the same thing... GOOD POSITIVE WORDS WITH THEIR HEALING THERAPIES That's what religous books do !! Reciting and consuming positive content from religous books keeps u on track I'm the most happiest content person because of spirituality Youngsters need to go back to what mankind took for granted Gratitude and spirituality is the key
लगता हैं की इस दुनिया मे हम ही तकलीफ में हैं लेकिन जब इन लोगो को देखती हु तो लगता हैं कि क्या तकलीफ रही होगी 😢 क्यों हम अपनी खुशियां खोते चले जा रहे क्यों हम खुश्यियो को छोड़ रहे दुख को गले लगा रहे क्यों हम ऐसा के रहे सब कुछ रहते भी इंसान खुश नही रह रहा क्यों अकेलापन फील होता हैं
I am an FMG Mbbs student this December i have to appear in exam ..as we go abroad and just after 12 class I went to Russia we have no idea what Nmc notice publishes where does they publish they are now asking for neetug 2019 which I have lost marksheet which if i don’t find out i will be not allowed for FMG dec exam …I belong to low class family my parents don’t eat properly to fulfill my college fee I have taken lakhs of money for Mbbs abroad but just because of one paper my career is shattered and I am thinking of suicide anyhow I am bad kid of my parents
don’t be like that bro everything will be fine oky don’t think about suicide think about your parents they have put so much efforts to get you in aboard MBBS be patient and search Everything will be fine
Itna Jyada randomly hone lagega agar depression, wo bhi bina kisi visible cause ke hi... To kya hum ye maan lein ki ye bhi aaj kal bohot hi commonly dekhe ja rahe heart attacks ki hi tarah "poor lifestyle" ka result hai?? Na ki kisi 💉💉 ke side effect ka? 🤔
@TravelLover-d5r abhi to thik haan kio problem nahi hui mujha to , yrr allen ka pata nahi helix bdiya haan from my think or like god grace humari teacher achi haan samj ata haan mera batch 14 haan,or humra batch ma 55 haan
@TravelLover-d5r faculty bdiya haan special syal sir interact karta haan or hum jaka goal bhi set bhi karta ki kitna marks agya nahi ata to sir khud bata haan ki kya problem haan
@TravelLover-d5r abhi tak 10 bacha tha jinki top 10 rank thi out of 12 batches they are under 20 rank kyu ki ab humra comption humra hi institute ka 12 batches sa tha
Seriously I'm that person who used to think that you only get depressed when you fail in your life but no........this story really changed my thoughts and myself as well!!!
Hume toh fail hoke bhi depression nahi horaha 😶
@@adresschoudhary Khush raho ki tumhe itni strong mental strength mili hai.
An advice for u @ritimehta try not to upload ur original pfp on internet 🙏
Achi baat h@@adresschoudhary
@@suchismitakar2154 mental strength utni bhi strong nahi thi but parents ka support ki wajah se stress bilkul nahi hota hai papa ne bol rakha hai jab tak mein 28-29 ka nahi hojata tab tak jitna experiment krna hai kar le tab tak mein paise kama raha hu and uske baad bhi agar kuch nahi hua toh fir unka kaam mujhe sambhalana hoga 😶
Thank you....krishna for saving me from all those stuffs
Talking to God is the best therapy...
yes. we need to develop unshakeable faith. which god, which family, parent and friend does not matter
I was a krishna bhakt from child like from 8 year old I was topper student till class 11 th , but after watching pk movie my believe in God was completely shattered and I also did watch movie i virus(south indian movie) how they showed that other than male and female gender otherse are worse, I am a boy but because I was than not that manly frnds in my class mzak m kisiko v gay ya not manky bolke chidate the Or ya if I saw transgender people , after getting very good marks in class 10th i used to feel like sucide because in my mind because I was unmanly I used think in my mind I don't derseve to be with people that I stayed 2 years 11th and 12 alone, left my oold frnds because inside me I used to fear I am becoming like I movie transgender villain,
But than I saw inner engineering on you tube I did that my depression went away,and that time ayushman khuarana movie about was released and showed that other gender also haved respect than I used to feel even I M gay so what,I told my mom and papa that some people in my class 11th and 12th bullied me ,tortured me mentally when teacheree was not around that I gay in my mind gay means I movie transgendered villain at that time I was 16th and 17 in class 11th and 12th though I am not gay i M attracted to female even girls used to talked I just separate myself from everyone, I told my parents everything afterse years now no sign of depression everything in life feels great again now I am doing great in academics.now again I believed in God spirituality, devi they really do exist but ite only our physical limitations that we cannt see them but we can feel them
@@suchismitakar2154ab to one night stand , dating , causal relationship ,
S*x before marriage wala culture as chuka h , us wala ise welcome karo ab ,
Thanks to feminist , industrialists, media. Bollywood and wokism
Hare Krishna hare Krishna Krishna Krishna hare hare hare ram hare ram ram ram hare hare 🕉️🌺🔱
Yaa it is ❤❤❤😌😌
Life is difficult for everyone ( Toppers, Backbenchers, Rich, poor).... But make your self mentally strong to Faces All the situations which came in your Path...
Mental health is as important as physical health, but nowadays it is more neglected, we can become physical healthy by doing exercises but what about actual health?
Why are you deviating from the topic
Absolutely 💯 right ❤
Hello there ...hare Krishna...
I don't know which religion you belong to. Name: Im not ...talking about any specific religion here. I am just saying that mental health is as important as physical health. Mental health is also important to maintain mental health. You should definitely do mantra meditation, do something like this in your daily routineWe need it so that our mind remains completely calm and there is peace in the mind.....😅😊❤
By the help of ...
1.mantra meditation
2. Chanting holy name of god ...
3. Spend family time ...😭🫶🏻
@@pagalshubh6848 you didn't understood my context , I am trying to say that we are living in different spaces right now and we are not giving equal importance to mental health
@@ahaeeeitsaashi8520billshit I am athiest
@@unknown-i6u1qbro mental health ke liye bhajan karo Deenanath Prabhu ka ,
Bhagwannanam me Bahot dhakti hai , jab wahi ekamatr aashray honge to koi depression wagairah nahi ,
Dak hi path hai dharm ka jo dehavsan ke baad sath me jaayega , aur dak had hai parmatma ka wahan koi seat limitations nahi hai .
Tyag, vairagya , bhakti ka jeevan ke pravesh ho to koi depression nahi
Maturity is when you realize that suicidal and depressing contents are good for informative point of view but consuming such contents makes you more sensitive and conscious to depression and trauma! Just skip such contents and spend time with yourself and nature, friends and family and yes if you are not blessed with such people then just connect yourself with God.
Only summary is that No one is ever fully satisfied with owns life. And if your ever find yourself deprived just think of the people who are far beyond deprived even with the resources which you as a human being are blessed with.
That's the most intellectual comment I have seen yet yup curiosity kills
Absolutely Well & Appropriate Cmnt👍🏻
This is what exactly I think but couldn't frame in words as u did. I request you to write more things on this topic. Many suicidal persons would definitely benefit.
I was also in severe depression when I was 14... The only thing I did was not committing Suicide.... I overcame depression after an year but I lost my short term memory..
Conclusion: life is a beautiful journey don't end it by ur own hands... Suicide is never the solution..!!
ii am noww in depression🙂🙂
bhai mai last year 12th kiya tha pcb se extra me maths aur fir drop liya neet keliye aur cutoff bhaggya mera 350 marks aya kya kru life me smjh ni arha depression me hu btech cse krlu? leki private se 15k salary milti h ya unemployed rhuga fir kya kru bhai? na nind ari na bhuk lgri soch soch kr
bhai bhai🙂
hamko tention hora 2 hr soya hu rat me nind tutjata aur yhi khyal ata h🙂 i will loose my respect from family, my dreams, whole life will be regretting
suicidal thoughts arhe h🙂
Don't worry . Everything will be fine just talk to ur loved ones@@hellofvision
Bhai jab tune soch hie liya hai tujhe 15k ke salary milege life mai to tera likh ke lele kuch nhi ho skta. @@hellofvision
😮😮
@@hellofvision bhai family wagaira ka sochne k bajaye apne baare mai socho. Tension liye bagair ye socho ki tum kya chahte ho, kya karna chahte to, kitna kamana chhahte ho fir uske baare mai research karo sath mai pray bhi karo and then apne parents se discuss karo. Time lagega but it will be worth it. Also darna mat dar insan ko haar ne se pehle hi mardeta hai and dar se zyada darawna kuch nhi hai. Best of luck. 🙌
Mera 5th drop hai aur i can feel sach me yaar ye depression anxiety bahut kharab cheez hoti hai aur iska sabse bara reason pata hai ky hai vo hai physical excercise during preparation ham band kr dete hai jisse ky hota hai stress increase hone lagta hai and then dhire dhire depression anxiety kab ho gaya pata hi nahi chalta....mai sab hi aspirant se kahooga jitne bhi hai per day 1 hr physical exercise jaroor karo pasina khoob nikalo body se tab jaa kar tum Stress depression anxiety negative thoughts sucial thoughts se bachoge ye mera personal experience hai mai pichle ek saal se bahut pareshan tha anxiety Depression se kuki mai 13 hr study aur itna menatl pressure le lia ki mujhe pata hi nahi chala ki mujhe kaise anxiety ho gaye aur 2024 ke neet ke exam se pahle mujhe 1 din me 4 panic attack aane lage jiske wajah se mera 5 saal ki mehnat barbad ho gaya mujeh laga ki mera is saal to selection pakka hai maine pichle 3 saal se sare sports aur physical work band kr dia tha sirf ye neet ke chakkar me but mai fail ho gaya aur 560 par atak gaya currently my age is 24 sab ne kaha ke ek chance aur do tm capable ho but mai andar se toot gaya aur depressed ho gaya but jab mera chota bhai mujhe kaha ki circket khelna start kr do to mai sunday Sunday start kar dia to mera sara anxiety Depression alhamdulillah 90%cure ho gaya within 1 month aur Mai week me ab 5 day 1hr walking and running krta hoo minimum 5km per day isse maine apne mental health par bahut positive affect dekha hai and now mai apna final attempt dene jaa raha with all positive vibe mujhe nahi pata mera selection hoga ki nahi hoga mujhe nahi pata mai doctor banuga ki nahi banuga par itna to hai kuch accha karuga kuki zindagi to kuch to kar hi loge agar ye zindagi hi nahi rahege to ky ghanta ukhar loge rank 1 laa kar?? isliye per day minimum 3-4 km walk ya running kro fir dekho ye negative thoughts ye suicidal thoughts kaha gayab ho jayga pata bhi nahi chalega....be strong insan hai bolege hi bas yaad rakhna ye zindgi tumhare hai so kisi ke haat me apne life ke key mat dena ❤ I know kuch log aayge bolenge are tune 6 saal laga dia ek neet ke lie to mia inlogo ko kahna chahta hoo bhai sabki life ek jaise smooth nahi hoti ho sakta ho uske life me itne problem thi ke vo shahi se padh nahi paa rha ho aur tune 6 saal me ky crore ki company khari kr li??wahi kar rha hoga mostly 9 se 6 duty 15k to 20k milta hoga aur yaha gayan de kar logo ko. Depressed krna band kr samjha na....islie in jaise chaman ke baato ko na suno ye jalte hai agar isne is saal itne mehnat kar li aur mbbs me chala gaya to life set hai iski kuki minimum after completion mbbs and intership tm 60-70k kama loge aur itna kaafi hai 2 waqt ki roti khaane ke lie....islie Stress lena band kro jo hoga dekha jayga ❤(baaki mera selection ho gaya to tumhe mai apne life ke Story sunaoga kaise ek Allen carrier institute ka 5 silver medalist ko 6 drop lag gaye neet nikalne me yes mai rank holder tha 2019 me Allen carrier institute me vo bhi 5 silver medal ke sath but kahani bahut intrested hai likh kar batauga to maza nahi aayga just wait for my turn in shaa allah next year on camera aakar batauga kaise topper bana looser then bana topper mark my words🥳🥳)
Bhai. Tu telegram I'd de de yrr plz ..
Connect kar gaya yrr Teri neet life story se
😊
More power to you
Hey on same boaT as you
can u share what went wrong ki aap ka selection kyo nahi hua with in 1 or 2 attwmpt
I request all aspirants that please don't try to make any decisions without proper knowledge or something
Can You Explain This to indian Parents sabko Bas sharma ji ke londe se jyada mark chahiye 😢.
Reservation se pahuche tha woh
@@aeer69 whatever it is but the truth is he really cracked neet that time which used to be tougher
लगता हैं की इस दुनिया मे हम ही तकलीफ में हैं लेकिन जब इन लोगो को देखती हु तो लगता हैं कि क्या तकलीफ रही होगी 😢 क्यों हम अपनी खुशियां खोते चले जा रहे क्यों हम खुश्यियो को छोड़ रहे दुख को गले लगा रहे क्यों हम ऐसा के रहे सब कुछ रहते भी इंसान खुश नही रह रहा क्यों अकेलापन फील होता हैं
Zaroori nahi hai har succesful insaan khus ho
Ham sirf unka bahari roop dekhte hai patanahi vo andar se kitna khokhla ho chuke ho😢😢
RIP
Reservation se pahuche tha woh
@@aeer69chup rah samjha air 1 tha fir bhi reservation ka r rona macha rakha hai sidha bolo tumhara cutoff par nhi hua failure 😂😂
Reservation air 1 general rank nhi aati
Reservation se cutt off nichi chali jaati h unn logo ki
@@Medshaurts wdym
his family celebrated organising various functions at his home in 2017 now this all turned such aa very bad way
Ye kya baat h yrr ,jaha pahunchne ke liye hm abhi Toot rahe h , wha pohonchkr bhi log toote pde h ?
Wogi to ..but hmesha chill rehnka
Bhai agrr bas money, or fame k liye kisi profession M ja rhe ho to mat jao it's like worse than hell, I know it how it feels, passion matter a lot.
@@Fineiaapeace123 passion doesn't matter money matters
@@Fineiaapeace123Agar passion mein mehnat kiye jaa rahe ho aur mil kuch nahi raha , toh passion pursue karne ki bhi iccha nahi hoti 😮
Fact hai
Reservation se pahuche tha woh
My sister also committed suicide on 18th July 2024, and my parents could not recover from this incident
☹ but why???
Why,
so sorry to hear that please take care of yourself and your family.
@@Rakeshsharma32q sharam nhi aate bakwas puchne mae tmhare ghar mae female nhi h kya mtlb pehle to koyi aise hi sad h because of this heavy loss n tm bakwas ques puch rahe ho shame on you .
Bro she was your sis in this life now God had gave her a new life now ,she would be living same as me and you , This god krishna says ❤
we lost him to toxicity of MAMC not to depression
RG kar ki tarah?
Yeah his father said the same, I read that report now, alleging harrassement
MAMC me bohut toxicity hoti hai even I have came under such articles
@@subhamsutradhar4531 senior make your life hell
@@subhamsutradhar4531 in every medical college somewhere more somewhere less
being an neet ug aspirant i always feel empty from inside also am in 12 grade the overthinking of managing boards along with neet makes me so stressed idk is this a depression or not but yeah i dont talk anyone baout thiss as acc to my mind it will be waste of time in my preparation also my parents forced me to score full even in class unit tests am writting here beacuse i cant discuss with anyone so as stranger someone can help me
See aastha,
You are 12th grader and you need not to stress alot but healthy stress is needed to keep going as you have board this year focus on boards if you think you will not be able to balance both take a drop and then prepare peacefully for neet, but if in case you want that i can do both succeed in both then please don’t overdo yourself.Understand you,your potential your capabilities because if you messed up both prep in order to do boht then your boards marks will be messed up and score in neet will also be not up to mark as it’s a very big deal in comparison with boards where you have fixed set of concepts and you know how questions can be framed but in neet its very vast and you need to be thorough with everything.
So don’t take anything on ego,think what is right for you then proceed.
All the best❤
@@khushboovishwa thanks ❣😇
12 board p jyda focus kro...especially physics...as a (neet dropper)
im in 12th too, a neet aspirant. We could be friends if you want and can study together too. How can we connect?
Zindagi bohot badi hai my friend, sab phase hai life ka ye..3rd dropper hoon and currently in kota. ~from another neet ug aspirant ❤
सबसे बेस्ट है teacher प्रोफेसर बनना लाइफ में खुशी ही खुशी thanks 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
I currently feeling empty have no thing to do i just feeling roj sona padhna, what i doing why i not busy in life bas padhna. I feeling that i end up. Bcz i feeling i have nothing to do. So i decided to leave phone also. By the way i not see mobile phone too much 1hr or 2hrs in 1 day bcz i living alone since class5 . I topped in class10, class12 preparing now for neet but now i feel empty . Have no thing to do.
Bhar jaoo broo khelo
@@rajveerkumar4730i not played any game Or sport since 7yrs . Even mai cricket to khele hue 6yrs ho chuke hai. I have no friend no social life. Just I decided to leave from here and return to home.
I'm also preparing for neet can we be frnds bcz I think we are in same situation😢
@@RajMalhotra-k6z ok bro ..number do will talk
Gym
Boys must must develop a social life and go out with friends of both genders . Down time partying is as important as slogging for exams .
Absolutely true last 1 years I ignored literally everything to get clg 629 lake bhi kuch na mila yes but was on antidepressants for 3 months but this year I am trying to manage Everything and that's needed really needed
I have always noticed that the TOP RANKERS are mostly "depressed" because they never get to live life to the fullest like others, mainly because of self-created pressure on themselves. I have seen this since school times and this is really messed up to even think about. May such souls rest in peace, at least now 🙏🏻
i was a neet aspirant for last 4 yrs { 11 nd 12 std + 2 yrs drop } . i never wanted to become a doctor never ever matlab 10th tak jab report card mein likhe the na aim maine sab kuchhh likha thaa ias scientist astronaut pilot professor etc bt never doctor . bt everyone blessed me nd wished ki main doctor banu nd for my father i admitted okay lets give it a try prepare for neet. For almost 2 nd half yrs i was still confused ki kya kar rhi hun sahi ho raha h nhi ho raha bt finally this yr 2023 - 24 my last drop i was mentally ready that yaaahh doctor hi banna h bcs i can't leave this medical line bcs sab frnds v try kar rahe the main kaise chhod du jaise taise karke acchhe se padha i left everything social media social life function nd even happiness.... whole yr shaayad 1 ya 2 dost k saath baat karti thi wo v highest 10 baar poore saal mein . i cant share my feelings rona aata tha khud roti thi sambhaalti thi uthti thi sab khud .. mummy ko depression ki baat bolu then she be like ye sab faaltu cheez hai .. 🙂 thn neet exam happened scored good marks bt rank was not good . isi marks pe mbbs hota tha ek saal pehle bt not this yr . so at last again i failed i was devastated . i thought koi na BDS kar lenge fir neet prep chalta rahega ... bt then suddenly my CUET ICAR result came nd it was amazingly nice then i realised ki agar mehnat karne k baad v kuchh haasil nhi hua matlab ye hasil hona hi nhi tha . So now i have stopped thinking about my past ....this last yr really taught me a lots of things . I got very good rank in ICAR nd got my fav clg IARI . soon i am going to start my new life journey nd I'm happy ki mera nhi hua bcs ab sochu to main itna pressure nhi handle kar paati maine zidagi bhar sirf padha h kabhi life mein khushi se kuchh nhi kiyA h na hi ghoomi hun na get together na kuchh . i always wanted to go in teaching field nd i wish ki wo banu taaki i can not only teach the subject bt also life lessons nd morals . so its a small message " agar kuch mila to khub aur gar na mila to aur khub kyunki hona na hona sirf bhagwaan ka marzi h .. agar mil jaata shayad tab kuchhh bahot bura hota ." so thank god nd move on !!!
This is same my story yarr.
All the best for your future 🙏🏻
लगता हैं की इस दुनिया मे हम ही तकलीफ में हैं लेकिन जब इन लोगो को देखती हु तो लगता हैं कि क्या तकलीफ रही होगी 😢 क्यों हम अपनी खुशियां खोते चले जा रहे क्यों हम खुश्यियो को छोड़ रहे दुख को गले लगा रहे क्यों हम ऐसा के रहे सब कुछ रहते भी इंसान खुश नही रह रहा क्यों अकेलापन फील होता हैं
This is the best video, made on this topic. Some people are genetically prone of obsession and depression. The feeling of empty, when you're free, is a sign of depression. One must consult a psychiatrist and must take medicines for the same. These people shouldn't be left alone.
I noticed one thing here, physical health and mental health is important but spirituality is also important to live through this world. Connection with God is very important. Many people with new ideologies of Atheism dont understand this concept and alas it is inspiring our youth the most, the idea that you always have to feel good in this world, do well in your career, relations, if someone crosses you label them with prefix 'toxic' is the whole idea of new modern western psychology. And it fits with those who neglect the concept of judgement day. I'm not a preacher tho, but you have understand why in almost every religion there is the concept of afterlife or atleast spirituality. I'm not asking to become sannyasi, life is important, career is important, relationships are important, but life does not stop here. You won't find my comment related to the video but I don't wish this on others, so I found it important to point out.
It's ACTUALLY RELATABLE WITH THIS KIND OF STUFF OF MENTAL HEALTH & WELLNESS SPECIALLY NOWADAYS IN CHAOTIC WORLD.. 😊
@@moubhattacharyay6891 this generation's definition of happiness is so limited to partying, traveling, dating, etc. They don't recognize what is happening inside of their mind, they are only concerned with what they can see, hear and feel. This needs to be changed.
I totally agree with you
If topper can take such last step...
Then imagine the mental condition of neet student at this moment with the score 630 to 650 despite which no government medical seat left for them
It's very easy for some people to say "mbbs hi sab kuch nhi hai koi aur coarse lelo" ,"drop lelo agle sal aiims phod doge" "some so called unicorn coaching wale be like 600+ walo ke liye hmm coarse free mei denge" "it's very easy for them to say kuch aur karlo paisa hi sabkuch nhi hai and khud to crores mei earn krr rhe hai" did they even no how much hard work does it takes to score that many marks??? how difficult and scary it will be for students to take drop for this year after working so hard and not getting any success, what guarantee is there that they will get it next year??
Everyone, including all the coaching centers, knows that there was a scam in the NEET exam this year but everyone is busy in selling their own courses this year Many students got entry through the back door, but no one raised their voice some so called teachers just did the drama of making videos in front of supream court and nothing else.There is no one here who cares about us, when will we get justice??Even if we take drop this year ,what guarantee is there that people won't buy papers again? The administration is planning to conduct the exam in two shifts this year, but there will definitely be a scam in this too. Just look at the state of NEET PG, how much partiality has been done during normalization of both shifts.
Where is the justice and transparency??
Someone getting seat by buying paper,someone take seat in private by paying huge money, someone getting seat through reserved quota even at the score of 300 to 500 and on another side students with score of 630+ from poor financial condition end up with nothing isn't it unfair??💔 this is the failure of this country every thing is compromised here
Nobody can even imagine how worse the mental condition of the students and their families must be at this time......
True bhai
😢
Yaha India mein medical education bhot corrupt hogya hai
Medical entrance exam for each level has become a hell hole
I'm Feeling too bad for u..I can't even imagine what time you all are facing right now..I myself a dropper this year..and it's my 1st drop and didn't gave neet 2024 after 12th exams as I wasn't prepared..even though by the end of 12th I wasn't having any intention to give neet and was about to join college for any good course..but due to some reasons I ended up taking a drop..and now I'm about to complete my backlogs which I created as I joined the course late..and now I'm not sure that I will be able to Crack neet 2025 or not...as you also know this time there would be more aspirants giving neet exam including 600+ marks droppers...
Sometimes I get a thought of getting one more drop if I couldn't make this time and start my prep early..but at that instant I too think what if I ended up not getting the college?....what if this scam would be repeated again if I'm about to reach cutoff?...I'll be in the same condition as you people are right now..and I know I'll be in too much depression if such thing happens to me...that's why sometimes I think to take up a partial drop next year so that even such things happen I'll be on the safer side..but I can't find any other such good courses🙁..
And as you have said about the coachings...yes..they don't care about such things and just want to advertise and grow there business..as nowadays people are finding coachings to be the best source for there businesses...they don't care that much about the students..or how much they suffer to prepare for this examination..
I hope you people cope up with this scam and may the God give you courage for fighting up your battles..💙
I get u completey, facing the same issue! I scored 600, it was my 1st attempt along w boards…parents don’t allow me to take drop either, so gtg with private…and here in my state even a top pvt clg cutoff is 598…so even for pvt clg, not only money but mark is also needed…and no doubt scam has happened and rank inflation is so insane this year! I get ur position completely! It’s unfair as hell
I can feel ur pain😭
True'3 months gone nothing happened 😢
Thanks Lakshya bhaiya to give importance to this issue 🙏
Competition ki tayari aapka self confidence and self worth kayi baar break kar deti hai and life m vhi sabse important hota hai ..
.So people who are reading this I request them to study psychology self help books or too seek therapist if you can afford because many times the root cause could be underlying trauma and incidents which a individual at our age is unable to track and leads to recoccuring behaviours and patterns
There are many opportunities in this world just we need to see them and become your own best friend and try to give time to physical exercise in the morning
-Keep hustling and keep your loved ones with you so that unse baat kar ke hi thoda acha feel ho jae
He died but also sent the message how serious depression which people in India don't realise i hope he is in better place now
Spirituality is very important in every aspects of our life irrespective of whichever religion or god one believes in.... if we truly start to have faith in almighty God it gives us inner strength to deal with life more positively
Mere papa ne bhi 29 November 2023 ko suside kr liya tha kyuki unka operation fail ho gya tha or bo itne depressed ho chuke the ki unhe bas phashi hi dikhti thi bahut bar bachaya but end me 😢😢 sab khatam ho gya abhi me 1 year se itni depressed hu 10th me district topper thi abhi 12 me aisa lag rha pass ho jau bahi bahut hai
Aisa na sochiye man laga kar padhiye abhi bahut mauka hai time hai 12 ke exam hone me. Padhte rahiye
Sab ho jayega jivan itna bhi katin nahi hai jitna hum khud se bana lete hai
Depression is the weakness of the student's...may god bless him
First comment ❤
But the story 🥲
This reflects the amount of toxicity in medical field 😢
I am genuinely anxious for you too
Pta nhi tumhe dekh ke lagta nhi tum satisfy ho bhi neet se
Pls tum apna bhi dhyan rakhna
I think you are also going through high functioning depression..
Tumhari videos dekh ke lagta h tum me vo sare symptoms h jo high functioning depression me hote h
Pls have a search on youtube about high functioning depression and counslt a doctor also
Take care
And one more thing life is much more beyond than aiims
Good luck
Thanks for your concerns, but I am perfectly fine 🙏🏻 I am really happy and grateful, my parents are proud.
@@LakshyaAmbastha great then,but take care
Lol😂
@@tseliot6066 isme hasne ki kya baat h?
@@tseliot6066this proves that bro is straight not g*y 💀
Kisko dilhana hai.. Do only what you can handle.. Dont fall for parents pressure. 😊
It’s a way of thinking. It’s a perspective of life.
He has everything n everything perfect still he choose the wrong step. His perspective was negative.
U will find people who have nothing really, but still they have a positive outlook towards life.
Medicines can help obviously but not from within. Maybe help temporary. But u gotta change ur perspective at the end.
This year I got MBBS in GMC. I feel same as Dr. Anurag Kumar sir. I'm now not feeling normal anyway.
Why?
Air 1 rip 🙂 you gave your best ... May god rest you in peace 🕊️
लगता हैं की इस दुनिया मे हम ही तकलीफ में हैं लेकिन जब इन लोगो को देखती हु तो लगता हैं कि क्या तकलीफ रही होगी 😢 क्यों हम अपनी खुशियां खोते चले जा रहे क्यों हम खुश्यियो को छोड़ रहे दुख को गले लगा रहे क्यों हम ऐसा के रहे सब कुछ रहते भी इंसान खुश नही रह रहा क्यों अकेलापन फील होता हैं
Damn, can't even think a brilliant brain like him would take such a tragic step. It really shows how important mental health is, no matter how successful or intelligent someone might appear.
मन को वश मे नही किया तो यही होगा,
great video Lakshya!
Om Shanti🙏
It's rightly said that you can't patch the wounded soul with just a Band-Aid. It's high time to prioritise the mental health above everything.......
Open forums and discussions should be made mandatory in every public space, including schools, colleges, and workplaces.
It's time to take a break from your hectic routine and look around for loved ones and friends who are exhibiting sudden change in behaviour but are unexpressive.
It's possible that they need your assistance, and it could save their life.
Life, after all, is more valuable than anything else in the entire universe......
I too had suffered from dipression and had regular visits to a doctor till 3 month then ignored the treatment.
The one thing which I learnt from that phase is that what I feel is not actually me.... it's some kind of neurochemical imbalance running though brain, what I am?
I am consciousness which is different from these neurochemicals and whenever I feel that neurochemicals are doing out of balance, I do such things to start making them in balance, feel good things, physical exhaustion, oxygenating exercises etc.....the only thing which I learnt, whenever I feel dipressed or stressed, I don't accept that these is complete me, but some part of my brain which is different from my identity that is consciousness, I always try to relax hyperactivity behaviour.
If human conciousness is always aware about the root it belongs to....mental health will keep coming back on track...psychiatrists and psychologists therapists provide the same thing... GOOD POSITIVE WORDS WITH THEIR HEALING THERAPIES
That's what religous books do !!
Reciting and consuming positive content from religous books keeps u on track
I'm the most happiest content person because of spirituality
Youngsters need to go back to what mankind took for granted
Gratitude and spirituality is the key
So Sad 😢 .Jai ShivShakti
Depression is a rewired mind that feel no pain ,you can rewire your brain with some activites
I m neurosurgeon currently at calcutta
God ik the pain may my lord help his parents now yes depression is real this year i got 629 in neet and didn't get any clg am dropping agin but last year but believe me 2024 jan to march was hell for me i was into depression and anxiety although i was a topper in school and even was scoring well in tests still i suffered from that hell and its real .. i was on antidepressants and recovered as well now completely fine by god's grace we should seek professional help when needed my lord i can understand the pain 😭
Bro you are doing a very good job.
---Lakshya
Struggle is the life jab life se Struggle khatam ho jata h kuch karne ko nhi bachta toh bhi aadmi deeprssion chala jata i have also feel deepresion afer mbbs but brain is structured that way it wants everytime challenges isliye jab tak isko challenges dete rahoge tab tak isko maja aata rahega isko challenge dena band kar diya toh ye tumhe depressed kar dega nasha,poronograpy m bhi hamare jane ka yahi reason h hum brain ko challenges nhi dete
To anyone going through depression, its completely curable as i have gone through it myself . I know things get difficult and negative talks surrounds you that will i be ever like before and i faced the same doubt but if you are reading it just keep good lifestyle, exercise take help from psychologist and it will be cured.
How did you get in such a situation I mean like because of parents pressure or study pressure or relationship what was the cause ??
@@PRIME-v7t it's basically when you start feeling insignificant in this world, as in you have no purpose in life. It might be because of a drastic change in your environment or the way you used to live your life. It can be because of studies (you were a consistent topper but now you are not able to do well in studies, while other students can) or social life (you are finding it difficult to make friends or are not able to connect in your friends group) or parents (their expectations from you are higher now, they depend their future on your performance but you are not able to stand on their expectations) or relationship (your partner is toxic) or other factors (for eg, harrasment) or simply living alone with very less social interaction or multiple of these factors. Anything can be possible but one thing that is common among all is the inability to share your feelings with someone, where you can feel heard. Trust me feeling heard is very important for your mental health which is lacking these days. Changing your environment, your habits, engaging in outdoor activities, talking to parents or at least friends can help a lot. If nothing works, spirituality is a way. Take stand for yourself, be courageous, socyde is not a solution, you may think that it may end your sufferings but just think about your parents, your dreams. Any sort of expectations should not belittle you, you are more capable of what you think about yourself and there are millions of possibilities, if one doesn't seem to work, try another. All the best😊
This year is black year for every medical student 😢
everyone once in their life feel this situation even i was the same person I used to think what if I survived and found paralysis!!!!! I was so stupid I used to think all the day about what to end my life I used to be sad all the day I would not do anything but only think about how to end my life! That time was extremely hard you can’t think about anyone who is imp to you. You only think about how to end the life I can’t express that situation but that part of my life taht 2 years were extremely stressful difficult but toady I’m grateful that I SURVIVED AND IM HAPPY NOW! just want to say no matter how difficult it’s but you have to stand for yourself and no matter what life is beautiful just give it a chance and you will realise it!! Don’t take any of decisions like this! Ik it’s difficult but you will overcome it one day and you will be proud of yourself okyy! And yeah just always try to help people you never know how someone’s life is going
Finding peace of mind is very difficult nowadays.
There's some reason behind such behaviour it's not something related to being a doctor he said in his bio he was forced to become a doctor he has history of depression in his family his family is responsible for his suicide not him or anyone else
Bio? Can u please elaborate 😢?
Psychiatry department mein bohot negative energy hai, eisa patient se interact ka asar hai... doctor khud hi fas jate hai
But navdeep singh was in radiology department then what made him do suicide
@@saniyaali7227 oh ..
Reservation se pahuche tha woh
@@aeer69 who navdeep ?but he was air 1 in neet UG
Haad hoti he. Har baar reservation ko beech me le ana@@aeer69
Nazar lag gayi bande ko ...
government aur toxic culture ne nazar lagayi hai
RIP
He was always an inspiration to me❤
Here i want to share my stroy
I am 27 year old girl from knapur .
I have a dream since from my childhood that one day i will be a doctor andthen i started preparing and in 2015,2016,2017 i prepared but unfortunately not got selected.
I remember i was in depression and whole day i only cry and do unusual things and always try to hurt my self use to fight from my parents and shout in home even i try to hurt my Little brother and my father mother are very scared of me
In short i behave like a pagal
Mere papa muje bahut sare mandir la jate the ki ye sahi ho jaye
Spritual cheeje help krti hain
Phir meine el normal se college mein btc ( teaching course mein ) addmission liya
Mere mummy papa ne kabhi doctor ko nhi dikhaya but yeah bahut supportive the bahut ache se bat krte acge se pyar se rhte meri failure ko bhul gye the
And then mein jab btc krti bahut bura lgta tha ki bekar jagha agyi
But now today
I did btc b.ed m.ed ( bhu)ctet uptet net jrf
Aaj doctor jitni nhi but dhere dhere hi sahi padh rhi hu aage ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Ladkiyo ki baat alag hoti ha ladko bhot ha is desh ma isliye savka selection ni ho pata😢
Such a shocking news...I got this video notification and the Google News notification at the same time...
mai abhi isliye depression mai ja raha hu ki mujhe kabhi aisa depression na ho jaye
Dikhta nahi par shamil jarur hota hai .....har suicide karne wale ka kaatil jarur hota h
The title is very disrespectful . CHANGE IT !
Changed.
Actually as a whole society hum success ko itna chase krte and and krwate h ki hum 2 scnd ruk kr khud se ye bhi nhi puchte ki mere liye individual level pr successe h kya
idk y i can relate to this... i cracked neet this yr but yes ofc i couldnt manage none of the colleges i expected bcoz of nta... everyone is like ur grateful tht atleast u got mbbs... after all this jo mila uska kadar karo nd all nd ik i should... but idk y i m not okay... also being a girl from west bengal and ig everyone knows what happened here... nd after tht i m scared... consumed by irrational and illogical stupid thoughts... got nothing to do the whole day... these thoughts are draining me i feel empty... nd i almost stopped talking to the 1-2 friends left till now... yup i dont have much friends... nd i m lost now... shattered tbh... yes this is how nta crushed dreams nd yes ik everyone will say stop acting atleast u managed a govt clg!!! nd i know i m stupid scared and coward... wish someone understands me!!!
@sushmitasarkar9381 Hey congratulations for what u achieved... Everyone's life isn't same dear... Kolkata case had many other reasons.. and her death is a planned murder... Just don't let these thoughts burn ur dream... We all r with u... U will become a doctor one day... Don't let ur thoughts shatter ur passion... Go ahead.. and talk to ur friends and family.... Enjoy this life and be happy... Have a great day ahead ❤
@@deekshi1494 thank u so much for understanding❤❤
u r not stupid scared and coward, wut u r going through is genuine. i feel like u should seek talk therapy. Also i m pretty sure u will achieve great heights in life
Mental health therapy is must for INDIA.
Hamari Request hai Sabhi se ki Aap log Premanand ji Maharaj ko jarur sunna chahiye Radha Rani se jude Radhe Radhe
INDIA is not for students 😢
Psychology education must be givwn in all education and job sector
I am telling every students who are toppers at their coaching, don't top in neet and let me top 😢
i am with you
😂 😂
7:20
In 99% case of depressed people's there's no one in their life whom they can share their problems
1) parents - they will not understand our problems as bcz of generation gap
2) other relatives - Do you think they even care about you??
absolutely no!!!
3) " Friends " - Obviously they will not take us seriously!!
Now who's left with whom you can discuss your issues...?
& suppose if anyone hears your issues then also is your problems going to get solve after talking to that person??
No. You are still living your hell life....
As you are the only person who can solve your own issues....
You have to face it yourself at the end
Mental peace 🕊️ jruri hai ❤
I just recovered (I think so) from Depression through medications. Take psychiatry help asap if your facing any trouble.
Faulty education system is the cause . Aur Indian society jaha ap log rank ko hi importance dete ho . Aur sab rat race me loop me fase hue ha . Medical college me bahut sare frustration hota ha.
Bhaiya I am also suffering from severe depression...maine 4 baar try Kiya tha suside karne ka ..bahut painful jindigi hote hai lagta hai ke apne he daldal me fas gae hai usme se nikalna bahut muskil ho jaata hai ...and thank God finnally me iss serious mentally illness se bahar aagya
Bhai chl tujhe travel krne chalte hai
@@sanjaykumar6599 kaha Bhai
@@AmitKumar-tu3zs aree btao kha jana hai
RIP Dr. Sahab 😢🙏
Please focus on your mental health
Depression kya hota han aj tak nahi samjha 🙂
Bcz life me hustle karna hoga at the end of life😊
OMG 😂😂😂
jise hoga whi smjhega na bhai
Does anyone know when the new session will start for mbbs and when the orientation for the 2024 batch will be held?
Bhaiya mere backlog kam nehi ho raha hai isiliye me sari umede chhod chuki new day i try to give 100% but i am fail and i small depreesed but i dont commited suicide please help me
O sorry. Iam prepared for neet
Everytime a doctor dies not due to natural causes, i am tempted to think that someone else has a hand in it
How do you record videos along with document and facecam ?
#theworstyearofNEETASPIRANTS
Mere aak relative the jisko 2022 me neet ke andar counselling me semi government medical college alloted hua tha....abhi woo bohot khush he mbbs journey se...
PG life is more toxic in India colleges.. appear for uslme plan amc and leave India
Yrrr depression se nikalna hai to prayer start karo regularly specially muslims pray tahajjud
Bhai Sahab aap galat bata rahe ho ...goes to psychiatrist dr
@@AmitKumar-tu3zs. Both are important.
U r right..if human conciousness is always aware about the root it belongs to....mental health will keep coming back on track...psychiatrists and psychologists therapists provide the same thing... GOOD POSITIVE WORDS WITH THEIR HEALING THERAPIES
That's what religous books do !!
Reciting and consuming positive content from religous books keeps u on track
I'm the most happiest content person because of spirituality
Youngsters need to go back to what mankind took for granted
Gratitude and spirituality is the key
लगता हैं की इस दुनिया मे हम ही तकलीफ में हैं लेकिन जब इन लोगो को देखती हु तो लगता हैं कि क्या तकलीफ रही होगी 😢 क्यों हम अपनी खुशियां खोते चले जा रहे क्यों हम खुश्यियो को छोड़ रहे दुख को गले लगा रहे क्यों हम ऐसा के रहे सब कुछ रहते भी इंसान खुश नही रह रहा क्यों अकेलापन फील होता हैं
I am an FMG Mbbs student this December i have to appear in exam ..as we go abroad and just after 12 class I went to Russia we have no idea what Nmc notice publishes where does they publish they are now asking for neetug 2019 which I have lost marksheet which if i don’t find out i will be not allowed for FMG dec exam …I belong to low class family my parents don’t eat properly to fulfill my college fee I have taken lakhs of money for Mbbs abroad but just because of one paper my career is shattered and I am thinking of suicide anyhow I am bad kid of my parents
don’t be like that bro everything will be fine oky don’t think about suicide think about your parents they have put so much efforts to get you in aboard MBBS be patient and search
Everything will be fine
i am in depression rn. idk how to manage my studies. i cant give time to my gf. its so fucked up. idk what to do
@@Being_shadowchup bkl
Bhai mere ko v depression hogy tha mera v relationship khatm hogya tha lagta tha ke jindigi khatam hai apne jindigi se ladai aur bahar aaya ....
@@AmitKumar-tu3zs haan yaar. kya kare kuch samaj nai aarha. sab kuch haath se choot ta nazar aarhha hai bs
@@aicy69 Bhai tum nikal jaaoge iss bimari se ....
Hum khud nikal gae Bhai
Itna Jyada randomly hone lagega agar depression, wo bhi bina kisi visible cause ke hi... To kya hum ye maan lein ki ye bhi aaj kal bohot hi commonly dekhe ja rahe heart attacks ki hi tarah "poor lifestyle" ka result hai?? Na ki kisi 💉💉 ke side effect ka? 🤔
natural selection.
Any neet aspirants here 😊 like me?
Now am dropping but trust me am giving enough time to my own happiness as well khudko bhi dekhlo ek bar its needed now a days 😢
Bhaiya ab to darr lg rha h doctor banne me
Why he committed to Suicide
Bro his from chandigarh and helix student shit yr ma bhi helix ma hu 😢😢😢
Chd me aakash and allen dono best hai .@TravelLover-d5r
@TravelLover-d5r abhi to thik haan kio problem nahi hui mujha to , yrr allen ka pata nahi helix bdiya haan from my think or like god grace humari teacher achi haan samj ata haan mera batch 14 haan,or humra batch ma 55 haan
@TravelLover-d5r faculty bdiya haan special syal sir interact karta haan or hum jaka goal bhi set bhi karta ki kitna marks agya nahi ata to sir khud bata haan ki kya problem haan
@TravelLover-d5r but pros is phone are not allowed and your not allowed to take photos to
@TravelLover-d5r abhi tak 10 bacha tha jinki top 10 rank thi out of 12 batches they are under 20 rank kyu ki ab humra comption humra hi institute ka 12 batches sa tha
Ye high rank wala loop me fasa hua tha 11 th standard se . Nikal nhi paya to mar gya .
Depression is realllll guys
My botany teacher used to tell me that she will slap someone who she caught suiciding😢
Was he the friend of Dr Aditya Gupta Aiims D??
Yes... Probably
Post link ?
Mataob neet me top karne bale bi duki or neet na nikale bo bi duki
Depression hua tha ki karwaya gya tha
Very sad news