How Bea Borres Forgave Her Brother For What He Did | Toni Talks

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  • @njwdlau
    @njwdlau 4 місяці тому +4584

    It’s important to recognize that this young girl has chosen to open up about her life, despite her young age. Sharing such deeply personal and painful stories is never easy, especially for someone so young. Her experiences, no matter how difficult they are to hear, deserve our compassion and understanding.
    Criticizing her for speaking out about her pain only adds to the burden she already carries. Instead of questioning or judging her, we should be asking ourselves how we can offer support and help her heal. It’s crucial to remember that her perspective is valid, and her voice deserves to be heard without fear of ridicule or dismissal.
    Let’s approach her with kindness and empathy. Rather than focusing on what might make us uncomfortable or critical, we should recognize the incredible strength it takes for her to share her story. She’s not just telling us about her past-she’s trusting us with her truth. The least we can do is listen with an open heart and offer her the support she needs.
    As a community, we have a responsibility to uplift those who are vulnerable, not tear them down. Let's choose to be a source of comfort and encouragement for her, helping her feel safe in sharing her story, rather than adding to her pain through criticism.
    When someone, especially someone so young, chooses to share their painful experiences, it's often because they’re seeking relief, understanding, and connection. Carrying such heavy burdens alone can be overwhelming, and sharing is a way for her to process her feelings and make sense of what she’s been through.
    It takes incredible bravery for her to speak up about these difficult experiences. By sharing her story, she’s not only confronting her own pain but also hoping that others might understand her better. She’s reaching out, not for sympathy, but for a sense of validation and support. It’s her way of saying, ‘This is my reality, and I need to be heard.’
    Talking about traumatic experiences can be a crucial step in healing. For her, sharing her story might be a way to take control of her narrative, to find some peace by bringing her struggles out into the open. It’s also a way for her to find others who might relate to her experiences, making her feel less alone in her journey.
    Before we criticize, let’s try to understand the courage it takes for her to be vulnerable in this way. She’s not just telling a story-she’s trying to heal and grow. We all have different ways of coping with pain, and for her, sharing might be the path to finding some light amidst the darkness.
    Let’s listen to her with compassion, recognizing that her decision to share isn’t just about her-it’s also a call for us to be better, kinder, and more understanding as a community. By offering our support, we help her on her path to healing and show that she doesn’t have to face her pain alone.

    • @KejAsed
      @KejAsed 4 місяці тому +17

      tnx for the pin Toni.

    • @michelleannbuena8004
      @michelleannbuena8004 4 місяці тому +65

      Traumatic experience needs deeper understanding not judgement. Pain will never go you just get used to it.😶

    • @sassytinuyowpak1416
      @sassytinuyowpak1416 4 місяці тому +5

      ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @madzjam4256
      @madzjam4256 4 місяці тому +4

      Well said…

    • @neliatablazon6621
      @neliatablazon6621 4 місяці тому +5

      Very well said, ❤❤❤

  • @glyndylyndelmira6886
    @glyndylyndelmira6886 4 місяці тому +3786

    Sobrang laki ng impact sa akin ng sinabi ni Ms. Toni na “kapag hindi mo na-experience kung ano yung totoong klase ng pagmamahal, you will settle for less”. Now I know.

    • @micalopez3420
      @micalopez3420 4 місяці тому +45

      😢😢 hanggang ngaun nangungulila aq ng pagmamahal ng parents.

    • @nothinguserperson
      @nothinguserperson 4 місяці тому +7

      Ano pong meaning Neto po?

    • @dieselabeltran9589
      @dieselabeltran9589 4 місяці тому +23

      Have faith lang ate . God is good . All ur pain will fade away !!! Basta. Wag mo lng syang kalimutan alm kng kaya mo Yan. Pag subok Yan s Buhay natin. Be humble .

    • @daishelvillafania6528
      @daishelvillafania6528 4 місяці тому +64

      @@nothinguserperson you keep accepting bare minimum or gagawin mo tlaga ang lahat mahalin ka lang ng ibang tao or bigyan ka lang ng atensyon cos you don’t get it sa mismong parents mo so kahit kaunting attention lang binibigay nag sesettle ka na.

    • @sharennmonsanto
      @sharennmonsanto 4 місяці тому

      😢

  • @binggirlagdeppa9517
    @binggirlagdeppa9517 4 місяці тому +2638

    Behind her happy smile and upbeat personality, there’s a lot of hidden pain and sadness. That’s why I admire her so much now, she’s so strong.🙌🏻♥️

    • @CholainRussia
      @CholainRussia 4 місяці тому

      ua-cam.com/video/zZU2kL1cUHM/v-deo.htmlsi=C6nm0RiuAeLUCoO8

    • @ardenbontilao6792
      @ardenbontilao6792 4 місяці тому +1

      😢😢

    • @lindziep6319
      @lindziep6319 4 місяці тому +11

      Sabi nga nila ang taong madalas ngumiti at madalas tumawa have a deep pain inside 😢

    • @freespirit12
      @freespirit12 4 місяці тому +9

      ​@@lindziep6319It's a fact. Kahit yung comedians kung sino pa yung ngpapatawa ng tao pero they silently fight their own battles kahit Hindi na kaya.

    • @lindziep6319
      @lindziep6319 4 місяці тому +6

      @@freespirit12 totoo yan im also a humurous person twag nga dti ng mga ksama ko si smiley dw ako at batang isip kc playful ako but deep inside halos hagulgul na since ayaw kong mgalala family ko and mkita ang kahinaan ko project ako na nde ako affected 😥 though nkakaburnout

  • @adriellecaguiat2965
    @adriellecaguiat2965 4 місяці тому +467

    Telling people about what happened to you, Is never over sharing. It's ur way of telling people how hard life was for you, specially how traumatic it was. Just shows how strong of a person you are. sana maintindihan nyo na kaya ayaw mag share ng ibang tao dahil takot na majudge nyo at masabihang nagoovershare sila.

    • @rania3419
      @rania3419 4 місяці тому +8

      This is so true~ , 100%. Which is why people would like to keep it to themselves and not make themselves look as if they are not worth it to be heard. It's like what they say "Enough with the drama, it s not even gonna make someone feel great. So just better shut up." It's what most people feel but cannot take it off themselves. We are free but we limit ourselves most of the time

    • @adriellecaguiat2965
      @adriellecaguiat2965 4 місяці тому +6

      @@rania3419 This is what I felt when I was SA'd when i was a kid. Kaya natritrigger ako pag may nag sasabing "oversharing". Ang insensitive, kaloka. kaya dinamdam konalang sa sarili ko noon dahil alam kong WALANG NANIWALA SA NARANASAN KO, Pero naranasan kopa ren.

    • @ceciliabrantley9871
      @ceciliabrantley9871 4 місяці тому

      AMEN😇

  • @rovelizaticman8328
    @rovelizaticman8328 4 місяці тому +54

    I don't really know Bea. I don't see anything wrong with the way she speaks, but rather finds it so sweet as she is so young. I find her so admirable and adorable. Such a courageous girl to share her story to us. Many people can relate and will learn from her positivity. Such a pure heart! I am following you now, Bea.🤗🥰❤️

  • @sk3pticalme
    @sk3pticalme 4 місяці тому +199

    Hearing bea's story about her parents, I realized na ang swerte ko pa din pala kasi hindi man kami ganun pinalad sa buhay pero never naman ako naglonging sa pagmamahal kasi hindi naman nagkulang sakin mga magulang ko. Sa mga nasa sitwasyon ni Bea, makakahanap din kayo ng pagmamahal na deserve niyo. Grabe ang strong niyo. Big hugs sa lahat!

    • @Boracay-fs5xg
      @Boracay-fs5xg 4 місяці тому

      How do you say, hindi nag kulang mga parents mo? Like it in what manner?

    • @eurysaniel-hidalgo
      @eurysaniel-hidalgo 4 місяці тому

      same here, di kinulany sa pagmamahal ng magulang kahit na my upbringing was quite sheltered and in an old fashioned way ba. strict but not necessarily authoritarian. even so, I can't totally say na walang naging pagkukulang ang parents ko kahit v. slight lang, kasi there was this one time na I wished sana naging mas palaban sila for the sake of... safety ng mga anak nila. s/a or worse-- rape will definitely leave a person scarred, recovery is possible pero hindi na mawawala yung doubts pero I think may learning din ako dun, yung mas naging hyper-aware ka sa "motives" ng mga tao lalo na sa mga lalaking immature and perverted.

  • @irish6323
    @irish6323 4 місяці тому +1832

    as a Psych major graduate, sobrang strong mo Bea! hindi biro yung mga napagdaanan mo. nakaka proud ka, kaya lahat ng mga blessings na natatanggap mo ngayon sobrang deserve mo 'yan!

    • @leyoo7786
      @leyoo7786 4 місяці тому +6

      Ha? Grad na sya? Eh bat nung tiktok video nya nung nov 2023 sabi nya 2nd yr college yan ung sinabi nya nung may nagtanong anong grade na sya

    • @MitchAlnascabrera
      @MitchAlnascabrera 4 місяці тому +37

      C @irish6323 po ata ang grad..

    • @maryaybe
      @maryaybe 4 місяці тому

      ​@@leyoo7786basahin uli

    • @HansDchvz
      @HansDchvz 4 місяці тому +104

      ​@@leyoo7786reading comprehension susko

    • @JenairaCandelaria
      @JenairaCandelaria 4 місяці тому +11

      ​@@HansDchvz truenezz, ayaa muna magbasa nang maayos 😅😅😅

  • @enalinyuparamata3270
    @enalinyuparamata3270 4 місяці тому +512

    "Ako yung puno ng love.." this made me cry so hard. I wish I could hug you Bea.

  • @dearcoachellen
    @dearcoachellen 4 місяці тому +45

    Thank you, Ms. Toni, Toni Talks, and Bea for this beautiful, empowering story of life's journey, forgiving and growing. As a Life Coach, it is a common concern and talk therapy on Generational Trauma, PTSD, and Grieving. The generation of today is blessed that we have now removed the borders and the wall of not only discussing traumas and mental health issues in the family but also resolving and addressing the concern. I will reach out to you Ms. Bea, you should undergo grieving & PTSD coaching. Indeed, it is light and love to help people find their strength from their inspiration to become an inspiration.

    • @marispe5711
      @marispe5711 4 місяці тому

      Maam may bayad po ba sa mga ganyan?

    • @dearcoachellen
      @dearcoachellen 4 місяці тому

      ​@@marispe5711 hi if you are working, and able to pay yes. Pero if hindi talaga able or capable... pede mag help with free session.

  • @sharlainemae
    @sharlainemae 4 місяці тому +52

    Grabe talaga hands down talaga ko kay Ms. Toni never nya pinaramdam sa kausap nya na she's experienced and superior, konting konti lang na advice ni tony more on questions lang sya and she let Bea do the talking and the sharing , kudos Bea you're really strong! God bless you both

  • @solmeronerrarose
    @solmeronerrarose 4 місяці тому +240

    "Kapag hindi mo na-experience kung ano yung totoong klase ng pagmamahal, you will settle for less" kaya pala sobra akong magmahal bigay lahat² but in the end ako parin nasasaktan, tapos ang hanap ko lang pala ay father figure, ang hirap lumaki sa narcissistic household, andaming abuso, di pa pinalagpas pati sexual abuse naranasan ko pa sa murang edad, I admire Bea for speaking up and for forgiving her brother, sana lahat tayo tuluyan ng mag heal completely sa mga trauma's natin sa childhood. 🥺

    • @aquablueaqua2288
      @aquablueaqua2288 4 місяці тому +1

      😢😢😢😢😢

    • @divinefavor4376
      @divinefavor4376 4 місяці тому +4

      true po yan, I pray for our complete healing 🙏 me too, was sexually abused by my brother

    • @Jon_cent
      @Jon_cent 4 місяці тому +1

      ​@@divinefavor4376Sana magheal kana nang tuluyan❤

    • @britany5809
      @britany5809 4 місяці тому

      Kya niyo yan pray hard at patawarin niyo ung taong guamawa non s inyo pro mas ok kht napatawad nio umiwas n lng kau gnon

    • @Lunafreya_Nox
      @Lunafreya_Nox 4 місяці тому +1

      Wag maghanap ng pagmamahal sa iba qng d ka ready nor parausan mo lng ng problema nor pagmamahal mo. LOVE YOURSELF 1st then find GoD dun mo ma realize na mas contented ka kahit magisa ka kase happy ka enjoy ka at anjan si G para sayo.

  • @jdenxzdenden138
    @jdenxzdenden138 4 місяці тому +1012

    Yung nag iiba pananaw mo sa tao through toni talks ❤ every person has its own battle, never judge

    • @CholainRussia
      @CholainRussia 4 місяці тому

      ua-cam.com/video/zZU2kL1cUHM/v-deo.htmlsi=C6nm0RiuAeLUCoO8

    • @ivzz1991
      @ivzz1991 4 місяці тому +12

      true..yung njudge mo yung personality niya without knowing na hindi pala siya ganun..☺️

    • @puppyslove4247
      @puppyslove4247 4 місяці тому +4

      🥹💯

    • @Yumii6660
      @Yumii6660 4 місяці тому

      Tama

    • @GwyGwy-mo2rm
      @GwyGwy-mo2rm 4 місяці тому

      Kaya nga e, like we judge people not until we sit with them sharing experiences in life. :

  • @maminet2753
    @maminet2753 4 місяці тому +331

    Napaka strong na bata... daming pinag daanan.. nanatili naka tayo. Sana ma panuod mga kabataan to. Nakaka inspired. God bless u miss bea. Stay humble

  • @applegamboa1555
    @applegamboa1555 4 місяці тому +15

    Parang nagsisi ako na late ko siya nagustuhan. ❤❤❤ Bea is so brave to share her story na sobrang unexpected na ganon ung pinagdaanan niya. Tama nga na dapat hindi natin ijudge ang kahit sino dahil di natin alam ang struggles nila sa araw araw.

  • @eleyynnaa
    @eleyynnaa 4 місяці тому +12

    Grbe ka Bea, sobrang tapang tapang mo! after going through all that--- buti di ka napariwara at puno nang love at forgiveness yung puso mo.. Napakatapang mo at thank god you overcome those nightmares at naheal mo yung nangyayari sayo... Kudos to you Bea!

  • @dayleneruiz2625
    @dayleneruiz2625 4 місяці тому +687

    Bea, anak, gusto kitang yakapin dahil sa pinag daanan mo, kasi sa edad mong yan nakaya mo yung mga trials. Ako din ay may Stage 4 breast cancer, 57 yrs old na po ako, pro di po ako nangamba dahil alam ko di ako pababayaan ng ating Panginoon. He give me peace of mind, basta there's a complete surrender to Him. Kaya, gusto ko, you don't worry, just have a strong faith to God Almighty.

    • @SMzams
      @SMzams 4 місяці тому +13

      Praying for your healing po!🙏 God is with you always.

    • @sheena1641
      @sheena1641 4 місяці тому +6

      Praying for your healing din po.. 🙏🏼❤❤

    • @Jon_cent
      @Jon_cent 4 місяці тому +5

      Gagaling ka po!!!!! ❤

    • @adrielcarreon6969
      @adrielcarreon6969 4 місяці тому +18

      Hi Mommy, try mo po mgpakulo ng Dahon ng Guyabano, proven na po yan para ma slowdown cancer or hindi na po maging aggresive yung cancer, pakuluan mo lang po parang dahon ng bayabas, then inumin mo po, kain ka din po ng guyabano. you can search it's effectivity din po. baka makatulong 🙏🏻

    • @xzeiafernando
      @xzeiafernando 4 місяці тому +4

      praying for your healing po 🙏🏻

  • @cookscloe3306
    @cookscloe3306 4 місяці тому +112

    Awee. Seeing her talk like that is like talking to a mom she never had. Sana she gets to spend much time with Ms. Toni and AG to support and guide her. She needs it more than she'll ever know. Hugss Bea. ❤ Know that we're here to pray for your success ☺️

  • @MommyTrixieOfficial
    @MommyTrixieOfficial 4 місяці тому +281

    Every person carries a unique story, so judging them by their appearance or the way they talk isn’t fair. Always opt for kindness. Toni, I salute you for creating this channel. It allows us to see beyond the surface and understand the true lives of people. Your channel is a powerful tool for showing the world the real person behind each story.

    • @MommyTrixieOfficial
      @MommyTrixieOfficial 4 місяці тому +12

      She’s very maarte magsalita pero sobrang magalang na bata. Always may “po” and “opo”.

  • @ladygracemoldavite8578
    @ladygracemoldavite8578 4 місяці тому +235

    Tama the best advice for her… Therapy, Psychiatrist Consultation, and Counseling… these all should be all easily accessible and nornalized to all ages, gender or economic status in society. More awareness and salute to you Tony❤
    Don’t dismiss all your Traumas , abuses and mental breakdown and Behavioral deviation from normal. Seek HELP ASAP
    From nurse GP here 💚

    • @analyntorres1630
      @analyntorres1630 4 місяці тому +1

      Hello po sana mapansin niyo to wait ko rep mo :)

  • @fhoejradno
    @fhoejradno 4 місяці тому +12

    Can't stop my tears,.. may you find the inner peace you deserves..and a wonderdul life ahead. Ganda ng episode! Bravo Tony Talks👏👏👏

  • @theromeros0608
    @theromeros0608 4 місяці тому +77

    Sa mga ngiti ni Bea, dami niya pinag daanan. Grabe yung pain, trauma at sadness. Napaka-strong ni Ka-Petty Bea! 🙌🏼🙌🏼

  • @allaboutmoraChiii
    @allaboutmoraChiii 4 місяці тому +339

    And somehow, she deserves all the happiness and stability that she's having right now. ❤

  • @karlavidanes4574
    @karlavidanes4574 4 місяці тому +173

    I started to admire this person behind those sweet smile so much pain ung pinag daanan nya. What a strong girl ❤

  • @aizamaytaborada-le9bj
    @aizamaytaborada-le9bj 4 місяці тому +36

    Let's understand it, please. I read a comment that said something was "too risky to share," but it does not undermine beas confessions. Mostly mga babae has experienced similar harassment and has been unable to speak up for themselves; this interview has saved them. Although I'm not a huge Bea fan, this interview is a great resource for all parents and women. Although you have my sympathies and I get your point but I found your remarks to be terribly unpleasant. I'd like to congratulate Bea for being brave and speaking up.

  • @cherrym.1999
    @cherrym.1999 4 місяці тому +11

    Sarap pakinggan ni bea mag kwento .. grabe napag daanan nya..
    Kaya never ako nainis sa bata na to e..

  • @Cvill502
    @Cvill502 4 місяці тому +34

    napakamature ng bata na to, God bless you hija, God is with you , God is shining upon you, teach ppl wisdom and be the force of faith that you are

  • @alvarezmichelle
    @alvarezmichelle 4 місяці тому +976

    Sometimes the happiest people are the saddest. They pretend they’re happy to make others happy because they know how what the saddest feels like.

  • @crabapple225
    @crabapple225 4 місяці тому +86

    First time I've heard of Bea Borres and I'm not familiar with her, but I admire her strength and resilience of somehow overcoming the things she has experienced within her family. And forgiving sincerely and letting go is something that is very hard to do. I wish her well and that she heals completely from all the trauma she's faced in her life. 🙏

  • @ysabelle161
    @ysabelle161 4 місяці тому +10

    For all the things she went through, her wisdom and her heart is pure.

  • @lifewithlucasandmatteo
    @lifewithlucasandmatteo 4 місяці тому +284

    Im diagnosed bipolar pero hindi ako ganito. Im sorry for what happened to you, Bea. Never ever thibk that mental health diagnoses can justify abuse.

    • @meganDm7
      @meganDm7 4 місяці тому +26

      Iba Iba dn Kase kaht same bipolar. May mga reactive talaga and Meron din na medyo silent lng not full blown. Anyways, hugs. I also have bipolar disorder and it's so hard 😢 I can't have a permanent job because of it. But I still try to live. Kaht na painful

    • @lifewithlucasandmatteo
      @lifewithlucasandmatteo 4 місяці тому

      @@meganDm7 Seek professional help :) It really helped me for what its worht my psychologist is Dane of GrayMatters here in Alabang. I started with a weekly therapy from 2017 to 2020. And having spiritual guides like Pastor Jun Divierte of Victory Church helped me. I can be dysfunctional too pero I dont allow it to consume me since I am a mother to an autistic kid also. So I needed to heal so I can save my children from trauma.

    • @lifewithlucasandmatteo
      @lifewithlucasandmatteo 4 місяці тому

      @@meganDm7 I agree that everyone is different. But our mental health issue cannot be used to justify our behavior lalo if harmful for others. I sought professional therapy. Dane was my psychologist at GrayMatters here in Alabang. I saw him weekly from 2017 to 2020. And in 2021, I got approved for a life insurance even with my diagnosis because of the improvements. I was also promoted 3x during that time period. It also helped me that my family is Christian and that I am guided spiritually by Pastor Jun Divierte of Victory Alabang. I was diagnosed with Severe Post Partum Depression, BPD and Generalized Anxiety Disorder. For a while, OCD was also considered. I had to fight hard for my mental stability and be committed to getting better because I have children whom I dont want to experience abuse "just because Im bipolar". Seeing Bea now and hearing her journey, it strengthens me more and inspires me to continuously try better for my children. It ends with me. I am protecting and shielding my children from trauma. Ang by the Grace of God, and with the patience, understanidng and love of my family and my church, I extend the same loving environment to my children. There is always hope. Professional combined with spiritual healing worked wonders for me. :)

    • @lifewithlucasandmatteo
      @lifewithlucasandmatteo 4 місяці тому

      @@meganDm7 I agree. But our mental health issue cannot be used to justify our behavior lalo if harmful for others. I sought professional therapy. Dane was my psychologist at GrayMatters here in Alabang. I saw him weekly from 2017 to 2020. And in 2021, I got approved for a life insurance even with my diagnosis because of the improvements. I was also promoted 3x during that time period. It also helped me that my family is Christian and that I am guided spiritually by Pastor Jun Divierte of Victory Alabang. I was diagnosed with Severe Post Partum Depression, BPD and Generalized Anxiety Disorder. For a while, OCD was also considered. I had to fight hard for my mental stability and be committed to getting better because I have children whom I dont want to experience abuse "just because Im bipolar". Seeing Bea now and hearing her journey, it strengthens me more and inspires me to continuously try better for my children. It ends with me. I am protecting and shielding my children from trauma. Ang by the Grace of God, and with the patience, understanidng and love of my family and my church, I extend the same loving environment to my children. There is always hope. Professional combined with spiritual healing worked wonders for me. :) I am hoping you find the support group and healing slowly. ❤

    • @lifewithlucasandmatteo
      @lifewithlucasandmatteo 4 місяці тому

      @@meganDm7 I agree. But our mental health issue cannot be used to justify our behavior lalo if harmful for others. I sought professional therapy. Dane was my psychologist at GrayMatters here in Alabang. I saw him weekly from 2017 to 2020. And in 2021, I got approved for a life insurance even with my diagnosis because of the improvements. I was also promoted 3x during that time period. It also helped me that my family is Christian and that I am guided spiritually by Pastor Jun Divierte of Victory Alabang. I was diagnosed with Severe Post Partum Depression, BPD and Generalized Anxiety Disorder. For a while, OCD was also considered. I had to fight hard for my mental stability and be committed to getting better because I have children whom I dont want to experience abuse "just because Im bipolar". Seeing Bea now and hearing her journey, it strengthens me more and inspires me to continuously try better for my children. It ends with me. I am protecting and shielding my children from trauma. Ang by the Grace of God, and with the patience, understanidng and love of my family and my church, I extend the same loving environment to my children. There is always hope. Professional combined with spiritual healing worked wonders for me. :)

  • @irishdongon4046
    @irishdongon4046 4 місяці тому +367

    Hope You will feel love wherever you go Bea 😢 I pray that you will get closer to God , because only Him can heal our brokeness

  • @Random_tots
    @Random_tots 4 місяці тому +216

    Luh bea ba't mo ako pinapaiyak😭 Thank you for sharing your story to us, bea! Despite all the challenges youve been through, you grew up strong and faced all of those. May moments sa buhay natin na mapapatanong talaga tayo sa Panginoon. However, remember that whatever happens, God will never ever leave us.❤️ More blessings and acceptance for you!

    • @CholainRussia
      @CholainRussia 4 місяці тому

      ua-cam.com/video/zZU2kL1cUHM/v-deo.htmlsi=C6nm0RiuAeLUCoO8

    • @beaborres6965
      @beaborres6965 4 місяці тому +10

      🥹🤍

    • @micsilog819
      @micsilog819 4 місяці тому

      ​@@beaborres6965 🥺🥺🥺 hugss

  • @itsniconotnikko
    @itsniconotnikko 4 місяці тому +526

    We can never really judge a person until we know their story. Grabe pala pinagdaanan niya. Hugs bea.

    • @melonshop8888
      @melonshop8888 4 місяці тому

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  • @ashlynmcl
    @ashlynmcl 4 місяці тому +15

    I cried a lot huhu grabe, I admire your strength and perseverance bea! Grabe ang mindset and pag mold sa'yo ng life para maging ganan ka mature 🥺

  • @rangrang7958
    @rangrang7958 4 місяці тому +26

    Naiyak ako ❤️ there is nothing wrong to share her story. It’s her testimony ❤️

  • @myDailyLyf
    @myDailyLyf 4 місяці тому +15

    I saw this girl with her fam. I am not sure if she's w/ her brother or dad with 2 boys attending our church @CCF eastwood. May the Lord pour out His healing grace upon your body, mind, and spirit. May He give you the strength to move forward on the path God laid out for you. Always remember that GOD is BIGGER than any problems❤

  • @michonneco
    @michonneco 4 місяці тому +908

    “Kahit wala kaming pera basta masaya yung family ko”🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

    • @CholainRussia
      @CholainRussia 4 місяці тому

      ua-cam.com/video/zZU2kL1cUHM/v-deo.htmlsi=C6nm0RiuAeLUCoO8

    • @bbko8673
      @bbko8673 4 місяці тому +5

      Contradicting ng sinabi nya sa interview ni Whian whamos ba yon. Pinapapili sya ni whamos if ever maibalik ang panahon , would she choose herself na mawala or yong parents nya? Ang sagot nya yong parents ko na lang kasi masaya pala mabuhay. Like di nga pinag isipan yong sagot ha, ang bilis nya sumagot na parents nya na lang

    • @Yzmaaaaaaa
      @Yzmaaaaaaa 4 місяці тому +3

      @@bbko8673Hindi ba nag jojoke lang siya nun 🧌🧌

    • @bbko8673
      @bbko8673 4 місяці тому +2

      @@Yzmaaaaaaa hindi sya joke actually. Natawa na lang si whamos kasi sobrang bilis nya sumagot na parents na lang nya. Tapos sabj pa mj whamos na oo kasi ok ka na naman. Kung di yan naiwan ng kayamanan and material wealth di nya masasabi na parents nya na lang.

    • @missintrovert8313
      @missintrovert8313 4 місяці тому +4

      Baka natealize na niya ngayon.

  • @bhing_cad1804
    @bhing_cad1804 4 місяці тому +51

    “Hurt people hurt people” it’s really true. I really had a hard time accepting love from others coz it’s really hard to trust how genuine it is. I think I’m
    Not really healed yet but yes my love to my siblings are selfless I felt I had to protect them. It’s hard to grow up without parents talaga. God bless you Bea❤❤❤

  • @rosalietorres
    @rosalietorres 4 місяці тому +23

    madaming nainis at d nakaintindi dun sa guest ni Miss Tony pero ako ang catch ko d2 she was able to forgive kahit anung laki ng pag kakamaling nagawa sa knya ..she was able to cope and understand and eventually forgive ung family nya ..No family is perfect maswerte ung mga taong lumaki sa family n ok talaga ..When it comes to healing and forgiving her story gives moral lesson ..

  • @rellianmaecamero5086
    @rellianmaecamero5086 4 місяці тому +2

    I never hated Bea, I've always loved this girl. I watched toni talks for the first because I saw bea and napaka relatable mo bea especially the part where you asked God "Why did you let this happen" "Why did you allow this to happen" grabi iyak ko dito. I hope we all heal bea including the people in this comment section who's going thru a lot as well.

  • @raquelsultan7151
    @raquelsultan7151 4 місяці тому +93

    This made me cry 🥹 Despite of being a cheerful and bubbly of Bea infront of the camera. There are so many sad experiences she has gone through 😢 Ang strong mo Bea

  • @lesliemaymanuel7849
    @lesliemaymanuel7849 4 місяці тому +460

    Dito mo marirealize na lahat tlga ng gngwa natin as parents sa mga anak natin tumatatak tlga sa isip nila. Even ung smallest details.

  • @allysamarieuy1766
    @allysamarieuy1766 4 місяці тому +35

    Grabe despite ng sakit na napagdaanan niya, nagawa parin niyang patawarin yung Kuya niya and yung Parents niya. Sobrang nabilib ako kay Bea Kasi for someone like me na nahihirapan patawarin yung mga tao na nakasakit saken, grabe yung puso niya. I hope she finds people who will truly love and care for her because she deserves it. 🩷

  • @TinTin-gk3yn
    @TinTin-gk3yn 23 дні тому

    This made me tear up myghad flashback malala. Grabe Bea you are so strong!! Whatever blessings you have and will have is just God giving back to you for being lovely! In some ways, nagkaroon ako ng motivation. Thank you for this wonderful episode, Ms. Toni and Bea. ❤

  • @charrybayote2528
    @charrybayote2528 4 місяці тому +1

    Hearing this story of Bea mas Lalo kung na feel na super blessed Ako sa parents ko full of love kahit mahirap lng kami..I'm so thankful with my parents for everything kung Ano man Ako ngaun because of them❤🙏

  • @ExoSeok
    @ExoSeok 4 місяці тому +205

    Grabe these days naaadik ako sa mga videos nya sa tiktok. Tapos story nya pa ngayon na feature. Fighting Bea ❤

  • @dida4387
    @dida4387 4 місяці тому +10

    Sa toni talks dito mo malalaman may mga anxiety,depression,trauma pinag dadaanan ang na interview dto....grbe toni 👏🏼 ganda ng show mo 😊

  • @mircedmaliit3015
    @mircedmaliit3015 4 місяці тому +44

    Lakas ng impact saken, ang dami ko din pain but I choose to be happy and positive ❤ kudos to this young woman ❤

  • @chengcredible_tv
    @chengcredible_tv 4 місяці тому +2

    I admire ms Bea so much... Sobrang nakaka proud, ginagawa lahat para sa pamilya , sobrang hardworking at napak strong niya..

  • @freespirit12
    @freespirit12 4 місяці тому +3

    Thank you Toni kasi sa mga episodes na pinopost mo, mas lalo kong na realize yung unhealed wounds ko na matagal ko ng sinusupress. Mas lalo kong tinatapangan sarili ko to face it,accept it,embrace it and slowly forgive myself / those who hurt me.
    With that,ngstart akong mg heal ng paunti2x.Their stories and your platform are an instrument to touch people's hearts and souls.
    Kagaya ni Bea, may tampo at galit rin ako sa Diyos. I hope someday I will open up my heart again to Him.
    To more real life stories and healing. 💛

  • @DaireneCajusay
    @DaireneCajusay 4 місяці тому +103

    I'm crying while watching 😢strong talaga si Bea Borres very independent ❤

  • @goldenbeast7053
    @goldenbeast7053 4 місяці тому +52

    Sobrang strong ni Bea despite all of problems nakukuha niya parin magpasaya ng subscribers niya ❤❤

  • @kuromiauph
    @kuromiauph 4 місяці тому +26

    This is why I love Toni Talks. It allows the people to see beyond the surface and understand what they’ve actually been through. I never understood the hate towards Bea. I always viewed her as someone genuine and true to herself, and to judge her based on how she carries herself without knowing what her life was is unfair. She seems like a really nice kid that has so much to love give. Hopefully she learns to give it to those that truly deserve it.

  • @maryqueenmacatuno7985
    @maryqueenmacatuno7985 4 місяці тому +2

    Isang patunay ang kwento ni Bea na hindi lang pera ang makakapagpasaya sa isang tao or pamilya. Mas mahalaga ang pagmamahalan sa loob ng tahanan. May God heals your heart Bea. 🤍

  • @웃다-g9l
    @웃다-g9l 4 місяці тому +6

    Atleast maiintindhan natin si bea bkit siya ganyan kaarte pero mabait siya kaya wag ntin ijudge un ganyan na person na maarte magsalita ksi mabigat pla pinagdaanan niya, sana mg mhal sknya ng true love ndi un lokohin siya, salamat sa pag share bea borres Basta maging mabuting tao ka lang kahit ganoon tska wag ka papaloko dahil gsto mo ng true love..

  • @Laikalillykwan
    @Laikalillykwan 4 місяці тому +25

    Grabe ang episode nato. Iyak ako ng iyak. Napaka strong mo Bea. Napaka smart pa. God bless you more Miss Bea.

  • @Forbidden0102
    @Forbidden0102 4 місяці тому +93

    Naniniwala talaga ako sa "don't judge the book by it's cover, open it and discover" ☺️

  • @JuvylynBucad
    @JuvylynBucad 4 місяці тому +183

    Growing up diko din naranasan ung mahalin ng magulang. Traumatized ako because im also a victim of sexual abused. Pero diko nafeel ung comfort from my parents. Laging pinapalo ,laging nasisigawan ,nakukuha ko lang yung saya outside home ,pero pag nsa bahay wala. And narealized ko nung nagkaanak ako na nagagawa ko din pla sa mga anak ko ung naexperienced ko nung bata ako. Thats why im trying my best na wag maranasan ng mga anak ko yung ganung way ng pagpapalaki. And yes its true na pag di naprocess ng maayod ung mga past traumas ng isang tao . Hindi ka talaga magheheal agad. Sending hugs to you Bea . Thank you Ms. toni sa episode nato.❤

    • @Heaven9520
      @Heaven9520 4 місяці тому +2

      🙏🙏🙏🙏

    • @JayannDeGuzman-b2k
      @JayannDeGuzman-b2k 4 місяці тому +1

      Sending hugs same as you at ntatakot akong ngiging harsh sa anak ko yun ang gusto kung mwala trauma na hanggang ngayon di nwawala😢😭

    • @JuvylynBucad
      @JuvylynBucad 4 місяці тому +1

      @@JayannDeGuzman-b2k . I lost my eldest son because of cancer wayback 2022 and andami kong regrets .kasi narealized ko na habang lumalaki sya diko naparamdam sa knya yung love na deserved nia kasi diko alam pano ko papakita sa knila ung totoong love . Ginaya ko kasi ung tough love na nakuha ko galing sa magulang . Naiapply ko sa knya un dahil sya ang panganay😭. Kaya ngayun sobrang bumabawi ako sa mga kapatid nia😭💔 na sana pala ginawa ko din sa knya. Kaya ang hirap kapag ikaw mismo na nanay may pinagdadaanan ka.

    • @melvindelmundo940
      @melvindelmundo940 4 місяці тому +1

      Reading your story tumulo ang luha ko.. pls do your best not to pass it on to your children what you had experienced. love & protect them with all your heart & strength. The most important thing is seek for God's love, read bible. Surround yourself with people who knows God.
      God loves you.

    • @JuvylynBucad
      @JuvylynBucad 4 місяці тому

      @@melvindelmundo940 i will po🥺. Thank you❤

  • @jhenlozada5619
    @jhenlozada5619 4 місяці тому +6

    "Hindi mo makakalimutan yung pain,you'll just learn how to deal with it" 💔🥲-Bea

  • @chresfalogme-gq5jp
    @chresfalogme-gq5jp 4 місяці тому +1

    Hindi ko kayang pigilan yung iyak ko grabe 😢😢😢 Thank you Ate Tin at naging guest mo si Miss Bea

  • @jonairahdadayan8990
    @jonairahdadayan8990 4 місяці тому +86

    I really felt the pain 💔 losing a parent na nasa malayo ka 💔 that word na “gumuho yung mundo ko” 💔💔😭

  • @stephanieembate6538
    @stephanieembate6538 4 місяці тому +48

    Iloveyouuuu Bea you're a strong woman! We are proud and I hope you will find your peace and real happiness ☺️

  • @russelguadilla186
    @russelguadilla186 4 місяці тому +84

    I hope she heals fully from all her wounds 🙏

  • @JACQsLife
    @JACQsLife 4 місяці тому +1

    It’s true na Kapag nagkaka edad na tayo at nag ma matured dun mo lng talaga ma re realized kung gaano kahalaga pamilya sa atin. Totoo po yan at ganyan din ung na experienced ko. Dadaan talaga sa buhay natin na mag re rebelde tayo, makakagawa ng mga pagkakamali, però sa huli, pamilya pa rin talaga ang hahanapin natin, nagkulang man mga parents natin o hindi, sila pa rin ang tatakbuhan natin sa huli.
    Però hanga ako kay Bea, grabe din pinagdaanan nya at her young age but ang lambing nya magsalita, she’s so lovely and she’s smart. More blessings to you Bea and more success in life.

  • @rhenc.1788
    @rhenc.1788 4 місяці тому +7

    grabe pla childhood n bea. pero lumaki pa din syang marespeto sa kapwa at down to earth..

  • @ayeshaalejaga
    @ayeshaalejaga 4 місяці тому +30

    Naiiyak Ako sa kwento mo Bea Borres Hanga Ako Sayo sa katapangan mo Your so Strong and Inpendent Woman 👠 Thankyou for sharing your story to us subrang naiiyak Ako 😢

  • @Nari_014
    @Nari_014 4 місяці тому +25

    Glad to finally "know" you Bea Borres, most of us are seeing you in most of the socmed platforms but in this particular video we didn't just see you we've come to know you rin. As someone na victim ng family related SA this made me cry, without knowing the reason why we've experienced something like that really hurts but we will learn how to live with that kind of experience nalang rin talaga we got this girl! Another quality interview content again Ms. Toni more of this please 💝

  • @DestinyGracielSenopera
    @DestinyGracielSenopera 4 місяці тому +8

    I'm so proud of you, Bea! Sending you big warm hugs... - tiny

  • @VinceHumag
    @VinceHumag 2 місяці тому

    This is an opener, that we shouldn't be burden in our back lush stories from the past, curing from our painful times with our family especially from our parents who rooted the cause, is one of not so easy to express, and yet miss Bea took to speak from what she have in her chest, and let that shared to everybody and I salute her for being brave.
    I started to cry from the minute she spoke about her parents having bipolar depression thinking that it is one of the reason of her parents rage from the experiences they got, it was so sad to hear that miss Bea, we love you no matter what ❤️

  • @JhonnyBengz
    @JhonnyBengz 4 місяці тому +2

    I feel your pain Miss Bea! Be strong and keep reaching your dreams...Use all those pains to create the strongest Bea ever! Sending lots of love and prayer❤

  • @ghie2k119
    @ghie2k119 4 місяці тому +75

    Hindi nabanggit ni bea na bago mamatay ang parents nya, naka secure na ang future nila magkakapatid. One of the best thing na pwedeng gawin ng magulang sa anak. I like bea since puto bungbong.. 🥰

    • @beadingandcraftsbycha
      @beadingandcraftsbycha 4 місяці тому +7

      Hindi man niya nabanggit jan, but sa mga recent videos niya po paulit ulit niya sinasabi yan at grateful siya super sa parents niya❤🎉

  • @nickszoza
    @nickszoza 4 місяці тому +19

    Love ko sya. 1 time may napanuod ako na tiktok nya at start non nag fallow na ako sa mga social medias nya..Godbless you more Bea Borres❤

  • @jeremaytante
    @jeremaytante 4 місяці тому +23

    Behind her ka oahan vlogs and TikTok.Shes in pain and sad pala .Stand strong bea and look we see that way bea .Everything’s healed in a nice way keep living and keep us happy always .We are here to support you❤❤

  • @ashleyjacinto77
    @ashleyjacinto77 4 місяці тому +7

    arghhh i'm crying omg, that's why i love you so much bea !! sobrang genuine mo, napakatatag mo kaya marami rin nagmamahal sayo, hindi biro lahat ng pinagdaanan mo sobrang bigat nyan !! mahigpit na yakap biabea borres !! sana next si blythe naman isa rin sya sa pinaka matatag

  • @chardielPineda
    @chardielPineda 4 місяці тому

    how’s strong this girl behind her smiles there’s a lot of hidden pain despite all the pain and stuggles and problem that she faced but she never give up to show her personality to all people who support her that she is a happy person because she can

  • @jayabuadilla2549
    @jayabuadilla2549 4 місяці тому +36

    Gusto ko din ma kwento ky Mrs. Toni yung life ko 😢 as a kid and now a parent growing up with my mom ( drugs)

  • @katarzyna6898
    @katarzyna6898 4 місяці тому +401

    I would like to suggest kay ate toni to take a course sa psychology kasi mas lalawak na ung scooe ng service nya sa show, magiging legit counselor sya

    • @rcmagbanua424
      @rcmagbanua424 4 місяці тому +3

      Agree

    • @unboxing-u2g
      @unboxing-u2g 4 місяці тому +20

      No need nagbabasa ng libro yan

    • @erickanonato3901
      @erickanonato3901 4 місяці тому +34

      @@unboxing-u2giba pa rin yung matututunan mo pag nagtake ka ng course, guided ka pa ng professional

    • @ayeg4174
      @ayeg4174 4 місяці тому +40

      ​@@unboxing-u2ghindi po porket mahilig ka magbasa ng libro, nasa position ka na para mag advice. kase baka may maopen ka na traumatic sa kausap mo tapos maging negative yung outcome dun sa tao. malawak po ang psychology.

    • @undeniablyundeniable2621
      @undeniablyundeniable2621 4 місяці тому

      @@ayeg4174I agree!

  • @krisannesamudio8028
    @krisannesamudio8028 4 місяці тому +71

    Every person hast its own battle, so be kind to anyone because you'll never know if this person going through something. NEVER JUDGE!

  • @emiljaycrencia3126
    @emiljaycrencia3126 4 місяці тому +7

    Yung andami bashers ng batang toh dahil sa the way xa mag talk na Ang Arte Arte pero ganto Pala Buhay na pinagdaanan nya? So sad .. apaka strong mo biii.. sana mawala na bashers mo ❤️ at mahalin ka pa Lalo sa kung sino ka.. Godbless you bea

  • @jamishthewanderer
    @jamishthewanderer 4 місяці тому +2

    Grabi d ko sya masyado kilala, pero na curious ako kaya pinanood ko ng boo. At napaiyak ako sa kwento n’ya. Kahit grabi ka malumanay mag salita pero ramdam ko ang sakit na naranasan n’ya.
    I’m sure this girl will be blessed abundantly in so many ways. Ang laki ng puso n’ya sa murang edad, napaka matured n’ya na to handle the trials.
    God Blessed you more Bea. Thank you for opening you’re story in public.

  • @_miko1925
    @_miko1925 4 місяці тому +129

    I like her! some say she’s maarte but i can see a strong and independent woman

  • @ritchiesison5510
    @ritchiesison5510 4 місяці тому +21

    Those experiences will bring out the best in her through God’s Grace and again He used ToniTalks to bring out the best in your viewers of everything that happens through our own experiences

  • @frost3193
    @frost3193 4 місяці тому +14

    I'm a first binge viewer of Toni Talks. I'm not a religious guy pero I feel at peace, I feel hopeful, I feel genuinely happy pag pinapanood ko yung mga interviews ni Toni.

  • @lowenaagoncelio6447
    @lowenaagoncelio6447 4 місяці тому

    I admire bea from the start lalo na ngaun nalaman ko mga pinagdaanan nya,...very strong,....i pray for you na matagpuan mo ang lalaking makakasama mo bumuo ng tunay na pamilya

  • @hunteranime4793
    @hunteranime4793 4 місяці тому

    Dear Toni
    Ever since I first watch your Toni talks just this month The candy pangilinan interview.. it made me cry and I was hooked watching your show I did go back to all of your interviews.. I found out you are one of the best maybe for me you're number one best interviewer here..

  • @donaaaaaldd
    @donaaaaaldd 4 місяці тому +10

    She really deserves everything she have right now. Imagine all the pain she had. It’s amazing how she cope up without using anyone to move on instead she let her guards down and just allow herself to feel all the pain. Bea, please continue to be an inspiration and a piece of proof that everything can be beautiful after a chaos as long as you keep going. I love you so much, BEA! 🎀
    YOU HANDLE EVERYTHING SO WELL AND I’M PROUD OF EVERY LITTLE PROGRESS YOU DO.

  • @madisonandgrayjurado956
    @madisonandgrayjurado956 4 місяці тому +25

    Ang cute ni Bea, and I'm a millennial pero I'm following her kasi Di ako naiinis sa kaartehan niya nakkatuwa siya.happy to know na she's OK now.

  • @dollysomera
    @dollysomera 4 місяці тому +49

    Ako hanggang matanda na ko,never kong naramdaman minahal ako ng Pamilya ko..sobra dn angnpinagdaanan ko kalupitan ng magulang bastos n mga kapatid naninilip at ginagapang s gabi,minolestya ng tyuhin..tapos wla kang makuhang pagmamahal s magulang wla akong friends pero may mga apo n ko sila ang naramdaman kong nagmamahal s akin..❤

  • @raphaelahsantillan8976
    @raphaelahsantillan8976 4 місяці тому +1

    I just can't hold my tears back😭😭😭 naiyak talaga ako for this episode ❤

  • @joventalviar
    @joventalviar 4 місяці тому +1

    Napaka bait na bata, napaka mapagmahal sa magulang sa kabila ng naranasan sa magulang. Napaka strong na bata. Godbless you

  • @MaridalZTvLOGS8558
    @MaridalZTvLOGS8558 4 місяці тому +10

    napaka strong ng batang ito...dahil kung hindi niya kaya hindi nmn ito lahat pagsubok inilagay sa kanya..

  • @Melmories_02
    @Melmories_02 4 місяці тому +26

    para syang si Tyronnia, the way she looks and speaks❤

  • @ambot-kinsa-ni
    @ambot-kinsa-ni 4 місяці тому +12

    Isa ang ToniTalks sa mga nilolook forward ko every Sunday. The best! ❤

  • @monthlyful
    @monthlyful 4 місяці тому +2

    i felt like she didnt totally healed yet. this girl is too broken, i hope she will be surrounded with kind people. God bless her.

  • @jamelabuquiran8863
    @jamelabuquiran8863 4 місяці тому +1

    Despite of her happy side there is sad sides too that is kept and hidden... I inspire her so much right now even she's having a hard time she kept trying and try with all her might.. she's very brave and strong beating her present and her past. ILOVEYOUBEA

  • @trojan_dragon9212
    @trojan_dragon9212 4 місяці тому +69

    It pains me watching this episode. Sa edad ni Bea maraming pagsubok ang kanyang naranasan. Ang strong ng batang to. Laban ka lang sa buhay Bea. May rason kung bakit nangyari lahat yon.

  • @julesemmanuellebutil577
    @julesemmanuellebutil577 4 місяці тому +9

    first minutes palang sa interview na'to naiiyak na ako hanggang sa umiyak na din si bea, naiyak na din ako😭 super strong and genuine mo bea, u're an inspiration

  • @charuth5392
    @charuth5392 4 місяці тому +6

    Just like me, growing up until now hindi ako naka kuha ng pagmamahal ng parents ko..
    Hindi siya okay sa pakiramdam.. but thank God kahit ganon paman bini-blessed nya ako ng isang partner na nag puno lahat nga pag mamahal na hinding hindi ko nakuha sa parents and mga kapatid ko.

  • @vernamagnaye
    @vernamagnaye 4 місяці тому

    Parang halos parehong lang kame na kulang ako sa pagmamahal ng parents and siblings till now but with God's presence in my life I have been in the process of being hopeful and thankful regardless of any circumstances. With the Grace of God I won't survive the my past pains but still I have loved them in my heart in this lifetime and beyond. Miss my sister and my parents badly and looking forward to meet them in His Paradise in God's time❤

  • @mikeithappen
    @mikeithappen 4 місяці тому

    Very honest, humble and beautiful young lady. Continue to seek God lang and I know He will guide you as you grow with your journey. 😊🙏