I loved the way he cuddled her and comforted her like she was his daughter. Steve, you are truly a great man and a good father, I will cultivate this same responsibility to my family. Cheers.
His wife I’ve learned some jobs respect you more if your married and hv a family. Just like companies can be turned off by a woman with kids the same goes with a person with no family. I’ve worked in HR sometimes having a family makes the person appear more stable and managerial.
I feel like as women we have intuition. Our guts are always right. If we feel uneasy or weird when a man is acting differently then he’s hiding something and he isn’t for us
@ Kenya Victoria ... If women really do have intuitions or your gut feelings are mostly right, then why do women usually make poor choices? I wouldn't see a pitfall and walk right towards it knowing that I'm going to fall in it. Many of your gut feelings comes from your emotions, and so are your decision-makings.They're not pure intuitions.
@@isaacwilliams4044 intuition, or rapid cognition, is much like bringing pieces of a puzzle together. The puzzle pieces, or evidence, is stored in the subconscious. These bits of information are picked up over a period of time. They surface to the conscious mind when the puzzle is complete. It surfaces as a thought/idea which causes a reaction. Though it may feel like a feeling came first, that is just a reaction to the thought. Good detectives usually have excellent intuition. Brain trauma to certain regions of the brain can cause a decline or inability to utilize it.
Not reall tbh ... and sometimes it’s the opposite I had ex girlfriends get uneasy about stuff and accuse me of cheating and they were wrong... and I had a ex that I assumed she was cheating and she lied and she was. Ladies can’t automatically chalk it up to “woman’s intuition” and automatically assume there right lol
I was dating this guy who decided that out of nowhere that he wanted to see me every Tuesday only. And that every weekend he'd travel to see his mom, I said no and why should when we see each other be scheduled. He uploaded the girl he was seeing on his WhatsApp status (His supposed ex). I asked him what it that was all about. He told me I was just a rebound. And he blocked me. I've never seen him again. But I need you'll to know you don't have to go through such. Walk away when people don't want you, heal and love yourself. Pray about it. The right men for you will show up, and he will worship the ground you walk on.
Not sure if you will ever see this, but I am sorry that happened to you. I am curious about what happened with him and that lady. But don’t worry because karma and the universe make everyone reap what they sow
I see this happens in every relationship. Women can sense the 'other' woman even before it starts. Even way before her man feels anything. Because our intuition is so strong, and we know that particular woman have a big possibility that will ignite something from her man. It doesn't have to wait until it happens, we suspect already way back
Steve gave her a hug to comfort and console her I’m sure he could see the girl in the picture is fine fine that’s why he said she’s in it to win it. Also his reaction was a bit dramatic because he’s a comedian but the words that followed spoke volumes about the state of affairs that’s why he offered to find her a date on his show he’s trying to make her walk away with dignity.The hug was sincere and compassionate because he’s a father.
Well Steve had a diplomatic way of telling the young lady to Move On without hurting her feelings! I'll bring you back on the show 😉 to introduce you to 3 nice young men!
@RealShit101 You're exactly right!! She has a ton of makeup on...just average. Her body is 8 or 9 but not that beautiful. Hopefully she has a nice personality.
@@divineturner2490 don't feel bad I laugh at it too. It was a stupid funny situation. How she would make me good food and treat me like royalty when I visit lmao
Yea unless there are definitive plans to live in the same place in the near future or it’s somewhere that is a reasonable driving distance away, it’s probably not feasible. I know I wouldn’t do long distance, but I do have a fully remote job.
I came across clips of Steve's show I don't understand how they could cancel it. Steve has to be one of the greatest human beings on this planet. His advice to people on his show is just down right awesome. I am a huge fan because of his UA-cam channel.
@@Babymac24 Its super easy to judge celebrities because their faults are displayed upfront for everyone to see; if all our faults were displayed for everyone to see just like celebrities; we would not be able to show our faces in public anymore. We feel like we have a high moral ground because our mistakes are hidden and no other person can see them. We admire celebrities because; regardless of the mistakes thay have made and been public; they continue to push forward for the better. Would we have done the same?
Why would the guy have an ugly woman as an "asset to his business?" Yeah, that woman was definitely really pretty! I'm glad Steve is helping her to just move on!
listen to that voice - yes. because there is a question, it does not mean that you keep it moving. we are human beings with pasts, presents and hopefully futures. we experience good times and misfortunes. questions or disagreements arise, and we are responsible to our partners to sort them out. normal relationship dynamic. the problem comes when there is a consistent disparity in the question to solution ratio - you can't get a straight answer, get brushed off, or things just do not make sense. then is when you take the clue, and keep it moving.
Still trying to figure out what some men really want. She's beautiful and humble. I love how she fell into Steve's arms like ok Daddy I got, thank you ❤
I think he’s weak for not being honest. But I don’t think he’s weak. I mean long distance is hard when you live in the same country. They live in separate countries. The odds were against them from jump.
I'll help you. Women in they're early 20s are talking to different dudes getting attention whatever they want from them because a woman at 18 immediately becomes a hot commodity. She gets that out of her system. Most men in the early 20s, unless they had a lot of status in hs college, can't talk to different women, don't have the sex appeal to do it. A lot of men get out of the single player stage due to running out of options, not on their own terms. If they could they would be out there, woman after woman. After awhile that gets old & you know you can get layer when you want & you meet a good woman. This is the best time to get a dude. Then he knows what he wants & might be willing to commit. What most women get lots of sex appeal in the height of their player stage or not a lot of sex appeal, gets into a long term relationship because they feel like that's the only way they can get regular sex. He might think he wants the gf But it gets real after the novelty of regular sex where's off. He might not really like the girl like that to be all into her & marry her but he won't break up because that means drought. So you get strung along for years with no commitment. So a question to ask yourself is has this guy gone through his player stage yet? Will he want to? If woman threw themselves at him everyday will he WANT TO ignore them? Or is it that he just CAN'T get with them he doesn't have the sexy. It gets more complicated you meet a good woman that you know wanna marry pretty early on. But then you don't want her to go anywhere but you haven't gotten player stage out of your system a lot of dudes try to have cake & eat it. Or try to bite the bullet on player stage. That's when you see dudes ask for open relationships. Hope it helps you... I have daughters I can't provide a good marriage example with their mom
Ladies your man should be your biggest fan! If he is being a fan to another woman and treating her as an asset is when it is time to find another man. Your man should clap louder for you than anyone else in the room. I refuse to have a man that does not do that. If a man calls another woman an asset whether business or friend, and doesn't refer to our connection as that, it will be the last time he'll refer to me as anything but gone.
isnt that a two way street though? want me cheering loudly n boldly when you play ...but when I play for the team, ya sittin down on ya hands ..even if I score 5 touchdowns in one game, you (like most american women) are just like"thats nothing.."
@@therealflamelit It should definitely go both ways. Most wimen I know are doing 99% of all the cheering, effort, time, and investment so you hear the complaint when the guy won't enthusiastically contribute his 1%. But I know that lazy, rude, condescending, materialistic, narcissistic women exist as well, so I hear what you're saying.
@Glow Up the lil dude under the bridge is a troll..Troll Is a movie..Im spittin facts..Im 6 ft 2 and over 200 lbs with less than 10% body fat..Im HUGE for a troll lol
@Glow Up real man goes to work supports his family and handles his business..Ive been doing that since I was 16..my manliness is not tied to how I respond to a comment...next? oh im sorry that was the response a TROLL would give because Trolls are inable to joke around apparently
Thank you for adding captions for your deaf and hard of hearing viewers! Also, your advice is stellar, and you made a positive difference in this young lady's life!
That’s your intuition girl. Listen to it. Stop wasting your time with someone who isn’t afraid to openly disrespect you. You don’t have to question yourself about how you should be treated. If it feels like something is up, then there most likely is.
Awwww dat was really nice of Steve. I wish her all the best. Can't wait to see the episodes of her n dem 3 men that he going to choose for her. Don't worry girl Uncle Steve got your back!😀♥️💯
What is going on with these guys?? She's beautiful and from what i can tell a smart woman. If he's really over it why just not talk to her and break things up like an adult? Why take videos and pics with another woman and knoww your girlfriend is going to see this?? Why, just why? It's not fair!! I wish her all the best and hope she'll find someone who really loves her
rosa Gold She's beautiful but she's far away. Smart...not sure about that because the once in 3 months arrangement wouldn't sit well with a lot of women in a serious relationship unless there was a plan to live closer together in the future. She didn't say the guy didn't want her anymore though. The guy is probably dating both of them.
@@thekreflondon8609 who knows!? There is also the small chance that his relationship with the other woman is platonic. Judging from Steve's reaction she's not very attractive either.
The way he dropped them cards and stop mid sentence tell me that sis was bad and she clearly out her league. I'm glad he embraced her and broke it down to her in a nice way. She is green clearly.
Hahahaha she said she's not pretty but when Steve saw the picture he was like "whaoh, she's gonna be a problem, let me bring you back on the show and introduce you to 3 nice men" LOL😂😂😂
Thank God for you Steve! Good looking out for the young women of today they need some real love from a father figure that will be straight up and true to the heart. 👏👏👏👏👏👏
Why I watched this multiple times🥰🥰just to see how Steve hold her close to him🥰🥰no judgement,just fatherly ,or big brother comforting hug🥰🥰all human woman or man needed on the right time🥰🥰🥰🥰
The girl abroad fine as hell. Steve: "oh whoa, this her?"....threw away his card, he starting dancing a bit. That girl fine as hell. Happy he's going to set up home girl, she"s also pretty.
Anybody else find it weird that millions of chicks can't find a good dude, yet this fool keep exactly 3 good ones on deck every damn episode?! Somebody lying somewhere!
CHERYL VAUGHN There are good and eligible men out there. It’s just a lot of basic women have unrealistic standards that keep them single. This is the result when you have 90% of women trying to date 1% of the men that fit their long list of requirements.
Good men are rare that's why. That's why I advocate for girls and women to focus on their hobbies and grow strong friendships so that they have a life outside of men and don't rely on them to validate them.
😏TRUTH BE TOLD ALOT TIMES THEY AIN'T "GOOD WOMEN" AS THEY CLAIM. IT'S A LOT DESPERATE ONES OUT THERE, BUT GOOD WOMEN HARD TO COME BY TOO. A LOT NOW DO HAVE MINDSET FOR MAN TO TAKE CARE THEM AND MEET THEIR NEEDS. WHEN FOCUS SHOULD BE GOD GIVE ME SOMEONE THAT MATCHES MY LIFE AND VICE VERSA!!!💯
Steve being a man obviously saw the woman in the picture from a man's point of view! Immediately he knew the deal! Steve, thanks for helping this young lady move on! Hope she meets a great guy!
ysmithriley exactly!!! That was a nice way to say you don’t have a shot in hell. And she’s a pretty girl. He met someone where he is and that’s hard to compete with unless you have a commitment and he really loves you...Steve will hook her up
STEVE DID THAT BECAUSE THE OTHER WOMAN OUT SHINED HER. HE SAID SHES IN IT TO WIN IT MEANING, I'M GONNA FIND SOMEONE ELSE FOR YOU BECAUSE YOU'RE NOT GONNA WIN THIS ONE. 😂😂😂
TOI JONES you are 100% right. Sorry if that upsets other people. Clue #1: When Steve sees her he goes Ohh! and grabs the phone to see more pics. If she wasnt competition Steve would have been curt and said ah naw you have nothing to worry about Clue #2 Steve's tone went from loud to soft, because he knew he had to break bad news to her as gently as possible and not destroy her confidence. So he did the bad news good news method. Bad news, she is problem, good news I will find you 3 good men to replace the one.. Clue #3 "In it to win it" is guy coded language for "Shes a keeper" in more or less words. If the girl was not a threat, Steve wouldve said "She is fighting a losing battle". Clue #4 Her man saying she is an asset is a tip off that she is eye candy that specializes in getting in good with his clients. Aka Flirtatious and appealing. That let Steve know from jump what time it was. Ladies, you can refute all you want, but as a guy I will tell you, every man who saw this knew exactly what was on that phone when Steve started talking. For every good woman in a guys life there is at least 1 chick that they would risk it all for if the opportunity presented itself. The fact she is closer in proximity than the girl on the segment was all the writing on the wall he needed. Why pay hundreds to meet every 3 months when temptation is right down the street? Its not the fairy tale you want to hear but its the truth and you have to understand it, until he claims you, puts a ring on it, there is something in the back of his mind he is waiting on first. Steve did the right thing and he did it the right way. He protected her self esteem while incentivizing her to move on for her own good. That is what "Uncle Steve" really means.
James Staples You seem to be very wise in the language of men. On another note, can you help me decipher this. I met a man briefly one late night, several months ago at a gas station (working the register) who exchanged pleasantries with me and mentioned he would like to take me to his hometown in Ethiopia. Within seconds he slipped me a bit of paper and when asked what this was for, he said my number. I didn’t give it to him. I’ve wondered for sometime if I should have done so. He was tall and handsome and his eyes lit up when he spoke to me. I was taken aback at how forward he was, hence why I didn’t give him the number. Did I read him wrongly?
@@TM-ys8dy You may the opportunity for his green card maybe?.... Do you think you are the only one receiving this type of treatment from him if he is that confident and very forward?
@@TM-ys8dy I would be appalled at the "taking to my hometown reference". One cannot just meet someone and want to do something as personal as that. You were right to follow your first instinct and not give him your number. That guy is bad news!
@Allen Reynolds The current context is clear, a woman wanting clarity. She would have liked it to come from the man she was dating. Remember is was a man that said "men don't volunteer information."
What people have to realize is that we do things on a pattern regardless of male or female. If anything changes the pattern that you are use to then it can either be good or bad. If you seen it once you know how it going to finish.
Steve told her the right thing because she would have given all of her time to this "relationship" and came up short. He clearly has another "situation" in line. She is still young moving on is best.
Red flags: 1. long distance relationship overseas 2. we see each other every 3 months 3. the other girl is with him 4. her "cookie" is available, your's isn't 5. move on
I loved the way he cuddled her and comforted her like she was his daughter. Steve, you are truly a great man and a good father, I will cultivate this same responsibility to my family.
Cheers.
She'll do it again and again because women usually emotional than intellectual.
Yeah
I felt the opposite - it made me uncomfortable and I would have moved away. More eye contact and less physical contact please.
make a plan. Emotional inmaturity people choose long distance usually. She deserves better
@@muhammadmafaz8530 that’s weak and old vision you have about women!
Steve offered her to find a new man , when one door closes another opens... won’t he do it 🙌🏽🙌🏽💯👏🏽
Stephanie J in her case 3 doors lool
Steve did it. Give that credit to Steve.
WON’T HE DO IT 🙌🏾😂
yeah he will do it...to you.....then after he does , the next man will do it..then the next man ,,and the next one,,,, merry go round of men
Amen
“Asset to his next business move”? I already know who it is. That’s his wife or girlfriend.
Right! He is already attached.
Of course
Yup
Really, that's sad. She's the side chick then.
His wife I’ve learned some jobs respect you more if your married and hv a family. Just like companies can be turned off by a woman with kids the same goes with a person with no family. I’ve worked in HR sometimes having a family makes the person appear more stable and managerial.
I wanted to see the picture lol
Girl, so did I...LOL!!
I was dying to see that picture lmao 😂
Tryphose Auguste she pretty I can tell by how Steve acting
She probably was an olThot... Lol
You wanted to see your own picture..dont you know how you look like?
I feel like as women we have intuition. Our guts are always right. If we feel uneasy or weird when a man is acting differently then he’s hiding something and he isn’t for us
@ Kenya Victoria ... If women really do have intuitions or your gut feelings are mostly right, then why do women usually make poor choices? I wouldn't see a pitfall and walk right towards it knowing that I'm going to fall in it. Many of your gut feelings comes from your emotions, and so are your decision-makings.They're not pure intuitions.
Isaac Williams most of us don’t follow our intuition out of fear and so yes we make poor decisions lol
@@isaacwilliams4044 intuition, or rapid cognition, is much like bringing pieces of a puzzle together. The puzzle pieces, or evidence, is stored in the subconscious. These bits of information are picked up over a period of time. They surface to the conscious mind when the puzzle is complete. It surfaces as a thought/idea which causes a reaction. Though it may feel like a feeling came first, that is just a reaction to the thought. Good detectives usually have excellent intuition. Brain trauma to certain regions of the brain can cause a decline or inability to utilize it.
probably wont admit that to my girlfriend, but this is so true, there is always something wrong when u women feel like there is
Not reall tbh ... and sometimes it’s the opposite I had ex girlfriends get uneasy about stuff and accuse me of cheating and they were wrong... and I had a ex that I assumed she was cheating and she lied and she was. Ladies can’t automatically chalk it up to “woman’s intuition” and automatically assume there right lol
Steve is a great example of how a father should be loving and understanding
I was dating this guy who decided that out of nowhere that he wanted to see me every Tuesday only. And that every weekend he'd travel to see his mom, I said no and why should when we see each other be scheduled. He uploaded the girl he was seeing on his WhatsApp status (His supposed ex). I asked him what it that was all about. He told me I was just a rebound. And he blocked me. I've never seen him again. But I need you'll to know you don't have to go through such. Walk away when people don't want you, heal and love yourself. Pray about it. The right men for you will show up, and he will worship the ground you walk on.
Not sure if you will ever see this, but I am sorry that happened to you. I am curious about what happened with him and that lady. But don’t worry because karma and the universe make everyone reap what they sow
Good advice. Even greater advice is to go abstinent.
Worship the ground you walk on…are you God?, that’s a bit too much!
Wow, I have you bounced right back. Karma really is a MFer
@@ferdinandcole907 I don’t think she meant that in a literal sense. More like view her as a queen (and he as king) and respect her
I see this happens in every relationship. Women can sense the 'other' woman even before it starts. Even way before her man feels anything. Because our intuition is so strong, and we know that particular woman have a big possibility that will ignite something from her man. It doesn't have to wait until it happens, we suspect already way back
Girl. Pls. find. JESUS
@@deeward729 girl please learn english
@@deeward729 How do you know she don’t have Jesus you can’t judge someone by a little statement. Repent
That's not intuition you are describing, it's paranoia.
A cheating woman will always be paranoid no matter what you do because she knows what it feels like
Tread softly in any relationship. Guard ur heart. But, this is a major red flag.
FACTS!
"Guard ur heart" for out of if flows the issues of life!!!!
Ya think?
@@kingdomperspectivesmindset5595 amen
It's not a red flag. It's obvious she is the side chick.
The way Steve held her
Definitely some fatherly love that he showed her
STEVE ALREADY KNEW WHAT WAS UP LOL
Yes indeed
Yes he did! He knew the woman holding the 🎤, standing next to that girl with w/out touching dem titties, was a challenge! 🤣😂🤣
That chick must be bad asf...lol. he felt sorry for her too
That man could've not done anything, people just assuming stuff because they know what they would be doing in that same situation.
@@SplendidNinja yeah. Bullsh*t. Ask any man. Please
Steve gave her a hug to comfort and console her I’m sure he could see the girl in the picture is fine fine that’s why he said she’s in it to win it. Also his reaction was a bit dramatic because he’s a comedian but the words that followed spoke volumes about the state of affairs that’s why he offered to find her a date on his show he’s trying to make her walk away with dignity.The hug was sincere and compassionate because he’s a father.
Well Steve had a diplomatic way of telling the young lady to Move On without hurting her feelings! I'll bring you back on the show 😉 to introduce you to 3 nice young men!
Damn that girl is beautiful
Paul Hogue 5 Your opinion.
@@k.o.h8446 RUDE...my opinion
serious Huh?
@RealShit101 oh please... What's your idea of somebody hot? Probably some stringy white chick or something
@RealShit101 You're exactly right!! She has a ton of makeup on...just average. Her body is 8 or 9 but not that beautiful. Hopefully she has a nice personality.
Young lady. MOVE ON.
Awwwww I wanted to tear up for her. Bcuz when Steve dropped his card and grabbed her to embrace her, I ALRDY KNEW IT WAS A WRAP
My ex told his babymomma I'm his business partner. I was wondering why she was nice to me then we both found out we were being played😂😂😂 good times
Lmaoo. They are trifling! Smh
I feel so bad for laughing
@@kraziikiim it's like they go to school to study lying. They get better at it everyday😂
@@divineturner2490 don't feel bad I laugh at it too. It was a stupid funny situation. How she would make me good food and treat me like royalty when I visit lmao
I feel bad for laughing and your jin profile pic ain't helping either 😂😂
I tried that long distance relationship thing..When she said communication was lessening...It brought back memories...Never again!!
It worked out fine for some ppl, its like everything else
Yep, once the communication goes, so does everything else..
@@pinkroses6463 sure does!
Yea unless there are definitive plans to live in the same place in the near future or it’s somewhere that is a reasonable driving distance away, it’s probably not feasible. I know I wouldn’t do long distance, but I do have a fully remote job.
I can't disappoint
I came across clips of Steve's show I don't understand how they could cancel it. Steve has to be one of the greatest human beings on this planet. His advice to people on his show is just down right awesome. I am a huge fan because of his UA-cam channel.
😂😂😂😂 greatest human cheating on his second wife with his now 3rd one. And Marjorie was friends with Mary. Yea, great
@@Babymac24 So in your opinion a person can't be a great human being unless they're without sin. I didn't say he was Jesus.
@@tbrule.4877 Oh well. Get on then.
ABSOLUTELY 💯 Steve's show was one of the best!!
@@Babymac24 Its super easy to judge celebrities because their faults are displayed upfront for everyone to see; if all our faults were displayed for everyone to see just like celebrities; we would not be able to show our faces in public anymore. We feel like we have a high moral ground because our mistakes are hidden and no other person can see them. We admire celebrities because; regardless of the mistakes thay have made and been public; they continue to push forward for the better. Would we have done the same?
She’s gorgeous 🖤🍫
so are you!
Rosa Mystica thank you so much! ☺️
@@thevillaininyourstory U're welcome handsome!
@Esther Nsaka lmao
Shooters gotta shoot
Nurturing Uncle Steve! Thank you. 👍
Why would the guy have an ugly woman as an "asset to his business?" Yeah, that woman was definitely really pretty! I'm glad Steve is helping her to just move on!
I didn't even think about that. So true.
He could have been using the other woman for money to fund his business,or she does work for him
Ladies need to learn to listen to their intuition. If you even have to question anything then you should probably keep it moving.
100%
I'm definitely doing this moving forward. Ain't nobody got time for games.
I agree, I would be guilty of analyzing and wondering that is it! One should not have to thank you for this comment.
There's always questions. Prince Charming ain't coming. It's a book title. Look for it. It's about money and betrayal. True story, too.
listen to that voice - yes.
because there is a question, it does not mean that you keep it moving. we are human beings with pasts, presents and hopefully futures. we experience good times and misfortunes.
questions or disagreements arise, and we are responsible to our partners to sort them out. normal relationship dynamic.
the problem comes when there is a consistent disparity in the question to solution ratio - you can't get a straight answer, get brushed off, or things just do not make sense.
then is when you take the clue, and keep it moving.
Man the fatherly figure Steve projects is so strong, he is an asset to the talk show bussiness. God has truly gifted him in that.
If she see him every three months she's the other woman, been with someone 4x in a year and think you're the main woman I don't think so
:/
YES! you are right. if they only see him 4 days a year what do they think he is doing the other 362 days. smh
Kia Sample he sneaking to see got wife my friend husband did the same til girl daughter posted on Facebook how he so good to her and mom
True
I disagree, they're both in different countries, so on that note that's great that they see one another that many times.
Sometimes we know the truth, we just dont want to accept it💙💜💙
That's cuz women make choices based off their emotions instead of reality. That's why end up single and damaged goods by age 30.
We ALWAYS know the truth.
@@alethachery611 too bad you make the wrong choice.
I LOVE Steve's honesty. And he always gives definite answers instead of going around the bush!!!!!
I feel like her heart Fell from her chest but she smile 💔 thank god for uncle steve. I hope she will find a better person ❤️✨
She needed to her it from a man. She is beautiful and seems to be very sweet. She will find a new man in her city.
The funny thing is one of y’all in the comments could be the girl in the picture and don’t know😂😂
Hahahahaha
Bro that was hilarious
Hush you mouth.
FAM lol
😂
Still trying to figure out what some men really want. She's beautiful and humble.
I love how she fell into Steve's arms like ok Daddy I got, thank you ❤
She's very attractive for sure. She's also very far from the man in question. Long distance relationships are extra tough.
Some men are just weak and can't handle committing to one woman. SOME men. They exist.
I think he’s weak for not being honest. But I don’t think he’s weak. I mean long distance is hard when you live in the same country. They live in separate countries. The odds were against them from jump.
I'll help you. Women in they're early 20s are talking to different dudes getting attention whatever they want from them because a woman at 18 immediately becomes a hot commodity. She gets that out of her system.
Most men in the early 20s, unless they had a lot of status in hs college, can't talk to different women, don't have the sex appeal to do it.
A lot of men get out of the single player stage due to running out of options, not on their own terms. If they could they would be out there, woman after woman.
After awhile that gets old & you know you can get layer when you want & you meet a good woman. This is the best time to get a dude. Then he knows what he wants & might be willing to commit.
What most women get lots of sex appeal in the height of their player stage or not a lot of sex appeal, gets into a long term relationship because they feel like that's the only way they can get regular sex. He might think he wants the gf But it gets real after the novelty of regular sex where's off. He might not really like the girl like that to be all into her & marry her but he won't break up because that means drought. So you get strung along for years with no commitment.
So a question to ask yourself is has this guy gone through his player stage yet? Will he want to? If woman threw themselves at him everyday will he WANT TO ignore them? Or is it that he just CAN'T get with them he doesn't have the sexy.
It gets more complicated you meet a good woman that you know wanna marry pretty early on. But then you don't want her to go anywhere but you haven't gotten player stage out of your system a lot of dudes try to have cake & eat it. Or try to bite the bullet on player stage. That's when you see dudes ask for open relationships.
Hope it helps you... I have daughters I can't provide a good marriage example with their mom
@@poeticlovee We still don't know for sure that he's cheating. I know, it looks REAL suspicious though.
Girl, sorry to break it to u. You are the other woman. The girl in his picture is actually the formal one.
Everyone needs an uncle like Steve.
The way steve solves the issue is almost prophetic.
Simply ......wow,
My words fail to express the gratitude.
Steve: "Is She Fine?"
Young Lady: "No"
Steve: "Lemme See the Picture of her"
"Oh.. Dis Her??"
"She Is In it....To Win It.." 🤣😂🤣👍🏿
Lmaooooooooooooo
Does that mean she was fine?😅
@@palomamia841 I’m asking the same question !! Loool. I thought it he made like a ‘oooh’ no she’s not find picture
@@palomamia841 Yup, she fine. That's why he threw that card bc he's attracted to her.
Lmfaoooo
Being straightforward is always the best answer.
Uncle Steve to the rescue
Steve's gesture and noises are sooo funny!!!
I love when Steve picks random ladies and helps them. He is so helpful. That’s uncle Steve.
You really think she was random?
Ladies your man should be your biggest fan! If he is being a fan to another woman and treating her as an asset is when it is time to find another man. Your man should clap louder for you than anyone else in the room. I refuse to have a man that does not do that. If a man calls another woman an asset whether business or friend, and doesn't refer to our connection as that, it will be the last time he'll refer to me as anything but gone.
isnt that a two way street though? want me cheering loudly n boldly when you play ...but when I play for the team, ya sittin down on ya hands ..even if I score 5 touchdowns in one game, you (like most american women) are just like"thats nothing.."
@@therealflamelit It should definitely go both ways. Most wimen I know are doing 99% of all the cheering, effort, time, and investment so you hear the complaint when the guy won't enthusiastically contribute his 1%.
But I know that lazy, rude, condescending, materialistic, narcissistic women exist as well, so I hear what you're saying.
Self absorbed written all over k williams post. Now adays the women arent worth the clap
@Glow Up the lil dude under the bridge is a troll..Troll Is a movie..Im spittin facts..Im 6 ft 2 and over 200 lbs with less than 10% body fat..Im HUGE for a troll lol
@Glow Up real man goes to work supports his family and handles his business..Ive been doing that since I was 16..my manliness is not tied to how I respond to a comment...next? oh im sorry that was the response a TROLL would give because Trolls are inable to joke around apparently
Man
Steve is a warrior dad to us all. He wants the best for all of us❤️❤️❤️❤️
Steve is good man. Thank you for showing the world you have a heart.
Thank you for adding captions for your deaf and hard of hearing viewers!
Also, your advice is stellar, and you made a positive difference in this young lady's life!
He just made me tear up.. Mr Harvey!
That’s your intuition girl. Listen to it. Stop wasting your time with someone who isn’t afraid to openly disrespect you. You don’t have to question yourself about how you should be treated. If it feels like something is up, then there most likely is.
I appreciate Steve's honesty with her
WE WANT PART 2!!
Dr. Steve is always nailing the truth!
Awwww dat was really nice of Steve. I wish her all the best. Can't wait to see the episodes of her n dem 3 men that he going to choose for her. Don't worry girl Uncle Steve got your back!😀♥️💯
"An asset to his next business move"🤔....WOW - that's a loaded statement. Shouldn't that be her title?...🗣RUN 🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️
That covert narc speak for another bish im gonna use..SMDH
Right! Sounded like fiancee to me😩
If jumping to conclusions was an Olympic sport y’all would dominate
Steve I need 3 eligible man to choose from as well. Pleeeeeeeeeéeeeese.🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈🤣🤣🤣
What is going on with these guys?? She's beautiful and from what i can tell a smart woman. If he's really over it why just not talk to her and break things up like an adult? Why take videos and pics with another woman and knoww your girlfriend is going to see this?? Why, just why? It's not fair!! I wish her all the best and hope she'll find someone who really loves her
rosa Gold She's beautiful but she's far away. Smart...not sure about that because the once in 3 months arrangement wouldn't sit well with a lot of women in a serious relationship unless there was a plan to live closer together in the future. She didn't say the guy didn't want her anymore though. The guy is probably dating both of them.
@@thekreflondon8609 who knows!? There is also the small chance that his relationship with the other woman is platonic. Judging from Steve's reaction she's not very attractive either.
rosa Gold sounds like the guy isn’t ready for the next step. I myself am lookin for a woman similar to her.
@@jordancourse5102 And that's ok, but why can't he just tell her that and finish it? Why all this bs?
@@blackrosegoldi Say it loud.🤗
Long distance rarely ever works 😔
Steve is so awesome helping people find love!
she’s beautiful
Thank you Steve for coming to the rescue.
I so love that heart of yours.
The way he dropped them cards and stop mid sentence tell me that sis was bad and she clearly out her league. I'm glad he embraced her and broke it down to her in a nice way. She is green clearly.
Definitely! Steve handled that so well lol
"Show me a picture of her. I'll tell you." LOVE IT!!
Steve I love your big heart
Razan Olimat surely
Oh my God i nearly cried when Steve was talking to her
That's was nice of you Steve. You are absolutely correct Steve. She is there and she is in it to win it.
Hahahaha she said she's not pretty but when Steve saw the picture he was like "whaoh, she's gonna be a problem, let me bring you back on the show and introduce you to 3 nice men" LOL😂😂😂
Right, cuz if she was ugly, he would have said something different..Steve knew the girl wasn't ugly lol
She might not have been pretty per say but her body may have been banging
i’m sorry, i have nothing against long distance relationships, but i would never be in one lol.
Same here. As if life isn't hard enough.. 😂
Don’t lol. I’ve learnt my lesson. Never again 😫
Yeah, they're HARD. 😔
Stephanie Cunanan Never again for me either. 🤦🏾♀️
Stephanie Cunanan because it’s never work 🌚
She’s absolutely beautiful. Wow. She’ll get another.
Typical hater
Travis Green WTF?
Steve Harvey is an angel😇😇😇 He has no wings, but he gives women wings to fly.😇😍😇
Thank God for you Steve! Good looking out for the young women of today they need some real love from a father figure that will be straight up and true to the heart. 👏👏👏👏👏👏
That woman is so beautiful and deserves to be appreciated
That was so sweet of Steve
Why I watched this multiple times🥰🥰just to see how Steve hold her close to him🥰🥰no judgement,just fatherly ,or big brother comforting hug🥰🥰all human woman or man needed on the right time🥰🥰🥰🥰
Steve always bringing somebody on the show to find some “nice men”
The girl abroad fine as hell. Steve: "oh whoa, this her?"....threw away his card, he starting dancing a bit. That girl fine as hell. Happy he's going to set up home girl, she"s also pretty.
Anybody else find it weird that millions of chicks can't find a good dude, yet this fool keep exactly 3 good ones on deck every damn episode?! Somebody lying somewhere!
CHERYL VAUGHN There are good and eligible men out there. It’s just a lot of basic women have unrealistic standards that keep them single. This is the result when you have 90% of women trying to date 1% of the men that fit their long list of requirements.
@@DeAndreTJ You might be right. I've been wondering why good women can't find a man.
Good men are rare that's why. That's why I advocate for girls and women to focus on their hobbies and grow strong friendships so that they have a life outside of men and don't rely on them to validate them.
@@DeAndreTJ 😂💯❤
😏TRUTH BE TOLD ALOT TIMES THEY AIN'T "GOOD WOMEN" AS THEY CLAIM. IT'S A LOT DESPERATE ONES OUT THERE, BUT GOOD WOMEN HARD TO COME BY TOO. A LOT NOW DO HAVE MINDSET FOR MAN TO TAKE CARE THEM AND MEET THEIR NEEDS. WHEN FOCUS SHOULD BE GOD GIVE ME SOMEONE THAT MATCHES MY LIFE AND VICE VERSA!!!💯
Long distance relationship are hard to maintain. The only way I see it working. If 1 or the other moves closer or together. Other than that 👎👎👎👎👎
All these available handsome men in arms reach. And your getting played long distance. Giiiiirl
it’s obvious the girl in that pic damn gorgeous 😂
😂 from I heard it I knew it was a lie "ASSet"
Just loved how he answered her questions
Wow! That was nice Steve! And a learning lesson to all of us women!
Awwww......that's so nice of you Steve! Jesus blessings 🌷
Steve being a man obviously saw the woman in the picture from a man's point of view! Immediately he knew the deal!
Steve, thanks for helping this young lady move on! Hope she meets a great guy!
Wow that is so nice Steve! And she is a beautiful young lady and I know there is someone that would love to be with her. Be bless.
U could tell the way she said the girl wasn’t pretty she was lying
EXACTLY🤣🤣
Antonia williams she has to say that. Most have to man
Was she Drop Dead Gorgeous? Musta been if Steve offering to bring her on his show to meet 3 new gentlemen.
ysmithriley exactly!!! That was a nice way to say you don’t have a shot in hell. And she’s a pretty girl. He met someone where he is and that’s hard to compete with unless you have a commitment and he really loves you...Steve will hook her up
For real for real
Steve is such a nice man.
You can feel he really He really cares😊
He told her “come here baby” 🥺💕
Like as if she kinda gives her fatherly advice
Steve saw a pic of her and said let me find you someone new 😂😂
Steve you are one hell of a good guy
Hahahahahaha UNCLE STEVE AS SET😅😅😅
Steve’s mind is brilliant🙏
STEVE DID THAT BECAUSE THE OTHER WOMAN OUT SHINED HER. HE SAID SHES IN IT TO WIN IT MEANING, I'M GONNA FIND SOMEONE ELSE FOR YOU BECAUSE YOU'RE NOT GONNA WIN THIS ONE. 😂😂😂
Or the other woman is so unattractive and will fight tooth and nail to keep him...bc she feels she won't do better
TOI JONES you are 100% right. Sorry if that upsets other people.
Clue #1: When Steve sees her he goes Ohh! and grabs the phone to see more pics. If she wasnt competition Steve would have been curt and said ah naw you have nothing to worry about
Clue #2 Steve's tone went from loud to soft, because he knew he had to break bad news to her as gently as possible and not destroy her confidence. So he did the bad news good news method. Bad news, she is problem, good news I will find you 3 good men to replace the one..
Clue #3 "In it to win it" is guy coded language for "Shes a keeper" in more or less words. If the girl was not a threat, Steve wouldve said "She is fighting a losing battle".
Clue #4 Her man saying she is an asset is a tip off that she is eye candy that specializes in getting in good with his clients. Aka Flirtatious and appealing. That let Steve know from jump what time it was.
Ladies, you can refute all you want, but as a guy I will tell you, every man who saw this knew exactly what was on that phone when Steve started talking. For every good woman in a guys life there is at least 1 chick that they would risk it all for if the opportunity presented itself. The fact she is closer in proximity than the girl on the segment was all the writing on the wall he needed. Why pay hundreds to meet every 3 months when temptation is right down the street? Its not the fairy tale you want to hear but its the truth and you have to understand it, until he claims you, puts a ring on it, there is something in the back of his mind he is waiting on first.
Steve did the right thing and he did it the right way. He protected her self esteem while incentivizing her to move on for her own good. That is what "Uncle Steve" really means.
James Staples You seem to be very wise in the language of men. On another note, can you help me decipher this. I met a man briefly one late night, several months ago at a gas station (working the register) who exchanged pleasantries with me and mentioned he would like to take me to his hometown in Ethiopia. Within seconds he slipped me a bit of paper and when asked what this was for, he said my number. I didn’t give it to him. I’ve wondered for sometime if I should have done so. He was tall and handsome and his eyes lit up when he spoke to me. I was taken aback at how forward he was, hence why I didn’t give him the number. Did I read him wrongly?
@@TM-ys8dy You may the opportunity for his green card maybe?.... Do you think you are the only one receiving this type of treatment from him if he is that confident and very forward?
@@TM-ys8dy I would be appalled at the "taking to my hometown reference". One cannot just meet someone and want to do something as personal as that. You were right to follow your first instinct and not give him your number. That guy is bad news!
I like uncle Steve. The way you dealt with it.... Respect sir
Men don't volunteer information.
Why tho?
That's self incriminating. Lol
@@365TrustNo1 Gotcha.
@Allen Reynolds I think that statement covers dishonest people in general.
@Allen Reynolds The current context is clear, a woman wanting clarity. She would have liked it to come from the man she was dating. Remember is was a man that said "men don't volunteer information."
Aww I love how he was so sweet with her! 💖 Even bringing her back to set her up with someone closer
Aww steve that was such a beautiful move from you ❤️❤️
The other woman is always a problem!
What people have to realize is that we do things on a pattern regardless of male or female. If anything changes the pattern that you are use to then it can either be good or bad. If you seen it once you know how it going to finish.
Absolutely. Humans are creatures of habit. Watch'em. PATTERNS
That Lady definitely was not ugly" HE GAVE HER THEE OLD IM SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS HUGG. LOL😂 😆😉😁
Steve told her the right thing because she would have given all of her time to this "relationship" and came up short. He clearly has another "situation" in line. She is still young moving on is best.
He was playing her , she probably already sent him money and he figured she was getting suspicious and moved on to a new American desperado 💆🏽♀️
Yuck!
"Let uncle Steve talk to yuh." 😂💀
Agree, that’s right Uncle Steve. 👍❤️❤️
Red flags: 1. long distance relationship overseas 2. we see each other every 3 months 3. the other girl is with him 4. her "cookie" is available, your's isn't 5. move on
Lovely lady who should be treated with respect.